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I Recently Divorced

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 27 People

    It was finalized today,

    I feel great! I have no emotions about it anymore. I have already started my new life just focusing on me and making myself better. I am at peace with my decision and I am very happy cause I made the best decision for me. Wish I would have done it sooner or better yet wish i...
    alycia12 alycia12 26-30, F Jul 14

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    It's amazing how your neighbors avoid you like

    the plague... Once you get a divorce... :(
    kavcardenas kavcardenas 36-40, F Aug 16

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    This Blows!

    i have recently divorced my husband after 10 years together. I knew it was coming after he got back from his first deploment. We tried to make it work...but had no luck. :( We will remain friends for the kids sake. I feel lost, hurt, and angry. i dont know what to do. He has...
    irishwannabeky irishwannabeky 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    I Should Have Knownhewoul

     Long story short.  I should have known my marriage would not work out and not accepted the marriage proposal but I believed him when he said he would always tell me if our marriage was in trouble so we could work on it.  He also promised me would always tell...
    italysprings italysprings 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2008

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    New Beginnings!!!

    I have decided that dwelling on the past is staying in one place to long , so after some heartache or is it headache , i have decided its time to finally move on !! so please bare with me on my journey..........
    mugsy75 mugsy75 36-40 Nov 23, 2012

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    Scared And Lost

    Firstly, I would like to thank you for reading this and I am extremely sorry that it was so long. Once I started I just had to keep going. Me and my wife were together for 8 years. I was 18 when we met and she was 20. We worked together and I was her trainer. On the very first...
    Alterego85 Alterego85 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Not My Ex Yet!

    About a month ago my husband of apx 18 mos with a four year romance before marriage in which we lived together for two of those years. After a small argument over ine of my children, he tells me to leave and that he wants a divorce. I thought we were happy and in love. It's been...
    Nightnurse42 Nightnurse42 41-45 Oct 28, 2012

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    My parents divorced when I was 2. When I was 10 my mom remarried and also my dad did. I have 3 step sisters, a half brother, and a half sister. I hate how my dad moved states away...
    BrittanySue96 BrittanySue96 18-21, F Nov 20

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    As much as I dislike writing about my own divorce, I must admit, and mostly out of the pain and suffer ring I've felt for so long, that divorce is very hard. I was divorced at only...
    makingitbetterrr makingitbetterrr 22-25, M Dec 5

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    I am contemplating divorcing my husband. The problem is that this will be my third divorce and I am only 43. I made some bad decisions in my twenties based on growing up in an...
    strikes3 strikes3 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    i received my divorce certificate yesterday. i thought I'd break down and lose my mind...I've been waiting for it to go through half heartedly for about 4 months. i feel no...
    Simplycomplicated88 Simplycomplicated88 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    I never in my entire life thought I would write these words. I was never the one that had a 'Plan B' in case my marriage failed. It simply was not an option. I didn't stand at the...
    sls84 sls84 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Their not actually divorced just spilt up because they never got married, and that Dosent mean I was born by accident in just a quick fling or something, they got together and...
    AlliLittle AlliLittle 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I am recently separated from my wife after 14 years of marriage and 3 years before that. We now have 4 kids....a 7 year old son and 5 year old triplets. Crazy right?!! We began our...
    Brian0714 Brian0714 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    Ken and I have split up. In April this year I discovered he would rather have internet sex with other woman than real sex with me, so I ended the marriage. Our sex life hadn't been...
    Sandy1968 Sandy1968 46-50, F Nov 27

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    I recently lost a brother in law who was a Milwaukee cop at one time in his life. He retired as a cop in his own home town. I must say I always disliked him as he always had a...
    Haunted5 Haunted5 56-60, F a week ago

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    Does anyone here have sex with her ex-husband because it's comfortable?
    Jennerrous Jennerrous 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 20

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    I made the mistake of getting married at 20 because I was given an ultimatum. I'm glad that I went through it though because it helped me grow and learn very valuable life lessons...
    laurap432 laurap432 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I am Sonalyso, 51. Three years ago, I took divorce from my husband as he had an extra – marital affair and clearly, he chose me over her. Right after the divorce, I began looking...
    sonalyso sonalyso 26-30, F Nov 26

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    I lost everything, my job, my livelihood, my income, my wife, slowly my children, they're still being withdrawn from my life...any friends I might have had. I live alone everything...
    turnpike1971 turnpike1971 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I never thought this would happen to us. She didn't either. A year ago, if anyone would have said this was in our futures, we would have looked at them like they were insane...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 28

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    My parent's divorce taught me what it takes to make a marriage work. Now I know this sounds the opposite of what most children of divorce say but this is how I feel. Yes,divorce...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    my wife and I are separated and been on agreeing terms for a while. now she wants to take me to court for more child support. I already give her money every week. I think she just...
    murphyj85 murphyj85 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    My mom is dating a guy whom I very much dislike. I think he is not nice, doesn't keep to his word, and speaks very dirty language. I would never ruin their relationship but it's so...
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    I received my divirce decree in mail on Monday, I cried, it's sad, but Im moving on now that its completly over. It's been along rocky road, I'm also over my affair partner for...
    Angeleyes789 Angeleyes789 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    Why are they always having fights about the ******* money, why just pays my dad just pay on the right time the right amount of money and its all over than. I can't handle it...
    vit1234 vit1234 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    Thinking about the terror my ex wife has caused me... we have a daughter together, and my child support amount is very high for me to keep up with. I'm trying to figure out how to...
    makingitbetterrr makingitbetterrr 22-25, M Dec 5

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    ofcourse yes, it was true when I used to loved you, you came into my world taught it would be forever Not knowing you were only in to play games That havent been enough to make me...
    yanmutami yanmutami 31-35, F Dec 7

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    it happened around this time of year....last year after getting my *** beaten and tossed in the room.....
    lovabledoll lovabledoll 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 12

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    I'm happy with their divorce. I'm glad. It's easier for me to protect my family from him and his family. We suffered a lot because of him. If I could remove his blood in me, I...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    After 18 years of marriage my wife filed divorce because she was in a relationship with a younger man. Took me about 2 years to get over it, but now I am fine and in a wonderful...
    mktonght mktonght 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's so hard to see the two people who has been together more than half of my life fight together as though they were just another person on the street. It kills me to see them...
    sparksofinsanity sparksofinsanity 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So my parents 52nd Anniversary is today. With the joy of wishing my parents so much happiness with this big celebration, I find myself quite sad with the sobering realization that...
    LOOKN4NSIGHT43 LOOKN4NSIGHT43 41-45, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    The demo of FIFA Planet Cup 2014 Brazil lastly launches on each PS3 and Xbox 360 The demo lets you opt for from Mexico , Brazil, Usa , England, Australia , Japan, New Zealand plus...
    edward324 edward324 22-25, M Nov 20

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    I had to make the horrible most heartbreaking decision to let go of my precious baby last week... I don't think I'll ever get over it... I feel awful.. Guilty.. Heartbroken and I...
    roxie57 roxie57 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    My mom passed away in august and burried her in september. It has been really dificult to surpass that. I lost a few pounds and couldnt move on. I finally started to feel better...
    meli80mod meli80mod 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I did today... While traveling this morning, out of the blue I got the sudden urge to urinate. I pulled my truck off the highway and as I got out I flooded my pants. I know I...
    auggie1971 auggie1971 41-45, M Nov 23

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    I was diagnosed 6 years ago when I was 25. Considering the circumstances I am doing very well. If anyone ever wants someone to talk to, I'm here <3
    danc3rz danc3rz 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    This pain is killing me, i cant do this anymore!! Im not strong! Why cant i just let him go? Why cant he just admit to having someone already. Just so i can move on and leave him...
    meli80mod meli80mod 31-35, F Nov 27

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    It's been broken for about a month now, and I'm still dying from it. I fell in love with my best friend, I tried to deny the feelings but when he got a girl friend it ripped me...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21 1 Response Nov 28

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    I said I wouldn't let it happen...but I did...I opened my heart up to you...I gave you all of me....endless hours...only to find out I don't mean that much to you! I am crushed...
    redlissa redlissa 36-40, F Nov 30

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    Raising a family we always had pets around. As our children got older animals found us and our family grew to having two dogs (Great Danes) and four cats. Now that the children...
    LJay56 LJay56 56-60, M Dec 2

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    I COULDN'T SAY these face to face and so i need to vent. I met Phil four weeks ago via tinder. I was meeting my friend Charlie and Cass to go bowl and go for a sisha. It was a bit...
    Carlson18 Carlson18 22-25 1 Response Dec 2

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    So my boyfriend and I broke up on thanksgiving. I deleted all my posts about him cause I just don't want to be reminded anymore. I don't want to be with him anymore. I want to move...
    Bshsjsj Bshsjsj 22-25, F Dec 2

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    Hello there I just dropped on this site to see if anyone was interesting in chatting
    giove giove 56-60, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    Dealing with this co-dependency is hell on earth. No wonder it took so long to face. Who'd wanna DEAL with this pain.
    Evagrub Evagrub 41-45, F Dec 8

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