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I Now Remember Why I Was Afraid to Give My Love to Someone

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    I Actually Believed Him

    I believed him the first time he told me he loves me. Then things went downhill. I saw him break promises, and give his love to his "best friend" but I didn't do anything then. Iwaited and then boom! I broke up with him, but now that we are back together and in November it will...
    Hydergirl4ever Hydergirl4ever 13-15, F Oct 27, 2012

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    Is It Really Better to Have Loved and Lost...

    ... than to have never known love? The age-old question. Right now I have to say No. My beloved of two years ended our relationship 4 months ago, and I'm still having a hellish time trying to get over it. I am 47 years old and have been married twice... but I have never grieved...
    YamiNoSensei YamiNoSensei 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    Fresh Wounds

    I feel like I have to hand out pamphlets to people now before I engage in a full on relationship of any kind lol....even friendship.....something where they can check off what they are or are not like: 1.) are you emotionally unavailable? 2.) do you lie to keep what you are...
    musicalchairs musicalchairs 41-45 2 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    :-(

    When you fall in love it is a marvelous thing.  You feel almost invincible, walking around like nothing can touch you.  However when he leaves you behind it leaves you in darkness, feeling like your heart has been ripped out, and as if there is no emotion left within...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Time to vent or whatever. Enjoy. January 28th, 2014... I met him. Where? Tumblr! Of course. I was typically following back some blogs and answering messages. Well, gosh, I...
    captivateyourlife captivateyourlife 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I see him and her and theyre happy together He makes her happy She makes him happy Its like i dont even cross him mind Hes respectful I appreciate that She a good person I despise...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Well I met this guy online he seemed so nice so we went and met each other and I found out he was nice hot and all that but after 10 minutes of being with him we did a few things u...
    JC6596 JC6596 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F a week ago

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    He was older. He was my friends brother. And oh every girl in school must of wanted him. And gosh I thought I could never impress him. He made me want to like cars and motorcycles...
    Cozie Cozie 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 5

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    I had a first love when I was 14 with a boy. But then I had my first love with a girl. I thought she loved me. I should have known she would never choose me when she would get mad...
    brejack07 brejack07 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    i used to love my dreamboy that was my classmate;all the time i was searching for his attention;in our institute all the boys were looking forward to even just talking with me,and...
    knowmeevery knowmeevery 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I loved someone who wasn't ready to be in love. We were young and I totally understand it now. At the time I felt so empty and I let it all take over my life. I dislike how I dealt...
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    iam very happy to finally be able to tell u my problem and i hope that u can help me with it. iam a fourht year medical student from Tunisia .on my first year at college i liked...
    rola20 rola20 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I have now understand why a 4-year friendship almost went down the drain. I could really say that jealousy is also something that could really kill a good friendship. My buddy...
    erikp08 erikp08 18-21, M Aug 18

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    Who hasn't? i could count...but then i couldn't... But then i have fallen for hot dudes on a tv or laptop screen, and rewind or pause and stare at the pic and sigh, until my heart...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    How awful to love someone who doesn't love you back, at least not in the way you want her to. You are best friends, and you're always there for her her, but she has told you that...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love someone who I can't have
    Universal3xpression Universal3xpression 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm listening to a love song normally listen to Rap and just because I love someone that done't know it Anyone can relate
    MilesMathers MilesMathers 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    About 18 months ago I started a new job and I remember the first time I met my boss I couldn't forget him. I went home and he was all I thought about. He interviewed me said he...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I am a black female US citizen. I was born in Mississippi. I have a bachelor's education in marketing. Through my interactions with society, although I can't recall where I...
    Vikkisses Vikkisses 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Obliterated Heart He loves me he says. I know I love him. I knew that sorry wasn't going to do it. He use to care, he use share his feelings with me, but the love he use to give...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When I was younger I had a huge crush on this boy in my school. It was at that time when the boys hadn't hit puberty yet but some of the girls had, and I was one of the lucky few...
    dontyouforget dontyouforget 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm alone again, single. Bad communication. I didn't think he appreciated me and he didn't think I appreciated him. So sad. Wish I told him how I cared. I'm just so bad with words...
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F Aug 5

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    We were half asleep cuddling face to face, and I could've sworn I heard you say 'I really want to be open with you right now.. I love you' but I soon realized it was one of my half...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    It's been a long time for me not posting anything on this wall. I'm quite busy now since I've got this new job. This new office is also where I met him. Before I start the story...
    NevaWhite NevaWhite 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Well it sucks!! having an infatuation feeling with someone else it feels good. great actually, but I really don't understand, why?! is when you confess your feelings to the"person...
    jayperez89 jayperez89 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Title:Song For You By:GingerSlim (Chorus) I just can't get passed the fact that I lost you Knowing how d*** hard that I tried I would have been there for you baby I blew it and...
    GingerSlimSTL GingerSlimSTL 18-21, M Aug 4

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    Every night you're still beside me, lingering. You're shadow casts a dark cloud above my head; when it's raining, it pours... The showers from my eyes won't fade - neither will my...
    vfashionista86 vfashionista86 26-30, F Aug 22

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    So last night I was trying to get to sleep, but I just couldn't. I was thinking of him...He was the one that got away. He and I had crushes on each other in high school, which we...
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F Aug 24

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    The silence is deafening Echoing in the deepest recesses of my mind Pounding percussion of a mad congoist upon the drums of my ears Forfeit, let go,give up, cede, two decades of...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    I get what people are saying about how absence makes the heart grow stronger... But what are you to do when you have been with someone for 3 years and only see that person once or...
    alwayswondering07 alwayswondering07 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Story of my bloody life I'm afraid. :/
    IncompletelyBroken IncompletelyBroken 41-45, M Aug 5

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    I love four someones with autism. As of this year, my niece and three nephews have all been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder. If you don't know me or haven't read any of my...
    ARestlessSoul ARestlessSoul 26-30 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I've kept a secret from you. You thought that I was perfect, but I'm far from it. I know I'm young and human, but that's no excuse. You my not understand. I don't know if this was...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I recently broke up with my girlfriend (1.5 years) because I found out for half the relationship she was lying about how she felt about me. I thought she was the one. But she went...
    ImNotReallyFine ImNotReallyFine 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Do guys ever fall in love with girls who they are just supposed to be friends with? *sigh* For some reason, I feel like it's impossible for this guy. Like, it's just not gonna...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I loved this girl, I'll call her K. I liked this girl from the beginning of 8th grade and I kinda still have feelings for her. Me and K was in jazz band together and it was 2...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 10

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    His name was Levi. And man, he was so gorgeous. He felt it, the compassion I had for him. The love i was willing to give him, and the care. Yet he acted as although he was...
    caminut caminut 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    August 14, 2014 Thursday Day 2 Since you've left me I have been crying a lot day and night. Waking up is hard and sleeping is almost impossible too. I just want to see you again...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    When I was 16 I fell in love with a very beautiful young man. He purred when he talked and had the sweetest brown curls and doe brown eyes. I can close my eyes to this day and I...
    MonetChere MonetChere 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 17

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    Once I'm free to date, will I? Yes. Until and unless the man I really want makes a commitment to me - I will not tie myself down or make promises. My brain says, "Date other...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    But I love You! Take just one look around me and tell me what you see? Your reflection and my broken hearted me. You claim to love me, but you hurt me at the same time. You say...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I gave you that hand through your time of need. When you fell I sat down and made you laugh until you stood up on your own. I held your hand through the trails of dying leaves and...
    Undeserved Undeserved 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Hahaha it's been so long since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just...
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Aug 6

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    I am engaged and going to get married in December. My fiancé is working in abroad. It’s our arranged marriage. Everything is going well but the problem is that he has a very...
    swatidec30 swatidec30 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 7

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    The person who broke you can’t be the one to fix you. Remember that.
    Ennevi Ennevi 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    It kind of sucks. You don't realize how crappy it is because you've put so much effort in-so clearly anyone would love that, right? Wrong. Loving him was so hard. I might not have...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F Aug 7