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NovemberBlue
I've always put others before myself, and considered their reactions so carefully before deciding to do anything. It has held me back my whole life. Now I have anxiety issues (especially social anxiety), depression, and am beginning...
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Written on July 13th, 2010
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drummingguy
I am guilty of putting others before myself. Although I never get the same treatment. I don't mind at all though. The way I see it is just as long as that person has a smile on there face by the time we are done...
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Written on January 17th, 2010
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Bbrawl
Every time I'm around nice people, I end up having a good time. What's locked in my mind and troubles me isn't seen or heard of by anyone but myself, so what does it matter? To me, what matters is how you treat others and how you affect...
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Written on July 22nd, 2009
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rollingwithhusky
Lately I've noticed that I'm rolling around like a chicken with my head cut off (with wheels on my butt, of course... LOL) trying to do everything for everyone and be everything for everyone and I'm feeling awfully lonely and used up...
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Written on August 1st, 2010
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LonelyTrail
This may seem like a little thing... but it was the first time that i really realized that i put others before me...
I was in high school, i think i was 15 and i was upset about something and had tears in my eyes and just wanted a...
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Written on December 10th, 2009
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bellamomma
Ever since becoming a mom 3 years ago its gotten worse, I rarely ever buy anything for myself and if I do I feel guilty for doing it, because I always say well the girls could use this or they need that, or my mom needs help with this I...
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Written on October 18th, 2008
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randomdriftwood
This can be a good thing, but it can also be a bad thing. I sometimes put people I care about before me with out thinking about how it will effect my health and or sanity.
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Written on June 30th, 2007
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whispy
my sister says its bad but i will do anything for a friend...well even if you're not a friend. if you need anything, i tell people, and i am able to give it i will give it. the shirt off my back or the shoes off my feet if you are in...
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Written on June 26th, 2008
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InvisibleBrokenInnocence
I always tell people not to worry about me....i live to help others make people happy.thats my only purpose and i dont always do the best at it...i fail and i realize im just pretty much worthless and then i get someone who needs help...
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Written on March 26th, 2013
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Whateverrrrr
I have always done this...I always put others before myself. I still do it and at time which doesn't happen often, I don't want to sound selfish but I think about me first.
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Written on January 3rd, 2011
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luckyliz
i have a huge heart and i see this as a flaw i always will do whatever i can to help friends when the same person would not do the same for me. I have grown to learn to try to place boundaries but it is just so hard for me to turn...
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Written on January 19th, 2009
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blackcat
I can walk into any store and drop three hundred dollars on a birthday present for someone,but I cant even spend twenty bucks on a cheap pair of jeans for myself,I feel too guilty about spending the money on me and guilt trip myself out...
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Written on July 3rd, 2007
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dingus48
Most definatly,especially people that I am close to.I am a bit old fashoined I would give up a seat in a bus or train to an elder or a woman or someone that needed it more than me.I enjoy helping people out to.It gives me a good feeling...
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Written on January 18th, 2009
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