I Often Get Hurt For Caring Too Much

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    I Always Get So Hurt And Then Get Angry With Myself....

    I am especially angry with myself for getting so attached to my co worker. She is in her forties so became like an auntie figure to me.I used to look after her son and so we got to know each other that way. Ever since her child has gone to nursery, I kind of feel like she doesn't...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2011

    :(

    I get my heart ripped out often.  I feel like so many have just ripped it out of my chest and stomped it.  It has made me overly cautious and I don't like that hesitation in relationships.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2010

    Hmph. >:/

    All the time; I get wrapped up in superficial drama that I really SHOULDNT give a rat's hat about, but I end up caring too much and then being dissapointed in the end. I think we're all a little like this. 
    bathanie bathanie
    16-17, F
    Apr 11, 2010

    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    Nov 3, 2015

    and it hurts me even more thinking

    that he doesn't care about me anymore but i still care about him :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 10, 2015

    when you know you are true

    and everyone are not when all you say is for the better and the effect is worst when you are trying to climb yand someone is pulling you down when you are there and they are not when you are sincere and everyone is playing around..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 5, 2015

    I got hurt yesterday

    for caring about a friend yesterday and i was crying all night
    bigguy2015 bigguy2015
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 1, 2015

    I hate men. Don't trust them they are all sex

    badgering freaks who just care about their dicks. They will spend their lives making all their decisions based around sex and the need for sex. All women are to them are pieces of meat. They have now shame trying to gain a women's trust for the sole purpose of sex. They are...
    Issima Issima
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 28, 2015

    ...

    Apathy. It makes you invincible. Too bad it completely goes against my nature.
    mollyclare mollyclare
    18-21, F
    Sep 10, 2011

    I care to give the gift of love .

    ..only to be fooled or hurt !!
    be4ilieilive be4ilieilive
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    Can't Help It

    It is my nature. I think I scare people away with this nature, which is out of good intention. I can easily care about even a random stranger who is having that I-have-a-bad-day look. It makes me wants to put my hand on their shoulders and tell them everything will be okay. Of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Apr 8, 2012
    Gemstone101 Gemstone101
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

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