I Pretend Nothing Is Wrong

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    Its Eaiser That Way...

    It is so much easier To pretend that there is nothing wrong. its easier to just tell people that you are fine, or good, than trying to break things down for them to understand what's wrong. I just find it so much easier than to pretend that nothing is wrong, because it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 15, 2009

    The Other Woman..

    My husband and his ex wife work together.  I have always pretended that it doesnt bother me.  If I act like it bothers me, then I will look like the jealous wife.  So I pretend nothing is wrong.... She is pregnant.  The baby's father is not my husband. ...
    Melaine Melaine
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2008

    Its How I Grew Up

    I learned how to pretend that everything is normal at a really young age. I think most children would, especially with the threat of CPS hanging in the balance. Actually, its a pretty useful mechanism. I'm able to compartmentalize my life (work, school, home, etc.) and because of...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Sep 13, 2008

    All the Time

    when someone ask's what is wrong, i tell them nothing, and than turn around and whispear everything.   that quote best explains things, more than i ever could.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 26, 2009

    This Is So Me

    if you would meet me in person you would see a happy smiling person who seems like she hasnt a care in the world. you would see someone who laughs a lot. i wonder if people think i am shallow, that i have no emotions, that i just skip along through my perfect life. but if they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 9, 2011

    It's Better That Way

    Whenever someone ask if I'm ok I say I'm fine and flash them a smile... even if I don't feel like smiling. A couple of times when people have ask if I'm ok and they ask how I'm feeling and I tell them I'm feeling a bit sad or a bit depressed but they just don't understand at all...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2009

    With My...

    ...friends and family I act like nothing is wrong. I dont want to talk about my feelings. I dont think they should know anything about my emotions.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 16, 2010

    But A Lot Of The Time I Am Silently Screaming Or Silently Crying

    there are very few people that i tell if something is bothering me. i always feel like i would be bothering them with my problems or that they will think i am complaining too much or something like that.
    EdgeCrusher EdgeCrusher
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 9, 2011

    A Big Joke

    But really,Who am I kidding?
    RedDust RedDust
    41-45, F
    Nov 15, 2012

    My Specialty

    I guess it's become a bit of a specialty for me or something....to pretend nothing is wrong.   Sure, those closest to me know better as they usually get the brunt of whatever I am feeling at the time, but I guess I have gotten pretty good at fooling the...
    dyin2live dyin2live
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2008

    "Hey , you look sad ,

    What's wrong ?" "Nothing ." "Okay , well bye !" Seriously ? Yeah I say nothing is wrong . But is everything perfect in my life ? No ! Don't just assume everything is "ALRIGHT" That is your code to stay and comfort . To understand . You don't . You never ask , nor talk . "Nothing...
    laurenridgwayy laurenridgwayy
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 31, 2014

    They're Not Nice

    In all the years of my life i have been through tough challenges but this one rocks me the best... last year i have been through a tough position having people around me talk behind my backs.. i'm not gonna say why coz it's just pretty dramatic (i did nothing wrong people are...
    sora06ru sora06ru
    13-15
    Sep 1, 2011

    My Sweet New Boss

    she's a really nice lady.... really... very energetic... I had the opportunity to improve and today she let me know how.... I smile and wave.. I take a deep breath. The secret pill you prescribed for yourself is the hardest to swallow. know what i mean?
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk
    46-50, F
    Apr 30, 2013

    I Don't Let My Family Know.

    I really like this site. I get on facebook all the time but i can never really say what I want when i'm venting with all those stupid status'.  I don't like the thought of my family knowing something is wrong with me and that's why i can't do it. I'm friends with too much of my...
    runningblind runningblind
    18-21, F
    Nov 27, 2011

    Everyone Is Sick of Me ...

    It only fair to others that i stop being a burden.  I just feel worse with every passing day.  I know everyone is sick of me being sad or down.   I guess i am getting skilled at pretending-everyone seems to think i am really happy recently. i guess thats for the...
    Tacit Tacit
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2008

    Denial

    denial is a wonderful thing and it has kept me sane for a long time now, but all of a sudden all i had been denying ecame overwhelming for me and i faced my anxiety and made a decision i must live with.  why did i pick now to stop denying and clean my house ( so to speak...
    Amala82962 Amala82962
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    Still Fighting.

    Today, me and my friend went to a guys house and there were other people there. They were ALL smoking and they kept asking if we wanted too & we kept saying no. Truthfully, if my friend wasnt there, i would of said yes. i feel like i cant even try to pretend nothing is wrong...
    cuttildeath cuttildeath
    13-15, F
    Jun 14, 2011

    Define: Pretend

    Is it pretending?I get confused with that.So we just keep sulking?Think it's a matter of refocusing ourselves to things that make us happy... instead of dwelling in things inside the rabbit hole.
    Sylphy Sylphy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2012
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