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I Rarely Share My Hurt With Others

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    I Dont.

    Everyone that meets me always sees me with a smile on my face and in a good mood all the time. I joke and hold good conversations but extremly rarely do they see me suffer inside. Everyone thinks my life is way better than it really is. I dont like opening up to people I am not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Hardly Ever...

    Its Hard to open up to people, and let them in, and trust them. I am just so scared, I don't know what it is, but its just something about opening myself to get hurt, that scares the **** out of me, so for that reason, I very rarely open up to people about my hurt. I feel like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 29, 2010

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      I won't be a burden to the people I love.....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    I'm Even Afraid To Keep A Blog...

    i speak to no one about what goes on in my life... or what has gone on. no1 knows of my pain. when i try to talk about it to the only person i trust -my fiance- he tunes me out : because he says it hurts him to not be able to help me.... not knowing just listening would have...
    TheUsedMisfit TheUsedMisfit 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    Healing Alone

    I should say I never share any deepest emotion with people. When my marriage broke down and I was cast away in a very seclude laid-back life, I closed all  doors  of communication and shut myself out from anyone. My friends contacted me on facebook when I resigned from my job...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 2 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Yeah, Me Too.

    I've always thought that the amount of anger a person has is equal to the amount of hurt a person has. I'm an angry guy, personally, but I try to keep that **** under control because it just propagates the pain (and IMHO, that doesn't really help).
    ss671 ss671 26-30, M Jun 29, 2013

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    Rarely

    i cant share my real hurt with other people. not really. if i do i give up to much of myself. then the rest of the world has something on me, something they can use against me. and i do beleive it could be used against me. even though it is hurt. you cant just go around giving it...
    metalgirl99 metalgirl99 36-40, F May 15, 2011

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    Hear Me Scream, If You Dare

    I never liked leaning on people...thats how I drive them all away. I rarely complain, I rarely cry, I rarely call for help...its just not worth it. A lot of people know there are "problems" in my life, I mean, we all have them. You can easily see that from my experiences, from my...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    Selfless Act

    I prefer not to bring out a downer mood with someone by unloading on them. There is also this part of me that feels like I am leaving myself open for more pain if I expose my vulnerability again. I am also someone who cares more for the suffering of others than my own.
    projectingexperience projectingexperience 31-35, F Jun 1, 2010

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    Okay it's like this. If someone want too share cool. I wont share not one pic with no one. No profile pic no pics of what I'm doing at home or nothing. The net is a crazy place at...
    Kingbrent Kingbrent 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm new to this so here goes.. I'm a really private person, I guess I sort of always have been. As a kid I had lots of friends and friends came easy but in college I ran into a...
    emaple44 emaple44 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    My third anniversary on EP was in August 2014. I am a bit behind. You know how life keeps you busy. So it is time for me to share what I have learned in this past year. I hope you...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 20 Responses Nov 27

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    Clue as to what it does and how it is useful. You take more harm than others and have a good laugh while they die. How does this happen? Why is placing factors into durability...
    zhuanghan zhuanghan 22-25, F Nov 23

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    It depends on if I feel comfortable or feel an instant connection. I will share but it may take a while.
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F Nov 24

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    I found this on a Mindfulness Website today and it really resonated with me. I felt that others might like it too. It's about savouring every moment that we have. It's called...
    staleywise staleywise 56-60, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's tough living with anxiety, not only because the effects of anxiety alone are crippling, but also because people don't understand what it's like. My family doesn't even believe...
    amazingcuzitis amazingcuzitis 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    it'd be great to make friends with someone who is like me
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F Nov 23

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    Torn Between Two Lovers by Mary MacGregor, cool song about all of those that have been dealing with loving more than one person.
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M Nov 26

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    I just want to have a conversation with any other girls my age coz im bored and I want a proper conversation about proper stuff because I'm feeling looonely and a bit sad. No...
    AlliLittle AlliLittle 13-15, F Nov 29

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    This is why I got it. To help with things I cannot say. They would criticize.
    ForTheFallen ForTheFallen 22-25, M Dec 9

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    Okay. Well it started out with my photos posted on a public album. That album quickly went private and those photos have now been taken down. After the amount of comments...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    so dont ask any personal questions...plz.
    life2heather life2heather 18-21, F Nov 23

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    help me please. i find it too difficult to sleep at night. so tired emotionally,mentally,physically and spiritually. need someone to talk to. a secret confider please
    nymphinay1118 nymphinay1118 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 21

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    I do , i hate having anxiety people tell me that im crasy and they dont know wat im going thru . They tell me that i dont have symptoms from my anxiety ,
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    Animals have never had a war so who are the real savages in this world, us or them?
    MonsterRrR MonsterRrR 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    Rich Girl by Hall & Oates, nice fun upbeat song.
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M Nov 24

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    If there were ever two songs that went together, You And Me Against The World by Helen Reddy and Don't Cry Out Loud by Melissa Manchester. Very deep songs.
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M Nov 24

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    My boyfriend and I are looking for a fun, dominant person (male or female) to join us in our fantasies ^_^
    TheCasualChick TheCasualChick 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 25

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    Journey to the Northern Lights Real time photography from Alaska.
    OkCountryBoy OkCountryBoy 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    Frank Sinatra's "Cycles" because life seems to go in cycles.
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 3

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    When I Need You - Leo Sayer Feeling a bit nostalgic! http://youtu.be/KoXcRw9gJCA
    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 36-40, F Dec 4

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    I really want to know that im not a total freak for doing this
    joshis14 joshis14 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 9

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    I was never a competitive person. I'm me; I have strengths and weaknesses that are entirely my own. Peace of Mind by Boston is pretty much my theme song.
    BleuGardenia BleuGardenia 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Educational/Learning khanacademy.org - video lectures on just about any subject ted.com - lectures by smart people academicearth.org - classroom lectures freerice.com - expand...
    imurfriend imurfriend 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    I've been smiling and just smiling and I try to hide the fact that I'm sad. He doesn't see past my mask I wear. I just feel terrible as a person. He hides things from me. I dk why...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F Dec 11

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    BRACELETS, TATTOOS, & LOVE Hey guys! I know it's been awhile since I've given an update about my former teacher, H. Now that I'm away at college it's been difficult not seeing him...
    PulpDiction PulpDiction 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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    TO THE SENSITIVE ONES... Do not be ashamed of your sensitivity! It has brought you many riches. You see what others cannot see, Feel what others are ashamed to feel. You are more...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love this guy, he's a year and a half older than me. He treats me like Im his friend but I'm in love with him, hopelessly in love with him. He has a girlfriend and we live 3...
    angelie132 angelie132 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    I'm not even feeling emotional pain . I've just been numb lately . I want to die just as much as before , but because I'm hurting or I feel sorry for myself , now it's because I'm...
    Musicaddict02 Musicaddict02 18-21, M Nov 28

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    We put so much trust in man instead of God & wonder why our hearts get broken all the time. We argue what color God is instead of focusing on getting to heaven. We worry about...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Número uno on the list is people telling me what I can and can't do, as Mr. John Locke said. The runner-up would be dishonesty. I'm not going to lie about this topic, (huehuehue...
    DetrimentalFallacy DetrimentalFallacy 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I think about her constantly. At work. Doing chores. Watching a show or movie. I dream about her. My day is always better when I get that first text from her. Work is better, goes...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M 7 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Yes. I have a lot of anger cos my crushes rejected me over years. I was rejected so many times , i cant remember. Im not even ugly, they were just not into me. I saw so many ugly...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 Dec 4

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    Hi! I am new to this Experience Project site and to the fact that there might actually be a way to connect with others like me. I have been on my own for some time, living amongst...
    DestinedWolf DestinedWolf 22-25, F Nov 29

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    I want to learn how to listen with others blow up or clam up. I find it very difficult to be yelled at or deal with someone who becomes like a "stone wall" and refuses to talk. I...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M Dec 3

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    I wonder if there is any love for their wives in men who talk of sharing their wives with others.I came across such a post just now.I think some of the posts are just made up...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago