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I Really Dislike My Mother

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    Hi, I'm 18. Okay well,

    17 now but 18 in 2 days. This will probably be the most terrible birthday of my life. I just had a big fight with my mother, and when I say "fight" I mean much more than what you would normally associate with a mother-daughter fight. She broke a ceramic bowl over my head. I've...
    Pratibha72 Pratibha72 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2014

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    I've Always Disliked My Mother!

    As far back as I can remember I've always felt repulsed by my mother.  Now that I'm 59-years old I end up taking care of her in her old age!  My mother was abusive, physically, mentally, and verbally.  When I was between the ages of 6-8 years of age my...
    Osomerset Osomerset 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 25, 2009

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    The Same Story

    Everyday I wake up, lay in my bed and think about where I would be if I never came home. If I lived on the street, or with someone else. If I didn't waste my last teenage years falling in love, failing school, and losing most everything I have. I wouldn't have to be here...
    1karebear 1karebear 22-25 May 18, 2013

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    So Tired Of Ppl Telling Me That I Have To Love My Mother.....i Just Can't/won't!!!!

    So where do I start? My mother had me and claimed to not know who my Father was until I found the documents in my Dad's paperwork when he passed away. But trust me she did me no favors for all the year's she was married to my Dad, she always told me that he was not my real Father...
    lizagurl1 lizagurl1 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2012

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    My Mother Is a Monster

    I love my mum as she is my mum- but I dislike her so so much that if she wasn't my mother I couldn't care less about her. She is an evil manipulative woman who has made me feel worthless at times, used me to get what she wants and constantly breaks my heart. I still wait for the...
    leelee81 leelee81 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    A Rant On My Psycotic Mother

    For many years have I put up with her partying and insisting on dragging me along, keeping me up on school nights, constant neglect and letting her friends treat however when shes gone and packing us up and moving to wherever when life gets tough for her. That went on till I was...
    alcsh alcsh 18-21, F Jun 11, 2013

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    Who Needs Her?

    Ever since I can remember my mother has told me the story of how I was an accident. Accident number 3 to be exact. I have two older brothers and my mother had all of us before she even turned 20. One of my most hurtful memories is when I was 5 and she was mad at me (probably...
    Senbonzakura Senbonzakura 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    I Heard Of Monster Mothers...

    When I was in grade school we studied a bit of psychology for a while. I can remember some scientist doing an experiment with new born monkeys where they gave them surrogate mothers that took care of the baby monkey's needs most of the time but they spontaneously poked them with...
    itsu526 itsu526 46-50, F Jul 8, 2013

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    A Mother Impossible To Live With!!!

    I really dislike my mother. She is a hypocrite and over controlling. She hates my boyfriend and rather I date somebody that i didn't love. She only lets me see him once a week and doesnt understand that i am 18 and i dont need her permission. I am 18, which means I can move out...
    jokergurl18 jokergurl18 18-21 1 Response Mar 18, 2012

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    So recently i have been improving myself in

    each in every way, mentally emotionally, everything starting with positive thinking and everything in that direction. I have been doing really good and while in this process i have noticed how NEGATIVE my mothers impact is on me. She is the MOST negative selfish person i have...
    dejah726 dejah726 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2014

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    She really never done the responsibility

    as a mom besides having me in her womb for 10 months. I'm 15, malaysian. I have an elder sis, eldest bro and a complicated family though. My parents have not divorced but my dad is staying at his another family's home. He is still paying us daily expenses. Lazy, irresponsible...
    eatkuih eatkuih 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2015

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    I Have Never Been Able To Stand My Mother

    As far back as I can remember my mother has never thought of anyone but herself. It was like me, my twin sister and our younger sister meant nothing to her. Well that was proven to me before and during our parents divorce. One day up and out of the blue our mother packs our...
    Truebichick Truebichick 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    My mother is crazy...

    My whole life I've had to deal with her she's been in and out of these crazy insane moods where she'll lock her self in the room and just lay in bed for months she doesn't drive cause she has anxiety which I've always been sympathetic of because I know people don't have control...
    danilynn22 danilynn22 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2015

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    I've Always Disliked My Mother!

    As far back as I can remember I've always felt repulsed by my mother.  Now that I'm 59-years old I end up taking care of her in her old age!  My mother was abusive, physically, mentally, and verbally.  When I was between the ages of 6-8 years of age my...
    Osomerset Osomerset 46-50, M 6 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Are You Proud Of Me...?

    i just wanted her to be proud, to love me, to be happy with who i am. i bent over backwards to make her happy. when we were in public, she said she loved me... she said how proud she was... but as soon as we got in the car, she did nothing but tell me what i did wrong. so of...
    ticanaru ticanaru 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    Today, another fight.

    :( Got another neighbour banging on the door... threatening us by screaming, "I will call the police again!" Is that the best thing to do? Keep on calling the police? My mum wants the best of me, but she doesn't understand that I have other talents. She tells me, learn harder...
    ihatemylife236 ihatemylife236 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    Selfish Mother

    My mother is an idiotic, immature, selfish b****. She prides her self on "never letting me down," yet that is the only thing she does consistently. Every promise, every present, every "I love you" she has given to her children is for her own self-satisfaction. She blames it on...
    quartzz quartzz 16-17 4 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    Today I told my mother

    that I am done. I no longer want her in my life. It's really hard having a mother like her.. Hell, I have a really hard time referring to her as my mom. She's not a mother. She's Cathy. A true ***** :( sigh.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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    So having a narcissistic mother who never seemed to care about me enough, who used me as leverage to get what she wanted all of my childhood, and who ended up abandoning me when I...
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    I've realised that the thing I crave more than finding a partner and becoming a wife or mother, is that I just really want to be a daughter to a loving mother. At 26 I should...
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    My mother was raised by an insane woman, who happened to be my grandmother. The grandmother and the grandfather(who was a kind man) (my mothers parents)were 2nd generation...
    notPC notPC 56-60, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I try to have a relationship with my mother, even though I am nearly as intimidated by her as I was when I was a child. About a year and a half ago I changed my career, and she...
    greensapphire greensapphire 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Classic narc family occurence; I got a letter from my father asking me to un-remember recent put-downs from my narc mother on several calls between September and November. After...
    Decaturite Decaturite 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    You are rich? Good for you, does not make you a better person. Intelligent? Does not mean you have the right to point out everyone's mistakes and flaws. Attractive physically...
    justmerae1 justmerae1 46-50, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am 17. I attended a vocational program in high school and got my CNA when I was 16. I work very hard, I graduated high school early and I am now in nursing school. I work two...
    sarajacquelyn sarajacquelyn 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I'd like to thank my therapist for suggesting that I should close my credit cards. I'm so impulsive and so shallow minded, that closing my 2 credit cards did not enter or even...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I love my mom, I really do but something has been bothering. Well, I talked to her recently and the topic went to about her being molested as well as a child by a family member of...
    XcookiexbakerXx XcookiexbakerXx 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I dislike anything fake.... always be real you are beautiful the way God made you... he doesn't make junk
    Aprildawnmarie Aprildawnmarie 41-45, F a week ago

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    There are a lot of people use fake photo to talk with me I don't like it I really don't care about ur looks just don't lie to me it's enough to be friends
    Wichada Wichada 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    After several days of not hearing from my girl. Mom. My health is not getting any better. I just can't keep anything down. And goes on to describe her symptoms. She also states...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 2

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    I dislike it being shown to anyone but me. That's what's important.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I love my mother more than I can express, but recently she has been different. As I am thinking about it I realise that it was always in the background and that the only thing that...
    smurphy31 smurphy31 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Hi so I'm posting here to write about my mother and how I'm affected with severe depression and anxiety because of her I don't like to point fingers or blame anybody but she is the...
    Pinkskiespinklove Pinkskiespinklove 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I dislike the fact that I am taken for granted, but I suppose I should be used to that by now.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I am a proud single mother of four.That in itself is stressful. If I had to describe my parenting skills, I'd have to say "Old School" and because it's just me... They know that...
    MissingTrevion1020 MissingTrevion1020 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    When do I speak my truth? Or haven't I all these years? I'm going to be 42 years old. I have not spoken to my mother in 5 months and my father - about 4 (I went from low contact...
    thegirlwithnomom thegirlwithnomom 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I am a 27 year old third son out of four with NPD parents from New Jersey where I lived in my parents' house until I graduated from high school. I distinctly remember being 13 (and...
    dylster15 dylster15 26-30, M Jan 31

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    I looked in the mirror today and I realised that I'm just a little **** ...I'm just a little **** and that's all I'm ..from looking at my reflection in the mirror I get the answers...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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