I Really Think My Friends Hate Me

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    On the fourth of July, I got together with 2 of my best friends to celebrate. Let's call them Jane and Betty. While hanging out, another mutual friend, (let's call her Lori) who was not there was mentioned. From what I could gather from body language and tone, they were upset at...
    bostongirl101 bostongirl101
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2012

    Friends Who Act Like They Hate You.

    So lately me and my friends had some problems and she got angry well it wasn't really my fault and she told me other friends. Because we're like a group and then i think they are all starting to hate me then i was invited to this hang out and they were all there but i felt really...
    juju57 juju57
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2012

    I'm so angry. I have 2 best friends,

    I'll call them 1 and 2. My best friend of 3 years is 1 and 2 has been in our group for 2 years. We had a mother best friend, "3" who moved recently, but when she was here, 1 and 2 hated her and now that she's gone, they hate me. A couple of weeks ago, another friend of mine told...
    perthclo perthclo
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2015

    i have 4 friends and i use to think we were

    inseparable, it was always nice to have friends like this because im hated around most of my school, but now my friends dont trust me, they talk about me to other friends that we have, and are usually still really rude to me. they still invite me to hang out but im not sure if i...
    aizh aizh
    16-17, M
    Mar 9, 2016

    Best Friend Hates Me

    I've known him since 7th grade summer school he use to be my best friend but now he hates me. Another friend suggested we try e and ever sense my mental health started deteriorating my social relationships haven't been the same. I expected him to kinda forgive me for my screw ups...
    devyn122 devyn122
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 8, 2013

    My friends secretly do hate me,

    they might as well just tell me, but none of them have the bollocks to or just cannot be bothered with me at all. Got a party this weekend for one of my mates and my bestfriend is going and I'm going back to hers after the party but I'm scared that I'm just going to be left out...
    venetiaroses venetiaroses
    18-21, F
    Apr 2, 2014

    Tell Me Why

    Guys please I really need help. I have 4 friends and we always eat together. Everything was fine a few months ago, but now they have stopped waiting for me. It was a habit for us to wait for one another, but I don't understand why they've stopped waiting for me. They would just...
    MoonlightCiel75 MoonlightCiel75
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2013


    They sneak away to do things they know I would enjoy and come up with every excuse to exclude me WHEN THEY ARE AT MY HOUSE. They have more precedence at my home than I do. My mom does whatever they want her to do and even tries covering up the fact that that are excluding me. I...
    Obsequity Obsequity
    22-25, F
    Sep 8, 2013

    Shes Cut Me Off! Why???

    Hi GuysI need your help, one of my closest friends has cut me off completely with no explanation and I don't understand why!We've been really close for years, we went out drinking together almost every week but the past few months she has completely ignored me.I've tried texting...
    angelface21 angelface21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 26, 2012

    I used to have 3 best friends

    who were my ex-classmates, lets put their initial J, F, and T. We started our friendship in high school (about 9 years ago). In the beginning, my first closest friend was T. About half year later, she started to ignore me and closed with M from another class, who is a popular...
    Misshaa Misshaa
    26-30, F
    Mar 22, 2016

    Ha yeah I'm with them

    and I feel like I'm going to vomit ... Any tips ?
    haiimlola haiimlola
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2015

    So my friends are pissed at me

    and are giving me the cold shoulder because friends and I had plans and I only have one car with more than two seats and it broke down and I forgot to tell them until later so they wanted to double buckle in my two seater car to go on the freeway & I wasn't down to get a ticket...
    katiebuggg katiebuggg
    18-21, F
    Feb 16, 2016

    every time I ask to do something I get ignored

    or they'll say they don't want to come get me because I live too far away plus I'm never really included in any of their conversations because we don't have much in common but I hate being alone :/
    deleted deleted
    Jun 6, 2015

    Cold Turkey

    So here it goes... My HS girlfriend and I broke up in the summer. There was a lot of stuff going on in my life at this point that was bothering me in addition to the breakup. That being said, I fell into a funk and let my self slip to a very low point where I was using a lot...
    mika92 mika92
    1 Response Nov 18, 2011

    My Best Friends (there's two) hate me.

    They told me straight to my face, and the worst part is one of them is my cousin! I am really upset about this, I used to cut my self because this happened before and they didn't even care they said that I should Die. They have acted like this before and became friends with me...
    Morgan104 Morgan104
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    This party is really becoming a struggle.

    I want to go home. I shouldn't have said we should throw a surprise party. I think I'm actually going to vomit.
    haiimlola haiimlola
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2015

    All Alone. Literally All Alone.

    I have three best friends. Kate, Bre, and Grace. A couple weeks ago, my friends started ignoring me. It turns out, they didn't like my boyfriend. So I dumped him. I thought that would solve the problem. Nope. Now the three of them ignore me for other reasons. I guess those...
    ranni07 ranni07
    4 Responses Feb 20, 2012

    I don't even want to be around my friends

    because I'm just so self conscious that they all actually think I'm less than them, like a child. I feel like everything I do around them is fake and stupid, laughing, opening up my mouth. I reject most opportunities to be around them because I just feel so lame all the time and...
    BeingInMonochrome BeingInMonochrome
    Mar 23, 2014

    I Have No Friends Anymore.

    Okay so. I'm married. Really and truly I feel like the only people who are really there for me are my wife, and once in a while my mother and father. My brother and sisters hate me, get on my nerves all day long, hate my wife, constantly having attitudes towards me and her. Idk...
    SpyderDragon127 SpyderDragon127
    Aug 26, 2012

    My two best friends in the world hate me.

    It started when we went on a geography trip. They both started avoiding me as much as they could. We all chose to sit at the back of the coach on the way home, but because we are the social rejects, I felt uncomfortable (not to mention that one of the popular boys pissed in a...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 25, 2015

    She Hates Me

    Well me and my friend just got into an arguement and now she doesnt want to talk to me or text me back.and this happens everything i say "oh"she thinks that means i dont care but i do .now i believe she hates me.what should i do?
    ilovemusic128 ilovemusic128
    18-21, F
    Jun 1, 2013

    10th Grade.. Wost Grade

    I'm in the 10th grade and I have had the same group of friends since 6th grade but this year, they all act like they hate me. If I come sit with them at lunch they act like I'm bothering them and every time I ask them to hang out with me they all have some excuse there is like 8...
    Kcollins1996 Kcollins1996
    4 Responses Nov 4, 2012

    Alone And Friendless

    okay I have to main friends let's just call them a and b. it all started out when a told me that b didn't want me to go to the movies with them. But b said it was just because she didn't want me to feel like a fourth wheel. so we talked about it and straightened it out. but then...
    JustGettingThroughIt JustGettingThroughIt
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2012
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