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I Now Remember Why I Was Afraid to Give My Love to Someone

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    Fresh Wounds

    I feel like I have to hand out pamphlets to people now before I engage in a full on relationship of any kind lol....even friendship.....something where they can check off what they are or are not like: 1.) are you emotionally unavailable? 2.) do you lie to keep what you are...
    musicalchairs musicalchairs 41-45 2 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    I Actually Believed Him

    I believed him the first time he told me he loves me. Then things went downhill. I saw him break promises, and give his love to his "best friend" but I didn't do anything then. Iwaited and then boom! I broke up with him, but now that we are back together and in November it will...
    Hydergirl4ever Hydergirl4ever 13-15, F Oct 27, 2012

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    Is It Really Better to Have Loved and Lost...

    ... than to have never known love? The age-old question. Right now I have to say No. My beloved of two years ended our relationship 4 months ago, and I'm still having a hellish time trying to get over it. I am 47 years old and have been married twice... but I have never grieved...
    YamiNoSensei YamiNoSensei 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    :-(

    When you fall in love it is a marvelous thing.  You feel almost invincible, walking around like nothing can touch you.  However when he leaves you behind it leaves you in darkness, feeling like your heart has been ripped out, and as if there is no emotion left within...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Evert human being feels alone, feels abandoned, feels unloved, unwanted, unlikeable, a weirdo even At Times... That's why we gotta give Love To eachother anytime, anyway and...
    lonestrong lonestrong 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Time to vent or whatever. Enjoy. January 28th, 2014... I met him. Where? Tumblr! Of course. I was typically following back some blogs and answering messages. Well, gosh, I...
    captivateyourlife captivateyourlife 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    So I was dating a soldier for almost a year (one month from a year when he broke up with me). We were perfectly happy before he let for annual training. Two weeks into it he calls...
    ArmyNakata ArmyNakata 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I love someone who no longer is IN love with me. I believe he loves me cause we have been together to long for him not to but I know hes not in love with me any more because he has...
    devilseye1996 devilseye1996 36-40, F Jul 22

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    Well I met this guy online he seemed so nice so we went and met each other and I found out he was nice hot and all that but after 10 minutes of being with him we did a few things u...
    JC6596 JC6596 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I loved someone for 8yrs, have my whole life to this person but they never appreciated, nor did they see the love I gave them. I went through so much turmoil in those 8 yrs, from...
    Navia55 Navia55 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    He was older. He was my friends brother. And oh every girl in school must of wanted him. And gosh I thought I could never impress him. He made me want to like cars and motorcycles...
    Cozie Cozie 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 5

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    I had a first love when I was 14 with a boy. But then I had my first love with a girl. I thought she loved me. I should have known she would never choose me when she would get mad...
    brejack07 brejack07 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Who hasn't? i could count...but then i couldn't... But then i have fallen for hot dudes on a tv or laptop screen, and rewind or pause and stare at the pic and sigh, until my heart...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I have now understand why a 4-year friendship almost went down the drain. I could really say that jealousy is also something that could really kill a good friendship. My buddy...
    erikp08 erikp08 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    So there's this girl that I've known for just about a week. I met her at this party that was held by my best friends friend whom he met through Instagram. Now she was holding this...
    MartinIsInLove MartinIsInLove 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I recently broke up with my girlfriend (1.5 years) because I found out for half the relationship she was lying about how she felt about me. I thought she was the one. But she went...
    ImNotReallyFine ImNotReallyFine 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    Dear You, I'm writing you to let you know what's on my mind. I'm not going to lie at one time I loved you, so much to the point It was suffocating me. I was crazy for you, head...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 14 hrs ago

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    So I thought I was over this guy, finally, but I saw him today and he doubled back in the hall just I say hi to me and he grew his beautiful hair back and I'm done for. Ive got a...
    HorizonHeart HorizonHeart 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Why is now in days that we (people in general), always have to find a way to prove our undying love for one another? What happen to " I LOVE YOU", or "YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? I...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I am a black female US citizen. I was born in Mississippi. I have a bachelor's education in marketing. Through my interactions with society, although I can't recall where I...
    Vikkisses Vikkisses 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm Super confused right now. My fiancé and I are fighting constantly and in our recent argument I believe I crossed the line in saying something that I regret and that was very...
    wishingforabetteroutcome wishingforabetteroutcome 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    Today I made and *** of myself. I said something I shouldn't. I'm in love with this girl that means the world to me, and I screwed up. I hope she forgives me, because I never meant...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M Jul 31

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    I'm alone again, single. Bad communication. I didn't think he appreciated me and he didn't think I appreciated him. So sad. Wish I told him how I cared. I'm just so bad with words...
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F Aug 5

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    We were half asleep cuddling face to face, and I could've sworn I heard you say 'I really want to be open with you right now.. I love you' but I soon realized it was one of my half...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's been a long time for me not posting anything on this wall. I'm quite busy now since I've got this new job. This new office is also where I met him. Before I start the story...
    NevaWhite NevaWhite 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hey guys, I need relationship opinions or advice. I've been really confused if part of the troubles of the relationship is on me or him. At the moment i'am in a relationship for 6...
    nixielizabeth nixielizabeth 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 21

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    Title:Song For You By:GingerSlim (Chorus) I just can't get passed the fact that I lost you Knowing how d*** hard that I tried I would have been there for you baby I blew it and...
    GingerSlimSTL GingerSlimSTL 13-15, M Aug 4

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    So here is my story .. My first story on here in fact ... So i was on instagram. A weird way to meet someone but yeah instagram. He liked all of my pictures all 100 when i had...
    Nayaaa Nayaaa 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    3 years of being with a man I was besotted with. We went everywhere together I didn't do anything without him. He always kept me where he wanted me, and alienated me from my...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm in love with a guy I used to live with. He lives about 20 hours drive away , so we never see each other anymore. We did however see each other recently and we ended up getting...
    Nomi1992 Nomi1992 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Hey guys! :) I just recently broke up with my boyfriend who was emotionally and physically abusive to me. He had abused every part of me....mentally, physically, sexually and...
    nixielizabeth nixielizabeth 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 29

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    I get what people are saying about how absence makes the heart grow stronger... But what are you to do when you have been with someone for 3 years and only see that person once or...
    alwayswondering07 alwayswondering07 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Story of my bloody life I'm afraid. :/
    IncompletelyBroken IncompletelyBroken 41-45, M Aug 5

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    I love four someones with autism. As of this year, my niece and three nephews have all been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder. If you don't know me or haven't read any of my...
    ARestlessSoul ARestlessSoul 26-30 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've kept a secret from you. You thought that I was perfect, but I'm far from it. I know I'm young and human, but that's no excuse. You my not understand. I don't know if this was...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Ugh. Falling in love with your best friend sucks 😔
    djjd123 djjd123 13-15, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I think at one point in a person's life, they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens...
    Faithlovee Faithlovee 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    It started with good friendship and letting her open up freely and she become close to hearts and I a changed the way I user to think of her and she became more than friend... N...
    Man4luv2u Man4luv2u 41-45, M Jul 26

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    I loved this girl, I'll call her K. I liked this girl from the beginning of 8th grade and I kinda still have feelings for her. Me and K was in jazz band together and it was 2...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 10

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    His name was Levi. And man, he was so gorgeous. He felt it, the compassion I had for him. The love i was willing to give him, and the care. Yet he acted as although he was...
    caminut caminut 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    August 14, 2014 Thursday Day 2 Since you've left me I have been crying a lot day and night. Waking up is hard and sleeping is almost impossible too. I just want to see you again...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I was 16 I fell in love with a very beautiful young man. He purred when he talked and had the sweetest brown curls and doe brown eyes. I can close my eyes to this day and I...
    MonetChere MonetChere 22-25, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    My question is, why does someone act so crazy for you one day then poof they disappear? It's like if you actually were crazy for me it would last more than one day.. That's like...
    auburnfire auburnfire 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    Hahaha it's been so long since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just...
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Aug 6

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    I am engaged and going to get married in December. My fiancé is working in abroad. It’s our arranged marriage. Everything is going well but the problem is that he has a very...
    swatidec30 swatidec30 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 7

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    The person who broke you can’t be the one to fix you. Remember that.
    Ennevi Ennevi 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    It kind of sucks. You don't realize how crappy it is because you've put so much effort in-so clearly anyone would love that, right? Wrong. Loving him was so hard. I might not have...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F Aug 7

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