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I Really Dislike My Mother

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    Are You Proud Of Me...?

    i just wanted her to be proud, to love me, to be happy with who i am. i bent over backwards to make her happy. when we were in public, she said she loved me... she said how proud she was... but as soon as we got in the car, she did nothing but tell me what i did wrong. so of...
    ticanaru ticanaru 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    I've Always Disliked My Mother!

    As far back as I can remember I've always felt repulsed by my mother.  Now that I'm 59-years old I end up taking care of her in her old age!  My mother was abusive, physically, mentally, and verbally.  When I was between the ages of 6-8 years of age my...
    Osomerset Osomerset 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    So recently i have been improving myself in

    each in every way, mentally emotionally, everything starting with positive thinking and everything in that direction. I have been doing really good and while in this process i have noticed how NEGATIVE my mothers impact is on me. She is the MOST negative selfish person i have...
    dejah726 dejah726 18-21, F Oct 26, 2014

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    So Tired Of Ppl Telling Me That I Have To Love My Mother.....i Just Can't/won't!!!!

    So where do I start? My mother had me and claimed to not know who my Father was until I found the documents in my Dad's paperwork when he passed away. But trust me she did me no favors for all the year's she was married to my Dad, she always told me that he was not my real Father...
    lizagurl1 lizagurl1 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2012

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    I Heard Of Monster Mothers...

    When I was in grade school we studied a bit of psychology for a while. I can remember some scientist doing an experiment with new born monkeys where they gave them surrogate mothers that took care of the baby monkey's needs most of the time but they spontaneously poked them with...
    itsu526 itsu526 46-50, F Jul 8, 2013

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    Who Needs Her?

    Ever since I can remember my mother has told me the story of how I was an accident. Accident number 3 to be exact. I have two older brothers and my mother had all of us before she even turned 20. One of my most hurtful memories is when I was 5 and she was mad at me (probably...
    Senbonzakura Senbonzakura 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    The Same Story

    Everyday I wake up, lay in my bed and think about where I would be if I never came home. If I lived on the street, or with someone else. If I didn't waste my last teenage years falling in love, failing school, and losing most everything I have. I wouldn't have to be here...
    1karebear 1karebear 22-25 May 18, 2013

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    My mother is crazy...

    My whole life I've had to deal with her she's been in and out of these crazy insane moods where she'll lock her self in the room and just lay in bed for months she doesn't drive cause she has anxiety which I've always been sympathetic of because I know people don't have control...
    danilynn22 danilynn22 18-21, F Feb 10

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    I Have Never Been Able To Stand My Mother

    As far back as I can remember my mother has never thought of anyone but herself. It was like me, my twin sister and our younger sister meant nothing to her. Well that was proven to me before and during our parents divorce. One day up and out of the blue our mother packs our...
    Truebichick Truebichick 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    A Rant On My Psycotic Mother

    For many years have I put up with her partying and insisting on dragging me along, keeping me up on school nights, constant neglect and letting her friends treat however when shes gone and packing us up and moving to wherever when life gets tough for her. That went on till I was...
    alcsh alcsh 18-21, F Jun 11, 2013

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    Selfish Mother

    My mother is an idiotic, immature, selfish b****. She prides her self on "never letting me down," yet that is the only thing she does consistently. Every promise, every present, every "I love you" she has given to her children is for her own self-satisfaction. She blames it on...
    quartzz quartzz 16-17 3 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    Today, another fight.

    :( Got another neighbour banging on the door... threatening us by screaming, "I will call the police again!" Is that the best thing to do? Keep on calling the police? My mum wants the best of me, but she doesn't understand that I have other talents. She tells me, learn harder...
    ihatemylife236 ihatemylife236 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    A Mother Impossible To Live With!!!

    I really dislike my mother. She is a hypocrite and over controlling. She hates my boyfriend and rather I date somebody that i didn't love. She only lets me see him once a week and doesnt understand that i am 18 and i dont need her permission. I am 18, which means I can move out...
    jokergurl18 jokergurl18 18-21 1 Response Mar 18, 2012

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    My Mother Is a Monster

    I love my mum as she is my mum- but I dislike her so so much that if she wasn't my mother I couldn't care less about her. She is an evil manipulative woman who has made me feel worthless at times, used me to get what she wants and constantly breaks my heart. I still wait for the...
    leelee81 leelee81 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    Today I told my mother

    that I am done. I no longer want her in my life. It's really hard having a mother like her.. Hell, I have a really hard time referring to her as my mom. She's not a mother. She's Cathy. A true ***** :( sigh.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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    Hi, I'm 18. Okay well,

    17 now but 18 in 2 days. This will probably be the most terrible birthday of my life. I just had a big fight with my mother, and when I say "fight" I mean much more than what you would normally associate with a mother-daughter fight. She broke a ceramic bowl over my head. I've...
    Pratibha72 Pratibha72 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2014

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    I've Always Disliked My Mother!

    As far back as I can remember I've always felt repulsed by my mother.  Now that I'm 59-years old I end up taking care of her in her old age!  My mother was abusive, physically, mentally, and verbally.  When I was between the ages of 6-8 years of age my...
    Osomerset Osomerset 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 25, 2009

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    One thing that ****** me off is meeting people who pretend they wish you well but use a really good thing as an opportunity to correct or put you down. I struggle from time to...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I dont necessarily hate them... But they are so unlikable. Anyways, time to celebrate my mentally abusive fathers birthday.
    Xychorite Xychorite 16-17, M Feb 7

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    Like those policemen who say, "Move on! There's nothing to see here," when there is quite patently something to see, as indicated by the crowd of people refusing to move on and...
    GlassBrainedDog GlassBrainedDog 36-40 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    So, I have to honestly say that even though I am and have been known as an extremely sexual girl.... The quickest way to get me to ignoring you or lose any interest is to begin a...
    TheCasualChick TheCasualChick 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    This entertainment news video pretty much sums up why many who dislike her, dislike her. If not everybody who dislikes her rather than many. She has lost hardcore fans for being...
    nsquaredmeanshartspaired nsquaredmeanshartspaired 36-40, F 6 hrs ago

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    Any other daughters of narcs have this? My mother never asks how I am or cares about I feel. Talk about my problems, she doesn't listen and switches it to be about her (common...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 hrs ago

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    I read online about 7 common wounds of daughters with unloving mothers. A few of them really stood out to me. 1. Lack of confidence This has always been an issue and I believe is...
    imagine524 imagine524 18-21, F 1 Response 24 mins ago

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    My husband loves me we have 1 daughter but My mother inlaw always jealous of me she always conpet with me specially in cooking....My Sister Inlaw All of them !! They hate me...
    Romechan Romechan 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    I tend to have a dislike for step mothers because the story is always the same with them. They get into this new relationship and think well I have kids by this man, this is my...
    prettybombie prettybombie 18-21, F Feb 7

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    I know it's a bit sad to say, but my favorite period of a relationship or friendship is when you are first getting to know them. I think this because, those people are trying to...
    Sadfate Sadfate 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    Why do some people constantly crave attention? Were they perhaps spoiled only children who are so used to having all eyes on them that they think the rest of the world wants them...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My mother in law is a flip flopper. One minute she is acting like my friend and then the next minute she is undermining me about something. You see, I'm African American and my...
    antique10 antique10 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    12 things I observed about my in laws: 1. Inability to recognize and accept change in family relations and dynamics. Your son/brother has new priorities; his wife has taken the...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    I'm a single mother of a 4 year old. The job itself is very hard. But I wouldn't trade it for anything, in the world. I love being a mom. So much that I want to have more babies...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    Hello. It looks like not many have posted recently but I truly need to vent and get some insight. I am Hispanic and my fiancé is Indian. His family is from Gujarat, India. We...
    latinaRN latinaRN 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My mother-in-law had a farm. She pretty much forced all the grandkids to be in 4-H. There was a lot of work to prepare for the County Fair in that area. The kids had to shovel...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    She favors her first born. Overtly. It's disgusting. Next in monster-in-law's hierarchy of favoritism are the baby-makers. Then comes her only single child (age 35) who has to be...
    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    my mother has always disliked me but hid it a lot better when I was younger and its only as ive got older ive realised it, she has always loved my sister and wanted to spend time...
    ymasxatl ymasxatl 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My experience with dating has basically been "I love you" after 1 week...0 interest in me...a total feeling of wrongness when we kissed...and one healthy relationship that lasted...
    ForeverAloneForeverFriendZoned ForeverAloneForeverFriendZoned 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I have to vent. I strongly dislike spoiled little rich brats. One of my friends (who I seriously question why we are friends on a weekly basis because we are so opposite now) is...
    FreudianSlip13 FreudianSlip13 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have to vent. I strongly dislike spoiled little rich brats. One of my friends (who I seriously question why we are friends on a weekly basis because we are so opposite now) is...
    FreudianSlip13 FreudianSlip13 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I need to post this thread for others to see how brainwashed adherents to Islam are. Amongst a class of 17 year old students, 7 of them challenged my rejection of religion and...
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M 5 Responses Feb 2

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    Hi everyone, I'm so blessed to have found this website and support group for this subject! I suffered from major anxiety this year as a junior in college, I had to leave school and...
    halessss halessss 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I really don't like being around my mother, she is the most hurtful person I have ever met. the things she says are just unbelievable at times... I really don't know what happened...
    veezus veezus 22-25, M Feb 5

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    I'm the youngest of my parents' children; a little bit of the Irish-Catholic "Unanticipated Joy". My brother and sisters are in excess of ten years older than I am. We were a loud...
    petergavin69 petergavin69 41-45, M Feb 7

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    I've felt like this ever since I had my own child with my husband. I've been bottling up these feelings and have been wanting to let it out and found this site. My SD is 12yo. My...
    FrustratedMom1 FrustratedMom1 22-25 1 Response Feb 17

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    Producing Productive Products We are the products, of the products, that we bought up, we were brought up, to buy up, a diet, of electronics, our narcotics, are HiDef hypnotic...
    AaronLA AaronLA 31-35, M Feb 1

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    Well I would write down everything but I think that it'll be too long to write so I'll just stick to what recently happened. Well first let me just say that my mother is really...
    dcisneros1117 dcisneros1117 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 2