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I Prefer Men With Meat On Their Bones

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    Not A Criteria Though

    I mean if I love someone, I don't really care what they look like, unless they have rotten teeth, I have problems with that, and people with bad personal hygiene. It's not the more important. But I'd rather be with a guy who isn't so skinny. Not necessarily fat or overly muscular...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 27, 2012

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    Love This Group

    this website is awesome, after i finished reading the stories in this group i feel like ive gained back the confidence i once had....Ive always been a big guy and its never caused problems when it came to dating girls but then i got even bigger and I was in between 2 countries at...
    gfama gfama 18-21, M Feb 15, 2013

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    Just a Little Meat

    I am a fan of men, period. You know that if you know me much at all. If a man is smart, fun to be with and has a caring heart,...looks are not going to matter all that much. I do prefer a man that weighs more then I do though! I like something to snuggle up to. I'd rather my man...
    autimom autimom 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    More To Love

    Just like I like my women a little "meatier", I prefer my men the same way. I've never been too keen on super-skinny people. It's just not my preference.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    It's Cute That Way:)

    I've always loved and adored men with flabs and all! haha! it's cute, so real...not like chiseled and muscled...ahhh...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    IN His Arms

    He is just a touch over-weight with a little gut and I could care less about that! To me he is sexy and handsome and wonderful inside and out. I love him just the way he is. And he is mine. All mine. and only mine. And I love how we go to sleep in one anothers arms at night...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Real Men

    I don't even look at these twiggy guys everyone touts as "sexy," or whatever lame thing they're calling it. Sexy is not a stringy form upon which I could conduct a lesson on muscular anatomy. Sexy is a man who wears his love of beer and good food wrapped around his waist. Don't...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    I Like Squish.

    I like my men a little plump. I'm not sure exactly whether this has to do with myself being a plumper lady or not. I wanna feel him when I snuggle up to him at night! To the point that I catch myself complaining when my boyfriend talks about toning up and losing his adorable...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 6 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Im Picky

    i knew a guy that was over weight and i was still attracted to him. he was in weight lifting so he wasn't just over weight. he was toned. i like it that he was the mixer of both he wasn't too much over weight, but not to muscled. he was real nice and cool. he spoke only once of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 3, 2009

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    Something to Hold Onto.

    I have dated men of all shapes and sizes back in my single days.  I don't discriminate as it's personality that determines my attraction to someone more than anything else. I do adore the "big cuddly teddy bear" type of guy (think Kevin James from King of...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 14 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    Because I Am One!

    And have been made to feel inferior for years - family and friends mainly. Thing is; I was, in my youth a scrawny sod; 28 inch waist and almost 6 ft. I am officially cuddly these days as I head merrily out of control towards 50  - and for some reason I find I am...
    hawk2002 hawk2002 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Now I Do

    I used to love the skinny guys but the older I get I am don't mind over weight guys.  It does not bother me anymore.  In fact is kind of turns me on now.  I do prefer a guy with meat on their bones now over a skinny guy any day.
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    More Meat!

    I dated a guy who was fine boned... he was ALWAYS 20 lbs lighter than me. Beside him I felt like an ogre! I think a man should have broad shoulders and some fat... if he is all muscle (my ex husband at the end of our marriage) there is nothing to hold on to. Or very thin there is...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2009

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    Junk In the Trunk

    I love a meaty guy with a lot of junk in the trunk.  Not grossly obese or anything but definately no skinny minis.  Any waists below 38 step to the back of the line LOL
    Roaring20s Roaring20s 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    My Guy

    My fiance keeps complaining that he's fat, when I'm much worse looking. he's 5'11" and 200 pounds which isnt bad at all. He has a l ittle bit of a belly and I find it adorable and sexy. The rest of him in my opinion is too skinny, But he's still my perfect baby with a little...
    EarthlyGoddess EarthlyGoddess 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Yummo

    Meat on the bones...lol that saying always cracked me up. But yes I prefer men with some meat on their bones, but I prefer beef not pork lol. Anyways I like em about 200 lbs or so. Depends on the guy. But they have to be taller than me. That is a must as well.
    Gataki Gataki 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 6, 2009

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    Meat Or Fat?

    bit of confusion here do you mean meat = fat or muscle which is generally everyone likes.
    RogerThompson RogerThompson 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    I Am One.

    I wasnt always a guy at the size I am now. I used to be a lot more skinny actually. When I was younger in school I was actually between 150 and 180. I trained in Mixed Martial Arts since I was six years old (I still do to this day). But when I was in the army and right after I...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    Hell Yeah

    Sorry but to feel feminine I need to be held by a man who has some girth to him. You have to understand, I love men's bodies, and when there is more, it really is a bonus. Now I don't mean I'd dig Jabba or anything but a belly-to me-is not only sexy but empowering. I feel sexy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 35 Responses Aug 22, 2008

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    If You Look Like Six O'clock, Keep Moving.

    Physique-wise, one of my favorite guys I've ever dated was 6'5" and about 250. I don't like skinny men; they're unattractive to me - some look downright boyish, or even skeletal.  I want a man who looks like a man - a man who looks like he could take care of business (and that...
    stlmo8 stlmo8 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    He Wants to Lose Weight??!!??

    I want my guy to be healthy and happy with his own body.  About 1.5 year ago he went on a health kick and changed his eating habits for the better and started exercising....  he lost 38 pounds!   He kept them off for awhile but slowly slipped back into his...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    It's a Security Thing

    I've always been attracted to bigger guys. My "unrequited love" was a big guy. There's something about a tall, big guy that gets me. I want to look up into his eyes, and have something to hold onto; I feel more protected that way. Is that weird? There's also...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex 22-25 2 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    Healthy Dimensions Matter

    My guy needs to be both taller and wider than me.There is nothing unsexier than having to constantly wonder if you can pick up your boyfriend and carry him over the threshold.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    ok so i just wrote the first time my husband n i fought out then deleted it. wth. anyways. short version. been together since i was 17 he was 28 i am now 28 he is 40...we have two...
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    Choices vary from person to person, as wise men say...Just like other men on this planet, I too have a specific taste for women. I always prefer chubby women because the body of a...
    MilesXXXnaughty MilesXXXnaughty 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    show me ill tell u what i think
    dirtyfunnygirl dirtyfunnygirl 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Arlys Arlys 51-55, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I prefer dating older men because they are more mature and not childish like guys my age. older guys are so much easier to talk to and they almost understand everything that I go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 23

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    I think abs are so overrated. I'm really more into the Kevin James's and Sheamuses from WWE types of the world. I used to be teased about this. XD What can I say? I love teddy...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Whyyyy in the world do I like hearing myself crack my joints? Its not even the feeling its hearing the house that makes me feel like "ok mission accomplished." Lol sometimes I dont...
    Overtherainbow66 Overtherainbow66 22-25, F Aug 21

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    I am all way free to talk to
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 21

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    I think men with tattoos are so ******* sexy. It's like they have a new skin tone. Walking piece of art. I just love it.
    Smelyalata97 Smelyalata97 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Women aren't toys or things to okay around with. They are living beings just like us men. They too have equal or more fights to live on this planet. We men should learn to respect...
    Pinkygir Pinkygir 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I think they're cool. I think you need to tell them up front as soon as it happens, maybe they don't know. Maybe an old timey slap in the face for the real jerks. But I don't...
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Ok so I say personal reasons for not talking to men on here and the first thing they say is usually "so your lesbian?" It's so god damn annoying and it's one of the reasons why I...
    b30allen18 b30allen18 18-21, F Aug 20

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    While a majority of men will loosely divide themselves into breast or leg men, the keys to female attraction to men can be muscles or height but equally likely to be down to the...
    Gavriella Gavriella 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I'd sure love a nice juicy steak, new York ***** or filet minion! I suffer with anemia, so I have to eat meat, esp. red meat. if my iron is low, I turn pale n my skin gets a...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 18

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    I first saw him in late Spring, 2014. He had shoulder length blonde hair pulled back into a ponytail (I have sort of a thing for men with long hair), khaki pants and a polo. I'm...
    sho802700 sho802700 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    A man, carrying phenomenal style and attitude with his might wallet but without manners, is way too risky.
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F Aug 15

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    I love Thor.... sigh... may he bend me over a table and try to make me pregnant tonight?
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14