I Regret Having An Abortion

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    I Regret My Decision

    So its been several years (six-seven) since I had my one and only abortion and this has been the first time I have allowed myself to look at aborted fetus images -I just burst into tears. So I was sexually abused growing up by a trusted male and had self-esteem issues (warped...
    Krissy82 Krissy82
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    Just before New Years I had an abortion.

    I regret this a lot as since then my partner has changed got a job and well been more understanding touch wood don't want to jinx this. I've lost my job unfortunately we've got our own flat which we've had before I found out I was pregnant.. If only he didn't act the way he did...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015

    To anyone dealing with an abortion,

    please listen to Lucy by Skillet. I think it'll help :D
    StahpCopyingMyName StahpCopyingMyName
    18-21, F
    Jul 11, 2015

    I have always been a good girl

    who didn't sleep around and believed I would have a planned pregnancy when I am ready. But then I met my current boyfriend whom I have been with for two years now and I love him very dearly. We both fight, argue but we never leave each other's side because of the love we have...
    mylifeasserbs mylifeasserbs
    22-25, F
    Aug 11, 2014

    I Want My Baby Back...):

    I had an abortion On June 20th. I didn't want it but I wasn't strong enough to fight her father on the decision. When we got to the clinic there were protesters outside that made me really start rethinking my decision to abort. After we signed in they gave me a packet of...
    RIPMarieLynn RIPMarieLynn
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jul 11, 2012

    Thats My Story

    On the 18th of january i was round my 'friends' house, and we was having a little drink, me, her, her mum and my bestfriend. Me and my friend went for a walk to the shop and started talking about pregnancies and stuff like that and i havent been coming on my period for 2 months...
    kaciusyte kaciusyte
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2013

    I Shouldn't Have Done It

    I was 23 when I had my abortion and it was the hardest thing I ever had to go through,emotionally and physically. I am a christian women and it was so hard to even pray or read my bible because I felt that I wasn't worth of God's love and my life. I felt like a murderer,my baby...
    thabz thabz
    22-25
    Dec 14, 2012

    I'd always wanted a baby

    but for financial reasons we decided to have a abortion! On top that we hadn't been together long. It wasn't supposed to happen this way. I took the right precautions, on the pill and took it right time everyday! It was supposed to work. I felt numb for the whole two weeks...
    cjay89 cjay89
    26-30, F
    Oct 10, 2014

    I really don't know how to start this

    because it makes me cry thinking of my little buba finding this app made me happy knowing I wasn't the only girl feeling this I was with my bf who well I'm with now and we was seeing eachother for two years and then it stopped when I broke up with him when I got back I to...
    neelamara neelamara
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2013

    I just can't help it .

    ...I'm trying so hard to get back on track straight As in college I'm about to graduate...a great job I've lost 30lbs I left my abusive ex but none of that keeps my mind busy enough. I think about my abortion all day everyday and the guilt eats me alive! I feel so selfish and...
    2015dao 2015dao
    22-25, F
    Aug 30, 2015

    Today I can't seem to stop think I made a

    mistake. I really want a baby. I'm so confused. I need to get my life together and get it fit to have a family. Get a permanent job as my contract runs out in 10 months and save up. I keep saying to myself that I had the abortion for a reason so why now do I want a family...
    cjay89 cjay89
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014

    It was almost 2 years ago

    and I will never, ever forgive myself. I saw my child on the ultrasound screen, I started to cry and the nurse told me I still had time to think but I was selfish and did it anyway.
    iamtaylor iamtaylor
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2014

    I am still with my partner

    so not like I slept round and was an accident which I think makes it worse to get over xx
    Sally91 Sally91
    22-25, F
    Jul 11, 2015

    Against My Moral Fiber....

    I am a over 30's single mom of two beautiful children who are in junior high. My middle aged boyfriend and I got pregnant. Our relationship was stable. Income was not an issue. My children always asked if they could have a sibling. His daughter even asked me from time to time...
    CricketFrog CricketFrog
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2013

    Feeling very low today

    and ain't want to fall into depression but feel as more time goes on the worse I feel the worse the sadness and guilt get I see a grievance counsellor but don't know if it's making me better or worse anybody else in this situation advice and chat is welcomed Thanks 😭
    Sally91 Sally91
    22-25, F
    Oct 8, 2015

    Don't Even Know Where To Start....

    I'll just start by saying he was the love of my life. I have a beautiful daughter who I let into his life and he let us both down. We were about to get engaged and I was living my fairytale. I didn't care about anything in the world. My life was complete. I found out I was...
    heresmytruth heresmytruth
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2013

    Still Distraught After 7 Months

    I'm 19 years old and I had an abortion 7 months ago. I was 10 weeks so I had the pill. At the time me and my partner were so in shock we made a quick decision and I could tell he really didn't want me to keep it. When at the hospital I wasn't even upset until I saw the foetus...
    mfcx mfcx
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

    To me this happend a year ago it was

    such a bad time and still going through this not had any time to grieve wanted someone to just listen to me but do not have that kind of support 😔 I'm thankful for a site to be able to share experiences with people in the same boat I welcome people to be able to chat with me...
    Sally91 Sally91
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015

    The Hardest Decision, That Is Tearing Me Apart!

    I was on my way to go to the navy, when i found out that i was pregnant! I couldn't care for a child! and i was so scared that i wouldn't do anything with my life if i had a baby! The pregnancy set me back in my life time goal! It tore me to pieces, when i made the decision...
    LuvMe4Me77 LuvMe4Me77
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2009
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