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I Regret Cheating

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    When Cheating Changed My Life

    How do go on when you regret cheating, although I admitted and fought it every second, I still cheated. It broke up a 20 year relationship. My partner has found someone new and is happy. As for me I live with regret every day, disgusted with myself. It has been three years and I...
    Shyla1527 Shyla1527 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    Lost

    I was married for 19 years but 5 years ago seem to have completely lost the plot had an affair which lost me almost everything . I still don't understand why I was so selfish and stupid and regret it everyday! If only I could stop anyone else making the same mistake ,things...
    Jusie Jusie 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I Felt Terrible And I Still Do.

    I remember the first time I cheated on a physics test back in 10th grade. I felt so bad. I actually wanted to go and confess to the teacher and tell her I cheated. I wrote the formulas down on a post it note and I taped it on the backside of my calculator's cover. The teacher...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    I cheated on my husband over the course of two

    weeks because I've been desperately searching for a job. I posted an ad online that I'd be willing to f*** whoever hired me on a regular basis. I got a lot of responses and interviews. It didn't take long for my husband to catch on. Now it feels like our marriage is in shambles...
    Efangeii Efangeii 22-25, F Oct 24, 2014

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    I Should Have Just Talked to Him

    My then boyfriend, now fiance, have been together for 7 years, off and on.  I love everything about him.  I feel like he is the only one that really understands me and is ok with me.  I have a very ****** past.  I have seen and been through a lot, but he...
    uwntbleaveme uwntbleaveme 18-21 3 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with.

    I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it happened, I hugged him goodbye and it just happened. Terrible thing is though, what hits me and really hits home, is that I'm really good friends...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    Feeling Sorry

    I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex because I felt sorry for him. When I was with my ex, he treated me so badly and told me that I was an awful girlfriend to him (my ex) when I was with him and all other kind of lies. He never mentioned to his friends that he was the one...
    janacity janacity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    I Regret Confessing

    I have 2 kids, my husband has been cheating on me for years . I got tired all these years I have been trying to talk to him and he refused. I felt very,very lonely and sad I cheated with his bestfriend he caught me and I confessed to everything and how I felt in our marriage . He...
    Blossom36 Blossom36 31-35 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    I Keep Messing Things Up

    I have been with my partner for 10 years since we were teenagers. I have had several slip ups at the beginning of our relationship and I blame that on being young and insecure. I am now in my late 20's and I have done it again! I don't want to go into details but I kissed...
    amazinggrace800 amazinggrace800 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Continuously Mess Up

    I was with my husband since we were both 15. I had several mishaps regarding other people when we were dating as did he. But in 2009 just 3 months after we had gotten married I met someone and had a one night stand. Which continued into 10 months of seeing him. My husband and I...
    arzayas arzayas 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I used to cheat. I never thought twice. I regret hurting people. Made a promise to myself never to lie or cheat on anyone else in my life. I know believe in karma because it came...
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    I have been with my wife since I was in high school. She is the only girl I ever dated. She was a couple years older than me when she graduated college she came to where I was in...
    Sundance1971 Sundance1971 41-45, M 5 Responses Mar 12

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    Or am I? What is cheating? Different websites say that cheating is doing what you know your partner would be uncomfortable with. Some say that you don't need to be physical; that...
    lyhoma lyhoma 26-30, F Mar 9

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    I regret not reading the moment and holding her hand. I regret not reading her face and kissing her lips. I regret that when she left her heart open and bare before me I was too...
    mar3sword mar3sword 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I think cheating is wrong iv been cheated on many of times and my ex bf did it to me the other day, the worse thing is it was my best friend well she was its horrible cheating...
    justanotherhumanbeeing justanotherhumanbeeing 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    There is simply no reason to regret a right decision. If I don't see myself, going back in time and changing what I've done, then why have regrets? Because those who never walked a...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I regret that I never told this girl that I went to elementary school with a long time ago, Victoria "Vivi" Jamison that I had a huge crush on her.The best part was that I had a...
    Baileymill Baileymill 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I walked in on my gf banging her co-worker. I was shocked and angry. I was so angry I beat the **** out of her lover. After, I kicked both of them out. Doing that made me feel...
    crunchymunch crunchymunch 22-25, M Mar 1

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    I beat up my gf's lover after catching them red handed. I then cursed out my cheating gf and kicked both of them out to the streets. It felt pretty good. I have a deep hate for...
    crunchymunch crunchymunch 22-25, M Mar 1

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    I'm trying to get over my boyfriend of 1 yr and 2 months cheating on me. This is the second time and we are in deep even went to college together and my family loves him. He calls...
    catema catema 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    if my man had temptations of cheating on me I'd have him introduce me to this girl, & I'd eat her box. Cause if you can't best em join em. & no one can beat me (; im honestly just...
    recklesssxo recklesssxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    I would like anyone and everyone who reads my statuses and all that to look at this : Cheating is wrong, It makes the one being cheated on feel like they weren't good enough. If I...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    Her behavior has changed a lot over the past two months. Yesterday she got two strange phone calls that she claimed were wrong numbers. Lately she spends more time at work and...
    JacobJastrow JacobJastrow 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Being cheated on sure does leave a big mark on you. It's like you feel betrayed, because they do exactly what you'd never even come across. I can't help but to feel like it was...
    lauren710 lauren710 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    Has anyone been in a relationship with a cheater who plays mind games? In my case, she hints that she is cheating but denies it when you pick up the clues, and then accuses you of...
    suganeles suganeles 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I forgave my boyfriend for cheating because when I tried moving on I couldn't I had an amazing guy in front of me but I would just think of my ex. So I forgave him but now idk...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    After a few months of not talking, me and my husband were invited to a wine & hot tub party with a group of about 30 friends. A group of people (including my husband) were...
    princessbritneyblack princessbritneyblack 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 15

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    So I went on vacation last year and apparently my ex was cheating on me with a girl that lives down the street from me and when I came back from vacation he had another girlfriend...
    HeidiBD HeidiBD 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    He tells me his phone is broken all the time and won't have sex with me anymore is he cheating?? He's usually so into it
    doglovverr56 doglovverr56 22-25, F Mar 19

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    best way to catch a cheating husband, been married 50 years and i'm just sick of it. i can never get real evidence, he denies it and calls me nuts, but here is a man that lost...
    sonny433 sonny433 70+, F a week ago

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    Everybody has regrets. I was raised in a small rural village. When I was in my early 20's I moved to a big city. I was tired of rural life and hard working. I know I let my dad...
    pacodad pacodad 70+, M Mar 7

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    You'll regret the things you don't do more than the things you do do. I'm a relatively young person, but I've already had regrets. And all of them come from the things I didn't do...
    chilldude82 chilldude82 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My biggest regret dates back to early 2009,I was 14 and my first ever suicide attempt failed . How I wish it had been successful .. "hang in there,it'll get better" they said. Life...
    prettyboo711 prettyboo711 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    It was an awful experience i had and I'll regret it all my life. I was 17 wen i fall in love with this guy who was 4yrs elder. He made ne felt really good and made me had sex with...
    sexyshivani sexyshivani 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 6

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    I regret opening up to certain people, it just bugs me knowing there's a few people out there who didn't even deserve to know me like that.
    cat20079 cat20079 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    Rn I'm really regretting losing it. Sometimes I Wish I Was A Virgin Again. Things would have been much different if I were. ?? ??????
    SunshineAnderson13 SunshineAnderson13 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I regret not going to my schools spirit night tonight. Juniors beat the seniors which is a crazy and bizarre accomplishment because that never happens. It is seriously such a...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 18-21, F Mar 13

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    How would you define regrettable attrition in your organization? Is it possible to define the term in a way that would be intuitive for front line managers, but also create data...
    thpayne thpayne 22-25, M Mar 14

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    There are millions of past choices which could be considered for change if possible to do so, yet changing anyone of them could change the here and now. So I'll choose today along...
    squid4u squid4u 41-45, M Mar 16

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    Feeling like I'll never get over this grief and guilt I'm feeling and I haven't even hit a month after yet. Trying to forgive myself is one of the hardest parts because I regret my...
    ReaP2 ReaP2 22-25 1 Response Mar 16