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I Never Say Please Add Me

It's the EP equivalent of begging 414 People

    Can't Agree More.

    One of the things I hate the most is grovelling - if you want something then work for it!
    lntel lntel 18-21 Jun 17, 2012

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    Not Me.

    I don't add people very often. I find it hard to keep track of too many people at once.  I have way more fans than friends.  Most of the time people add me as a friend and I go to look at their profile and find they are a member of few to no groups, or they have few to no...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Add Me If You Want....

    Don't if you don't. I'll still be myself--happy and carefree--either way. =]
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I Think Its Rude.

    Always makes me laugh when people say this. Usually over sexed men who want women to add them. Just in case they thought the women did not understand what he notification said. They write something lame like "add me please" or ""ad me plz". I think its annoying and not...
    Iain321 Iain321 31-35, M Apr 12, 2013

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    Please Read My Profile Before If You Want To Add Me As A Friend.

    Hello all.Had an interesting & yet unfortunate experience here a couple of days ago that left me perplexed & shaking my head in unbelief.For starters, if you happen to be under 18 years of age & want to add me to your circle or friend me, all I ask is that you ask your parents...
    seatbeltssavelives seatbeltssavelives 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Would you just go up to some random person on the street and ask them to be your friend? I find it to be just like that. If some random person on the street asked me to be their friend I would be rather scared and might run away lol. So please don't ask me to add you. If you...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Aug 22, 2012

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    Wut?

    I don't really see any sense in it... I mean if you want to add me as a friend then do so, and I will automatically be notified by ep that I have a new friend request... so.... I already know that you want me to add you...So stop nagging! :I
    TrippingKitty TrippingKitty 26-30 Aug 20, 2013

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    Never Say

    i never say anyone to add me in there circle let me speak the truth when i came here on ep i use to beg each and everyone i use to tell them to add me few of them use to add me and the other half use to block me because i use to irritate them by telling them to add me in there...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Jul 11, 2012

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    Never

    I think people that beg for people to add them are just desperate. I always ask people why they want me to add them when they beg me like that. This website isn't about adding people just because. This site is supposed to help you cope with problems and get connected with people...
    positively3negative positively3negative 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Begging For Adds.

    Please add me.. wtf NO.. and especially NO if you have no stories Q's or experiences... i have gotten this request quite often and quite often its been ignored, i have also seen it mainly on females whiteboards and been told that they get it in messages too, mainly by desperate...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    I Sometimes Ask, But Typically After I Have Bantered A Little...

    For me, there are a few people whose profile I come across on EP, where I read their stories, I read their confessions, and I might even look at some of their posts, whom I really like. I will comment on their stories and confessions, I might even comment on a few stories they...
    1234TBibbs 1234TBibbs 36-40, M Oct 7, 2012

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    Don't Beg

    I really I have tried to understand why people do it and I still don't get it. It's either someone will add you to their circle or not. You can't beg them for it. And if you do that, then it will turn people offf from doing so. There is no need for you to send a message asking...
    PenelopeParfait PenelopeParfait 18-21, F Jun 27, 2012

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    I Do Not Need Any Pity

    To begin with , it is clear that i do not have any friends in my circle but that does not mean i am desperate for friends. It is because i am convinced that quality is better than quantity. I do not care about the number of friends i have but i care about...... (i don't really...
    spinningtime7 spinningtime7 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Me Too

    I also never said to add me
    lingarielover lingarielover 31-35, M Jul 13, 2012

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    Greater Sophistication Needed

    I am looking to grow my circle of friends (like so many others)... I believe, though, that it needs to be done strategically. I am mainly interested in connecting with people around me in age as that's the biggest void in my life right now. Ever since I can remember, I have...
    gmckdude711 gmckdude711 22-25, M Jun 23, 2012

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    I Don't Force Others To Be My Friend :/

    One thing that I have learned about being in EP for so long is that u can't force others to be your friend. Sure their are people I would like to be friends with it at least try to but if they don't seem all that into it I force them to talk to them. And this works for anyone...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    Not My Style

    I do not add people to my circle often because quite honestly it has gotten so large that I am not able to keep up with it most of the time. I would never beg anyone to be in my circle although I love the people in my circle. If they are not happy then they are free to remove me...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Not Enough Attention.

    I never understood those kind of people that asking everyone "please add me" I had a friend of mine, she had over 600 friends on her account she always asked them to like her photos/posts/comments I was watching her all the time, when I asked her "why are you doing this?" The...
    Kaspiana Kaspiana 22-25, F Oct 11, 2013

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    Never Is A Long Time...

    I have never asked anyone to add me... ...but you never know... What if I come across someone's writing... ...and then I seek out more of the person's writings... and something in the words I read pulls me? ...What if they touch me in a way that compels me? If i ask to add you...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I always have, since I was very young c: some people just don't have the decency but I have to say 'please' and 'thankyou'. Even if someone does the smallest thing, I have to say...
    Maisiee Maisiee 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Please? This site seems hard to make a splash if your a guy :/
    subpop subpop 26-30, M Aug 18

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    I'm pleased to say my son has good manners until now. We've been complimented by strangers in public about his good behavior and his use of 'please' and 'thank you'. My maternal...
    violetpenny03 violetpenny03 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Where have manners gone? People are in such a rush now to stop and hold a door for the person behind them. It's an action that'll take a few seconds out of your precious time...
    brady120378 brady120378 31-35, M 10 hrs ago

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    Stop saying sorry. Say thank you instead. When you say, “sorry for being a jerk” the other person is forced to either call you a jerk or say it wasn't a big deal. Instead, say...
    UltimateDespair UltimateDespair 16-17, F Aug 5

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    Because it's the way I'm raised. I can also say "sorry" when I've made a mistake. That's also part of the package.
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    I honestly can't say it (oh I only say it to my cat sometimes) ; but I don't think there's something wrong with me ~.~
    HeeyItsParisHere HeeyItsParisHere 13-15, F Jul 31

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    I always show my gratitude and smile at others. Kindness goes a long way.
    Dreamgirl75 Dreamgirl75 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    People aren't grateful enough, I wonder why.
    GravelTack19 GravelTack19 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    August 7. Saying No. For many of us, the most difficult word to say is one of the shortest and easiest in the vocabulary: No. Go ahead, say it aloud: No. No - simple to pronounce...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Aug 7

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    I am kind of new at EP, but have learned this: People I add often want to know why, so I thought I might as well put a post on this theme. The most common reason I would add you...
    MeVE MeVE 56-60, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    (using google translate) please please listen to what i want to say please.. what I learn is.. Friends come and go sometimes will never talk again, but family is somthing you keep...
    Blazingdragon Blazingdragon 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    It's not that I mind, it's that is like to talk to you and know why you added me, it's like whys you add me and then never say a word to me and also have nothing to say
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    To whoever manages this site: Please add "dominant" to the list of feelings that members can choose!
    MsOliveSimpson MsOliveSimpson 41-45, F a week ago

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    A lot of people I never talked to added me
    Based4ever Based4ever 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    Today I said "I'm fine" to one of my best friends, who hasn't responded to my messages since. We both know better; we know it's a load of crap to say "I'm fine," and we never...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    Not my place. I notice everything but don't say anything. And why don't I say anything? Because it's not my place to say anything... Why should I say anything? Some things are...
    Lullacus Lullacus 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Almost everyone knows the story. Two people begin to fall in love but they're scared to say it out of fear of what the other will say. That's me, because it seems when I do say it...
    Franchise1107 Franchise1107 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    Never gonna run around and desert you, never gonna make you cry, never say goodbye, never gonna tell a lie and hurt
    Tami8161 Tami8161 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Which is why I basically never say it unless it is to family.
    enza105 enza105 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    It has taken me years to remember How fun was theoretical for him. He wrote on reclaimed paper how laughter Was important and human. He even Believed that the soul might find...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 6 hrs ago

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    If you are a male and lonely and want affection, do not come to me. My heart is spoken for and I am not the type to feel lonely because as a Christian, I believe God is always with...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 13 mins ago

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    I have to make another post apparently. If you make or join a group showing you hate girls and then add me or email me, I will not talk to you. I am a 37 year old woman and I take...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    And though the setting up of super-malls with concrete and steel continues apace in Bangkok, there are indications that the standard is usually earning a comeback, with interest in...
    Jewelgzr Jewelgzr 31-35, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    These Villas have a spacious Bed room and sitting down space and they are exquisitely furnished with reliable teak home furniture. Bathrooms with wander in rain shower plus a...
    Willy52yt Willy52yt 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    First off, thank you for taking the time out of your busy EP schedule to read my profile.I always appreciate it when people read what I have written and comment.I am on EP to...
    SwanSongRebeL SwanSongRebeL 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 14

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    If I, a married man, were able to have another woman, strictly for sex, my marriage would be 100 times better. Unfortunately, this is cheating and I would never do anything to hurt...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My name is Domenic, and I am TAKEN. Don't message me asking if I'm flirting on your posts or whatever, because I'm in a happy relationship and I don't feel the need to flirt with...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M Aug 5

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    okay people stop freakin adding me if you have no interest in talking to me. it's really bloody annoying i'm here to make real friends NOT to simple grow a big circle so please if...
    BenjaminChapman BenjaminChapman 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Addiction to on line games and worlds is a concern of mine, since I've faced it repeatedly and I've seen it so much over the years. It's sad and we need help. If you are facing...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Aug 9

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