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I Really Want to Talk to Other Women Who Are Bicurious

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    Married, But Also Attracted To Women

    I've been married for several years, but find myself attracted to women and wondering what it would be like to be with one. I'm not sure how to go about finding other women that are curious too. Hoping to find answers here.
    kiki3 kiki3 41-45, F 8 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Am I The Only One

    I have always wanted to be with another woman.Yes I am married to a male but I want to be with a woman.There is just something about another woman that turns me on.I am the only one that has had this feeling?
    love38 love38 36-40, F 9 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I am a 22 year old living in Vermont.

    Over the past few years, I have really started thinking about myself sexually with another women. I've always considered myself "straight", but I have never been able to get this idea out of my head. I'd love to just talk to some other women who feel this way or have felt this...
    lenorjj lenorjj 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I like women, love them.

    I unfortunately despise guys in a romantic sense, and I admire girls more than anything really. I have had crushes (big ones) on girls before, but they've sadly never gone anywhere. I just want to see if being with a girl goes somewhere.
    DoctorFemale DoctorFemale 18-21 4 Responses Apr 16

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    Just looking for people to talk to

    who want the same thing. :)
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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    I have a wonderful man whom I am very happy

    with. In the last year or so I have had fantasies about being with another woman sexually and there have been a couple of woman in the past I have been Attracted to. I would like to talk to another woman about these fantasies and my sexuallity. Prehaps I would like to find a...
    ripley78 ripley78 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I fantasize about enjoying women's breasts all

    the time. What is wrong with me? I have a strong desire to be with a woman. Please help me think this through...
    milanyaliama milanyaliama 36-40, F 12 Responses May 29

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    any other girls want to talk

    or trade pics maybe :)
    roseflower8 roseflower8 18-21, F Sep 22

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    Kingston Ontario Canada !

    Message me if you'd like to talk!
    Bec2 Bec2 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I think i am straight

    but at the same time I am just very curious. I live in San Francisco.
    SelfDiscovey97 SelfDiscovey97 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 1

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    I am bi curious and really wanting to explore

    this side of me. Never been with a girl other than kissing. Very curious! Up for chatting about it all, but I am also really wanting to meet someone, hopefully local, that I can develop a friends with benefits relationship with. I have kick and would love to chat on there, but...
    tchmpls22 tchmpls22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I've always just wanted to talk to another

    woman about these sexual feelings I have , inbox me .
    quietk quietk 18-21, F Aug 22

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    Yeah I'm confused so what!

    !!,I'm loving every curious moment! I've always been curious about being with another woman.. Always catch my self looking... I don't want to write to much on ep but there's just something about a sexy feminine woman that knows she's the ****!-- I would love a besty who turns...
    Kimmykimkim Kimmykimkim 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Bicurious And Longing...

    I have spent most of my adult life as a bi-curious woman. I am happily married with a small child, but find myself curious about an intimate relationship with a woman. I think about both a deep emotional connection and a physical relationship. I find that I "check out" other...
    VixRogers100 VixRogers100 31-35, F 21 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    I’m bi-curious and I really want to kiss a

    girl. I think this girl at my church likes me. These are a few incidents that makes me think she likes me. Sorry that this is really long but I have to know if she likes me. Also I’m sorry about my terrible grammar (I’m not good in language arts). When we went to an...
    shakeza shakeza 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Looking For Some Fun Really

    For the past couple of years I have become bicurious.  I love men and I love being with men.  I'm not even really interested in eating ***** all like that.  But I just think that it would be a fun experience to be with a woman.  I'm not looking for a...
    Miluna Miluna 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2010

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    I've always considered myself to be a straight

    female. But recently I've been thinking I'd like to try being with a girl. I don't think I'd ever want to be in a relationship with a girl, but I'd like to try something new with a beautiful woman.
    popbottles10 popbottles10 22-25 Jan 23

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    Anyone from the south?

    :) no men- I'm married, just here to chat with ladies :)
    southlove95 southlove95 36-40, F 7 Responses May 1

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    I live in Auburn Alabama.

    I've always thought of myself as straight and have never been with a girl but have always got turned on by the thought of it. Recently my urge to be with a women has gotten stronger. I don't know any lesbians but am really trying to find someone to talk to or meet going through...
    augirl30 augirl30 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 26

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    No One Knows

    I just don't want anybody knowing! But I want to find someone to try it out with. This is hard!
    newbie2390 newbie2390 22-25, F 14 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    I am a junior at a conservative southern

    college. I don't know any bi-curious or lesbian girls. I have been bi-curious for a few months now. I have always wondered what it would be like to be a girl and the feelings are getting stronger. I don't want anyone knowing until I know for sure because I know my friends won't...
    augirl30 augirl30 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    Midlife Crisis?

    I think now that I am finished with childbearing, I am looking for a different kind of intimacy. My husband is a great lover, but I just don't feel like we experience life in the same way. I think after 10 years we should have reached the point where his attraction goes beyond...
    sorella97 sorella97 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Curious About The Touch Of Another Woman....

    I have been having these feeling lately about feeling another womans touch. I am married and love men and all that great stuff, but I just want to experience what its like being with another woman.  I hear all these great things and i see the *****'s.  I just want to experience...
    smithkim36 smithkim36 31-35, F 10 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    Confused

    I am married to a man, but i get very turn on by lesbians, especially after watching lesbian ****... I think seeing women making love is just so passionate n exciting. Am i weird??
    Tightjeans1 Tightjeans1 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Omg

    It is so hard to find women interested in women! Like wtf? I flirt with almost every girl I am attracted to but since I'm not open about my sexuality it's incredibly hard to be seen as more than a friend. Being bicurious BLOWS.
    Natakeg Natakeg 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Just A Curious Gal

    I've always been attracted to men--Like totally man-crazy (similar to boy-crazy, but with men..oh you get it..). I like being with men and I'm sure I always will. However, lately I have been longing to be with a woman. I don't know how it started, but the point is this curiosity...
    JustDevynn JustDevynn 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    666mojo 666mojo 56-60, F 11 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    Hey(: any other bicurious ladies 16-19 wanna

    text?(: Message me and we'll talk about it?(:
    xXiiHeartYouuXx xXiiHeartYouuXx 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I have a boyfriend who I love with all my heart

    but I can't shake this feeling of curiosity towards woman. I've always been a tom boy, I've always been secretly attracted to woman but I've never experienced it before.. And I really want to.. Do I tell my boyfriend that?..
    SterlingMalloryArcher SterlingMalloryArcher 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    I'm 23 in the dc area & I've never had any sort

    of relations with either gender. I think I'm bi but it's strange when I haven't even kissed a guy.
    Morri133 Morri133 22-25, F May 28

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    a couple of times when I've been tipsy

    or drunk I've tried kissing my friend, ever since the first and also last time I've been wanting to kiss a women again, I can't help but fantasize about a night with a women's touch
    sammy14xx sammy14xx 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 19

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    I'm 21, in a relationship with my boyfriend

    for over a year now, but ever since I was like 13-14 I've been so interested in having anything with another girl. I have dreams and fantasies about experiencing it.
    YoungForeverr YoungForeverr 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    Well, Yes..But....(A Bit Of History, And What I Ultimately Want)

    I've always been curious about the concept of being with/pleasing another woman. I never actively sought to explore the desire, really. I think it was mostly due to the fact that every woman (and they have been few and far between) that I'd find myself interested in seemed...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    thought won't stop. I'm very bicurious.

    I have never been with a woman but I want to talk about it with someone. please help! I'm not shy, and id love to hear anything you want to tell me about being with a woman both emotion and physically.
    kytabl30 kytabl30 18-21, F 6 Responses May 17

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    How do I decide if I really am bi?

    I admire other girls but they're straight so...
    Indeciciveme Indeciciveme 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Baton Rouge-Lately I've been interested with

    experimenting with women, although I like men. I tried with Craigslist, but to no avail. It's like, what's the point of replying to the ads if they're not going to show up? Anyone on here that lives in Baton Rouge wanting to talk or meet up?
    gardenofmymind gardenofmymind 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Glad to know I am not the only one

    who is curious, but have no clue where to begin married but have his support. So where do you start?
    whynot2014 whynot2014 41-45, F 9 Responses May 4

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    Older Shy Bisexual

    I've always had a thing for girls, and sincerely believe that if I had come of age in the 90's instead of the 70's I'd have experienced the touch of a woman. Now I'm in my 50's, and i doubt I'll ever meet a female lover. But I would very much like to talk with other women who...
    Alexa83 Alexa83 46-50, F 22 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    marieclare101 marieclare101 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    Recently, probably the first

    or second Sunday of January, I finally saw her again. She showed up during the middle of church service so she sat in the last row. During the sharing of the peace (the part of service where we greet each other with hugs) she can over to me and began talking. While we were...
    shakeza shakeza 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    So i've been really thinking a lot about what

    it would it be like to be with another girl for the longest time. I consider myself straight and i have a boyfriend but this is something that has been on my mind. Even having a close friend who can experiment with me would be amazing. I'd like to be open to talking about it too...
    eminor92 eminor92 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I can't believe I'm writing this.

    I would say I'm straight but I'm highly curious about having an encounter with another woman. I actually have a fantasy of having a best friend who is also my secret lover. I'm open to talking to women and seeing what happens.
    everythingchanges0033 everythingchanges0033 22-25, F 12 Responses Mar 29

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    Bi Curious Wife

    I'm very happily married. We have kids and he is great. I was so afraid but still opened up to him earlier this year about my secret fantasies/desires about women. He was thankful that I was honestly open with him. Anyway he has been and still is very supportive and cool about...
    Brwnbunz28 Brwnbunz28 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    Am I wrong for being attracted to women

    while dating my boyfriend? I've never considered myself bisexual or even bi curious before but the more I think about it, the more I realize I could be. I've never openly admitted it (or wanted to acknowledge it myself I guess..) but I know I have been attracted to other women...
    karix karix 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 3

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    Im married and very much in love with my

    husband. We have 3 kids whom i love dearly, but I often fantasize about how it could be with a woman. Not just physically, mind, but in all ways. Women are just so different from men and i feel like the bond between women must be better, easier somehow, than trying to translate...
    farawaymae farawaymae 36-40, F 8 Responses May 1

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    Wonder What It's Like....

    I have always been very happy and content in being with men.  But here recently (past 6 months I would say) I have, for some reason, really been thinking a lot about what it would be like to be with a woman.  I don't know where this has come from, but I really want...
    boredumstrikes boredumstrikes 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    Is It Cheating?

    I'm past the point of being bi-curious. I know I'm attracted to women and I know I want to be sexually intimate with a woman. There's just one problem, I am in a serious relationship with a man. My boyfriend doesn't even know I'm bi! I wish I could tell him, but he's very...
    raquelcvm raquelcvm 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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