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I Really Want to Talk to Other Women Who Are Bicurious

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    I am a junior at a conservative southern

    college. I don't know any bi-curious or lesbian girls. I have been bi-curious for a few months now. I have always wondered what it would be like to be a girl and the feelings are getting stronger. I don't want anyone knowing until I know for sure because I know my friends won't...
    augirl30 augirl30 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    I can't believe I'm writing this.

    I would say I'm straight but I'm highly curious about having an encounter with another woman. I actually have a fantasy of having a best friend who is also my secret lover. I'm open to talking to women and seeing what happens.
    everythingchanges0033 everythingchanges0033 22-25, F 12 Responses Mar 29

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    Complicated And Confused

    I am a young girl that has been in a 4 yr relationship with a guy. We have a 2 yr old son together. Lately I've been feeling an attraction for women. I know I'm sort of bi curious but what do I do. The girls I'm attracted to are straight an then if I do find a girl I might be...
    CuriousGirl323 CuriousGirl323 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    Is It Cheating?

    I'm past the point of being bi-curious. I know I'm attracted to women and I know I want to be sexually intimate with a woman. There's just one problem, I am in a serious relationship with a man. My boyfriend doesn't even know I'm bi! I wish I could tell him, but he's very...
    raquelcvm raquelcvm 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    marieclare101 marieclare101 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    I’m bi-curious and I really want to kiss a

    girl. I think this girl at my church likes me. These are a few incidents that makes me think she likes me. Sorry that this is really long but I have to know if she likes me. Also I’m sorry about my terrible grammar (I’m not good in language arts). When we went to an...
    shakeza shakeza 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    I'm a chicana bbw, that fantasizes about being

    with another women but at the same time it scares me a lil bit because is it the right thing for me to do? The thought of kissing, caressing, touching another women excites me so much! Just need someone to chat with and maybe can make it come through!
    expressingmyself expressingmyself 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Married, But Also Attracted To Women

    I've been married for several years, but find myself attracted to women and wondering what it would be like to be with one. I'm not sure how to go about finding other women that are curious too. Hoping to find answers here.
    kiki3 kiki3 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Omg

    It is so hard to find women interested in women! Like wtf? I flirt with almost every girl I am attracted to but since I'm not open about my sexuality it's incredibly hard to be seen as more than a friend. Being bicurious BLOWS.
    Natakeg Natakeg 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Am I The Only One

    I have always wanted to be with another woman.Yes I am married to a male but I want to be with a woman.There is just something about another woman that turns me on.I am the only one that has had this feeling?
    love38 love38 36-40, F 8 Responses May 30, 2013

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    So Confused..

    I'm new to this. I've been more curious now than ever before. I'm currently in a four year relationship with my boyfriend but he has no idea I'm bicurious. How do I even start?
    rmichelle rmichelle 22-25 3 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Am I wrong for being attracted to women

    while dating my boyfriend? I've never considered myself bisexual or even bi curious before but the more I think about it, the more I realize I could be. I've never openly admitted it (or wanted to acknowledge it myself I guess..) but I know I have been attracted to other women...
    karix karix 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 3

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    I'm 21, in a relationship with my boyfriend

    for over a year now, but ever since I was like 13-14 I've been so interested in having anything with another girl. I have dreams and fantasies about experiencing it.
    92youngforever 92youngforever 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    I recently have become more in touch with my

    sexuality. In this I realized that I too may desire an experience with another woman. The more I talk to my friends who are of a different sexuality than heterosexual, the more it has sparked my interest. However, my bubbly, adventurous, extraverted personality doesn't seem to...
    tladybug tladybug 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    I have a wonderful man whom I am very happy

    with. In the last year or so I have had fantasies about being with another woman sexually and there have been a couple of woman in the past I have been Attracted to. I would like to talk to another woman about these fantasies and my sexuallity. Prehaps I would like to find a...
    ripley78 ripley78 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I was with a girl before I met my husband.

    We recently decided to have a girlfriend. She liked both of us and we liked her so we started a relationship with her. Unfortunately she was not loyal to us and lied to us and cheated. We are not looking for an open relationship, but if you are interested in developing a close...
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 5 Responses Mar 5

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    I Just Females Are Great ......i Love Females!!!!!! I Love Dudes Also!!!!!!

    I always had a thing for females....more sexually than anything else. But a dude has the equipment I can work with.
    grandma1994 grandma1994 18-21 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    Kingston Ontario Canada !

    Message me if you'd like to talk!
    Bec2 Bec2 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Recently, probably the first

    or second Sunday of January, I finally saw her again. She showed up during the middle of church service so she sat in the last row. During the sharing of the peace (the part of service where we greet each other with hugs) she can over to me and began talking. While we were...
    shakeza shakeza 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Just looking for people to talk to

    who want the same thing. :)
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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    Well, Yes..But....(A Bit Of History, And What I Ultimately Want)

    I've always been curious about the concept of being with/pleasing another woman. I never actively sought to explore the desire, really. I think it was mostly due to the fact that every woman (and they have been few and far between) that I'd find myself interested in seemed...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    Bicurious And Longing...

    I have spent most of my adult life as a bi-curious woman. I am happily married with a small child, but find myself curious about an intimate relationship with a woman. I think about both a deep emotional connection and a physical relationship. I find that I "check out" other...
    VixRogers100 VixRogers100 31-35, F 23 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    Wantsfortomorrow Wantsfortomorrow 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    No One Knows

    I just don't want anybody knowing! But I want to find someone to try it out with. This is hard!
    newbie2390 newbie2390 22-25, F 14 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    Bisexual Me

    I am bisexual and i love being with women they make me feel warm inside.A womans body is wonderous:)I just want to talk to other girls that are the same way;)i've hooked up with 2 girls and each of them said i made them feel good andi liked it  i love a girls body,touch and kiss...
    Meggiebear77 Meggiebear77 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Yeah I'm confused so what!

    !!,I'm loving every curious moment! I've always been curious about being with another woman.. Always catch my self looking... I don't want to write to much on ep but there's just something about a sexy feminine woman that knows she's the ****!-- I would love a besty who turns...
    Kimmykimkim Kimmykimkim 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I live in Alabama and looking

    for bi girl friends that just want to have fun without men
    Wantsfortomorrow Wantsfortomorrow 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    666mojo 666mojo 56-60, F 9 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    Midlife Crisis?

    I think now that I am finished with childbearing, I am looking for a different kind of intimacy. My husband is a great lover, but I just don't feel like we experience life in the same way. I think after 10 years we should have reached the point where his attraction goes beyond...
    sorella97 sorella97 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I live in Auburn Alabama.

    I've always thought of myself as straight and have never been with a girl but have always got turned on by the thought of it. Recently my urge to be with a women has gotten stronger. I don't know any lesbians but am really trying to find someone to talk to or meet going through...
    augirl30 augirl30 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 26

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    I like women, love them.

    I unfortunately despise guys in a romantic sense, and I admire girls more than anything really. I have had crushes (big ones) on girls before, but they've sadly never gone anywhere. I just want to see if being with a girl goes somewhere.
    DoctorFemale DoctorFemale 18-21 5 Responses a week ago

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    Bi Curious Wife

    I'm very happily married. We have kids and he is great. I was so afraid but still opened up to him earlier this year about my secret fantasies/desires about women. He was thankful that I was honestly open with him. Anyway he has been and still is very supportive and cool about...
    Brwnbunz28 Brwnbunz28 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    bubblez123e bubblez123e 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    New Ground

    I have been bi-curious for a while now but more so in the last few months, I don't know if that's because I'm getting older and a bit more confident sexually. I'm married happily but have a real desire to be with a women, I have no idea where to start or how I would even initiate...
    Flirty79 Flirty79 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Curious About The Touch Of Another Woman....

    I have been having these feeling lately about feeling another womans touch. I am married and love men and all that great stuff, but I just want to experience what its like being with another woman.  I hear all these great things and i see the *****'s.  I just want to experience...
    smithkim36 smithkim36 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    Hey(: any other bicurious ladies 16-19 wanna

    text?(: Message me and we'll talk about it?(:
    xXiiHeartYouuXx xXiiHeartYouuXx 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Looking For Some Fun Really

    For the past couple of years I have become bicurious.  I love men and I love being with men.  I'm not even really interested in eating ***** all like that.  But I just think that it would be a fun experience to be with a woman.  I'm not looking for a...
    Miluna Miluna 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 2, 2010

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    My wife and I are married

    and we would love to get to know any single bi-curous girls in AL. We love playing video games (primarily FPS games), anime, cosplay, animals, being outdoors, and having fun in general. We would like to get to know someone who has our same interests and wouldn't mind hanging out...
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response Mar 14

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    Fantasy On The Way To Work...

    So yesterday, this girl at work I hardly ever see, says hi to me with a huge warm smile and for some reason, it just caught me off guard. I of course returned the greeting, being the nice girl that I am and kept on going. It was no big deal, I know. But for some reason it...
    Gemini020 Gemini020 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    Wonder What It's Like....

    I have always been very happy and content in being with men.  But here recently (past 6 months I would say) I have, for some reason, really been thinking a lot about what it would be like to be with a woman.  I don't know where this has come from, but I really want...
    boredumstrikes boredumstrikes 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    Just A Curious Gal

    I've always been attracted to men--Like totally man-crazy (similar to boy-crazy, but with men..oh you get it..). I like being with men and I'm sure I always will. However, lately I have been longing to be with a woman. I don't know how it started, but the point is this curiosity...
    JustDevynn JustDevynn 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    I think i am straight

    but at the same time I am just very curious. I live in San Francisco.
    SelfDiscovey97 SelfDiscovey97 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 1

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    Idk. I will admit that I am bicurious.

    I've always been curious about what it would be like to really make out with an attractive woman.
    MrsTM22 MrsTM22 22-25, F Dec 22, 2013

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    Wow i was the other women,,, you are their cheating on your husband,, then he came to the bar ,he was crying over you,,, until he met me, i change the way he was thinking about you...
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    I really need some advice on this because it is destroying me. Well it began when i met two women on the same night who are friends. We all got on well and had a laugh and a joke...
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    Let me first say that I'm not here to judge. I use to be the other women, so I know exactly how you all are feeling. I just thought that maybe I would share my experience. Maybe...
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