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I Regret Cheating

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    I Felt Terrible And I Still Do.

    I remember the first time I cheated on a physics test back in 10th grade. I felt so bad. I actually wanted to go and confess to the teacher and tell her I cheated. I wrote the formulas down on a post it note and I taped it on the backside of my calculator's cover. The teacher...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    When Cheating Changed My Life

    How do go on when you regret cheating, although I admitted and fought it every second, I still cheated. It broke up a 20 year relationship. My partner has found someone new and is happy. As for me I live with regret every day, disgusted with myself. It has been three years and I...
    Shyla1527 Shyla1527 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    Continuously Mess Up

    I was with my husband since we were both 15. I had several mishaps regarding other people when we were dating as did he. But in 2009 just 3 months after we had gotten married I met someone and had a one night stand. Which continued into 10 months of seeing him. My husband and I...
    arzayas arzayas 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I Should Have Just Talked to Him

    My then boyfriend, now fiance, have been together for 7 years, off and on.  I love everything about him.  I feel like he is the only one that really understands me and is ok with me.  I have a very ****** past.  I have seen and been through a lot, but he...
    uwntbleaveme uwntbleaveme 18-21 3 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I Regret Confessing

    I have 2 kids, my husband has been cheating on me for years . I got tired all these years I have been trying to talk to him and he refused. I felt very,very lonely and sad I cheated with his bestfriend he caught me and I confessed to everything and how I felt in our marriage . He...
    Blossom36 Blossom36 31-35 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    Lost

    I was married for 19 years but 5 years ago seem to have completely lost the plot had an affair which lost me almost everything . I still don't understand why I was so selfish and stupid and regret it everyday! If only I could stop anyone else making the same mistake ,things...
    Jusie Jusie 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with.

    I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it happened, I hugged him goodbye and it just happened. Terrible thing is though, what hits me and really hits home, is that I'm really good friends...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I Keep Messing Things Up

    I have been with my partner for 10 years since we were teenagers. I have had several slip ups at the beginning of our relationship and I blame that on being young and insecure. I am now in my late 20's and I have done it again! I don't want to go into details but I kissed...
    amazinggrace800 amazinggrace800 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Feeling Sorry

    I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex because I felt sorry for him. When I was with my ex, he treated me so badly and told me that I was an awful girlfriend to him (my ex) when I was with him and all other kind of lies. He never mentioned to his friends that he was the one...
    janacity janacity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have many regrets of several situations and interactions i had with people during my years of life. Mistakes, regrets, things I wish I had not said or done. Most of those regrets...
    PeterPalmer PeterPalmer 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Hi... My name is Autumn. Me n my boyfriend had been together almost 3 months we had dated wen I was 14 but it was bad timing bc he's 3 years older. So we gave it another shot bck...
    autumn977 autumn977 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Cheating is NOT a mistake. If you’re truly in love with someone, you will not be able to kiss someone else without tasting your loved ones tears stain your lips. You will not be...
    FuSoYa FuSoYa 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I am in a relationship in which my bf cheated on me. it is difficult for me because his cheating this time is physical and emotional. I still want him and love him very much...
    mrnlq mrnlq 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I feel stupid, like I do everything possible to try and make her happy, and now she is secretive with her phone and won't let me see it, she has never been secretive with her...
    TrueSadness TrueSadness 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 15

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    What constitutes as cheating in your books? Just physical, or emotional/flirting too? How far would you go before you'd consider yourself as 'cheating' ?
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    It's hard to put my regret in words. But it's been bothering me for so long. When I was new in college, I thought it was really hard to graduate with honors. But it turns out in my...
    arielledeschanel arielledeschanel 18-21, F Sep 6

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    It's hard to put my regret in words. But it's been bothering me for so long. When I was new in college, I thought it was really hard to graduate with honors. But it turns out in my...
    arielledeschanel arielledeschanel 18-21, F Sep 6

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I am not a cheating wife. I am not even married. But knowing me, i know i will be one. And this makes me scared to get into any relationship
    nehato21 nehato21 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    I don't have the personality nor the will to ever cheat. Why? Because I was raised properly by my mom to never ever cheat on someone. If I weren't happy in a relationship, I'd talk...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I never have believed in cheating and now that I have been cheated on I'm a much strong advocate for it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31

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    I think the feeling of getting cheated on is the worst feeling ever!! It's like someone is opening you up and pulling everything out of you slowly. I like to be a faithful person...
    penatomas penatomas 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Maybe it's because I'm very loyal and honest, but the thought of cheating on a partner, makes me feel disgusted and uncomfortable. It's just something that I would never do, no...
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 16-17, F Sep 7

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    I really need someone to talk to. I found out my dad is cheating on my mom when I was 14 (now i'm 16) and i've done nothing about it, until 2 months ago. He got a text and I...
    Frederique0000 Frederique0000 16-17, F Sep 10

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    Being a female, I'd like to know when men cheat, do they do it because they've found someone more appealing to them? Or do they do it because they can't commit to just one woman...
    Ms1993 Ms1993 18-21, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I guess its because I don't have it in me to cheat. I had several chances to cheat, but I never took them. Honestly, sometimes I wish I had. Only because my relationships, in the...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    just thinking about this puts so much anger back into my soul.... you're going to think I'm the biggest idiot after reading this,but here goes.... I was fifteen years old. He was...
    jaycer jaycer 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I did something I regret more than once...two different things I regret and I'll take them to the grave. Only God knows.
    ItsAbleedingPegasi ItsAbleedingPegasi 22-25, M Aug 24

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    I am currently 26 years old and have a 2 year old child. I had an abortion when I was 18 years old and a senior in high school. At the time I was so terrified of anyone besides my...
    Paige6 Paige6 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    i have many regrets in life and i think everyone who says they don't, are lying to themselves. Maybe those people just know how to deal with those regrets a little better.
    pricilagudi pricilagudi 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    My philosophy: No regrets, only "learning experiences"
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F Aug 27

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    My sex life has been a train wreck, I don't regret loving men. I feel no one should live with the burden of a secret, not for anyone in the world, it just eats you up from inside...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    Right now? I'm sitting next to the love of my life. His boys sit a row in front of us. Watching high school football in the most perfect ohio friday night weather. I'm glad I left...
    carpediem2 carpediem2 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Right though I mean just for this teen part of my life I don't regret how I spend my sad little days -,-
    BabyDuchanne BabyDuchanne 16-17, F Sep 6

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    five years later i regret marrying my female partner ;-( i should never have married her, i married her after id been hurt by one man one betrayed me the other guy was a sexual...
    gypsylife2014 gypsylife2014 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Telling people too much you either end up in a good place or regretting it so much, you wanna take what you said back.
    blurpos blurpos 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    All you have to do is ask me to sext or cyber or just cross lines that i am not comfortable with. I just blocked a guy who said we were more alike than i realized. and he said he...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    Such a turn on for us both
    Southlincsman Southlincsman 46-50, M Aug 30

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    I think flirting is just fun and natural. It doesn't always mean an invitation to more.
    justAnotherTeenSlut justAnotherTeenSlut 70+, F Aug 30

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    No way! Leave the person if you want someone else dammit! Don't juggle two different hearts because eventually one will/is gonna catch up with you. And then everything falls apart...
    MajesticDreams MajesticDreams 13-15, F Aug 30

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    A few years ago a friend helped me to get out of a bad relationship, then we started hooking up and I developed very strong feelings for him. We both expressed how much we cared...
    pa901104 pa901104 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Most times you hear about the guy being the cheater but this time my 5 month girlfriend was the cheater. Well I am not so sure about the severity of what she did but I have not yet...
    LastTime1 LastTime1 13-15, M Sep 1

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    I have a date tomorrow with a man that my husband hates.
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 56 Responses Sep 2

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    Anyone seen the Ashley Madison advert??? I'm looking for someone other than my wife other than my wife!! lol crazy world!
    XoxJazzyxox XoxJazzyxox 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    My bf is scard that I would cheat in him but I won't I don't treat guys like there nothing like some girls do
    hayhaytaytay hayhaytaytay 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Having been two-timed before, I know how it feels to be cheated on. No way I could put someone else through the same crap. :/
    mhenson144 mhenson144 22-25, M Sep 7

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