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I Regret Cheating

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    I Felt Terrible And I Still Do.

    I remember the first time I cheated on a physics test back in 10th grade. I felt so bad. I actually wanted to go and confess to the teacher and tell her I cheated. I wrote the formulas down on a post it note and I taped it on the backside of my calculator's cover. The teacher...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    Lost

    I was married for 19 years but 5 years ago seem to have completely lost the plot had an affair which lost me almost everything . I still don't understand why I was so selfish and stupid and regret it everyday! If only I could stop anyone else making the same mistake ,things...
    Jusie Jusie 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I Regret Confessing

    I have 2 kids, my husband has been cheating on me for years . I got tired all these years I have been trying to talk to him and he refused. I felt very,very lonely and sad I cheated with his bestfriend he caught me and I confessed to everything and how I felt in our marriage . He...
    Blossom36 Blossom36 31-35 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    When Cheating Changed My Life

    How do go on when you regret cheating, although I admitted and fought it every second, I still cheated. It broke up a 20 year relationship. My partner has found someone new and is happy. As for me I live with regret every day, disgusted with myself. It has been three years and I...
    Shyla1527 Shyla1527 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    I Should Have Just Talked to Him

    My then boyfriend, now fiance, have been together for 7 years, off and on.  I love everything about him.  I feel like he is the only one that really understands me and is ok with me.  I have a very ****** past.  I have seen and been through a lot, but he...
    uwntbleaveme uwntbleaveme 18-21 3 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with.

    I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it happened, I hugged him goodbye and it just happened. Terrible thing is though, what hits me and really hits home, is that I'm really good friends...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Feeling Sorry

    I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex because I felt sorry for him. When I was with my ex, he treated me so badly and told me that I was an awful girlfriend to him (my ex) when I was with him and all other kind of lies. He never mentioned to his friends that he was the one...
    janacity janacity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    Continuously Mess Up

    I was with my husband since we were both 15. I had several mishaps regarding other people when we were dating as did he. But in 2009 just 3 months after we had gotten married I met someone and had a one night stand. Which continued into 10 months of seeing him. My husband and I...
    arzayas arzayas 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I Keep Messing Things Up

    I have been with my partner for 10 years since we were teenagers. I have had several slip ups at the beginning of our relationship and I blame that on being young and insecure. I am now in my late 20's and I have done it again! I don't want to go into details but I kissed...
    amazinggrace800 amazinggrace800 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best...
    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F Apr 10

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    How is cheating alright? Even if you are in a loveless marriage , cheating will never be okay. Do the honourable thing and break it off if you are unhappy. I was called "naive" on...
    AdelaideHayashi AdelaideHayashi 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    So a couple days ago I went on my first vacation with a man ever, my boyfriend of over 1 year. 1 Year 3 months to be exact. The second day of vacation I received a friend request...
    awkward11 awkward11 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I take issue with cheating! There is nothing more painful than to find out the person you trusted was not protecting your relationship. That they were able to fall into ugly lure...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 3 Responses Apr 9

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    i regret literally EVERYTHING i do i dont know why? like i could have done it better? i mean i even regret things i say in a text message.. even on this post iam.posting now and il...
    pinkglitteress pinkglitteress 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    Why should I have regrets? Especially when I know that I made the right decision. At the time, I was in no place to be a mother. I also didn't want to be a mom. I didn't love the...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Do your best and leave nothing to regret. Nobody can be perfect, there's bound to be weaknesses in everyone. One may choose to be depressed over it or choose to work on it but...
    MarshallLloyd MarshallLloyd 16-17, M Apr 1

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    I regret something i know I shouldn't regret. This is for 'TheBirdWhoFlew' I'm sorry that I let you wait for four hours. I'm sorry I wasn't even able to say 'hey I'm sorry I'm...
    AnimeGeek AnimeGeek 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Nope, nope, nope, NEVER..I think loyalty is extremely important, if you're not happy..then leave, don't just hurt someone else because you "aren't feeling the same" anymore..will...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I think that cheating is like the worst I mean if you stopped loving your bf or gf or you just want to go after someone else,then just break with them and go for whoever you like...
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    it's been 3 year i am with my fiancer! couple of months ago i got this guy who was one of is good friend write me on fb saying that my fiancer is cheating on me! at work since he...
    alexee10 alexee10 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I have a hard time standing up for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband is cheating on me. He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    My boyf cheated on me the whole way through my pregnancy, He cheated on me with someone whom had wished our unborn child dead! He let his child bond with me and my family knowing...
    charl28 charl28 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Ok. So I'm worried that my fiancé might cheat on me again. We are in the military. He was on duty and I was at home. I started thinking about a lot of things. I always think when...
    Jaazaniah Jaazaniah 26-30, F Apr 8

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    So I have a boyfriend and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not...
    darleny2219 darleny2219 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Yes, I'm the paranoid type, I'll admit that. I've checked his phone for texts and there's usually nothing. But I've seen the setting is set to delete any read text messages. So...
    smilesofazombie smilesofazombie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I ain't the cheating kind... Because I know how it feels to be cheated on. It hurts. It really does.
    Thatssoawesome Thatssoawesome 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I have read lot's story about the married cheating with a MM ,,, Now what good is that,,,you have a husband at home ,,, or you just like to spread your leg's for every MM that come...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    One of my biggest regrets is moving off campus. Freshman year I hated it. I'm the only child so I was use to being by myself in a clean quiet environment. Living in a community...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Mar 25

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    It's been nearly 8 years since my first abortion and 8 years since what I was told and made to believe would end my 'problem', actually opened a flood gate of never ending new ones...
    em2521 em2521 22-25, F Mar 30

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    I don't regret the things that I have done, but I do regret the things that I have not yet done when I still had my chance.
    Moridori Moridori 13-15, F Apr 2

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    I exposed my body half naked to someone. I don't know why i did it... I just wanted to. I really regret doing it. I've never done anything like this before and i couldn't believe...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I regret a lot of things but i regret letting down a very amazing guy for the guy i am with currently who i believes doesn't stand a chance against the man i let down. My boyfriend...
    goofygurl01 goofygurl01 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have very few regrets if any about my life. I don't live with a could of should have attitude. While I'm not exactly proud of some of the things I've done I don't wish I would...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 1 Response Apr 10

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    Not many, but there are just certain things in my life that I'm just not proud of. Mainly they are focused in high school, when I briefly became a person who I never really wanted...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I was young I bullied him because I'd heard that he liked me I thought is he the only one who'll ever actually like me I didn't want anything to do with him I thought he was a...
    Radjad Radjad 13-15, F Mar 22

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    I have done something simply for attention and I regret my actions. In doing so I have hurt the one I love. I have been selfish and insensitive. I was thinking only of myself. It...
    SubmitandServe SubmitandServe 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I have difficulty with letting things go; things I’ve said and done that I regret, I hold them all in and cannot forget them or move on. I feel that I’m a monster at heart...
    HMSaph HMSaph 16-17, M Mar 28

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    I regret my past but i also learn from it, i make many mistakes but i try to do my best to learn to avoid certain situations
    Youknow666 Youknow666 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    One after the other. My life is full of them. "You'll do better next time," I'm told. But I regret my life in its entirety. I don't want to have to do a "next time." Can't I just...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ Apr 10

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    I'm a idiot.I made a bad mistake.I let a friend move in w/ me ,w/ her kids,so she can get back on her feet.I now regret this .My home has been taken over by screaming ,whiny kids...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yeah. I believed a self titled nice guy. I let myself get misled. I bent too many of my own rules to make him happy. But nothing makes him happy. And so then I was unhappy too. And...
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I had an abortion at 20. At the time I thought it was the right thing to do. But now I regret it. I could have a lovely child now. Makes me sad to think of it. And I still have the...
    23Crystal1991 23Crystal1991 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and me have been together for almost 4 years yet I can't seem to actually be fed up enough to leave. I can't count on both my hands how many times he's cheated... I...
    kaylakinkade kaylakinkade 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I been with my husband a yr and a half we been married for almost a month. About a week ago my husband was acting very wired about his cell phone. It's was always on silence, fast...
    chris760 chris760 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 19

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    My husband has cheated on me since 2010 on and off. Even as I battled through cancer. I have stayed with him for my two kids. Our relationship is more like a friendship than a...
    brenabrenaz brenabrenaz 41-45, F Mar 21