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I Regret Cheating

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    I Should Have Just Talked to Him

    My then boyfriend, now fiance, have been together for 7 years, off and on.  I love everything about him.  I feel like he is the only one that really understands me and is ok with me.  I have a very ****** past.  I have seen and been through a lot, but he...
    uwntbleaveme uwntbleaveme 18-21 3 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I Felt Terrible And I Still Do.

    I remember the first time I cheated on a physics test back in 10th grade. I felt so bad. I actually wanted to go and confess to the teacher and tell her I cheated. I wrote the formulas down on a post it note and I taped it on the backside of my calculator's cover. The teacher...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    Continuously Mess Up

    I was with my husband since we were both 15. I had several mishaps regarding other people when we were dating as did he. But in 2009 just 3 months after we had gotten married I met someone and had a one night stand. Which continued into 10 months of seeing him. My husband and I...
    arzayas arzayas 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Lost

    I was married for 19 years but 5 years ago seem to have completely lost the plot had an affair which lost me almost everything . I still don't understand why I was so selfish and stupid and regret it everyday! If only I could stop anyone else making the same mistake ,things...
    Jusie Jusie 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Feeling Sorry

    I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex because I felt sorry for him. When I was with my ex, he treated me so badly and told me that I was an awful girlfriend to him (my ex) when I was with him and all other kind of lies. He never mentioned to his friends that he was the one...
    janacity janacity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with.

    I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it happened, I hugged him goodbye and it just happened. Terrible thing is though, what hits me and really hits home, is that I'm really good friends...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    When Cheating Changed My Life

    How do go on when you regret cheating, although I admitted and fought it every second, I still cheated. It broke up a 20 year relationship. My partner has found someone new and is happy. As for me I live with regret every day, disgusted with myself. It has been three years and I...
    Shyla1527 Shyla1527 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    I Keep Messing Things Up

    I have been with my partner for 10 years since we were teenagers. I have had several slip ups at the beginning of our relationship and I blame that on being young and insecure. I am now in my late 20's and I have done it again! I don't want to go into details but I kissed...
    amazinggrace800 amazinggrace800 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    I Regret Confessing

    I have 2 kids, my husband has been cheating on me for years . I got tired all these years I have been trying to talk to him and he refused. I felt very,very lonely and sad I cheated with his bestfriend he caught me and I confessed to everything and how I felt in our marriage . He...
    Blossom36 Blossom36 31-35 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I'm not usually one to have massive regrets about choices I have made. I usually come to the conclusion that the choices I made were the right ones for me at that time, and just...
    jemimalonglegs jemimalonglegs 46-50, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I feel like every post I write is pathetic but here goes...have you ever just craved for companionship but just wouldn't settle for just anyone? It can be very lonely and you...
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I regret not tell a girl how I feel, I regret not singing her, her favorite song she asked me to do, I regret not forgiving my ex, I regret not being able to stand up for the...
    420blaze69 420blaze69 16-17, M Jul 16

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Anyone that cheats, should not be in a relationship. That is a plain as day for me, that's how I feel personally. If a relationship is not going great, take a break, say something...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I don't understand why people cheat. I can't stand it. Do they even care that their hurting the person their cheating on. I just think cheating is so stupid and selfish!
    Jaymerz97 Jaymerz97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    If you cheat, you instantly disgust me. There is literally no point in cheating. If you don't like the relationship, LEAVE! If you don't like the marriage, either wok it out or...
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I grew up believing my parents had the best relationship. Sure, they hurled verbal abuse at each other but they always managed to resolve their issues. They love me and my my...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    This was the closest "experience" I could find that I could relate to in a way. Now, I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing him of cheating...I just feel like something has...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    My husband constantly accuses me of cheating and I never have! I work long strenuous hours and when I am not at work, I am home. He knows this! I put on ALOT of weight when I had...
    ziggybaby86 ziggybaby86 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    Okay first of all I don't consider cheating on her I'm not that type of person. If I was ever going to cheat I would break up first. This was just the closest category I could find...
    npodsiadlo npodsiadlo 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I know a lot of people say that they don't have any regrets because all of their past experiences, choices, etc. has made them who they are today. I don't feel that way though; I...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I think it's crazy how some say they live life without regrets . I said it one day and couldn't seem to believe myself I regret everything about my life. It's the little things I...
    dezy2be dezy2be 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I just need to get this out there, because I know it's not healthy to hold this in. I severely regret not doing more when I was growing up. I didn't go to prom, I didn't go to...
    Hummingbyrd13 Hummingbyrd13 18-21, M Jun 25

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    I'm not down with cheating. There is no such thing as a second chance with me. And I do not believe in separation. Though a separated situation could have many reasons and stories...
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I've known this boy for a while now. We talked a few years back for the longest time and stopped when he got locked up. Even back then we had such a strong connection. We started...
    Emmylovely Emmylovely 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend cheating on me. I moved to Seattle and fell in love with my only friend there. He separated from his wife because she...
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    He still emails his ex. He knows I don't like it, but says he would never tell me not to talk to someone. Said it's stupid to think anything could e going on. I think he emails...
    Lin53207 Lin53207 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    It's more I have a problem with cheating thoughts. I am married and have a child on the way. I am so deeply in love with my wife, and even still to this day, being 9 months...
    anonnimus anonnimus 22-25 1 Response Jul 4

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    I've been on the otherside of that coin and I can honestly say that I couldn't cheat on someone i was seeing - if i wasn't happy I would hope to be man (or woman) enough to be...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Still need some advice on this cheating thing. Please don't just tell me to leave him, clearly I want to make it work if I'm asking
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 4

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    The worst kind of cheating is when you're married. Why would anyone do that?
    Fortiplex Fortiplex 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I can help you know for sure. If you're truly worried, and have no way to really know without ruining things, please contact me. My job is to help you feel better about what's...
    Silverflash33487 Silverflash33487 18-21 Jul 6

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    I can help you know for sure. If you're truly worried, and have no way to really know without ruining things, please contact me. My job is to help you feel better about what's...
    Silverflash33487 Silverflash33487 18-21 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I just really need to get this off of my chest. My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that...
    mills1126 mills1126 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    My boyfriend will talk to other females online. I don't know if I trust him anymore. The females he talks to are apparently just friends he says. But he would ask them questions...
    Kayla6516 Kayla6516 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I have been with this man for 3 and a half years my high school sweetheart we've been living together for about two of those years, close to the second year I found out that he had...
    Lllms95 Lllms95 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I have never cheated on anyone in my life, i am usually the one that gets cheated on. And then they try and make me look like the bad guy because i caught them lying./cheating. I...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 17

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    Cheat goes far beyond sex...a lie is a cheat,hiding something is a cheat,missleading is cheating. I hate cheaters...gamers not able to speak up what really is in their mind...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Yeah most of the guys only say this but i mean it. I am not a cheating kind of guy.
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I see so many post here by people cheating on their spouses or looking to do so.... Am I the only person who thinks that extramarital affairs are morally wrong? They have the...
    Z00Z00Z Z00Z00Z 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for 9. We have 3 children (elementary school age) and I've been a good wife. No, a GREAT wife. By his own admission. He...
    proulxfam proulxfam 31-35 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I went camping with a girlfriend before. That's not the part I regret :), lol But I didn't know she was going to come, and so I only brought my regular mummy sleeping bag. We were...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M Jun 28

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    I don't regret you. I regret not sleeping with your best friend though.
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I am a female-to-male transsexual. I transitioned almost ten years ago. I've been on hormones for about six years, and I've had surgery. I often regret ever transitioning. My...
    jacobaf20 jacobaf20 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 17

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