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I No Longer Speak to My Mother Or Much of My Family

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    On August 4th, 2010 I have birth to a beautiful baby girl (from here on I will call her Love) She was unexpected, but I loved her from the moment I know I was pregnant. Shortly...
    DazzleDesire DazzleDesire 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    My mother was raised by an insane woman, who happened to be my grandmother. The grandmother and the grandfather(who was a kind man) (my mothers parents)were 2nd generation...
    notPC notPC 56-60, F 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    At times this can be a terribly sad thing, and at others it can also be an amazingly strong, and selfless thing to do. There are things that should be shared and deserve to be...
    ProcessOfBecoming ProcessOfBecoming 18-21, T 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Classic narc family occurence; I got a letter from my father asking me to un-remember recent put-downs from my narc mother on several calls between September and November. After...
    Decaturite Decaturite 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hello I wanted to just say hello to the group as I am a new member to this web site. I absolutely LOVE this group. I am basically home bound and have always had pets all my life...
    JoJo725 JoJo725 51-55, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't hate them I dislike them most of the time. So I been married for 10months I know still newlyweds, and we have been staying with his whole family in a New York apartment it...
    confusedasia confusedasia 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I love my mom, I really do but something has been bothering. Well, I talked to her recently and the topic went to about her being molested as well as a child by a family member of...
    XcookiexbakerXx XcookiexbakerXx 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm going through my 2nd pregnancy and it's been difficult compared to my 1st one. It's worse with my mother in law there. She compares her pregnancy with my symptoms. Tells...
    Darkshadows02 Darkshadows02 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    i feel strange and uncomfortable around a lot of people, don't get me wrong, and i love my family to bits and wouldn't wish them ill will, but... i don't know, they're very...
    paztel paztel 16-17, T 3 days ago

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    Hi... I wanted to share what happened once in my life at 2014 around winter time... So first of all my family was once a family when I wasn't born, my birthdays were never...
    Rokas2260 Rokas2260 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My family get on my nerves because I'm the only child my parent's don't care about. I'm the youngest and people usually say that makes you the "baby" and the "precious one". What...
    Freedgorgan Freedgorgan 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'd just gone to bathe my dog in the basement bathroom. I got so mad. The bathroom floor was full of the Nasty paper my stranger for a Mother wiped herself with. I don't even do...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I love my mother more than I can express, but recently she has been different. As I am thinking about it I realise that it was always in the background and that the only thing that...
    smurphy31 smurphy31 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was 12 years old. Me, my parents, my brother and my sisters decided to travel to Khao Lak, Thailand, during christmas and new years eve. We were a family from Sweden who visited...
    Jessikaswe92 Jessikaswe92 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hi so I'm posting here to write about my mother and how I'm affected with severe depression and anxiety because of her I don't like to point fingers or blame anybody but she is the...
    Pinkskiespinklove Pinkskiespinklove 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It hurts when she goes on about her dead family and "the family she loved are all dead". She will cry, be sad etc but with me she never shows any love. Only conditional when her...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 46-50 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When I was three years old my parents were killed in a car accident. And I was sent to live with my aunt and uncle. My aunt and uncle loved me very much although my aunt was very...
    meneme2013 meneme2013 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When do I speak my truth? Or haven't I all these years? I'm going to be 42 years old. I have not spoken to my mother in 5 months and my father - about 4 (I went from low contact...
    thegirlwithnomom thegirlwithnomom 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a 27 year old third son out of four with NPD parents from New Jersey where I lived in my parents' house until I graduated from high school. I distinctly remember being 13 (and...
    dylster15 dylster15 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I have three boys but I am no longer a mom to them. my oldest I spent 3 yrs with then his dad my ex husband got full custody. he refuses to allow me to talk to my which in the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Having experienced a roller coaster of baby excitement in recent weeks here's my lowdown on the reality of having a baby. Buckle up mummies..(or look away now) Having a baby-THE...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 12 Responses 6 days ago

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    The role of religion in the continued saga of my MIL/SIL and my marriage to her baby boy. Many years ago when my MIL was more or less just meddling and controlling and a self...
    wordofwarning wordofwarning 51-55, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It is not my mother language, so I try to speak. Sometimes I **** up really bad, people look at me like "wtf??", and sometimes it flows out of my mind clearly, and they don't even...
    JetWoes JetWoes 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    She threw herself at me. I took things slowly. After a few months, we were official. I was a part of her family's dinners. She was "the happiest they've ever seen her." She treated...
    standardmale standardmale 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    So my husband decides to go out to dinner and his parents friends were there and they were coming to join them .so we get our table and sit down she comes over to say hello and...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F a week ago

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    My life sucks right now. And its never going to get better. Now, this may be your average teen angst situation, but I don't think I've ever felt worse in my life. I knew about my...
    PandaBirdable PandaBirdable 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm sorry, but I need to get these feelings of resentment and hatred out of me before I end up doing something very foolish. I hate my mother. I just hate her. I cant stand to be...
    aaron812 aaron812 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    My husband and I have been married for 7 months, he recently went to Samoa to visit his mother who he has not seen in ten years, he wanted her to live with us and I told him no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    My mother in law has turned her whole family against me. She told her family that I have psychologically abused her. In her twisted head, she can say and act however she likes...
    Lilyrose456 Lilyrose456 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 28

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    As I arrived at the nursing home, I saw my brother in the room at her bedside. She was experiencing apnea and had been given high doses of morphine by the hospice nurses on duty...
    Nightvale Nightvale 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    So my brother dislikes me for no reason says am an immature idiot and my sister envies me because my mother says she will leave the house to me since I am physically disabled and...
    kryme kryme 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I can't say I hate his family. But there's a few I truly dislike that I don't want to be around them. His mother and sister...Mostly his sister. She's nothing but a hot head and...
    simplyme12345 simplyme12345 18-21, F Jan 27

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    I am having trouble navigating my relationship with my parents. I am very worried about going to see them. Lately my father has developed a very serious form of cancer, so my...
    Decaturite Decaturite 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    My father needs another surgery. He just recovered from having his hips replaced (for a second time) last summer. Because of a disease he was diagnosed with 20 years ago, his...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    And here we go with yet another reason to cut all ties with my family. My youngest niece was taking part in the annual Music Festival in the local town hall today, so I took mum...
    Rjb1970 Rjb1970 41-45, M Jan 25

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    I have a very small family. We all live apart and even when I was young, we were pretty emotionally distant. My parents divorced when I was about 4. I don't remember a time they...
    doublepancakes doublepancakes 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Sometimes I'm certain that my daughter hates me but I don't like her behavior either. We've been going through such a tough time lately until I'm not sure how much more I can take...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I was born in China and grew up in Canada thus i consider English, Mandarin Chinese and Wu Chinese as my mother tongues. It's worth to mention that I went to a French-Immersion...
    Dantezhu1993 Dantezhu1993 22-25, M Jan 24

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    During dinner my partner and I were discussing his cousins upcoming nuptials. They have a two year old little girl and are living with my partners mother. My partners mother raised...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    There are two stories here, so my apologies for the length of this post. In the interests of full disclosure, and to answer some questions, this story has been edited. As far back...
    Redw1023 Redw1023 56-60, M Jan 20

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