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I Regret Cheating

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    I Keep Messing Things Up

    I have been with my partner for 10 years since we were teenagers. I have had several slip ups at the beginning of our relationship and I blame that on being young and insecure. I am now in my late 20's and I have done it again! I don't want to go into details but I kissed...
    amazinggrace800 amazinggrace800 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Lost

    I was married for 19 years but 5 years ago seem to have completely lost the plot had an affair which lost me almost everything . I still don't understand why I was so selfish and stupid and regret it everyday! If only I could stop anyone else making the same mistake ,things...
    Jusie Jusie 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    I Should Have Just Talked to Him

    My then boyfriend, now fiance, have been together for 7 years, off and on.  I love everything about him.  I feel like he is the only one that really understands me and is ok with me.  I have a very ****** past.  I have seen and been through a lot, but he...
    uwntbleaveme uwntbleaveme 18-21 3 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    When Cheating Changed My Life

    How do go on when you regret cheating, although I admitted and fought it every second, I still cheated. It broke up a 20 year relationship. My partner has found someone new and is happy. As for me I live with regret every day, disgusted with myself. It has been three years and I...
    Shyla1527 Shyla1527 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with.

    I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it happened, I hugged him goodbye and it just happened. Terrible thing is though, what hits me and really hits home, is that I'm really good friends...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    I cheated on my husband over the course of two

    weeks because I've been desperately searching for a job. I posted an ad online that I'd be willing to f*** whoever hired me on a regular basis. I got a lot of responses and interviews. It didn't take long for my husband to catch on. Now it feels like our marriage is in shambles...
    Efangeii Efangeii 22-25, F Oct 24, 2014

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    I Regret Confessing

    I have 2 kids, my husband has been cheating on me for years . I got tired all these years I have been trying to talk to him and he refused. I felt very,very lonely and sad I cheated with his bestfriend he caught me and I confessed to everything and how I felt in our marriage . He...
    Blossom36 Blossom36 31-35 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    I Felt Terrible And I Still Do.

    I remember the first time I cheated on a physics test back in 10th grade. I felt so bad. I actually wanted to go and confess to the teacher and tell her I cheated. I wrote the formulas down on a post it note and I taped it on the backside of my calculator's cover. The teacher...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    Continuously Mess Up

    I was with my husband since we were both 15. I had several mishaps regarding other people when we were dating as did he. But in 2009 just 3 months after we had gotten married I met someone and had a one night stand. Which continued into 10 months of seeing him. My husband and I...
    arzayas arzayas 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 3 years now, we've done long distance, we've lived together for over a year. We've had our ups & downs and right now we're at rock bottom... I was cheating on him for awhile. Loneliness, drugs, low self-esteem, and not knowing what I really wanted or who I wanted to be were...
    easedmysoul easedmysoul 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Feeling Sorry

    I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex because I felt sorry for him. When I was with my ex, he treated me so badly and told me that I was an awful girlfriend to him (my ex) when I was with him and all other kind of lies. He never mentioned to his friends that he was the one...
    janacity janacity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    having been cheated on I came to realize while reasons for doing it may or may not be justifiable, I think the betrayal comes from the fact that cheating tears away the boundaries...
    sayhashahemm sayhashahemm 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    It's funny how many many years ago, adultery used to be illegal, and sometimes ended in death of either the cheater or the person who they were cheating with, or both. Not that I...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 17

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    I have to say I was first shocked to fine out my wife was cheating. I think I was also lucky. Soon after marrying, she confided that her previous bfs had accused her of cheating...
    det21865 det21865 46-50 Apr 25

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    Not cheating on me... But Either being with girls or taking pictures of girls or texting girls ... Now this has happened once before (again not actual cheating) but flirting. Now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    2011 was the year of my two abortions. We're now in 2015 and I regret having it as part of my history. Today I'm particularly teary about it even though I should be ecstatic at the...
    beano1st beano1st 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I think cheating is wrong, this is why my girlfriend and I have a great relationship we open and honest with each other we trust each other we care greatly for each other we are...
    Daddyslovingarms Daddyslovingarms 41-45, M Apr 15

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    Anyone who thinks cheating is okay is crazy. I hate especially when people try to justify cheating with some crazy stupid explanation.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 18

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    I received a lot of messages after my post of regretting to loose my virginity. Many boosting up my self-steem, some asking for advices but mostly people who are in the same...
    softkitty15 softkitty15 16-17, F Apr 10

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    While i was so blind loving someone not deserving and waiting for him. I met a wonderful guy who really cared and accepted me as I was but let him go because I was in love with...
    bornwithmelancholy bornwithmelancholy 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I been with my husband and also the father of my daughter for about 7 1/2 years, married for about 3 years. we been through alot. my family never likes him at all. but we both...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    Cheating is easy... Why don't you try something a little more challenging like being faithful???
    AwesomeAlert AwesomeAlert 46-50, M 10 Responses Apr 7

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    If i'm with you, i'm with you only. If I accept us being together, I accept talking to you, even when i'm angry, being there for you when you have no one else, your **** becomes my...
    Nicki617 Nicki617 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I actually caught my boyfriend cheating on me, I had been with my (ex) boyfriend for 2 years but I'd texted him and he hadn't replied in over 5 hours, he ha Denver done this before...
    sevannahxmillsx sevannahxmillsx 16-17, F 11 Responses Apr 11

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    I don't see any point in cheating. If you're not happy with the relationship you're in then just leave that relationship and find one you are committed to. Don't screw with another...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    I have been cheated on. The feeling of being betrayed is greater than the apologies, especially after so long of my significant other being with me, and cheating for so long in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14

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    I was in LDR for a year so it was easy for bf to hide and lie about things.I snooped through his emails and caught him flirting with girls onlinechat/gamings/imvu etc.You name it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Apr 15

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    My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship. I found out he was on some dating websites and was talking to girls. Obviously it upset me and I left and took some space away. He...
    Lauren0591 Lauren0591 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 17

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    Lol cheating is ****** up.... Just as much as being a player... But guess what, I'm ****** yo to and you can cheat but I'll be that ***** who will try to fix things.. Like WTF?
    Catho Catho 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    I don't get why people cheat on someone whilst in a relationship with their boyfriend/girlfriend. I think cheating is 100% wrong and some people think it's ok to cheat on someone...
    agdnn agdnn 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    Oh man this really kill my heart! Just found out that my wife is cheating! She thinks I don't know yet! and then she ask me again to take care the kids the weekend. Because she has...
    Soloy0 Soloy0 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 20

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    Hi, I may have a husband who is thinking about cheating. I dont know yet. So today we were watching his channel and the subject of STD came up on tv. Then he starts talking about...
    clausy clausy 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    My GF asked (not accused) me, are you seeing someone? I said no because it's the truth. I've never strayed. Been tempted a few times but the most I've done is flirt (my weakness...
    funcity2015 funcity2015 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 21

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    Is it cheating if you have permission?
    odog410 odog410 36-40, M 8 Responses Apr 23

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    Cheaters are 100% responsible for their decision to cheat. If they were unhappy, they could have gotten counseling, filed for divorced, taken up a hobby they enjoy - really...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Keep dreaming blog boyfriend is cheating on me what is this!?!
    mamapeaches mamapeaches 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've been cheated on by 2 out of the 5 people I've dated. It's not fair to have only 1 committed person in a relationship you need 2. I have never even did anything inappropriate...
    liyainacut liyainacut 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I had been dating for about 5 months at the time. It was Friday and I was at work, afterwards I was going to sleepover his house. My friend who is also friends...
    Katiemaryxoxo Katiemaryxoxo 16-17 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This happened about three years ago. For some reason, it is only this past year that I have began to regret it. I was young, I really didn't have a healthy or stable family life...
    Choosingmyconfession Choosingmyconfession 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Dear Fantasy, I have no regrets for loving you even though it hurts.You made it very easy to fall for you.Your beautiful smile, your sensuous charm, your sweet melodies, your kind...
    Tr3asur3dLuv Tr3asur3dLuv 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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