I Never Went to Prom

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    I could not find a date.

    Plus, I had a apathetic feeling towards the social life at school. I had less than 10 people whom I would call a friend at my high school.
    kcthinker kcthinker
    41-45, M
    Jan 22

    I never went to my prom.

    I was constantly bullied and picked on. I was also very depressed during my teens. I never really had any fun teen years. The only fun I had were in my imagination. I fantasized about Casper and I having our very own prom with other weird characters in a different planet.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    Hahahaha looking back at my old stories,

    I realize how angsty and depressed I was compared to now. Ahhh, the memories. Moving forward a few years, I've made a few good friends; I've learned to be confident around others; I'velearned to accept myself (for the most part). I remember one day making a rant/promise about...
    J3nnyC J3nnyC
    16-17, F
    Apr 17

    Nobody asked me. I didn't ask anybody.

    No friends to go with as a group. I also didn't want to waste money on an experience I probably wouldn't have enjoyed.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 5

    We had to move when I was gonna start Junior

    year. We were not able to get my transcripts until after school started. Since I was held back, I decided to enter into adult high school so I could go ahead and graduate. I am doing good in school, but sadly I missed out on a one time event.
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jan 22

    I Had A Reason

    My highschool happened to be possibly the most sheltered and "stick up their ***" people I have ever met. I was always a sort of inner rebel since I was a kid, and it hasn't died down any since then. I like disagreeing with somethnig because their not allowing me to be who I want...
    queer4clockwork queer4clockwork
    18-21
    Jan 27, 2012

    The Prom - a rite of passage missed . .

    The year was 1976.  It was my senior year in high school.  It would be the final year I would have a chance to attend the prom, and I had not been asked.  It was my own fault of course.  I had built an impregnable defense shield around myself repelling boys like two...
    MoniqueinSpring MoniqueinSpring
    56-60, F
    7 Responses May 7, 2013

    Well, having been homeschooled

    for almost the entirety of my K-12 education, I never went to prom. As a kid, I felt "left out". However, as an adult I realized that there really wasn't a point. It's nice to have common experiences with your peers, but in the grand-theme of things, it's really not that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 23

    Weird, Weird, Weird

    I never went to prom because for some unknown reason, I have always had a strong fear of dancing in public. But for prom, I decided I was going to go anyway so I got dressed up, drove to the gymnasium, and then decided there was no way I could go inside. So I never went in the...
    deadant7 deadant7
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2012

    I want to create a prom (or series of worldwide

    proms) for those of us who for whatever reason couldn't or didn't go to prom.
    newasexy newasexy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    I was dating someone at the time of my school's

    senior prom but she lived a day's drive away and we didn't manage to arrange going together. Honestly, we probably could have but I really wasn't very interested in going. She was a little miffed about that but it wasn't a big deal. On the actual night of the dance, I didn't...
    violincaster violincaster
    18-21, M
    Jan 3

    We don't have such things in my country,

    just parties, no fancy dresses, no prom couples, no prom queens and kings, we are free from this embarrassment :P It just seems so silly, sorry!
    ScissorhandsFingeredMe ScissorhandsFingeredMe
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    I never wanted to go to prom,

    until one day I decided to be more social. I got up my courage and asked a boy who was a little into me, but I said something like "so you didn't invite anybody yet? you know I could be your date". The same day a friend who was organizing prom dates for shy singles came up to...
    paulina77 paulina77
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 21

    4 years of high school

    and I never went to prom or a single dance, but my 16 year old cousin has been to 2 proms already and he will most likely go a 3rd time. What the heck, why am I the loser of the family /:
    Madison18 Madison18
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 15, 2015

    I wish I had been able to go to a prom.

    I would have loved to be able to put on a beautiful dress like this and prepare myself for my date. Make sure my hair, nails and makeup looked absolutely perfect for making my entrance to the prom with my hot date at my side. Deciding if to wear thigh highs, stockings and...
    satnlacy satnlacy
    22-25, T
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I wasn't allowed to go

    because of truancy, but I wouldn't have gone anyway.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 4

    No Regrets Really

    I am not much into social gatherings. I don't talk to people much outside of EP. I am a quiet sort of person who keeps to herself most of the time out of school. Why would I regret going to prom? I can think of a few reason maybe. 1. Get to have some fun 2. Away...
    kthimm1 kthimm1
    18-21, F
    6 Responses May 21, 2009
    Zainabomer Zainabomer
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    I always felt like proms were overrated.

    And from what those who went told me, I was right. :p
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 22

    All through high school my mom wanted me to go

    to prom but I never do every time I say I would go to prom I blow it off by seeing a minor league baseball games called the Joliet Slammers my favorite baseball team in Joliet Illinois which I think was stupid of me to do at the time I should of gone to the prom but I didn't I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 28

    Don't regret it at all.

    Sounds like the ultimate gathering of tools and idiots to me.
    herewegothen herewegothen
    18-21, M
    2 Responses May 7, 2015

    There was an anime convention in Chicago on

    that same day. No regrets. Not that I'd have gone if there was no convention anyway
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1
    22-25, M
    Feb 28

    Everyone said "you're going to regret it".

    The only thing I regret is not going to after prom. My high school had a whole after prom thing with prize give always, bouncy houses, food, etc..and it wasn't even half the price of prom lol. Now that's something I should have gone too!
    churchdadatnight churchdadatnight
    18-21, F
    Jan 23

    It kinda sucked when I graduated years ago,

    everyone had a prom date except for me. I felt jealous, angry, worthless. I just thought to myself, "If I don't have anyone, what's the point of me going? So I can be looked at as the 'wallflower'?" In the end, I'm really glad I didn't go! Everyone was just drunk and unconscious...
    HypnoticFever HypnoticFever
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 2, 2015

    I studied high school by correspondence

    since I lived overseas. I has no prom nor a graduation party nor even a class ring (not even a class). i missed out on all the things most teens get during that all important part in a kid's life.
    spankemotk spankemotk
    56-60, M
    Nov 3, 2015

    Never saw the point. I knew I'd never hang out

    with these people willingly outside of school, and after graduation, so why would I go to a dance with them? Oh well. Guess I'm not traditional.
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 16, 2014

    I belonged to a conservative all girls'

    catholic school with strict nuns and teachers. Every day we were taught to become proper ladies; hair should be neatly tied with a black or blue or white colored clips only [other colors are not allowed], skirt should be knee-length, socks should be ankle length, fingernails...
    sui123 sui123
    22-25, F
    Jan 23

    i stayed home and watched a horror film

    marathon. it was super sweet. <3
    callmenathan callmenathan
    18-21, F
    May 7, 2015

    I didn't go to either my junior

    or senior prom. I wasn't dating anybody, so I technically had no one to go with. I said I was saving for college for the reason not going.
    FTDFTL79 FTDFTL79
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 3
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 3

    I had moved to my 3rd h.

    s for my senior yr. N i just wasnt feeling the whole school spirit for a yr thing. The yr was ok. But not goin kinda sucked
    archon279 archon279
    18-21, M
    Jan 22

    Instead of going to prom,

    I went on a date. definitely the better decision.
    KatIsCrazy KatIsCrazy
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jul 21, 2014
    DarknessDepth DarknessDepth
    22-25, F
    Feb 6

    Went to a more a private gathering with a few

    good friends from high school, a few guys from the basketball team, their girlfriends, and a few tag alongs. Let's just say it was an awesome night.
    Sicarium Sicarium
    36-40, M
    Feb 15

    Okay, this is kind of a lie.

    I went to 2 school dances, but I hated them. The first was the 5th grade graduation dance. All of my friends were asked out to dance. No boy asked me, and since this was during a time I was straight, this bothered me. So I pigged out on the fried food catering, where those...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 22, 2015

    I don't mind parties to be honest,

    nor do I really mind loud places. But when it comes to being around a huge crowd for hours, I get a tad bit nervous/anxious and usually try to go somewhere more open and reserved. Plus, in my opinion, re general idea of prom just bores me. I never really cared for anyone in my...
    Ominousity Ominousity
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    And I'm not going to go either.

    If anyone asks me to go to prom with them, I'll just turn them down in Italian. I have better things to do with my time than go to prom and feel nervous about the large amount of people surrounding me. I have Asperger's, and I hate large groups of people.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    16-17, M
    Nov 14, 2015

    Everyone was making a big deal of me not going

    to prom in my senior year. They were saying how I would regret it. Never did and I don't now. The tickets were rather expensive and I didn't feel like going shopping for a dress and spending a ton of money to get my hair and makeup done for 1 night. I never went to any dances...
    BeautifulSoul09 BeautifulSoul09
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 7, 2015

    Well, I'd might as well have not gone.

    A group of four of my friends begged me to go in a group with them, so I went, just to dress up and have a good time. I don't really like loud places or big events, but hey, senior prom only happens once, right? I didn't have a date or anything, but I was still hoping to have a...
    Boulier Boulier
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    No one asked me and I never went.

    The guys at my high school were all a bunch of *******. Some day, I will have an adult version of my prom- I will buy an expensive dress, have my hair and make up done, rent a really cool limo and eat at a fancy restaurant and go to a hotel for half drunk sex. Added bonus- I won...
    theyrereal theyrereal
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    I never ate a prom before.

    taste like dolls with christmas glitter.
    ZardaF5 ZardaF5
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    I never went to my prom.

    I was still with my current boyfriend around the time of prom, but neither of us are people who like to dance or socialize with strangers out in the open like that. That and we went to two completely different schools. I will get my dance with my Prince charming one day, our...
    lizzie9787 lizzie9787
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 22

    i want o die , nothing to do with prom .

    i just feel like i shld die and let everyone be happy that i am gone . especuallyy my loer
    loveforeverandever loveforeverandever
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    When I was a freshman I attended a dance to be

    my friend's wingman and keep a guy who liked her on his best behavior. We walked around, looked at dresses, and eventually she dressed me in some of her own clothes, did my makeup, and dragged me along. I felt pretty though, all things considered, but i hated every minute of...
    ProcessOfBecoming ProcessOfBecoming
    18-21, T
    1 Response Feb 8

    Because I graduated from an online high school

    because of health issues, so I thought it would be weird because I had no prior social interaction with those people so it didn't really mean anything to me . I do regret it though , because as a girl that is the first time you get to feel like a princess.
    Tokeetilyoucope Tokeetilyoucope
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 3

    I always felt like an outsider in high school

    (surprisingly, some people I wouldn't expect to still remember me). Being depressed/anxious/sleep deprived/sexuality confused did not help the situation. I remember I felt pretty bad the month or so before prom because everyone was always excitedly talking about their dates...
    bender898989 bender898989
    26-30, M
    Jan 23

    I didn't have money for

    that ****. plus I heard it was boring anyway.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 22

    Didn't Go, No Regrets

    I never went to either of my proms (junior or senior year). I had no interest in it. A big reason, though I never admitted it to any of my friends, was that I didn't have a date. I didn't want it to be like every other dance, me running around alone watching all of my friends in...
    earth2bella earth2bella
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Mar 9, 2008
    Katad21 Katad21
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 22

    I did not attend prom.

    Between the years of 14 to 17 I was physically locked inside my house and not allowed to venture out, save for school which I was chaperoned to and from. It was my personal hell and probably sent me backwards in my personal development. I finally left when I was 17, it was...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    I'm in the 10th grade,

    so I haven't gone to prom yet! The only thing is, I don't plan on going. At all. People talk about how special prom is; how it is a night jam-packed full of memories and how you will miss out if you don't go. But you know what I say? I say BULLSHIT. Prom is so pointless and full...
    J3nnyC J3nnyC
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    I am a senior about to graduate in two weeks

    from high school. Prom is also coming up, but I am not going. Why? Many reasons; the main reason is because of my boyfriend. I don't know if he is coming up for even my graduation party. We extended the deadline to RSVP only for him; everyone else has a date that is sooner...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 17, 2015

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