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I Often Get Compared To Others

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    I Get Compared To Others

    It's so annoying being compared to someone you are not and never will be. It's pointless. I am often compared to my cousin, brother..my brother's wife, to someone's daughter or a friend. They are constantly telling me that way I am not good enough. I feel more and more irritated...
    lovelessbutterfly lovelessbutterfly 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2010

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    I really do love the feeling of helping others. It feels so overwhelming even if they say "Thank You" or "You're such a good person". Seriously, all people deserves to be helped by...
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    http://www.gofundme.com/tqfg5c Hey so speaking of helping others, I'm trying to help my friend breaha, who is a hard working single mom, to get some money to make a down payment...
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    Heading off to university is such a huge step. Especially if you're like me and suffer from severe anxiety. I'm currently homeschooled in grade 12. I dropped out of high school in...
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    People have these perceptions of others as if just by looking you can tell who someone is. How do you know what someone is like if you never get to know them? How can you say...
    Kaleiita Kaleiita 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I can't do anything without being compared to other people...but they have flaws too...I don't get it
    penguinbae penguinbae 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ah yes. The universal finality that is death. There's few human emotions that can't be related to death. Sorrow, anger, despair, fear and the likes is the ones normally coming to...
    Vumsy Vumsy 22-25, M Apr 14

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    He has his own house, and I still live at home, an hour away by train. His personality is very calm, bluntly honest and not that social. He's sweet, but doesn't show affection in...
    Silverdeer Silverdeer 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    I love helping people. It's my favouritest thing to do in the world. It makes me happy. But lately, I haven't been able to help many people.. Because I haven't been happy myself. I...
    Mikilfaith Mikilfaith 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Physics may well show that what we perceive as reality is nothing more than a hologram. That is we could all be living in a giant hologram. This sounds crazy but the more I learn...
    mada0617 mada0617 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    And occasionally I think it may be to serve as a warning to others
    Abilohman Abilohman 26-30 Apr 9

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    God, Grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change (others) The courage to change the things I can (myself) And the wisdom to know the difference. This prayer helps...
    ajb234 ajb234 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 10

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    In the 70's got slippered often , most of my friends too , feared the cane at school , hated being told to pull my pants down especially in the front room if my brother was there...
    majcooper majcooper 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 15

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    Growing up sheltered is not a good thing. I wonder if I did not believe in second chances- or giving others second chances. Not falling in love with a closeted addict. Now I know...
    complex7 complex7 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    If only more people acted on this. I am agnostic, and still believe this to be true (meaning you do not have to be Christian to have morality). I am more than willing to sit...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 1 Response Apr 22

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    If he hadn't chose to listen to his stupid sisters lies. . . would we still be friends? If I hadn't cared what others thought would we still be as close as we were before? If I...
    TokioDoll TokioDoll 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm currently feel lonely because of certain family members. and my son has deployed overseas in the army recently. now it's my daughter and grand daughter we haven't really been...
    Rosalind71 Rosalind71 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I shouldn't feel lonely, I have a family, a fiancé, two happy children and a happy family. Often I feel left out and lonely, I work less hours than my mrs and do a lot of the...
    maxos maxos 31-35, M Apr 18

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    I do enjoy helping others very much - hence I recently joined EP. The problem is that I get such crazy messages that I'm not sure if some of them are really true or if they are...
    BeKind444 BeKind444 41-45, F 10 Responses Apr 7

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    I am happy with me and have no need to do or say anything negative to others to feel good about me. my choices are mine alone and I respect others to make their own choices for...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F a week ago

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    I try not to. I am very open-minded and accepting of differences, tolerating and very forgiving. I need more practicing in not judging Taylor Swift since she hurt a friend of mine...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Treat others the way you want to be treated. Don't do to others what you don't want to be done. You will never regret being kind, but you will regret being otherwise.
    Letmebee Letmebee 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Often I wonder how many couples I ruined out of pure mean spiteful and jealousy. In the end they are at each other's throat, while I sit here and laugh. I know, I'm mean.
    DeeplyLoves DeeplyLoves 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    There are times in this life that we have to learn to forgive others for committing a wrong towards us. Lately I have been wondering if I were capable of such a deed and my heart...
    sensualbeauty1 sensualbeauty1 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I want to know why people judge others based on their username. Instead of judging them by their username you should ask them what's the meaning behind their username or how they...
    SuicideSmile SuicideSmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I have discussed my wife Kim being nude on occasions. However there are times she gets lot of attention by dressing very provocatively and sometimes wearing next to nothing. I love...
    Monumentman Monumentman 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 17

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    Its really all us slaves can do. Unless we choose being the problem. Comedians point out whats wrong. Then die. Or retire. Like jon stewart. Is he retiring...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 22

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    This is to everyone who judges ever one my friend died yesterday because of people judge others people he was my best friend so please just please stop judging others people Intel...
    jeteggleston14 jeteggleston14 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I think my problem is caring what others think. I want to just let myself go but im too worried about what others will think. Idk why but i cant help it.
    BiggerIsBetter44 BiggerIsBetter44 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    Judging by the number of people in this group, a lot of people feel this way. I guess I want unconditional love. compare this to the love of a child, you don't love a child because...
    chairsmissing chairsmissing 22-25, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    "As long as we are human.. We have heart." My roommate is so silent (I thought before), she's my classmate for four years but we never talk personally. This is my final year and...
    jalanyanglurus jalanyanglurus 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I hate crying in front of others I've only cried in front of someone once and that was when my dog died and I was telling my bff Abbi that he died I don't like people worrying...
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15 Apr 5

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    It has been my experience these days that everyone is out for themselves. Let's create a group who instead of  always out for themselves, stand for the sheer...
    TantricWarrior TantricWarrior 41-45, M Apr 5

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    I wasn't concerned with getting girls back at home because nobody their was suppose to know I wasn't a bio male. Turns out they somehow knew anyway. I told my parents and they said...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Apr 7

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    I wish the world was filled with rose colored glasses. I wish that everyone could find their own happiness in life. Emotional ups and downs take tolls on everyone. It makes me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 7

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    i honestly do love and cherish the friendships i have, i'm just really scared to get emotionally attached to others :( major trust issues lol, my family isn't the greatest and my 2...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I've got a friend that I've known for 4yrs. He has few friends most of time he's at home alone. He seek company of others very actively. Am a busy person with tight schedules I try...
    magz24 magz24 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Im always helping ppl wen ever i get a chance ........ The funny thing is tht i need the help the most but i put my problems behind nd help others never give up stay strong no...
    ThisIsMe987 ThisIsMe987 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    And found help. When needed badly. By trying to help others. EP Link
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 10

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    I think this is one of my best traits. I will separate a bit of my time to help everyone I can. The reason I do it, is I know how it feels to be helpless and lost in your mind...
    delusi0nal delusi0nal 18-21, F Apr 11

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