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I Refuse to Engage In Personal Attacks

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 111 People

    Internet Rage

    I refuse to respond to others misplaced Anger,especially when it appears that peeps will say things on line they would'nt dare say in Life.Not to me,can assure you,Im one scary biarch!But I don't want agression in my life.Had enough of that+given my fair share.But one learns to...
    leighmarie leighmarie 41-45, F 1 Response May 1, 2010

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    I Just Need To Put Some Words To The Way I Feel... And See If That Takes The Pain Away...

    I feel so lonely… I found this site a while ago looking for a place where I could communicate with people, but when I try I cannot write anything, the words doesn’t want to come out… tonight is different somehow… I feel so sad… I came to Canada...
    azuldream azuldream 41-45, F 6 Responses May 30, 2010

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    Not My Style

    If you offend me I will send you a message in private to tell you so.  Many times misunderstandings happen when people air their dirty laundry in public stories, so I choose to handle mine in private where I can talk rationally, calmly, and privately with the person, and...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 30 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    Isn't There, Like, Something Better and More Worthwhile to Do?

    . . . because it is a waste of my time and a waste of the other person's time.  If someone is going to go out and be a fool, @$$, beeotch, buffoon, or nincompoop, I am sure they'll do just fine on their own, without my having to address the fact.  Besides, I respect...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    True

    Hell. If you don't like my straightwardness. Don't bother to read my stories.  I don't like personal attack on me either. If you personally attack me. I will delete your comments and I will block you. So you can't attack me. Period. Thanks.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    Dirty Laundry Needs to Be Washed, Not Aired!

    A simple note in a private saying, "Dear (whoever), Please refrain from causing me personal offense." works nicely. Blogging or writing stories, or keying cars, throwing eggs, etcetera.... in public achieves nada and gets you reported any way. Has decorum gone by the...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 11 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    It's Juvenile

    If I disagree with what you say, I may tell you so, but I will do so respectfully and won't name-call and get personal. I don't use personal attacks as a way of communicating. And if you choose to personally attack me, the only response you will get is me walking away. I have...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Simple Observation...

    i stumbled upon a seemingly well intended discussion about how to stop personal attacks on EP, "what a humble cause" I thought. But being new to EP I am not aware of the diff. key players and their following so I should have just kept my opinion to myself, but I am a...
    amyjo3 amyjo3 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    Attacking The Issues Together

    I, personally, don't like personal attacks because the only thing they accomplish is counter-productivity. Whenever I present an argument, (particularly controversial ones), and someone chooses to attack me personally, I know that they are either: ignorant, stupid, or both...
    SuperAquaboy SuperAquaboy 22-25, M Sep 8, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'd really like to know if my story is similar to anybody else's. I was diagnosed with BPD at 14, after being told it was Depression, then Bipolar, etc etc. Almost as if it was a...
    skyworm skyworm 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Beauty is what might attract but personality will decide the longevity of the relationship.
    00afreshstart77UK00 00afreshstart77UK00 51-55, M 10 hrs ago

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    I refer to them as my 'Personal Guidelines,' and they are a set of rules I've given myself, through evaluation of what I believe and what I expect of myself as I go through life...
    KoalaRising KoalaRising 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Well hello dear readers.. I wanted to share my stories and experience because I think that every experience is worth sharing.. It all started in August when I was hooking up with...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife 16-17, F Jan 11

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    Anxiety attacks are the worst. I've gotten my anxiety attacks under control for the most part but Friday night I had a hour long one. When I have them they last hours on end. I...
    gjf112 gjf112 16-17, M Dec 28, 2014

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    Panic attacks and agoraphobia are the worst things ever. This has really hindered my life. . Anyone else suffer from panic attacks? What awful symptoms and after-symptoms do you...
    EmiKuma EmiKuma 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    And so my attacks are back... Started yesterday in my class, it was a pretty normal day but then... I didnt like the group of friends I hang out this semester.. I mean yeah it's...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F Jan 12

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and I'm 25 , freaking living in New York is super expensive which I know that's the only reason he hasn't proposed now :( and cause my...
    Delusionalkrysti Delusionalkrysti 22-25, F Jan 2

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    I had the absolute worst panic attack last night. I mean, I've had little ones before, like with being around a large group of people ( I have bad social anxiety), but I will never...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F Dec 24, 2014

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    Alexander0730beg9 Alexander0730beg9 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Usually when I get an anxiety attack I feel like I am choking and then like I can't breathe. Sometimes being in a stressful situation or being around a lot of people sets me off...
    princessjess32 princessjess32 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I want to be engaged to someone. I hear about how two people met and got engaged to each other. I think about this all the time and I want it to happen soon.
    winnie19 winnie19 41-45, F Jan 5

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    i still have horrible panic attacks. i dont know how to cure them and when they occur i freak out. so i definitely know the feeling...
    dragonshine dragonshine 22-25, T Jan 14

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    So.. I shot 3 types of guns today. I only remember the name of one. A 22 rifle.... I think. Then I shot a gun cops use and a gun the military usually use.. I kinda get panic...
    Justaghost127 Justaghost127 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've dated guys in the friend zone, out of the friend zone and others, but I always end up breaking up with them because how childish they seem. I refuse to settle, and though I'm...
    MsBree01 MsBree01 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I do not exercise enough. They say exercise reduces anxiety and helps fight depression. In my personal struggle with both of those issues, I have found physical activity merely...
    Kingshelman Kingshelman 31-35, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    He told me a few days ago he was going to propose on either our February or March date so technically I am not engaged yet
    Cowgirl1992 Cowgirl1992 22-25, F Dec 24, 2014

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    Alexander0730beg9 Alexander0730beg9 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Got engaged in Christmas Day! Can't express my joy enough! 💍💎💍💎💍
    MyHoudini MyHoudini 26-30, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend were looking at colored diamonds online today 😊 I got so excited I think he might get me one soon for my birthday , he was really into it which I was...
    Delusionalkrysti Delusionalkrysti 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Dealt with this elsewhere, and laughed out loud when I saw this. To be honest, I don't refuse at all, but the thought of people getting agitated about it is amusing. To be honest...
    jumpersforgoalposts jumpersforgoalposts 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Your result for The Personality Defect Test ... Robot You are 71% Rational, 43% Extroverted, 29% Brutal, and 14% Arrogant. Robot You are the Robot! You are characterized by your...
    myzterieboy myzterieboy 41-45, M Jan 3

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    41 Questions Personality Test Personality type: "Reliable Realist" Serious and quiet, interested in security and peaceful living. Extremely thorough, responsible and dependable...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F Dec 27, 2014

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    Your Personality is Somewhat Rare (ISTP)Your personality type is reserved, methodical, spirited, and intense.Only about 6% of all people have your personality, including 3% of all...
    CountryExperiences CountryExperiences 22-25, M Dec 28, 2014

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    Personality is key and means so much more than looks. But in reality when you first meet someone you don't fall for their personality because you don't know them, you see the...
    t3rriv t3rriv 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Personality is overlooked these days, and people are judged mostly on their appearance. Personality is what actually matters, because it is usually the one thing that never changes...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    So I took a personally quiz andddd this is my result. http://www.16personalities.com/infp-personality If you like to take the same test here is the link... http://www...
    disasterland disasterland 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't care if you're no hot magazine model, all I look for when meeting new people is a good personality :) I love talking to people who are care free, open minded, nice, and...
    Gabsters05 Gabsters05 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I don't want to sound superficial but looks are not NOT important meaning if someone looks like that upside down faced kid in the Simpson's and smells like a ogre there probably...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I am have been diagnosed as with borderline personality disorder last year.Such a relief.I think I have had it for 10 years and have inherited it from my mother.Who I forgive,If...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I just can't cope at the moment. I'm having counselling and "personality" has been mentioned, and, now I really think about it, perhaps my having a personality disorder would "fit...
    Chaleureuse Chaleureuse 26-30, F Jan 10

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    Way way back in time probably before my first incarnation here on EP, there was a point where actually I so wanted this but from a different agenda from most. It was around the...
    Joanne0chan Joanne0chan 31-35 Jan 13

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    For me humanity is religion and again that is personal matter.. The religion do not need collective way of following and making into a mass of followers ... Logic and reasoning...
    Ravidesai Ravidesai 41-45, M Jan 13

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    I have four other personalities. I've not told a lot of people, though. the one that has been with me the longest is called "Red ". he's reclusive and arrogant at times. the...
    Cyreai Cyreai 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 15

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    I hate when people ask me too many personal questions. >.> It makes me feel awkward. I made friends with a human recently, and I swear he asked me so many questions he probably...
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    My mpd, at least the one that i register most with, is named Savannah Mae Carter. On my profile that's what it says, so people i know personally can't find me online. Anyway her...
    iamaphrodite iamaphrodite 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    Just got officially diagnosed with it (though I had some idea of possibly having it for some time now). It's like having two personalities: one child and one adult. One day I'll...
    Kckiss88 Kckiss88 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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