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I Regret Losing My Virginity

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    I regret losing mine

    because I didn't realize what it was worth. It's only looking back that I realize how valuable virginity is, it's not that saving it for marriage was my plan, but to waste it on someone who spent the better part of our relationship verbally and emotionally abusing me is my...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    Manipulated- My Virginity Gone Forever

    I went on holiday to italy with my friend, not with the intention of having sex- i was totally against it and really wanted to wait until i got married... and then i met him. He seemed so lovely, so smart and he was so attractive. He told me how pretty i was, how special and how...
    evie96 evie96 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    Honestly, I'm still contemplating

    if I regret it or not. About 6 months ago I met a guy who I was interested in, and I'm still dating him now. The third time I met him it was my senior prom night...let's just say I didn't go to prom bc he was a year older and I got in trouble at school. That night was the first...
    Ronih03 Ronih03 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    After Sex, He Told Me "It Was Nice Doing Business With You"

    Me and my bf were dating for a year and we had never had sex. I knew in the future I wanted to have sex, I just wasn't ready at the time. I had recently been readmitted into my old college upstate and I guess once he knew that he wanted to get in my pants before I went away. He...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 14 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I Wish I Had Saved It For Someone Else...

    Well, it was last February. I had a second date with someone that I had been crushing on for several months, I was absolutely crazy about him. We spent the night cuddling and kissing until I finally decided to give in to his strong desire to have sex with me. The sex lasted for...
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    For me, I got drunk and could never remember

    whether it had happened or not, so I don't even know. I wish I hadn't been so drunk so I could have at least known and remembered, hopefully with someone I loved.
    SmileBecauseItHappened SmileBecauseItHappened 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    It was right after summer had ended

    and we had broken up I missed him so much I was at a small party he had happen to be at too. I was talking to this other guy not because I liked him but because he listened. This guy was hitting on me but I knew he had a girl so I didn't respond I went and layed down on the...
    breakingfree17 breakingfree17 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

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    Crying Before I Ever Touched Him

    I don't even remeber how this happened exactly. I was crying on his bed, over my ex, who I had cheated on with him. Maybe It wasn't ment to be, but I only felt like it was a mistake. I was only in 9th grade, while the boy who sat next to me was in 12th. I was crying because of...
    NovakStar NovakStar 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1, 2011

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    I Need Advice! ;(.. Im So Ashamed And Hurt

    I know this is long, but please bare with me.. thank you.. During high school I was addicted to playstation 3, i used to play online all the time, and after awhile i found out i could chat with other people, so i would chat with girls, and eventually i began talkin to many girls...
    emotional1990 emotional1990 18-21, M 17 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Yes I like sex, but I've been really thinking

    about it and you know...why am I having sex? I want it to be for the one I will call my husband...but I've already ruined that...I am really ashamed of the fact that I have had sex now...
    WhiskyLulubyBlonde123 WhiskyLulubyBlonde123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Damaged Goods

    I googled “ I regret losing my virginity” in an attempt to find some sort of comfort or asylum. I found this forum and it seems as though this could be a way to help heal the wounds I tore open by being so stupid. Many of the stories have helped me, so I think I'll...
    g5yv5bo5dw g5yv5bo5dw 16-17 8 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    At First I thought that

    if he did not know I was a virgin I would never regret it. But now after 4 years I feel like it was the worst thing I could ever decide. I feel totally disapointment and depressed beacuse it didn't happend with someone I loved and it wasn't special at all.
    nevernotgoodenough nevernotgoodenough 18-21, F Feb 8

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    I was with a guy 3 year older

    than me for 2 years (17-18) we would be on and off cause of my parents the point is that both of us decided to break it off cause we didt see a future together because our religious belief and my parents and stuff was just to complicated. We ended in good terms and still saw...
    thegirlwithdarksecrests thegirlwithdarksecrests 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16.

    I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us texting. We'd hung out a few times before it happened and he mentioned sex often, knowing I was a virgin and he was not. My friends are very close...
    abzry abzry 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I Wish I Had Waited Longer...

    I had sex for the first time when I was 21 (I'm 23 now). It was with my ex-boyfriend who I loved, so what's the problem, right? But I regret it. I feel used. I thought I was ready but I wasn't. I wish I had waited for the person I'm going to marry. I'm afraid that my sexual...
    Katiew567 Katiew567 22-25 4 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    I was 16. My mom would let me have "kegger"

    parties! (Crazy, I know). I really liked this guy "A" and we made out hardcore! I got really drunk and he wanted to have sex. I said "no" and we were standing in the kitchen along with his guy friends- and I said "I made a vow to not lose it till I am married!" Well that was...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F Aug 1

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    I lost my virginty when I was 15 to a guy I had

    been seeing for about 3 days. By the third date he asked if we could have sex. I was shocked that he wanted sex so early in the realtionship. I was really insecure back then and I wanted someone to love me so I said yes. The night before it was supposed to happen we were texting...
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    My complacency ironically took away my

    innocence. As a child, I never really said "no"--and I felt as if it carried into my young adult years--except relationships. I've been picky. But I let myself slip. I became depressed. I lost close friends--physically, mentally. I started slitting my wrists. I think I wanted...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 56-60, M May 15

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    I came to this forum specifically to share this

    story. I am too embarrassed to share this with anyone and needed to get my thoughts out somewhere. I am 19 years old and lost my virginity four days ago. I was at a bar when I spotted a guy I had had a crush on all year. We both live in the same dorm and have mutual friends, but...
    brunettebomshell brunettebomshell 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I took 10 pills of Valium,

    ended up in a+e and got told I had depression (val side effect). met this boy I met from a party the next night and he took my virginity when I was so so so drunk. he doesn't even talk to me anymore
    minmins07 minmins07 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    It was a group of 4 of us driving around at

    4:30 in the morning. Doesn't this already sound like a good start to this story... Well, I had met (his fake name is going to be Jason) Jason once before, and immediately, I had a connection with him. Maybe it was because he was older, had tattoos, and lived on his own, but I...
    rainortears rainortears 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    I lost my virginity at age 12.

    I was not raped, I could've said no, but I didn't. He was 14, and he sorta pushed it on me. At first he just wanted me to give him head. I refused. I wasn't turned on at all. So I gave him a chance to turn me on. If he did id give him head. While he was trying to turn me on we...
    WhatIsLifeWithoutPizza WhatIsLifeWithoutPizza 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Some Days I Regret It, Others I Don't.

    When I was a mere 15 years old, I thought I was in love with the man of my dreams. He was tall, dark, handsome, and significantly older than me. (At least for the age group I was in.) I thought losing my virginity to him would mean that he would always be there for me...and I...
    sociallyawkward3 sociallyawkward3 18-21, F Jul 5, 2013

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    I Do

    I truly wish I would have listened to my parents, my friends, my family, and anyone that has ever told me to wait. I think I lost my virginity at a very young age and I truly believe I was not ready. I wish I would have waited for that 'special someone'. I am now with someone I...
    shellzz shellzz 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    I Became "that Girl"

    For years my Mom told me to hold onto my virginity, don't just throw it away. I decided early on that while I did not think I would wait until marriage, I wanted my first time to be with someone I cared about. Well I met this guy and realized right away that I had feelings for...
    brokenbutterflyxo brokenbutterflyxo 22-25 4 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    When I was 13 I got drunk

    for the first time and had sex with two different guys in one night.
    ravergirl97 ravergirl97 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Girls, With V-cards Intact. Listen!

    My friends all did it. We were 16, and heavily in the party scene. In order to keep my ego intact and to keep up in conversation with these 'friends', I gave it to the first guy I saw at a party. It was drunkenly, messily, sloppily done. I ended up being the 'story' of the night...
    daaytripper daaytripper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    You Stole My Virginity Now Give It Back.

    I do not see myself as a ****, even though I have girls call me one very often. I do not know whether it is because they are jealous of the guy I lost my virginity too or because they do not understand the meaning of the word. I just wanted to experience different things. The...
    tutu8932 tutu8932 16-17 2 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Dalton. If I had have known he would tell the

    story on tv of how we lost it I would have never gone near him. The show is watched by like every teenager in Ontario since its MTV and my friend who was also on the show posted the video on youtube for dalton telling the awkward story. The whole town has seen it any everone...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 2

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    He Made My New Year Hell.

    It was my first New Year's at a party, my junior year of high school. This guy was checking me out, and I got so excited. I had my first New Year's kiss, and everything seemed perfect. Less than a week later, we all had another party, and that's when it happened. No one else...
    smileforme95 smileforme95 16-17 Jan 5, 2013

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    Wrong Place, Wrong Time, Wrong Boy.

    It was the worst idea I've ever had, probably. Somehow my best friend's boyfriend managed to convince me that it was me he had loved all along. And who was I to deny it? It hurt so badly, watching them together, when I loved him so much. So I believed him. On the afternoon of...
    possibly possibly 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    I loved this guy we were off

    and on for 1 year and a half I loved him with every breathe I had, but he left me right after taking everything I had and never came back..
    breakingfree17 breakingfree17 16-17, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I lost my virginity 2 days ago actually.

    Kissing lead to one thing. He stopped and said. I don't want to rush things just play. And I said okay. I didn't realize what was happening, cause I didn't know how it felt. I soon felt a push. It was in. I regret it so much. Wasn't the right person at all. I was saving it for...
    kashaleea kashaleea 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    theweirddreamer theweirddreamer 16-17, F Jan 18

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    Mistake

    I was 18. It was with my ex boyfriend. we had broken up about two years before i lost my virginity to him. my parents were out of town, so i told him to come over and hang out for a bit. He ended up staying the night and after a few drinks, we decided to do it. we both still had...
    marcyed marcyed 18-21, F 19 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    I just regret giving it to him

    because he turned out to be a loser. He used me for sex...and then proceeded to cheat on me in the sidelines. Can't say I wasn't surprised when he told me, though. If anything...I think I laughed.
    Imaginarionify Imaginarionify 22-25, F May 7

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    I really do regret loosing my virginity

    and it really does hurt me i feel stupid y well this is my story i lost my virginity to my 18 year old bf after 8 months of dating but the worst part is that he dosent even beleive i was a virgen he claims that am telling him that I was a virgen to tie him down when am really...
    lisbeth1234 lisbeth1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    Wanted To Be Wanted

    So I just turned 19 and I have never had a boyfriend or anything close, never even been kissed...until I met A.J. He met me and my best friend the end of last year and we all hung out as friends and he was so funny and nice and actually noticed me. He was really into my best...
    BeccaBooBaby BeccaBooBaby 18-21 6 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    im 17 and i lost my virginity like 2 days ago

    to the guy who is 17 as well. we have known each other for like a week or something. i found him handsome the second i saw him and wanted to have sex with him like right away. now when i look back i think it was definitely not the best decision. i know he doesn't have any...
    naomizz naomizz 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 1

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    I was 16, at a party,

    we were at a friends house (which was a guy) and some other people there had been drinking so we just decided to have a big sleepover, considering it was already 1 or 2 AM, we had played spin the bottle, truth or dare, never have I ever etc, I asked if I could sleep in the guest...
    rainbowmuffins rainbowmuffins 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    45% virgin..

    First off I was the only person in our group of friends who hadn't had sex yet. I was a 20yr old virgin & just got tired of waiting. Peer pressure is really a son of a gun especially when everybody is younger than you. They would sit around & talk about stuff and say "you wouldn...
    kierraloves kierraloves 22-25, F 3 Responses May 16, 2013

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    Ignorance is bliss. Haha.

    If only we could put the genie back in the bottle...
    ItMayBeShort ItMayBeShort 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 11

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    Worst, New-age Cliche Loss Of Virginity, Ever.

    I lost my virginity ten days before my sixteenth birthday, to a college guy that I had added to my facebook the night before. He had graduated from my highschool the year before, and i added him without really knowing who he was. He ended up talking to me on facebook chat and we...
    silvra silvra 18-21 14 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    I 'm 17 now, but 8 months ago I had sex with a

    guy a little bit younger than me. I regret it because one by one he's telling people. I know I made a mistake because I didn't like him. I made a stupid choice, but that doesn't mean I'm a stupid person. My friends keep downing me and calling me stupid because I slept with him...
    Stresser0987 Stresser0987 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 2

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    So Much For My Happy Ending

    he tells you all the things you hope in your mind will come true your relationship is moving to fast without u even knowing it kissing before 3 weeks into your commitment sharing things no one knows about you not even your bestfriend it starts to get intense and the emotions and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 12, 2013

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    Take It Back.

    I was around 15 i do believe. I didnt plan for it to happen, i was drinking and the kid was completely sober. It was only my second time ever drinking also. I remember telling him no, no no! and he didnt listen to me. I cant blame him though, i was drinking. After that...i just...
    hailey6547 hailey6547 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    I am not a virgin. Although I

    so wish I was. It's true, you should wait. I think I will always be attached to him. But I have to look forward.
    HeatherHB HeatherHB 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Saying I regret it is an understatement.

    I hate myself for it and I feel like I am less a person. I lost my virginity when i was young to a guy I thought loved me and now I realize I didn't love him at all, I was just another naive and stupid girl who didn't know boy tricks. Growing up parents will always tell you...
    introvert93 introvert93 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I lost my virginity when I was 13.

    It was stupid and i regret it a lot. I was on holiday in Greece, I'd always been the fat kid that everyone felt sorry for, but around the age of 12 I got proper boobs and got a bit slimmer and older guys seemed to like that. There was a boy in the hotel I stayed at, he was 16...
    emlay emlay 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    So Much Pain.

    I'm a Christian, I've been raised a Christian in a crazy household, and in Christianity, your supposed to wait until your married to have sex. I didn't wait, and I regret it, at least, how it went. Not who it was with. All throughout my life, no boys liked me, it was like I was...
    Bloomingflower1616 Bloomingflower1616 16-17, F 2 Responses May 17, 2013

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    My story is simple, really.

    Girl meets boy. Girl falls head over heels for boy. Boy uses girl. Girl doesn't realize. Boy takes it too far. Boy takes it really too far. Girl feels worthless. It's a story everyone has probably heard over and over again but I don't know how to cope with it anymore. I lost my...
    betsylou428 betsylou428 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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