I Recently Divorced

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 35 People

    My divorce has been official

    for a little short of two months, although we've been emotionally separated for several years. I've had this terrible crush on a co worker who is 25 years younger than me. Obviously, that wouldn't work except in very rare circumstances (like we were the only two left on earth...
    wantadoover wantadoover
    56-60, M
    Jun 24, 2015

    This Blows!

    i have recently divorced my husband after 10 years together. I knew it was coming after he got back from his first deploment. We tried to make it work...but had no luck. :( We will remain friends for the kids sake. I feel lost, hurt, and angry. i dont know what to do. He has...
    irishwannabeky irishwannabeky
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2009

    Scared And Lost

    Firstly, I would like to thank you for reading this and I am extremely sorry that it was so long. Once I started I just had to keep going. Me and my wife were together for 8 years. I was 18 when we met and she was 20. We worked together and I was her trainer. On the very first...
    Alterego85 Alterego85
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 25, 2012

    It suck to be single

    after 16 year marrage,scared of going out and catching a std.but being able to go explore all the things you dream about sexualy sounds like a grat thing too.new to the dating websites and all.confused bout it all.maybe a cyber partner would be cool
    Dwgrlg Dwgrlg
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 22, 2015

    Not My Ex Yet!

    About a month ago my husband of apx 18 mos with a four year romance before marriage in which we lived together for two of those years. After a small argument over ine of my children, he tells me to leave and that he wants a divorce. I thought we were happy and in love. It's been...
    Nightnurse42 Nightnurse42
    41-45
    Oct 28, 2012

    It was finalized today,

    I feel great! I have no emotions about it anymore. I have already started my new life just focusing on me and making myself better. I am at peace with my decision and I am very happy cause I made the best decision for me. Wish I would have done it sooner or better yet wish i...
    consciousQueenRBG consciousQueenRBG
    26-30, F
    Jul 14, 2014

    I just got divorced. I wanted it

    because he hurt me so much. My main problem was his family. I dont understand why mothers im law interfere so much! Anyway im happy and sad. Angry cause he loved me but apparently he was still a kid cause he was too afraid to stand up against his parents. My main problem was...
    bluefire110 bluefire110
    26-30, F
    Oct 17, 2015

    It's amazing how your neighbors avoid you like

    the plague... Once you get a divorce... :(
    kavcardenas kavcardenas
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2014

    New Beginnings!!!

    I have decided that dwelling on the past is staying in one place to long , so after some heartache or is it headache , i have decided its time to finally move on !! so please bare with me on my journey..........
    mugsy75 mugsy75
    36-40
    Nov 23, 2012

    I Should Have Knownhewoul

     Long story short.  I should have known my marriage would not work out and not accepted the marriage proposal but I believed him when he said he would always tell me if our marriage was in trouble so we could work on it.  He also promised me would always tell...
    italysprings italysprings
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2008

    I have felt that absolute despair,

    hopelessness and worthlessness after my ex-wife filed for divorce. I did not see it coming. It broke me into millions of pieces.
    DaveGouv DaveGouv
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 3, 2015

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