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I Refuse to Engage In Personal Attacks

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 111 People

    Not My Style

    If you offend me I will send you a message in private to tell you so.  Many times misunderstandings happen when people air their dirty laundry in public stories, so I choose to handle mine in private where I can talk rationally, calmly, and privately with the person, and...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 30 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    I Just Need To Put Some Words To The Way I Feel... And See If That Takes The Pain Away...

    I feel so lonely… I found this site a while ago looking for a place where I could communicate with people, but when I try I cannot write anything, the words doesn’t want to come out… tonight is different somehow… I feel so sad… I came to Canada...
    azuldream azuldream 41-45, F 6 Responses May 30, 2010

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    True

    Hell. If you don't like my straightwardness. Don't bother to read my stories.  I don't like personal attack on me either. If you personally attack me. I will delete your comments and I will block you. So you can't attack me. Period. Thanks.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    Internet Rage

    I refuse to respond to others misplaced Anger,especially when it appears that peeps will say things on line they would'nt dare say in Life.Not to me,can assure you,Im one scary biarch!But I don't want agression in my life.Had enough of that+given my fair share.But one learns to...
    leighmarie leighmarie 41-45, F 1 Response May 1, 2010

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    Attacking The Issues Together

    I, personally, don't like personal attacks because the only thing they accomplish is counter-productivity. Whenever I present an argument, (particularly controversial ones), and someone chooses to attack me personally, I know that they are either: ignorant, stupid, or both...
    SuperAquaboy SuperAquaboy 22-25, M Sep 8, 2011

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    It's Juvenile

    If I disagree with what you say, I may tell you so, but I will do so respectfully and won't name-call and get personal. I don't use personal attacks as a way of communicating. And if you choose to personally attack me, the only response you will get is me walking away. I have...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Isn't There, Like, Something Better and More Worthwhile to Do?

    . . . because it is a waste of my time and a waste of the other person's time.  If someone is going to go out and be a fool, @$$, beeotch, buffoon, or nincompoop, I am sure they'll do just fine on their own, without my having to address the fact.  Besides, I respect...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    Simple Observation...

    i stumbled upon a seemingly well intended discussion about how to stop personal attacks on EP, "what a humble cause" I thought. But being new to EP I am not aware of the diff. key players and their following so I should have just kept my opinion to myself, but I am a...
    amyjo3 amyjo3 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    Dirty Laundry Needs to Be Washed, Not Aired!

    A simple note in a private saying, "Dear (whoever), Please refrain from causing me personal offense." works nicely. Blogging or writing stories, or keying cars, throwing eggs, etcetera.... in public achieves nada and gets you reported any way. Has decorum gone by the...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 11 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    Iv been dealing with this pregnancy all alone since you made the decision to leave me and blame it all on me. Calling me up to break it off with me, not even giving me the respect...
    MissiTeej MissiTeej 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    Why am i getting panic attacks put no where for no reason ... Its very scary just dealing with them .
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    I was watching a video on Youtube, and while I usually check beforehand what might be in it that could trigger me, I forgot to this time.. And I love this person's videos, but man...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    there are those shallow, lifeless people, who take it upon themselves to begin hurtful false rumours about those they do not like for whatever reason. These people are usually the...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I was never engaged.My wedding ring is nowhere. I tossed it away.Once when I do,There should also be Commitment RingsWith our names engraved on eachSealing our love that  ...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    On Monday, I asked the love of my life to make me the happiest person on this planet and take my hand in marriage. She said yes! I am now an engaged lesbian woman!
    KateLesbian KateLesbian 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    Together for 4,engaged for 3 yrs.. I've been writing the same words over n over again, nt know where to begin..where to put an end.. it took me more than a year to stay nostalgic...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well, I get why people go for looks at first, because then you don't know the personality of the person. But still, the looks isn't as close as important as the looks. Don't stick...
    justanothergirlonearth justanothergirlonearth 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Everyone in the world is pretty shallow...me included. We look at someone & immediately judge them whether we mean to or not. If they don't look a certain way, then we don't even...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I have six split personalities. They're voices/images in my head when not dominant over the real me. They will also draw themselves as different from my physical appearance and...
    XPathologyOfInsanityX XPathologyOfInsanityX 13-15, F Mar 6

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    Personality vs Looks. Majority of us believe that personality is all what we look for; perhaps to sound more sensible, impressive, reasonable, logical among our social...
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    Always get INFP-assertive, but i once got INTP. Anyways all my favorite friends in school turned out to be having the same personality type as me. Except me being the only one who...
    ThinkingCat ThinkingCat 18-21, F a week ago

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    Top ten questions about relationships with psychopaths/narcissists. I took this from the site psychopathfree.com. I found it to be very helpful. 1. Is he / she really a psychopath...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    The good looks not everything actually sometimes we find the good looks but the personality is really bad or it's just not there. I've met that pretty girl before she was really...
    Beyondtheseaa Beyondtheseaa 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    When you begin to love someone for their personality that is when they start to look attractive to you. It has definitely happened in my case. At first i thought he was alright...
    oceaneyes97 oceaneyes97 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    I just recently researched this disorder after taking a personality quiz online. My results told me I suffer from APD. I haven't felt like this my whole life up until now. I'm...
    heaven89 heaven89 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    We always say that the personality is more important than good looks. But The Ugly Truth is At the end of the day, all we care about is looks! No one falls in love with your...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was diagnosed with ADHD schizophrenia bipolar disorder when I was 18 I had never even been to a doctor.. I was taken in a ambulance at the age of 18 for doing something ive...
    branakimpink branakimpink 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Clearwater Solicitors can help you receive professional legal services. We have years of experience in the fields of accident at work compensation, crime, immigration and Personal...
    hellengeek hellengeek 22-25, M Feb 27

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    Personality will last forever. Looks won't!
    kell177 kell177 36-40, M 10 Responses Feb 28

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    I recently found out that my personality type is the INFJ. This is the rarest of the types. Gaining this information was one of the most enlightening experiences I've had. Now...
    RelayedDeaction RelayedDeaction 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 2

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    I have just recently found out that I am pregnant. Yes, I am excited. But, I'm also terrified because of the havoc pregnancy is already wreaking on my fragile emotional state...
    whiskeyprincess37 whiskeyprincess37 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I feel I have multiple personalities, but I am sure that there is no disorder...!! :-) At least in my opinion... Love to live this life, spreading human values and exploring...
    healdeal healdeal 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    Inside me is a little child. She is myself. She's a lost little soul. She wears a cute little nighty and runs around barefoot on a wooden floor. Her arms are outstretched...
    jaianna jaianna 36-40 2 Responses Mar 9

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    It is the heart and mind that lies underneath all the skin. I would much rather be with someone that has a good loving heart than someone that is just worried about appearances and...
    KindFriend71 KindFriend71 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    Looks don't last for ever. A nice personality can only improve, especially if someone else appreciates it. The guy I love ain't a good looker by the world's standards. But he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 9

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    This is 100% true I don't care how you look it depends on your personality is like if it's great then the relationship should be good but if you go for looks it's just gonna end. A...
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 3 Responses Mar 10

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    Personality is the only reason I would like someone. I need to get to know them as an individual, not an object or thing
    TheRebel28 TheRebel28 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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