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I Really Need a Friend Right Now

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    I have no close friends.

    I have family members and work associates. I just don't have any good true friends, I am losing control and could seriously use a friend to talk to about stuff.
    snowman70 snowman70 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    Where do I begin? Well,

    call me Maggie, though it's not my real name. I'll start with saying 'Hi, I was suicidal, I am self-destructive, and I will stay broken for the rest of my life". When I was a kid, my father left me. No biggie, I know it happens to a lot of people. I think it's because of lack...
    anonymousdeus anonymousdeus 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    All Alone!!!!

    i feel all alone.... im 20 and in college and going through hell right now, i seriously need a friend to listenn and talk to me. Sometimes i get so worse that i feel like the world should end or someone should kill me. i mean that bad. i seriously need someone... if i had money...
    Pritish92 Pritish92 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    Feel So Alone

    I just realized that I have absolutely nobody to talk to.i kinda knew it before but tonight I learnt some things about my ex that really upset me and I realized that everyone I used to turn to is gone.Now I feel even more alone and broken hearted.I know things shouldn't make me...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Crying, Frustrated, Hurt, Jealous And Confused

    I have never really been the girl that would tell my problems to people. I just keep everything in usually. There is only one person I tell my problems and stuff too and that's my bestfriend/boyfriend. However, lately he has really been so mean and so vindictive and then he's the...
    axegirl axegirl 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2013

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    I Feel So Lonely... In Need Of A Serious Caring Friend..

    Im in serious need of a real good and caring person to talk to right now. Life has been so tough for me these past few months. I feel like everything is jus goin so wrong in my life right now. Relationship with my bf has bn ruined, work is not going so well and although I have...
    InNeedOfAnAngel InNeedOfAnAngel 22-25 12 Responses Oct 12, 2010

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    Hello Out There

    Feeling quite ill & realized I don't have a single person I can call for support or company. A combination of many things has led to this. Not sure how to start reaching out to people in the non virtual world so I thought I'd start here. It's the middle of the night & it would be...
    lovethebigtrees lovethebigtrees 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2013

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    Hi

    Hi my name is Lisa. I could use some new friends. Please tell me about yourselves. I like to get to know others and I enjoy others company.
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F Nov 23, 2012

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    I just wanna be able to talk to someone like I

    used to talk to my ex best friend...
    soccerismylife13 soccerismylife13 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    So I had a fight with my friend a couple

    seconds ago and I'm just not feeling very good rn... Anybody here just to be my friend?
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Me

    I've never had that bad of a life, in fact it's been quite easy compared to a lot of others. I recently got kicked out of a share house because my room mate was crazy. My sister actually hates me for no reason. My mum and dad pick on me and target me for the littlest things. I...
    ashby11 ashby11 18-21 May 12, 2013

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    soccerismylife13 soccerismylife13 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    All My Life I'Ve Been Alone

    Ever since I was little I was the outcast. I wasn't one of the popular kids I was the loner. I'm a very outgoing person I love meeting new people but I'm always to nice and they try take advantage of it. I pay I drive I cook I do this I do that. Once they get tired of it I was...
    GuiltyThorn GuiltyThorn 18-21, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    I feel like my friends have me

    but I don't have them. I'm always the one saying "it's gonna be okay" and when I do try and get that respond, no one likes a Debby downer . Don't get me wrong I laugh and have fun it's just I have my moments where I need to talk and get stuff off my chest. Honestly I hold stuff...
    dvniele dvniele 16-17, F 1 Response May 4

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    I keep losing friends left to right.

    All of them are turning into big *******. /: I miss my ex-best friend. ):
    soccerismylife13 soccerismylife13 16-17, F Jan 9

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    Will I Always Be This Way?

    I feel like... I'm going to be alone forever. I'm 19, life is fine, I'm not struggling... I just feel alone. I've never had a relationship, nor have I even ever had female friends. Every time I try to even speak to a female that I find attractive, I have no idea what to say, and...
    OneWord1042 OneWord1042 18-21 2 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    But...

    once again, i know that is TOO much to ask for. I know that its TOO much to ask for. I know that I am alone and dealing with the demons inside, because how the **** can I expect anyone to be there for me, when I am in need, as opposed to actually be there for them, like I am for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    I Just Want A Friend, Is It A Lot To Ask?

    I am a bit of an introvert but it is because throughout school i became increasingly separated from people who changed so much i could not keep up and they, including all my friends, left me behind. i have tried joining chat sites but it is mostly guys who wanna talk to girls. I...
    Adzamo Adzamo 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2012

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    I Need A Friend

    I'm ridiculously shy, so it's not easy for me to talk to new people. I've lived with my boyfriend now for nearly a year, but i'm in a rut. It's either work, be with my boyfriend or when he's at work I just sit at home. I love to party and do tons of stuff, but he likes to stay in...
    sparky17f sparky17f 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Just Need Someone

    So.... where do I begin? From reading a few of these posts I see that I'm not the only person who feels alone in the world. It's not that I have enormous problems or even lacking in friends; I just have no one who will listen. I need someone who will listen to my ramblings and...
    KEScap3 KEScap3 18-21 3 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Faithful

    I really need a friendly ear right now because I feel as if my world is crumbling before my eyes and I can't do anything about it. Several years ago my wife went through the change and although I still wanted her she made it quite clear that side of our relationship was out of...
    billywizz5760 billywizz5760 61-65, M Oct 18, 2011

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    I Would Do Anything To Have Your Friendship And Love

    dear Mikusmy god, just one look at you and I was stuck like a goose.  I would do anything for you to ask me out and take my hand to dance.I know you are married and have a child and I would not even want to mess with that.  I just love the way you look. I would love to meet...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F May 19, 2012

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    Blindsided

    This all started this past summer at a party for my friend. I met this awesome girl who happened to be one of my friends best friends. I liled her immediately and after that larty we started texting each other and we would hang out (with a group, never just the two of us). I...
    wsbarker94 wsbarker94 16-17 Dec 4, 2011

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    I'm broken and hurt 😔😔 I don't have

    anyone else to talk to ... because I have lost that person when I fell Inlove with him
    gelu0138 gelu0138 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Just Lonely.

    The coworker that I am closest to at work is figthing with me. My best guy friend is going through some personal issues and hasn't talked to me in a week.  I feel like I have no one right now and it is just dragging me down.    I am going to shut people out...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2010

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    I'm So Tired Of My Life

    I feel so tired and unhappy of my life, and I don't know what to do about it. Here is how it all started. I got pregnant at 20, while I was in the university. I didn't want my parents and family to know about it, since I'm so scared of how they're going to react, and I didn't...
    applereyes2003 applereyes2003 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    I Just Want Someone To Be With.

    my life is empty, I've had serious depression for five years, and it's started getting worse. Through all of this, all I've wanted is someone to care about, and who cares for me. I feel like I'm never going to have that, though, because I've never even had a real girlfriend. When...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    My Bff And I

    Lately my BFF has been 'jokingly' calling me names like "stupid", "idiot child", and "simpleton" and although at first it was ok, I'm starting to sense that there is malice behind her words. Now, due to an incident in which she texted someone from my phone with something I'd...
    meggles99 meggles99 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    I am a virgin, I have never had a real girlfriend (nothing in or since high school), I am a freshman in college, 19 years old, and I don't know what to do. I was a varsity starter for three years of high school football. I played college football, and yeah I am big, but not like...
    voncorn voncorn 18-21 1 Response Nov 7, 2012

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    Just someone to talk to.

    ...and get to know. Not some pervert who wants to get in my pants...but a genuine friend.
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I've Shared Some Pain and Now I Can't Stop It

    I'm so tired. I'm sitting here writing this. My TV is on for background noise. My phone is tied up because I only have dial up internet. Not that it really matters, I don't get phone calls. I have shared some of the worse parts of my past today here and now I can't seem to get...
    Sylverwynd Sylverwynd 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    Friendless And Frustrated

    I always thought that a friend was suppossed to be there for you, to comfort you in times of need and to listen to your problems... I am right arnt i ? Its just my 'friends' really couldnt give a crap about me, i find it ridiculous how un-friend like actually are. All i need is...
    mm3clm mm3clm 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    I just really need a good friend

    and someone to talk to right now. I am so lonely and I don't know what I am doing with my life. My girlfriend cheated on me and left me, my best friends have either become less then that or moved away, and I don't even know what career path I want to take for college so I stop...
    aidennisco aidennisco 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Don't Know What To Think Anymore

    I recently asked a girl out for ice cream, but she invited friends and said it wasn't a date. The day comes around and she says she has doctor's appointments all week. A few people said it would be awkward if I told her I really like her on the date, especially in front of...
    poopnate1 poopnate1 13-15 Jun 5, 2010

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    Scared & Lonely

    I'm scared of what I'm feeling right now, knowing that I can't change the outcome of this madness.  I'm lonely because of one of the biggest decisions I had to make in my life, and for that I sent alone.  It has been 23 long days since I felt at peace, but since then my...
    dani4lyfe dani4lyfe 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    I just have too many things happening in my life right now to deal with people's sob stories. I can't handle it. Nobody wants to know about them but I would tolerate it for close...
    sociableTim sociableTim 31-35, M Aug 21

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    I have a handful, but it's awkward talking to some of them.
    Robertbcms Robertbcms 13-15, M Aug 31

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    I really need one right now. Some crazy **** happened and my life is ****** now.
    claasic claasic 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    Lets just say the title of the experience doesn't justify how badly I really need friends. Im 21 and living with my boyfriend, whom I live a life of almost zero sex with. I...
    MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    I was born on May 29th 2000 to a pair of 20 year olds who already had been teenparents. I have 2 brothers. One is 3 years older and the other is 10 or 11 months older. I was born...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Feeling trapped. Everything was fine during my high school life. I am a boy who loves to play football, to party, hang out with my friends, go on road trips and to eat. Everything...
    gloomyinside gloomyinside 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    I've been in the Navy for about 5 months... Right now I'm living on a base in San Diego..... I know nobody here... It's just really stressing me out... I don't know where I'm going...
    GravityOcean GravityOcean 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    I just received an email from a research group saying they have already found suitable candidate. This has already happened 5 or 6 times and I'm feeling very competitive because...
    sadgirlsclub sadgirlsclub 18-21, F Aug 22

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    It seems like I never have a minute to myself. A minute where I can just relax and breathe. I'm pretty much raising 2 small children by myself. I work 48+ hours a week. At the end...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    There is just so mucho going on right now, my mother os sick she has alzheimers and she is living with my grandparents and they are too old to be taking care of her, she has her...
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just want someone. Anyone to pick me up and never let me go. Someone who is passionate and who knows living without me is impossible. I have someone but I can't be with him. He...
    cutecrazy05 cutecrazy05 22-25 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Ive been really horny the last few days and I need someone to help me out please :( My fwb Hasent talked to me in a few days so idk where that is and the dating apps arnt helping...
    bradman1390 bradman1390 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I hate my life. I hate it. Only half of it has to do with medical problems. The other half consists of my home life, my job and the fact that I can't even predict my future cause...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Nothing right now can cheer me up. Depression hit me in the chest today. It hurt so damn much, I didn't speak, eat or even participate in today's activities. I lost my friends...
    HayellsDorion HayellsDorion 13-15, F Sep 2

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    Ok I love kids .. Babies especially and working with children who are autistic idk I just do but I'm not sure what to go to school for I really need to figure it out .... I doubt...
    NicoleLovex20 NicoleLovex20 18-21, F Sep 8

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    I desperately need someone to talk to, right now, I need advice, I'm freaking out, please pm me.
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M a week ago

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