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I Now Remember Why I Was Afraid to Give My Love to Someone

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    Fresh Wounds

    I feel like I have to hand out pamphlets to people now before I engage in a full on relationship of any kind lol....even friendship.....something where they can check off what they are or are not like: 1.) are you emotionally unavailable? 2.) do you lie to keep what you are...
    musicalchairs musicalchairs 41-45 2 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Is It Really Better to Have Loved and Lost...

    ... than to have never known love? The age-old question. Right now I have to say No. My beloved of two years ended our relationship 4 months ago, and I'm still having a hellish time trying to get over it. I am 47 years old and have been married twice... but I have never grieved...
    YamiNoSensei YamiNoSensei 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    I Actually Believed Him

    I believed him the first time he told me he loves me. Then things went downhill. I saw him break promises, and give his love to his "best friend" but I didn't do anything then. Iwaited and then boom! I broke up with him, but now that we are back together and in November it will...
    Hydergirl4ever Hydergirl4ever 13-15, F Oct 27, 2012

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    :-(

    When you fall in love it is a marvelous thing.  You feel almost invincible, walking around like nothing can touch you.  However when he leaves you behind it leaves you in darkness, feeling like your heart has been ripped out, and as if there is no emotion left within...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have known this person for about 5 or 6 years. I won't say how I met him because it will give away who he is and how I know him. When we first met, I was afraid to talk to him or...
    BreeRenee2 BreeRenee2 18-21, F Sep 10

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    Did you ever love someone who didn't returned you love? Yes that's very, very sad! :( But what if you are afraid to confess your feelings to that someone, it is even more difficult...
    delfin13 delfin13 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I should be mad at you. Because really you don't care. You were just pretending you care but your actions shows you don't care a bit. But the fool that I am kept on feeling this...
    Samwan Samwan 26-30, F Sep 5

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    I see him and her and theyre happy together He makes her happy She makes him happy Its like i dont even cross him mind Hes respectful I appreciate that She a good person I despise...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F Aug 31

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F Aug 25

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    i used to love my dreamboy that was my classmate;all the time i was searching for his attention;in our institute all the boys were looking forward to even just talking with me,and...
    knowmeevery knowmeevery 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I loved someone who wasn't ready to be in love. We were young and I totally understand it now. At the time I felt so empty and I let it all take over my life. I dislike how I dealt...
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    iam very happy to finally be able to tell u my problem and i hope that u can help me with it. iam a fourht year medical student from Tunisia .on my first year at college i liked...
    rola20 rola20 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    He was kind of my childhood love, but I always thought more of us than he did. He led me on but I should have known, with the fact that he never wanted to be exclusive with me. But...
    staytrue123 staytrue123 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ah this is the worse experience in my life to be honest. A while a go my best friend went to Ibiza to work for a few months and in that time I became really good friends with his...
    jaymes14 jaymes14 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    As it says, I loved someone who didn't love me. I tried to fight my feeling from the beginning and stay friends. It didn't help. My jealousy got the best of me and I eventually...
    IrMe IrMe 26-30, M Sep 3

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    around my age of 18, i loved a girl 10 yrs older than me. She is very beautiful and most of the person know her coz of her beauty in my little town.. I felt excited. and shaked...
    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    How awful to love someone who doesn't love you back, at least not in the way you want her to. You are best friends, and you're always there for her her, but she has told you that...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I'm listening to a love song normally listen to Rap and just because I love someone that done't know it Anyone can relate
    MilesMathers MilesMathers 13-15, M Sep 1

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    I love someone who I can't have
    Universal3xpression Universal3xpression 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    It is never wrong to love someone, but it's the way we love that makes it "wrong".
    OliviaOcean OliviaOcean 18-21, F Sep 8

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    Your hair, your face, your beautiful eyes...I want to tell you how strikingly beautiful you are every day, but I can't. Because you have someone in your life already, even though...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    About 18 months ago I started a new job and I remember the first time I met my boss I couldn't forget him. I went home and he was all I thought about. He interviewed me said he...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    When I was younger I had a huge crush on this boy in my school. It was at that time when the boys hadn't hit puberty yet but some of the girls had, and I was one of the lucky few...
    dontyouforget dontyouforget 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Obliterated Heart He loves me he says. I know I love him. I knew that sorry wasn't going to do it. He use to care, he use share his feelings with me, but the love he use to give...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Well it sucks!! having an infatuation feeling with someone else it feels good. great actually, but I really don't understand, why?! is when you confess your feelings to the"person...
    jayperez89 jayperez89 22-25, M Sep 1

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    Yea so I met this guy online at the same time i was fighting depression and bullshit from my family . We spoke we chated we dated . little did I know that my little friend was a...
    tyrahkan tyrahkan 22-25 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Every night you're still beside me, lingering. You're shadow casts a dark cloud above my head; when it's raining, it pours... The showers from my eyes won't fade - neither will my...
    vfashionista86 vfashionista86 26-30, F Aug 22

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    So last night I was trying to get to sleep, but I just couldn't. I was thinking of him...He was the one that got away. He and I had crushes on each other in high school, which we...
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F Aug 24

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    The silence is deafening Echoing in the deepest recesses of my mind Pounding percussion of a mad congoist upon the drums of my ears Forfeit, let go,give up, cede, two decades of...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M Aug 27

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    I can't see your face in my head. ..I can't remember you in a dream. . I've erased every file. ..I've burnt every letter......I've don't remember your words or hear your voice If...
    toehold toehold 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    Do guys ever fall in love with girls who they are just supposed to be friends with? *sigh* For some reason, I feel like it's impossible for this guy. Like, it's just not gonna...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 27

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    My experience is a bit different to a lot of people, I met the young gentleman that I'm inlove with four years ago when he was dating my cousin he had always told me he had...
    GoldenLove13 GoldenLove13 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Once I'm free to date, will I? Yes. Until and unless the man I really want makes a commitment to me - I will not tie myself down or make promises. My brain says, "Date other...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    But I love You! Take just one look around me and tell me what you see? Your reflection and my broken hearted me. You claim to love me, but you hurt me at the same time. You say...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Aug 30

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    I gave you that hand through your time of need. When you fell I sat down and made you laugh until you stood up on your own. I held your hand through the trails of dying leaves and...
    Undeserved Undeserved 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    My boyfriend is in prison, it has been 7 months so far. I am new to this and I feel completely alone. Even when I try to open up to people its hard, they can't understand fully...
    AlyLand8716 AlyLand8716 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Unrequited love sucks. I know so much about it because it literally is the story of my life. Right now, it just feels like I'm drowning. Drowning in sad emotions, painful thoughts...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I feel in love with one of my best friends best friends and my my best friend pushed me into telling him how I felt about him so I did then he told me that he likes me too and now...
    MomijiSohma1999 MomijiSohma1999 13-15, F a week ago

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    When I look at the title the first person that pops in my mind was my teenage crush. I gave him my enitre self. The only way that I knew how to. I remember when I finally realized...
    sandmoon sandmoon 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    well i have mention about my ex urooj my first love who broke me apart and left me all alone . after urooj i met a girl on ep her name is maimoona. she is the most wonderfull...
    hasank hasank 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    August 31, 2014 Sunday I've realized that in our 10years of being together maybe I give too much, there wasn't anything else for him to take and he got tired of me making him my...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I feel stupid for saying this but I got rejected five years ago and it still hurts. I don't why...I've been rejected before and I'm nt sure why this one is so painful and different...
    sadmoon sadmoon 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Hmmmm... Truth hurts sometimes kill me . I know she's don't love me again. She even not remember me either. Wake up Taqi! Urgh
    red4x red4x 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I met him in high school and we baca me good good good friends you would say we loved each other like family he would do anything for me but one day I was with him just hanging out...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I'm sitting my car and crying.. Finally grieving my breakup.. Feeling rejected sucks.. But I really want to get stronger and be better. Unfortunately, I made a mistake with having...
    ShellBellem ShellBellem 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I know you can never let go of your so called best friend. I know you still have feelings for her, I know you still love her. Why did you stay with me and see me get hurt? It's...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    All these while I was trying to find the reasons why he can't be happy with me no matter how hard I tried and only after three years being with him and he somehow dropped the hints...
    whimsicalxx whimsicalxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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