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I Never Say Please Add Me

It's the EP equivalent of begging 404 People

    Don't Beg

    I really I have tried to understand why people do it and I still don't get it. It's either someone will add you to their circle or not. You can't beg them for it. And if you do that, then it will turn people offf from doing so. There is no need for you to send a message asking...
    PenelopeParfait PenelopeParfait 18-21, F Jun 27, 2012

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    Not Me.

    I don't add people very often. I find it hard to keep track of too many people at once.  I have way more fans than friends.  Most of the time people add me as a friend and I go to look at their profile and find they are a member of few to no groups, or they have few to no...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 11, 2012

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    I Think Its Rude.

    Always makes me laugh when people say this. Usually over sexed men who want women to add them. Just in case they thought the women did not understand what he notification said. They write something lame like "add me please" or ""ad me plz". I think its annoying and not...
    Iain321 Iain321 31-35, M Apr 12, 2013

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    Would you just go up to some random person on the street and ask them to be your friend? I find it to be just like that. If some random person on the street asked me to be their friend I would be rather scared and might run away lol. So please don't ask me to add you. If you...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Aug 22, 2012

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    I Do Not Need Any Pity

    To begin with , it is clear that i do not have any friends in my circle but that does not mean i am desperate for friends. It is because i am convinced that quality is better than quantity. I do not care about the number of friends i have but i care about...... (i don't really...
    Fateflow494 Fateflow494 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Greater Sophistication Needed

    I am looking to grow my circle of friends (like so many others)... I believe, though, that it needs to be done strategically. I am mainly interested in connecting with people around me in age as that's the biggest void in my life right now. Ever since I can remember, I have...
    gmckdude711 gmckdude711 22-25, M Jun 23, 2012

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    Wut?

    I don't really see any sense in it... I mean if you want to add me as a friend then do so, and I will automatically be notified by ep that I have a new friend request... so.... I already know that you want me to add you...So stop nagging! :I
    TrippingKitty TrippingKitty 26-30 Aug 20, 2013

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    I Sometimes Ask, But Typically After I Have Bantered A Little...

    For me, there are a few people whose profile I come across on EP, where I read their stories, I read their confessions, and I might even look at some of their posts, whom I really like. I will comment on their stories and confessions, I might even comment on a few stories they...
    1234TBibbs 1234TBibbs 36-40, M Oct 7, 2012

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    Never Is A Long Time...

    I have never asked anyone to add me... ...but you never know... What if I come across someone's writing... ...and then I seek out more of the person's writings... and something in the words I read pulls me? ...What if they touch me in a way that compels me? If i ask to add you...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2012

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    I Don't Force Others To Be My Friend :/

    One thing that I have learned about being in EP for so long is that u can't force others to be your friend. Sure their are people I would like to be friends with it at least try to but if they don't seem all that into it I force them to talk to them. And this works for anyone...
    Shadowfox20 Shadowfox20 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    Add Me If You Want....

    Don't if you don't. I'll still be myself--happy and carefree--either way. =]
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Never Say

    i never say anyone to add me in there circle let me speak the truth when i came here on ep i use to beg each and everyone i use to tell them to add me few of them use to add me and the other half use to block me because i use to irritate them by telling them to add me in there...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Jul 11, 2012

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    Not Enough Attention.

    I never understood those kind of people that asking everyone "please add me" I had a friend of mine, she had over 600 friends on her account she always asked them to like her photos/posts/comments I was watching her all the time, when I asked her "why are you doing this?" The...
    Kaspiana Kaspiana 22-25, F Oct 11, 2013

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    Never

    I think people that beg for people to add them are just desperate. I always ask people why they want me to add them when they beg me like that. This website isn't about adding people just because. This site is supposed to help you cope with problems and get connected with people...
    positively3negative positively3negative 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Begging For Adds.

    Please add me.. wtf NO.. and especially NO if you have no stories Q's or experiences... i have gotten this request quite often and quite often its been ignored, i have also seen it mainly on females whiteboards and been told that they get it in messages too, mainly by desperate...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Can't Agree More.

    One of the things I hate the most is grovelling - if you want something then work for it!
    lntel lntel 22-25 Jun 17, 2012

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    Not My Style

    I do not add people to my circle often because quite honestly it has gotten so large that I am not able to keep up with it most of the time. I would never beg anyone to be in my circle although I love the people in my circle. If they are not happy then they are free to remove me...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Please Read My Profile Before If You Want To Add Me As A Friend.

    Hello all.Had an interesting & yet unfortunate experience here a couple of days ago that left me perplexed & shaking my head in unbelief.For starters, if you happen to be under 18 years of age & want to add me to your circle or friend me, all I ask is that you ask your parents...
    seatbeltssavelives seatbeltssavelives 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    i really love making new freinds on ep. I like reading their experiences, getting to know you and being your friend. please add me.
    MrsStanleys MrsStanleys 46-50, M Apr 11

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    1) I think your best friend or sister looks better than you do. 2) You are fat. Or that dress looks horrible on you. 3) I think you are worthless. 4) You are nothing more...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    The Biebs was right... Once visited a small town right outside of my home town and said very confidently...ugh, I will NEVER live here. ...and it was the first place my husband...
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F Apr 18

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    I don't Besides i experienced the same thing as you. I'd also appriciate if people doesn't say ''i understand'' Besides they experienced the same thing.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 26

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    When it comes to helping someone!
    Therock989 Therock989 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 22

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    Lord knows I would never say this to any of my family or friends. it's Just that, when I was 14 I started experimenting. Smoking weed, drinking, taking pain pills. Oxycontin...
    HeyIThappens HeyIThappens 18-21 1 Response Apr 9

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    I would never say it unless I meant it. Knowing how much it can hurt for someone to be careless with my heart. Would never what to do that to someone else.There does seem to be a...
    Caprika Caprika 46-50, M 6 Responses Apr 23

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    it really bothers me when I reply within the same min and they're not there. dont rattle my chain if you dont have time to chat. you could be interrupting something important, just...
    jayciedubb jayciedubb 46-50, M Apr 17

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    I believe in getting to know someone before blindly adding to my circle. It tends to stay small because people come and go so often. I will not add someone just because they add me...
    Jamestone73 Jamestone73 41-45, M 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    "Like I'm Gonna Lose You" I found myself dreaming In silver and gold Like a scene from a movie That every broken heart knows we were walking on moonlight And you pulled me close...
    mrsskayl mrsskayl 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    As the title says, I have no idea how the friends system here works :P what does add to circle do? how do you go from circle to friends? I wiish I could find an explanation :/
    Stevefuller Stevefuller 22-25, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    im currently recovering from a 10 year heroin addiction. from the ages of 15 to 27 i was a hardcore addict ,mostly prostituting and then just panhandling because i couldnt live...
    foxyoxy123 foxyoxy123 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    1) It will depend on who i add to my circle 2) I am awkward so I can't really keep a conversation going sorry >.< 3) I know I'm 14 but I won't take **** from people 4) Don't...
    AskingAllTimeHorizon AskingAllTimeHorizon 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Yup I am. I have been a gambler for over 20 years now, but I'm very open and vocal about it. No reason to lie and pretend I'm something I'm not. People might think this addiction...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    Nope. I want to have a decent conversation with you. And by "decent," I mean, our definitions of "decent" are probably going to differ. If you want to talk about bumping nasties...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    First things first. Take this brief quiz to see if you are likely a love addict. 1. Did you once think that if only someone loved you in that "special way" you would be happy for...
    Desiredlove Desiredlove 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    thanks to netflix, im addicted to cheesy, soppy korean romance dramas.. But you know what? while i may mock them if i know you in real life, im seriously loving it, and thats why i...
    imme163 imme163 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    It just shows interest and not adding just to have numbers :D Anyways I do have a few stipulations about stuff: Only add me if you will pop in once in a while and at least say hi...
    TammyTamTam TammyTamTam 18-21, F Apr 24

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    One day, I had a brief conversation with a classmate regarding taking off the frilly edges of notebook paper. I admit, I do not like these, for they look unprofessional and they...
    MisAnalogy MisAnalogy 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I was spanked today. I told my mentor I was lying, sneaking out, talking back, blaming things on my sis, and having 2 D's and 1 C. he said I needed a good punishment. so I had to...
    weirdo6421 weirdo6421 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I'm tired so i'll make this brief. i am a boy always have been always will be. therefore don't send me picture of your junk because i have gotten those before and i will block you...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    I just wanted to say sorry about my last post! I had some pretty nasty comments and I deserved them for saying I don't like fat and ugly guys! Yes I'm very judgemental and I'm sure...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 12

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    You and me We used to be together Everyday together always I really feel That I'm losing my best friend I can't believe This could be the end It looks as though you're...
    angelaarron angelaarron 36-40, F Apr 7

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    You and me We used to be together Everyday together always I really feel That I'm losing my best friend I can't believe This could be the end It looks as though you're...
    angelaarron angelaarron 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Not trying to sound like a damn ***** over here, but guys, please don't add me to your list. Especially with peckers as avi. Also females, I'm Not interested in seeing your girly...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 13

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