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I Put My Family And Friends First Before Myself

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    I don't have a family yet

    but I made a vow to put my family first because my mother never will put me and my sister first. I'm 17 almost 18 and my mom has never defended me even when her boyfriends and friends are screaming in my face saying I'm the reason for all of my moms problems. Which is so...
    ashleyjo1 ashleyjo1 18-21, F Apr 20, 2014

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    It's True

    My children will always come first, they are my priority. My Mother was my role model, she taught me the right values and what's right and wrong. Family, me really, was her priority. She was sensitive, thoughtful and always caring for others in her life. I want to be and am the...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    Why

    For some reason through out my entire life i have always worried about my friends and family before myself..Idk if its because im just a sensitive person but if one of my friends feel down or nervous and I'm just on the phone with her i start to feel sad and nervous too! Isn't it...
    XxJennaXx XxJennaXx 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    Is That So Bad?

    In a world filled with selfishness and greed, it's not such a bad feeling when I discover yet again, that I put others before myself. Probably not the best way to live, but I can live with myself, lol.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24, 2011

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    I Just Love My Family

    I really do, no matter they care for me or don't, especially my parents i brought up loving them, the only two in the world ( except the doctor who had helped my mother had me after all i hate him because i still remember how painful he spanked me at the moment i got...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 6, 2010

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