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I Really, Really Need a Hug

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    I've never been a hugger,

    when most people try to hug me I back away. But I really really just need a hug. I want someone to just hug me tightly like they won't let me go while I cry. Just for comfort for once. I just really really need a hug.
    Frozensilence Frozensilence 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Not Asking For Miracles, Just A Hug...

    I've always been someone who likes hugs, especially from males. I didn't have a dad growing up, so I missed out on those kinds of hugs, maybe that's why I crave them so much now. But any hug is great. I now live with my fiance who's the most unaffectionate, cold person I've ever...
    AlreadyExiled AlreadyExiled 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27, 2013

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    I love cuddles that last

    for ages... The one were they mean so much you don't want to let go.
    Daisymay77 Daisymay77 16-17, F Jul 17

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    WolfForever14 WolfForever14 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I Really Need Someone To Hold Me

    I have been separated from my wife and children for 5 and a half months. The emotional pain has been beyond intense, often times unbearable. I have been feeling a constant stress - never able to just relax. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. I need...
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    There's something in a simple hug That always

    warms the heart; It welcomes us back home And makes it easier to part A hug's a way to share the joy And sad times we go through, Or just a way for friends to say They like you 'cause you're you Hugs are meant for anyone For whom we really care, From your grandma to your...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Apr 15

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    And more. Any takers?

    Hugs fix a lot more than you'd think.
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Just wondered. My bf

    or should I say fiancรฉ who I have spoken about before seems very different. He has a new business. He is always tired but is always always on Facebook. We are in a long distance relationship for over 3 years and lately I feel really distant emotionally. He never puts kisses...
    bobmcboby bobmcboby 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    When Was The Last Time....

    I just sat here and read some of the "I Really,Really Need a Hug"storys and it got me thinking...as to when did i last have "A Real Hug"was it from my Boyfriend"No"it must have been when i last went back to the UK in June of this yr to visit my...
    porsher porsher 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    I Need Your Hug

    The road of life will always be filled with ups and downs,,,the true of test of your character is not how you handle the good times,,but how you will handle adversity..it is hard trying to be a good all the time..there are so many people who rely on you to be there for you...yet...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    True Inspirational Story

    Lee Shapiro is a retired judge. He is also one of the most genuinely loving people we know. At one point in his career, Lee realized that love is the greatest power there is. As a result, Lee became a hugger. He began offering everybody a hug. His colleagues dubbed him โ€œthe...
    kidos kidos 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    Try to hug your pillow its

    so soft and waiting you :)
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Seems like its one bad thing

    after another. Life can never let me just have that one happy thing. Every time I let someone in **** happens. I so sick Nd tired of this.๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’”
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    I Always Tell Myself I Don't Deserve One

    If I'm really upset and crying and just curling up in a ball in my bed, I really really need a hug.  I keep thinking "If only someone I care about could just give me a hug and hold me and then it would be better, then maybe I'd feel loved".  I know that people love me...
    FallingStarr FallingStarr 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    Need One Now

    I really really need one now. I wish there was someone to comfort me. I am heart-broken... Just want someone to hold me and tell me everything will be okay....
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    In my opinion! You need to go to a park,

    full of trees when it's slightly quiet! Then you pick a tree you like and hug! You will feel 10x better than getting one of a fellow human. Trees are not to be underestimated. That is why there is that saying, tree hugger ;)
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I Always Need A Hug

     No ones ever there to give  me one tho..
    ademonsdoll ademonsdoll 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    Em alone and sad ....

    I need someone hug me..
    usman1engnieer usman1engnieer 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    booo now I have to go out on dates again .

    ....8/ think all just make work and school my life cat lady is sounding kinda nice right about now.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I love hugs. It's sad

    when I cry alone in my room sometimes for a reason or no reason whatsoever. I just need someone to hug me and tell me everything will be okay.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I really hope you don't care

    if i am big or fat.. I really need a hug, not a hug where you are shy just a hug from a girl that doesn't care if im tubby.
    soupersam soupersam 16-17, M 16 Responses Mar 14

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    Hugs Please.

    I just haven't had a proper hug for ages.. I just.. need one I guess. I need a hug to make me feel better.
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 26 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    A Hug?

    I want a Hug that doesn't hurt,A touch that doesn't stinga kiss that doesn't cause flashbacksa touch that doesn't make me cringeI want a Hug that makes me feel safea touch that makes me feel loveda kiss that makes me feel securea touch that makes me feel wantedI want a Hug that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    So Bad ...

    today is not a good day. In desperate need of as many hugs as I can get.  All donations gratefully received! I admit I am being pathetic - I blame the hormones.
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 48 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    To just lay in bed and cuddle

    and hold each other tight would be just perfect ๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™ˆ
    MusicIsMyTherapy101 MusicIsMyTherapy101 16-17, F Apr 15

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    I want som1 2 cuddle wit me

    so I can feel lik a baby again...I'm 12 n I'm vry small 4 a 12 yr old I look lik I should b 8...soooo can a girl cuddle wit me plzzzzzzโ˜บ๏ธ
    adorable101 adorable101 13-15, F Aug 12

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    Plzzzzzz I need a girl 2

    hug๐Ÿ˜Œโ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ขโ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Œ
    adorable101 adorable101 13-15, F a week ago

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    Really need someone to hold me tight quietly

    and won't let go. I don't hug often but wish i have someone that can hold me whenever I need them or they need me :'( Feel like breaking down into pieces...
    syltutu syltutu 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Hug me But don't let go I want you to stay I

    want you to know I need you with me You make me feel bright So just hug me Right through the night It's what I want Maybe even a kiss You make me feel special I can't turn away from this
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Apr 15

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    I really really need a hug right

    because 4 for years I never hug someone in my life,not my family or friends no one ;(
    Linds16 Linds16 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    My boyfriend is deployed

    and I'm visiting family. I thought it would be a nice vacation to be home for my dad's birthday but I have been met with criticism and emotional abuse from my family. I can't stand it anymore. I am at my breaking point with all this constant stress. ๐Ÿ˜ญ
    ace3022 ace3022 22-25, F Jul 5

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    Um..

    Well. Today I deleted 100 facebook friends. Some people I never see anymore, a lot of people who never see me, and a lot of people who I'd like to see but life got in the way. After that I cancelled meeting up with my ex-girlfriend because I knew she was going to try and be...
    emptyroads emptyroads 26-30, M 11 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    Just someone to hold me

    while I bawl in their arms or their shoulder. Someone to listen, REALLY listen. I'm just lost.
    fakesmiles247 fakesmiles247 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I feel just sad and want to hug someone,

    it's a feeling I miss so much.
    luis96e luis96e 18-21, M May 26

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    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    Sometimes I have a thing about not wanting to

    be touched, at all... especially if I'm intoxicated. I freak out and cant bare anyone to touch me. I generally shy away from affection. If someone hugged me i'd probably cry. Maybe a real hug is what I need though c:
    ssssmills ssssmills 18-21, F 1 Response May 21

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    I used to think something was wrong with me.

    I thought I was a crazy person that should be locked away, because I wanted people to hug me... "Weirdo" I thought I was an attention seeker, saying as I've been called attention w***e many times by my only friend, and not jokingly. I've never told anyone for fear of them...
    NTC123 NTC123 13-15, F 3 Responses May 19

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    Shshshshshshyyyyyyyytttttttttt Realy x

    1470000000 Strangers get mad at my hope. Pals cant travel here. New pals here aint sure of me yet. New enemies increase the need. Watching jerks be jerks makes the need. Typed hugs are torment. Hugs spoken hurt. No purple heart award for civilians. We...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    Love To Be Hugged, Especially Huggled

    I love being hugged, especially huggled. I could always use a hug or a huggle. I made up the saying "huggle" and normally it's a thing I do with my bestie. If you don't know what a huggle is, it's a cross between a hug and cuddling. I love hugs and huggles! :D
    LombaxKitty LombaxKitty 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    You know thise people

    who just give amazing hugs? Well ik someone who does and i want to hug her so badly and just hold her. We cried and held each other for an hour and it was the most precious moment of my life. Our bodies were completely embraced onto each other and i felt like we were connected...
    carolineee0814 carolineee0814 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    My friend, Erin is her name.

    She's in the hospital. She's 19 years old, she's small and helpless. She needs help. She needs prayers. None of you know her, but she's one of my best friends. She always has a smile on her face and she was always so kind to me. She's getting sedated for several days because she...
    cmcbrooke8 cmcbrooke8 18-21, F 15 Responses Feb 27

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    I feel so sad right now.

    I have been married for nearly 7 years... I married relatively young. At the time I thought it was the right thing to do because I was being treated like a princess and as I was being so loved by someone him, that marrying him was the right thing to do... Now I feel trapped...
    Melgirl14 Melgirl14 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Hugs Are Good For Me

    i need hugs all the time when i get a hug from someone it gives me joy inside.. and on them days when nothing is going my way i really need a hug it helps me out but i love to get hugs and give them!!=]
    tatpole tatpole 16-17, F 8 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    TesstheMess TesstheMess 31-35, F 1 Response May 18

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    Please I need a hug right

    now remembering painful memories...
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    IamGods IamGods 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I really wish I could get a genuine hug!

    !! They're so rare...it's be great to just squeeze someone really tight and just forget about everything. Hopefully I wouldn't start crying though!!! Maybe I can get a long one from a friend tomorrow...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 23

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    Zorenjb Zorenjb 22-25, F 15 Responses Aug 6

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    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I really do, I've never needed love

    and comfort till now. I feel so lonely.
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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