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I Rarely Share My Hurt With Others

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    I Dont.

    Everyone that meets me always sees me with a smile on my face and in a good mood all the time. I joke and hold good conversations but extremly rarely do they see me suffer inside. Everyone thinks my life is way better than it really is. I dont like opening up to people I am not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Healing Alone

    I should say I never share any deepest emotion with people. When my marriage broke down and I was cast away in a very seclude laid-back life, I closed all  doors  of communication and shut myself out from anyone. My friends contacted me on facebook when I resigned from my job...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 2 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Yeah, Me Too.

    I've always thought that the amount of anger a person has is equal to the amount of hurt a person has. I'm an angry guy, personally, but I try to keep that **** under control because it just propagates the pain (and IMHO, that doesn't really help).
    ss671 ss671 26-30, M Jun 29, 2013

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    Hear Me Scream, If You Dare

    I never liked leaning on people...thats how I drive them all away. I rarely complain, I rarely cry, I rarely call for help...its just not worth it. A lot of people know there are "problems" in my life, I mean, we all have them. You can easily see that from my experiences, from my...
    PorcelainChinaDoll PorcelainChinaDoll 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    I'm Even Afraid To Keep A Blog...

    i speak to no one about what goes on in my life... or what has gone on. no1 knows of my pain. when i try to talk about it to the only person i trust -my fiance- he tunes me out : because he says it hurts him to not be able to help me.... not knowing just listening would have...
    TheUsedMisfit TheUsedMisfit 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    Rarely

    i cant share my real hurt with other people. not really. if i do i give up to much of myself. then the rest of the world has something on me, something they can use against me. and i do beleive it could be used against me. even though it is hurt. you cant just go around giving it...
    metalgirl99 metalgirl99 36-40, F May 15, 2011

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    Hardly Ever...

    Its Hard to open up to people, and let them in, and trust them. I am just so scared, I don't know what it is, but its just something about opening myself to get hurt, that scares the **** out of me, so for that reason, I very rarely open up to people about my hurt. I feel like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 29, 2010

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      I won't be a burden to the people I love.....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    Selfless Act

    I prefer not to bring out a downer mood with someone by unloading on them. There is also this part of me that feels like I am leaving myself open for more pain if I expose my vulnerability again. I am also someone who cares more for the suffering of others than my own.
    projectingexperience projectingexperience 31-35, F Jun 1, 2010

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