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I Recently Broke Up

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    Can Not Seem To Get Moving.

    It has been 3 weeks or more when I broke up with her. I just can not stop to think about something else and its always her. I thought I could trust her but as I gave her my everything in the end I was hurt the most. So here I am trying to get back with my life and I am just...
    FlareUltMetal FlareUltMetal 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    The Nerve

    i'm so tired of him hitting me up complaining...look i told u we could be friends obviously he don't know what that means i mean i've gotta figure out a way to cut him loose for good i mean i know i'm NOT in love with him i have no desire to be physical with him...and ummm i know...
    Juicy09 Juicy09 18-21, F Aug 1, 2012

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    Deal with it

    Yes, I am hurting But don't forget that you brought this on yourself Don't come crying to me The man whom you chose to leave It's not my job to comfort you Why do I still allow you to influence my emotions I am no longer yours So go away unless you want to be mine again I know...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    Recently had a big lose in my family

    and promised that person I would get my life back in order I'm trying to stop smoking marijuana, drinking, etc., through everything I've cut ties with bad influences, broke up with my girlfriend, so just looking to find some people to talk to.
    Isashimself Isashimself 16-17, M May 4

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    He imposes his egocentric definition of love.

    No wonder I didn't feel anything for him to be straightforward.
    skyalarm skyalarm 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    Today...

    my bf and i of 14 months decided to take a break.. hopefully not for forever tho.. with him being so busy he hasn't really had time for me and we both realized it just wasn't working out right now.. Even though it killed me inside, we have agreed to still talk and be friends...
    iGotMine8 iGotMine8 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2008

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    Together Today

    It seems like the spark still here in my heart but i have to stop myself from falling inloved with again. I currently have a boyfriend and i love the man i am with right now. Me and my x.husband agreed to be friends we change msgs. each other often, and he told me that he still...
    chyneregis chyneregis 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2012

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    Broke Up About 3 Weeks Ago

    We just broke up after three months. I was a wreck for quite a while, but it really was for the best. He didn't treat me right at all. He broke my heart. I am happy to say that I'm completely over him. Completely. Breaking up stinks but it does get better. I am now with someone...
    xxflyawayxx xxflyawayxx 13-15, F Jun 14, 2009

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    Gah I Love You

    Howdy So its been 8 months since me and my girlfriend split up and we are still friends, i still try and talk to her cause im still hopelessly in love sadly although i was the one in the relationship who was the problem, she wanted me to do something with my life but were still...
    MajorDerp MajorDerp 18-21, M Jun 13, 2013

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    It'S Only Been Two Months

    I am so hurt and crushed right now and I can't stop crying. Eventhough I'm the one that broke it off I'm still hurt. He cheated on me 3 different times and he was verbally abusive. I took it for two years and I loved him but I couldn't take the cheating and verbal abuse...
    03hope 03hope 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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    I broke up with my boyfriend,

    forget about him, i'm over it though, no use in whining!
    naco26withcheese naco26withcheese 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Okay.

    it's been two weeks now that we broke up.. The first week was the worst. I felt numb.. It hurts. After a year & five months I guess it's suppose to. I'm getting through it though, I could still smile and laugh.. It's when I'm alone is when I start to think and beat myself up...
    Simplymarissa Simplymarissa 18-21, F 1 Response May 25, 2013

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    Am I really cheap? :/

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months just recently. I believe i did have true feelings for him. But everytime he did something to hurt me, it always affected my feelings for him. I n a bad way,obviously. We never talked. Not really. Not the way I wanted to. Whenever I started...
    LostNInsecure LostNInsecure 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    So Sad

    We are both in our early 30s. We were together for two years. He took me to a jewelry store and had my ring finger measured. Multiple times, he asked me what kind of wedding I wanted, who should be his best man, and talked about what song we would use for our first dance. We...
    saileen saileen 31-35, F Nov 4, 2013

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    Wow.

    *sighs. Ok.., we broke up December 14. He didn't do anything horrific but I just felt the need to be happy and put myself first and couldn't do that in our relationship. Maybe that sounds weird... or even dumb. He was a great boyfriend and I love him to death, he's sweet and...
    mimiboo mimiboo 16-17, F Jan 8, 2009

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    It's Over

    well my sig other and i called it a quits...mainly me..we had taken a break a few months back but eventually agreed to see where things go and how we end up... so i thought after my hook up with my ex in april "just give me a month or so i'll be fine and me & my sig other will...
    Juicy09 Juicy09 18-21, F Jul 17, 2012

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    Withdrawals

    so i was having major withdawals from my sig other today like BIG TIME but i haven't really been crying..thank God and my baby woke me up at 10 something now i hate when ppl wake me up from my sleep if it isn't major but i absolutely do NOT care if it's my baby but yea then i...
    Juicy09 Juicy09 18-21, F Jul 19, 2012

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    For The Best...

    We'd been going out together for about 9 months or so, known each other for longer... To be honest, the relationship has been petering out for the past 2 or 3 months. The passion just died, so we sat down a couple of weeks ago and called time on things... It was very much a...
    OpenRoadGuy OpenRoadGuy 36-40, M Dec 29, 2011

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    Every Day Gets A Little Better

    I'm starting to feel a little better since the break up. I am truly starting to realize that things were not my fault. I can't wait when the day comes that I am completely over this. Emotionally I have my good days and bad days but I'm making progress.
    03hope 03hope 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Recently Broke Up With Girlfriend

    I broke up with my gielfriend 4 days ago. We had been together for five months and all was going well. She said i was so different to her last boyfriends who has treated her badly. I looked after her and treated her so well. She said she was so happy and couldnt imagine life...
    lone367 lone367 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    I Told Him I Need A Break But Truth Is I Need A Break Up

    I love him. So much. I know he loves me, but it's not enough. I always felt there's something missing and I realized that it is that I don't trust him. We can't really continue a relationship without trust. That's why I'm letting him go. This is so hard though, I wanna move on. I...
    Feb 1, 2013

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    Broke Up Recently

    For some reason I cannot get over my ex. We are best friends and still love each other but need to grow in our personal lives separately. I cannot help but wake up everyday and immediately check on what he's doing and constantly talking to him. It kills me that he is moving...
    mollowhollow mollowhollow 22-25, F Jun 13, 2013

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    Break With Me

    Please crack a frown Quit pretending to be happy It makes me feel pathetic And marginalizes my misery Let me see a tear fall from your eye And just maybe I'll feel a little less pain I can't stand to look at your miraculous smile And see your passionate brown eyes light up with...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 2 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Lost At Sea

    I recently separated from my husband of 24 years.My husband has been disabled for 7 yrs. due to an accident at work.This caused a lot of stress over the past several years .My husband unfortuanately equated his self-worth with his work.I worked many hours as a nurse to suppot my...
    marcie marcie 46-50 1 Response Oct 24, 2008

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    Stupid

    I feel so stupid. I broke up with my girlfriend for no reason at all. Just like everything else in my life I just worked myself up to it, without actually having a good reason to do it. We had a really good relationship. Yes there were some problems but we worked through them...
    paladine paladine 18-21, M Dec 29, 2010

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    How People Move On To Fast

    I recently left a 6 year relationship a little over a month ago. I am still very much in love with him but I had to leave because there was verbal abuse involved. I left because I had to protect my children from growing up that way. He begged me for the last month to come back...
    christi920 christi920 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    Broke Up Yesterday.

    .. with the girlfriend. A serious relationship with a kid (her kid) and her family and her friends..and its all over. I do love her, i will miss her, i hope in the future we can find each other again but I doubt it.
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M Jul 12, 2012

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    I met my ex online. We quickly became inseparable and after only 4 months, he moved in with me. Things changed almost immediately. He became distant, secretive, moody. He stopped...
    DragonGirl23 DragonGirl23 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I met my ex online. We quickly became inseparable and after only 4 months, he moved in with me. Things changed almost immediately. He became distant, secretive, moody. He stopped...
    DragonGirl23 DragonGirl23 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    My mum is really into talking on the phone recently and I think she s talking to a guy. She s 50 this year, separated with my father 6-7 years ago. I didn't expect I would feel...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I hate myself because I think I love you. I've always had trust issues with men because the only man in my life I have been able to trust until recently was my dad (recently my...
    kaps105 kaps105 18-21, F Jun 25

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    I feel I am not destined to be in a relationship. I find my self attached to a person too fast and too deeply and when it doesn't work I feel devastated. Recently with an intention...
    dushy2411 dushy2411 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I have always bottled my emotions. I have a boyfriend (kind of) and I keep a lot o things concerning my feelings away from him. I keep things from my friends too because I feel...
    justmiabro justmiabro 16-17, F Jul 6

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    My Ex boyfriend and I had been together and living together for 2 and a Half years. He was very mentally abusive as he would always want me home by the time he was home from work...
    mjrosee mjrosee 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 8

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    I had my heart broken by this person i was in a not official relationship with for about six months. We were and still are very close. What happened was that i started to get a bit...
    Rei124 Rei124 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I feel like no one wants me. My parents have recently divorced and me and my mom always fight. She always yells at me to pack my bags and that I'm going to live with my dad, but...
    foreveraloneforever foreveraloneforever 13-15, F Jun 29

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    Few days ago I decided to end my relationship of 5 years with my boyfriend. It wasn't the first time but it was always because of cheating on his part. Before that we split up...
    Dandelionlove Dandelionlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My best friend whom I will call Jake has had a crush on me on and off for the past year and I've known about it for about as long. People have always told us we'd be a great couple...
    liaelizabeth liaelizabeth 16-17, F Jul 17

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    My best friend and I recently just stopped being friends.. She had a bunch of crazy stuff in her life and just stopped talking to me. Today she sent me a text after 2 months of not...
    sarahmontano sarahmontano 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    My heart is in so much pain. I cannot even sleep at night or eat properly. This is what I am reading today to help me recover: http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F Jun 29

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    Help me, God. I am in so much pain. I literally cannot breathe well because of how shattered my heart is right now. _____________________ http://www.prayerideas.org/wp...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I happened upon this piece of writing today, and I liked it so much I thought I'd share. It really speaks to me! I agree with what she says, and almost feel like I could have...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    everyone is broken. Some are just worse and others can't even be fixed. But we learn to be like that and live like that because maybe, being broken is actually what life is and if...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Hi. I could really use conversation from people who are going through possibly a similar situation as me. I broke up with my amazing, beautiful person of a boyfriend 2 days ago and...
    ChelseyBrownfield ChelseyBrownfield 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    How can I bet a 15 years old teen , and my heart is so broken... How could I put my happiness into one stupid boy... Who I thought loved me... But once we broke up one week later...
    haaaywee08 haaaywee08 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    After 1 failed marriage and 7 broken relationships I am done with telling my tail of a broken heart. It took me 20 years to figure out that we are only as happy as we purpose to be...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F Jul 3

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    Three weeks ago I had the unfortunate experience of breaking my foot by falling out of a window. At first I was in denial and told everyone that I was ok, but the pain wasn't...
    katchafire katchafire 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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