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I Prefer Men With Meat On Their Bones

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    It's a Security Thing

    I've always been attracted to bigger guys. My "unrequited love" was a big guy. There's something about a tall, big guy that gets me. I want to look up into his eyes, and have something to hold onto; I feel more protected that way. Is that weird? There's also...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex 22-25 2 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    Hell Yeah

    Sorry but to feel feminine I need to be held by a man who has some girth to him. You have to understand, I love men's bodies, and when there is more, it really is a bonus. Now I don't mean I'd dig Jabba or anything but a belly-to me-is not only sexy but empowering. I feel sexy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 36 Responses Aug 22, 2008

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    Just a Little Meat

    I am a fan of men, period. You know that if you know me much at all. If a man is smart, fun to be with and has a caring heart,...looks are not going to matter all that much. I do prefer a man that weighs more then I do though! I like something to snuggle up to. I'd rather my man...
    autimom autimom 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    Now I Do

    I used to love the skinny guys but the older I get I am don't mind over weight guys.  It does not bother me anymore.  In fact is kind of turns me on now.  I do prefer a guy with meat on their bones now over a skinny guy any day.
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    He Wants to Lose Weight??!!??

    I want my guy to be healthy and happy with his own body.  About 1.5 year ago he went on a health kick and changed his eating habits for the better and started exercising....  he lost 38 pounds!   He kept them off for awhile but slowly slipped back into his...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    If You Look Like Six O'clock, Keep Moving.

    Physique-wise, one of my favorite guys I've ever dated was 6'5" and about 250. I don't like skinny men; they're unattractive to me - some look downright boyish, or even skeletal.  I want a man who looks like a man - a man who looks like he could take care of business (and that...
    stlmo8 stlmo8 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Real Men

    I don't even look at these twiggy guys everyone touts as "sexy," or whatever lame thing they're calling it. Sexy is not a stringy form upon which I could conduct a lesson on muscular anatomy. Sexy is a man who wears his love of beer and good food wrapped around his waist. Don't...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    Because I Am One!

    And have been made to feel inferior for years - family and friends mainly. Thing is; I was, in my youth a scrawny sod; 28 inch waist and almost 6 ft. I am officially cuddly these days as I head merrily out of control towards 50  - and for some reason I find I am...
    hawk2002 hawk2002 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    My Guy

    My fiance keeps complaining that he's fat, when I'm much worse looking. he's 5'11" and 200 pounds which isnt bad at all. He has a l ittle bit of a belly and I find it adorable and sexy. The rest of him in my opinion is too skinny, But he's still my perfect baby with a little...
    EarthlyGoddess EarthlyGoddess 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Something to Hold Onto.

    I have dated men of all shapes and sizes back in my single days.  I don't discriminate as it's personality that determines my attraction to someone more than anything else. I do adore the "big cuddly teddy bear" type of guy (think Kevin James from King of...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 14 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    More To Love

    Just like I like my women a little "meatier", I prefer my men the same way. I've never been too keen on super-skinny people. It's just not my preference.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Im Picky

    i knew a guy that was over weight and i was still attracted to him. he was in weight lifting so he wasn't just over weight. he was toned. i like it that he was the mixer of both he wasn't too much over weight, but not to muscled. he was real nice and cool. he spoke only once of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 3, 2009

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    Healthy Dimensions Matter

    My guy needs to be both taller and wider than me.There is nothing unsexier than having to constantly wonder if you can pick up your boyfriend and carry him over the threshold.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    I Like Squish.

    I like my men a little plump. I'm not sure exactly whether this has to do with myself being a plumper lady or not. I wanna feel him when I snuggle up to him at night! To the point that I catch myself complaining when my boyfriend talks about toning up and losing his adorable...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Meat Or Fat?

    bit of confusion here do you mean meat = fat or muscle which is generally everyone likes.
    RogerThompson RogerThompson 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    Not A Criteria Though

    I mean if I love someone, I don't really care what they look like, unless they have rotten teeth, I have problems with that, and people with bad personal hygiene. It's not the more important. But I'd rather be with a guy who isn't so skinny. Not necessarily fat or overly muscular...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 27, 2012

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    More Meat!

    I dated a guy who was fine boned... he was ALWAYS 20 lbs lighter than me. Beside him I felt like an ogre! I think a man should have broad shoulders and some fat... if he is all muscle (my ex husband at the end of our marriage) there is nothing to hold on to. Or very thin there is...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2009

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    Love This Group

    this website is awesome, after i finished reading the stories in this group i feel like ive gained back the confidence i once had....Ive always been a big guy and its never caused problems when it came to dating girls but then i got even bigger and I was in between 2 countries at...
    gfama gfama 18-21, M Feb 15, 2013

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    It's Cute That Way:)

    I've always loved and adored men with flabs and all! haha! it's cute, so real...not like chiseled and muscled...ahhh...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    Yummo

    Meat on the bones...lol that saying always cracked me up. But yes I prefer men with some meat on their bones, but I prefer beef not pork lol. Anyways I like em about 200 lbs or so. Depends on the guy. But they have to be taller than me. That is a must as well.
    Gataki Gataki 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 6, 2009

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    IN His Arms

    He is just a touch over-weight with a little gut and I could care less about that! To me he is sexy and handsome and wonderful inside and out. I love him just the way he is. And he is mine. All mine. and only mine. And I love how we go to sleep in one anothers arms at night...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Not That I Prefer...i Just Am One

    so it is nice to see that there really is ladies out there that like a guy who can stand in a strong wind and not fall down. It's ok that poeple ask us to lift this, get that, because physically we are able. But when our usefullness has passed, and we are left to go back and...
    Beaverman Beaverman 41-45, M 5 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    I Am One.

    I wasnt always a guy at the size I am now. I used to be a lot more skinny actually. When I was younger in school I was actually between 150 and 180. I trained in Mixed Martial Arts since I was six years old (I still do to this day). But when I was in the army and right after I...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    Junk In the Trunk

    I love a meaty guy with a lot of junk in the trunk.  Not grossly obese or anything but definately no skinny minis.  Any waists below 38 step to the back of the line LOL
    Roaring20s Roaring20s 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    men with well groomed beards are the best.
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    I really see no point in judging someone else without knowing their story. When I see someone who stands out from the crowd or catches my eye, I find them unique actually. How will...
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    I'm trying a new diet to see if it will help me lose weight. I love eating meat. I just want to see if I can go a whole month without it. I'm allowing myself to eat fish. I been...
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    If one more guy sends me a **** pic attached to the first message i'll lose it, i like talking to people not looking at their junk, so if ya'll message me how about saying your...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 15

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    I have the kind of body all men want,I love teasing men and usually goes ok.one time though I was grabbing my ankles to this biker and his buddies grabbed my wrist so he could f me...
    Pizzapaul Pizzapaul 18-21, M Sep 11

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    I love men who have long hair or curly hair. I just love hair!
    ZooeyMarceline ZooeyMarceline 18-21, F Sep 2

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    Ugh! Had come to few men are down right rude & nasty!! Guessing they don't have a life but to drag ppl down, even women!! Not here for bs!
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Manners are a lost art. ESPECIALLY on this site. So... let me lay down the ground rules by which I abide. 1) I don't care about your junk. When you send me a message with a...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    Oh hell yes I do! Listen to this sexy man speak. Mmm... Colin Farrell on Ellen http://youtu.be/fPCD5EELfNI
    NeelraDorianGray NeelraDorianGray 31-35, F Aug 28

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    "Hi how're you! What's your name and where you from...." Don't just get your **** out and send me a photo. If it is yours! I'm so human being, we talk pretty good....
    DearbhalC95 DearbhalC95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    and i love being teased by women who love to tease ;P Any girl lookin to get some lusty looks is free to PM n tease ;) im open to anything ;)
    jonnyjonny90 jonnyjonny90 22-25, M Sep 5

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    I'm not a fan of the jiggly fat on a man, but a nice ball belly… damn. That's beautiful.
    missbouncybelly missbouncybelly 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I'm not talking shoulder length. I'm talking loooong. Haha I love the way that was not specific. I guess it's a weird like, but I think it's really hot when a guy has long hair.
    cardigandragon cardigandragon 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    At the club where I work, they see a naked girl and they want to maul her! Her rights don't come into it! Ok, it's so sexy situation, but does it have to be so mindless before...
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