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I Painful But Joyous

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    The Joy Of Pain

    Do you wonder why or how we can experience pain or joy at the sametime.  Like having children, though the grueling 9 months of pregancy, than several hours of labor, only to eventually have them practically ripped from your bosoms. Than be lucky enough to hear from them...
    ann9265 ann9265 41-45, F Feb 11, 2010

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    We had dated for over 2 years and had one of those relationships that just was natural and easy both sexually and romantically. Always were surprising each other with different...
    Anon1134 Anon1134 22-25 1 Response Sep 14

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    But now I am creating someone else's first painful breakup experience. I don't want to be that person. I still love him, but I am not in love. He is 5 years younger that myself and...
    pamnanet pamnanet 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago after a 2 year relationship. We were 16 when we got together and he was my first love and my best friend. Now I feel so hurt, scared and...
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    I don’t know why I’m posting here but arrived via a Google search on “lonely but married.” I’m tempted by the cheating sites that showed up but old enough to know they...
    MakaWoksapa MakaWoksapa 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 2

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    I Remember... It Was The Most Painful 3 Months Of My Life. He Broke Up With Me For My Best Friend. They Were The Most Important People In My Life At The Time And They Killed Me...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My first painful break-up was sloppy. No clean-cut "it's over", just a year of being strung along and being the boy on the side. Friends tried to tell me that she wasn't worth it...
    Onelist140 Onelist140 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I remember my first painful breakup... I was dating a guy for 2 years.. I'm my mind it was all going so well.. One day he asked me to meet him somewhere.. Little did I no it was to...
    XoxJazzyxox XoxJazzyxox 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I had a painful breakup about a year ago and now I am so over it by now. I just found out my ex broke up with his fourth girlfriend.I was in love with a crazy man.We had a very...
    chocomochalate chocomochalate 26-30, F Sep 4

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    My first painful breakup was so traumatizing it happened when I was 16... I'm 20 years old & it still bothers me today. Or maybe I'm just weak lol... I lost it to my boyfriend...
    stylerashtin stylerashtin 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    Which time was saying it that made you look his way? When saying that you're beautiful for the seventh time that day? or when I said," I am for you...", was that why you betrayed...
    fukubus fukubus 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 19

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    It's Amazing. You think you did what was right. You believe you did what you needed to. And yet you wonder.... Did I handle that situation right?.. Did I do what was best?.. Did...
    Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    The death of my aunt was the most painful events I have ever experienced .She died after 6 years struggling from womb cancer . She was the one who named me , I passed through a...
    Bobosa Bobosa 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    My first boyfriend & I were together for 9 months until something happened to him.. He started going a little too protective and kept making me stay at home telling him that he was...
    0nomatterwhat0 0nomatterwhat0 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Just last week i had my first ever painful breakup! Still hurts though!
    bing26 bing26 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    My first painful breakup happened to be 2 months ago. He had been very passive over the last 3 months of our relationship, he didn't make it official for a long time and he never...
    bev234 bev234 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    She won't speak with me, giving me the no contact treatment. It's hard cos I miss her so bad but need to respect her space. I asked for her forgiveness but she didn't give it
    mickstr mickstr 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    im 17, and i lost my virginity a few weeks ago to a guy i thought i loved. We were very happy until i recently moved 30 minutes away from him. After we both lost our virginities to...
    chantalball chantalball 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I have intense headaches all day at least 5 out of the 7 days of the week, and have had them for years. But what has really helped me manage them is taking one protein bar & or...
    C5PiE C5PiE 13-15, F Sep 4

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    This isnt the first one, but its the most recent. We had been dating almost six months. She developed feelings for me three years ago but didnt think she stood a chance with me...
    thetalkingmushroom thetalkingmushroom 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    So I met this boy last year and he was really sweet. I liked him after a few weeks of knowing him. He liked me the first day he saw me. He went up to my close friend and told her...
    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 12

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    thought the yoga would helps, but maybe i haven't followed enough sessions for it to have any effect. oh dear~ not again X'(
    yayforKay yayforKay 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    And they haunt me. But i aint erased nobody. Yet.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 13

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    I got dumped two months ago but we talked about getting back together on and off. I finally realized it is not going to happen. He wants to stay single but he is interested in...
    wonderful892 wonderful892 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    Mine was three months ago. I never took guys seriously but I gave him a chance. He was my first love. I thought being determined, strong, and independent would save me from...
    wonderful892 wonderful892 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    I want to have a baby and start a family, I am 20 and my partner is 24 and he seems to be nowhere near ready, he's applying to law school soon and i work to travel and maybe want...
    chamlav chamlav 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16

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    It has been 4 months since the breakup of my boyfriend and I. If you asked me, if I love him? I would said no but in my heart I knew the truth. He has moved on really quick and...
    SandySimplyMe SandySimplyMe 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 17

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    I feel so sad about my breakup . I feel like I want him back but I don't know how to go about it but then again I dnt want him back and I have a new male friend.. I just feel like...
    ABM20 ABM20 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    Friends. Those companions you speak of are only friends during those fun, yet unimportant times. When painful times come, they won’t be your ally.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Sep 19

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    I have been in relation from last 4 1/2 years she broke my trust and me like any useless stuff Last night we broke up but it's painting a lot
    wantsomeluv wantsomeluv 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 20

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    We met at school and were best friends, he told me he loved me, and I secretly loved him but wouldn't admit it. I was too scared it wouldn't work out and I would lose him, then I...
    leepoffaith78 leepoffaith78 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Growing up I suffered a lot of abuse from people a child should naturally be able to trust. I'm not comfortable discussing what I went through but I'm just going to say it was bad...
    13Selene13 13Selene13 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I dated a boy for 2 years. We fought like an old married couple. But we did everything together. And no matter what I loved him so much. We broke up probably every day and it didn...
    HanLol HanLol 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I dont know if he really loved me But i know. i felt it. He came like lightning And passed by like storm. Now he's pretending he's with someone else Or am i just assuming that he...
    charlichan charlichan 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Does time ever heal that first wound? I feel fine day to day, but whenever I think of it, it just makes me feel cold inside, and I wonder if I'll ever be able to forgive and...
    claire18mg claire18mg 18-21, T 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Everyone is avoiding me and blocking me and ignoring me and my pain. Why just because I'm a guy; I'm not allowed to have feelings, why when girls look at me they feel disgusted...
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am unsatisfied with our relationship. It's not his fault. He's exactly the same as when I chose him. But when I picked him I was nervous of men, I had a bad experience and was...
    countryminx countryminx 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    Because I just can't help it! I've eaten like such a cow today it's the most rewarding feeling! Watching my belly get bigger and bigger as my clothes get tighter and tighter is...
    ktchubbybelly ktchubbybelly 16-17, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I am doing it now while on EP, and thankful to it for giving me the chance of meeting great people here, but my attitude towards it is negative in general. And I do not mean just...
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 36-40, M 12 hrs ago

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    I'm the most shyest person ever if I don't know you, but once I get comfortable around you I'll never stop talking 😂😁
    erikamariahxo erikamariahxo 13-15, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Original work I don't know what's wrong with me but writing short things like this help me
    deamonsinside deamonsinside 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    Who's there for me whn Im dwn and have lost my direction? Im always there for everybody but whn im the one in need, nobody to confide in, more so trust....
    PoecticHart PoecticHart 26-30 1 Response Sep 1

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    I've been called a cold hearted ***** before. I can be, but I got a lot of love for the right people.
    TaylorRenee14 TaylorRenee14 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I have a few questions regarding my problem. Im an air-hostess and have to wear saree almost everyday. We girls usually wear our sarees a little below our navels with trying to...
    RamyaAirHostess RamyaAirHostess 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 1

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    I have shut myself out from everyone. I do have friends, but it feels like I wouldn't particularly miss them if they weren't there. I would just be complacent about it. That's...
    Vi018 Vi018 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Mummy I miss you so much I cant forget your face when I was mourning over your dead body and tears were not droppping but I was mourning.i wish I could find that lap where I could...
    jeeney jeeney 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1

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