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I Painful But Joyous

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    The Joy Of Pain

    Do you wonder why or how we can experience pain or joy at the sametime.  Like having children, though the grueling 9 months of pregancy, than several hours of labor, only to eventually have them practically ripped from your bosoms. Than be lucky enough to hear from them...
    ann9265 ann9265 41-45, F Feb 11, 2010

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    We had dated for over 2 years and had one of those relationships that just was natural and easy both sexually and romantically. Always were surprising each other with different...
    Anon1134 Anon1134 22-25 1 Response a week ago

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    I ******* remember my 1st painful breakup. actually we don't have a proper breakup. we're a childhood friends. we grew up together until I'm 17 and his 19?? I guess? I don't...
    RegineAbiertasPalencia RegineAbiertasPalencia 18-21, F Aug 24

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    How could anyone not remember their first painful breakup? Mine was in 8th grade with my first boyfriend. We lasted for around 5 months. Since it was my first ever relationship, I...
    KenKitty KenKitty 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I remember my first painful brake up, I was dating a guy for a few years and he said that I'd gotten too old for him and he found another guy. We met when I was 9 and by 16 my...
    2gnillort 2gnillort 70+, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Is my surgeon jumping the gun by suggesting I see a pain management specialist after having 2 shoulder surgeries one month apart? I had a 1st one early June but 3.5 weeks later I...
    yodasl yodasl 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I remember my first painful breakup. She was younger than I, almost 16. She could do things that the other women of the night twice her age would be jealous of. Well long story...
    2gnillort 2gnillort 70+, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago after a 2 year relationship. We were 16 when we got together and he was my first love and my best friend. Now I feel so hurt, scared and...
    livvyy321 livvyy321 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I don’t know why I’m posting here but arrived via a Google search on “lonely but married.” I’m tempted by the cheating sites that showed up but old enough to know they...
    MakaWoksapa MakaWoksapa 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 2

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    I Remember... It Was The Most Painful 3 Months Of My Life. He Broke Up With Me For My Best Friend. They Were The Most Important People In My Life At The Time And They Killed Me...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My first painful break-up was sloppy. No clean-cut "it's over", just a year of being strung along and being the boy on the side. Friends tried to tell me that she wasn't worth it...
    Onelist140 Onelist140 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I remember my first painful breakup... I was dating a guy for 2 years.. I'm my mind it was all going so well.. One day he asked me to meet him somewhere.. Little did I no it was to...
    XoxJazzyxox XoxJazzyxox 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I had a painful breakup about a year ago and now I am so over it by now. I just found out my ex broke up with his fourth girlfriend.I was in love with a crazy man.We had a very...
    chocomochalate chocomochalate 26-30, F Sep 4

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    My first painful breakup was so traumatizing it happened when I was 16... I'm 20 years old & it still bothers me today. Or maybe I'm just weak lol... I lost it to my boyfriend...
    stylerashtin stylerashtin 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Which time was saying it that made you look his way? When saying that you're beautiful for the seventh time that day? or when I said," I am for you...", was that why you betrayed...
    fukubus fukubus 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Well, we ended our relationship 3 years ago and it seems that he recovers from it easier than I did. Eventually, I got over it as well, but sometimes the memories stir up... Today...
    VelvetLace VelvetLace 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    Last night I finally ended an emotionally abusive relationship for good. I have tried to break up with him three other times but every time he would manage to coax me back by...
    jessaciao jessaciao 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Basically, all of my insecurities started HERE. It was from this moment, that everything started going wrong. I had been with this guy (he was my neighbor for 4 years) but we only...
    ineedpeaceinmylife ineedpeaceinmylife 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 25

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    My Bf had a bad experience with his ex/babysmother .. Now that me and him are together im guessing that she wants him back but since she played him he says he would never go back...
    BlackIndian95 BlackIndian95 18-21, F Aug 25

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    How im feeling... The Guy im in love with.. Is Facing some Issues with his Baby's Mother.. Weve talked before and he told me that she is his past & his past for a reason and he...
    BlackIndian95 BlackIndian95 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    My ex left me for someone else over 3 years ago and I still truly miss her, she was my first love. She was my best friend too. Since the split, I have got a law degree, visited...
    gw2211 gw2211 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 26

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    Aw man, mines was when I was 20 years old my fiance left me in the hospital when I lost my kidneys and woke up from a three day seizure. She got with her coworker the SAME DAY. Man...
    DoctrineDark DoctrineDark 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I am a person who loves to make people happy. I am always helping my friends. But when I need help, they just don't seem to care. I have them my everything, they wouldn't do...
    Hamoudiss34 Hamoudiss34 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    well, i dunno if you're gonna read this, but i figured i'd still adress you. and you know youre you being adressed because ive never REALLY dated anyone else. so. i wanted to put...
    peaceinmiles peaceinmiles 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    I still really like her and we're best friends idk anymore this pic is like a year old but I love it
    EpicBrotato EpicBrotato 13-15, M Aug 28

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    On the December 2012, I loved this boy, he was perfect in my eyes, but I was too shy to speak to him at school, so I just kept thinking about him, daydreaming, lacking behind in...
    enyalouisexoxo enyalouisexoxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I can accept that she no longer loves me. I can accept she has moved on But knowing I will never see her again, this breaks my heart
    mickstr mickstr 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Obliterated Heart He loves me he says. I know I love him. I knew that sorry wasn't going to do it. He use to care, he use share his feelings with me, but the love he use to give...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    She won't speak with me, giving me the no contact treatment. It's hard cos I miss her so bad but need to respect her space. I asked for her forgiveness but she didn't give it
    mickstr mickstr 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    im 17, and i lost my virginity a few weeks ago to a guy i thought i loved. We were very happy until i recently moved 30 minutes away from him. After we both lost our virginities to...
    chantalball chantalball 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I have intense headaches all day at least 5 out of the 7 days of the week, and have had them for years. But what has really helped me manage them is taking one protein bar & or...
    C5PiE C5PiE 13-15, F Sep 4

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    This isnt the first one, but its the most recent. We had been dating almost six months. She developed feelings for me three years ago but didnt think she stood a chance with me...
    thetalkingmushroom thetalkingmushroom 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 11

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    So I met this boy last year and he was really sweet. I liked him after a few weeks of knowing him. He liked me the first day he saw me. He went up to my close friend and told her...
    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 12

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    thought the yoga would helps, but maybe i haven't followed enough sessions for it to have any effect. oh dear~ not again X'(
    yayforKay yayforKay 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    And they haunt me. But i aint erased nobody. Yet.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 13

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    I got dumped two months ago but we talked about getting back together on and off. I finally realized it is not going to happen. He wants to stay single but he is interested in...
    wonderful892 wonderful892 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Mine was three months ago. I never took guys seriously but I gave him a chance. He was my first love. I thought being determined, strong, and independent would save me from...
    wonderful892 wonderful892 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I want to have a baby and start a family, I am 20 and my partner is 24 and he seems to be nowhere near ready, he's applying to law school soon and i work to travel and maybe want...
    chamlav chamlav 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It has been 4 months since the breakup of my boyfriend and I. If you asked me, if I love him? I would said no but in my heart I knew the truth. He has moved on really quick and...
    SandySimplyMe SandySimplyMe 13-15, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel so sad about my breakup . I feel like I want him back but I don't know how to go about it but then again I dnt want him back and I have a new male friend.. I just feel like...
    ABM20 ABM20 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Friends. Those companions you speak of are only friends during those fun, yet unimportant times. When painful times come, they won’t be your ally.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I have been in relation from last 4 1/2 years she broke my trust and me like any useless stuff Last night we broke up but it's painting a lot
    wantsomeluv wantsomeluv 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know when you get the cue for the right time on some thing? well...i think this is it. this is my cue to divorce my husband. We have been very unhappy with our marriage. From...
    lilacslolita lilacslolita 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    For the time I've been here, I've met some really awesome people on here. Although it's not far from the rule, I've found that for those that I've seen (as in a photo), I've been...
    privatelyanonymous privatelyanonymous 36-40, M 8 hrs ago

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    I think they are incredibly sexy and good looking. But I won't tell my mother about the man I've met online because she is prejudiced. When I told my grown daughter I was flirting...
    BumblingBee BumblingBee 51-55, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I don't know what is so attractive about them, but girl belly buttons are sooo sexy!
    EricMay117 EricMay117 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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