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    I Get Compared To Others

    It's so annoying being compared to someone you are not and never will be. It's pointless. I am often compared to my cousin, brother..my brother's wife, to someone's daughter or a friend. They are constantly telling me that way I am not good enough. I feel more and more irritated...
    lovelessbutterfly lovelessbutterfly 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2010

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