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I Never Paid For Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 255 People

    Its Free

    Why pay?  You can get it for free.  I've never charged anyone - should I have?
    jasonk jasonk
    36-40, M
    May 4, 2008

    Never Was a Need.

       Paying for sex is one thing I can say I have not done. And do not plan on it either..
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5
    41-45, M
    8 Responses Jul 16, 2009


    But it has been so good that I could have
    36-40, F
    Oct 18, 2009

    Hired Sex Workers For Birthday Sex

    I remember when it was my moms 30th birthday. Moms friends held mom a party at her freinds house the night went pretty well and good until the end when most of the people toke off for the night mom was leaving until moms friend "Irene" asked mom to hold off for a bit. Around 11...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 14, 2011

    Loveless Sex Is Pointless.

    I can't see paying for sex. Because sex to me is only another way of love, without love sex is pointless and just isn't worth it. Loveless sex isn't the best sex you can have.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 29, 2008

    I Would Rather Go Without!...

    Pay for sex!? How less sexy can, erm, sex get?   knowing that a person is with you, and is touching you only because you payed them to? I think that's quite sad personally. Plus think of all the other people who have been wityh that person before you. Ugh!   OK...
    Sianey Sianey
    36-40, F
    Aug 1, 2008


    Hi I am looking for some fun with guy or a girl who can also support me to run my small business. I am 23yrs old, 5’5 slim, fair color, live in Gulshan bl-16, Karachi.  Assuring you to give 100% pleasure in sex. Call: 0308-2344866
    salehjee salehjee
    22-25, M
    Sep 17, 2009

    I Never Paid For It As In "Here's Your Money Lets Get-r-done

    But trust me if your a guy you pay for it one way or another.
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2008

    Not With Money Anyway

    Nope....mine was paid for in blood, tears, misery, heartbreak, & fear. That's how I've always paid.... Don't guess it will ever stop. Sure hope I don't have to pay with fear, blood or pain again. That's just not right..... =(
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 19, 2009


    Never have. Though I HAVE been offered money for sex. No, I didn't take it. As soon as i realised that's what he wanted I just walked away *shivers*
    AngelaDark AngelaDark
    31-35, F
    Dec 2, 2007

    Already Been Used

    Let's say that you walk into a resturant and the waitress take's your order and while your waiting your waiting you notice the waitress walking around with a plate of food that everybody in the resturand take's turn's chewing it and then spit's it back onto the plate. Now she...
    Robert1256 Robert1256
    51-55, M
    Dec 10, 2010

    I've Never Paid For It...

    Although I'm rapidly considering that I might have to, lol. Nah. I don't have that kinda money, and there's no way I'm risking VD from a hooker.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Dec 28, 2007

    Pretty Sad And Sick If You Do

    I understand that men have needs and women do to but paying for sex is something that I would never do.To me it is degrading oneself and asking someone else to degrade themselves to commit an act without the passion of a connection.This is my opinion and I understand that...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords
    56-60, M
    Jul 4, 2013

    What Is the Point?

    I dance for a living and me and my husband run a company together. Alot of people think that we do more then dance for money. I have no clue why anyone would want more from a complete stranger. I mean I grew up with phobias and scared of dieseases and such. There is no sense in...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 4, 2008


    I don't get the point. It's a waste of money. It's easier and cheaper to buy a bottle of cheap wine and get someone drunk =P
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 19, 2008

    Paid For It

    While it is true that I have never paid for sex, I have no problems with those who do or those who offer their body for pay. Whatever people do I just want them to be able to do it in a safe and mutually beneficial environment.
    PaulyG PaulyG
    46-50, M
    Dec 6, 2010


    Doesn't mean that I am getting enough.  Or any for that matter.  HA HA HA  
    Percheron Percheron
    41-45, M
    13 Responses Dec 25, 2009


    Well not with cash...but I think I may have traded some of my soul somewhere along the line....
    mikemcneil mikemcneil
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Dec 28, 2007

    Who Hasn't Paid ?

    I may not have paid with greenbacks, but I paid!  Anyone out there who isn't a virgin , who is  midlife and STILL HAPPILY MARRIED to his first love are the only ones who can be the purebloods of this group.    
    DrewBerry DrewBerry
    46-50, F
    10 Responses May 8, 2008

    Not With Money

    In a sence though don't we all pay when you take someone out for dinner or drinks or anything, you are paying for it all and than you have sex. That would be paying for it without money.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay
    36-40, M
    10 Responses May 16, 2008

    Would You Like a Massage

    I came out of a bar at closing time, I was by myself, I just wanted to be around people.  It was during a period of time I did not want anyone in my life, but still wanted the noise of other people.  As I was walking toward my car this woman...
    coloco coloco
    66-70, M
    5 Responses Sep 16, 2009

    Not Me....

    At least not that I know of....okay that was a joke guys...geez lighten up.   I WOULD NEVER PAY FOR IT! To be completely honest....I'd rather cuddle. I am snuggly and think sex is over rated...just let me stay in my mans arms....aww I am good...
    luckypickle luckypickle
    16 Responses Oct 18, 2009

    Not With Cash ...

    I've given my heart and soul in exchange though ... Expensive perhaps but totally worth it with the right man ...  
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Oct 18, 2009


    yet. its getting close though if i don't get some soon.
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    10 Responses May 4, 2008

    Can Honestly Say

    I haven't paid for sex before... People have paid me!! but not the other way around!!! ha ha ha!!! jk!!! or am i?? ha ha!!! but hey if you do.. nothing against you!! we all do our own things!! i do mine you do yours!!! there isn't anything wrong with it yo!!!
    dejavudreamer dejavudreamer
    22-25, M
    Sep 14, 2008

    Money Back

    I thought I was being so smart when I fell for the money-back guarantee.   I'd settle for a rebate at this point. 
    noexcuses noexcuses
    36-40, F
    5 Responses May 24, 2008


    ive never paid for sex and i feel that if your that desperate to have sex that you will waste your money that you might as welluse your hand or fingers for free.
    bigc420 bigc420
    18-21, M
    Mar 24, 2008

    Ehhh, Really No Reason to

    And I'm not saying that because I'm a player and I get to have sex a lot or anything, it's just silly, I think. From a logical perspective there is really no point in paying for sex. There's a chance that your partner will have some sort of STD, and no matter how careful you are...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 19, 2008


    No, but would tonight.... JD, what's your going rate babe?????
    Lexus Lexus
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 19, 2008

    Backdoor Man

    I never paid for sex, but let someone else pay while enjoying the benefits.  When I was stationed in the middle of Thailand we often went to town to visit the local bars whenever we could.  Although there were plenty of "hostesses" available, I was just a poor...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2009


    Never say never.  That's what Nana always said.
    LilAnnie LilAnnie
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Not Exactly

    I've never paid for sex but I've paid for a lapdance at a lapdancing club!
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2008
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