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I Perfer Intelligence to Good Looks

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    if i had to choose a hot dumb *** guy or a smart not hot guy i wud choose the smart one
    ForeverAutumn ForeverAutumn 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Intelligence Vs Good Looks

    Intelligence varies.  What I can find intelligent, another may not and vice-versa.I'm not saying the person need being a genius cause geniuses are hard to find.  As long as the person is down to earth and reason accordingly, this is what I like and look into.  If the person...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 15, 2011

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    I am not good enough for anyone nor will i ever be but i will still be myself. I may not be good enough for you but i am for myself and that's all i need.
    BloodyVictim BloodyVictim 16-17, F 1 Response 42 mins ago

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    The looks are the initial catch you don't look at someone and instantly say what a marvellous personality she/ he has it's damn they're attractive I will try to get to know them...
    EdwardIX EdwardIX 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Yes, I often times remember someone's wit versus any other thing about a person. If someone has a good joke or good connotation, I take it with me forever more and use it when I...
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    I am good in bed. Anyone near can hear how good I am!
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    I feel unworthy despite working hard to achieve my goals. I worked like crazy in high school in order to get good grades. And I did. In fact I had the highest rank in my class. But...
    lifehack lifehack 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    A Life of Seeking I have lived and perhaps dedicated my life to not simply taking life as I found it. While I have been dedicated to the ideas of promoting charity, happiness...
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    Is it grace or is it Saturday law and Sabbath keeping??? Here is the side that clearly explains grace: Regarding Saturday or Sunday worship, I found the following. So many of...
    HeavenKnowsWhatComesOverMe HeavenKnowsWhatComesOverMe 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    A great body always gets my attention, but wit and intelligence keep it forever.
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Wit and intelligence are traits I am drawn to and seek out, as I tend to be more intellectual. I love lively banter and philosophical discussion.
    Olivia1962 Olivia1962 51-55, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I personally care more about how people act and how their personality is than how they look, like honestly people's looks doesn't define who they are. For example, I wear all black...
    drunkpunker drunkpunker 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Action is the real measure of intelligence. - Napoleon Hill
    zmilenseor zmilenseor 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I would rather be respected for my personality and heart than what I look like. Looks fade overtime but the kindness in someones heart is forever beautiful.
    foreveralone22 foreveralone22 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    even though I do spend alot of time on my looks - sorry I have to be honest - I dont pick friends based on looks - I do have a friend who wont be friends with anyone who isnt good...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hello, my name is Laurentiu and I'll be 18 next mounth on the 16 of july. My father abandoned me and my mom since my birth, so I grew up without the leading of a father. Since I...
    b16laurentiu b16laurentiu 16-17, M 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    What's the sense in having a gorgeous body - which will be not so good-looking some day - and having your content in tatters? I always go for content instead of looks. it does not...
    TheFormerOne TheFormerOne 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I love all gals for their personality. Everyone is beautiful and can be loved. But I dont want a gal thats beautiful on the outside. I want one thats beautiful on the inside. Looks...
    jackdragon22399 jackdragon22399 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'd rather fall in love with a woman's personality than looks. There are only so many looks available and I think having personalities that work together is more important and rare...
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    About 10 years back a friend of mine's brother was in Prison was looking for someone equally stimulating to write to him for penthouse pass this time and we root for good 2 years...
    Sharime Sharime 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    To all the women out their that think all guys are after looks it's true to a certain extent. We're visual. But for me atleast I can't tell you how turned off I get (other guys as...
    skater322 skater322 18-21, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    And by the looks of the prison population, you don't have to be a good person to be religious.
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 9 Responses Jun 24

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    Humor is associated with intelligence and honesty. This is why we are more attracted to people who can make us laugh...
    Vision2Fly Vision2Fly 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    Yes, that's it, to judge the character of a person I don't use looks but what a person believe, the way that person behaves and the responsability they have for their own actions...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M Jun 23

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    I wish this had said " good man or woman " I'm bi and need to adjust this category 😉... Now that said yes behind me , I am super dominant; it's just my nature . I try to fight...
    KittenHasClaws1980 KittenHasClaws1980 31-35, F Jun 23

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    Personality makes or breaks. An okay looking man can have a great personality, that would make him so much more attractive to me. Same with a good looking man, crappy personality...
    nunezquinnad nunezquinnad 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 23

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    If a good looking person presents himself as a... Not so smart person, then they are no longer cute to me, in fact, I cringe the thought of them. That is just how I feel about it.
    SweetHeartxxo SweetHeartxxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    Fun playful wit and intelligence is what I luv. You ofetn can't look for it, it just appears in plain sight like a magnificent rainbow across the sky, often in midst of a group...
    SadDancer SadDancer 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 22

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    Some days turn out better or worse than others – that’s a fact. But ultimately, the way we feel about our life and ourselves has the biggest impact on the outcome of each day...
    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 22

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    QUOTES TAKEN FROM ACTUAL FEDERAL EMPLOYEE PERFORMANCE EVALUATIONS: 1. "Since my last report, this employee has reached rock bottom and has started to dig." 2. "His men would...
    zydeko zydeko 18-21 1 Response Jun 22

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    QUOTES TAKEN FROM ACTUAL FEDERAL EMPLOYEE PERFORMANCE EVALUATIONS: 1. "Since my last report, this employee has reached rock bottom and has started to dig." 2. "His men would...
    zydeko zydeko 18-21 Jun 22

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    My idea of great looks is a long way from society's supposed ideal.If you're a (very)overweight redhead witha good heart and brains,I'd do anything for you.
    jjb6560 jjb6560 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    It is amazing how some people possess wit while others acquire it. I believe self-generation of intelligence is just as important as observing and interpreting the world around you...
    missdoublelife missdoublelife 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    “For millions of years flowers have been producing thorns. For millions of years sheep have been eating them all the same. And it's not serious, trying to understand why flowers...
    SilenceEvermore SilenceEvermore 22-25 2 Responses Jun 19

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    A person can be gorgeous on the outside but they can be horrible people on the inside. Personally, I think personality should always come first before looks. I'd rather find...
    bookaholic14 bookaholic14 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    "You don't love someone for their looks or their clothes or their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear." - Oscar Wilde
    iSpyce iSpyce 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Humor is associated with intelligence & honesty, that's why most women tend to be attracted to men with a sense of humor.
    DelightedRaj DelightedRaj 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 17

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    Calling someone beautiful just for their looks doesn't mean they're actually beautiful. They could be the most gorgeous person you have ever seen but have a ugly personality...
    ColorlessColorxoxo ColorlessColorxoxo 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 16

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    I previously had a profile on EP with a photo attached and got bombarded with questions/messages etc based on my looks hence new profile minus photo. Does it make me dishonest by...
    sugarbox1970 sugarbox1970 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 15

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    Wit and Intelligence seems very rare these days that you have to admire it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 14

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