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I Never Thought I Could Handel Being A Military Gf Or Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 106 People

    The Hardest Day So Far

    I think I might of got all but 3 hours of sleep last night. I woke up this morning not wanting to get out of bed, I already knew that the day ahead of me was going to a very bad day I just had that feeling. An so far it has been so my feeling was right. I just happened to look...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F Jan 25, 2012

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    Dont Know Wat To Think

    My boyfriend garaduated from boot camp on friday, we got to spend the day with him on thursday and bring him home on friday. To me he was the same person who left 4 months ago those two days but yesterday he snapped back into soldier mode and he talked to me and told me he needed...
    CowgirlUp92 CowgirlUp92 18-21, F Dec 4, 2011

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    Never Ever, But Here I Am

    Its crazy how things work out.I use to swear up and down, left and right, and every which way that i would NEVER EVER date or marry a guy in the military.I always said I could never do it, it seems to hard and i would never wanna be away from my other half for that long.But here...
    pvtbarnesgirl pvtbarnesgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    Military Prayer

    Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give me a task to do each day, To feel the time while he's away, When is in a foreign land, Keep him safe in your loving...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2012

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    Army Girlfriend

    Man, could you say this group is for me.. lolI love my boyfriend and think the world of our relationship, but sometimes this whole military thing has me running in the other direction.... My boyfriend thinks i have cold feet - and i guess i do... Does anyone else ever feel this...
    ajTHEpunkrocker ajTHEpunkrocker 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Never Thought I Would Being Doing This But...

    Me and my boyfriend Kevin have been dating for 11 months. When he asked me out he said that he was leaving but he would never ask me to wait for him and I always thought good because there is no way I could do that. Well a little bit after that I fell in love with him and I knew...
    marinewife92311 marinewife92311 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Any Uk Gfs Or Wives

    I would like to know if there is any gfs or wives in the UK, it would be nice have support from females who from same country i am from and could maybe support eachother x
    MizPurdy MizPurdy 22-25, F Oct 15, 2012

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    Kerry And Rick <3

    Hey everyone...my name is Kerry and my boyfriend Rick is a CPL in the Marines! He has already been through one deployment in Afgahnistan and now works in supply in Camp Pendleton Ca. I live about 9 hours north in Chico but will soon be moving to live with him off base. Depending...
    marinecorpsprincess marinecorpsprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Southeast Military Girlfriends

    I would like to know if there are any Southeast Military girlfriends.  Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama, Georgia, etc.  I would like to try and arrange a support group of girls that would be willing to meet up if we can find a group within a pretty close vicinity of each other...
    elvislover74 elvislover74 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    I always said that I could never be a military

    gf/spouse because of all the distance and stuff. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and he knows how i said I couldn't be a military gf, well god has a funny sense of humor because my bf has enlisted and is waiting to go off to basic. I love him like no other so...
    mudturtlette mudturtlette 18-21, F Apr 28, 2014

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    My boyfriend is in the marines.

    We've only been together for a couple of months and he's getting deployed in October. I won't get to see him right before he leaves because he is based so far away. I'm scared that he'll forget about me while he's away. This is both of our first deployment. Any advice?!
    raquale raquale 18-21, F Apr 29, 2014

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    i am engaged to the beautiful love of my life. we are getting married in June! Her family is VERY traditional and its not uncommon for her father soundly spanking her mother after...
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    What a great “weigh” to start a Wednesday! My morning weigh-in was 201 lbs., so not only did I meet my 200 lb. goal, but also gained a bonus pound! Must have been...
    New2fat71 New2fat71 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    What a great “weigh” to start a Wednesday! My morning weigh-in was 201 lbs., so not only did I meet my 200 lb. goal, but also gained a bonus pound! Must have been...
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    Ive been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman but for a couple of years ive been having an affair and now i want to be with my lover all the time.I love my wife but more like...
    hikk01 hikk01 41-45, M 6 hrs ago

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    My wife wears QoS anklet and finds that it works best at shoes stores, especially if she is wearing garterbelt and hose.
    cucked4ever cucked4ever 61-65, M 6 hrs ago

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    My wife had her first black man 12 years ago...detail below
    cucked4ever cucked4ever 61-65, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My wife has been seeing her ex-boyfriend the entire time she and I have been married (6 years). They always had great sex despite their dysfunctional relationship. When she goes...
    shecheats247 shecheats247 26-30, M 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I seriously feel like he's going to break up with me. He came back from a lockdown tired and I wanted to cuddle and he didn't. I got upset and walked away, then later I was still...
    Realwinner Realwinner 18-21, F 6 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I am usually quiet and reserved. I have a few close friends who know me well. The rest of the people just like getting on my nerves. I prefer a few close friends to many...
    RosePeels RosePeels 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    yup now I'm a blubbering idiot I feel so horrible I have never felt this bad in my life.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I feel so horrible that I couldn't be at his graduation I feel like crying I feel so bad.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    To be honest I feel like I've been betrayed by every person I know. The only person who didn't betray me and was consistent through and through was a weed smoking democrat and he...
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks 41-45, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I Reflect On Life I was a victim of molestation at a young age. Homeless and had a Druggie parent. I never told anyone about this until a few months ago because I always felt...
    Salyssasalenee Salyssasalenee 18-21, F 9 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    As I'm writing this post, I am in tears because while I am not a musician's wife, I am the girlfriend of a musician (we are very committed to each other and we currently live...
    deexlee deexlee 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I talked to the Army recruiters today. I got information from them, now I just need to talk to some veterans and get their advice. I am not sure what job I want in the military yet...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    wouldn't it be fantastic? you start you're life again with all you're memories. Imagine what could be acheived. you could stop being bullied at school in your teens, ask out that...
    diegosauns diegosauns 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really hate dishonesty of any kind. Mostly the sneaky insidious kind that comes from self deception, and the inability too many people have to be self introspective. It makes...
    Jackie69C Jackie69C 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I could have never imagined the nightmare that my husbands first wife and grown adult children have become. I have been married to him for just over 2 years and everything seems to...
    heavyheart1 heavyheart1 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My situation is much different then most others in this situation. Let me clarify, I am the wife of a widower and let me start from the beginning. When we were dating it was told...
    ss2002 ss2002 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    It's hard not getting to talk to him as we use to I know that it's going to be like that because he's working but It's tough not being able to not call him like 24/7 😂 because...
    Trinityhester318 Trinityhester318 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I miss the little things- like getting up on Saturday mornings talking, cuddling, getting breakfast together. I miss driving around in the car playing DJ and having sing a longs...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I'm legit sick and tired of everyone who hasn't been in a military relationship say " oh I understand what you're going through I've done the long distance before!" WHEN REALLY it...
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    My memory for years is not good at all but i will just say around 1990 I took a good job with a construction company and my best friend for around twenty years was the boss of the...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M 6 days ago

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    I met my boyfriend in high school we did not start dating until he left for the military.we had 2 week together than 2 years apart .He was station in Japan and he was deployed in...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I miss him so much will hate how other girls on Facebook or meet me complain about how they miss there boyfriends when they r only gone for a few hours it just makes me want to say...
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    My fiance messaged me today. Everything has been great since my last post. He called me on my birthday, we talked for a hour. I've been keeping busy and staying away from negative...
    LLDL LLDL 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Does anyone else notice that they are starting to like being alone? And the only person they'd enjoy being with is their man? And since you can have him, you just rather be alone...
    jellybelly1217 jellybelly1217 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    Hate is such a strong word and I dislike it very much!! But under the circumstances I'm starting to have just those kind of thoughts. I've been with MH off and on for 21 long years...
    jennymike28 jennymike28 36-40, F