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I Prevent People From Liking Me By Being Mean

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    Well today I went on a rampage burning bridges and being mean, rude, selfish, condescending... I guess you can say I had a bit of tantrum...
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F Nov 21

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    Luckily I'm on pretty amicable terms with people from my past, at least 98.9% of them including all my ex's. (I say 98.9% because I don't remember all of them). How is this...
    Roz2014 Roz2014 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I know everyone can but there are so many people in this world who dnt gaf!!.. I dnt understand it either why people talk mean to others .. Maybe they grew up with no manners...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 15 hrs ago

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    Today I saw him in the same car he used to take me to the beach, the first man who made me feel beautiful, wanted, appreciated, worthy and that I deserved to be loved. But he wasn...
    almasolitaria312 almasolitaria312 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    I believe that a negative person can ruin your whole day.. so I am blocking them from my life. I can only be so understanding! 3 strikes and they are OUT, and that's being generous...
    writerchic writerchic 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    I don't know how I'm going to react if that were to ever happen- you know running into my ex. I'm relieved in a way that that's not going to happen anytime soon because he lives in...
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    It's so weird like individuals can be awesome but when individuals turn into people it can get nasty... No wonder individuals have social anxiety. I look at people as a unit
    JustMeWuuuut JustMeWuuuut 26-30, M Dec 5

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    I just feel really awkward when it happens. I've ran into a few people & it's been an alright experience I've said hi or hey, throw a smile...if it's an old high school friend...
    Isayis23 Isayis23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    the other day i was not doing much, making dinner. when the managers son showed up at my door, knocking.. he shows me a paper with my nic on it.. saying it is a negative review...
    FreeThinker2 FreeThinker2 46-50 Dec 8

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    Ok if we are talking past ex gf then I am at risk as 2 of them are still living in the same city as me and that one ex gf's husband now works at my job as a driver, and the other...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M Nov 18

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    Until recently, I was always the type of person who would watch from afar and try to interpret people's thought processes and figure out what they are thinking and how they will...
    RyderSebastian RyderSebastian 16-17, M Nov 25

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    We all should take a step back in evaluate those around us. See some aren't who you think they might be. Some are friends because they can get something from (money, access, or...
    elington elington 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    It can be pretty awkward in my situation. Four years ago my life was perfectly on track for success. I was outgoing and connected, even "popular" among some circles. Then that all...
    starasong starasong 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    i'm in japan.32yr. i'd like to make good friends from uk,scottland,irleland. because i love their culture. so if you are close to my age and have whatsapp. PM me.i don't often...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F Dec 10

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    My chest hurts SO F-ING BAD!
    bigca1697 bigca1697 16-17, F Dec 4

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    I ran into a ex today -.- it was kinda awkward and saddening. Awkward because she cheated and quickly realized she messed up because i actually am a good guy and begged me back...
    Time4kush Time4kush 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    They tell me what they've been up to..usually work, schook, travel etc and when they ask me what I've been up to, I just sigh, look at my daughter and say "taking care of her". and...
    cokimsta cokimsta 22-25, F Nov 18

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    I'm pretty sure I left these raggedy weeds in the dirt and walked on by, but they plucked themselves up and have found me. Just go away. :P
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F Nov 18

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    When I do, I'm just like "Nope" in my mind and I go the other direction
    BloodRedDarkness BloodRedDarkness 16-17, F Nov 18

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    I think it's better to not go there and ruin ones own inner peace as well as others. Just live your life your way!
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    It's the worst possible feeling when you think they don't have that hold over you anymore and then you seem them.. Everything comes crashing back to the present and its as if...
    bluesgem bluesgem 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 18

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    Not everyone, of course! But I can think of a few lol
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    Urgh we did it now can u just get out of my life already?!
    90slove 90slove 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    Not one but. Not one.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 18

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    some of my old ex women I don't like running into they as lost it in the head
    marvel901jones marvel901jones 41-45, M Nov 19

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    Does anyone here wana message? Possible meet up? Prefer girls xx
    Tomm3y Tomm3y 18-21, M Nov 27

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    Would anyone be up to sometime?
    StephyLynnJoe StephyLynnJoe 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 4

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    Dr. Joseph Nicolosi explains the dynamics of bias against ex-gays The following essay “Why Gays Cannot Speak for Ex-gays” by Joseph Nicolosi, Ph.D. is from the NARTH website...
    OnewithJC OnewithJC 36-40, F Dec 6

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    Firstly I would like to say that I arrived at these most important principles after what I could term a whirlwind of experiences, mostly negative, that helped to shape these...
    KingDee2 KingDee2 26-30, M a week ago

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    I realize that I'm quite judgemental. Not when I'm surrounded by people, but nights like this when I am alone. People message me and based of what they type or say I automatically...
    4EVRANDEVR 4EVRANDEVR 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So I'm like having a screaming match with my mum driving out of the supermarket car park I had accidentally flicked the headlights off and when I switched the high beams on she...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 16 hrs ago

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    If we could all just hold our tongue when we feel angry, or just leave the room, or better yet, just be nice to try and diffuse the bomb and keep the other person/people from...
    YuriXWolfram86 YuriXWolfram86 18-21, F Nov 25

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    I literally met this guy on this app and he chatted me first. At first it was okay until he started being mean. He mad me feel terrible on the inside and I just wanted to meet new...
    quarioj quarioj 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 1

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    OCD is when: Numbers remind you of the worst moments of your life. You can't walk into that room because you have a bad feeling. You can't hurt that stuffed animal because it has...
    simplyOCD simplyOCD 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    I can be a very nasty mean person if provoked and I don't hold back. I will tell you exactly what I think about you and I will speak my mind even if my opinion is unpopular. I tend...
    MaceFaceMalone MaceFaceMalone 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    Leaning to live is hard. Although I see a lot in being a live I have realize life has to give you a nice even coat of crap and sugar. I also learned that I' m not wrong for having...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    One of the worst things you can do to another human being is not give them a chance, sometimes people aren't as bad as they first appear to be. Sometimes the strongest of people...
    TropicalArctic TropicalArctic 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 8

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    No, this isn't a ******* angsty teen rant, so if you're looking for a good laugh at dumb girls, you're at the wrong post, buddy. But really- The self-proclaimed "random" and...
    TheRudale TheRudale 13-15, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    NOTE: Please be nice! This website is a safe-haven for people who need to get things off their chests! Thank you in advance for not being mean! Let's all just like and love what...
    YuriXWolfram86 YuriXWolfram86 18-21, F Nov 25

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    Mean people are dragging other people do with their mean behaviour.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I often get asked for help by people who are in need of it. I think it's my friendly face . Giving money to people direct can fuel a drug addiction. I've helped drug addicts but...
    Homejames Homejames 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 22

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    I can't... I just gotta stop it... because I'm going crazy, this work isn't for me... I'm surrounded by people that can't mean what they say, or say what they mean... and I'm just...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    My husband of 13 yrs has been living with chronic pain (testicular) for over 4 years now. The cause is due to a nerve disease. He's always been hilarious, the life of the party...
    watershed watershed 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I don't get it. I feel like an outsider. I'm described by people as a "true gentleman" or just really nice guy. I'm passionate and love making people happy. There's just one...
    thisguyah thisguyah 18-21, M Nov 29

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    I have a friend and she's very load and I'm quite quiet and people ask how I put up with her since she's "so loud" but it doesn't bother me I admire her for being confident enough...
    digglett digglett 16-17, F 5 days ago

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