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I Never Thought I Could Handel Being A Military Gf Or Wife

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    Dont Know Wat To Think

    My boyfriend garaduated from boot camp on friday, we got to spend the day with him on thursday and bring him home on friday. To me he was the same person who left 4 months ago those two days but yesterday he snapped back into soldier mode and he talked to me and told me he needed...
    CowgirlUp92 CowgirlUp92 18-21, F Dec 4, 2011

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    I always said that I could never be a military

    gf/spouse because of all the distance and stuff. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and he knows how i said I couldn't be a military gf, well god has a funny sense of humor because my bf has enlisted and is waiting to go off to basic. I love him like no other so...
    mudturtlette mudturtlette 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Any Uk Gfs Or Wives

    I would like to know if there is any gfs or wives in the UK, it would be nice have support from females who from same country i am from and could maybe support eachother x
    MizPurdy MizPurdy 22-25, F Oct 15, 2012

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    The Hardest Day So Far

    I think I might of got all but 3 hours of sleep last night. I woke up this morning not wanting to get out of bed, I already knew that the day ahead of me was going to a very bad day I just had that feeling. An so far it has been so my feeling was right. I just happened to look...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F Jan 25, 2012

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    My boyfriend is in the marines.

    We've only been together for a couple of months and he's getting deployed in October. I won't get to see him right before he leaves because he is based so far away. I'm scared that he'll forget about me while he's away. This is both of our first deployment. Any advice?!
    raquale raquale 16-17, F Apr 29

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    Never Thought I Would Being Doing This But...

    Me and my boyfriend Kevin have been dating for 11 months. When he asked me out he said that he was leaving but he would never ask me to wait for him and I always thought good because there is no way I could do that. Well a little bit after that I fell in love with him and I knew...
    marinewife92311 marinewife92311 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Southeast Military Girlfriends

    I would like to know if there are any Southeast Military girlfriends.  Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama, Georgia, etc.  I would like to try and arrange a support group of girls that would be willing to meet up if we can find a group within a pretty close vicinity of each other...
    elvislover74 elvislover74 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Army Girlfriend

    Man, could you say this group is for me.. lolI love my boyfriend and think the world of our relationship, but sometimes this whole military thing has me running in the other direction.... My boyfriend thinks i have cold feet - and i guess i do... Does anyone else ever feel this...
    ajTHEpunkrocker ajTHEpunkrocker 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Never Ever, But Here I Am

    Its crazy how things work out.I use to swear up and down, left and right, and every which way that i would NEVER EVER date or marry a guy in the military.I always said I could never do it, it seems to hard and i would never wanna be away from my other half for that long.But here...
    pvtbarnesgirl pvtbarnesgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    Kerry And Rick <3

    Hey everyone...my name is Kerry and my boyfriend Rick is a CPL in the Marines! He has already been through one deployment in Afgahnistan and now works in supply in Camp Pendleton Ca. I live about 9 hours north in Chico but will soon be moving to live with him off base. Depending...
    marinecorpsprincess marinecorpsprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Military Prayer

    Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give me a task to do each day, To feel the time while he's away, When is in a foreign land, Keep him safe in your loving...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Hello there :) I'm not a military wife yet but I was wondering if anyone knew the answers to my questions. He's still new he's in the army and we were talking about when we get...
    lyssaraelou lyssaraelou 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I married my husband November 6th 2013. He is an army veteran. (Infantry and ranger). We married each other after 3 month of chatting back and forth. Then meeting a few weeks later...
    RebeccaReynolds RebeccaReynolds 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    There was a period of my career when I came in from working my morning job. I would have about 3 to 4 hours free to shower and kick back until I had to go on duty at my other job...
    freddyshirley freddyshirley 51-55, F Jun 28

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    I am having bad run ins with military spouses an I try to be nice, but a few have been rude. What would you do?
    poshshiny poshshiny 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I want to get my own apArtment due to the fact that I won't be going to japan . I feel as tho since I'm a married woman I should have my own place . Simply because I'm tired of...
    keyonna95 keyonna95 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Anyone the wife of a drill sergeant? My husband will be going to training to become one and I was wondering what to expect. I know somewhat of what to expect.
    momof289 momof289 22-25, F Jun 29

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    So, I haven't been on this website in years and so much has changed since I last logged off. First things first, I am no longer a girlfriend! We eloped on March 19, 2014 in a...
    sarashay sarashay 18-21, F Jul 8

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    Any one of you guys have a husband who would know how to get back in the Navy? My boyfriend got an honorable discharge a few years ago while he was in BUDS. He is the most hard...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I recently got back together with my high school sweetheart and of course it couldn't have come at the worst time! He deployed a month after we reunited! It was to a non combat...
    TRex1987 TRex1987 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    What a lovely July 4th weekend. I enjoyed being with wife; the kids; and the grandkids on the 4th. The entire day was great. Great weather and great fireworks. We actually was...
    L2BANBM L2BANBM 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I will never apologise for being me. I'm me and I won't change for anyone. If you want to change me, you'll never succeed. I just want someone that will accept me for being me
    baconnater3000 baconnater3000 13-15, M Jun 26

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    Never could I ever leave you in a million years. No matter who comes into my life I will always be with you. I will always see you as my only love. No one could ever replace you...
    cassy412 cassy412 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I never really had a boyfriend. I have been way too focused on school and i have never really interacted with a boy my age. It is kinda sad really and I have always been awkward so...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Never apologize for being yourself :-)
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jun 25

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    So I'm not sure if Kevin and I have really bad luck or if this is normal. Anyways, Kevin joined the army two years ago. He was shipped off to basic in GA and then AIT in VA right...
    MPo189 MPo189 16-17, F Jun 26

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    I'm so tired of having people tell me it's too soon. It's our life together and I wish people would just be happy for us. A little bit of our story. Five years ago I met my fianc...
    Gj344526 Gj344526 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost ten months. He is in the national guard and once a month he goes to drill just for the weekend. Yesterday he left for annual training...
    cryst9876 cryst9876 18-21, F Jul 12

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    I live in Tulsa, OK. I have a boyfriend that is very good to me - and we are very much in love. In January, my ex-husband called me asking if he could stay at my house for a...
    readytosnap readytosnap 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    Hi! I am new-be at this.... Lets just say...my husband is becoming a trucker! He starts OTR on Monday. This was never his dream when we got married. We have been married almost 3...
    jessicaross2011 jessicaross2011 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    In 2 days I will be an Army Wife. This is not the life I had expected; my father was Special Forces and I always said I would NEVER marry into the Army but I am. I love my fiance...
    kholb112 kholb112 22-25 2 Responses Jul 12

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    my boyfriend left for basic a few days ago. I wish he could call so i can here his voice. I feel sad when i think about him being go for so long. I miss coming home to him from...
    candyln40 candyln40 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    this is long, so bear with me.. I am 17, turning 18 in less than a month. I have been with my Soldier for over a year now. We went to high school together, so we've always been...
    MeriahW MeriahW 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend's now a marine and I'm just more than proud of him for that. He just graduated to become a marine mid late june, he was home for 10 days and he just left back to san...
    jannette7 jannette7 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I'm 16, my boyfriend is 17 turning 18 in Jan. so basically I'm a sophomore (Late bday) & he's a senior. Anyways he's leaving for basic training once he graduates and I have no idea...
    dalicervantes dalicervantes 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My boyfriend and I are deciding to get married after I graduate high school. He's currently in IL for Bootcamp, and will be going to A-School right after. I'm assuming he'll go to...
    afeli15 afeli15 16-17, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is so accurate 😔 Missing Your Boyfriend Whose In the Military. 1. You wear old sweatpants and sweatshirts to bed. 2. You can watch whatever you want on TV without...
    mescudiells mescudiells 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I want to be with a guy who's in the military, but he's afraid that I won't understand. I like him, but he doesn't like me. :(
    ctcanale ctcanale 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    although this has nothing to do with the military i just need to vent. for the past three nights ive been having dreams where my boyfriend is cheating on me with other girls right...
    Armygirl2012 Armygirl2012 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    So I'm 16 and gonna be a junior, he's 17 gonna turn 18 soon and he's going into his senior year. He's going to be an AV in the navy and he's leaving for basic next summer, so...
    HaileyG5 HaileyG5 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    This is kinda another rant I would like to get out if my system... I come from a huge military family; grandparents, father, brothers.... This is probably why I support the...
    AMB97 AMB97 16-17, F Jul 7

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    He is officially a graduate. The changes I've noticed so far are this: he's more respectful towards me. I can tell him an issue or a problem I've had. A frustration with him, his...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I never knew I'd be dating a marine. Right before we dated we weren't anything serious, I was well aware that he was gonna join but I never planned to like him this much. Its crazy...
    jannette7 jannette7 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    when i tell people that i am dating a man in the military they always have that surprised look on their face. they ask why i put myself through all the stress and distance of the...
    mckenziegibson mckenziegibson 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Well! It's official! We got married today! July 4, 2014. We got married in a par at a very pretty overlook with a bunch of family and friends. WAY more people showed up then...
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    My trip down to see him during his 96 was great ! There were a few other girls on the same train and bus with me so that fun seeing other military gfs =] It was a long tiring...
    MochaChocolatte MochaChocolatte 18-21 Jul 10

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    I really feel like my boyfriend doesn't enjoy being with me. He's been very distant with me lately, and I feel like I'm not a top priority for him, and it makes me so very sad...
    smillsrx smillsrx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    So my fiancé is TDY for 3 weeks. I got my debit card info stollen and hove nearly nothing. With him being gone, I cant get groceries or pay the bills now. I have 3 weeks left...
    AFWifeK AFWifeK 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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