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I Prefer Men With Meat On Their Bones

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    Now I Do

    I used to love the skinny guys but the older I get I am don't mind over weight guys.  It does not bother me anymore.  In fact is kind of turns me on now.  I do prefer a guy with meat on their bones now over a skinny guy any day.
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    Real Men

    I don't even look at these twiggy guys everyone touts as "sexy," or whatever lame thing they're calling it. Sexy is not a stringy form upon which I could conduct a lesson on muscular anatomy. Sexy is a man who wears his love of beer and good food wrapped around his waist. Don't...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    Just a Little Meat

    I am a fan of men, period. You know that if you know me much at all. If a man is smart, fun to be with and has a caring heart,...looks are not going to matter all that much. I do prefer a man that weighs more then I do though! I like something to snuggle up to. I'd rather my man...
    autimom autimom 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    Not That I Prefer...i Just Am One

    so it is nice to see that there really is ladies out there that like a guy who can stand in a strong wind and not fall down. It's ok that poeple ask us to lift this, get that, because physically we are able. But when our usefullness has passed, and we are left to go back and...
    Beaverman Beaverman 41-45, M 5 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    Junk In the Trunk

    I love a meaty guy with a lot of junk in the trunk.  Not grossly obese or anything but definately no skinny minis.  Any waists below 38 step to the back of the line LOL
    Roaring20s Roaring20s 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    It's a Security Thing

    I've always been attracted to bigger guys. My "unrequited love" was a big guy. There's something about a tall, big guy that gets me. I want to look up into his eyes, and have something to hold onto; I feel more protected that way. Is that weird? There's also...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex 22-25 2 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    Not A Criteria Though

    I mean if I love someone, I don't really care what they look like, unless they have rotten teeth, I have problems with that, and people with bad personal hygiene. It's not the more important. But I'd rather be with a guy who isn't so skinny. Not necessarily fat or overly muscular...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 27, 2012

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    Hell Yeah

    Sorry but to feel feminine I need to be held by a man who has some girth to him. You have to understand, I love men's bodies, and when there is more, it really is a bonus. Now I don't mean I'd dig Jabba or anything but a belly-to me-is not only sexy but empowering. I feel sexy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 36 Responses Aug 22, 2008

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    He Wants to Lose Weight??!!??

    I want my guy to be healthy and happy with his own body.  About 1.5 year ago he went on a health kick and changed his eating habits for the better and started exercising....  he lost 38 pounds!   He kept them off for awhile but slowly slipped back into his...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    Love This Group

    this website is awesome, after i finished reading the stories in this group i feel like ive gained back the confidence i once had....Ive always been a big guy and its never caused problems when it came to dating girls but then i got even bigger and I was in between 2 countries at...
    gfama gfama 18-21, M Feb 15, 2013

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    Im Picky

    i knew a guy that was over weight and i was still attracted to him. he was in weight lifting so he wasn't just over weight. he was toned. i like it that he was the mixer of both he wasn't too much over weight, but not to muscled. he was real nice and cool. he spoke only once of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 3, 2009

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    Yummo

    Meat on the bones...lol that saying always cracked me up. But yes I prefer men with some meat on their bones, but I prefer beef not pork lol. Anyways I like em about 200 lbs or so. Depends on the guy. But they have to be taller than me. That is a must as well.
    Gataki Gataki 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 6, 2009

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    More Meat!

    I dated a guy who was fine boned... he was ALWAYS 20 lbs lighter than me. Beside him I felt like an ogre! I think a man should have broad shoulders and some fat... if he is all muscle (my ex husband at the end of our marriage) there is nothing to hold on to. Or very thin there is...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2009

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    IN His Arms

    He is just a touch over-weight with a little gut and I could care less about that! To me he is sexy and handsome and wonderful inside and out. I love him just the way he is. And he is mine. All mine. and only mine. And I love how we go to sleep in one anothers arms at night...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    I Like Squish.

    I like my men a little plump. I'm not sure exactly whether this has to do with myself being a plumper lady or not. I wanna feel him when I snuggle up to him at night! To the point that I catch myself complaining when my boyfriend talks about toning up and losing his adorable...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Something to Hold Onto.

    I have dated men of all shapes and sizes back in my single days.  I don't discriminate as it's personality that determines my attraction to someone more than anything else. I do adore the "big cuddly teddy bear" type of guy (think Kevin James from King of...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    More To Love

    Just like I like my women a little "meatier", I prefer my men the same way. I've never been too keen on super-skinny people. It's just not my preference.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Meat Or Fat?

    bit of confusion here do you mean meat = fat or muscle which is generally everyone likes.
    RogerThompson RogerThompson 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    My Guy

    My fiance keeps complaining that he's fat, when I'm much worse looking. he's 5'11" and 200 pounds which isnt bad at all. He has a l ittle bit of a belly and I find it adorable and sexy. The rest of him in my opinion is too skinny, But he's still my perfect baby with a little...
    EarthlyGoddess EarthlyGoddess 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Because I Am One!

    And have been made to feel inferior for years - family and friends mainly. Thing is; I was, in my youth a scrawny sod; 28 inch waist and almost 6 ft. I am officially cuddly these days as I head merrily out of control towards 50  - and for some reason I find I am...
    hawk2002 hawk2002 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Healthy Dimensions Matter

    My guy needs to be both taller and wider than me.There is nothing unsexier than having to constantly wonder if you can pick up your boyfriend and carry him over the threshold.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    I Am One.

    I wasnt always a guy at the size I am now. I used to be a lot more skinny actually. When I was younger in school I was actually between 150 and 180. I trained in Mixed Martial Arts since I was six years old (I still do to this day). But when I was in the army and right after I...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    It's Cute That Way:)

    I've always loved and adored men with flabs and all! haha! it's cute, so real...not like chiseled and muscled...ahhh...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    If You Look Like Six O'clock, Keep Moving.

    Physique-wise, one of my favorite guys I've ever dated was 6'5" and about 250. I don't like skinny men; they're unattractive to me - some look downright boyish, or even skeletal.  I want a man who looks like a man - a man who looks like he could take care of business (and that...
    stlmo8 stlmo8 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    I don't want a guy who is a pig and self conceded. It's a big turn off!
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    My man has the most sexiest voice in the whole wide world! That was what got me hooked. Drives me insane!!!
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    Or, more precisely, I hope girls find me attractive; I am sure the beard helps.
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    Oh hell yes I do! Listen to this sexy man speak. Mmm... Colin Farrell on Ellen http://youtu.be/fPCD5EELfNI
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    I can't live without meat, and you? :)
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