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I Painful But Joyous

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    The Joy Of Pain

    Do you wonder why or how we can experience pain or joy at the sametime.  Like having children, though the grueling 9 months of pregancy, than several hours of labor, only to eventually have them practically ripped from your bosoms. Than be lucky enough to hear from them...
    ann9265 ann9265 41-45, F Feb 11, 2010

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    He broke up with me on the last day of school in 8th grade. :( but I've moved on after a while.
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