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I Notice Everything But Dont Say Anything

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    you BLAME your friend,

    your parents,your wife,your husband,your siblings,your nephew,your niece,your boyfriend,your girlfriend,your teacher,your boss,your lecturer,your fiancee,the country,your state....................but guess what it DOESN'T solve anything.blame does not solve anything so why blame...
    theconsumingfire theconsumingfire 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2014

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    Observation.

    I notice everyone making the same mistakes I've made, I understand that these mistakes exist as a lesson and that I can only watch and encourage "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink". I see everyone on their different levels of consciousness and...
    Isolating Isolating 18-21, M Apr 29, 2013

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    "He who speaks does not know.

    He who knows does not speak." -Duncan Rutherford
    Duncan98 Duncan98 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    I don't have many friends anymore.

    I still love and care about all my old friends. If I see them at parties or get togethers I usually don't say much just a wave or a smile, maybe I'll throw a, "hey" somewhere in there. They don't understand that I'm happy just being around them and knowing they're okay. They...
    natebatt natebatt 18-21, M Jan 7, 2014

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    Quiet Ones

    "It's always the quiet ones who are stranger than fiction." ~ Tears For Fears That's what I am: a quiet one. In high school I was the one who sat silently and listened as the others (when there were others with me) chattered. I just ate my lunch or scribbled doodles in my agenda...
    InaudibleRage InaudibleRage 18-21, F Jun 13, 2013

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    I seriously think my parents are making the

    biggest stupid mistake right now with my brother's situation. If this situation happened 2 or 3 years ago, I would stood up for my brother and try to do everything in my will so this won't happened. Well, I did. Nothing will ever be changed and nothing will ever get better. If...
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F Apr 16

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    Smart people choose to say nothing,

    even though they notice everything 👌👍✌️😎😬
    Sciencelover Sciencelover 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    I notice everything. And by everything,

    I leterally mean everything. I notice when someone stops hitting me up like they used to. I notice when the way someone talks to me starts changing, I notice the little things that people do, I notice when things change, and when it's no longer the same. I notice every single...
    Extrano Extrano 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I Analyze People

    I have hypervigilance and analyze everyone around me all the time. My survival instincts are turned on high and I cannot turn it off. I watch people's behavior and try to understand them. I am happy when I meet kind people. I have noticed some patterns with behavior over time and...
    creampoodle creampoodle 26-30, F Nov 9, 2013

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    Its when you try to say something abd no one

    listens, thats why I don't say anything.
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F Dec 20, 2014

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    I'm good at listening to conversations.

    I do it without them noticing. I pretend I'm listening to music and zoning off but I lower the volume to listen. I've heard some pretty interesting things.
    adriana0102 adriana0102 16-17, F Feb 8

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    Im The "Quiet One"

    I'm a listener and an observer. People don't usually pay attention to me because I'm quiet but I always pay attention to them whether I want to or not.
    NeonBrownie420 NeonBrownie420 26-30, F 4 Responses May 24, 2013

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    I Just Play Like I'M Dumb, But Yet Have Gained Lots Of Wisdom Over The Years!

    I was in a bad relationship, it involved lying, drugs , cheating, I was controlled , and emotionally and mentally abused! So I take a lot of the things I have learned and I use them to detect and decode what others maybe doing or what their intentions are. So I may pretend as if...
    JaDun JaDun 31-35, F Nov 17, 2013

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    Other people's lives

    and actions are theirs nothing to do with me, so don't impose!
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M May 26

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    Fly On The Wall

    I am the fly on the wall. My extremities are not transparent and I am not socially incompetent, but I sure am skilled at becoming invisible. Put me in a crowded room; at a party or even in a bar with friends. Where did I go? I sit still, drink, and become a pair of roving green...
    Stephgirl5 Stephgirl5 22-25, F 3 Responses May 31, 2013

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    It's definetly a Scorpio thing.

    I can read ppl based on tone of voice facial expression body movement and all. Now if I could just use my intuition to benefit me at the right time man that would be great
    candace36 candace36 36-40, F Dec 10, 2013

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    i tend to go along with the flow.

    i don't say anything about anyone to people i dont trust. if i have something i need to get off my back and off my mind i tell it to my mom or my boyfriend.
    littleshit04 littleshit04 16-17, F May 15

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    Not my place. I notice everything

    but don't say anything. And why don't I say anything? Because it's not my place to say anything... Why should I say anything? Some things are better left the way they are... Some things are better left unsaid. One of these things - a prime example of the point I am trying to...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    Little Words and A Little Bit elusive ….

    spare me the secrets or non-spoken truths that exists in the ether of your world. I am not as fragile as you think, nor am I naïve. This smile is not always in love but instead in the knowing of this game. Do you think it's not cute for me to see you work so very...
    GypsyHeartedPoet GypsyHeartedPoet 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    I Play Aloof On TV

    I like to act stupid or like I'm not listening because people tend to put their guards down and show their true colors. I remember everything down to the detail. I never use this filing system during an argument however. You can't let the enemy know you....of his you know. Plus...
    AwakenSoul82 AwakenSoul82 31-35, F Oct 31, 2013

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    I take in everything

    but don't say much
    Imax73 Imax73 41-45 Mar 2, 2014

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    If you can't figure it out

    for yourself then why would I tell you?
    Lucienn Lucienn 22-25, T Aug 8, 2014

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    People at school think I just don't talk during

    conversations. like.. no I'm listening to your dumbass conversation and don't want to be in it, thanks.
    wardintheasylum wardintheasylum 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 6

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    Around Me

    I see everything... Everything about everyone. I know that I love her but I can't say anything about it. I know she feels something for me too but I don't know what kind of feeling she feeling for me and that is one of the reason y I can't say something back. The new kid from...
    DaOneandOnlyOne DaOneandOnlyOne 18-21, F Jan 17, 2013

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    I'm still on the background,

    nobody see me. I notice everything, I sad nothing. If you look after you, you see me stand but I say nothing
    VanjaBraat VanjaBraat 13-15, F May 2, 2014

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    I'm an observer, there are plenty of things I

    notice but won't say anything, I'm always on the alert and pay attention.
    AllThatGlitters29 AllThatGlitters29 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    and people, specially my family,

    think that I'm naive and don't get what's going on around me. It's my choice not to react.
    belseg belseg 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    The rumors at school have all started up again

    and seem to be getting worse... I pretend not to notice by either listening to music and reading a book but I still hear them all and hide the pain that some people would believe them. Over the years my face has become like a mask and my true feelings are hidden from the world...
    LoveDontJudge LoveDontJudge 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    The Quiet Ones, Are Always The Most Dangerous

    I'm a very quiet, introverted person. Don't get me wrong, I'm friendly and will talk to people, but I mostly just stand in the corner and watch. People sometimes underestimate me; they think that if I don't talk, I don't pay attention. How wrong they are. It's amazing how much...
    HayBail HayBail 26-30, F Mar 6, 2013

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    why do i say anything?

    nobody cares.
    mandalinasuyu mandalinasuyu 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2014

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    I Really Don'T Know What I Should Do

    My parents have been divorced for a year. My mom was getting money from my dad's disability pay and some up front money so that she wouldn't ask for spousal support. Well, my mom is losing that portion of the money because my younger sister is turning 16. Her boyfriend that she...
    KeiKeiChan KeiKeiChan 18-21, F Jun 4, 2013

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    The people around me often misconstrue my

    shyness as my ignorance. They think I don't get it. Sometimes some people say hurtful things to get a reaction out of me but I stay tongue- tied. I notice their selfishness and manipulations but I don't say anything. I rather ignore than talk rudely to anyone.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    People always tell me I'm really quiet

    or shy, but I'm not. I'm watching and observing. Waiting for someone to make a mistake...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F Aug 19, 2014

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    Just those looking deep recognize an observer,

    maybe coz they also are. I like that word "observer". Reminds me of fhe fantastic show "Fringe" wich I love.
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F Jan 16, 2014

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    I'm very observant by nature.

    I notice things most people overlook. So many people don't notice others when they need help. Or they do, but chose to ignore them and stick with their click( no pun intended).It's a sad commentary but it's true. Selfishness is in the rise, selflessness is fading. Where do you...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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