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I Recently Broke Up

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    Withdrawals

    so i was having major withdawals from my sig other today like BIG TIME but i haven't really been crying..thank God and my baby woke me up at 10 something now i hate when ppl wake me up from my sleep if it isn't major but i absolutely do NOT care if it's my baby but yea then i...
    Juicy09 Juicy09 18-21, F Jul 19, 2012

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    Wow.

    *sighs. Ok.., we broke up December 14. He didn't do anything horrific but I just felt the need to be happy and put myself first and couldn't do that in our relationship. Maybe that sounds weird... or even dumb. He was a great boyfriend and I love him to death, he's sweet and...
    mimiboo mimiboo 16-17, F Jan 8, 2009

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    Okay.

    it's been two weeks now that we broke up.. The first week was the worst. I felt numb.. It hurts. After a year & five months I guess it's suppose to. I'm getting through it though, I could still smile and laugh.. It's when I'm alone is when I start to think and beat myself up...
    Simplymarissa Simplymarissa 18-21, F 1 Response May 25, 2013

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    For The Best...

    We'd been going out together for about 9 months or so, known each other for longer... To be honest, the relationship has been petering out for the past 2 or 3 months. The passion just died, so we sat down a couple of weeks ago and called time on things... It was very much a...
    OpenRoadGuy OpenRoadGuy 36-40, M Dec 29, 2011

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    I broke up with my boyfriend,

    forget about him, i'm over it though, no use in whining!
    naco26withcheese naco26withcheese 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    So Sad

    We are both in our early 30s. We were together for two years. He took me to a jewelry store and had my ring finger measured. Multiple times, he asked me what kind of wedding I wanted, who should be his best man, and talked about what song we would use for our first dance. We...
    saileen saileen 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    Am I really cheap? :/

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months just recently. I believe i did have true feelings for him. But everytime he did something to hurt me, it always affected my feelings for him. I n a bad way,obviously. We never talked. Not really. Not the way I wanted to. Whenever I started...
    LostNInsecure LostNInsecure 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    Break With Me

    Please crack a frown Quit pretending to be happy It makes me feel pathetic And marginalizes my misery Let me see a tear fall from your eye And just maybe I'll feel a little less pain I can't stand to look at your miraculous smile And see your passionate brown eyes light up with...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 2 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Recently Broke Up With Girlfriend

    I broke up with my gielfriend 4 days ago. We had been together for five months and all was going well. She said i was so different to her last boyfriends who has treated her badly. I looked after her and treated her so well. She said she was so happy and couldnt imagine life...
    lone367 lone367 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    Recently had a big lose in my family

    and promised that person I would get my life back in order I'm trying to stop smoking marijuana, drinking, etc., through everything I've cut ties with bad influences, broke up with my girlfriend, so just looking to find some people to talk to.
    Isashimself Isashimself 16-17, M May 4

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    He was dull, uninteresting,

    and really boring to talk to, on to better things
    naco26withcheese naco26withcheese 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    Every Day Gets A Little Better

    I'm starting to feel a little better since the break up. I am truly starting to realize that things were not my fault. I can't wait when the day comes that I am completely over this. Emotionally I have my good days and bad days but I'm making progress.
    03hope 03hope 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Stupid

    I feel so stupid. I broke up with my girlfriend for no reason at all. Just like everything else in my life I just worked myself up to it, without actually having a good reason to do it. We had a really good relationship. Yes there were some problems but we worked through them...
    paladine paladine 18-21, M Dec 29, 2010

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    ;( it still hurts of course.

    .. But im working to recover. A really special good friend of mine has been helping me through it during this week c: so thx u. I just want to tell everyone if the same thing happened to u ;( to stay strong and that we have to just keep living on. I personally, even though it...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    It'S Only Been Two Months

    I am so hurt and crushed right now and I can't stop crying. Eventhough I'm the one that broke it off I'm still hurt. He cheated on me 3 different times and he was verbally abusive. I took it for two years and I loved him but I couldn't take the cheating and verbal abuse...
    03hope 03hope 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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    Deal with it

    Yes, I am hurting But don't forget that you brought this on yourself Don't come crying to me The man whom you chose to leave It's not my job to comfort you Why do I still allow you to influence my emotions I am no longer yours So go away unless you want to be mine again I know...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    Broke Up Recently

    For some reason I cannot get over my ex. We are best friends and still love each other but need to grow in our personal lives separately. I cannot help but wake up everyday and immediately check on what he's doing and constantly talking to him. It kills me that he is moving...
    mollowhollow mollowhollow 22-25, F Jun 13, 2013

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    Broke Up Yesterday.

    .. with the girlfriend. A serious relationship with a kid (her kid) and her family and her friends..and its all over. I do love her, i will miss her, i hope in the future we can find each other again but I doubt it.
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M Jul 12, 2012

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    The Nerve

    i'm so tired of him hitting me up complaining...look i told u we could be friends obviously he don't know what that means i mean i've gotta figure out a way to cut him loose for good i mean i know i'm NOT in love with him i have no desire to be physical with him...and ummm i know...
    Juicy09 Juicy09 18-21, F Aug 1, 2012

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    Can Not Seem To Get Moving.

    It has been 3 weeks or more when I broke up with her. I just can not stop to think about something else and its always her. I thought I could trust her but as I gave her my everything in the end I was hurt the most. So here I am trying to get back with my life and I am just...
    FlareUltMetal FlareUltMetal 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    Lost At Sea

    I recently separated from my husband of 24 years.My husband has been disabled for 7 yrs. due to an accident at work.This caused a lot of stress over the past several years .My husband unfortuanately equated his self-worth with his work.I worked many hours as a nurse to suppot my...
    marcie marcie 46-50 1 Response Oct 24, 2008

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    I Told Him I Need A Break But Truth Is I Need A Break Up

    I love him. So much. I know he loves me, but it's not enough. I always felt there's something missing and I realized that it is that I don't trust him. We can't really continue a relationship without trust. That's why I'm letting him go. This is so hard though, I wanna move on. I...
    Feb 1, 2013

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    Broke Up About 3 Weeks Ago

    We just broke up after three months. I was a wreck for quite a while, but it really was for the best. He didn't treat me right at all. He broke my heart. I am happy to say that I'm completely over him. Completely. Breaking up stinks but it does get better. I am now with someone...
    xxflyawayxx xxflyawayxx 13-15, F Jun 14, 2009

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    Together Today

    It seems like the spark still here in my heart but i have to stop myself from falling inloved with again. I currently have a boyfriend and i love the man i am with right now. Me and my x.husband agreed to be friends we change msgs. each other often, and he told me that he still...
    chyneregis chyneregis 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2012

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    After about 18 months,

    I realised I don't love him anymore. Hid it for a bit, thinking it was just a phase. It wasn't. The days dragged on. I decided to tell him how I felt. We agreed to work on it. The feelings I felt before didn't come back. There was a lack of passion and desire and I didn't feel...
    libertinette libertinette 22-25, F 13 Responses Aug 16

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    He imposes his egocentric definition of love.

    No wonder I didn't feel anything for him to be straightforward.
    skyalarm skyalarm 13-15, M Jul 22

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    Gah I Love You

    Howdy So its been 8 months since me and my girlfriend split up and we are still friends, i still try and talk to her cause im still hopelessly in love sadly although i was the one in the relationship who was the problem, she wanted me to do something with my life but were still...
    MajorDerp MajorDerp 18-21, M Jun 13, 2013

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    How People Move On To Fast

    I recently left a 6 year relationship a little over a month ago. I am still very much in love with him but I had to leave because there was verbal abuse involved. I left because I had to protect my children from growing up that way. He begged me for the last month to come back...
    christi920 christi920 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    Today...

    my bf and i of 14 months decided to take a break.. hopefully not for forever tho.. with him being so busy he hasn't really had time for me and we both realized it just wasn't working out right now.. Even though it killed me inside, we have agreed to still talk and be friends...
    iGotMine8 iGotMine8 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2008

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    I was on and off with my ex boyfriend

    for 5 years but I'm finding it hard to move on I put on a front that I'm ok and as soon as I'm on my own I struggle with it I don't know what to do!
    jayjai jayjai 22-25, F Aug 16

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    It's Over

    well my sig other and i called it a quits...mainly me..we had taken a break a few months back but eventually agreed to see where things go and how we end up... so i thought after my hook up with my ex in april "just give me a month or so i'll be fine and me & my sig other will...
    Juicy09 Juicy09 18-21, F Jul 17, 2012

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    I'm lost and I'm afraid. I'm scared of what has happened and I fear what may happen. Every single day I have dozens of macabre scenarios flashing through my mind. I see the people...
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    My girlfriend has recently just broken up with me, why? For a whole bunch of complicated reasons. But basically she said it was better if we just ended it cause she didn't want to...
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    I have never had a girlfriend. I've never kissed a girl. I've never had a female friend until recently. I've become friends with someone I've liked for some time. I know there are...
    persononinternet persononinternet 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Mel999 Mel999 18-21 1 Response Aug 22

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    Is it wrong that I am doing the happy dance that my husband and his mid life crisis broke up today? I still pray every day he will wake up and want to work on us. I pray for him...
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    I loved someone that just wasn't worth the time or energy. At first he seemed to genuinely care about me, but as time passed-I find that he cares only for himself. I put my trust...
    stardusthope stardusthope 36-40, F Sep 2

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    I'm Chris. (Sorry to those who've been told I was Jake. That was my Cousin.) Anyways the first time I had my heart broken was 6th grade. I was dating this girl. But, every time I...
    Gre3nBoytt Gre3nBoytt 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    Something's are too broken to be fixed, no matter how hard you try. You can put as much time into it as you want, even if it looks fixed there's still the scar where it broke and...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This is the story of me and a boy named joey a met on a teen program in my cruise. We're still friends after all of this, but I'm scared that we'll never get back together because...
    SteffXRocker SteffXRocker 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I feel broken. First, in the sense that I am clearly... wrong. Is it still good to be yourself when it brings you nothing but pain? I don't think so. I don't think there is a...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I Have a Broken Heart I met him four years ago, we never grew up together so I didn’t see him for what he was: my cousin. Yes I know, gross. I know. I know. I always knew. But I...
    danee012 danee012 18-21, F Sep 3

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    My mom, she's never here. She doesn't notice how my smile's so cracked And through the cracks you can hear my sobs. She doesn't hold me when I'm falling apart inside. When I was...
    IvyEstelle IvyEstelle 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    This day,a piece of my broken soul has finally fallen,the wound that never healed has eventually dropped it's last drop of blood,and all the pain ceased in more pain.I have at last...
    theWolfUndertheMoon theWolfUndertheMoon 22-25 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was bicycling home from work 5 1/2 weeks ago when I was struck by a car. I broke my leg (fractured lateral tibia plateau - intra-articular comminuted fx with depression...
    shygrant shygrant 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't feel broken inside, I am broken inside. Just a empty vessel waiting to expire, often people around me throw out the line "that's life" or "just keep moving forward" but to...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 18

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    “Sensitive people are the most genuine and honest people you will ever meet. There is nothing they won’t tell you about themselves if they trust your kindness. However, the...
    Wiltingflower Wiltingflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 21