I Recently Broke Up With My Boyfriend

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    About 3 weeks ago I broke it off with my

    emotionally and physically abusive boyfriend. We had been together 3 years and for over a year I have wanted to end things but didn't have a clue how. I feel so relieved, but I still love him. He is living with me until until February so he can find a place, and I can't wait for...
    FRUSTRATED92 FRUSTRATED92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    I just broke up with my ex.

    I was alone in a different country from what I grew up? My parents are thousand miles away. We had been together almost 2 years, after I was with him, I lost my contact with my friends. Now I am alone, feel so weak and hurt. I also lost my confident after he moved want, he said...
    viv1984 viv1984
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2014

    It's been over a month now,

    he sent me photos of him with girls and flashing his balls to them, I feel sick, I'm so angry at him for sending that to me especially that was one of the reasons we broke up but then he tells me he still thinks and cares about me, he makes me so mad at him I want these feelings...
    eking18 eking18
    18-21, F
    Oct 8, 2014

    I broke up with my boyfriend an hour ago.

    he loves me more than I love him. I wasn't happy & I know that if I had keep working at it, I would have been more unhappy & I would've been making him miserable. I feel like a horrible person, but i know he needs someone better for him than me. I'm not the best one for him, but...
    gardenbeauty gardenbeauty
    26-30, F
    Aug 5, 2014

    i recently got out of a unnerving relationship

    but i've learned a lot from it like what it exactly means to be in a relationship, but it also it left me with a drive to find something more fulfilling/happier to me and him. the reason I broke up with him is because he greatly weakened our relationship by pretty much forcing...
    aloistrancy aloistrancy
    16-17, M
    Feb 19, 2014

    Run Run Run

    I met this person in a christian chat room.. He seemed to be the perfect match for me. Said he was in the PBR and a ranchformen in the south Houston area.  I was talking to him for about 6 months and we made so many plans for our life together.  With investigating on my...
    VeryShy29 VeryShy29
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2009

    Whats Happens When Everything Is So Messed Up?

    I met him the first day of my senior year, he looked kinda sad and i wanted to hug him and let him know that he wasn't alone in the whole world. about a week later we started talking at our senior seminar and we exchanged numbers, after that we talked for about four days and four...
    Mahalko Mahalko
    18-21, F
    Sep 13, 2009

    I Wasn't Right For Him.

    My boyfriend, Matt, and I dated for almost three years. When we met, I was sitting in our dorm's common room, and I looked like an emotional, depressed wreck. He told me that he became attracted to me because he thought I looked like someone who deserved to be happy. Throughout...
    RikkiAduro RikkiAduro
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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