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I Regret Letting My First Lover Go

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    Becky and I grew up together back in the 70's and early 80's.I knew that I loved her  when we were about eight years old. Even then I thought she was the most beautiful girl ever.Still do , but only from memory since I haven't seen her in years. She had dark hair and...
    flight401 flight401 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    CHAPTER ONE   After Easter Sunday of 1965 I realized the love of my life was gone forever. I was just back from two months in Key West, via Panama.  Sonar "A" School wasn't all that hard but I had some lonely times there longing for a love to the South. For...
    steamer621 steamer621 61-65, M Sep 13, 2008

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    Why Did I Have To Be Stupid? - Daniel 15, Norway (sorry For Bad English)

    I threw my first love out the door when we were so happy. I dont know why i did it, but now i regret ... She was perfect. I destroyd her, but now i just want it to be the way it was before, when we talked all night, and hugged and kissed... i miss her. We were togheter for 9...
    NorwegianSoul NorwegianSoul 13-15, M Dec 28, 2012

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    First Love

    Well at first i thought it was bullshit that you will always remember your first love but its true. She was perfect in every way she never did anything to hurt out relationship. I was happy she was happy her parents liked me from the start they would invite me on there little...
    guillsanch guillsanch 18-21, M Jun 30, 2013

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    I did not have any feelings for him, but he was really interested in me. I only did it because I wanted to get my first kiss over with
    meghankatherine meghankatherine 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    We had the feelings but after that first kiss everything deteriorated. We stopped talking and I don't even know what we are to each other anymore. I wish I never did it because I...
    Thane1 Thane1 18-21, M Mar 24

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    From my first love. I realized you don't have to be happy with how someone makes you feel, Being in love with someone who won't compromise , is a living hell. I wish the person...
    bgupta766 bgupta766 31-35, M Mar 25

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    I regret a lot of things but i regret letting down a very amazing guy for the guy i am with currently who i believes doesn't stand a chance against the man i let down. My boyfriend...
    goofygurl01 goofygurl01 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    The Art of letting goEach year around this time, this holiday season, I find myself reflecting all I have experienced. I have learned some incredible lessons of life. I have met...
    bemyvalentine bemyvalentine 51-55, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I met my first love 1993 we worked together I was only 17 he was 22. We flirted around each other for a year he was a Muslim practising so I did not think I had a chance. I told...
    natty999 natty999 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Venting to set myself free... Dear Soon-to-be Ex... As the divorce you have wanted so badly the last 17 months is near, I am writing this in order to let you go. To stop...
    ChangingDad ChangingDad 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    i regret literally EVERYTHING i do i dont know why? like i could have done it better? i mean i even regret things i say in a text message.. even on this post iam.posting now and il...
    pinkglitteress pinkglitteress 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I have difficulty with letting things go; things I’ve said and done that I regret, I hold them all in and cannot forget them or move on. I feel that I’m a monster at heart...
    HMSaph HMSaph 16-17, M Mar 28

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    Ive had a really hard and bad experiences in the past. I got bullied which led me to quit and not finishing college. But now i really regret quitting college and letting those...
    changemylonelyworld changemylonelyworld 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I used to be one of those people who would pick a flower from the ground or randomly pull a leaf from a tree or grass from the ground when I was bored but then one day I grew up...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F Mar 22

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    It's been nearly 8 years since my first abortion and 8 years since what I was told and made to believe would end my 'problem', actually opened a flood gate of never ending new ones...
    em2521 em2521 22-25, F Mar 30

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    My girlfriend of 3 years recently developed a crush on a co worker. She wants to rethink out commitment before we decide this will be forever. I want to give her the space and time...
    religiousd religiousd 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    My marriage is a complete joke!! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    My Psychic Readings will give you the accurate answers that you need so you can fulfill your true destiny. If you are feeling confused in your relationship and are not sure where...
    PsychicAnna PsychicAnna 56-60, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Not many, but there are just certain things in my life that I'm just not proud of. Mainly they are focused in high school, when I briefly became a person who I never really wanted...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Venting to set myself free... To my enabling soon to be ex in laws... As part of letting go and moving forward, I've got to vent these thoughts and hurts. Forgive them. Set them...
    ChangingDad ChangingDad 41-45, M Apr 8

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    I'm sure most, or some people have had a long lost lover in the past who they've had to let go in order to make them and happy and yourself happy, logically to make it work. It...
    gongetit121 gongetit121 31-35, F a week ago

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    My first time with him was amazing he was a whooping big 8 1/2 inches but I could handle him we exchanged sexual tricks on each other. We ****** everywhere from the bed, floor...
    Blindian Blindian 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I met my first true love in my second year of university. We dated for two years. He was wonderful, kind and thoughtful. I broke up with him, breaking his heart and mine in the...
    garcia78 garcia78 31-35 Mar 20

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    Ermmm this story is going to be a bit weird I think then again my username is awesome weirdo so it kinda fits okay so my first kiss was not to long ago actually a few days ago on...
    AwesomeWeirdo AwesomeWeirdo 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    And it was by no means perfect but I still remember it fondly. It was the summer of sophomore year. Me and a few of my closest friends decided to go to the lake one hot summer...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    Why should I have regrets? Especially when I know that I made the right decision. At the time, I was in no place to be a mother. I also didn't want to be a mom. I didn't love the...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Do your best and leave nothing to regret. Nobody can be perfect, there's bound to be weaknesses in everyone. One may choose to be depressed over it or choose to work on it but...
    MarshallLloyd MarshallLloyd 16-17, M Apr 1

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    I regret something i know I shouldn't regret. This is for 'TheBirdWhoFlew' I'm sorry that I let you wait for four hours. I'm sorry I wasn't even able to say 'hey I'm sorry I'm...
    AnimeGeek AnimeGeek 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Yes, it was a long time ago, she was my first love and when she agreed to go out with me I could hardly believe it. I was about 16, she was beautiful, well dressed, ambitious...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M Mar 22

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    I usually make a pretty decent first impression of myself when meeting guys for the first time. Today was different. I had agreed to hang out with this guy at his college and we...
    diane209 diane209 18-21, F Apr 10

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    One of my biggest regrets is moving off campus. Freshman year I hated it. I'm the only child so I was use to being by myself in a clean quiet environment. Living in a community...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I need a little help here guys. I have been trying to rationalise things for quite a while now, and while I think I'm onto something.. but would love some feedback.. "I felt in...
    Reydeurs Reydeurs 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I was with a guy 3 year older than me for 2 years (17-18) we would be on and off cause of my parents the point is that both of us decided to break it off cause we didt see a future...
    thegirlwithdarksecrests thegirlwithdarksecrests 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    There will never be anything as satisfying as the first whiff of a rich, fresh brewed roast, hot in the pot first thing in the morning....except perhaps the first sip ;-)
    flightlessbird314 flightlessbird314 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I don't regret the things that I have done, but I do regret the things that I have not yet done when I still had my chance.
    Moridori Moridori 13-15, F Apr 2

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    I exposed my body half naked to someone. I don't know why i did it... I just wanted to. I really regret doing it. I've never done anything like this before and i couldn't believe...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I first met her when I moved primary school we got on quite well at first I was not attracted to her but one day that all changed I don't know how it happened I just got this...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M Apr 9

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    I have very few regrets if any about my life. I don't live with a could of should have attitude. While I'm not exactly proud of some of the things I've done I don't wish I would...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 1 Response Apr 10

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    I want to have a really nice lover,who will also be my best friend.I do not care the race oor color just a good lover.
    uzuri84 uzuri84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    You know what I think , I think the best lovers are those who know you inside out , who've grown with you and seen what you're capable of , yes they are your true friend indeed . I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 28

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    "The Joker" - Steve Miller Band Some people call me the space cowboy, yeah Some call me the gangster of love Some people call me Maurice 'Cause I speak of the pompitous of love...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 3 Responses Apr 3

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    i am letting go with a heavy heart .....a heart so heavy that the weight of carrying it around for so long has troubled my very soul ......its a burden i can be without .......i...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 Apr 4

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    I think I found true love. If this isn't it then I really don't know what is. The other day he said he wanted to tell me how he felt about me. So, on Skype he said, he may reply...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F Apr 6

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    It was on my birthday this year (12th April 2014). I had my best friend over and also my boyfriend. I was feeling quite tired, so I put a movie on for my boyfriend and bestie to...
    imirox1999 imirox1999 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    i actually have a lover who is my best friend and it is so complicated.. we argue so much.. we get upset.. worry.. cry.. laugh.. open up to each other.. kiss and go further.. sneak...
    dontlosehope28 dontlosehope28 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm so happy that I didn't waste my first kiss on him ( ^ω^ )
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I was young I bullied him because I'd heard that he liked me I thought is he the only one who'll ever actually like me I didn't want anything to do with him I thought he was a...
    Radjad Radjad 13-15, F Mar 22

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    I haven't cheated. I'm the one he cheated with. I feel so so so bad about it. We were both off our faces, and kissed. I know being drunk isn't an excuse, I don't even know how it...
    worshipsleep worshipsleep 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    he took a risk and so did I it was the most scariest, daring, exciting, happiest, miserable moment of my life. and I regret nothing. (ask me about it if you want)
    heymaia heymaia 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I have done something simply for attention and I regret my actions. In doing so I have hurt the one I love. I have been selfish and insensitive. I was thinking only of myself. It...
    SubmitandServe SubmitandServe 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 27

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