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I Realise Now That I Don't Love Everyone

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    No I Don't

    I don't have to love everyone. It's not possible even if I tried. Some people are dipshits. I don't like dipshits or abusive people or ego maniacal self important jerks. Who would? There are people in this world that rub me the wrong way. There are people who are just not very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 5, 2012

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    Its Bitter Now

    I dont know y  i  feel like that , but  i'm so reluctant about it , actually  i feel nothing , its bitter ,, idk  whether its a disorder  or  something like that , that all happened after i got the information of my ex  who cheated me 
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F Aug 7, 2011

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    Universal Love Is Impossible...

    Universal "I Hope To God That ******* Learns Some Humility And Humanity" is much more likely. There are so many oxygen thieves in this world. Why SHOULD I love people who despise kindness? I am not Jesus, Buddha, Mohammad, Krishna, Zoroastra or anyone Holy....turning the other...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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