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I Recently Divorced

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    Scared And Lost

    Firstly, I would like to thank you for reading this and I am extremely sorry that it was so long. Once I started I just had to keep going. Me and my wife were together for 8 years. I was 18 when we met and she was 20. We worked together and I was her trainer. On the very first...
    Alterego85 Alterego85 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    New Beginnings!!!

    I have decided that dwelling on the past is staying in one place to long , so after some heartache or is it headache , i have decided its time to finally move on !! so please bare with me on my journey..........
    mugsy75 mugsy75 36-40 Nov 23, 2012

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    It was finalized today,

    I feel great! I have no emotions about it anymore. I have already started my new life just focusing on me and making myself better. I am at peace with my decision and I am very happy cause I made the best decision for me. Wish I would have done it sooner or better yet wish i...
    alycia12 alycia12 26-30, F Jul 14

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    Not My Ex Yet!

    About a month ago my husband of apx 18 mos with a four year romance before marriage in which we lived together for two of those years. After a small argument over ine of my children, he tells me to leave and that he wants a divorce. I thought we were happy and in love. It's been...
    Nightnurse42 Nightnurse42 41-45 Oct 28, 2012

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    It's amazing how your neighbors avoid you like

    the plague... Once you get a divorce... :(
    kavcardenas kavcardenas 36-40, F Aug 16

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    This Blows!

    i have recently divorced my husband after 10 years together. I knew it was coming after he got back from his first deploment. We tried to make it work...but had no luck. :( We will remain friends for the kids sake. I feel lost, hurt, and angry. i dont know what to do. He has...
    irishwannabeky irishwannabeky 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    I Should Have Knownhewoul

     Long story short.  I should have known my marriage would not work out and not accepted the marriage proposal but I believed him when he said he would always tell me if our marriage was in trouble so we could work on it.  He also promised me would always tell...
    italysprings italysprings 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2008

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    the years have passed on by.I went into a marriage with open arms and great anticipation of happily ever after.What I got was two wonderful children which I raised alone as a...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Aug 24

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    I was married for five years and had two children in that time. While ignoring or suppressing my attraction to other guys, but I couldn't do it anymore and told my wife who then...
    zsmith1985 zsmith1985 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    my parents divorced when i was three they both found other people when i was five and eight years later my mom divorced again but its okay he was an *** and we're better off on our...
    kkkeeennnzzz kkkeeennnzzz 13-15, F Sep 4

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    Your really lucky if your parents aren't divorced.
    somebodysheartbrake somebodysheartbrake 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    Divorced for 5 years now I thought he was the one but i was wrong! There will always be someone better out there though. :( :)
    msjuliegot32d msjuliegot32d 41-45, F Aug 21

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    My parents divorced when I was 3 and my dad left to another country. It's only hitting me now, 12 years later, the feeling of rejection. The feeling of being unwanted. It hurts and...
    kellykolesky kellykolesky 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I have been divorced since 1995 and have tried to move on. I am happily married and my kids are grown. The problem is my Ex is so evil and has planted ideas that aren't true in our...
    bonniek56 bonniek56 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I don't have divorced parents yet, but they are in the middle of doing so. I am 13 and it's so hard for me to watch fight after fight. I just sit there trying my hardest not to...
    Avreyxo Avreyxo 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 30

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    This is my second divorce. It was finalized this past Wednesday. I'm very disappointed in the whole idea of love right now. After giving one hundred percent to both wives, I find...
    NMBtruth1 NMBtruth1 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    Only 2 months to go till we've been legally separated for 12 months and able to file for divorce. I can't wait to be able to put that mistake behind me. I don't know any other...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Tonight I am very deeply depressed... everything is catching up to me. I have been through a bankruptcy, my wife has divorced me, my Mother and Sister are estranged from me, I need...
    cvann5 cvann5 51-55, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I know it doesn't seem like a big deal. Everyones parents are divorced nowadays right? I live with my mom, and about a thirty second walking distance from the rest of my maternal...
    looloo55 looloo55 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend was recently arrested on August 27th, and its only been a few days but its already getting hard for me. Im not clear on his new charge just yet but rumor around the...
    destinymachado24 destinymachado24 18-21, F Aug 29

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    So I recently broke up with a boyfriend that I had dated for 3.5 years. Honestly, it should have happened months ago but for some reason I felt so much guilt about it. He is a...
    sweetie8403 sweetie8403 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I met this girl on a dating site a while back and we eventually started talking on the phone. At one point she asked me how tall I was. At this point I should mention that I am...
    snowpowderking snowpowderking 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Divorce is final today. Never thought a year ago I would be saying this. At least now i won't worry about the unknown. I'm looking forward to the future and my "new life", wherever...
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    One who cares and cant help. Plus the one who can but wants a slave.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 19

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    My wife and I had our share of problems. We ended up separated for six months. Did what I could to fix things, tried to be there for her. It wasn't enough. A few months ago she...
    Visium13 Visium13 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    My ex moved out a year ago and my divorce was final this past week. Want to get back into the dating scene but the online dating sites are not working for me at all. Having been...
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 23

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    I'm a young married wife. My husband and I were happily together just last month we took a trip home to Miami Florida after a year and a half not being home. We don't own a home...
    itspinky18 itspinky18 18-21, F Aug 25

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    My da remarried, and my stepmom hates me. I never met my mom, and she has her own family.
    celiy celiy 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    My sword is in hand and I am carving a new path to a new life. My children my most precious charge will be with me in heart on the days I am away and will never lack. Will I find...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M Sep 1

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    LMAO!! My father filed for divorce THE DAY after my brother's birthday. Lol "Oh, it your birthday. That reminds me, I need to divorce your mother..." **** you! Haha
    Chrissaysyourock Chrissaysyourock 16-17, M Sep 1

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    I thought I was doing what was expected of me, to quote a movie "I checked all the boxes" I did what was expected of me, got married bought a house got a dog. I don't know if it...
    jlifegivingdeath jlifegivingdeath 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    Thank you Lord for getting me thru this day...even tho I wanted to gouge my ex husband and his attorneys eyes out, I kept it together.
    silnomorerodarte silnomorerodarte 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    My family is super big since the divorse. My dad Keith, had one child from a different woman who my mum raised and me and my 2 brothers. And my mum, chelsea married a man with 2...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    In June I made a bold decision that would forever change my life after months of my mind racing over the state of my marriage. My husband (at the time) filed for divorce, and with...
    daisygrey daisygrey 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I talked to my husband tonight about separating and divorcing. No emotion on his end he just doesn't care but I guess it validates my decision. It seems so hard to start over I'm...
    LonelyLish LonelyLish 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Mom problems LOL Honestly I feel so lonely sometimes
    dnielle75 dnielle75 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    The biggest thing I learnt out of my divorce is to rely on myself first and seek out my own success. I want to continue doing well in my career and earn my own good money and be...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My first gf luv then my wife abruptly decided to break up. It was a swift break up almost 4 years ago. Along with it went my friends...my possessions and most assets.... Not in...
    earlycrisis earlycrisis 31-35, M a week ago

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    February 2015 and I will be able to file for divorce. We will have been separated for 1 year by then. I can't to wait to sign the divorce papers and finally feel free!
    youaretheonlyexception youaretheonlyexception 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    This season is difficult. I'm having a hard time functioning. I feel like I need to have a good cry but I can't.I have all of this bottled up emotion and I don't know what to do...
    NMBtruth1 NMBtruth1 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I the 12 year old good kid growing up suffered a deadly blow that was my parents divorce that I blamed my self on. Got into the wrong groups like druggies and drunks. Damaged me...
    Browness Browness 16-17 20 hrs ago

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    I just moved to lake city Florida and am wondering if anyone else lives in lake city or Gainesville or anywhere close to me. I could really use a friend around here to help me get...
    Tyler2524 Tyler2524 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Not to death. She just left. That's it. she didn't say anything. I didn't do anything. I didn't get an explanation. One day we loved each, the next she doesn't want anything to do...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I made a blog which my full story is posted on... here's the link: thewondergirl.blog.com
    thewondergirl thewondergirl 13-15, F Aug 19

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    OH DUDE!! So.. does it count if you were put in a holding cell? I got into a bit of a fight with a guy who just so happened to be the Sheriff's nephew. By the time our friends had...
    xoStarsInTheDarkox xoStarsInTheDarkox 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I am 5'5 and 47.5kg. If you have read my previous posts, you will know all about my struggle with restrictive dieting over the past couple of years, leading to extreme weight loss...
    Mel999 Mel999 18-21 1 Response Aug 22

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    I'm so devastated by my husbands sudden decision to end our 22 year marriage. It's been almost a month and I really don't feel like I can go on. I just don't understand how he...
    ronilvsu ronilvsu 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    "My love for you was bulletproof but you're the one who shot me." - Bulletproof love by Pierce The Veil
    Pierce7891 Pierce7891 16-17, F Aug 23