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I Once Had a Male Best Friend

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    Me Too

    When I was 17 I told my best friend that I liked willies instead of muffies. He then told me that he could no longer be my friend. Now 23 years later, he will cross rather than speak to me. He even gets his boys to do the same.
    yfronts36 yfronts36 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    He Was Just Like Me

    I once had a male best friend that I had to let go. He couldn't get over the past (we had talked about 3 years ago) I didnt like him that way. He ended up making my life a little hellish he would send me text messages knownin I would go to sleep early so my man would see it...
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik 26-30, F Feb 2, 2008

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    He's the Best

    I have always had a male best friend. Most of my friends are male in fact.  I like the male female relationship because my friend and I have more in common.  We both like sports, music, and debate.  It is hard to find a girl that likes sports as much as me so I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response May 14, 2008

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    Easier To Connect With Males Than Females

    To be honest, most of my best friends have been males...My first best friend was a male, and my current best friend is also male.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F May 7, 2012

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    Its Very Hard to Talk About But ......

    i had a best friend we were best friends since 5th grade , he was gay and i loved him , senior year comes i invite him to a movie premiere , he shows up , at the palms hotel for the premieer and never says hi just leaves , his mom said she didnt want him to be friends with me...
    cocoxoxo cocoxoxo 18-21 2 Responses May 6, 2008

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    No.... He Was My Lover

    He was my lover. but as his behavior is so so so sweet i would rather choose him as a friend. & I had raised this idea many times for him but he refused. & the time am afraid of come very sooner then we separate. I lost my dearest friend. He was the only one who can understand...
    gagagirl gagagirl 18-21, F May 6, 2012

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    A Few...

    Right now actually my best friends are male.  When I was younger my first real best friend was a boy.  I remember my mom had forced me in to Catholic elementary school in 3rd grade and I was so mad at her for making me leave my friends.  Some of the girls tried to...
    worriedforbro worriedforbro 21-25, F Oct 10, 2007

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    Still Do, But... I Dunno If He Knows It.

    I've been his best friend for years... Since highschool. I don't know him as well as I'd like, and he doesn't know me as well as I'd like... But, no matter what's happened, no matter how many times he's disappeared, no matter how many times I feel he's forgotten me... Whenever I...
    Elwing Elwing 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Actually All of Them

    I have always seemed to get along better with boys / men.  I've always had more guy friends than girl friends.  And my friendships with guys seem to be deeper and last longer. My two closest friends are guys.  I've only had a handful of female friends in my...
    hippieheart hippieheart 41-45, F Apr 1, 2008

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    Childhood Friends

    My closest friends when I was a kid were guys. I lived in my school neighborhood, so there were lots of kids around. My 2 best freinds were a couple guys who lived near me. We hung out all the time. I was especially close with one, since our parents were both disabled and had...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F Mar 5, 2008

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    Memories!

    I once had a male best friend in high school who was so easy to talk to.  We talked about everything and always had fun when we hung out.  Unfortunately, a couple years after he decided to move back to Japan.  We lost touch after a year or so and now I have no idea...
    BrookeLynne BrookeLynne 31-35 Oct 23, 2008

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    My Best Guy

    I have a guy that's my best friend. I can tell him anything, and he won't ever judge me for it or lecture me. He always just calmly gives his advice. I have great conversations with him and he's just a joy to be around.
    ForgottenMelody ForgottenMelody 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    Crying On His Shoulder...

    when my heart was shattered by his bestfriend, he made me get over it and showed me that love was worth it. He stood by side when i was drunker then i had ever been, he was there for me when i needed someone to love me, and he let me love him. It has been three years since we...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Over the Years

    Over the years I have many male friends, as a matter of fact I  have one right now that I have known for over 30 years. He was my brother in law for 12 years and he's my husbands friend from way back in high school.
    grnwd82 grnwd82 51-55, F Aug 23, 2008

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    I Still Love Him

    We grew up together. We met when we were  4 and just started school. We played almost everyday after school.  We did so much together. All the girls had crushes on him. That always made me laugh. When i was 7 my father died. That changed me. We were still friends...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F Dec 27, 2008

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    Unaffectedly Yours

    My best friend vs. my best friend. I just realized my best friend is no longer my best friend, in fact, I don't want us to be more than casual buddies. There is another person involved though... He is a guy, he lives far a way, speaks another language and have a different...
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F Jul 18, 2008

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    Let My Emotions Get In The Way

    I had no interest in him at first. The first few weeks of my freshman year of high school, everyone talked about how cute this guy was. Even the lunch lady stopped him in line and told him how handsome he was. Every girl in class had a crush but I thought he was weird. He...
    aja6693 aja6693 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Best Friend Or More...

    I have really no idea how I feel about this. I think I need help to figure out what to do. I have this best friend and lately we became more intimate. He is younger than me and I think sometimes he is immature and definitely not The right person for me altho, as friend, I adore...
    sophiahapgood sophiahapgood 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Cen

    We were the perfect couple, we would have had cute kids with cute hair and he was tall enough so that my kids wouldnt be midgets. But I didnt like him like that. The people we worked with and even the customers always mentioned how cute we were together and I got fed up of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 19, 2008

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    Once I Had...

    I used to have a best friend. Male ofcource, or I would be writing in a wrong group :) . We mostly communicated on msn or texting. Not much in real life. Still I could talk to him about everything. untill he had a girlfriend... They broke up, but our friendship wasn't the same...
    annelies83 annelies83 26-30, F Nov 3, 2011

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    I've Had More Than One

    I've had about three best friends who were males. The first one was actually my first best friend. I really loved spending time and hanging out with him, but when we went to middle school, everything got complicated. I got a crush on him and the friendship fell apart. Best male...
    earth2bella earth2bella 22-25, F Feb 9, 2008

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    I Miss Him

    I had known him since Pre-school and i don't even remember how we became friends, his name was Chris and we always together. We were always very challenging each other at games and in class and i remember when our school had twins day we would always dress up in our Laker...
    geminixleo geminixleo 18-21, F May 10, 2011

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    Tha Boiiis

    Paul Patrick Matt Michael Adam I know, right?? And they were my BEST friends! Five! Here, let me number it for you to give you a better idea. 1.  Paul 2.  Patrick 3.  Matt 4.  Michael 5.  Adam Boys were kinder back in the day. :) There's...
    mixedview mixedview 16-17, F Jan 2, 2008

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    Now...

    I have a male best friend, who is also my lover, my partner, my master, my confident, my heart and soul, no doubt one day in the future; the father of my children, and my husband. Kate. x
    SubmissiveKate SubmissiveKate 18-21, F Aug 9, 2009

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    Sad Ending Though...

    I can give you a short version... I loved him.. He acted sweet.. I got clingy.. He called me a b****... I still loved him... He acted like a jerk... I left him...
    SavedByGrace14 SavedByGrace14 22-25, F Oct 6, 2007

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    Just a Friend

    About 4 years ago, I met a guy (we'll call him S) who was basically just like me. He was what made me sane, and was basically my rock. Most of the time, you wouldn't see one of us without the other. I mean, we were together ALL the time. I would stay at his house all the time...
    bgordo2 bgordo2 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2008

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    ...but It Was Weird

    i loved Chris like the brother i don't have... but there was only one problem: his sister.  she and i were supposedly best friends, but she got so jealous over the littlest things...  anyway, there were times i could talk to Chris about stuff i would never bring to his...
    SunnyKris SunnyKris 26-30, F Oct 11, 2007

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    I Have A Jealous Husband

    Hence I once had a male best friend. I miss him. He was always there for me. I failed him but marrying a guy who didn't accept him.
    truthseeker28 truthseeker28 26-30, F Oct 17, 2012

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    Yeah, I Did.

    or at least i thought i did.... i don't like to talk about how it turned out.....
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F Jan 9, 2008

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    Several Actually...

    From the gay, to the mutually attracted, to the absolute platonic. I love male friends. I ususally seem to have more male friends than female in my life, and I like that just fine. :)
    Cinderelly Cinderelly 36-40, F 22 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    Me And My Ex Best Friend.

    When i first moved to a different country i never had any friends because i didn't speak the language but then about 2years later i met a lovely boy , and we become best friends. He was a bit of a chav , and got in to quite a lot of trouble .. with drugs and police , but he was...
    Luucianna Luucianna 18-21, F Mar 5, 2012

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    I Still Do!

    Lots of them, I have a few female friends but most of my close friends are male. About 12 or 13! literally! I love having the mix of the genders in my friendship group, you get a lot more perspective on a situation and I think its healthy to know and be close to both genders.
    juniper juniper 21-25, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2008

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    I Have a Male Best Friend :)

    I have a male bestfriend. I tell him everything when i get the chance to. he's 1 year older than me. im in grade 8 and he's in grade 9. we dont get to see eachother alot noe cuz we're in different hallways at school. i first met Al in grade 4. we were in a split grade. i found im...
    vee15x vee15x 16-18, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2007

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    My Best Friend

    my best friend donald still is my best friend and my husband
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Aug 19, 2008

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    Once Upon A Time.

    Once upon a time I lived in a small town, in a state that is thought by many to be nothing but farm land. The truth is, there are cities, buildings, cafes, and public transits. The farms all lie at the edges of towns. I lived on the side of the bridge that was "the city". He...
    MissLefroy MissLefroy 18-21, F 1 Response May 23, 2011

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    My Best Friend Of All Time

    I had never had a best friend like him that i felt like i could tell anything too before. We were bestfriends last year (2011). I had known him for a good while before that but we were never close until a bit before summer. Me and him, we used to hang out in his garage, my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 9, 2012

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    My Best Friend In College

    When I was in college, my best friend was a guy. We met our freshman year but really did not become friends until the year after and it took awhile before we actually became best friends. This was not my first close male friend but it was the first time in my life that my best...
    femme7 femme7 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2008

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    Most of My Friends Are...

    Even on EP most of my friends are male. I just really tend to feel freer and able to talk to men easier than I do women. I have some really good male friends and would never want to lose any of them. I love the relationship that I have with all my male friends and my female...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 12, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have had a few when I was younger but now I really miss having a best friend. Where are you? You can be male or Female or other. You must understand me, accept me for who I am...
    lutqueet lutqueet 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    I had a best friend who was the closest person to me in the world. We'd talk all the time, even when we weren't together, we'd text each other from "good morning" till "good night...
    xmasquirade xmasquirade 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I was really depressed last November to the point that I didn’t believe I was depressed and told my 2 best friends I was bipolar when I wasn’t. I also told one of them I was...
    em27soccer em27soccer 16-17, F Oct 7

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    well a couple of days ago it was our anniversary, 3 years now but we haven't spoken or seen each other for the past 7-8 months (we don't live in the same country so we use Skype...
    LoneDovahKiin LoneDovahKiin 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 3

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    i often feel dissapointed by my friends. well we are very close, but when i share something to them , they arent relaly there for me. they dont like to talk on the phone or chat...
    blahblah2789 blahblah2789 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I suppose it all started the night of hallowe'en when i was walking back from a party, drunk, having already purchsed my kebab, and wanting to devour it in peace. My memories are...
    lologreeno lologreeno 16-17, F 18 hrs ago

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    1 year back I was introduced to a guy by one of my best friend.. we all study in the same college.. that guy used to come in my college bus.. he is my junior in college.. but age...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21 5 days ago

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    I met Belle two years ago wen I first moved from a new school. I didn't like her at first, at least not that way. We were more of friends of a friend that first year. The year...
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F Oct 8

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    Yes, definitely it would be great. My experience turns out to be an huge cliché tough. My boyfriend at high-school was actually gay. He was also my best friend, and I think I have...
    Awkward26 Awkward26 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    It has been a little over a month since our break up. Everyday is hard but everyday is getting easier. I was best friends with my ex before our relationship, and we decided we...
    Hohjo Hohjo 18-21, M Oct 12

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    This experience really sucked. It was literally the worst thing that could've happened in my life. I fell for my best friend. So yeah typically in every close friendship one...
    BeyonceK BeyonceK 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Ever have that friend who would do anything to protect you from harm or pain. A friend that would do anything to save you. But it just so happens to be one of the opposite gender...
    dreamforever789 dreamforever789 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    In 7th grade, I was going through depression because my best friend had gotten a new best friend and I could't avoid them since we all went to the same class. But then I met a good...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Sep 24

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