I Prefer Gentlemanlike Behavior

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    But That Doesn't Mean Weak

    I like gentleman like behavior, especially in how it relates to traditional interaction between men and women. I like when a man holds a door open for me, asks if I need assistance if I appear puzzled, overwhelmed or struggling with a physical task. I like when a man doesn't use...
    JennierW70 JennierW70
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

    A good man is hard to find,

    and a true Southern gentleman may be even harder to find. He is the standard by which Southern mothers raise their sons. Instead of saying, “be good so Santa will bring you presents,” they say “Now, son if you want to be a Southern gentleman than you need to act like this...
    southerngurlnpearls southerngurlnpearls
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 10, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    astrudcc11 astrudcc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    Everyone prefers a man with manners,

    and if he slips a little naughty in, well just a highlight in the day ;)
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 20, 2016

    Bring me back to the old days

    where people still had class. Women wore dresses and had respect for themselves and men still held doors and knew how to treat a lady. I'm not saying they're aren't people like this today though very rare do you come across them.
    foreveralone22 foreveralone22
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 30, 2015

    If you are a guy, and you're reading this,

    congratulations!! You are a gentleman or at least an aspiring one. Would you like to know a few secrets about what some ladies like? I would love to know what gentlemen prefer from their ladies. I wish we were mind-readers, but we're not. I do know that ladies never want a...
    livingasme livingasme
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2014

    Well, maybe not perfectly gentlemanlike

    behavior... I like tactful. I enjoy people who can be charming and witty, but also exciting and just a little mischievous. My favorite kind...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 9, 2015

    I have come to the conclusion

    that a good number of the ladies here are actually men posing as women. From the experiences and messages I can draw no other conclusion. Just an observation.
    submolly submolly
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Mar 17, 2016

    Here's a tip to be a gentlemen: Please do not

    be overly friendly and flirtatious with a girl and turn rude and cold when you realize those romantic feelings are not reciprocated. ESPECIALLY ONLINE as I will never develop chemistry with anyone online. In rl my best guy friends are thosr who don't like me like that(fingers...
    GiiGi GiiGi
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    People need to start thinking of other peoples

    feelings it's just down right discusting n rude.
    Kissieface Kissieface
    31-35, F
    Feb 17, 2014

    I sort of have this dilemma

    and dichotomy problem. I like guys who are dominant and aggressive, but gosh I hate being told what to do. I mean sometimes I'm fine with it, like during sex that's fine and preferred, but outside of that gosh nothing makes me as mad. If it's in the heat of the moment, that's...
    littlejewels littlejewels
    22-25, F
    8 Responses May 7, 2014

    terrible secret of mine i tend to look at men

    at least to the age of 30 with young kids and would really want to be with him i would love to help him with his kids despite my age i have a goid head on my shoulders i know what i want i would love him literally if we get that far. men around that age i always want to talk to...
    Eroticwriter34 Eroticwriter34
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 29, 2015

    A Male's Insight On Gentlemanly Behavior

    I've read a lot of comments pertaining to the disappearance of "gentlemanly" behavior and I would like to offer some insight. Obviously I'm not speaking on behalf of all men, and there are still many gentleman out there, but I'm merely providing my perspective. 1. Being a...
    SuperAquaboy SuperAquaboy
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Sep 6, 2011

    I honestly prefer a guy

    who is a gentleman...it shows classy and self-respect...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    Call me traditional or perhaps

    even old fashioned, but I do prefer a man to be a gentleman. I grew up watching my father open the doors for my mother, hold her chair as she sat down, walk beside her and hold her hand or arm, and saw the tender devotion and strength that he had. He was the consummate gentleman...
    BeachGypsy BeachGypsy
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    It Is A Must

    I love gentlemen. A man who has manners, speaks well, dresses well and knows how to treat a woman is a true gem. What is a real turn off is a man who has no manners. A man who shows up disheveled and sloppy. A man who has poor grammar and no brains. Contrary to what some of you...
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    1 Response May 27, 2012

    "Me Too, I Just Love This Quality In A Man! They Are A Dying Breed."

    When I saw this EP Experience Group, I just had to join it. I was just talking about this with my Aunt. She said something about it that rung true, "They are the last of a dying breed." Its not often that I see that "Gentleman" quality in men these days. It is a quality that is...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Feb 11, 2012

    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Apr 13, 2014

    So Rare

    I don't want to sound too whiny and maudlin, but I regret the apparent disappearance of this type of behavior. It is becoming increasingly rare to find men who actually know how to treat a woman with respect. I blame the parents :P If a man has good manners, he dresses well, he...
    DeclarableKitten DeclarableKitten
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2013

    chivalry isn't dead, fuckboyism is just running

    rampant. people think what's accepted is what's right "if that person can be an *******, then I can be one too..." Have some grain of respect. if not for that woman you just called a thot and asked for a bj, have some respect for yourself. PS: don't go proving my point in the...
    foolishwiseguy foolishwiseguy
    26-30, M
    Jul 27, 2015

    I think the sexiest thing a guy can do is

    handle my attitude and my body...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 8, 2016

    Gentleman's guide to dating 1) Never keep a

    lady waiting 2) Hold the door for her 3) Offer to take her coat 4) Get her chair for her 4) Ask what she wants to order 5) Order for her 6) Happily offer to pay 7) Walk her home 8) If she's cold give her your jacket 9) Make sure to call her the next day 10) Repeat
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Oct 24, 2015


    I want a guy close to my age(meaning like 17-19) to talk to. Someone to laugh and joke with, someone to be sweet to me when I'm feeling upset, someone who is not afraid to take time to get to know each other! A GENTLEMAN!
    xXxLoveLikeTheNymphsxXx xXxLoveLikeTheNymphsxXx
    18-21, F
    Nov 30, 2013

    Shame On You

    It is most unfortunate but some men think that because they are on the internet, that it gives them the right to be rude to women. Case in point, an EP member had been pestering me for friendship.  He kept sending me messages to my whiteboard and I asked him why he wanted...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Sep 15, 2011

    My wonderful boyfriend tries to open doors

    for me a lot of the time and is so accommodating and wonderful like that. Especially for me. He pulled out my chair for me last time we ate at a restaurant, as well. These things are not necessary but, are always quite nice. Make sure you find someone that will do them on his...
    melody477 melody477
    18-21, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    My Guy Friends

    I feel I'm a lucky girl to have nice guy friends. Here and off line. Sadly, there are many man that are disrespectful. But not all men are like that. There are still some good ones out there. All the guys in circle on EP are gentleman. What I like about these men is that they are...
    surrealreality surrealreality
    31-35, F
    Feb 12, 2012

    I try to embody gentleman-like behavior.

    I will admit that some of the physical practices, such as opening the woman's door for her, are probably rusty due to the 9 years since my divorce and lack of women of the appropriate age where I live. In addition, I do not move very fast due to my disability. If a woman...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    Old Fashioned Ideals.

    I am no Prima Donna, that's for sure.I guess I just grew up in a house hold where my dad always treated my mother with respect and courtesy.He always opened the car door for her, often bought her flowers, and was always tender and loving towards her.I feel that a lot of that kind...
    Bronte36 Bronte36
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Apr 13, 2012
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    May 7, 2014

    It's sad!!, all the guys I met are jerks I'm

    not saying all men are jerks but all the ones I met are, I never once met a true gentleman I hope oneday that I will. Much love peace and respect
    Kittyxfreak Kittyxfreak
    22-25, F
    Sep 4, 2014

    That's Who I Am

    Let me begin with two things. First, being a gentleman is not how a person acts, being a gentleman is who a person is. So that's why I titled this story the way I did. Secondly, I am from the South. I am a southerner, redneck, etc., whatever y'all want to call us but I...
    SirLaughalots SirLaughalots
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    Guys who come on strong with the sexual

    innuendos right off, bug me.
    Becface112 Becface112
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Oct 1, 2015

    I Always Try My Best.

    I will always open doors for women and take my hat off indoors, and try my best to be a gentlemen all the time.
    CyberDeath118 CyberDeath118
    31-35, M
    Sep 16, 2013

    My Brother

    My brother is the most gentleman-like man I know. He's very kind but has an air of confidence I appreciate. He is never, ever rude but quite assertive. He's clever and witty but never uses insulting humor. He's one of those amazing dads who care and despite working very long...
    DisorderlyCyn DisorderlyCyn
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 8, 2013

    Nice Guys

    I've always tried my utmost to be as respectful and polite as I possibly could to the ladies I speak with. Yes, I have urges and desires, but I only approach these subjects tactfully, and once we've reached a level of comfort with each other. Unfortunately, by that time, I...
    Valdaine Valdaine
    41-45, M
    Oct 4, 2013

    Good girls going for the bad boys,

    what's in it for the good guys?
    Kkdplolkk Kkdplolkk
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2014

    my friend knows that I do,

    he always try's his best to act grown up, and not make really stupid jokes. He actually cares, and will listen to you, try to help. Or if you're alone and he sees you he'll come, he holds the door open for me even if I'm the last person, he'll walk me home, he walks to class...
    drunkpunker drunkpunker
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2015

    A gentleman in the streets,

    and a master between the sheets. Yep, that's my guy right there.
    Littlemisslollipop Littlemisslollipop
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2016
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