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I Often Wonder If People Would Miss Me If I Was Gone

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    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 7

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    What would happen? What would you do?

    What would you think if I were to just... Disappear?
    HELPTAKENhelpused HELPTAKENhelpused 26-30, M Dec 21, 2015

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    To David Bowie, you need not wonder,

    the entire world will miss you now that you are gone.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 11

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    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 10

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    Re: I Often Wonder If People Would Miss Me If I Was Gone

    If I suddenly don't come to this site anymore. What happens?  Will I be miss?  
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 5 Responses May 6, 2008

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    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 13

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    Nothing But Lies

    "I'll miss you if you're gone. Please, don't go. You mean so much to me..." All nothing but BULLSHIT to me. You don't even show care now that I'm still breathing. What makes you think I'd believe you to care if I'm gone? If I don't bother asking checking up on you, you won't...
    Jeanellaisha Jeanellaisha 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    If I leave, or if I die,

    would anyone really miss me? Most people might say yes, but in the back of there mind the would say no. Would anyone miss me?
    AlphaFire AlphaFire 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2015

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    I'd sure like to find out

    if I'd miss them if they were gone. Probably, but I wouldn't want them back either.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 4

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    I've Oft Wondered...

    If I died tonight, who would realize. I live alone in this apartment, and hardly anyone visits or anything. I just often wonder how long it would take before they realized I was dead. My family has stated they no longer want anything to do with me... Who else would miss me if my...
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 9 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    Would Anyone Even Care If I Was Gone?

    I am 14 years old, I have moved from Los Angeles to Greece to Las Vegas. I was a normal girl. Then when i went to Las Vegas, something changed, i was happy, like so happy. It was so different, i mean i had been happy before but not like that, the people the place everything just...
    Harisikjan Harisikjan 13-15 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    Someone asked me once

    if I ever considered suicide. If my memory is correct I think I immediately said no. I said if be more likely to lose it and kill someone else before I'd kill myself. Which of course got me a lecture on a subject of things in which I understand by doesn't correlate to the point...
    Halestone Halestone 22-25, F May 17, 2015

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    I suppose life would go on.

    ...without me, of course. Only the closest of friends and family might morn for me, but everyone else might just simply remember me as the girl who played the violin and nothing more. They wouldn't care, they would have other friends to replace me. After a while, I'd be forgotten...
    inkhearted inkhearted 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I feel like no one would miss me.

    maybe its just the situation Im in, but i can't see anyone missing me. not anymore. I've pushed everyone away. maybe my mom. but she's forced to care, i guess. i just have had the worst few weeks and the past few days have been unbearable. i can't keep doing this. i can't keep...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2014

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    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 14

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    What Is Missed?

    I will be missed by the people who love me deeply. My two daughters, my sister and my two nieces. Not a long list. But, what about me? Every day at some point, no matter where I am or what I'm doing I lean back and say "I want a cow". I truly do. And some chickens...maybe...
    garlicrosey garlicrosey 61-65, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Curious

    It's interesting. I'm not planning on leaving, but one does wonder, should something disastrous happened, would they be missed. Hmmm....
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    sighselly sighselly 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 13

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    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 11

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    Do U Miss Me?

    I believe that some people won't miss me when I'm gone.  I don't know if they will remember all the funny things I did and how I made them laugh.  Or the sweet things I did to show that I cared for them.  I hope they miss me when I'm gone.  And dream of me...
    zoigirl zoigirl 31-35, F Apr 22, 2008

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    No One Will Care

    During the beginning of my junior year in high school, I started feeling depressed all the time. No one seemed to notice except, for some weird reason, my math teacher. He never said anything though until the winter of junior year. I lied of course, but went home and ended up...
    dressingroomphobic dressingroomphobic 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    It's True ...

    Have you ever been in a room full of people, but no one seemed to notice you? No one see you or hears you ... it's like you're there but everyone and ever thing is moving just beyond your reach. Have you ever been with family and when you talk it seems as though the walls are...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Life is cruel place lies the young only once,

    do not do something now, the future is really no chance to do it.
    cougarloving cougarloving 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2015

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    no one in my life seems to care

    for me. i wonder why that is. is it because i am not bright? or its that i am hostile twards them or mabye because they wish they never met me.
    Iamaolne Iamaolne 18-21, M Feb 13, 2014

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    Do I Deserve To Be Missed Or To Live?

    It seems like my friends would betray me, or I would probably "betray" them without knowing. I can't tell because it is hard to see how they would react. I think about some people who would miss me, and besides my family, none would. Sure, some friends would be shocked, but they...
    JMer2013 JMer2013 22-25, M Sep 1, 2013

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    I Do

    I  wonder if I will be mised, is anyone would notice. I am sure no one will. But maybe someone will, anyone, who knows.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 14, 2013

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    What Did I Do Wrong?

    My dad only visits me once every 6 months and when he does see me he calls me a **** and makes sure i know he hates me....My mom never defends me from her boyfriend and threatens to send me to bootcamp or send me to live with my dad:[
    VioletFlower VioletFlower 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Slowly Lost Everyone

    I don't really know who to talk to. I come from a huge family, and I was known as the good child. I don't like to cause other people problems, and I've gotten to be an expert at pretending I'm ok. I go to school a couple hours from my family, and I call them once every one or two...
    CJ97 CJ97 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 5, 2010

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    Sometimes I just want to be gone

    so I can leave a deep enough impression in his mind that I have been alive before, and that I did not lead a happy life because of him, and that I am now dead because of him. Do you think it'll actually make him appreciate him more? I think the amount of time he spends in front...
    charicealpaca charicealpaca 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2015

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    What's Worse...

    ...is that I came to the conclusion. Nobody but my parents would actually really care. My small group of friends would all get over it pretty damn fast. My brothers and I aren't close enough for it to impact them. It would literally just be 2 people. A somewhat empty funeral. I...
    yorkshirebabe yorkshirebabe 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Not Sure

    An EP friend of mine noticed this experience in my profile and made sure to send me a PM with a resounding yes, I would be missed.  So, I guess I might be initially, at least on EP, but life goes on....The world still spins on  it's axis, the sun still rises and sets...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    The Forgotten

    If I was no longer here I often wonder about that what difference would it really make to peoples life's I mean after all I can go for days sometimes weeks without talking face to face with anyone. Everything that was precious to me has gone I really can not think of one person...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    I don't care if they'd miss me.

    The important question is rather would I miss them? No.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 8

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    Death.. Would They Even Care?

    I'm 16.. Never in my life would I think about dying. Until now. No one cares. My only friend calls me fat.. I feel like if I died no one would care.. Maybe my mom and dad.. But even they would get over it.. It's gotten so bad that I think of ways to end it.. Pills..gun... Idk.. I...
    Eraufa34 Eraufa34 16-17 3 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    Yeah I think so. I'm a harmless,

    cuddly, loveable little fuzzball.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 20

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    I'm sure some would,

    but most people wouldn't notice if I was gone. But as long as some people do, it's why I'm still around.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2015

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    Not On a Pity Trip

    I've just always wondered if people would really care if I wasn't around anymore. Or if anyone would care if something happened. I've always wondered this since I was little. Maybe it's just my insecurity in myself
    Aminik Aminik 31-35, F 13 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    Jesus Please Take Me To Heaven!

    I have been through alot I mean alot of abuse of all kinds, my mother allowed and even watched. she's hated me since the day I was born. I should be the girl called " It" just like the book of the boy called " It " I hate myself I can't even stand to be inside my own body. I...
    DEAD81 DEAD81 31-35 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Well...

    It's not like I've done anything special in my life... And not like I've really made a big impact on anyone's life in any way... but I'm sure I've been a good enough friend to be missed by some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    so today is this girls birthday

    and she would've been 19 but she took her life last year and I've wondered time and time again ,,why would god or anyone keep me here for 😢
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2014

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    I doubt it matters that much.

    Eventually they'll be gone to.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 10

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