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I Never Thought I Could Handel Being A Military Gf Or Wife

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    I always said that I could never be a military

    gf/spouse because of all the distance and stuff. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and he knows how i said I couldn't be a military gf, well god has a funny sense of humor because my bf has enlisted and is waiting to go off to basic. I love him like no other so...
    mudturtlette mudturtlette 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Dont Know Wat To Think

    My boyfriend garaduated from boot camp on friday, we got to spend the day with him on thursday and bring him home on friday. To me he was the same person who left 4 months ago those two days but yesterday he snapped back into soldier mode and he talked to me and told me he needed...
    CowgirlUp92 CowgirlUp92 18-21, F Dec 4, 2011

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    Kerry And Rick <3

    Hey everyone...my name is Kerry and my boyfriend Rick is a CPL in the Marines! He has already been through one deployment in Afgahnistan and now works in supply in Camp Pendleton Ca. I live about 9 hours north in Chico but will soon be moving to live with him off base. Depending...
    marinecorpsprincess marinecorpsprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    The Hardest Day So Far

    I think I might of got all but 3 hours of sleep last night. I woke up this morning not wanting to get out of bed, I already knew that the day ahead of me was going to a very bad day I just had that feeling. An so far it has been so my feeling was right. I just happened to look...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F Jan 25, 2012

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    Any Uk Gfs Or Wives

    I would like to know if there is any gfs or wives in the UK, it would be nice have support from females who from same country i am from and could maybe support eachother x
    MizPurdy MizPurdy 22-25, F Oct 15, 2012

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    Never Thought I Would Being Doing This But...

    Me and my boyfriend Kevin have been dating for 11 months. When he asked me out he said that he was leaving but he would never ask me to wait for him and I always thought good because there is no way I could do that. Well a little bit after that I fell in love with him and I knew...
    marinewife92311 marinewife92311 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Army Girlfriend

    Man, could you say this group is for me.. lolI love my boyfriend and think the world of our relationship, but sometimes this whole military thing has me running in the other direction.... My boyfriend thinks i have cold feet - and i guess i do... Does anyone else ever feel this...
    ajTHEpunkrocker ajTHEpunkrocker 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Military Prayer

    Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give me a task to do each day, To feel the time while he's away, When is in a foreign land, Keep him safe in your loving...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2012

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    Southeast Military Girlfriends

    I would like to know if there are any Southeast Military girlfriends.  Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama, Georgia, etc.  I would like to try and arrange a support group of girls that would be willing to meet up if we can find a group within a pretty close vicinity of each other...
    elvislover74 elvislover74 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    My boyfriend is in the marines.

    We've only been together for a couple of months and he's getting deployed in October. I won't get to see him right before he leaves because he is based so far away. I'm scared that he'll forget about me while he's away. This is both of our first deployment. Any advice?!
    raquale raquale 16-17, F Apr 29

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    Never Ever, But Here I Am

    Its crazy how things work out.I use to swear up and down, left and right, and every which way that i would NEVER EVER date or marry a guy in the military.I always said I could never do it, it seems to hard and i would never wanna be away from my other half for that long.But here...
    pvtbarnesgirl pvtbarnesgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    militarywifeforever militarywifeforever 18-21, F Aug 16

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    BeardBoyAdvance BeardBoyAdvance 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I am quite new to something like this, and don't really know how to approach this, but I don't know where else to turn and I know that people here can relate. Today marked the...
    bobo668 bobo668 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Never could. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJTwgMTI704
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F a week ago

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    I have fallen for an online Army man who is deployed. We chat all the time and I want him to be real and really love me and be in Army but I fear I'm being scammed and can't seem...
    petstrains petstrains 46-50, F 2 Responses 10 mins ago

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    Hi everyone, So I'm really struggling here and I am hoping this site can help. I met my soulmate about 4 months ago. I knew he was in the army and had served in Afghanistan twice...
    skwoods skwoods 22-25, F Aug 17

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    I felt like I should post this since I've read a few stories where girls are saying they haven't talked to their deployed man or soon to be deployed man is getting distant. In most...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Well 5 weeks down and 10 more to go here in AIT. I never thought I would join the military. It just wasn't something that I grew up around or interested me at all. I mean I...
    ArmyguyTJY ArmyguyTJY 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 8 months now and in the spring he's supposed to be leaving for the Navy. What sucks is he's graduated, but I'm still in school and...
    xxlunawolfxx xxlunawolfxx 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I didn't cherish her when I had the chance now she's gone. I tried to give her everything after losing her. She doesn't love me, she doesn't feel for me, I'm not even half the man...
    CrestofCourage CrestofCourage 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I was in the U.S. Air Force for about 4 yrs. After I moved to AZ in 2001, I was supporting myself working temp jobs & deciding what I wanted to do w/my life. Armed w/my bachelor's...
    afdragon afdragon 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    ~ 8/20/2014 It's been awhile, I'm sorry for that. I guess you can say I've been getting my life together? Settling everything out. Also I will be posting other stories on my other...
    SimplySecure SimplySecure 16-17, F a week ago

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    This is a big fantasy of mine, I would get some help getting my wife to bed after she got drunk, then watch as the other guy looks over her body and starts to feel her up, looking...
    southlincsvoyeur southlincsvoyeur 46-50, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    My solider left today for his JRTC training and even though it's only for 2 weeks I can't help but feel sad. I've been at our home on base for about a week now and although being...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I need some type of support or guidance right now. I did what no military girlfriend should ever do. I did it for the first time ever, to my incredible boyfriend. I lied, straight...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8

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    This is just life for me for a while. Yes, he signed away 5 years of life to serve the country and the people he loves, and I know that must be hard as heck for him. What he didn...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I've been in my new house with my husband for about three days and he goest to JRTC training for about three weeks and even though it sucks he's going to be away , it sucks even...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    The necklace My wife my 6 yr. old son and I went on vacation to Miami as we are leaving the beach one day we see a street vendor selling necklaces of sharks tooth. My six year old...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 3 Responses Aug 5

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    It's been forever since I've posted on here. You guys I need help. Big time. I'm so sad & torn I can't deal with it anymore. It's almost our year anniversary (this is his & mines...
    HickSpartan117 HickSpartan117 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 13

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    I always supported the military. I grew up a military brat being that both of my parents, and step father, were in the military. My dad always wanted me to be an officer & I plan...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I am going through the basic and ait phase right now with my husband. I am 18 and I got married before I graduated high school. My husband is in the army and he is 14h (Air Defense...
    jazzfest18 jazzfest18 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Here is the info: I am a new military girlfriend and we are both 18. He just graduated HS and left for basic. I graduated HS and also graduated community college with my AA...
    Newmilitarygirlfriend Newmilitarygirlfriend 18-21, F Aug 4

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    I thought that being apart for 7mths and seeing each other here and there in that time, I got used to being alone and having him home for 2wks i could handle letting him go again...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 14

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    I saw this online and thought I would try it out in hopes that I will connect with someone going through the same experience as myself. I feel like no one around me would...
    morgieporgie morgieporgie 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    When we started dating, he was already in the military. I knew it was going to be hard, but i was never prepared to be this lonely. Friends say it's "just like being single, but...
    sabwaitforit sabwaitforit 18-21, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    2 days away from being with my husband and in our new home . Time has been dragging and we've gone through the worst and I'm finally able to say the hard part is over and I can...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I am a divorce attorney who has represented women and men in countless cases. based on my observations, there are certain truths about marriage and divorce. 1. Marriage is a...
    divorceatty divorceatty 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I need advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, we have known since the start we wanted to get married, but since he has joined the army I have changed my plans...
    Paigebrianne0 Paigebrianne0 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Hey lovely people!!!! I haven't been on here in a while. The last post that i made was me being excited about seeing my fiance at family day and graduation. I am now happy to...
    desiali719 desiali719 18-21, F Aug 5

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    I am 16 and my boyfriend is 17. He called me to tell me he'd be leaving for boot camp a little earlier than expected. I always thought being with somebody in the military would be...
    alwaysxo alwaysxo 16-17, F Aug 5

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    Hey Guys! My boyfriend of 2 and a half years is leaving tomorrow for WLC. I know I've dealt with him being away from long periods of time (Basic Training and AIT) But this will be...
    Sonyajasmine97 Sonyajasmine97 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Today I barely got to talk to him. I knew he was going out on a mission and was already super worried for him. When he finally got to message me, four or so hours past the normal...
    ariyaple04 ariyaple04 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    So we got a phone call yesterday during dinner, from our SIT. He's in Red Phase still, which was a little out of the ordinary. His mom answered it and she said he was crying saying...
    lexielehman lexielehman 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I miss being young, in several ways. Part if me wants to be at the age of playing with cars was magical. But that brings back bad memories due to many stressors in my family life...