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I Often Get Hurt For Caring Too Much

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    and it hurts me even more thinking

    that he doesn't care about me anymore but i still care about him :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2015

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    Can't Help It

    It is my nature. I think I scare people away with this nature, which is out of good intention. I can easily care about even a random stranger who is having that I-have-a-bad-day look. It makes me wants to put my hand on their shoulders and tell them everything will be okay. Of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Apr 8, 2012

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    Tomorrow is the first of December.

    Year is about to end.I remember the first as it is my cousin's birthday.I don't know where you are but wherever you are ,I hope you are happy.
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2014

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    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F Nov 3, 2015

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    when you know you are true

    and everyone are not when all you say is for the better and the effect is worst when you are trying to climb yand someone is pulling you down when you are there and they are not when you are sincere and everyone is playing around..
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 5, 2015

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    Yes I have got badly hurt in my personal life.

    I have felt like cursing people.But I stopped myself thinking that cursing others is not right behavior on my part.I have moved forward and onward and tried to heal.Cursing someone would have set me back and lowered my image in my own eyes.I got cursed by others but stopped...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 8 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    :(

    I get my heart ripped out often.  I feel like so many have just ripped it out of my chest and stomped it.  It has made me overly cautious and I don't like that hesitation in relationships.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2010

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    Apathy. It makes you invincible. Too bad it completely goes against my nature.
    mollyclare mollyclare 18-21, F Sep 10, 2011

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    I Always Get So Hurt And Then Get Angry With Myself....

    I am especially angry with myself for getting so attached to my co worker. She is in her forties so became like an auntie figure to me.I used to look after her son and so we got to know each other that way. Ever since her child has gone to nursery, I kind of feel like she doesn't...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    I got hurt yesterday

    for caring about a friend yesterday and i was crying all night
    bigguy2015 bigguy2015 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2015

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    Hmph. >:/

    All the time; I get wrapped up in superficial drama that I really SHOULDNT give a rat's hat about, but I end up caring too much and then being dissapointed in the end. I think we're all a little like this. 
    bathanie bathanie 16-17, F Apr 11, 2010

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    I wish I cared less for people ,

    especially on E.p.I take care in my responses here but it is so easy for others to be rude here.It is so easy for people to go to other sites which they find more interesting.We are anonymous here.Who cares who we really are or think?I think,maybe ,it is our failure that we fail...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    I care to give the gift of love .

    ..only to be fooled or hurt !!
    be4ilieilive be4ilieilive 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2014

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    This is something I've went through a lot

    since a long time ago. That time, I would feel pain. Intense pain. Now, I've gotten used to it and I think my heart is numb because things that used to affect me does not affect me anymore. Or maybe it's my wall that are built up higher. Other than that, I've distance myself...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    I hate men. Don't trust them they are all sex

    badgering freaks who just care about their dicks. They will spend their lives making all their decisions based around sex and the need for sex. All women are to them are pieces of meat. They have now shame trying to gain a women's trust for the sole purpose of sex. They are...
    Issima Issima 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2015

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    Gemstone101 Gemstone101 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2015

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