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I Really, Really Need a Hug

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    I am always one to try to be strong.

    Always the string one who has all her sh!t together. The one who for years has been the glue that holds everything together. I am recently divorced (definitely not sad about it though-should have done it sooner). Have basically been separated for about a couple of years. I also...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    i havent been hugged in a whiiile

    so need a hug from god lmao
    jazzg25 jazzg25 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 18

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    I am feeling upset with everything.

    I had to let someone go my ex bf cos of my situation. Stupidly got involved with someone and just lots of thing just need a hug someone to hold me tell me things be ok
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F Nov 21

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    When Was The Last Time....

    I just sat here and read some of the "I Really,Really Need a Hug"storys and it got me thinking...as to when did i last have "A Real Hug"was it from my Boyfriend"No"it must have been when i last went back to the UK in June of this yr to visit my...
    porsher porsher 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    Seems like its one bad thing

    after another. Life can never let me just have that one happy thing. Every time I let someone in **** happens. I so sick Nd tired of this.πŸ˜­πŸ’”
    xAquariusx xAquariusx 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 6

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    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I've never been a hugger,

    when most people try to hug me I back away. But I really really just need a hug. I want someone to just hug me tightly like they won't let me go while I cry. Just for comfort for once. I just really really need a hug.
    Frozensilence Frozensilence 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Just someone to hold me

    while I bawl in their arms or their shoulder. Someone to listen, REALLY listen. I'm just lost.
    fakesmiles247 fakesmiles247 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    When ever it seem like your complete,

    Fine, happy. Something always ***** it up Ya'know..
    seanlayton211 seanlayton211 13-15, M Oct 10

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    In my opinion! You need to go to a park,

    full of trees when it's slightly quiet! Then you pick a tree you like and hug! You will feel 10x better than getting one of a fellow human. Trees are not to be underestimated. That is why there is that saying, tree hugger ;)
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    TesstheMess TesstheMess 31-35, F 1 Response May 18

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    I love cuddles that last

    for ages... The one were they mean so much you don't want to let go.
    Daisymay77 Daisymay77 16-17, F Jul 17

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    Loneliness cause man to have a feeling to hug a

    woman to fill the void he has in his soul. In reality some men are happy enough to hug the woman they love. And some men are happy enough to hug a doggy doll. Really, I didn't want to fall in love if it would cause me this way! Especially if you are in unrequited love, you...
    gizares gizares 26-30, M Oct 15

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    My parents have made stupid decisions their

    entire lives... Ever since I've been old enough I've had to take care of them, even though they never took care of me. Now their health is declining and I have to do more... Niether have a job and I'm in school, have two jobs... how am I supposed to take care of all this...
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I really do, I've never needed love

    and comfort till now. I feel so lonely.
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I feel so sad right now.

    I have been married for nearly 7 years... I married relatively young. At the time I thought it was the right thing to do because I was being treated like a princess and as I was being so loved by someone him, that marrying him was the right thing to do... Now I feel trapped...
    Melgirl14 Melgirl14 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    im sick of hugging my pillow,

    I just want a real person to hug. every night I hug my pillow and pretend that someone is hugging me. sometimes without even realising it, I hug myself. I just really need a hug
    EnjoyTheSilenceX EnjoyTheSilenceX 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 14

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    My mom wanted to check my grades today.

    She checked my sister's first and she has all A's and B's. i checked mine without her knowing and I have A's and B's and two C+'s. Im pretty sure she's gonna be disappointed and do something like yell at me or take my phone away. I honestly thought i had good grades. It's really...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    redtigerhood911 redtigerhood911 22-25, F 17 Responses Aug 6

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    My boyfriend is deployed

    and I'm visiting family. I thought it would be a nice vacation to be home for my dad's birthday but I have been met with criticism and emotional abuse from my family. I can't stand it anymore. I am at my breaking point with all this constant stress. 😭
    ace3022 ace3022 22-25, F Jul 5

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    I really wish I could get a genuine hug!

    !! They're so rare...it's be great to just squeeze someone really tight and just forget about everything. Hopefully I wouldn't start crying though!!! Maybe I can get a long one from a friend tomorrow...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 23

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    Need One Now

    I really really need one now. I wish there was someone to comfort me. I am heart-broken... Just want someone to hold me and tell me everything will be okay....
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Please I need a hug right

    now remembering painful memories...
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    Um..

    Well. Today I deleted 100 facebook friends. Some people I never see anymore, a lot of people who never see me, and a lot of people who I'd like to see but life got in the way. After that I cancelled meeting up with my ex-girlfriend because I knew she was going to try and be...
    emptyroads emptyroads 26-30, M 11 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    I want som1 2 cuddle wit me

    so I can feel lik a baby again...I'm 12 n I'm vry small 4 a 12 yr old I look lik I should b 8...soooo can a girl cuddle wit me plzzzzzz☺️
    adorable101 adorable101 13-15, F Aug 12

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    I would love nothing more right

    now than a nice big hug. Just for someone to wrap their arms around me and reassure me that everything is going to be ok.
    xxlouisebaby xxlouisebaby 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    Try to hug your pillow its

    so soft and waiting you :)
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I really hope you don't care

    if i am big or fat.. I really need a hug, not a hug where you are shy just a hug from a girl that doesn't care if im tubby.
    soupersam soupersam 16-17, M 16 Responses Mar 14

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    I need a hug, a warm,

    loving hug, a coumferting one, the same kind a mother would give her own child when their upset, I really could use a hug right now... :(
    alexnewsom alexnewsom 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    True Inspirational Story

    Lee Shapiro is a retired judge. He is also one of the most genuinely loving people we know. At one point in his career, Lee realized that love is the greatest power there is. As a result, Lee became a hugger. He began offering everybody a hug. His colleagues dubbed him β€œthe...
    kidos kidos 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    So Bad ...

    today is not a good day. In desperate need of as many hugs as I can get.  All donations gratefully received! I admit I am being pathetic - I blame the hormones.
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 48 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Plzzzzzz I need a girl 2

    hug😌☺️😒😒☺️😌
    adorable101 adorable101 13-15, F Aug 13

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    My friend, Erin is her name.

    She's in the hospital. She's 19 years old, she's small and helpless. She needs help. She needs prayers. None of you know her, but she's one of my best friends. She always has a smile on her face and she was always so kind to me. She's getting sedated for several days because she...
    cmcbrooke8 cmcbrooke8 18-21, F 14 Responses Feb 27

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    As we draw closer, my heart begins to race

    wildly. Im captivated by the sparkle in her eyes and the tiny sardonic grin that plays delicately on her lips. Closer and closer, time begins to slow like honey poured from a jar. I hold my arms out as she does the same...the tiny grin errupts into a full blown smile as we...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 17

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    i really need a hug with cute girl anyone here

    to do for me..!!😘😘😊😊😊😍😍
    raydanish669 raydanish669 70+, M Oct 8

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    I love hugs. It's sad

    when I cry alone in my room sometimes for a reason or no reason whatsoever. I just need someone to hug me and tell me everything will be okay.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I really really need a hug right

    because 4 for years I never hug someone in my life,not my family or friends no one ;(
    Linds16 Linds16 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Hugs Please.

    I just haven't had a proper hug for ages.. I just.. need one I guess. I need a hug to make me feel better.
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 24 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    Really need someone to hold me tight quietly

    and won't let go. I don't hug often but wish i have someone that can hold me whenever I need them or they need me :'( Feel like breaking down into pieces...
    syltutu syltutu 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    the reality of my life sets in

    when i stop numbing myself, wow id like to curl up & die pls
    jazzg25 jazzg25 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 20

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    A Hug?

    I want a Hug that doesn't hurt,A touch that doesn't stinga kiss that doesn't cause flashbacksa touch that doesn't make me cringeI want a Hug that makes me feel safea touch that makes me feel loveda kiss that makes me feel securea touch that makes me feel wantedI want a Hug that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    You know thise people

    who just give amazing hugs? Well ik someone who does and i want to hug her so badly and just hold her. We cried and held each other for an hour and it was the most precious moment of my life. Our bodies were completely embraced onto each other and i felt like we were connected...
    carolineee0814 carolineee0814 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Shshshshshshyyyyyyyytttttttttt Realy x

    1470000000 Strangers get mad at my hope. Pals cant travel here. New pals here aint sure of me yet. New enemies increase the need. Watching jerks be jerks makes the need. Typed hugs are torment. Hugs spoken hurt. No purple heart award for civilians. We...
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2

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