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I Often Feel Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 290 People

    Adrian is a horny bastard

    that should die
    hdjsjakajsj hdjsjakajsj 13-15, M Nov 23, 2014

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    Most of the Time

    Yes I have been used by friends and women... You try and try to be nice and do things for ppl and you get screwed in the end....... SO is life. If you dont like what life deals you then fold and wait for the next hand... Update: Also I have always told all my friends to...
    redman redman 46-50, M 20 Responses Jan 13, 2008

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    What It Feels Like

    I've always felt like I've constantly been being used. The sad part of it all is how I cannot speak up or tell these people to stop using me. I'm scared that if I tell them anything, I will surely tell them something that will make them leave. If they leave, I will be left even...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2013

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    Shoulder to Cry On, Never Vise Versa

    I feel that people only befriend me when they need comfort, then they turn around and leave again whenever they've gotten what they wanted. I have friends, yes, but most of them just act like they're my best friend all of a sudden because I give really good advice. It...
    Barriers Barriers 16-17, F Sep 10, 2009

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    So it's been three days

    and none of my 'regular' IRL contacts has hmu for anything...money says the next time it'll be for money...
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M May 6, 2014

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    It seems that daily, I receive more

    and more evidence from all the people around me IRL that I'm only here for other's needs and I'm completely irrelevant otherwise. Feels good to be alive. (*** I need a hug)
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M 2 Responses May 15, 2014

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    Kazana88 Kazana88 26-30, F 1 Response May 15, 2014

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    Why Me?i Thought He Loved My Mother

    i want to let you guys know before you read this this is true!i put it as story cause its long!!. my moms boyfriend raped me lastnight II knew somthing was up last year a red flag hit me. One day i was just in my rooom he walked in and started touching me my mom was at work...
    kim304 kim304 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2012

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    Why I Say This

    So through my whole highschool cource i was realy inlove with my friends sister i did tell her how i feel about her but she saw me as a brother she made my life difficult due to her showing intrest in me when i dated other girls, she would only phone me when she needed something...
    DasGoldfisht DasGoldfisht 18-21, M May 30, 2012

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    I'm 14. I stay at home watching two kids 24/7

    and They're only two. Sometimes I just want to run away. Then, maybe just maybe, they'd understand how much I hate my life. It's worse enough everywhere else, so why should I have to sit at home watching kids that aren't even mine? I should be able to have a life, go out and...
    fayeinanightmare fayeinanightmare 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2014

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    All My Life

    there never been day in my life where i havent been used feel like a old door mate ever time i open my mouth told to  shut up no friends at all family has nothing much to do with me i try just to keep to myself the rest of my life
    makemecry makemecry 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Shattered.

    My kindness is indeed a weakness.. At least thats what I think. When I try to be nice I'm walked on. When I want to express my feelings, they are tossed out the window. When i put my heart into something or someone..its stepped on and shattered. W.H.Y? I thought that kindness...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 22, 2011

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    Used Sadly

    I have been used all of my life. No one comes over to visit just to visit me. They knock on the door and ask if I could do something for them. It's mostly about looking up something on the internet. I get all thrilled I have a friend visiting, but it's only using me to get what...
    Intel Intel 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 13, 2008

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    For Utilitarian Purposes Only

    That is how I feel. It is only rarely that I feel valued or needed as a person. Usually, I am only needed for the material things that I can provide, or my skill at academic requirements. Otherwise... I have no other use. I am no good at cheering people up, I am not a joker, I...
    NCMErratica NCMErratica 18-21, F Nov 29, 2013

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    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F Jun 6, 2014

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    Story of My Life :(

    Yes it makes me feel better when I help people...but sometimes, it goes way beyond my control and I feel like I've been used...I hate feeling used. I would go nutts if someone needed me and they didn't tell me, I admit it...but you can't take me for granted. Sometimes I feel like...
    Harmonyyy Harmonyyy 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    ...

    ... one dirty **** after another.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 13 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    More like all the time

    and its weird. Im used to feel used
    IrwinsScars IrwinsScars 16-17, F Aug 25, 2014

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    I Feel Like a Lot of People On...

    I feel like a lot of people only bother me because I give them good advice and have a hard time saying no.  Even when I do turn and say no, its like they keep coming back.  I have my own issues to grapple with, and I just simply can't handle anyone else's anymore.
    thehypnotoad thehypnotoad 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2007

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    I'm the Kind of Person ...

    I'm the kind of person that realizes how much a person means to me.  And, it sometimes feels like they just talk to me because I'm there and there is no one else.  I'm simply a time-filler..
    sirrahsara sirrahsara 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Everytime..

    I let someone get close to me. Every time I'm vulnerable around someone, or trust them, they hurt me, they use me. Physically or mentally it's all the same. Well you win. I've got nothing left to give. So stop asking for more.  
    TheBlimey TheBlimey 18-21, F Oct 26, 2008

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    Always....

    I always feel used...it's kind of a given anymore. I'm either being used by my family as the go between. Infact that's the only time they're really loving toward me. When they need to use me for their own needs. I get used by guys at an abnormally weird rate. So often that I don...
    pinkspikes pinkspikes 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    ShadowWater ShadowWater 13-15, F 46 mins ago

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    I feel myself changing in amazing ways. Someone on here had a deep impact on my life. I love what they did for me....they made a better father, son, business leader, neighbour...
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    Oh wow! I thought I was the weird one and considered hiring a therapist but it looks like I'm not. I've an amazing mother and had a loving father. Growing up, they took care of...
    alphabrownie alphabrownie 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    every time I walk into public I feel like I'm not supposed to be there, like everyone sees me and knows I don't belong there, even among like minded people I feel completely out of...
    Azureal Azureal 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I felt like crying but nothing came out. It was just a sort of sad sickness, sick sad, when you can't feel any worse. I think you know it. I think everybody knows it now and then...
    raiee raiee 26-30 2 days ago

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    This has been happening for a long time now. I tried to talk to my friends and family, but they've never really actually talked about it. (Please excuse any confusion or awkward...
    ohgodijustneedausername ohgodijustneedausername 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Im extremely tired and depressed. I cant sleep now without waking up from dreams or just feeling tired no matter what. I hate going to bed after 5am. Im always tired even in the...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Psychedelics and Moving On: So I'm at a point where I am ready to let go and take a break from my social group. I've been in denial and making excuses as to why things have been...
    elodiedreams elodiedreams 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    i'm sorry but i need to get this off my chest i don't know how to explain this i get angry when people tell me 'god will help you just don't let go' well he let go of me and let me...
    shysnowwhite shysnowwhite 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    I am so hungry. But what to eat? I don't know. Why make this body needing to eat so often but don't serve me food so often? I wonder how some people can overeat? There is really...
    ExileMyself ExileMyself 26-30, F Jul 24

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    I often wonder why I exist I have no friends irl that are my age and the ones I did have either are gone or were never really my friends in the first place . Even my husband who...
    SilverSpiritWolf32 SilverSpiritWolf32 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I'm a lonely ungrateful housewife. I love my husband to pieces, I adore him! I'd have sex with him everyday if he felt like it. I feel like I have a higher sex drive than him. I...
    Sarahi7 Sarahi7 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I too often find myself feeling like I don't fit in. At home,at work, pretty much anywhere. I feel like some people change or alter their personality or appereance just to fit in...
    YslcXO YslcXO 22-25, F Jul 20

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    Always, when I try talking to people I just get ignored like I'm not even there, especially when there is more than one person, if I'm talking or saying anything I just get pushed...
    Fred363 Fred363 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    i have to find a reason to live of a fast way to end it all.....im sick of this earth
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    The pain of just living, this pain grew immensely in the last 3 years for me. But now I'm at my limit, I want my end to come soon. Why am I even enduring a life of loneliness and...
    Calamityy Calamityy 22-25, M Jul 18

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    I think the worst part about feeling alone, for me at least, is when you're in class and you're told to pick a partner, and everyone has a partner except you. That feeling is the...
    amaxv amaxv 13-15, F Jul 18

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    Hang on, let me say something. Why. Why, do we strive to have an education, amazing job, money, perfect family. Stuff like that, when in the end, it doesn't matter. We LIVE to...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm kinda afraid of using social media cause It makes me feel like a loner/loser looking at ppl having fun
    Violetlolla2 Violetlolla2 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I just don't feel like I have even a small amount of emotion in life. My few friends don't tend to interact with eachother much and especially not with me. I often just play games...
    sherlockandtherest sherlockandtherest 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    People don't want me. I'm just not someone people want on their team. People just want me to go away whenever I try to join anything. I usually just play by myself in the grass...
    Shilfer Shilfer 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I am hungry now but don't want to go out to hunt for food. I just get tired of huntng for food so often and think why the body needs food so often. Of course if there is a food...
    ExileMyself ExileMyself 26-30, F Jul 17