I Really, Really Need a Hug

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 4,586 People

    Christmas day all alone,

    I normally don't mind being alone but today I was so bored I have gotten lost in my own thoughts and now Really need a hug.
    NvBikeBoy NvBikeBoy
    31-35, M
    1 Response Dec 25, 2015

    I've had the worst day ever

    and tomorrow will be horrible I just wanna cry
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Dec 9, 2015

    My best friend abandoned me today.

    .so, whoever you are : Hug me please..
    biancaxxb biancaxxb
    22-25, F
    42 Responses Apr 7, 2015

    I just could really use a coffee with a good

    friend... And a great big I love ya kind of hug. The kind that says you mean something to me.
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    02/04/2016 - Yes a hug would be amazing right

    now! Just to be and feel close. Not even anything intimate or sexual at all just a hug.
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 2

    On all these stupid meds.

    Throwing up. High blood pressure. Might have a kidney infection again. I'm so tired of being sick. I just wish I had someone to watch family movies with and feel safe with. Dare I say a friend. Virtual hugs would be greatly appreciated.
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Mar 7

    So Bad ...

    today is not a good day. In desperate need of as many hugs as I can get.  All donations gratefully received! I admit I am being pathetic - I blame the hormones.
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    45 Responses Mar 4, 2010

    Even just for a second.

    ..Just hug me.. :(
    Achelle07 Achelle07
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Aug 18, 2015
    RandomScottishPerson93 RandomScottishPerson93
    22-25, M
    Nov 28, 2015
    bloodyzombie19 bloodyzombie19
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Dec 9, 2015
    redtigerhood911 redtigerhood911
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Aug 6, 2014

    I really wish I could get a genuine hug!

    !! They're so rare...it's be great to just squeeze someone really tight and just forget about everything. Hopefully I wouldn't start crying though!!! Maybe I can get a long one from a friend tomorrow...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 23, 2014

    Thank you... Sometimes I need another person to

    jus hold me and tell me that it is ok.. Ur smell and touch do make a difference !!
    pOphelia pOphelia
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015
    TesstheMess TesstheMess
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 18, 2014
    Rockandrollfan Rockandrollfan
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    I just need a hug....

    .sometimes I just wonder, why do I get hurt?.....do I just fall to quick or do I just deserve heart pain?
    MericaMan MericaMan
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    I have ADHD, anxiety,

    depression and autism and the guy I've been seeing lately hasn't been one bit bothered by any of it. He always has the right things to say and is calm about it but I often get the feeling of I don't want to put him through this anymore and my head gets really cloudy and I can't...
    cmdoran cmdoran
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 12, 2015

    I really hope you don't care

    if i am big or fat.. I really need a hug, not a hug where you are shy just a hug from a girl that doesn't care if im tubby.
    soupersam soupersam
    18-21, M
    14 Responses Mar 14, 2014

    I am so hurt by alienation

    and rejection. I am a warm person, loving person. I'm not repulsive to look at. I could just really use a hug :(
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jun 20, 2015

    just put my dad in the ground.

    hardest day of my life. I love you pop I hope I don't disappoint u. love ya
    adamproctor37 adamproctor37
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Once again. Another friend .

    ....can't chat anymore Ugggh. Why did you bother to message me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2015

    i dont like be alone .

    . i guess every one dont like..need someone ...someone make me feel calm and safe..sometimes lonlyness scray me.. but it doesnt mean i am weak or i will be with anyone come to my life..i should be wise...find a man who understand me and could trust him..build a really strong...
    CassieJess CassieJess
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 23
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Feb 25

    My life has been just crazy,

    recently. It makes me really want to cry, but I can't; it's like I'm numb. I'm waiting for someone to say: "Come here," and hug me. If that were to happen, I guarantee you, that the truth would come out. It just would, without me even trying.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    When your feeling like all is lost

    and you can't trust love again. Atleast a hug can help.
    cartoonfan4ever cartoonfan4ever
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Feb 9, 2015

    Hugs are the best and I could always go

    for one. I've had kind of a bad day and felt a bit lonely :c hugs? :D
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Feb 8
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Oh and did I forget to mention I'm an

    emotional wreck at the moment? My (well basically is) my best friend has let me know it's a no go and is moving out of town.  I had a run in with my new boss - I didn't actually do anything, she's under stressed and lost it at work attacking a workmate and I...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Apr 7, 2015
    lillyross lillyross
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Apr 16

    Holding somebody that cares

    for you loves you. feeling their body heat surrounding you in a comfortable cocoon. the safest place to be in someone's arm. their strength becomes your strength their love fills your body. the best feeling to know someone cares enough to wrap you up with their own body. feeling...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2015

    Hiiiii, i really want your advice right now.

    My mother is saying bad words about me she even hurt me, i felt so worthless i feel like everything that i will going to do is wrong. I tried my best to explain my mom what is the problem i want to tell that i want her to be an understanding mother but i can't because i know...
    Iamsherie Iamsherie
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Today is one of those days

    where I feel so empty and depressed all at the same time. I feel trap, like a prisoner in my own body. I've been holding in the tears all day. I just can't tell anyone I'm not ok. I've been in a desperate need of a hug for a really long time. I'm trying so hard to keep myself...
    justmadison justmadison
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Mar 2

    I feel lonely all the time .

    I feel depression too . I need a real boyfriend
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    I broke up with my boyfriend in December last

    year. But there's this guy in my economics class who resembles him so much and every time I look at him I'm reminded of everything that I did with my boyfriend and how amazing it felt just to be next to him :( They both play table tennis, they are both not the texty type but...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 1

    I don't think that I need one at this moment

    any more than any other moment in the day. I just really love cuddly hugs and the lack of them has been super sucktastic. I could always find someone to kidnap then hug them to death.
    JadedUnicorn JadedUnicorn
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2015
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    Hiiiii, i really want your advice right now.

    My mother is saying bad words about me she even hurt me, i felt so worthless i feel like everything that i will going to do is wrong. I tried my best to explain my mom what is the problem i want to tell that i want her to be an understanding mother but i can't because i know...
    Iamsherie Iamsherie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    I have a really bad feeling right now

    and I don't know why. I just feel like something is wrong. Is that weird??
    imyourbunny2 imyourbunny2
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Dec 9, 2015

    My friend, Erin is her name.

    She's in the hospital. She's 19 years old, she's small and helpless. She needs help. She needs prayers. None of you know her, but she's one of my best friends. She always has a smile on her face and she was always so kind to me. She's getting sedated for several days because she...
    cmcbrooke8 cmcbrooke8
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Feb 27, 2014
    thereign thereign
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    My grand mother died today.

    Sad day for my family. Tears. :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    37 Responses Mar 29, 2015

    Really need someone to hold me tight quietly

    and won't let go. I don't hug often but wish i have someone that can hold me whenever I need them or they need me :'( Feel like breaking down into pieces...
    syltutu syltutu
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2014

    I am new here. i was looking up

    if drawing on your hand instead of cutting was almost a gateway into self harm when i found this website. i just had a screaming match with my parents and i hate them so much, but as i was walking up to my room i saw my sister running away from me crying. i feel so awful and i...
    drawingDaisys drawingDaisys
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Apr 17

    sat in a busy bar, live music all around,

    two friends nearby.... yet I'm the loneliest man in the room, received news yesterday that my life expectancy is now under a decade and I'm only 28 years old. I have two mechanical heart valves, an aortic stent. with those and others I've had four different open heart surgeries...
    LifeofaGoon LifeofaGoon
    26-30, M
    Nov 7, 2015

    Really, really, really,

    really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    I just feel constantly stressed

    and I'm under constant pressure. I'm a senior in high school and I do well in school. after this year is over I will have taken 8 college classes. This year I am in 6 and it's tough but I manage. School stresses me out but nothing compares to the stress and everything else my...
    talenb24 talenb24
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    A hug would feel so very great right

    now . I really miss contact with my wife.
    Mike112634 Mike112634
    61-65, M
    1 Response Feb 27

    My little sis moved away to Maine :(.

    I just got her text. She left to get away from her pain :(. I want to hold her so bad. Tears.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 22, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Feb 24
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