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I Often Wonder If People Would Miss Me If I Was Gone

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    If I Disappeared Would I Be Missed?

    I wounder if I disappeared if I would be missed. This is something that I've always wounder because it wasn't till i was 17 that I realized that the people I knew, actually talked about me when I wasn't there. Honestly it was a huge surprise I figured that once I was out of site...
    LeDauz LeDauz 22-25, M 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    No One Will Care

    During the beginning of my junior year in high school, I started feeling depressed all the time. No one seemed to notice except, for some weird reason, my math teacher. He never said anything though until the winter of junior year. I lied of course, but went home and ended up...
    dressingroomphobic dressingroomphobic 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Would Anyone Even Care If I Was Gone?

    I am 14 years old, I have moved from Los Angeles to Greece to Las Vegas. I was a normal girl. Then when i went to Las Vegas, something changed, i was happy, like so happy. It was so different, i mean i had been happy before but not like that, the people the place everything just...
    Harisikjan Harisikjan 13-15 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    I Really Wonder

     If i were to  disappear, leave, die etc would it even be noticed. I barely talk to anyone as it is. As far as some of my 'friends' are concerned i could already be gone. I didn't show up to school for months on end and not even a message. It just isn't something people...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 29, 2008

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    It's True ...

    Have you ever been in a room full of people, but no one seemed to notice you? No one see you or hears you ... it's like you're there but everyone and ever thing is moving just beyond your reach. Have you ever been with family and when you talk it seems as though the walls are...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Do U Miss Me?

    I believe that some people won't miss me when I'm gone.  I don't know if they will remember all the funny things I did and how I made them laugh.  Or the sweet things I did to show that I cared for them.  I hope they miss me when I'm gone.  And dream of me...
    zoigirl zoigirl 31-35, F Apr 22, 2008

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    I Do

    I  wonder if I will be mised, is anyone would notice. I am sure no one will. But maybe someone will, anyone, who knows.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 14, 2013

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    What's Worse...

    ...is that I came to the conclusion. Nobody but my parents would actually really care. My small group of friends would all get over it pretty damn fast. My brothers and I aren't close enough for it to impact them. It would literally just be 2 people. A somewhat empty funeral. I...
    yorkshirebabe yorkshirebabe 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    ?

    i am 17 and i just finished school, when im driving or sitting by myself i always think about if i died would people miss me, i feel like all the people thought where my friends are avoiding me and making excuses why they cant talk atm, i am starting to believe that if i die they...
    hellomynmeis hellomynmeis 16-17 Feb 12, 2012

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    The Last Phone Call Was Before 2years No One Cares

    i'd like to ask if there anyone who cares about me if i was gone or travelled to somewhere else nobody knows me Id like to start my story when ive had the last phone call before two years it was a student in my class he was tring to tell me a msg from all off the class that dont...
    wasimoo92 wasimoo92 18-21 2 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    Do I Deserve To Be Missed Or To Live?

    It seems like my friends would betray me, or I would probably "betray" them without knowing. I can't tell because it is hard to see how they would react. I think about some people who would miss me, and besides my family, none would. Sure, some friends would be shocked, but they...
    JMer2013 JMer2013 22-25, M Sep 1, 2013

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    Curious

    It's interesting. I'm not planning on leaving, but one does wonder, should something disastrous happened, would they be missed. Hmmm....
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    Why Am I Even Here?

    I sit in a class room, or in a giant group of people, and still feel lonely. I feel like if I was gone no one would notice or care, they'd all go on with their lives. The fact is, everyone makes fun of me. For cutting, for attempting suicide... I wish my dad never walked in and...
    mentallysick mentallysick 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    "I Often Wonder If People Would Miss Me If I Was Gone"

    I wonder if I will be mised, is anyone would notice. I am sure no one will. But maybe someone will, anyone, who knows.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    Death.. Would They Even Care?

    I'm 16.. Never in my life would I think about dying. Until now. No one cares. My only friend calls me fat.. I feel like if I died no one would care.. Maybe my mom and dad.. But even they would get over it.. It's gotten so bad that I think of ways to end it.. Pills..gun... Idk.. I...
    Eraufa34 Eraufa34 16-17 3 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    Jesus Please Take Me To Heaven!

    I have been through alot I mean alot of abuse of all kinds, my mother allowed and even watched. she's hated me since the day I was born. I should be the girl called " It" just like the book of the boy called " It " I hate myself I can't even stand to be inside my own body. I...
    DEAD81 DEAD81 31-35 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I Won't Be Missed If I Died.

    I often wonder if i would be missed. When I was computer-less for four months no one noticed I was gone. No one who followed me on twitter noticed I was gone. No one on facebook or any of the other social networking sites I was on noticed I was gone. In the real world I know...
    millimi millimi 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 28, 2011

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    I've Oft Wondered...

    If I died tonight, who would realize. I live alone in this apartment, and hardly anyone visits or anything. I just often wonder how long it would take before they realized I was dead. My family has stated they no longer want anything to do with me... Who else would miss me if my...
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 9 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    Sometimes I Feel Invisible

    I go days sometimes without having much conversation at all with the people I live with, one being my partner.  We talk but not a whole lot, I am pretty much in the bedroom with him in the living room, we have pretty separate lives really.  On here I sometimes feel a...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 30, 2009

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    Hmmm I Wonder!

    I do wonder if people would miss me. I think initially they would but I think I would be forgotton about pretty quickly. I don't think I have made that much of an impact on anyones life for my death or absence to make them miss me for too long.
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F Feb 10, 2008

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    I Think About This Every Day

    I think about who would miss me when I am gone. I sit here and I realize that I dont have any friends, not even one. I have no family as they disowned me and I dont have any one. at my funeral there will be one person standing there and that will be the priest. He will be the...
    Jayyymz Jayyymz 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    What Did I Do Wrong?

    My dad only visits me once every 6 months and when he does see me he calls me a **** and makes sure i know he hates me....My mom never defends me from her boyfriend and threatens to send me to bootcamp or send me to live with my dad:[
    VioletFlower VioletFlower 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Nothing But Lies

    "I'll miss you if you're gone. Please, don't go. You mean so much to me..." All nothing but BULLSHIT to me. You don't even show care now that I'm still breathing. What makes you think I'd believe you to care if I'm gone? If I don't bother asking checking up on you, you won't...
    Jeanellaisha Jeanellaisha 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    What Is Missed?

    I will be missed by the people who love me deeply. My two daughters, my sister and my two nieces. Not a long list. But, what about me? Every day at some point, no matter where I am or what I'm doing I lean back and say "I want a cow". I truly do. And some chickens...maybe...
    garlicrosey garlicrosey 61-65, F Sep 16, 2013

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    Slowly Lost Everyone

    I don't really know who to talk to. I come from a huge family, and I was known as the good child. I don't like to cause other people problems, and I've gotten to be an expert at pretending I'm ok. I go to school a couple hours from my family, and I call them once every one or two...
    CJ97 CJ97 22-25, M Jun 5, 2010

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    Re: I Often Wonder If People Would Miss Me If I Was Gone

    If I suddenly don't come to this site anymore. What happens?  Will I be miss?  
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 5 Responses May 6, 2008

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    Hmmm

    i know some would miss me horribly. my parents, Dan, and my best friend. i dont think any others would though. not in real life, and i doubt on here.
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2008

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    The Forgotten

    If I was no longer here I often wonder about that what difference would it really make to peoples life's I mean after all I can go for days sometimes weeks without talking face to face with anyone. Everything that was precious to me has gone I really can not think of one person...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    Not On a Pity Trip

    I've just always wondered if people would really care if I wasn't around anymore. Or if anyone would care if something happened. I've always wondered this since I was little. Maybe it's just my insecurity in myself
    Aminik Aminik 31-35, F 13 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    Not Sure

    An EP friend of mine noticed this experience in my profile and made sure to send me a PM with a resounding yes, I would be missed.  So, I guess I might be initially, at least on EP, but life goes on....The world still spins on  it's axis, the sun still rises and sets...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    no one in my life seems to care

    for me. i wonder why that is. is it because i am not bright? or its that i am hostile twards them or mabye because they wish they never met me.
    Iamaolne Iamaolne 16-17, M Feb 13

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    Who Would I Miss?

    this crosses my mind all the time,  but not till now had i ever thought about it the other way around.  Who would i miss if they were gone?  the answer 1 sister and parents,   in my life im only emotionally attached to 3 people, anyone else could die, and...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    Well...

    It's not like I've done anything special in my life... And not like I've really made a big impact on anyone's life in any way... but I'm sure I've been a good enough friend to be missed by some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    No Life

    Its true. No one would except for my family maybe. But if I didn't exist, there just wouldn't be that gaping hole in society. There wouldn't be just that great thing that would disappear if I didn't exist. If I was dead, no kid I know would be there. If I never existed no one...
    confessionstotell confessionstotell 13-15, M Nov 9, 2011

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    Wonder

    Maybe it's because I see most people only when they need something. Maybe it's because of past experience of being forgotten and becoming someone from someones past. I wonder if family would really miss me if I was gone. I wonder if old friends and acquaintances would miss me if...
    oldfarmguy oldfarmguy 56-60, M 1 Response May 30, 2012

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    Not Missed

    i really wonder who would miss me if i was gone... lets see.... my mother would miss me and it would probably kill her... my 2 daughters would miss me, and maybe a handfull of others. just enough people to carry my coffin to my grave... all i ever wanted is to be loved to make...
    gdale01 gdale01 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2012

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    Who Doesnt??

    I mean, i know my husband and my son would miss me.... but would anybody else??? I always wanted to impact peoples lives.  Change them the way loving somebody always changes me for the better. But would anybody even notice if i was gone?
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses May 16, 2008

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    I Am Sick Of Living

    I hate my life. I hate this world. I am sick of the madness. There is nothing in this world worth living for. I wish God would strike me dead. I am sick of it. No work to go to. No one to talk to. I wish I was dead. I think God is punshing my spirt just to be here. Why should I...
    Billybob10041972 Billybob10041972 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Fake a Funeral?

    I know the most HORRID stunt one could pull is fake their own death or funeral, but I find it an interresting contemplation! This is also a perfect way to find out who liked ya, who's hypocritical, and who wants your worldly possessions! lol. My family is SO jipped there! Who...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 3 Responses May 22, 2008

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    It's Awful, I Know

    The thought does cross my mind.  I wonder who would miss me and what they'd say that they can't/won't say now. I truly want a living funeral.  I think it would be great to have all of the people I know convene for a party and reminisce thinking I wasn't there. 
    debmichelle debmichelle 36-40 Jun 13, 2008

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    What would u think.... ? Nobody would care if I was gone any ways
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    I often wonder what my friends day is like... yeah some say they went to work or cleaned house or just sat around doing nothing. But that's not what I really mean. How did you...
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    Nobody would miss me. I mean who cares? I'm just a silly 14 year old girl who doesn't know anything. I'm dumb, ugly, fat, insecure, I cut, the list goes on. Nobody would even...
    UndyingLovatic UndyingLovatic 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I often wonder what if I had married my first love.
    stuckinlife247 stuckinlife247 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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    I watched a movie about something like this. The whole premise of it is that the kid says on camera that he is going to kill himself and gets the reactions from his parents and...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I work in health care and you'd be shocked at how many don't wash their hands after doing things. Even after all the knowledge of how illness is spread and germs you'd think people...
    CanadianGal80 CanadianGal80 31-35, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Often, I will want to just spill the beans about myself. Something about "purging," I guess. Sometimes, it is good. Many times, it is not. So, the question is: "How much is too...
    hillcountrydeb hillcountrydeb 61-65, F 2 hrs ago

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