I Never Thought I Could Handel Being A Military Gf Or Wife

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    I always said that I could never be a military

    gf/spouse because of all the distance and stuff. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and he knows how i said I couldn't be a military gf, well god has a funny sense of humor because my bf has enlisted and is waiting to go off to basic. I love him like no other so...
    mudturtlette mudturtlette
    18-21, F
    Apr 28, 2014

    My boyfriend is in the marines.

    We've only been together for a couple of months and he's getting deployed in October. I won't get to see him right before he leaves because he is based so far away. I'm scared that he'll forget about me while he's away. This is both of our first deployment. Any advice?!
    raquale raquale
    18-21, F
    Apr 29, 2014

    Dont Know Wat To Think

    My boyfriend garaduated from boot camp on friday, we got to spend the day with him on thursday and bring him home on friday. To me he was the same person who left 4 months ago those two days but yesterday he snapped back into soldier mode and he talked to me and told me he needed...
    CowgirlUp92 CowgirlUp92
    18-21, F
    Dec 4, 2011

    Southeast Military Girlfriends

    I would like to know if there are any Southeast Military girlfriends.  Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama, Georgia, etc.  I would like to try and arrange a support group of girls that would be willing to meet up if we can find a group within a pretty close vicinity of each other...
    elvislover74 elvislover74
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

    Any Uk Gfs Or Wives

    I would like to know if there is any gfs or wives in the UK, it would be nice have support from females who from same country i am from and could maybe support eachother x
    MizPurdy MizPurdy
    22-25, F
    Oct 15, 2012

    The Hardest Day So Far

    I think I might of got all but 3 hours of sleep last night. I woke up this morning not wanting to get out of bed, I already knew that the day ahead of me was going to a very bad day I just had that feeling. An so far it has been so my feeling was right. I just happened to look...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12
    18-21, F
    Jan 25, 2012

    Military Prayer

    Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give me a task to do each day, To feel the time while he's away, When is in a foreign land, Keep him safe in your loving...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2012

    Army Girlfriend

    Man, could you say this group is for me.. lolI love my boyfriend and think the world of our relationship, but sometimes this whole military thing has me running in the other direction.... My boyfriend thinks i have cold feet - and i guess i do... Does anyone else ever feel this...
    ajTHEpunkrocker ajTHEpunkrocker
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2011

    Never Ever, But Here I Am

    Its crazy how things work out.I use to swear up and down, left and right, and every which way that i would NEVER EVER date or marry a guy in the military.I always said I could never do it, it seems to hard and i would never wanna be away from my other half for that long.But here...
    pvtbarnesgirl pvtbarnesgirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2011

    Kerry And Rick <3

    Hey everyone...my name is Kerry and my boyfriend Rick is a CPL in the Marines! He has already been through one deployment in Afgahnistan and now works in supply in Camp Pendleton Ca. I live about 9 hours north in Chico but will soon be moving to live with him off base. Depending...
    marinecorpsprincess marinecorpsprincess
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

    Never Thought I Would Being Doing This But...

    Me and my boyfriend Kevin have been dating for 11 months. When he asked me out he said that he was leaving but he would never ask me to wait for him and I always thought good because there is no way I could do that. Well a little bit after that I fell in love with him and I knew...
    marinewife92311 marinewife92311
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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