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I Often Get Compared To Others

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    I Get Compared To Others

    It's so annoying being compared to someone you are not and never will be. It's pointless. I am often compared to my cousin, brother..my brother's wife, to someone's daughter or a friend. They are constantly telling me that way I am not good enough. I feel more and more irritated...
    lovelessbutterfly lovelessbutterfly 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2010

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    The lunatics are in my halls.... The EP halls of the internet. Welcome to madness and comical rage. Alyce is about to get krunk on some bish.... behind her back.... on an anonymous website..... where no one she really knows will ever really see..... BUT DAMNATIONS I MUST SPEW...
    AlyceOverTheRainbow AlyceOverTheRainbow 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Ever since I can remember that's all I had to grow up with- Being compared to others. "Why can't you be more like ____?" "Why don't you try to act like____." "I wish you grow...
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    My mother compared me to other more family-oriented girls. My ex compared me to his ex. My friends compared me to other friends and people they didn't like. I'm never taken as me.
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    I'm always compared to my "perfect cousin" Angel you should be like her Angel you should dress like her Angel you should talk like her Angel you should try and be pretty...
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    ... So very true i feel and i know well and truly how to hide behind a smile!I am often seen and come across as the funny girl, the one who is always up for a good laugh and joke...
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    I think of death a lot. I am not obsessed with it and I don't think I fear it in an unrealistic kind of way, I fear it just like anyone else. One of the things that occur to me...
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    People often don't reply to me. Sometimes I don't know why. Other times I think it's just that maybe cuz I'm "different". A freak. I don't know. All I know is that the harder I try...
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    I do. I just never get it that often.
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 12

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    EmmieBear EmmieBear 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    One of the many things I like doing, is helping others. I LOVE helping my friends out, when they need advice! If I help others, to me, it makes me feel so HAPPY! If everyone around...
    LaBrenditaa LaBrenditaa 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    One of the biggest issues we have in life is that people tend to care a lot more than they should about others opinion. Like just because someone thinks different than you doesn't...
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    I love seeing other women who wear make up and really wear it good. Women who can really put good make up on their faces . Im too lazy to do that every day. I wear make up atleast...
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    I often wonder what if I had married my first love.
    stuckinlife247 stuckinlife247 26-30, F Aug 1

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    I don't wear makeup often. My casual makeup is the basic eyeshadow with lipstick that's it.
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    I often wonder what if my mom didn't pas away. Where would I be, what would I be doing.
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    It's empty psychobabble. Take responsibility for your own words and actions, just as you expect me to take responsibility for mine. And quit blaming people for being 'affected...
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup 36-40, F Jul 29

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    Lifelover38 Lifelover38 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 31

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    Primarily since i am a target. Their reasons are lame. They say they care. And worry. And teach. But really they are just miserable. Due to others. Others with...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    I was taught from an early age to help others. Especially those less fortunate and I was told even though I may not receive anything in return that I will be blessed in the end. So...
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    Sometimes it's hard for people to accept you. Actually all the time. It's a huge problem in our society today. Being a teenager I feel it's harder now. We are trying to figure who...
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    Im defiantly not like others my age. I don't act like them or talk like them I dont even look my age, I do things most people my age don't do anymore i pretty much still act like...
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    curioustraveler5 curioustraveler5 56-60, M 6 days ago

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    Need someone who will read my cover letter and tell me what to change. Will be very grateful. So people who love to help others I need your help so much .
    nataliawww nataliawww 26-30, F 10 Responses Jul 28

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    I'm thinking of becoming a psychiatrist and dedicating my life to helping others coz I know what it's like to live with this condition
    mellywoo mellywoo 13-15, F Jul 28

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    Be happy for others not sad for yourself.
    macyymayy macyymayy 13-15, F Jul 29

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