I Realise That I Feel Guilty About Doing What's Best For Me

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    If There Was Ever A Group Tailor Made For Me!!!

    This is me... I WANT to do what's best for me or just take care of me sometimes, but I feel guilty about it.  I feel like if I am getting what I need and want then I am being selfish.I am not sure if I ever relax when someone is doing something for me - like GIVING me something...
    DorothyofOz DorothyofOz
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2011

    Fighting Back Or Letting Go

    I always feel guilty about doing whatever is best for me. I feel like I am letting the other person down and being so so selfish and cruel. I feel like I should be doing whats best for the other person. Not for myself. Yet I always do whats best for me and it kills me inside when...
    randamukyubi randamukyubi
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 28, 2012

    Torn

    i know what he best thing for me right now in my life. after all the hurt amd pain i know i have to change my living arrangements for the best interset for myself and my daughter. i know people will be hurt and i will suffer. no matter what people do or say i would never wish...
    freeangel freeangel
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 28, 2010

    I Dont Deserve It

     sometimes i dont feel like i deserve what is best for me. i dont deserve to be the person i am meant to be. i have done a lot of ****** things in the past. keeping myself happy throughout the day is such a task. i am sort of responsible for two loved ones deaths. it has...
    joshua666 joshua666
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 28, 2010

    To Much False Guilt

    I say false guilt, because im not doing anything wrong. So its not ligitimate guilt, like if I killed someone or something, I feel guilt for succeeding (if i decided to). I was in a play, I did awesome but if others didnt remember their lines I would botch mine so they would feel...
    Kinah Kinah
    26-30, F
    Dec 16, 2011

    Ridiculous!

    What I'd like to do is flourish rather than flounder. Why stay? So many reasons, so many excuses. Some valid, some plain stupid. One day, when I find reason and guts, maybe I will flourish. Maybe what's best for me will be right for me. X@
    CatchCabby CatchCabby
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2010

    I've been taking care of my mother

    who has Alzheimer's Disease for a little over a year. On Sunday I started paying for 24/7 care for her. I felt I needed a breather so I didn't see her for more than a few minutes on Sunday to introduce a new nurse to her. Then yesterday (Monday) the only time I spent with her...
    Myzery Myzery
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2014
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