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I Often Feel Ignored

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    Often? more like always.

    Yet I've gotten to the point where I'm used to it and it doesn't bother me anymore. I'm not worth anyone's time, I'm just a filler friend.
    carazami carazami 16-17 1 Response Oct 18, 2015

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    Nobody Knows Me

    I feel like the people who know me really don't know me. Either they don't care or they don't want to hear what I have to say. I have pretty well given up on the idea of having friends that really understand me. I have connected a bit with some people but this is online...
    lilystrange lilystrange 41-45, F Feb 11, 2009

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    I Don't Feel It. I Am Ignored.

    This of course relates to my life offline. For some reason people ignore me. I say something and its like they nod their head and acknowledge for two seconds and then back to ignore me. For some reason I'm also very forgettable. I remember when I use to take out the dog, people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    I don't want to say I hate it,

    and it might just be my interpretation, the world looks strange in my eyes, I try to believe everyone loves me, cus I received lots of bday wishes, but I sometimes feel being really ignored. When I was crying on the train heading downtown yesterday, I was upset about how my...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    I don't blame anyone

    for ignoring me. I wouldn't want to talk to me either. I get mad sometimes, but I shouldn't be pissed at them. I completely understand, I deserve it. I'm okay with being ignored, I know no one wants to talk to me. I'm a screw up, I mess up everything. 😪
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2014

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    I'm always second best with everything.

    All I want to do is be able to show someone how much love I have. I'm not one to complain so I will keep quiet. What's new.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 19, 2015

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    When you see a good looking person

    but you know they don't see you as anything :/
    ThisIsMe987 ThisIsMe987 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2015

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    I don't think, I'm a bad person.

    Yes, I make mistakes but I really try to be nice to people, to help them, be there for them but... they don't really appriciate it. They can easily ignore me the next day and act like we're not friends, like we don't even know each other. And when I need a shoulder to cry on...
    PorcelainDoll98 PorcelainDoll98 16-17, F 1 Response May 17, 2015

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    My whole life, this is how I've felt.

    Even when I was little, I felt like everyone preferred my sister and I didn't have many friends. I was like an outcast, always by myself and in my head. I've always been a loner, and I think I'll always be a loner. I know people just thought I was a dweeb or a geek or I didn't...
    chevander chevander 18-21 1 day ago

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    But Why Do I Care?

    I've always known that people don't care about me and I've always known that people don't see much in me. Why the heck do I keep trying anyway? I'm just a weak and pathetic person. I'm probably the most expendable person on earth. Maybe I should just die and get it over with...
    girlanonymous girlanonymous 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    Forgotten

    Everyone seems to ignore me. Everytime I try to say something someone cuts me off and everyone listens to them.. as if I weren't even talking.. I makes me feel sick.. Those kind of things drive me crazy.. It happens alot in my family. Everytime I try to tell them something...
    DetachedCitizen DetachedCitizen 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    Silent

    I often feel like my voice isn't heard. Between my family, my friends, the guy Im seeing.. Sometimes I feel like no one cares about what I have to say. Maybe they aren't ignoring, maybe they just don't care. My friends seem to come and go when they seem to care. And the guy Im...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 19, 2012

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    Sometimes in school or at parties I look around

    and see my friends with their other friends while I sit at a table or stand by a wall alone.Then I become desolated just knowing that I'm only existent when people need me to be. How the only way I can get people's attention is by acting like a moron and making an *** of myself...
    DexterPyro DexterPyro 13-15, M Oct 5, 2015

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    Totally!

    I feel ignored..I used to feel ignored when I was little, when my mum and dad broke up and I was with my mum, she was on so many pills that she didn't even know I was there most of the time, she'd just tell me to run off and play, occasionally she'd be in an obsessive mood and...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F Dec 22, 2010

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    I Am...Needy?

    I feel ignored and isolated sometimes. Sometimes, there is a very good reason for feeling this. Other times, I become used to this emotion, this feeling of betrayal and hopelessness and isolation, when I really am not being ignored. To stop this, I try to write myself a list...
    AzaleaMay AzaleaMay 36-40, F Aug 14, 2013

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    Isn't it funny how the monsters

    that used to be under your bed or in your closet suddenly crawled inside your head and became you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 12, 2015

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    Why am I never heard?

    It has become the given that everyone talks over me especially at work. People who I think care don't hear what I say. I tend to keep my thoughts to myself more and more. I have conversations in my mind as it feels better to do that than attempt to talk to someone and just...
    IllusiveLittleMe IllusiveLittleMe 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2015

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    So, I was over at my boyfriend's house this

    evening. His brother ended up coming in from his college. He scared the daylights out of us, because he was sitting behind us in silence for about 10mins, and at the end of the movie we were watching he whispered "how precious." The reaction quickly escalated to my boyfriend...
    mkmoore mkmoore 18-21, F Sep 30, 2014

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    Do You Think That Silence Makes A Good Man Convert?

    Everyday I sit in my bed and think about how my life is. And I wonder why no one cares about me. What is so wrong with me, that not one person can just stop and say, "Hey, are you okay?" Does no one see my cries for help? Does no one see this scars on my body? Does anyone notice...
    DetachedCitizen DetachedCitizen 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 20, 2011

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    So Young..

    I feel ignored by my husband. Im so lonley all the time. He's always hanging out with this person, going here and there and he forgets to make time for me. he only shows me affection when i bring it up and say HELLO. you have a wife over here.. then he will show me affection for...
    turtlemom turtlemom 22-25 Mar 22, 2012

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    I Often Feel Ignored

    Sometime there's someone near me and I say something and I get no response that's when I feel ignored.  Or sometimes I'm amidst a group of people they converse with everyone but me  then I feel ignored.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 66-70 Feb 9, 2012

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    Especially In Conversations.

      I can honestly say tat I’ve not felt this way on EP, but in real life it is a common feeling that I have.   I can’t even begin to count the number of times that I feel like I’ve been ignored, especially during conversations. I’ll begin...
    lifeslife08 lifeslife08 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    I feel like I'm the kind of person

    that everyone thinks is always happy and always there to make other people happy but it's so hard sometimes because no one expects me to be down or fail anything and when I do people act angry with me
    abby9305 abby9305 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2015

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    I Often Feel Ignored

    i often feel ignored even though that isnt true always
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    i feel like people dont listen

    or want to hear what i have to say.
    psfromthestars psfromthestars 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2015

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    I Must Be Running In Stealth Mode

    Lately I feel like I'm completely invisible.My long-time friend came to visit last Thursday and I kid you not, she was talking before she came through the door and didn't stop until she was walking out the door 8 hours later.She spent hours telling me about her issues at work...
    rollingwithhusky rollingwithhusky 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    little things like paying

    for my fuel and waiting in line for the one clerk to deal with the customers in front while the other clerk hides in the back until, obviously, it's my turn to be seen. I'm sure there were reasons but it just made me wonder if I generally repulse people. I'm not deformed or...
    theBIT theBIT 26-30, M Nov 5, 2015

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    Stop Ignoring Me

    Okay Kids these are my rules: MOMS RULES If I cook it~you will eat it If I buy it~you will wear it If I wash it~you will put it away If I clean it~you will keep it clean If I say bedtime~you will say good night If I say get off the phone~you will hang up If I say no~you don't...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    Why Does Their Ignorance Hurt Me?

    I’m beginning to reach the point where I want to give up. To be honest, I’ve felt like this for the past few years, but it’s only recently that this feeling’s really started to settle in. I feel let down, and I’m not sure who to trust anymore. I feel...
    Abyssopelagic Abyssopelagic 18-21 3 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    Here we are, all together

    and alone at the same time.....
    HollowSoul1971 HollowSoul1971 41-45, M Nov 15, 2014

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    Am I Invisible Or What?

    i feel that 90% of the time im being ignored, wether it be in school or at home. I mean is it so hard to listen to what I have to say. For example, i was at home the other day and my family was ordering out. They asked everyone what they wanted but when i told them what i...
    xxbriannaxx xxbriannaxx 18-21, F Apr 16, 2010

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    Whatever....

    I know most people don't like me and wonder why I don't talk much. I know you will read this and not comment. I'm used to that. So go ahead and judge... I know that I'm unique. Go ahead and try to ignore me because I'm different! I didn't do a damnn thing to you. Go ahead and try...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 4 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    I hate being in a group.

    .. I'm inevitably the odd one out. It's always been this way. In school, I was stuck in groups that didn't even want me in projects. I took a cooking class, and I was the one stuck with clean up because no one cared if I got to cook. In PE, I was the last one left for teams...
    ImaginaryAlchemist ImaginaryAlchemist 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2015

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    By those who are supposed to love me.

    It's exhausting being so alone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 26, 2015

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    Communicate... Is That Really So Difficult?!

    For months now I've been planning a baby shower for my youngest niece. I've written about the difficulties this has caused for myself and my family on my other blog pages, so I'm not going to go into it here... but what I am going to write about here is the incredibly...
    rollingwithhusky rollingwithhusky 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2011

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    I've always been ignored.

    . Anytime I'm with my friends, someone says "you're really pretty" to both of my friends but never says it to me. Anytime I'm at cheer practice I get shoved aside unless they really need me to practice something with them. Sometimes when we need to carpool, the coaches will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 26, 2015

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    No Matter What I Do, What I Say...

    ...I must be worthless. I cannot reach people. It must be me. some people are good at getting what they want. I am not.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    I hate when people start ignoring.

    It pierces the heart like a double edged sword. It's hard to get back to normal. Oh why does this happen :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 8, 2015

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