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I Regret Letting My First Lover Go

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    Why Did I Have To Be Stupid? - Daniel 15, Norway (sorry For Bad English)

    I threw my first love out the door when we were so happy. I dont know why i did it, but now i regret ... She was perfect. I destroyd her, but now i just want it to be the way it was before, when we talked all night, and hugged and kissed... i miss her. We were togheter for 9...
    NorwegianSoul NorwegianSoul 13-15, M Dec 28, 2012

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    First Love

    Well at first i thought it was bullshit that you will always remember your first love but its true. She was perfect in every way she never did anything to hurt out relationship. I was happy she was happy her parents liked me from the start they would invite me on there little...
    guillsanch guillsanch 18-21, M Jun 30, 2013

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    No I Am Happy She Fukkkked Out Of My Life

    If she did not f....... out of my life I would have never known what life is really about or what real love is. I guess I should thank her for letting me go and getting to live my life. Imagine being stuck with a 50 year old lesbo woman in denial of who she is and who cannot sort...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 1 Response May 25, 2013

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    Biggest Regret

    Becky and I grew up together back in the 70's and early 80's.I knew that I loved her  when we were about eight years old. Even then I thought she was the most beautiful girl ever.Still do , but only from memory since I haven't seen her in years. She had dark hair and...
    flight401 flight401 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    FIRE

    CHAPTER ONE   After Easter Sunday of 1965 I realized the love of my life was gone forever. I was just back from two months in Key West, via Panama.  Sonar "A" School wasn't all that hard but I had some lonely times there longing for a love to the South. For...
    steamer621 steamer621 61-65, M Sep 13, 2008

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    I'm not sure if I should regret it. I bet I don't because once it was everything I ever wanted, even though it didn't turn out great in the end. He was ten years older than me...
    pnsrstw pnsrstw 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    No. I can't regret something I never experienced, lol. :P
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M a week ago

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    I have many regrets of several situations and interactions i had with people during my years of life. Mistakes, regrets, things I wish I had not said or done. Most of those regrets...
    PeterPalmer PeterPalmer 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    My sex life has been a train wreck, I don't regret loving men. I feel no one should live with the burden of a secret, not for anyone in the world, it just eats you up from inside...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I know I've held so many memories with emotions, and people that are dear to me in my heart. I loved someone dearly and in return I have fet loved before. It's really hard to let...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    She was the girl I had my first long term relationship with. She was the girl that made me know what love was. She was very friendly and beautiful. The cutest, jolliest and most...
    ccdawgg ccdawgg 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    im gonna leave everything about me and start fresh, i will leave all of my friends, and have no regrets... no one will cares
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Aug 6

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    Right now I am currently in a tough spot. I'm a very good-looking kid, who even had the nurses talking at the hospital when I had my operation. Not to sound cocky but that's what...
    thekid2010 thekid2010 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    She was the best lover. She understood me. We could talk for hours. But circumstances were in the way. We were both married. It was hard to see her. An illicit affair is hardly...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M Aug 10

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    Well i did try but when the other person is not willing to have a long distance relationship that kinda cuts me off at the knees. I would have definitely gone to the trouble of...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I took the test The Liberated Lover 68% partner focus, 52% aggressiveness, 60% adventurousness based on the results of this test, it is highly likely that: You prefer your...
    txbandit70 txbandit70 41-45, M Aug 19

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    Well whadya know! *wink* Your result for The Lover Style Profile Test ... The Surprising Lover 68% partner focus, 48% aggressiveness, 55% adventurousness based on the results of...
    djtiger djtiger 46-50, M 6 Responses Aug 19

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    *what the heck do you have to do to be a CARNAL lover!!!!* lol.... i thought for shur I'd be one... but I am the: Liberated Lover 59% partner focus, 76% aggressiveness, 65...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I figured it out. It's simply. The reason why my marriage didn't survive. Why may husband didn't care for me the way I needed and why he cared less and less everyday. It's because...
    carpediem2 carpediem2 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I usually text a guy first like a friend but I feel more important if they chat me first
    NicoleGabriella NicoleGabriella 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    There is a girl who I have liked since middle school, that I became close to. I have known her for years, and always thought she just saw us as friends. Three years ago she moved...
    ZacDaniel ZacDaniel 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    It's about being that person that glitters with energy and passion. The right lover/BFF will either be scared away orrrrr fall helplessly in love from first sight. Master the bold...
    1111Lina1111 1111Lina1111 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I've been sleeping with an acquaintance for the last month. He stays the whole night, sometimes at my place, sometimes at his. We can be rough and nasty, or sweet and tender. He...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 18

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    I don't want to just meet someone I am attracted to and be in a relationship with them right away. I want to get to know the person and be friends with them first. Why? Because you...
    ConfidentSpeaker ConfidentSpeaker 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I regret being married to my husband. I tried to live with a man and be a housewife and mother. Its not my thing. First cos i dont feel attracted to men anymore and next cos im too...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16. I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us...
    abzry abzry 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    More like I didn't do anything and I regret it I was on a vacation with my family and I saw this girl and I just feel for her. Why I do not know, all I know was that it was so...
    Joiss Joiss 18-21, M Aug 16

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    This happened at my 16th birthday party back in early march. I remember how excited I was, turning 16 finally!!! My party was on the Saturday after my birthday, a Friday. I talked...
    Animecrazyluv Animecrazyluv 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Letting go of the evil bondage that was on me. Letting go of unforgiveness, letting go of the past. Going through a spiritual cleanse by CHRIST. Want to start healing others...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There's always a first for everything. I love to see things more than once but, we all know seeing things over and over is boring.
    HayellsDorion HayellsDorion 13-15, F 14 hrs ago

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    Ok, so ive been in an on and off relationship with someone for almost 10 years. the biggest issue was that he is a pathological liar. he lied to me for years on end and i kept...
    Myah29 Myah29 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I have always been a good girl who didn't sleep around and believed I would have a planned pregnancy when I am ready. But then I met my current boyfriend whom I have been with for...
    mylifeasserbs mylifeasserbs 22-25, F Aug 11

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    Idont realy know if i regret mistreating my ex or i just regret choosing her to be my wife all i know is that i had to be wiser and do what ever it takes to fix all our isues . Now...
    GMan82 GMan82 31-35, M Aug 13

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    My biggest regret. I moved to a Catholic school from a public one in grade 3. And in Grade 7 I started going to a high school because where I live Grade 7 and 8 is in the building...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F Aug 13

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    or don't really regret. I'm not 100% sure. Okay so how to start this... So I'm 17 and, without being narcissistic, consider myself to be attractive, my body developed quickly and...
    volchitsa volchitsa 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    "Sometimes my life really feels like a perpetual toggle between regretting doing things and regretting not doing things." Dau Voire
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F a week ago

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    I still remember my first crush clearly and i even know this isn't healthy. She worked across from me when i was 15 (AWkward years lol). Though this is an unhealthy obsession...
    SirKnight86 SirKnight86 26-30, M a week ago

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    As many of you probably know, J.K Rowling announced earlier this year that she regrets pairing Ron and hermione (😢) now, I myself am writing a book series and I do severely hope...
    Melonfriends Melonfriends 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I did something I regret more than once...two different things I regret and I'll take them to the grave. Only God knows.
    XxTheInsanePegasixX XxTheInsanePegasixX 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    PLEASE DON'T OFFER ME SEX OR HIT ON ME THROUGH MESSAGES. EP IS SOLELY USED AS AN ONLINE DIARY FOR ME. I had my very first one night stand this year. I went on a trip up to...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    So I have a dilemma. It's a little nsfw though. I met this guy and we hit it off. He's my best friend in this tiny town that I live in. We joke all day and can spend hours nonstop...
    sylbi sylbi 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 30

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    Every time I let someone get close to me which rarely happens they always end up disappointing me. Now I'm done letting people get close to me. I'm going to push everyone out now...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    It started with strategy headings, currently introduces one alternative in style type: the role-playing game. One frequent characteristic linking most browser game titles...
    rsgpfastgold rsgpfastgold 22-25, M Aug 8

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    Nothing solidifies a new friendship at the ripe ol age of 24 quite like a sleepover. Today I came home from a weekend trip with a girlfriend, her boyfriend and her 7yr old son...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F Aug 11

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    I don't know how love tastes like without any Jealousy. I don't know how lovers can possibly love with no jealousy, it exceeds my imagination. I'm pretty confident of who I am...
    lwelo lwelo 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm letting go of people who constantly let me down or disappoint me. I'm getting rid of those who tend to bring me down. Letting go and moving on. If you don't hear from me, you...
    Saram1985 Saram1985 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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