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I Never Say Please Add Me

It's the EP equivalent of begging 412 People

    Not Me.

    I don't add people very often. I find it hard to keep track of too many people at once.  I have way more fans than friends.  Most of the time people add me as a friend and I go to look at their profile and find they are a member of few to no groups, or they have few to no...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Nope, Won't Be Doing That

    You will add me, not the other way around. On this profile, I won't be begging. I won't add people nilly-willy, hoping they give a flying ****.So, if this profile stays at zero friends for all eternity, then so be it. It would only confirm my somewhat misanthropic leanings.
    LonelyDude77 LonelyDude77 36-40, M Sep 27, 2013

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    I Think Its Rude.

    Always makes me laugh when people say this. Usually over sexed men who want women to add them. Just in case they thought the women did not understand what he notification said. They write something lame like "add me please" or ""ad me plz". I think its annoying and not...
    Iain321 Iain321 31-35, M Apr 12, 2013

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    I Don't Force Others To Be My Friend :/

    One thing that I have learned about being in EP for so long is that u can't force others to be your friend. Sure their are people I would like to be friends with it at least try to but if they don't seem all that into it I force them to talk to them. And this works for anyone...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    Never

    I think people that beg for people to add them are just desperate. I always ask people why they want me to add them when they beg me like that. This website isn't about adding people just because. This site is supposed to help you cope with problems and get connected with people...
    positively3negative positively3negative 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Wut?

    I don't really see any sense in it... I mean if you want to add me as a friend then do so, and I will automatically be notified by ep that I have a new friend request... so.... I already know that you want me to add you...So stop nagging! :I
    TrippingKitty TrippingKitty 22-25 Aug 20, 2013

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    Please Read My Profile Before If You Want To Add Me As A Friend.

    Hello all.Had an interesting & yet unfortunate experience here a couple of days ago that left me perplexed & shaking my head in unbelief.For starters, if you happen to be under 18 years of age & want to add me to your circle or friend me, all I ask is that you ask your parents...
    seatbeltssavelives seatbeltssavelives 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    I Do Not Need Any Pity

    To begin with , it is clear that i do not have any friends in my circle but that does not mean i am desperate for friends. It is because i am convinced that quality is better than quantity. I do not care about the number of friends i have but i care about...... (i don't really...
    spinningtime7 spinningtime7 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Never Is A Long Time...

    I have never asked anyone to add me... ...but you never know... What if I come across someone's writing... ...and then I seek out more of the person's writings... and something in the words I read pulls me? ...What if they touch me in a way that compels me? If i ask to add you...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2012

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    Not My Style

    I do not add people to my circle often because quite honestly it has gotten so large that I am not able to keep up with it most of the time. I would never beg anyone to be in my circle although I love the people in my circle. If they are not happy then they are free to remove me...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Me Too

    I also never said to add me
    lingarielover lingarielover 31-35, M Jul 13, 2012

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    ...

    Would you just go up to some random person on the street and ask them to be your friend? I find it to be just like that. If some random person on the street asked me to be their friend I would be rather scared and might run away lol. So please don't ask me to add you. If you...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Aug 22, 2012

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    Never Say

    i never say anyone to add me in there circle let me speak the truth when i came here on ep i use to beg each and everyone i use to tell them to add me few of them use to add me and the other half use to block me because i use to irritate them by telling them to add me in there...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Jul 11, 2012

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    Begging For Adds.

    Please add me.. wtf NO.. and especially NO if you have no stories Q's or experiences... i have gotten this request quite often and quite often its been ignored, i have also seen it mainly on females whiteboards and been told that they get it in messages too, mainly by desperate...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Can't Agree More.

    One of the things I hate the most is grovelling - if you want something then work for it!
    lntel lntel 18-21 Jun 17, 2012

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    Not Enough Attention.

    I never understood those kind of people that asking everyone "please add me" I had a friend of mine, she had over 600 friends on her account she always asked them to like her photos/posts/comments I was watching her all the time, when I asked her "why are you doing this?" The...
    Kaspiana Kaspiana 22-25, F Oct 11, 2013

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    Don't Beg

    I really I have tried to understand why people do it and I still don't get it. It's either someone will add you to their circle or not. You can't beg them for it. And if you do that, then it will turn people offf from doing so. There is no need for you to send a message asking...
    PenelopeParfait PenelopeParfait 18-21, F Jun 27, 2012

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    Add Me If You Want....

    Don't if you don't. I'll still be myself--happy and carefree--either way. =]
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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