I Prefer Men With Meat On Their Bones

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    If You Look Like Six O'clock, Keep Moving.

    Physique-wise, one of my favorite guys I've ever dated was 6'5" and about 250. I don't like skinny men; they're unattractive to me - some look downright boyish, or even skeletal.  I want a man who looks like a man - a man who looks like he could take care of business (and that...
    stlmo8 stlmo8
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2012

    Chubby men who love getting cooked for

    and taken care of are perfect :3
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    Real Men

    I don't even look at these twiggy guys everyone touts as "sexy," or whatever lame thing they're calling it. Sexy is not a stringy form upon which I could conduct a lesson on muscular anatomy. Sexy is a man who wears his love of beer and good food wrapped around his waist. Don't...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2010
    belly111 belly111
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2015

    Junk In the Trunk

    I love a meaty guy with a lot of junk in the trunk.  Not grossly obese or anything but definately no skinny minis.  Any waists below 38 step to the back of the line LOL
    Roaring20s Roaring20s
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Dec 6, 2008

    I Am One.

    I wasnt always a guy at the size I am now. I used to be a lot more skinny actually. When I was younger in school I was actually between 150 and 180. I trained in Mixed Martial Arts since I was six years old (I still do to this day). But when I was in the army and right after I...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 27, 2013

    My Guy

    My fiance keeps complaining that he's fat, when I'm much worse looking. he's 5'11" and 200 pounds which isnt bad at all. He has a l ittle bit of a belly and I find it adorable and sexy. The rest of him in my opinion is too skinny, But he's still my perfect baby with a little...
    EarthlyGoddess EarthlyGoddess
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

    More Meat!

    I dated a guy who was fine boned... he was ALWAYS 20 lbs lighter than me. Beside him I felt like an ogre! I think a man should have broad shoulders and some fat... if he is all muscle (my ex husband at the end of our marriage) there is nothing to hold on to. Or very thin there is...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2009

    Im Picky

    i knew a guy that was over weight and i was still attracted to him. he was in weight lifting so he wasn't just over weight. he was toned. i like it that he was the mixer of both he wasn't too much over weight, but not to muscled. he was real nice and cool. he spoke only once of...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 3, 2009

    IN His Arms

    He is just a touch over-weight with a little gut and I could care less about that! To me he is sexy and handsome and wonderful inside and out. I love him just the way he is. And he is mine. All mine. and only mine. And I love how we go to sleep in one anothers arms at night...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

    I Like Squish.

    I like my men a little plump. I'm not sure exactly whether this has to do with myself being a plumper lady or not. I wanna feel him when I snuggle up to him at night! To the point that I catch myself complaining when my boyfriend talks about toning up and losing his adorable...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Dec 19, 2008

    Love This Group

    this website is awesome, after i finished reading the stories in this group i feel like ive gained back the confidence i once had....Ive always been a big guy and its never caused problems when it came to dating girls but then i got even bigger and I was in between 2 countries at...
    gfama gfama
    18-21, M
    Feb 15, 2013

    Meat Or Fat?

    bit of confusion here do you mean meat = fat or muscle which is generally everyone likes.
    RogerThompson RogerThompson
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 13, 2011

    Now I Do

    I used to love the skinny guys but the older I get I am don't mind over weight guys.  It does not bother me anymore.  In fact is kind of turns me on now.  I do prefer a guy with meat on their bones now over a skinny guy any day.
    rondat rondat
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Apr 15, 2009

    Something to Hold Onto.

    I have dated men of all shapes and sizes back in my single days.  I don't discriminate as it's personality that determines my attraction to someone more than anything else. I do adore the "big cuddly teddy bear" type of guy (think Kevin James from King of...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009
    41-45, F
    14 Responses Dec 5, 2008

    It's Cute That Way:)

    I've always loved and adored men with flabs and all! haha! it's cute, so real...not like chiseled and muscled...ahhh...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 15, 2009
    christy0909 christy0909
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    I am a Big Man (6'0, 360)

    and I never have really felt attractive... I grew up fat and am still fat no matter how hard I fight it. Just knowing there are actually women out there who like fat guys gives me hope. Thank you for having this group!
    deleted deleted
    Sep 3, 2015

    It's a Security Thing

    I've always been attracted to bigger guys. My "unrequited love" was a big guy. There's something about a tall, big guy that gets me. I want to look up into his eyes, and have something to hold onto; I feel more protected that way. Is that weird? There's also...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex
    2 Responses Dec 6, 2008

    He Wants to Lose Weight??!!??

    I want my guy to be healthy and happy with his own body.  About 1.5 year ago he went on a health kick and changed his eating habits for the better and started exercising....  he lost 38 pounds!   He kept them off for awhile but slowly slipped back into his...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2008

    Because I Am One!

    And have been made to feel inferior for years - family and friends mainly. Thing is; I was, in my youth a scrawny sod; 28 inch waist and almost 6 ft. I am officially cuddly these days as I head merrily out of control towards 50  - and for some reason I find I am...
    hawk2002 hawk2002
    46-50, M
    7 Responses Jul 2, 2009

    I like my man with mean on their bones.

    Skinny men won't cut it and men with more cushion are better cuddlers. :)
    bigtallblackcurvychick bigtallblackcurvychick
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2015

    Just a Little Meat

    I am a fan of men, period. You know that if you know me much at all. If a man is smart, fun to be with and has a caring heart,...looks are not going to matter all that much. I do prefer a man that weighs more then I do though! I like something to snuggle up to. I'd rather my man...
    autimom autimom
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Nov 29, 2008


    Meat on the bones...lol that saying always cracked me up. But yes I prefer men with some meat on their bones, but I prefer beef not pork lol. Anyways I like em about 200 lbs or so. Depends on the guy. But they have to be taller than me. That is a must as well.
    Gataki Gataki
    22-25, T
    1 Response Jan 6, 2009

    Not A Criteria Though

    I mean if I love someone, I don't really care what they look like, unless they have rotten teeth, I have problems with that, and people with bad personal hygiene. It's not the more important. But I'd rather be with a guy who isn't so skinny. Not necessarily fat or overly muscular...
    deleted deleted
    May 27, 2012

    Hell Yeah

    Sorry but to feel feminine I need to be held by a man who has some girth to him. You have to understand, I love men's bodies, and when there is more, it really is a bonus. Now I don't mean I'd dig Jabba or anything but a belly-to me-is not only sexy but empowering. I feel sexy...
    deleted deleted
    35 Responses Aug 22, 2008

    Healthy Dimensions Matter

    My guy needs to be both taller and wider than me.There is nothing unsexier than having to constantly wonder if you can pick up your boyfriend and carry him over the threshold.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 25, 2011

    More To Love

    Just like I like my women a little "meatier", I prefer my men the same way. I've never been too keen on super-skinny people. It's just not my preference.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2011
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