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I Regret Losing My Virginity

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    At First I thought that if he did not know I was a virgin I would never regret it. But now after 4 years I feel like it was the worst thing I could ever decide. I feel totally...
    nevernotgoodenough nevernotgoodenough 18-21, F Feb 8

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    The Tech Closet - NOTE: names have been changed to protect the privacy of those involved. so, i wad 16. he was too. he had dated for 6 months, had been broken up for 4 months by...
    abittobright abittobright 18-21, F Oct 16, 2013

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    I was 26 when I lost mine to an older women who we worked together and were friends with she was 39. I regret in in the since that we were both battling depression and she was the...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    Mistake - I was 18. It was with my ex boyfriend. we had broken up about two years before i lost my virginity to him. my parents were out of town, so i told him to come over and...
    marcyed marcyed 18-21, F 19 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    I was so young, around 11 or 13.I had no idea what I was doing, except that it felt good and I wanted him to like me.I was still a kid practically, didn't know about ***** or...
    Tutuita Tutuita 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    So Much For My Happy Ending - he tells you all the things you hope in your mind will come true your relationship is moving to fast without u even knowing it kissing before 3 weeks...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2013

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    He texted at 2am "If you don't do it then I know for sure you don't love me." So around 3 I snuck out to meet him in our special place. Now were through and he already has...
    Itshaley006 Itshaley006 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Worst, New-age Cliche Loss Of Virginity, Ever. - I lost my virginity ten days before my sixteenth birthday, to a college guy that I had added to my facebook the night before. He...
    silvra silvra 18-21 8 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    After Sex, He Told Me "It Was Nice Doing Business With You" - Me and my bf were dating for a year and we had never had sex. I knew in the future I wanted to have sex, I...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Wrong Place, Wrong Time, Wrong Boy. - It was the worst idea I've ever had, probably. Somehow my best friend's boyfriend managed to convince me that it was me he had loved all along...
    possibly possibly 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    80% No 20% Yes - He had agreed to take me to the bookstore because I didn't have my liscense yet. I was 18. we were driving when I suddenly noticed that this wasn't the way to...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    Regret Everything About Everything - I lost my virginity when I was 16 years old to my boyfriend of only 2 months. Only reason was because my best friend had lost hers and for some...
    Troubleeeed Troubleeeed 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    For me, I got drunk and could never remember whether it had happened or not, so I don't even know. I wish I hadn't been so drunk so I could have at least known and remembered...
    SmileBecauseItHappened SmileBecauseItHappened 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I lost my virginity 2 days ago actually. Kissing lead to one thing. He stopped and said. I don't want to rush things just play. And I said okay. I didn't realize what was happening...
    kashaleea kashaleea 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I think that this was this year in early May or late April when I lost my virginity and I regret the person I lost it to like not because she was ugly or anything but because of...
    NoExcuses1169 NoExcuses1169 13-15, M Dec 11, 2013

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    Damaged Goods - I googled “ I regret losing my virginity” in an attempt to find some sort of comfort or asylum. I found this forum and it seems as though this could...
    g5yv5bo5dw g5yv5bo5dw 16-17 8 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    You Stole My Virginity Now Give It Back. - I do not see myself as a ****, even though I have girls call me one very often. I do not know whether it is because they are jealous of...
    tutu8932 tutu8932 16-17 2 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    I Regret Losing My Virginity - * = Name has been changedI was just 14, and far from ready, when I lost my v-card. My advice to young girls who are thinking about it? Don't. Unless...
    sadteens sadteens 22-25, F Nov 17, 2013

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    Some Days I Regret It, Others I Don't. - When I was a mere 15 years old, I thought I was in love with the man of my dreams. He was tall, dark, handsome, and significantly older...
    sociallyawkward3 sociallyawkward3 18-21, F Jul 5, 2013

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    I lost my virginity at 18. I remember the summer of 2006 (going to my senior year in high school). I met him on myspace and he lived like 15 minutes away from me. He drove to my...
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    I Do - I truly wish I would have listened to my parents, my friends, my family, and anyone that has ever told me to wait. I think I lost my virginity at a very young age and I...
    shellzz shellzz 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    By Heart, I Regret Loosing My Virginity - I'm 15 years old, and before loosing my virginity i was so closed-minded on the fact that I will loose it when I get married. I always...
    softkitty15 softkitty15 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I Need Advice! ;(.. Im So Ashamed And Hurt - I know this is long, but please bare with me.. thank you.. During high school I was addicted to playstation 3, i used to play online...
    emotional1990 emotional1990 18-21, M 17 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    This is probably quite shocking to read because of the age d
    theweirddreamer theweirddreamer 13-15, F Jan 18

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    Take It Back. - I was around 15 i do believe. I didnt plan for it to happen, i was drinking and the kid was completely sober. It was only my second time ever drinking also. I...
    hailey6547 hailey6547 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    My parents have always told me and my brothers that virginity is like a treasure. Boys will do whatever they can to get to the treasure. She always said to take very good care of...
    thelostgirl2013 thelostgirl2013 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I Wish I Had Waited Longer... - I had sex for the first time when I was 21 (I'm 23 now). It was with my ex-boyfriend who I loved, so what's the problem, right? But I regret it. I...
    Katiew567 Katiew567 22-25 5 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    It was a group of 4 of us driving around at 4:30 in the morning. Doesn't this already sound like a good start to this story... Well, I had met (his fake name is going to be Jason...
    rainortears rainortears 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    I was with a guy 3 year older than me for 2 years (17-18) we would be on and off cause of my parents the point is that both of us decided to break it off cause we didt see a future...
    thegirlwithdarksecrests thegirlwithdarksecrests 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    45% virgin.. - First off I was the only person in our group of friends who hadn't had sex yet. I was a 20yr old virgin & just got tired of waiting. Peer pressure is really a son of...
    kierraloves kierraloves 22-25, F 3 Responses May 16, 2013

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    Lost Virginity Lost My Child. - I regret losing my virginity because 1 i wasn't truly ready and 2 i ended up getting pregnant , the father didn't believe me and after finding out i...
    ImSimplyJustMe ImSimplyJustMe 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    Saying I regret it is an understatement. I hate myself for it and I feel like I am less a person. I lost my virginity when i was young to a guy I thought loved me and now I realize...
    introvert93 introvert93 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    What Was I Thinking - It was the end of the eighth grade and the beginning of 2013 summer I was dating this guy Ryan I had been with him for 2 months we decided it was a good time...
    Brishay Brishay 18-21, F Sep 7, 2013

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    okay.. I didn't know where to put this but I have to get it out since it made me really sad.. and I don't know if I am overreacting... I don't quite regret it because i love him...
    sahikat sahikat 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Regret It So Much - I was fifteen, a little bit drunk, and lost it to a guy a year ilder than me, who I'd met that same night. I lost it on my friends couch, and we both got...
    Ellinna Ellinna 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    I Wish I Had Saved It For Someone Else... - Well, it was last February. I had a second date with someone that I had been crushing on for several months, I was absolutely crazy...
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I Became "that Girl" - For years my Mom told me to hold onto my virginity, don't just throw it away. I decided early on that while I did not think I would wait until...
    brokenbutterflyxo brokenbutterflyxo 22-25 4 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    He Made My New Year Hell. - It was my first New Year's at a party, my junior year of high school. This guy was checking me out, and I got so excited. I had my first New Year's...
    smileforme95 smileforme95 16-17 Jan 5, 2013

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    Manipulated- My Virginity Gone Forever - I went on holiday to italy with my friend, not with the intention of having sex- i was totally against it and really wanted to wait until i...
    evie96 evie96 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    Girls, With V-cards Intact. Listen! - My friends all did it. We were 16, and heavily in the party scene. In order to keep my ego intact and to keep up in conversation with these...
    daaytripper daaytripper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    I regret losing mine because I didn't realize what it was worth. It's only looking back that I realize how valuable virginity is, it's not that saving it for marriage was my plan...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    So Much Pain. - I'm a Christian, I've been raised a Christian in a crazy household, and in Christianity, your supposed to wait until your married to have sex. I didn't wait, and I...
    Bloomingflower1616 Bloomingflower1616 16-17, F 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    I regret it. I'm 18. I always said I wanted to wait until after I graduated high school & at least was 18. I felt like a Unicorn. like I was different and pure. I now cry everyday...
    PrettyPisces PrettyPisces 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    My story is simple, really. Girl meets boy. Girl falls head over heels for boy. Boy uses girl. Girl doesn't realize. Boy takes it too far. Boy takes it really too far. Girl feels...
    betsylou428 betsylou428 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I am not a virgin. Although I so wish I was. It's true, you should wait. I think I will always be attached to him. But I have to look forward.
    HeatherHB HeatherHB 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Wanted To Be Wanted - So I just turned 19 and I have never had a boyfriend or anything close, never even been kissed...until I met A.J. He met me and my best friend the end of last...
    BeccaBooBaby BeccaBooBaby 18-21 6 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Sexual Abuse And Virginity - When you've been sexually abused by a trusted person, the victim typically has one of two reactions; either they become non-sexual or they become...
    akasolia akasolia 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    Cherries - I regret losing my virginity in the schools boys bathroom at thirteen So innocent I didn’t’ know it was suppose to hurt I didn’t know I would bleed an ocean I...
    OneMovieStar OneMovieStar 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    When I was 13 I got drunk for the first time and had sex with two different guys in one night.
    ravergirl97 ravergirl97 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Think Twice - My name is May, and i do regret how i lost my virginity. I never been asked out before in my life, and i really never cared to ever have a boyfriend, or the problems...
    silvermoonwolf12 silvermoonwolf12 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2013

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    i lost my v card when i was 15 to my ex boyfreind. i wish i waited until i met my current boyfriend though because hes so much more special to me
    bongripper1 bongripper1 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    To a girl at 14, was with her for 6 years and wasted my childhood, had it's good moments but wished I had the people in my life now back then
    Cass19 Cass19 22-25, M Apr 4