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I Regret Losing My Virginity To The One I Lost It To

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    I Lost My Virginity To My Cousins Best Friend.

    The night that i lost my virginity my aunt fed me alcahol and pot. There were 5 of us. He led me downstiars. Helped me to the floor. And did it. He knew what he was doing an i didnt. He was 15. I was 13.
    Secretlyhasafetish Secretlyhasafetish 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    i lost my v card when i was 15 to my ex

    boyfreind. i wish i waited until i met my current boyfriend though because hes so much more special to me
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F Apr 4

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    It makes me feel like crap.

    .. He, Makes me feel like crap, Don't get me wrong, I made the choice and everything because it seemed like a good idea, I lost it a few months ago to this guy, Who I've known for ages... I accept that i should have waited but we were both so bored of wondering 'what' what's it...
    GreenLemonade GreenLemonade 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I Dont Care.

    I lost my virginity at age 15 to a 17 yr old.Its the the same f.u.c.k.e.d up story the guy tells the nieve little girl he loves her she thinks that he is different and falls for it the he breaks her <3 .We dated for 2 months it was my first serious relationship.I didnt really...
    smowzow smowzow 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    The Day I Let Go

    I regret losing my virginity.I didn't think i'd ever do it.Boys liked me..but I wasn't that kind of girl ever.But I did.And I regret it,because I don't know the next step.. It all started...last year.I became friends with this boy.I added him on facebook-big mistake. We were...
    NovemberHasCome NovemberHasCome 16-17, F Dec 23, 2012

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    Its true. I do. And i regret leaving her

    for perks from family but she was as painful as them and i couldnt check for change in her when that young.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Feb 25

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    So I had sex yesterday

    for the first time in my life. I'm 18 years old. And have lways told myself ide wait till marriage. We'll it didn't happen. Here's the thing. I've been with my first ever bf for the past 6 months. And I love him but I don't think I'm "in love" with him. He does lot of things...
    Babyk14 Babyk14 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Known Him For 10 Years

    I had known him almost half my life. I used to like him back when I was younger but nothing ever happened back then. Back then he thought girls were gross. Well I hadn't seen him for about a year, he left 6th form and I had stayed on for another year. I bumped into him in the...
    littleRed1992 littleRed1992 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Strangers

    I will never forget the guy who I lost my virginity to. I was 18 years old in my first year of college. I never had a real long term relationship so maybe that is why I never realized how important my virginity was to me. My mindset was "I think I'm the last girl on this campus...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    I thought I loved him,

    I was high, he offered me drugs for sex. he's a drug addict, and it led to is dating for three years on and off. So many terrible things happened in my life because of him, I really wish I waited.
    rainbowphobic rainbowphobic 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I promised myself my first time would be with a

    virgin and it wasn't... I feel so lost... And regretful...
    emileexoxo12 emileexoxo12 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Fell For His Tricks.

    i lost my virginity when i was 14. i was a freshman in highschool. it was a school night. and i snuck out to get it on with some dirty man *****. it all started the summer before my freshman year when i got new next door neighbors. and there happened to be a boy who was my age...
    sweetsydchris sweetsydchris 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Kinda Wish It Wouldn't Have Happened Like That.

    I was drunk, it was late. My first ever house party. My mum thought I was staying with a friend for the night but she was wrong. I'd sneaked out to here. The music was loud, it was a uni party, most people were older than me. They though I was older than 15, they were wrong, so...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2011

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    Only If I Could

    I lost my virginity to a someone who truly didn't deserved it. He was my friend for three years before I lost it to him. I liked him while we were friends but he choose my other friends over me. So he dated them and when it didn't work out hell come back trying to talk to me. I...
    Turnbackhands Turnbackhands 18-21, F 3 Responses May 18, 2012

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    i'm really depressed in lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend like 3 months go and we are no longer together it feels like that was all he wanted from me . Now i cant get over it there's not a day that goes by without me thinking about it i like it's somewhat i soul tie i need some help, advice i'm hurting what should i do.
    pinkypoo33 pinkypoo33 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 24

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    I'm not sure if I should regret it.

    I had a boyfriend I was 17 when we started dating but I told him I wanted to wait until I was 18. I think I was sick of being a virgin and then he happened to walk into my life right when I felt most desperate. When I was 18 it happened that actual moment was well not how I...
    alejandraaaa alejandraaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I Was Stupid

    I was 15, he was my new dads nephew, my step cousin, and he was 8 years older than me. He had been chasing me for 3 years before, wanting nothing but sex. He came over every weekend for 4 years. He molested me a lot. Used my body to ****** by dry humping me. I never complained. I...
    katniss93 katniss93 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Guys Are Stupid

    I remember losing my virginity with the guy I was seeing at the time. Now that I look back I realize he was using me for sex. He was lonely and I had absolutely no sexual experience. I thought we had enough in common, I figured we would blossom into a nice relationship. I guess I...
    Schweed Schweed 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    Be Careful

    Love takes you by surprise, the first time I wasn't ready for love. It just came for me. I was young , I was 14, he was 17 - I felt something with him, like he was my protector and i was his baby, and he would always take care of me, boys know how to talk. I lost my virginity...
    abbywhitaker abbywhitaker 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2, 2010

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    I was fourteen... And I fell in love with him &

    he just wanted sex & nothing more.. I pretended i was ok with it just because I didn't want to lose him..
    golfergirl23 golfergirl23 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I lost my virginity when I was 18.

    I'm not quite sure if I regret losing it to him or not. He was a guy I met last year, the second time I met up with him we had sex when I had only known him for a month. What makes me unsure is that he basically always texted me to see if I was okay and if it's the day after...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 4 Responses May 25

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    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Rubbed Raw And Reeling.

    Not long before my 16th birthday I started dating a 17 year old guy who was in his last year of school. We only went out for three months and in that time he convinced me to do several things I was uncomfortable doing and felt I wasn't ready for. And yet I let him because I was...
    icklelily icklelily 16-17, F Oct 12, 2013

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    The title is self explanatory.

    I'll just jump right into it. I've been in a "relationship" with a guy when I was 14. I thought we loved each other and I thought he loved me but that was a lie. I loved him and I changed everything about me for him. The way I dresses, acted, and talked. Everything. He's done...
    Thephareast Thephareast 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    Ninjaturtlekristen Ninjaturtlekristen 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    What Now????

    My story is not unique. I'm dating this guy, have been for over a year. I'm very much passionately Catholic. Recently we had sex for the first time. I was okay with it. The next day I did not regret it. It's been a week and it finally came crashing down on me. I was not worth...
    Comatose2 Comatose2 16-17 2 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    Ahh. What an amazing group somebody has created.

    I wish i never lost mine full stop. If i could take back one thing in my life, it would be this. Wrong girl, wrong time, wasn't even in love, never been in love. In a perfect world, i would have met my soul mate at 16 years old. Got married, had kids, grown old together and...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 2 Responses May 9

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    My parents have always told me

    and my brothers that virginity is like a treasure. Boys will do whatever they can to get to the treasure. She always said to take very good care of it. Because once it's gone, it's gone. And there won't be a way to go back. She tells us to wait to marriage because that's how god...
    thelostgirl2013 thelostgirl2013 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16. I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us...
    abzry abzry 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Men: how did you lose your virginity? My dad and I never got around to talking about it. I still never lost it and apparently trying to get one of your boys to tell you their...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Dalton. If I had have known he would tell the story on tv of how we lost it I would have never gone near him. The show is watched by like every teenager in Ontario since its MTV...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 2

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    I was 16. My mom would let me have "kegger" parties! (Crazy, I know). I really liked this guy "A" and we made out hardcore! I got really drunk and he wanted to have sex. I said "no...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F Aug 1

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    “Nothing lasts forever, so live it up, drink it down, laugh it off, avoid the drama, take chances and never have regrets because at one point everything you did was exactly what...
    000SadisticBitch000 000SadisticBitch000 26-30, F Jul 31

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    I'm a ****. I'm a *****. I lost my virginity in a bedroom while my parents were next door watching the hunger games. I was 13. I don't really regret it and I've gone on to do a lot...
    anon1100110 anon1100110 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    All my life, Ive been alone. My father killed himself while I was a child, causing my mom into a depression. I was alone at night. Never comforted, never feeling loved or wanted. I...
    JustPlainScared JustPlainScared 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I lost my virginity a few days ago, but felt nothing but pain. I don't know if my body went into shock or something, but all I could feel was him inside me. I was ready, and I...
    Littlepurplecloud Littlepurplecloud 13-15 5 Responses Jul 26

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    I lost my baby august 11 . I was really depressed and in a bad place about even being pregnant for the second time at 16 so that's one factor of how I lost he or she. It was weird...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm a good person, I help every one I can and would never hurt a fly. I was a good student and a amazing friend but life just never dealt me very nice cards. I was barely 14 when I...
    abusedandused abusedandused 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Yeah I lost it a few months ago... I know many ppl feel I was too young but I loved him and still do.. I still talk to him and everything and we are very close but my parents found...
    Mysweetsuicide1357 Mysweetsuicide1357 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Ew ew I know. Okay here's the story. I lost my virginity. I just lost my virginity like 4 hours ago to my boyfriend. He is 14 and I'm 13. Ignore the title^ We thought about it...
    Azndiamond1234 Azndiamond1234 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    I am 18 and tired of waiting! Lately I have just been thinking about losing my virginity. I can't find the right girl. I know I am not the most attractive guy. Just want to lose it...
    justdeath96 justdeath96 18-21, M Jul 24

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    Actually at 13 but idk how to make my own experience so im posting on here. Anyways. I lost my virginity at a party to a guy who was 17 named Dalton. We couldnt do it in the house...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Everything was still new to me in this city. It was my second month and I went out with two friends I had met only a couple of days before. We went to a latin disco to dance some...
    mimelodia mimelodia 26-30 Aug 7

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    Reading everyone else's experiences.... It makes me feel so young. I lost my virginity at 10. To a 14 year old. He was my friend's brother. I was really close with him and we...
    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    Well um it happend last year when i was 14. I am now 15. I was leaving a friend's house around 11, and at the time i didnt think it was a big deal since we lived close to eachother...
    Kylieblazinit Kylieblazinit 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 29

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    I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend who I've been with for two years. We used protection, nothing went wrong. But why do I feel so guilty all the time now? I wanted to wait...
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I'm not sure if I should regret it. I bet I don't because once it was everything I ever wanted, even though it didn't turn out great in the end. He was ten years older than me...
    pnsrstw pnsrstw 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Regretted telling my boyfriend that I will lose my virginity to him. Things happen, and I changed my mind. What do I do
    uniqueresonance uniqueresonance 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    Trey Songz Trigga Album. Trey Songz was the perfect artist to have playing in the background whilst I lost my virginity, his voice is beautiful and his songs so romantic and loving...
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    have you ever felt like you dont know whats going on anymore? like you dont care about anything anymore. youve lost your motivations to do anything. you are confused about your...
    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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