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I Regret Cheating

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    I Regret Confessing

    I have 2 kids, my husband has been cheating on me for years . I got tired all these years I have been trying to talk to him and he refused. I felt very,very lonely and sad I cheated with his bestfriend he caught me and I confessed to everything and how I felt in our marriage . He...
    Blossom36 Blossom36 31-35 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with.

    I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it happened, I hugged him goodbye and it just happened. Terrible thing is though, what hits me and really hits home, is that I'm really good friends...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    When Cheating Changed My Life

    How do go on when you regret cheating, although I admitted and fought it every second, I still cheated. It broke up a 20 year relationship. My partner has found someone new and is happy. As for me I live with regret every day, disgusted with myself. It has been three years and I...
    Shyla1527 Shyla1527 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    Continuously Mess Up

    I was with my husband since we were both 15. I had several mishaps regarding other people when we were dating as did he. But in 2009 just 3 months after we had gotten married I met someone and had a one night stand. Which continued into 10 months of seeing him. My husband and I...
    arzayas arzayas 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I Should Have Just Talked to Him

    My then boyfriend, now fiance, have been together for 7 years, off and on.  I love everything about him.  I feel like he is the only one that really understands me and is ok with me.  I have a very ****** past.  I have seen and been through a lot, but he...
    uwntbleaveme uwntbleaveme 18-21 3 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I Felt Terrible And I Still Do.

    I remember the first time I cheated on a physics test back in 10th grade. I felt so bad. I actually wanted to go and confess to the teacher and tell her I cheated. I wrote the formulas down on a post it note and I taped it on the backside of my calculator's cover. The teacher...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    Feeling Sorry

    I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex because I felt sorry for him. When I was with my ex, he treated me so badly and told me that I was an awful girlfriend to him (my ex) when I was with him and all other kind of lies. He never mentioned to his friends that he was the one...
    janacity janacity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    Lost

    I was married for 19 years but 5 years ago seem to have completely lost the plot had an affair which lost me almost everything . I still don't understand why I was so selfish and stupid and regret it everyday! If only I could stop anyone else making the same mistake ,things...
    Jusie Jusie 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I Keep Messing Things Up

    I have been with my partner for 10 years since we were teenagers. I have had several slip ups at the beginning of our relationship and I blame that on being young and insecure. I am now in my late 20's and I have done it again! I don't want to go into details but I kissed...
    amazinggrace800 amazinggrace800 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    After being with him for more than 10 years, the sex is almost non-existence, both of us are lazy to work on impressing each other, taking us for granted. My husband says he can't...
    surfiehall surfiehall 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    the husband cheated on his wife and one night he came clean about his affair they have two children's and they when to marriage counseling, and thing was get back to normal, then...
    pullupgirl102 pullupgirl102 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Hello, I'm Rose ( Not real name ) I recently found out that this guy I have been talking too for months has been cheating on his Gf with me... I had no clue at all that he had...
    BieberBabe13 BieberBabe13 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    My boyfriend am I live together we have a terriable history of him cheating on me. And recently we broke up due to my insecurities .. I cannot get over him cheating ig has damaged...
    Italiangangstress Italiangangstress 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Do I cheat? My girlfriend has been cheating on me throughout the summer with another man. She believes I am the love of her life, but recognizes that she has an unhealthy need for...
    MediPhil MediPhil 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 2

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    ( I am not going to give real names of who I am speaking of, these are made up)Here's my ridiculous story. I know this girl. She is 22 years old and her name is Jess and her...
    MistaHodda MistaHodda 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    So me and my bf are good. We barley have no arguments what so ever. The reason why I think he's cheating is because we only see each other once in a week & whenever he wants. He's...
    alwaysjudged alwaysjudged 16-17, F Aug 11

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    The wife caught her husband , cheating, Now he told the other women stop text and calling him, Now he in hot water, see the cheating man scare he going to lose his family and his...
    pullupgirl102 pullupgirl102 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    There is a girl who I have liked since middle school, that I became close to. I have known her for years, and always thought she just saw us as friends. Three years ago she moved...
    ZacDaniel ZacDaniel 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16. I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us...
    abzry abzry 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    More like I didn't do anything and I regret it I was on a vacation with my family and I saw this girl and I just feel for her. Why I do not know, all I know was that it was so...
    Joiss Joiss 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for 9. We have 3 children (elementary school age) and I've been a good wife. No, a GREAT wife. By his own admission. He...
    proulxfam proulxfam 31-35 2 Responses Jul 23

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    That latest in my wife cheating drama. She insists that she has done nothing but upon inspecting her Facebook account I found this. I don't know what to do for you. I thought i...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I wish my husband would stop hurting me. Caught him cheating on me. He has never been there for me. I am going through physical problems now since I have noticed his behavior 3 yrs...
    itsahmeun itsahmeun 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Oh my word. I can't even describe how stupid I feel posting this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 year and we get on so well! Like any usual relationship we have the...
    Binkyboo12 Binkyboo12 22-25 Aug 6

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    my husband and I haD been together for 3 years. Back in February he went to jail for 2 months. During that time he started writing his ex girlfriend and calling her. He only...
    audramarie audramarie 18-21, F Aug 7

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    Well, not me, my mom 15 years ago. It doesnt affect me now, especially because they divorced 15 years ago. But i want to know how this affected girls? In my case i tend to over...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have always been turned on when men flirt with my wife. About 1 year ago, I found out that someone at her work was heavily flirting with her. Not too long later, I found out they...
    pressure69 pressure69 41-45, M 10 hrs ago

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    As of right now, I finally have no more regrets :) why maintain them when you can be free of them! Like grudges, fear, and doubt... regrets hold you back!
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I'm not usually one to have massive regrets about choices I have made. I usually come to the conclusion that the choices I made were the right ones for me at that time, and just...
    jemimalonglegs jemimalonglegs 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Ok, so ive been in an on and off relationship with someone for almost 10 years. the biggest issue was that he is a pathological liar. he lied to me for years on end and i kept...
    Myah29 Myah29 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I have always been a good girl who didn't sleep around and believed I would have a planned pregnancy when I am ready. But then I met my current boyfriend whom I have been with for...
    mylifeasserbs mylifeasserbs 22-25, F Aug 11

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    Idont realy know if i regret mistreating my ex or i just regret choosing her to be my wife all i know is that i had to be wiser and do what ever it takes to fix all our isues . Now...
    GMan82 GMan82 31-35, M Aug 13

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    My biggest regret. I moved to a Catholic school from a public one in grade 3. And in Grade 7 I started going to a high school because where I live Grade 7 and 8 is in the building...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F Aug 13

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    or don't really regret. I'm not 100% sure. Okay so how to start this... So I'm 17 and, without being narcissistic, consider myself to be attractive, my body developed quickly and...
    volchitsa volchitsa 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    "Sometimes my life really feels like a perpetual toggle between regretting doing things and regretting not doing things." Dau Voire
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    As many of you probably know, J.K Rowling announced earlier this year that she regrets pairing Ron and hermione (😢) now, I myself am writing a book series and I do severely hope...
    Melonfriends Melonfriends 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I wish I could take back all the negative things I've ever said about myself. It isn't who I am, what I deserve, or what I'm meant to be. I regret ever questioning God's plan for...
    Pinkyschwear23 Pinkyschwear23 18-21, F Jul 24

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    This might sound silly to some people but I regret going to college. I went to a private college and racked up some serious debt. I graduated last fall and just received my first...
    LF87 LF87 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I regret making a decision to leave my own apartment to move in with relatives. I thought there was a good chance I could be happy with that decision, but as soon as I moved, I...
    AthenaReigns AthenaReigns 36-40, F Jul 31

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    “Nothing lasts forever, so live it up, drink it down, laugh it off, avoid the drama, take chances and never have regrets because at one point everything you did was exactly what...
    000SadisticBitch000 000SadisticBitch000 26-30, F Jul 31

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    I'm not sure if I should regret it. I bet I don't because once it was everything I ever wanted, even though it didn't turn out great in the end. He was ten years older than me...
    pnsrstw pnsrstw 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Yes, I did it. I sent out a semi nude. Even worse is that I sent it out to a stranger that I had only talked to for three hours. I was bored and lonely. What else to do? Sometimes...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Has anyone else slept with someone they shouldn't have? I am sick with regret
    CircusClown CircusClown 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Regretted telling my boyfriend that I will lose my virginity to him. Things happen, and I changed my mind. What do I do
    uniqueresonance uniqueresonance 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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