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I Regret Losing My Virginity To The One I Lost It To

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    I wasn't going to post this,

    and then I thought, maybe someone can get something positive out of it. Yes, this kind of thing happens to guys too. I lost my virginity as a teenager to someone who I cared for a great deal. Hell I was a kid I thought it was love. She slept with me to make someone else jealous...
    budo30 budo30 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    This story begins when I was 13.

    I had this huge crush on a boy named Keith. He had black hair and was just a hunk. One day we were in math class and I was asking him about some problems I had with the assignment. He said that he can come over to my house and help me. We went to my home and did my homework...
    susanhaynes19 susanhaynes19 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I thought I loved him,

    I was high, he offered me drugs for sex. he's a drug addict, and it led to is dating for three years on and off. So many terrible things happened in my life because of him, I really wish I waited.
    rainbowphobic rainbowphobic 18-21, F Jun 21, 2014

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    I had sex with a girl long

    before my operation, and I wish I would have waited until I was a girl.
    Therealjason Therealjason 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I promised myself my first time would be with a

    virgin and it wasn't... I feel so lost... And regretful...
    emileexoxo12 emileexoxo12 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    Ninjaturtlekristen Ninjaturtlekristen 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Only If I Could

    I lost my virginity to a someone who truly didn't deserved it. He was my friend for three years before I lost it to him. I liked him while we were friends but he choose my other friends over me. So he dated them and when it didn't work out hell come back trying to talk to me. I...
    Turnbackhands Turnbackhands 18-21, F 3 Responses May 18, 2012

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    my first time sucked.

    ...it was with a guy who I thought was my best friend, yet had a girlfriend, and the worst thing about it....is the fact that I knew about her, I've talked to her over the phone I feel so awful about it I just don't know what to do. I knew him since I was a freshman and he was a...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F Nov 15, 2014

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    At first, I just wanted to be like everyone

    else. But then I sold my cookies cheap to a complete womanizer. Wasn't worth the emotions, and the time. Pfft wasn't even good, I feel so ******* cheated.😳
    lovinglifefully lovinglifefully 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I Was Stupid

    I was 15, he was my new dads nephew, my step cousin, and he was 8 years older than me. He had been chasing me for 3 years before, wanting nothing but sex. He came over every weekend for 4 years. He molested me a lot. Used my body to ****** by dry humping me. I never complained. I...
    katniss93 katniss93 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Be Careful

    Love takes you by surprise, the first time I wasn't ready for love. It just came for me. I was young , I was 14, he was 17 - I felt something with him, like he was my protector and i was his baby, and he would always take care of me, boys know how to talk. I lost my virginity...
    abbywhitaker abbywhitaker 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2, 2010

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    Known Him For 10 Years

    I had known him almost half my life. I used to like him back when I was younger but nothing ever happened back then. Back then he thought girls were gross. Well I hadn't seen him for about a year, he left 6th form and I had stayed on for another year. I bumped into him in the...
    littleRed1992 littleRed1992 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Fell For His Tricks.

    i lost my virginity when i was 14. i was a freshman in highschool. it was a school night. and i snuck out to get it on with some dirty man *****. it all started the summer before my freshman year when i got new next door neighbors. and there happened to be a boy who was my age...
    sweetsydchris sweetsydchris 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I Lost My Virginity To My Cousins Best Friend.

    The night that i lost my virginity my aunt fed me alcahol and pot. There were 5 of us. He led me downstiars. Helped me to the floor. And did it. He knew what he was doing an i didnt. He was 15. I was 13.
    Secretlyhasafetish Secretlyhasafetish 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    I'm not sure if I should regret it.

    I had a boyfriend I was 17 when we started dating but I told him I wanted to wait until I was 18. I think I was sick of being a virgin and then he happened to walk into my life right when I felt most desperate. When I was 18 it happened that actual moment was well not how I...
    alejandraaaa alejandraaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2014

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    I had many opportunities

    since I was 11, but I was always scared of it hurting and I knew when I wasn't scared I'd be ready. Well at 16 I was helping a cutie that had moved here from Cuba in math and he ended up asking me out. Fast forward a few months he was telling me about how he wanted me and never...
    RjMommy245 RjMommy245 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    Rubbed Raw And Reeling.

    Not long before my 16th birthday I started dating a 17 year old guy who was in his last year of school. We only went out for three months and in that time he convinced me to do several things I was uncomfortable doing and felt I wasn't ready for. And yet I let him because I was...
    icklelily icklelily 18-21, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Strangers

    I will never forget the guy who I lost my virginity to. I was 18 years old in my first year of college. I never had a real long term relationship so maybe that is why I never realized how important my virginity was to me. My mindset was "I think I'm the last girl on this campus...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    It makes me feel like crap.

    .. He, Makes me feel like crap, Don't get me wrong, I made the choice and everything because it seemed like a good idea, I lost it a few months ago to this guy, Who I've known for ages... I accept that i should have waited but we were both so bored of wondering 'what' what's it...
    GreenLemonade GreenLemonade 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    i lost my v card when i was 15 to my ex

    boyfreind. i wish i waited until i met my current boyfriend though because hes so much more special to me
    bongripper1 bongripper1 18-21, F Apr 4, 2014

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    i'm really depressed in lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend like 3 months go and we are no longer together it feels like that was all he wanted from me . Now i cant get over it there's not a day that goes by without me thinking about it i like it's somewhat i soul tie i need some help, advice i'm hurting what should i do.
    pinkypoo33 pinkypoo33 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    Kinda Wish It Wouldn't Have Happened Like That.

    I was drunk, it was late. My first ever house party. My mum thought I was staying with a friend for the night but she was wrong. I'd sneaked out to here. The music was loud, it was a uni party, most people were older than me. They though I was older than 15, they were wrong, so...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2011

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    Guys Are Stupid

    I remember losing my virginity with the guy I was seeing at the time. Now that I look back I realize he was using me for sex. He was lonely and I had absolutely no sexual experience. I thought we had enough in common, I figured we would blossom into a nice relationship. I guess I...
    Schweed Schweed 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    maddymo23432 maddymo23432 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    The title is self explanatory.

    I'll just jump right into it. I've been in a "relationship" with a guy when I was 14. I thought we loved each other and I thought he loved me but that was a lie. I loved him and I changed everything about me for him. The way I dresses, acted, and talked. Everything. He's done...
    Thephareast Thephareast 18-21, F 1 Response May 19, 2014

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    I lost my virginity when I was 18.

    I'm not quite sure if I regret losing it to him or not. He was a guy I met last year, the second time I met up with him we had sex when I had only known him for a month. What makes me unsure is that he basically always texted me to see if I was okay and if it's the day after...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 4 Responses May 25, 2014

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    I was friends with him

    for two years. With him for a month. Lost my virginity to him halloween 2014. Broke up 48 hours after. People started spreading bullshit about us, made me out as a liar, these are people I considered my friends. I did love him, I still do. But sex was nothing to him, it didn't...
    livelifefully73 livelifefully73 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    So I had sex yesterday

    for the first time in my life. I'm 18 years old. And have lways told myself ide wait till marriage. We'll it didn't happen. Here's the thing. I've been with my first ever bf for the past 6 months. And I love him but I don't think I'm "in love" with him. He does lot of things...
    Babyk14 Babyk14 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    My parents have always told me

    and my brothers that virginity is like a treasure. Boys will do whatever they can to get to the treasure. She always said to take very good care of it. Because once it's gone, it's gone. And there won't be a way to go back. She tells us to wait to marriage because that's how god...
    thelostgirl2013 thelostgirl2013 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I made this pic btw..

    . Love to edit pics and make them my own
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I had been working with this guy at work

    for almost a year we got along very well and always had fun together. As time went on we began hanging out after work, now I knew it was a little strange because he was 25 and married and I was 18 with very little experience with men. After a while he admitted to me that he...
    sadone234 sadone234 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I had been with a guy on

    and off for a long time and even though we sometimes separated we always found ourselves back together. And I loved him. Eventually after being apart for a while he started texting me again saying he loved me and missed me and wanted to be together again, after I started talking...
    bonbonstaten bonbonstaten 16-17, F Nov 2, 2014

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    jenniebaez1992 jenniebaez1992 22-25, F Feb 21

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    What Now????

    My story is not unique. I'm dating this guy, have been for over a year. I'm very much passionately Catholic. Recently we had sex for the first time. I was okay with it. The next day I did not regret it. It's been a week and it finally came crashing down on me. I was not worth...
    Comatose2 Comatose2 16-17 2 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    My Ex ******* boyfriend,

    wasted 3 years with him. I was blind & he's an abuser. I really hope he ends up with an STD.
    SempiternalDream SempiternalDream 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I was fourteen... And I fell in love with him &

    he just wanted sex & nothing more.. I pretended i was ok with it just because I didn't want to lose him..
    golfergirl23 golfergirl23 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2014

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    I met him through a friend, I've heard a lot about it in school, he doesn't go to our school but he lives in our village, he's a well known chav who is a criminal and a druggie...
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    I received a lot of messages after my post of regretting to loose my virginity. Many boosting up my self-steem, some asking for advices but mostly people who are in the same...
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    I want to so bad. I tried, but I was too big to fit ?? I want that one girl....
    Christals2 Christals2 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    I'm nineteen and still haven't lost it I'm the only one of my friends left and I'm thinking it might be time. but I kinda want it to be special..
    gracelessanddumbfounded gracelessanddumbfounded 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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