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I Refuse To Talk About My Sex Life, Its Personal

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    My sex life is a very personal thing and going into detail in public would make me feel like I am a cheap man with very littles morals. I'm not judging anyone else because it's personal choice but for me I would rather create an air of mystery.
    Anandadas Anandadas 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 15, 2011

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    Unless I'm drunk. Yep. I don't talk about my sex life normally to anyone unless it's a really close friend unless I'm drunk and I could be hanging out with a group of people who are friends with my friends and someone will just ask a question about sex and I'll just say what I...
    BrynWolf BrynWolf 22-25, F Jul 18, 2013

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