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I Never Say Please Add Me

It's the EP equivalent of begging 403 People

    Never Is A Long Time...

    I have never asked anyone to add me... ...but you never know... What if I come across someone's writing... ...and then I seek out more of the person's writings... and something in the words I read pulls me? ...What if they touch me in a way that compels me? If i ask to add you...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2012

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    I Think Its Rude.

    Always makes me laugh when people say this. Usually over sexed men who want women to add them. Just in case they thought the women did not understand what he notification said. They write something lame like "add me please" or ""ad me plz". I think its annoying and not...
    Iain321 Iain321 31-35, M Apr 12, 2013

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    Wut?

    I don't really see any sense in it... I mean if you want to add me as a friend then do so, and I will automatically be notified by ep that I have a new friend request... so.... I already know that you want me to add you...So stop nagging! :I
    TrippingKitty TrippingKitty 26-30 Aug 20, 2013

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    Greater Sophistication Needed

    I am looking to grow my circle of friends (like so many others)... I believe, though, that it needs to be done strategically. I am mainly interested in connecting with people around me in age as that's the biggest void in my life right now. Ever since I can remember, I have...
    gmckdude711 gmckdude711 22-25, M Jun 23, 2012

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    I Don't Force Others To Be My Friend :/

    One thing that I have learned about being in EP for so long is that u can't force others to be your friend. Sure their are people I would like to be friends with it at least try to but if they don't seem all that into it I force them to talk to them. And this works for anyone...
    Shadowfox20 Shadowfox20 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    I Sometimes Ask, But Typically After I Have Bantered A Little...

    For me, there are a few people whose profile I come across on EP, where I read their stories, I read their confessions, and I might even look at some of their posts, whom I really like. I will comment on their stories and confessions, I might even comment on a few stories they...
    1234TBibbs 1234TBibbs 36-40, M Oct 7, 2012

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    Not My Style

    I do not add people to my circle often because quite honestly it has gotten so large that I am not able to keep up with it most of the time. I would never beg anyone to be in my circle although I love the people in my circle. If they are not happy then they are free to remove me...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Don't Beg

    I really I have tried to understand why people do it and I still don't get it. It's either someone will add you to their circle or not. You can't beg them for it. And if you do that, then it will turn people offf from doing so. There is no need for you to send a message asking...
    PenelopeParfait PenelopeParfait 18-21, F Jun 27, 2012

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    Add Me If You Want....

    Don't if you don't. I'll still be myself--happy and carefree--either way. =]
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Never Say

    i never say anyone to add me in there circle let me speak the truth when i came here on ep i use to beg each and everyone i use to tell them to add me few of them use to add me and the other half use to block me because i use to irritate them by telling them to add me in there...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Jul 11, 2012

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    Not Me.

    I don't add people very often. I find it hard to keep track of too many people at once.  I have way more fans than friends.  Most of the time people add me as a friend and I go to look at their profile and find they are a member of few to no groups, or they have few to no...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Can't Agree More.

    One of the things I hate the most is grovelling - if you want something then work for it!
    lntel lntel 22-25 Jun 17, 2012

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    Not Enough Attention.

    I never understood those kind of people that asking everyone "please add me" I had a friend of mine, she had over 600 friends on her account she always asked them to like her photos/posts/comments I was watching her all the time, when I asked her "why are you doing this?" The...
    Kaspiana Kaspiana 22-25, F Oct 11, 2013

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    Begging For Adds.

    Please add me.. wtf NO.. and especially NO if you have no stories Q's or experiences... i have gotten this request quite often and quite often its been ignored, i have also seen it mainly on females whiteboards and been told that they get it in messages too, mainly by desperate...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    ...

    Would you just go up to some random person on the street and ask them to be your friend? I find it to be just like that. If some random person on the street asked me to be their friend I would be rather scared and might run away lol. So please don't ask me to add you. If you...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Aug 22, 2012

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    Please Read My Profile Before If You Want To Add Me As A Friend.

    Hello all.Had an interesting & yet unfortunate experience here a couple of days ago that left me perplexed & shaking my head in unbelief.For starters, if you happen to be under 18 years of age & want to add me to your circle or friend me, all I ask is that you ask your parents...
    seatbeltssavelives seatbeltssavelives 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    I Do Not Need Any Pity

    To begin with , it is clear that i do not have any friends in my circle but that does not mean i am desperate for friends. It is because i am convinced that quality is better than quantity. I do not care about the number of friends i have but i care about...... (i don't really...
    Fateflow494 Fateflow494 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Never

    I think people that beg for people to add them are just desperate. I always ask people why they want me to add them when they beg me like that. This website isn't about adding people just because. This site is supposed to help you cope with problems and get connected with people...
    positively3negative positively3negative 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    In my own environment that is a hell even in fighting and bullshit i always say please and thank you it's just how i am. But it really comes into play at others house holds.
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21 May 24

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    PLEASE stop the adds here that pop up between questions, stories,.. They are everywhere. I am sure money is involved in it, but please, it's annoying for us, or at least for me...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I haven't been on EP very long, but everyone on here is so friendly! Never in a million years would I expect to gain so much inspiration and wisdom from people on here! So for that...
    wilzyp wilzyp 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    *Puppy dog eyes* Someone, maybe, pretty please? I'll be awfully grateful? 😊😏☺️😚 P.S I LOVE YOU IN ADVANCE LOL
    watermelongirl watermelongirl 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    1) I think your best friend or sister looks better than you do. 2) You are fat. Or that dress looks horrible on you. 3) I think you are worthless. 4) You are nothing more...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 5 Responses May 6

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    dec93 dec93 18-21, F May 13

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    Good manners cost nothing even in energy, yet so many people do not have the grace to use them! Instilled it already in my two year old son as it gets you more in life if you're...
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M May 26

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    Kindness is always in style. I learned manners when I was a kid. Manners is always important.
    Missgirlie Missgirlie 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    If I'm James Dean, You're Audrey Hepburn "[Intro:] Stay for tonight If you want to I can show you What my dreams are made of, As I'm dreaming of your face I've been away for a...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F May 18

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    Put simply, don't add me to your circle if you; ● are transphobic, aka claiming that s%x = gender, g%nitals/chromosomes = gender, you don't """believe""" in non binary genders...
    Faeriepool Faeriepool 22-25, T 4 days ago

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    New rule: if you're adding me, message me a "hello" or something because I never say hi first, I just don't. After all, I didn't add you, you added me.
    YouCantEscapeMyDemons YouCantEscapeMyDemons 13-15, M 4 Responses May 9

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    I'm Jack, I'm 16 years old, I live in Canada, I'm a Transgender person, I'm very shy and awkward and Social anxiety. I'm A MTF (Male to female). I have a lot of dreams in it I'm...
    Jack9991 Jack9991 18-21, T 10 Responses May 21

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    I have always felt I have never had an addictive personality I mean cigarettes alcohol,drugs like real hard drugs- when it got boring I just said well I think I'll stop now. And I...
    brileytallis brileytallis 26-30 1 Response May 17

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    Back in highschool, I love you was just a word you say because it's "new" and "different" to say it to a boyfriend or girlfriend. I feel so warm when me and my man share I Love You...
    amb3rxo amb3rxo 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I never say it. Simply because I will never mean it. I guess it's a good thing I'm still single
    vicecreama vicecreama 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Never say Goodbye... its too final! id say love you or call me...but then I met my Englishman and it changed to cheers so it's always cheers goodbye means goodbye and to me that's...
    IFoundYourDiary IFoundYourDiary 46-50, F May 21

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    And I never say it....EVER....that's because love does not exist, it's just hormones making you all weird!
    AudioTravylerRavenwolf AudioTravylerRavenwolf 13-15, F 7 Responses May 20

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    99% of the time I'll never say what I'm feeling. Mostly because i don't like explaining myself to people that don't care anyway.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    With love and fond memories. It’s 3 years today since you sadly left us and you have very much been on my mind this week. I’ve spent so much time trying to think what to say...
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I think the main cause for me despising men is never have had a father. I look at my cousins and their fathers treat them with such love and give hugs and Dearing kisses, calls...
    TheresAPossibility TheresAPossibility 13-15, F 1 Response 14 mins ago

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    somebody please read this and help me..im begging with my knees on the floor literally.im begging with every inch of my body and soul im begging to the full meaning of begging im...
    LegendBattles LegendBattles 26-30, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am at the end of my rope again with this girl I love. She has been living at my house for a few years. I have been in the hospital for the past six months recovering from heart...
    downthestretch downthestretch 51-55, M 1 Response May 18

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    Um... First, thank you everyone who wants to add me. I am really happy. However, I kind of wish people would add me because they truly want to be friends with me. Please do not add...
    Aieki Aieki 13-15, F 6 Responses May 15

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    My name is Grace, I am 18 years old. I am addicted to breathing. Ever since I can remember, ever since I was born, I am always breathing ALL the time. I breathe 15 times a minute...
    LifeIsJustLife LifeIsJustLife 18-21, F 1 Response 37 mins ago

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    I'm 16 and currently trying to overcome my heroin addiction! I was always the daring one out of all my brothers and sisters, I started drinking alcohol when I was 13 then I started...
    SwimB123 SwimB123 13-15, F 1 day ago

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