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I Regret Losing My Virginity To The One I Lost It To

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    i lost my v card when i was 15 to my ex

    boyfreind. i wish i waited until i met my current boyfriend though because hes so much more special to me
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F Apr 4

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    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Strangers

    I will never forget the guy who I lost my virginity to. I was 18 years old in my first year of college. I never had a real long term relationship so maybe that is why I never realized how important my virginity was to me. My mindset was "I think I'm the last girl on this campus...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    The title is self explanatory.

    I'll just jump right into it. I've been in a "relationship" with a guy when I was 14. I thought we loved each other and I thought he loved me but that was a lie. I loved him and I changed everything about me for him. The way I dresses, acted, and talked. Everything. He's done...
    Thephareast Thephareast 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    The Day I Let Go

    I regret losing my virginity.I didn't think i'd ever do it.Boys liked me..but I wasn't that kind of girl ever.But I did.And I regret it,because I don't know the next step.. It all started...last year.I became friends with this boy.I added him on facebook-big mistake. We were...
    NovemberHasCome NovemberHasCome 16-17, F Dec 23, 2012

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    I was fourteen... And I fell in love with him &

    he just wanted sex & nothing more.. I pretended i was ok with it just because I didn't want to lose him..
    golfergirl23 golfergirl23 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Kinda Wish It Wouldn't Have Happened Like That.

    I was drunk, it was late. My first ever house party. My mum thought I was staying with a friend for the night but she was wrong. I'd sneaked out to here. The music was loud, it was a uni party, most people were older than me. They though I was older than 15, they were wrong, so...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2011

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    Guys Are Stupid

    I remember losing my virginity with the guy I was seeing at the time. Now that I look back I realize he was using me for sex. He was lonely and I had absolutely no sexual experience. I thought we had enough in common, I figured we would blossom into a nice relationship. I guess I...
    Schweed Schweed 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    It makes me feel like crap.

    .. He, Makes me feel like crap, Don't get me wrong, I made the choice and everything because it seemed like a good idea, I lost it a few months ago to this guy, Who I've known for ages... I accept that i should have waited but we were both so bored of wondering 'what' what's it...
    GreenLemonade GreenLemonade 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Ninjaturtlekristen Ninjaturtlekristen 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Rubbed Raw And Reeling.

    Not long before my 16th birthday I started dating a 17 year old guy who was in his last year of school. We only went out for three months and in that time he convinced me to do several things I was uncomfortable doing and felt I wasn't ready for. And yet I let him because I was...
    icklelily icklelily 16-17, F Oct 12, 2013

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    So I had sex yesterday

    for the first time in my life. I'm 18 years old. And have lways told myself ide wait till marriage. We'll it didn't happen. Here's the thing. I've been with my first ever bf for the past 6 months. And I love him but I don't think I'm "in love" with him. He does lot of things...
    Babyk14 Babyk14 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    My parents have always told me

    and my brothers that virginity is like a treasure. Boys will do whatever they can to get to the treasure. She always said to take very good care of it. Because once it's gone, it's gone. And there won't be a way to go back. She tells us to wait to marriage because that's how god...
    thelostgirl2013 thelostgirl2013 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I thought I loved him,

    I was high, he offered me drugs for sex. he's a drug addict, and it led to is dating for three years on and off. So many terrible things happened in my life because of him, I really wish I waited.
    rainbowphobic rainbowphobic 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Its true. I do. And i regret leaving her

    for perks from family but she was as painful as them and i couldnt check for change in her when that young.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Feb 25

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    Known Him For 10 Years

    I had known him almost half my life. I used to like him back when I was younger but nothing ever happened back then. Back then he thought girls were gross. Well I hadn't seen him for about a year, he left 6th form and I had stayed on for another year. I bumped into him in the...
    littleRed1992 littleRed1992 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I lost my virginity when I was 18.

    I'm not quite sure if I regret losing it to him or not. He was a guy I met last year, the second time I met up with him we had sex when I had only known him for a month. What makes me unsure is that he basically always texted me to see if I was okay and if it's the day after...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 4 Responses May 25

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    What Now????

    My story is not unique. I'm dating this guy, have been for over a year. I'm very much passionately Catholic. Recently we had sex for the first time. I was okay with it. The next day I did not regret it. It's been a week and it finally came crashing down on me. I was not worth...
    Comatose2 Comatose2 16-17 2 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    I Dont Care.

    I lost my virginity at age 15 to a 17 yr old.Its the the same f.u.c.k.e.d up story the guy tells the nieve little girl he loves her she thinks that he is different and falls for it the he breaks her <3 .We dated for 2 months it was my first serious relationship.I didnt really...
    smowzow smowzow 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Fell For His Tricks.

    i lost my virginity when i was 14. i was a freshman in highschool. it was a school night. and i snuck out to get it on with some dirty man *****. it all started the summer before my freshman year when i got new next door neighbors. and there happened to be a boy who was my age...
    sweetsydchris sweetsydchris 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I promised myself my first time would be with a

    virgin and it wasn't... I feel so lost... And regretful...
    emileexoxo12 emileexoxo12 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I Was Stupid

    I was 15, he was my new dads nephew, my step cousin, and he was 8 years older than me. He had been chasing me for 3 years before, wanting nothing but sex. He came over every weekend for 4 years. He molested me a lot. Used my body to ****** by dry humping me. I never complained. I...
    katniss93 katniss93 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Be Careful

    Love takes you by surprise, the first time I wasn't ready for love. It just came for me. I was young , I was 14, he was 17 - I felt something with him, like he was my protector and i was his baby, and he would always take care of me, boys know how to talk. I lost my virginity...
    abbywhitaker abbywhitaker 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2, 2010

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    Only If I Could

    I lost my virginity to a someone who truly didn't deserved it. He was my friend for three years before I lost it to him. I liked him while we were friends but he choose my other friends over me. So he dated them and when it didn't work out hell come back trying to talk to me. I...
    Turnbackhands Turnbackhands 18-21, F 3 Responses May 18, 2012

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    I Lost My Virginity To My Cousins Best Friend.

    The night that i lost my virginity my aunt fed me alcahol and pot. There were 5 of us. He led me downstiars. Helped me to the floor. And did it. He knew what he was doing an i didnt. He was 15. I was 13.
    Secretlyhasafetish Secretlyhasafetish 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    I'm not sure if I should regret it.

    I had a boyfriend I was 17 when we started dating but I told him I wanted to wait until I was 18. I think I was sick of being a virgin and then he happened to walk into my life right when I felt most desperate. When I was 18 it happened that actual moment was well not how I...
    alejandraaaa alejandraaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    i'm really depressed in lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend like 3 months go and we are no longer together it feels like that was all he wanted from me . Now i cant get over it there's not a day that goes by without me thinking about it i like it's somewhat i soul tie i need some help, advice i'm hurting what should i do.
    pinkypoo33 pinkypoo33 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 24

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    Ahh. What an amazing group somebody has created.

    I wish i never lost mine full stop. If i could take back one thing in my life, it would be this. Wrong girl, wrong time, wasn't even in love, never been in love. In a perfect world, i would have met my soul mate at 16 years old. Got married, had kids, grown old together and...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 2 Responses May 9

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    I'm 15 now and lost my virginity a month before my 15th birthday with my then boyfriend, who was almost 17 and also a virgin. We'd been together almost 2 months, but it felt like...
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    Yup. At 16 I decided I wanted to expand my sexual horizons and chose to lose my virginity to the guy I had been saying for a month. He was a poor choice; treated me terribly and...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am so lost I just need help. I am 15 years old. Two night's ago I had a sleepover with my friend who has an older brother. We go to her house from a party where we both had...
    lifeofateenager520 lifeofateenager520 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 8

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    Just read this on someone's blog and it's so true .. "Defining virginity ultimately has to be an individual journey. From a personal perspective I prefer to say that I was raped as...
    demie18 demie18 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I was 11, it was to some boy from the neighborhood, I had done sexual stuff before this age but that was the first time I had actual intercourse, I guess I was just sexually...
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 31

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    I was 14, it was with a family friend. I turned 15 the next day but I didn't realize at the time how young I was. I regret it so much. He's now my god brother and I can't look at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I am tired of falling for guys who don't feel the same in the end. i don't even know why i try anymore, it is truly absurd how much i think that one guy will work out and then it...
    MGray1663 MGray1663 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Trey Songz Trigga Album. Trey Songz was the perfect artist to have playing in the background whilst I lost my virginity, his voice is beautiful and his songs so romantic and loving...
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I lost my virginity 3 years ago, to this beautiful blonde girl.. We dated for a little over 2 years, but she ended up moving
    imthemannn imthemannn 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Tonight I am worried I have lost my best friend. I have been best friends with him for many years and I am so upset with myself for pushing him to the point of being angry with me...
    aimeejane17 aimeejane17 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    It is actually a funny tale. I don't remember his name, what he look life, or what we talked about. I was simply a very curious 14-year-old. I was very curious as to what sex was...
    perilousindenvers perilousindenvers 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    how do i start this off? its so sad..ugh..okay i lost my virginity to a 20 year old when i was 13 now i just turned 14 we met on instagram,i liked him ALOT...he asked me out...
    ImOkayDude ImOkayDude 22-25, F Sep 8

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    I'm 17 and everyone around me has lost their virginity so why haven't I?
    Dane2015 Dane2015 16-17, M 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    1997........when I was 19 I lost my Mum to cancer, I was just about to start my A Level finals and head off to Uni when she was diagnosed with lung cancer but then died 3 days...
    aronpaul8778 aronpaul8778 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I dreamt of being a mom as far back as I can remember. My dad had decided I was going to college and I was going, but I wanted to be a mom too.I can remember that I wanted twins. A...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 16 Responses Sep 2

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    4.5 yrs ago my husband of 12 yrs left me and our 3 kids for another woman. It was New Yrs and as I sat at home with our then 6 yr old daughter and 9 mo. Old twin boys I received a...
    strongerbytheday strongerbytheday 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I'm 24. He's 38. A wife. Two kids. One is two. The other a year almost. He's my co-worker. We share an office together. The first time i saw him, time slowed. His marriage was in...
    lostemt lostemt 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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