I Recently Broke Up

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 177 People

    Recently had a big lose in my family

    and promised that person I would get my life back in order I'm trying to stop smoking marijuana, drinking, etc., through everything I've cut ties with bad influences, broke up with my girlfriend, so just looking to find some people to talk to.
    Isashimself Isashimself
    18-21, M
    May 4, 2014

    Together Today

    It seems like the spark still here in my heart but i have to stop myself from falling inloved with again. I currently have a boyfriend and i love the man i am with right now. Me and my x.husband agreed to be friends we change msgs. each other often, and he told me that he still...
    chyneregis chyneregis
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2012

    my girlfriend broke up with me.

    . saying that am 1month younger to her... what is this bullshit... is it must to be elder to a girl to marry her..??
    deleted deleted
    Jan 6, 2015

    So this morning I decided to break up with my

    girlfriend of 2 months. 3 weeks ago her and I had started discovering that our interest weren't mixing too well and I decided to have enough of it and ended the relationship. I was curious what her response will be back to me and it was plain and simple, have a nice life. I'm...
    valamir valamir
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 29, 2014

    Deal with it

    Yes, I am hurting But don't forget that you brought this on yourself Don't come crying to me The man whom you chose to leave It's not my job to comfort you Why do I still allow you to influence my emotions I am no longer yours So go away unless you want to be mine again I know...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jun 26, 2011

    Broke Up Recently

    For some reason I cannot get over my ex. We are best friends and still love each other but need to grow in our personal lives separately. I cannot help but wake up everyday and immediately check on what he's doing and constantly talking to him. It kills me that he is moving...
    mollowhollow mollowhollow
    26-30, F
    Jun 13, 2013

    How People Move On To Fast

    I recently left a 6 year relationship a little over a month ago. I am still very much in love with him but I had to leave because there was verbal abuse involved. I left because I had to protect my children from growing up that way. He begged me for the last month to come back...
    christi920 christi920
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 3, 2013


    my bf and i of 14 months decided to take a break.. hopefully not for forever tho.. with him being so busy he hasn't really had time for me and we both realized it just wasn't working out right now.. Even though it killed me inside, we have agreed to still talk and be friends...
    iGotMine8 iGotMine8
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2008

    6 years down the drain.

    I'm trying not to wallow in self pity because it only makes things harder. We broke up back in March. I told her that we were a "****** couple" and that she didn't care about what I said or felt anymore. We went back and forth for a few weeks following the break up. One moment...
    FunctionalVert FunctionalVert
    22-25, M
    Jun 3, 2015

    For The Best...

    We'd been going out together for about 9 months or so, known each other for longer... To be honest, the relationship has been petering out for the past 2 or 3 months. The passion just died, so we sat down a couple of weeks ago and called time on things... It was very much a...
    OpenRoadGuy OpenRoadGuy
    36-40, M
    Dec 29, 2011

    Man it sucks! It hurts

    so bad... :c
    IzumiSK12 IzumiSK12
    16-17, M
    Sep 20, 2015

    This is for you 07/2014 I choose not to be

    with you. You may hate me for my decision. Your ego is definitely hurt. The truth is, my decision was not as easy as you think. I choose not to be with you, because my heart would not smile when I looked into your eyes. Because I did not love your flaws and to me you were...
    Wkd1 Wkd1
    31-35, M
    Oct 27, 2014

    I had this idea in my head

    that seemed brilliant at the time. Break up with him, and he will begin to understand my feelings more. "You'll get back together after like 3 days and everything will be fine again"-or so, this is what I truly believed in my mind. Why did I break up with him? What was I trying...
    melisa1211 melisa1211
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2015

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa
    26-30, F
    Jan 19, 2015

    Break With Me

    Please crack a frown Quit pretending to be happy It makes me feel pathetic And marginalizes my misery Let me see a tear fall from your eye And just maybe I'll feel a little less pain I can't stand to look at your miraculous smile And see your passionate brown eyes light up with...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 27, 2012

    Every Day Gets A Little Better

    I'm starting to feel a little better since the break up. I am truly starting to realize that things were not my fault. I can't wait when the day comes that I am completely over this. Emotionally I have my good days and bad days but I'm making progress.
    03hope 03hope
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2013

    So Sad

    We are both in our early 30s. We were together for two years. He took me to a jewelry store and had my ring finger measured. Multiple times, he asked me what kind of wedding I wanted, who should be his best man, and talked about what song we would use for our first dance. We...
    saileen saileen
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2013

    Recently Broke Up With Girlfriend

    I broke up with my gielfriend 4 days ago. We had been together for five months and all was going well. She said i was so different to her last boyfriends who has treated her badly. I looked after her and treated her so well. She said she was so happy and couldnt imagine life...
    lone367 lone367
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2008

    Lost At Sea

    I recently separated from my husband of 24 years.My husband has been disabled for 7 yrs. due to an accident at work.This caused a lot of stress over the past several years .My husband unfortuanately equated his self-worth with his work.I worked many hours as a nurse to suppot my...
    marcie marcie
    1 Response Oct 24, 2008


    so i was having major withdawals from my sig other today like BIG TIME but i haven't really been crying..thank God and my baby woke me up at 10 something now i hate when ppl wake me up from my sleep if it isn't major but i absolutely do NOT care if it's my baby but yea then i...
    Juicy09 Juicy09
    18-21, F
    Jul 19, 2012

    Gah I Love You

    Howdy So its been 8 months since me and my girlfriend split up and we are still friends, i still try and talk to her cause im still hopelessly in love sadly although i was the one in the relationship who was the problem, she wanted me to do something with my life but were still...
    MajorDerp MajorDerp
    22-25, M
    Jun 13, 2013

    I Told Him I Need A Break But Truth Is I Need A Break Up

    I love him. So much. I know he loves me, but it's not enough. I always felt there's something missing and I realized that it is that I don't trust him. We can't really continue a relationship without trust. That's why I'm letting him go. This is so hard though, I wanna move on. I...
    Feb 1, 2013

    So I had this awesome boyfriend

    and he was just everything I ever wanted in some one but yesterday he accused me of cheating on him and I wasn't, but he didn't believe me and wouldn't listen. It was just the worst thing because we had been dating for so long and we had been so happy together. I'm just pretty...
    Willj626 Willj626
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Jan 25, 2015


    *sighs. Ok.., we broke up December 14. He didn't do anything horrific but I just felt the need to be happy and put myself first and couldn't do that in our relationship. Maybe that sounds weird... or even dumb. He was a great boyfriend and I love him to death, he's sweet and...
    mimiboo mimiboo
    16-17, F
    Jan 8, 2009

    i have not written a story in a while

    or even taken much part in ep for a while... but my boyfriend and i broke up today...ive known him for so many years and we started out as friends but we ended up dating and we broke up because of my parents mostly which seems like a dumb reason but my parents have helped me so...
    iloveyou2014 iloveyou2014
    18-21, F
    Jun 22, 2015

    It's Over

    well my sig other and i called it a quits...mainly me..we had taken a break a few months back but eventually agreed to see where things go and how we end up... so i thought after my hook up with my ex in april "just give me a month or so i'll be fine and me & my sig other will...
    Juicy09 Juicy09
    18-21, F
    Jul 17, 2012

    Out of a secondary school relationship,

    'young love' everyone thought we were made for each other and i believed it too. Then she went to university and everything changed, we slowly drifted apart.. She suggested a break & then a month later ended it. It seems 5 years together meant nothing & now i feel lost without...
    unfuckmyworld unfuckmyworld
    18-21, M
    Jan 14, 2015

    He imposes his egocentric definition of love.

    No wonder I didn't feel anything for him to be straightforward.
    skyalarm skyalarm
    13-15, M
    Jul 22, 2014

    Ya my gf broke up with me like

    after 4 months and after I spent like 200 dollars on her birthday haha her excuse was oh I don't know what I want yet like wtf ***** you are dumb of course that's what I get though lol
    MrSoundWave MrSoundWave
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2015

    Can Not Seem To Get Moving.

    It has been 3 weeks or more when I broke up with her. I just can not stop to think about something else and its always her. I thought I could trust her but as I gave her my everything in the end I was hurt the most. So here I am trying to get back with my life and I am just...
    FlareUltMetal FlareUltMetal
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2013

    We've been together almost four years

    and yesterday out of the blue, he said he wanted to leave or rather, wanted me to leave. We've been together a long time and I'm going through a lot right now. My life was going the right way but all of a sudden this has sent me spiralling. It just seems so cruel that he's...
    Whenitbegins Whenitbegins
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2014

    I was on and off with my ex boyfriend

    for 5 years but I'm finding it hard to move on I put on a front that I'm ok and as soon as I'm on my own I struggle with it I don't know what to do!
    jayjai jayjai
    26-30, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    The Nerve

    i'm so tired of him hitting me up complaining...look i told u we could be friends obviously he don't know what that means i mean i've gotta figure out a way to cut him loose for good i mean i know i'm NOT in love with him i have no desire to be physical with him...and ummm i know...
    Juicy09 Juicy09
    18-21, F
    Aug 1, 2012

    I met this guy six months ago

    and to me he was everything I wanted, before I met him I broke up with my fiance of 3 years but everything went sour, he was there to help me pull through. He was kind, gentle and was there when I needed him. A couple of weeks later we got together and I fell hard for him. He...
    LisaCambpell LisaCambpell
    18-21, F
    Aug 22, 2015

    Hi Guys, First post ever,

    but i guess it is a bit of a desperate one. Im just finding it a little hard at the moment i guess? So where to begin... I've known this girl since i was 15, we are both now 22. It all started back in the MSN days where she accidentally added me and we started talking. We...
    Ajaay Ajaay
    22-25, M
    Jun 1, 2015

    Broke Up Yesterday.

    .. with the girlfriend. A serious relationship with a kid (her kid) and her family and her friends..and its all over. I do love her, i will miss her, i hope in the future we can find each other again but I doubt it.
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada
    26-30, M
    Jul 12, 2012

    Am I really cheap? :/

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months just recently. I believe i did have true feelings for him. But everytime he did something to hurt me, it always affected my feelings for him. I n a bad way,obviously. We never talked. Not really. Not the way I wanted to. Whenever I started...
    LostNInsecure LostNInsecure
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2013

    I'm doing pretty good

    after going through a bad breakup with my ex boyfriend. As soon as I found out he lied and cheated, HE broke up with ME. I took about 3 to 4 days to cry about it and feel sorry for myself. But now, I'm feeling pretty good. I've been eating healthy, working out, and spending time...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2015

    Broke Up About 3 Weeks Ago

    We just broke up after three months. I was a wreck for quite a while, but it really was for the best. He didn't treat me right at all. He broke my heart. I am happy to say that I'm completely over him. Completely. Breaking up stinks but it does get better. I am now with someone...
    xxflyawayxx xxflyawayxx
    13-15, F
    Jun 14, 2009

    It'S Only Been Two Months

    I am so hurt and crushed right now and I can't stop crying. Eventhough I'm the one that broke it off I'm still hurt. He cheated on me 3 different times and he was verbally abusive. I took it for two years and I loved him but I couldn't take the cheating and verbal abuse...
    03hope 03hope
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2013


    I feel so stupid. I broke up with my girlfriend for no reason at all. Just like everything else in my life I just worked myself up to it, without actually having a good reason to do it. We had a really good relationship. Yes there were some problems but we worked through them...
    paladine paladine
    18-21, M
    Dec 29, 2010

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