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I Regret Cheating

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    I Should Have Just Talked to Him

    My then boyfriend, now fiance, have been together for 7 years, off and on.  I love everything about him.  I feel like he is the only one that really understands me and is ok with me.  I have a very ****** past.  I have seen and been through a lot, but he...
    uwntbleaveme uwntbleaveme 18-21 3 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Lost

    I was married for 19 years but 5 years ago seem to have completely lost the plot had an affair which lost me almost everything . I still don't understand why I was so selfish and stupid and regret it everyday! If only I could stop anyone else making the same mistake ,things...
    Jusie Jusie 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I Felt Terrible And I Still Do.

    I remember the first time I cheated on a physics test back in 10th grade. I felt so bad. I actually wanted to go and confess to the teacher and tell her I cheated. I wrote the formulas down on a post it note and I taped it on the backside of my calculator's cover. The teacher...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    I cheated on my husband over the course of two

    weeks because I've been desperately searching for a job. I posted an ad online that I'd be willing to f*** whoever hired me on a regular basis. I got a lot of responses and interviews. It didn't take long for my husband to catch on. Now it feels like our marriage is in shambles...
    Efangeii Efangeii 22-25, F Oct 24, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 3 years now, we've done long distance, we've lived together for over a year. We've had our ups & downs and right now we're at rock bottom... I was cheating on him for awhile. Loneliness, drugs, low self-esteem, and not knowing what I really wanted or who I wanted to be were...
    easedmysoul easedmysoul 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    Continuously Mess Up

    I was with my husband since we were both 15. I had several mishaps regarding other people when we were dating as did he. But in 2009 just 3 months after we had gotten married I met someone and had a one night stand. Which continued into 10 months of seeing him. My husband and I...
    arzayas arzayas 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Feeling Sorry

    I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex because I felt sorry for him. When I was with my ex, he treated me so badly and told me that I was an awful girlfriend to him (my ex) when I was with him and all other kind of lies. He never mentioned to his friends that he was the one...
    janacity janacity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with.

    I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it happened, I hugged him goodbye and it just happened. Terrible thing is though, what hits me and really hits home, is that I'm really good friends...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    I'm actually in need of help,

    how do I prove my trust to my boyfriend after I've cheated? I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and we went on a hike with a couple of friends and thats where I met the person I cheated on my boyfriend with. At first everything was innocent and we were just friends then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 12

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    I Keep Messing Things Up

    I have been with my partner for 10 years since we were teenagers. I have had several slip ups at the beginning of our relationship and I blame that on being young and insecure. I am now in my late 20's and I have done it again! I don't want to go into details but I kissed...
    amazinggrace800 amazinggrace800 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    When Cheating Changed My Life

    How do go on when you regret cheating, although I admitted and fought it every second, I still cheated. It broke up a 20 year relationship. My partner has found someone new and is happy. As for me I live with regret every day, disgusted with myself. It has been three years and I...
    Shyla1527 Shyla1527 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Regret Confessing

    I have 2 kids, my husband has been cheating on me for years . I got tired all these years I have been trying to talk to him and he refused. I felt very,very lonely and sad I cheated with his bestfriend he caught me and I confessed to everything and how I felt in our marriage . He...
    Blossom36 Blossom36 31-35 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I have to say I was first shocked to fine out my wife was cheating. I think I was also lucky. Soon after marrying, she confided that her previous bfs had accused her of cheating...
    det21865 det21865 46-50 1 Response Apr 25

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    Not cheating on me... But Either being with girls or taking pictures of girls or texting girls ... Now this has happened once before (again not actual cheating) but flirting. Now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 1

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    I don't care if it was a one night stand or a mistake. Cheating is still cheating.
    Dottyz Dottyz 22-25, F 10 Responses May 10

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    Cheating is jus wrong,one day the cheating will get cheated.
    Ridemywavvvve Ridemywavvvve 31-35, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I have been with this person for years. She's my mother's bestfriend. I really admire her since I was a little kid, and I am jealous of her children. Today, I was with her again...
    redsilver26 redsilver26 18-21, F May 12

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    I haven't been cheated on, and for some reason cheating ****** me off more than it normally would. Probably because I've seen someone who's been affected by someone cheating on...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response May 12

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    I don't believe in cheating but everyone cheat. That's life bottom line. Deal with it At one point of your life, your going to get cheated on. Cry about it, fight it out ,do...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I am not a cheater because i dont believe in cheating,i have always followed the path of truth no matter what the situation is and from a young age i knew that honest is the best...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M May 13

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    My sister has apparently been cheating on her boyfriend (his name is Jared) for about 3 months and I didn't find that out until 2 weeks ago -.- She said she'll break up with her...
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 4 Responses May 13

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    I cannot stand people who cheat, that is just so annoying and it really makes that person look bad, if you're going to date someone and then end up not liking them, don't go...
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 1 Response May 13

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    My husband finally admitting to cheating recently. He filed for divorce and proposed to her, but recently he's decided that she is not it. He broke it off with her. We are...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have many regrets, I think if we were all honest we would admit that we all do. Many things I regret saying, not saying, doing, or not doing. I think my biggest regret is...
    Lori8151970 Lori8151970 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    While i was so blind loving someone not deserving and waiting for him. I met a wonderful guy who really cared and accepted me as I was but let him go because I was in love with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 29

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    Being in a friendship and making a mistake so big it puts the whole relationship at stake is a awefull situation. I know because I have been in one. I made a awefull mistake which...
    GuiltBear GuiltBear 31-35, M 1 Response May 4

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    Cheaters are 100% responsible for their decision to cheat. If they were unhappy, they could have gotten counseling, filed for divorced, taken up a hobby they enjoy - really...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Keep dreaming blog boyfriend is cheating on me what is this!?!
    mamapeaches mamapeaches 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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    I've been cheated on by 2 out of the 5 people I've dated. It's not fair to have only 1 committed person in a relationship you need 2. I have never even did anything inappropriate...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 29

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    My boyfriend and I had been dating for about 5 months at the time. It was Friday and I was at work, afterwards I was going to sleepover his house. My friend who is also friends...
    Katiemaryxoxo Katiemaryxoxo 16-17 1 Response May 1

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    Hi there men and women of morals, some people do believe in cheating. We've all seen the "I am the other woman" group. They have a great enabling network. Betrayed people, men and...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 1 Response May 6

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    I was cheated on by my first boyfriend. At the time, I knew it would never be forever with him. So, I luckily was not as crushed as I could have been had I been older and more in...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    And I don't believe in any excuses for cheating too.
    Dottyz Dottyz 22-25, F 1 Response May 12

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    even if my boyfriend cheat on me I'll never cheat on him to get pay back because I want him to know that I still care and I can have anyone I want if I want to but two wrongs don't...
    pimpgame pimpgame 13-15, F May 13

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    I've been cheated on many times. makes me wonder if its me or the person can't stay with one person. cheating is a nasty thing to do. it has left me feeling abandoned, insecure and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13

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    After I read the punishment for adulterers I'm horrified baffled and couldn't think about anything else but the crime news I read every day. I'd rather die than go through that so...
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 1 Response May 14

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    I just don't get it. Why would one person betray the one he/she loves? If stuff is not cool at least be sincere and end the relationship instead of cheating and being a liar
    ChubbyFox ChubbyFox 18-21, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would allow you to be my everything..hold you in my arms..give you whatever your heart desired..I could never tolerate lies or cheating. Do you think a woman with intelligence...
    sensualbeauty1 sensualbeauty1 46-50, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Don't Believe In Regrets.... If you don't regret, you don't learn from your mistakes dumbasses!
    TGBman TGBman 22-25, M May 6

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    I regret coming back.. I shoulda just stayed away..
    SupermanReturns SupermanReturns 18-21, M Apr 26

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    I was 12 when I lost my virginity with my now ex-boyfriend who was 14. We were home alone at his house for a few hours and we decided it was the perfect time. I thought I was "in...
    Mistakes12 Mistakes12 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 26