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I No Longer Speak to My Mother Or Much of My Family

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    I have the most dysfunctional family. As a kid It was always an argument, fight and constant verbal abuse from the other four members of my family. They can all be very...
    JodyValero JodyValero 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    That awkward moment when your spanish speaking mother momentarily forgets that you also speak spanish and starts talking trash about you when you're in the same room.
    thewalkingcello thewalkingcello 18-21, F 1 Response May 14

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    Today my mother told me she doesnt care about me. Well what did i except? She has never really been nice to me. She doesnt know how to control herself when she is angry. Throughout...
    courvill courvill 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I've been with my wife for over 10 years, married the past 4. So I know my mother in law. I have never enjoyed being in her presence, as we are quite different. She is loud...
    lymanx lymanx 36-40, M 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I miss my family so very much. it's been over a year since I migrated to America. leaving my mom and two brothers back home. my heart aches. at how much I miss them and I'm angry...
    Toyabelle Toyabelle 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    So I have written on here before.. I think like most, I do it to vent because the crap that is pulled is just insane.. Before I decided to write, I read a lot of post on here, some...
    bekah930 bekah930 46-50 7 Responses May 10

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    I love my mother so much. I give her a lot respect. I believe GOD forgiving my sin because of my mother. I was arranged marriage because my mother asked me to even i wasnt happy...
    mkdpk mkdpk 41-45, M 4 hrs ago

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    Our two girls often climbed into bed with us when they were little, but in recent years that arrangement has become permanent. At first it was a way to help each other find...
    littleblackduck littleblackduck 51-55, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Growing up, I never had the easiest childhood. There, got that out of the way. Both my parents were drug addicts, so the marriage obviously wasn't a happy one; a lot of nights of...
    iespnz iespnz 22-25, M 1 Response May 10

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    Hi I go by Fruity punch on here.I would like to share a personal story from my experience with my mother.Let me start back when I was younger for you to understand the emotional...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 Response May 13

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    In trying to be a peacemaker and oldest sibling, I tend to become the enemy. That sounds crazy right? Well I was beginning to think I was insane and that my reality was the one I...
    catanibis catanibis 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Reference is made to post (http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Hate-My-Mother-In-Law/6693688). Thanks so much for sharing! I looked at the movie today and it made my blood...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think been the 2nd child IS the black sheep of the family especially when you have an older brother and a younger sister. I used to love my family unconditionally until I...
    Chinese101 Chinese101 31-35, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    It's 4am and I have random thoughts about my family.I live apart from my family already for 8years.And I don't have any contact with ny father and my brother .I hate them both.My...
    Nightowlbadmorning Nightowlbadmorning 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    18 years apart despite knows the exact location. Multiple lies told to avoid responsibility. Much reckless and selfish behavior concerned only with self gratifying. Family ties...
    SteppeChild SteppeChild 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12

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    i had a bad past two years full of depression and pain. unbearable pain. my father and my sister too. we got severly depressed. it is the first time to be such depressed for such...
    sam1992really1 sam1992really1 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I've just joined this site, and I joined it because I'm feeling some unhealthy feelings right now towards my mom, and I just have to vent. Usually my best friend is the one I...
    Mstootiredtocare Mstootiredtocare 18-21, F 3 Responses May 14

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    In My Grandparents Home-Not my selfish, narcissistic, lying parents that abandoned my brother and self as toddlers then shamelessly lied about it to escape responsibility. I grew...
    SteppeChild SteppeChild 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    *RANT* As I am getting older, it seems my mother is losing herself mentally...she seems to be on autopilot most days, as if in a constant fog. People ask her questions and she...
    tcteacher tcteacher 26-30, F 1 Response May 3

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    Well, we arent married..yet...but we are in a committed, monogamous relationship. live together and planning on marriage down the road. His mom was super sweet to me at first when...
    bethkins24 bethkins24 46-50, F 3 Responses May 7

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    I'm in my 30s and confronting what happened to me as a child for the first time. Every week or so, something new occurs to me. This week I am thinking about just how hard my...
    desdemonamcphee desdemonamcphee 31-35 1 Response May 8

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    I’m so relieved to have found this thread. There’s so much I want to write and I just don’t know where to begin, but here it goes… I come from a culture where mothers...
    latinamerican35 latinamerican35 31-35, M 2 Responses May 12

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    I need help! I hate my mother in law! Any time her name is mentioned or I hear her voice I literally feel sick to my stomach! This woman has her hooks into my husband and I do not...
    pissedoff1966 pissedoff1966 46-50, F 4 Responses May 16

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    as a child I had no family. my mother would abuse the hell out of me. sad thing is my mother's side of the family knew about all the abuse and not once tried to help. I spent a lot...
    spanishfly007 spanishfly007 36-40, F 12 Responses May 20

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    I feel like I need to get this off my chest, since I have held it in for as long as I could remember and it broke me in so many ways. I am from a first generation American Chinese...
    Jchen52m Jchen52m 18-21 4 Responses May 22

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    So I chose to spend Mothers Day without family. Because so many holidays revolve around family I think this is ok. Besides I find I need to be selfish on this day. I give so much...
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F May 9

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    UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.....Those memories of youcome a little harder and stronger on this special daythis is to be your special dayThose special memories of you and Iwill always bring...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I've tried to accept her and listen to her but I cannot. She makes me feel horrible about my body, even worse than I already feel about it. Every day she tells me I need to lose...
    emilyj24 emilyj24 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    happy mothers day 2015 
    HotMomShaama HotMomShaama 46-50, F 1 hr ago

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    My mother is emotionally abusive and I’ve only just began to see it. My mother is a sole parent to me and my younger brother. She left my father taking me and my brother with...
    throwawaybro throwawaybro 22-25, M May 5

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    Update to my in laws wanting to visit our home. My previous story (http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Hate-My-Mother-In-Law/5797843#reply_7961789) occurred on Monday...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    I am closer to my bf mother and stepfather then my own mother and father. My father has bio-polar and borderline. He loves to tell how better my sister is and had paranoia that has...
    kristhy kristhy 22-25, F May 16

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    My MIL is passive-aggressive, controlling, two-faced, hypocritical, manipulative person. When I first met her, she was wonderful; big personality, loving, and outgoing...Until she...
    NoMorePainNoMoreGuilt NoMorePainNoMoreGuilt 31-35, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    35yo son who has always been very single met his first girlfriend on dating site he joined with help from my other son and his wife. After about seven months she has moved into...
    littlebobchapin littlebobchapin 61-65, F 3 Responses May 4

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    I started dating my boyfriend last year in July 2014. I came round to his for the first time as you do, met his mum and dad they were pretty chill, after a few months of dating him...
    pyschoticmindssince1993 pyschoticmindssince1993 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    It's hard, and yet...NOT hard to write this. I love my mother, but only because she's my mother. Otherwise, I would have absolutely NOTHING to do with her. As far back as I can...
    Sionna7910 Sionna7910 31-35, F 2 Responses May 15

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    My fake cousin who has a little Daughter, is a real cheat. All she's interested in is money, and how she can get more and more. She lives this lavish lifestyle with a whole ton of...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F May 17

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    Let me start off with a story first. My soon to be husband had his lower wisdom teeth pulled almost a week ago. So of course he's been in a bit of pain, not much because he's a man...
    MissJessieGurl MissJessieGurl 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24

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    Lately I've been having so much troubles but umm... it's hard to tell but the language English and the ppl who're using it, are so heart warming. Not everyone but my English...
    Yuker85 Yuker85 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I hate my mother. I know many people say this but very few actually mean it with all their soul. I am the very few that do. I never tell anyone about this because I know how they...
    ihateher44 ihateher44 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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