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    This group describes me perfectly.
    DiosesOscuros DiosesOscuros 22-25, M Mar 6

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    Anytime I even make new friends I just push and push..it's not until someone really stops and pushes back that I try and not push. I know a lot of people but no one knows me
    Janstis Janstis 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Now Is the Time! - Sometimes it's just easier that way
    tks tks 36-40, F 18 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    I'm trying very hard to trust people again and to be able to break down some of my walls and reservations.
    katierose23 katierose23 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I'm not feeling great today. What's worse is that I'm acting up. I'm anxious, frustrated, I am worried about money and I'm still suffering from the dull sickening ache of pmt. My...
    sumsmit sumsmit 26-30 1 Response Mar 25

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    I Need You - I want to tell you how I feel. I know that you would understand. I know that you could help me but I just can't seem to get it out. ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    All the flipping time!!!!! Why?!?!? I don't know......i just do.....i hate it
    ManMadeBoy ManMadeBoy 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I do this alot because I value my independence and freedom. I also have trust issues which makes it difficult to get close to me, I wear my heart on my sleeve though... I am aware...
    LilRedd10 LilRedd10 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    I do this unknowingly some times. It's really hard for me to let people into my life when I'm in pain. My pain is messy and to let others see that mess is what I have a hard time...
    rebrat91 rebrat91 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Lonley - I don't know why I just cant let someone love me. I guess its cause I don't even love myself. I've only loved one guy. He cared about me, He knew everything about me, He...
    BabyJ326 BabyJ326 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    When something good comes along, I don't recognize it, so I push it away. And I run after all of the bad things that I shouldn't be going after. It's frustrating. But I'm slowly...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I Do It Unintentionally - I don't want to push people away but whenever i am hurt. I just want to disappear, not talk to anyone and be on my own. In the process i cut off all the...
    lazyangel lazyangel 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    Call Me....but I Won't Answer. -  Does anyone do that? Facebook has been a great way to find friends that you had in the past. We talk via wall comments, inbox comments...make...
    Dragonluv Dragonluv 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 17, 2009

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    Bad behavoir,don't no, my style,can't change it.
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Mar 16

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    It Comes So Easy. - Just finished a text conversation with someone I just met on craigslist. She answered my ad. We texted for a bit, and then I realized I'm miserable when I'm...
    bahawk79 bahawk79 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    I push everyone away. I pushed away nearly my entire family my *friends* I've pushed almost anyone you could think of away, but the only reason I do that is because I'm always...
    suicidal432 suicidal432 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I Am My Own Worst Enemy. - I don't understand why I do this, I don't mean to. I cannot help but push people away. I want to let people in and get close, have a loving group of...
    AreYouMadCool AreYouMadCool 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    I admit it I push people away at times, Even when they have good intentions . I don't try to it just happens I guess that's something I need to work on , need to give people a...
    ShaddFreshboiii ShaddFreshboiii 18-21, M Feb 14

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    When I was around four my sister's father did terrible things to me, and I always thought it was my fault it happened because my mom didn't seem to think anything had actually...
    CraizeeKitten CraizeeKitten 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Being without a job and without anything to do since June, the isolation tends to make me feel as if I am alone and freaky, since I physically have no place to work that puts me in...
    WayOfDominique WayOfDominique 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I Need You - I pushed you away to keep you safe from hurting further.I broke your heart to make you hate me otherwise you wouldn't give up and leave.I need you in my life and miss...
    memoriescargo memoriescargo 70+ 2 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    ♫ "If I let you in you'll just want out...if you follow me you'll only get lost...if you try to get closer we'll only lose touch, you already know to much..don't go..." ♫
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I'm thinking of doing so again. I just got too attatched to someone, hate that I do that,because I think that person doesn't feel the same as I do at times, and its safer to just...
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    Pull. - I always push. I never have a good reason to push. Things can be going just fine but then I get scared and push. Or the fact that even when things are truly OK, my head won...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I can't let anyone not even my best friends get close to me. I want to so much but old habits are hard to break. I smile everyday and laugh so their happy but I'm so scared from my...
    Frozensilence Frozensilence 16-17, F Dec 12, 2013

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    I don't want to do it. But I do it anyway. I can't let people get close to me. So any time I feel a connection to someone, even a new friendship, I push them away. I let my...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M Mar 5

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    I don't want to ever get hurt again, so I hurt the people I love and make them hate me... so they have no choice but to leave me and in turn this just hurts me more. I don't know...
    H3lt3rSk3lt3r H3lt3rSk3lt3r 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I guess it's become a subconscious thing now. Since I've isolated myself from both friends and family I tend to push people away involuntarily. After some years of abuse and...
    MadamSinwell MadamSinwell 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    So I've never really felt like I could connect with anyone at all, I'm 17 and I have no friends at all, but it's my fault that no one wants to speak to me because I push everyone...
    leahmusic96 leahmusic96 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I asked my two best friends at work why no one wants to date me. These are their answers: "You look so hard to approach, so unfriendly and intimidating. You look like you will eat...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I feel like I isolate myself because I end up caring too much. Friendships, relationships, etc. they all end sadly in my case. I contradict myself because I want to have close...
    FireQueen10 FireQueen10 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 4

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    My defense mechanism when I feel myself getting too close to someone, or the other way around. It scares me so I act like a complete a**hole so they'll go away..
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    I rather be the one to end things than to be the one getting ended so I just stop talking to people from time to time, especially when I date guys I usually get bored and peace out...
    genesisperez genesisperez 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    My husband told me last night that I don't make him feel like the man of the house and therefore he's having a hard time treating me like a lady and taking care of me the way a man...
    InnaBinna InnaBinna 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    At times I just don't feel like being surrounded by anyone. I know i can lose people in my life faster that way. I don't do it intentionally.. I do it because I actually have my...
    TearfulNights22 TearfulNights22 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I find myself unknowingly pushing people away out of fear of rejection. How do I stop?
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    I pushed my Ex girlfriend away from because I loved her so much, I was scared to be in love with her. I told her we had to let go of eachother but she didn't want to. And she told...
    iamj iamj 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Every time I'm sad and feel like something stupid, I want to tell my boyfriend about it because he told me I should but then at the same time, I don't want him to know. He says he...
    Kay8712 Kay8712 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I am writing this experience because of the guilt, shame, and pain I feel about pushing someone away... If you can relate to this, please comment... I could use your support... I...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Alone - I think I'm supposed to be alone.
    FallenAngelWOOT FallenAngelWOOT 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    I push people away, even when I don't want to. I have always had a terrible habit of pushing people away, its something that I have been doing for years, its how I protect myself...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I push my boyfriend away every time he gets close to me. I love him very much but I feel like if I give myself to him he is just going to hurt me in the end.
    princesskatara princesskatara 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Why is trusting someone so hard to do? Its a bit like loaning someone something very expensive... when you give it, you think, "Surely this person will take care of it! I trust...
    thislittlejourney thislittlejourney 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm currently doing this. I'm pushing my boyfriend away in an attempt to boost my confidence but at the same time I want to stop to make our relationship easier. I'm caught between...
    ArianaChaCha ArianaChaCha 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I did so last night, towards my family. I tuned them out and just rushed through the dinner, I just wanted to get home. I just wanted to be alone, so I didnt have to see how hard...
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I am not good for you.i will only bring you down. And that I why I let you go.
    ithzelhernandez ithzelhernandez 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It's what I call burning people out. My cycle as my BS mind likes to say. I don't have all the answers and I don't claim to be better then anybody else because in not. If we see...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M Feb 19

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    ... And I Do With... - ... negativity, alchohol, choice of conversation, and just social ineptitude.  I have wouldn't even know it but for my wife.  Who had resisted all of my...
    KatzNYammer KatzNYammer 61-65, M Dec 25, 2011

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    My boyfriend and I just moved in together a month ago. It's been frustrating and exciting. I am pretty anal when it comes to things being clean...crumbs on the counter/floor make...
    enoxx enoxx 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Goodbye My Light - Apologies whisper behind my lips. Memories ring inside my head. The pain, the loss, the tears. Dancing with my heart, many do. Light fingertips turn to blades...
    LillyRaven LillyRaven 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    The Wall - I've recently figured that I don't push people away. I pretty much drive them away.  What I'm noticing is that I keep people at arm's length.  Apparently this is...
    SooperSarah SooperSarah 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 2, 2013