I Often Feel Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 287 People

    I always try to be fair with everybody

    and everything . But it seems like when it comes to me people don't think twice about ******* me over . It be the people I give everything too that turn around and act like they don't at least owe me a thank you. I'm just really tired of bein used when other people are...
    DetStable DetStable
    26-30, M
    Aug 30, 2015

    Adrian is a horny bastard

    that should die
    hdjsjakajsj hdjsjakajsj
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 23, 2014


    I always feel used...it's kind of a given anymore. I'm either being used by my family as the go between. Infact that's the only time they're really loving toward me. When they need to use me for their own needs. I get used by guys at an abnormally weird rate. So often that I don...
    pinkspikes pinkspikes
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2007

    Why Me?i Thought He Loved My Mother

    i want to let you guys know before you read this this is true!i put it as story cause its long!!. my moms boyfriend raped me lastnight II knew somthing was up last year a red flag hit me. One day i was just in my rooom he walked in and started touching me my mom was at work...
    kim304 kim304
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2012

    What It Feels Like

    I've always felt like I've constantly been being used. The sad part of it all is how I cannot speak up or tell these people to stop using me. I'm scared that if I tell them anything, I will surely tell them something that will make them leave. If they leave, I will be left even...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2013


    ... one dirty **** after another.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Mar 14, 2011

    I Feel Like a Lot of People On...

    I feel like a lot of people only bother me because I give them good advice and have a hard time saying no.  Even when I do turn and say no, its like they keep coming back.  I have my own issues to grapple with, and I just simply can't handle anyone else's anymore.
    thehypnotoad thehypnotoad
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 23, 2007
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029
    18-21, F
    Jun 6, 2014

    Most of the Time

    Yes I have been used by friends and women... You try and try to be nice and do things for ppl and you get screwed in the end....... SO is life. If you dont like what life deals you then fold and wait for the next hand... Update: Also I have always told all my friends to...
    redman redman
    46-50, M
    20 Responses Jan 13, 2008

    I'm 14. I stay at home watching two kids 24/7

    and They're only two. Sometimes I just want to run away. Then, maybe just maybe, they'd understand how much I hate my life. It's worse enough everywhere else, so why should I have to sit at home watching kids that aren't even mine? I should be able to have a life, go out and...
    fayeinanightmare fayeinanightmare
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2014

    Used Sadly

    I have been used all of my life. No one comes over to visit just to visit me. They knock on the door and ask if I could do something for them. It's mostly about looking up something on the internet. I get all thrilled I have a friend visiting, but it's only using me to get what...
    Intel Intel
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2008

    Why I Say This

    So through my whole highschool cource i was realy inlove with my friends sister i did tell her how i feel about her but she saw me as a brother she made my life difficult due to her showing intrest in me when i dated other girls, she would only phone me when she needed something...
    DasGoldfisht DasGoldfisht
    18-21, M
    May 30, 2012


    I let someone get close to me. Every time I'm vulnerable around someone, or trust them, they hurt me, they use me. Physically or mentally it's all the same. Well you win. I've got nothing left to give. So stop asking for more.  
    TheBlimey TheBlimey
    18-21, F
    Oct 26, 2008

    For Utilitarian Purposes Only

    That is how I feel. It is only rarely that I feel valued or needed as a person. Usually, I am only needed for the material things that I can provide, or my skill at academic requirements. Otherwise... I have no other use. I am no good at cheering people up, I am not a joker, I...
    NCMErratica NCMErratica
    22-25, F
    Nov 29, 2013

    So it's been three days

    and none of my 'regular' IRL contacts has hmu for anything...money says the next time it'll be for money...
    SShawnO SShawnO
    41-45, M
    May 6, 2014

    It seems that daily, I receive more

    and more evidence from all the people around me IRL that I'm only here for other's needs and I'm completely irrelevant otherwise. Feels good to be alive. (*** I need a hug)
    SShawnO SShawnO
    41-45, M
    1 Response May 15, 2014

    More like all the time

    and its weird. Im used to feel used
    IrwinsScars IrwinsScars
    18-21, F
    Aug 25, 2014

    Shoulder to Cry On, Never Vise Versa

    I feel that people only befriend me when they need comfort, then they turn around and leave again whenever they've gotten what they wanted. I have friends, yes, but most of them just act like they're my best friend all of a sudden because I give really good advice. It...
    Barriers Barriers
    18-21, F
    Sep 10, 2009


    My kindness is indeed a weakness.. At least thats what I think. When I try to be nice I'm walked on. When I want to express my feelings, they are tossed out the window. When i put my heart into something or someone..its stepped on and shattered. W.H.Y? I thought that kindness...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2011
    Kazana88 Kazana88
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 15, 2014

    All My Life

    there never been day in my life where i havent been used feel like a old door mate ever time i open my mouth told to  shut up no friends at all family has nothing much to do with me i try just to keep to myself the rest of my life
    makemecry makemecry
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 24, 2008

    Story of My Life :(

    Yes it makes me feel better when I help people...but sometimes, it goes way beyond my control and I feel like I've been used...I hate feeling used. I would go nutts if someone needed me and they didn't tell me, I admit it...but you can't take me for granted. Sometimes I feel like...
    Harmonyyy Harmonyyy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 9, 2007

    My Meyers-Briggs personality profile is ISFJ

    and I often find myself feeling used by others. I am very compassionate and go out of my way to help friends and family. As I grow older, I feel more and more like I'm being used. People never ask if I might need help or support. I often feel lonely and abandoned by the ones...
    OML1971 OML1971
    Sep 1, 2015
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