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I Regret Cheating

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 3 years now, we've done long distance, we've lived together for over a year. We've had our ups & downs and right now we're at rock bottom... I was cheating on him for awhile. Loneliness, drugs, low self-esteem, and not knowing what I really wanted or who I wanted to be were...
    easedmysoul easedmysoul 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    When Cheating Changed My Life

    How do go on when you regret cheating, although I admitted and fought it every second, I still cheated. It broke up a 20 year relationship. My partner has found someone new and is happy. As for me I live with regret every day, disgusted with myself. It has been three years and I...
    Shyla1527 Shyla1527 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Should Have Just Talked to Him

    My then boyfriend, now fiance, have been together for 7 years, off and on.  I love everything about him.  I feel like he is the only one that really understands me and is ok with me.  I have a very ****** past.  I have seen and been through a lot, but he...
    uwntbleaveme uwntbleaveme 18-21 3 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I Regret Confessing

    I have 2 kids, my husband has been cheating on me for years . I got tired all these years I have been trying to talk to him and he refused. I felt very,very lonely and sad I cheated with his bestfriend he caught me and I confessed to everything and how I felt in our marriage . He...
    Blossom36 Blossom36 31-35 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    I Felt Terrible And I Still Do.

    I remember the first time I cheated on a physics test back in 10th grade. I felt so bad. I actually wanted to go and confess to the teacher and tell her I cheated. I wrote the formulas down on a post it note and I taped it on the backside of my calculator's cover. The teacher...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    I cheated on my husband over the course of two

    weeks because I've been desperately searching for a job. I posted an ad online that I'd be willing to f*** whoever hired me on a regular basis. I got a lot of responses and interviews. It didn't take long for my husband to catch on. Now it feels like our marriage is in shambles...
    Efangeii Efangeii 22-25, F Oct 24, 2014

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    Continuously Mess Up

    I was with my husband since we were both 15. I had several mishaps regarding other people when we were dating as did he. But in 2009 just 3 months after we had gotten married I met someone and had a one night stand. Which continued into 10 months of seeing him. My husband and I...
    arzayas arzayas 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I'm actually in need of help,

    how do I prove my trust to my boyfriend after I've cheated? I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and we went on a hike with a couple of friends and thats where I met the person I cheated on my boyfriend with. At first everything was innocent and we were just friends then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 12

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with.

    I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it happened, I hugged him goodbye and it just happened. Terrible thing is though, what hits me and really hits home, is that I'm really good friends...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    Lost

    I was married for 19 years but 5 years ago seem to have completely lost the plot had an affair which lost me almost everything . I still don't understand why I was so selfish and stupid and regret it everyday! If only I could stop anyone else making the same mistake ,things...
    Jusie Jusie 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Feeling Sorry

    I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex because I felt sorry for him. When I was with my ex, he treated me so badly and told me that I was an awful girlfriend to him (my ex) when I was with him and all other kind of lies. He never mentioned to his friends that he was the one...
    janacity janacity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    I Keep Messing Things Up

    I have been with my partner for 10 years since we were teenagers. I have had several slip ups at the beginning of our relationship and I blame that on being young and insecure. I am now in my late 20's and I have done it again! I don't want to go into details but I kissed...
    amazinggrace800 amazinggrace800 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    I Just Want Everything to Get Better

    I  got into a relationship with this guy my freshman year of high school.  He was an overbearing, controlling abusive guy who gave me rules to follow but had none of his own.  I suspected him of cheating on me, so I started flirting with this guy.  Nothing...
    amandolisempre amandolisempre 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    buttermonkey buttermonkey 26-30, F a week ago

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    I lost my virginity last friday night. i was out in town with my friends and hadn't been so drunk since my 18th birthday. i started chatting to a guy next thing i know I'm walking...
    travellover96 travellover96 18-21, F a week ago

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    Friendship0nlyPlease Friendship0nlyPlease 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    SupermanReturns SupermanReturns 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F Jul 17

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    When I'm in a relationship I get really obsessed. I have no time to be cheating when I'm busy stalking you. :3
    Irvyy Irvyy 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 13

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    people think I'm a cheerful and happy person but behind all that there's one regret. I'm not over my past relationship. I've probably done the hurt to myself. damn fool
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I dreamed again about my wife cheating on me. Why is it nothing gets me aroused faster than the idea of her or nice "proper" wives being seen nude and cheating?
    johnnyninenine johnnyninenine 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I don't believe in cheating as I have been cheated on. Sometimes the urges are there and fight them off. I love my husband. He is. Wonderful man and a great father but I wish he...
    Socal73 Socal73 41-45, M 7 Responses Jul 13

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    Back in my past was a extremely dark time. A lot of things I did I won't even repeat because I regret them so bad that I have shamed myself for eternity. I understand I was an...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21 Jul 12

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    It's become an epidemic! Cheating is the new norm.
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    There was this one beautiful guy in my psychology class last year who is two years older than me. I regret never talking to him. In that class, I learned so much about about him...
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    Believe me when I say this: I have tried!!!!! I've done everything I could! Going to therapy, releasing anger, cried my eyes off, screamed, more therapy... 5 months have passed and...
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