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I Prevent People From Liking Me By Being Mean

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    Rational thought and logical reasoning means you should be able to make a point without having to resort to being mean.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    This is becoming a huge barrier in communication, education, and culture. People lead their debates with their emotions. No one is given the benefit of the doubt anymore. We (as a...
    dreamingoptimist dreamingoptimist 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    Sometimes I don't have a reason. Sometimes I do. I think a huge part of it was that I wasn't a great person awhile ago. In high school and up until my sobriety, I wasn't the best...
    silencedfears silencedfears 26-30 a week ago

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    Most people are just harsh, it's a way you go about expressing something to avoid intentionally hurting someone
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Hello Everyone! Hope everyone's new year is going well so far! I am hoping to do something special for my husbands birthday this year but in order to do that I need your help...
    tr3ats tr3ats 22-25 Jan 20

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    I really want t have a friendship with people's from there:)
    imjustmex33 imjustmex33 16-17, F a week ago

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    Due to my alcoholism (which I have controlled successfully for 17 years) and my mental health issues, there are a whole bunch of people that I would rather I didn't see again...
    Neondaze Neondaze 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    There have been times in the past when I'm lying on my bed and I'm reminded of people , friends and family . the good times we once shared. the love we once had n the friendship we...
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Sad but true. Most people float into your life for a while then they're gone.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 11

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    I hate to run into old classmates, lovers, teachers, professors from my past. However, there are a few professional friends and lovers I still stay in touch with. We rarely talk...
    Shelia4all Shelia4all 46-50, F Jan 11

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    My ex one of the people that truly understood me but I know I have to leave her in my past because she is toxic to my life.
    Deuz Deuz 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    The most important thing for you to do is your homework. Research all you can about other Offshore banks structures, Offshore banks Banks and offshore banking. This way you'll be...
    Georgebankssi1 Georgebankssi1 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    That wasn't nice of you to say, mister. :o
    theartistt theartistt 16-17, F 15 hrs ago

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    Good morning.. To all :) Here enjoying my cup of tea.. And what cup you had this morning ..? :)
    Rubired Rubired 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    sometimes I miss my mom. there's a few good memories of her trying to be a supportive and caring mom but I left her behind almost 9 years ago as I strived to become the total...
    mandybear29 mandybear29 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I used to have a group of very close friends , they would cheer me up on my worst days and help me get through all the bad things in life but, we were very different so little by...
    UneReveuse UneReveuse 16-17, F Jan 11

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    I miss one of my ex best friends.. We always had a good time hanging out, going out clubbing, drinking, road trips etc but ever since he started taking the hardcore drug it changed...
    moonela moonela 26-30, F Jan 12

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    I have a few Brits in my circle but would like to have more . . . I'm fed up of having to sit up 'till daft o'clock to chat to my American friends! lol
    00afreshstart77UK00 00afreshstart77UK00 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 18

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    i find them so charming and fun to talk to! ( most of them)
    LiLkoala LiLkoala 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 18

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    yeah i find them attractive...
    DANNYELINOR DANNYELINOR 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Important notice: Don't take anything of what you read here as medical advice. I'm not a doctor, but simply a person affected by this thing since almost when I was born, so all...
    mat4 mat4 18-21, M Jan 10

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    My mother. My own bloody mother, who gave birth to me, brought me up and said she 'loved' me. She said she would protect me from everything. Oh she did. But I was merely being used...
    littleowlet littleowlet 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Diabetes is just one of several quickly growing diseases today in our world. More and more people receive a diabetes diagnosis every day. Whether you are recently diagnosed...
    waypuma73 waypuma73 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    The only problem with this, is when I end up hurting myself by pushing someone away who I really care about. I don't want to get hurt, but I also don't want to keep pushing people...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    After posting my last story about finally being happy, and letting people know that things always get better, I was told how inspiring it was to a few people. It honestly was a...
    troublelover08 troublelover08 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    m moving out when I turn 18, and I'm absolutely terrified. I'm... feeling really small right now, so I guess that's why I'm writing this. My story is long, but relevant. I was...
    theydunnomyname theydunnomyname 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Lots of people genuinely believe that Swiss private Offshoreing is only for the elite of the business world. The reality is most of our clients are everyday people with normal jobs...
    Darronbanksso0 Darronbanksso0 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Growing up I was thin. I never expected to become fat. To be honest, I was one of those people who though being fat was a very negative thing--and that it was totally a choice--I...
    pbrocks pbrocks 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Sorry but Abbey Johnson, former planned parenthood worker turned pro life activist is a fraud. "Johnson’s departure from Planned Parenthood turned out to be a more complex story...
    ultraterrestrial ultraterrestrial 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    There is meaning and purpose in life. There are parameters that define us as people, individuals, sentient beings. What we do define us as people. What we say defines us as...
    stupendusdude stupendusdude 46-50 Jan 1

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    I'd like to say that I am a nice person. I don't like mean people because they bring you down and they only act mean to seem cool. Being mean is not cool.
    TimidGrl01 TimidGrl01 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I thought this site was about sharing experiences and seeking advice from people. However, on my last question (now deleted) people were quick to judge me as a person and replied...
    sarahsarah12 sarahsarah12 18-21, F Jan 5

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    So I found this experience and under it a teen boy was just being mean cause he could not understand that people have seen ghosts, experienced spirits talking to them, and well a...
    navyson89 navyson89 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Ever have that friend, That's not your friend at all They take all your secrets, And put them on a wall They accept you just...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jan 6

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    I don't think it's the number of followers on your twitter or a social network that makes you more likeable or makes you happy. I think it's the people you connect with and who...
    RoyX5 RoyX5 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    I hate that some people come to say mean things about me and they don't even know me... What have I done that makes them hate me?
    shethia shethia 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Do You Really?(from my journal) I don't know how to start, or where to start. Let's start with the first question: "Do you really want to go back to a one sided friendship...
    XxWolverinaxX XxWolverinaxX 18-21 3 Responses Jan 6

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    The one thing that irritates me more is when people from other countries just see me as a 'Typical English white guy' type and instantly tarnish me with the same brush as their own...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I really hate it when people do that. I mean, I don't understand how it's funny. I also don't underhand the point of making fun of someone for those reasons. I find it completely...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    And it's usually people my age. I mean, there are some I love, but I don't know anything about their lives besides the music they make.
    rosesandcharlie rosesandcharlie 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    It is quite entertaining to jump into an atheist or Christian topic where people from both sides are fervently "debating" their respective sides. I've pretty much avoided the whole...
    TooInnocent333 TooInnocent333 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Love people seeing me being naked.
    samsenate samsenate 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I wish i had a shut of switch for my emotions. I honestly dont want to feel anything for anyone anymore. Im so sick of opening my heart and my trust to people and just being hurt...
    Gertrude95 Gertrude95 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    If somebody needs someone to talk to...be that somebody. Try to help them. Encourage them. Lift them up. Try to understand where they're coming from & how they feel & how you'd...
    OpenMan44 OpenMan44 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    EP has been a great place,I have met so many people from different countries,knowing how diverse ,way of living life is across various countries,or even cities. I have learnt a lot...
    samshungg samshungg 26-30, M