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I Recently Divorced

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    I Should Have Knownhewoul

     Long story short.  I should have known my marriage would not work out and not accepted the marriage proposal but I believed him when he said he would always tell me if our marriage was in trouble so we could work on it.  He also promised me would always tell...
    italysprings italysprings 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2008

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    This Blows!

    i have recently divorced my husband after 10 years together. I knew it was coming after he got back from his first deploment. We tried to make it work...but had no luck. :( We will remain friends for the kids sake. I feel lost, hurt, and angry. i dont know what to do. He has...
    irishwannabeky irishwannabeky 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Scared And Lost

    Firstly, I would like to thank you for reading this and I am extremely sorry that it was so long. Once I started I just had to keep going. Me and my wife were together for 8 years. I was 18 when we met and she was 20. We worked together and I was her trainer. On the very first...
    Alterego85 Alterego85 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Not My Ex Yet!

    About a month ago my husband of apx 18 mos with a four year romance before marriage in which we lived together for two of those years. After a small argument over ine of my children, he tells me to leave and that he wants a divorce. I thought we were happy and in love. It's been...
    Nightnurse42 Nightnurse42 41-45 Oct 28, 2012

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    New Beginnings!!!

    I have decided that dwelling on the past is staying in one place to long , so after some heartache or is it headache , i have decided its time to finally move on !! so please bare with me on my journey..........
    mugsy75 mugsy75 36-40 Nov 23, 2012

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    Recently divorced from a wife who cheated on me for years. Met a lady online who sadly lived a long ways away. We became very good friends...because she lived so far away I knew we...
    ParamedicJohn ParamedicJohn 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm 30 and recently divorced. My ex was verbally, emotionally and somewhat physically abusive. At the same time, he was my best friend. We were together for 10 years and married...
    sdp11983 sdp11983 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My parents got divorced a few years ago and I want them to be happy, but it's not easy to watch my parents date other people. Recently my mom started seeing a man who had a 19 year...
    lesliemonster lesliemonster 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    They Are :( My parents are divorced, they got divorced when i was a year old.
    Belieber4Life Belieber4Life 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My parents are divorced and I live with my mom and my older brother. My mom obviously loves my brother more and he gets whatever he wants but if I ask for anything she screams at...
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I am thinking about divorcing my second husband but I am afraid of the stigma attached to being divorced twice. I worry about how it will affect me and my grown children to know...
    Christmas87 Christmas87 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    98% of the time, my parents splitting is a good thing. But sometimes it's bad. My dad has a really bad temper and has harmed my brothers and my mom. I don't know why he hasn't...
    emily39 emily39 18-21, F a week ago

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    And when I say recently, I mean in the last couple of weeks. It's only (nearly) 4 months in to 2014 and it amazes me just how quick things can change. One day your life is just...
    maqeurious maqeurious 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Well I finally got help with my depression that was contributed by my abusive cheating husband. I was alone, depressed, withdrawn, and suicidal. But as I got the time to hurt, I...
    2young4marriage 2young4marriage 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    i was married for five years without any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very...
    Shellyearl Shellyearl 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I can not believe I am following up on a promise, not an ultimatum. The decision is two decades past due. I tried my best to revive marriage that was one sided for so many years...
    Spicedpecan Spicedpecan 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Divorce in snohomish county in washington stateAny recommendations? Domestic violence and a no contact protection order are involved. Me (wife) is working at $13/hr and has less...
    cestlavie14 cestlavie14 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    My now ex wife and I dated for 5 years and eventually got married when we were 18.Everything seemed great she attended USC while I ended up having to move away for a bit just so I...
    P24TY P24TY 26-30, M Mar 28

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    I want to move in with my dad but my mom doesn't want me to. Does anyone have any good arguments I could use?
    anonymous552 anonymous552 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    It was a long time coming. 20 years of lies, mind games, cheating. I was the one always forgiving and forgiving. Until last September I felt I was going to go crazy, because in...
    bluelady23 bluelady23 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I swear everyday I wonder why does this have to hurt so bad, I mean we fell in love we weren't supposed to be like our parents and now here we are not even able to be in the same...
    rox345 rox345 31-35, F Apr 3

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    I'm having really bad family problems and I have no where to turn.. I can't deal with my parents and who they're with anymore I don't know what to do. it's like I have no parents...
    giannaxo giannaxo 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    As a child, I remember witnessing the separation of my parents, not sure how old I was, too small to have seen that. There was a big fight, brutal, stabbing and yelling going and I...
    MarioPm MarioPm 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    This is a little harder then I thought.... A few years ago when I first joined this site I made the mistake of doing what I usually do in the real world...which is pretend like...
    xXxsilvermistxXx xXxsilvermistxXx 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    My parents never got married but they did date as teenagers but my dad was a player bad lived with my now step mother And dated more than one chick at a time my mom got tired of...
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F Apr 6

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    Well no not happy at all my dad went to prison my mom moved on again had her last child my dad got of prison and got back with my step mom I think that if my mom wanted him back he...
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F Apr 6

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    I looked out of the window, The darkness outside has now become my life. I thought of happier times when we used to play, laugh and talk as one. Oh, how I miss those days. Another...
    vit1234 vit1234 13-15, M Apr 8

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    Is there a light at the end of the tunnel after divorce?
    hereintheus hereintheus 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    My whole childhood all I can remember is the abusive relationship between my parents. My dad didn't have a drinking problem but had a bad temper when he did. He broke my mams arms...
    MelC97 MelC97 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Iife without father is much harder with living with a mom . I sometimes think he's here but as I look around he's not it hits me so hard I become so depressed..
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    After being a child bride at 15 and my father was 17, she felt she had enough of his childish crap after 10 years of hell. My mother said the only good thing in that marriage and...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Background: wife of 22 years, in midst of mid life crisis, meets "special friend" on Internet, leaves and moves 6hrs away to another state leaving behind 5 kids (18-9 at the time...
    ChangingDad ChangingDad 41-45, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Going from being married and always having someone there to talk to, hold and be held, or just be silly with to being single is hard. I miss the affection and closeness of being...
    micmer micmer 36-40, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    My husband died 49 days ago.. on Lunar new Year.. He went to his hometown to visit his family and I stayed at home with our 2 daughters, 1 and a half and 3 and a half.. The next...
    Tisimi Tisimi 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    Not recent.... Couple years ago. Went for a year with weird symptoms before docs found the fracture....... Must not have covered that in med school... Hahaha!
    popuptarget popuptarget 46-50, M Mar 21

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    A special lady allowed me access to her lovely breast loaded with milk. I'm still trying to put this into words. All I can really say is WOW. The search for a partner continues.
    rustyoldman55 rustyoldman55 51-55, M Mar 23

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    I am engaged to be married to the love of my life. He is my home, my rock, my biggest fan, my protector, my love, my family, my husband-to-be.
    octopieyes octopieyes 18-21, F Mar 24

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    Okay it's been one month or a little over. It still seems like yesterday that she was sitting right here with me. The long lonely nights make it worse. I know there was a lot of...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M Mar 25

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    I have decided to use this experience as a sounding board. I have 45 days widowed and have come to the understanding that I am no longer excepted into my in-laws family. They have...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    7weeks ago my soulmate passed away sleeping on our couch we had just shared the birth of our 2nd daughter only 5days earlier the luv we shared was unconditional the kind that last...
    misdaddy misdaddy 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I lost my husband one year ago to bladder cancer and I still miss him so terribly much. I just need someone to talk to,.
    ConLee ConLee 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Hi, I suffer from BIH or Pseudo tumor Cerebri. I was diagnosed in April of 2013 through a MRI and Spinal Tap. I can understand how all of u suffer from this rare disease as well as...
    Chocolatebabe33 Chocolatebabe33 31-35, F Mar 26

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    The worst times are the alone times. When everyone is gone when the phones not ringing when the email stop coming and the only thing that you have to look forward to is the sound...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    It's the 31st today. I suddenly realized that it's been 2 months. And it doesn't feel any easier.. What to do? When will I feel better? I'm thinking 6 months and then a year, 2...
    Tisimi Tisimi 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    My grandmother passed away early this morning, and her last words to me were, "I love you too, sweetie." Nana, I love you so much, and though it hurts so badly that you've passed...
    iCaii iCaii 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I can't believe that he won't be around anymore , his voice , his warm hands , his smile...I can't believe that fate would ****** my father from me. How quickly things come to pass...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 2

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    I've been gone quite a while trying to start my life over again. With me life has come in threes. You may ask what are you talking about? Well through time my mind,body,and soul...
    Haunted5 Haunted5 56-60, F Apr 3

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    On April fools day we had a conversation that ended it all. I thought she was kidding. She wasn't.
    beyondthebreakingpoint beyondthebreakingpoint 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    It all started with gossip…she was mad at me and I said that I didn't care right now and wanted to have fun. Someone told her I said that I was talking smack behind her back and...
    Iwillloveyou4ever Iwillloveyou4ever 13-15, F Apr 4

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    I lost my best friend when I told her I was bisexual. She accepted me at first but later said. She doesn't feel comfortable around me. I have been bi this whole time and never once...
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F Apr 4

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    Animal tail butt plugs. I love the feel of butt. I now own a fox tail, bunny tail, and a dog tail. The reason I brought them was I remember as a kid the young teen girl next door...
    joshietree joshietree 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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