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I Regret Losing My Virginity

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    My parents have always told me

    and my brothers that virginity is like a treasure. Boys will do whatever they can to get to the treasure. She always said to take very good care of it. Because once it's gone, it's gone. And there won't be a way to go back. She tells us to wait to marriage because that's how god...
    thelostgirl2013 thelostgirl2013 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Worst, New-age Cliche Loss Of Virginity, Ever.

    I lost my virginity ten days before my sixteenth birthday, to a college guy that I had added to my facebook the night before. He had graduated from my highschool the year before, and i added him without really knowing who he was. He ended up talking to me on facebook chat and we...
    silvra silvra 18-21 8 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    okay.. I didn't know

    where to put this but I have to get it out since it made me really sad.. and I don't know if I am overreacting... I don't quite regret it because i love him but i don't like how it went... It's about my boyfriend and me...(and my first time having sex..) well I didnt really...
    sahikat sahikat 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    I was 26 when I lost mine to an older women

    who we worked together and were friends with she was 39. I regret in in the since that we were both battling depression and she was the first "WOMEN" I have been with, but it just didn't feel or seem right after we had sex. You will know if it is the right person, I'm waiting...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    After Sex, He Told Me "It Was Nice Doing Business With You"

    Me and my bf were dating for a year and we had never had sex. I knew in the future I wanted to have sex, I just wasn't ready at the time. I had recently been readmitted into my old college upstate and I guess once he knew that he wanted to get in my pants before I went away. He...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I regret it. I'm 18. I always said I wanted to

    wait until after I graduated high school & at least was 18. I felt like a Unicorn. like I was different and pure. I now cry everyday. Every night. I feel damaged. i feel wrecked. i feel worthless. I started talking to this boy who was 17. He wasn't my type but I gave him a...
    PrettyPisces PrettyPisces 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    theweirddreamer theweirddreamer 13-15, F Jan 18

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    Damaged Goods

    I googled “ I regret losing my virginity” in an attempt to find some sort of comfort or asylum. I found this forum and it seems as though this could be a way to help heal the wounds I tore open by being so stupid. Many of the stories have helped me, so I think I'll...
    g5yv5bo5dw g5yv5bo5dw 16-17 8 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    Wrong Place, Wrong Time, Wrong Boy.

    It was the worst idea I've ever had, probably. Somehow my best friend's boyfriend managed to convince me that it was me he had loved all along. And who was I to deny it? It hurt so badly, watching them together, when I loved him so much. So I believed him. On the afternoon of...
    possibly possibly 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    80% No 20% Yes

    He had agreed to take me to the bookstore because I didn't have my liscense yet. I was 18. we were driving when I suddenly noticed that this wasn't the way to the bookstore. I asked him why we weren't going and he said, "I have to have you NOW." I had made him wait...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    Sexual Abuse And Virginity

    When you've been sexually abused by a trusted person, the victim typically has one of two reactions; either they become non-sexual or they become promiscuous. I was never 'promiscuous', I was with more men than I wish I had been with though. It was for a good cause though. I was...
    akasolia akasolia 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    I Regret Losing My Virginity

    * = Name has been changedI was just 14, and far from ready, when I lost my v-card. My advice to young girls who are thinking about it? Don't. Unless you know for sure, just don't. I regretted it immediately (literally), and then the next day, and then for the rest of my life. 14...
    sadteens sadteens 22-25, F Nov 17, 2013

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    My story is simple, really.

    Girl meets boy. Girl falls head over heels for boy. Boy uses girl. Girl doesn't realize. Boy takes it too far. Boy takes it really too far. Girl feels worthless. It's a story everyone has probably heard over and over again but I don't know how to cope with it anymore. I lost my...
    betsylou428 betsylou428 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I lost my virginity 2 days ago actually.

    Kissing lead to one thing. He stopped and said. I don't want to rush things just play. And I said okay. I didn't realize what was happening, cause I didn't know how it felt. I soon felt a push. It was in. I regret it so much. Wasn't the right person at all. I was saving it for...
    kashaleea kashaleea 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I Need Advice! ;(.. Im So Ashamed And Hurt

    I know this is long, but please bare with me.. thank you.. During high school I was addicted to playstation 3, i used to play online all the time, and after awhile i found out i could chat with other people, so i would chat with girls, and eventually i began talkin to many girls...
    emotional1990 emotional1990 18-21, M 17 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    45% virgin..

    First off I was the only person in our group of friends who hadn't had sex yet. I was a 20yr old virgin & just got tired of waiting. Peer pressure is really a son of a gun especially when everybody is younger than you. They would sit around & talk about stuff and say "you wouldn...
    kierraloves kierraloves 22-25, F 3 Responses May 16, 2013

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    By Heart, I Regret Loosing My Virginity

    I'm 15 years old, and before loosing my virginity i was so closed-minded on the fact that I will loose it when I get married. I always have though that virginity, especially in girls is like a treasure, something that makes you valuable, so worthfull, intelligent, unique and more...
    softkitty15 softkitty15 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I regret losing mine

    because I didn't realize what it was worth. It's only looking back that I realize how valuable virginity is, it's not that saving it for marriage was my plan, but to waste it on someone who spent the better part of our relationship verbally and emotionally abusing me is my...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    Saying I regret it is an understatement.

    I hate myself for it and I feel like I am less a person. I lost my virginity when i was young to a guy I thought loved me and now I realize I didn't love him at all, I was just another naive and stupid girl who didn't know boy tricks. Growing up parents will always tell you...
    introvert93 introvert93 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Girls, With V-cards Intact. Listen!

    My friends all did it. We were 16, and heavily in the party scene. In order to keep my ego intact and to keep up in conversation with these 'friends', I gave it to the first guy I saw at a party. It was drunkenly, messily, sloppily done. I ended up being the 'story' of the night...
    daaytripper daaytripper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    What Was I Thinking

    It was the end of the eighth grade and the beginning of 2013 summer I was dating this guy Ryan I had been with him for 2 months we decided it was a good time to have sex so I went to his house at first I thought I was ready but laying there in bed while doing it with him was not...
    Brishay Brishay 18-21, F Sep 7, 2013

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    For me, I got drunk and could never remember

    whether it had happened or not, so I don't even know. I wish I hadn't been so drunk so I could have at least known and remembered, hopefully with someone I loved.
    SmileBecauseItHappened SmileBecauseItHappened 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Cherries

    I regret losing my virginity in the schools boys bathroom at thirteen So innocent I didn’t’ know it was suppose to hurt I didn’t know I would bleed an ocean I regret not remembering his name or even picturing his face   I only saw him a few times in class Hmmmmmmmmm I...
    OneMovieStar OneMovieStar 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    So Much Pain.

    I'm a Christian, I've been raised a Christian in a crazy household, and in Christianity, your supposed to wait until your married to have sex. I didn't wait, and I regret it, at least, how it went. Not who it was with. All throughout my life, no boys liked me, it was like I was...
    Bloomingflower1616 Bloomingflower1616 16-17, F 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    Mistake

    I was 18. It was with my ex boyfriend. we had broken up about two years before i lost my virginity to him. my parents were out of town, so i told him to come over and hang out for a bit. He ended up staying the night and after a few drinks, we decided to do it. we both still had...
    marcyed marcyed 18-21, F 19 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    I think that this was this year in early May

    or late April when I lost my virginity and I regret the person I lost it to like not because she was ugly or anything but because of her personality she was kinda a **** cuz she gave a lot of guys bjs and Hjs but I did **** her more than once. I say I lost my virginity to my...
    NoExcuses1169 NoExcuses1169 13-15, M Dec 11, 2013

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    I am not a virgin. Although I

    so wish I was. It's true, you should wait. I think I will always be attached to him. But I have to look forward.
    HeatherHB HeatherHB 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I Wish I Had Saved It For Someone Else...

    Well, it was last February. I had a second date with someone that I had been crushing on for several months, I was absolutely crazy about him. We spent the night cuddling and kissing until I finally decided to give in to his strong desire to have sex with me. The sex lasted for...
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I Wish I Had Waited Longer...

    I had sex for the first time when I was 21 (I'm 23 now). It was with my ex-boyfriend who I loved, so what's the problem, right? But I regret it. I feel used. I thought I was ready but I wasn't. I wish I had waited for the person I'm going to marry. I'm afraid that my sexual...
    Katiew567 Katiew567 22-25 5 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Wanted To Be Wanted

    So I just turned 19 and I have never had a boyfriend or anything close, never even been kissed...until I met A.J. He met me and my best friend the end of last year and we all hung out as friends and he was so funny and nice and actually noticed me. He was really into my best...
    BeccaBooBaby BeccaBooBaby 18-21 6 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I was with a guy 3 year older

    than me for 2 years (17-18) we would be on and off cause of my parents the point is that both of us decided to break it off cause we didt see a future together because our religious belief and my parents and stuff was just to complicated. We ended in good terms and still saw...
    thegirlwithdarksecrests thegirlwithdarksecrests 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Think Twice

    My name is May, and i do regret how i lost my virginity. I never been asked out before in my life, and i really never cared to ever have a boyfriend, or the problems that come with one. I was planning to leave my home town to make something of myself. I wanted to travel and see...
    silvermoonwolf12 silvermoonwolf12 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2013

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    I was so young, around 11

    or 13.I had no idea what I was doing, except that it felt good and I wanted him to like me.I was still a kid practically, didn't know about ***** or menstruation cycle. But then, 4 year after letting him treat me like his ***** and pushing me aside when he was done, he told me...
    Tutuita Tutuita 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I Do

    I truly wish I would have listened to my parents, my friends, my family, and anyone that has ever told me to wait. I think I lost my virginity at a very young age and I truly believe I was not ready. I wish I would have waited for that 'special someone'. I am now with someone I...
    shellzz shellzz 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    He texted at 2am "If you don't do it then I

    know for sure you don't love me." So around 3 I snuck out to meet him in our special place. Now were through and he already has someone new.
    Itshaley006 Itshaley006 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Take It Back.

    I was around 15 i do believe. I didnt plan for it to happen, i was drinking and the kid was completely sober. It was only my second time ever drinking also. I remember telling him no, no no! and he didnt listen to me. I cant blame him though, i was drinking. After that...i just...
    hailey6547 hailey6547 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    Some Days I Regret It, Others I Don't.

    When I was a mere 15 years old, I thought I was in love with the man of my dreams. He was tall, dark, handsome, and significantly older than me. (At least for the age group I was in.) I thought losing my virginity to him would mean that he would always be there for me...and I...
    sociallyawkward3 sociallyawkward3 18-21, F Jul 5, 2013

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    The Tech Closet

    NOTE: names have been changed to protect the privacy of those involved. so, i wad 16. he was too. he had dated for 6 months, had been broken up for 4 months by then. he was the first boy to show interest in me, ask me out, go out with me, kiss me, call me beautiful, support me...
    abittobright abittobright 18-21, F Oct 16, 2013

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    He Made My New Year Hell.

    It was my first New Year's at a party, my junior year of high school. This guy was checking me out, and I got so excited. I had my first New Year's kiss, and everything seemed perfect. Less than a week later, we all had another party, and that's when it happened. No one else...
    smileforme95 smileforme95 16-17 Jan 5, 2013

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    I Became "that Girl"

    For years my Mom told me to hold onto my virginity, don't just throw it away. I decided early on that while I did not think I would wait until marriage, I wanted my first time to be with someone I cared about. Well I met this guy and realized right away that I had feelings for...
    brokenbutterflyxo brokenbutterflyxo 22-25 4 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    So Much For My Happy Ending

    he tells you all the things you hope in your mind will come true your relationship is moving to fast without u even knowing it kissing before 3 weeks into your commitment sharing things no one knows about you not even your bestfriend it starts to get intense and the emotions and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2013

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    Lost Virginity Lost My Child.

    I regret losing my virginity because 1 i wasn't truly ready and 2 i ended up getting pregnant , the father didn't believe me and after finding out i was carrying a boy i lost him. I miscarried and then the father who didn't believe me in the beginning ended up feeling like...
    ImSimplyJustMe ImSimplyJustMe 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    I lost my virginity at 18.

    I remember the summer of 2006 (going to my senior year in high school). I met him on myspace and he lived like 15 minutes away from me. He drove to my apartment and I met him outside the leasing office at night. When I got in the car, he kissed me and fondled my breasts from the...
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    It was a group of 4 of us driving around at

    4:30 in the morning. Doesn't this already sound like a good start to this story... Well, I had met (his fake name is going to be Jason) Jason once before, and immediately, I had a connection with him. Maybe it was because he was older, had tattoos, and lived on his own, but I...
    rainortears rainortears 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    Manipulated- My Virginity Gone Forever

    I went on holiday to italy with my friend, not with the intention of having sex- i was totally against it and really wanted to wait until i got married... and then i met him. He seemed so lovely, so smart and he was so attractive. He told me how pretty i was, how special and how...
    evie96 evie96 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    Regret It So Much

    I was fifteen, a little bit drunk, and lost it to a guy a year ilder than me, who I'd met that same night. I lost it on my friends couch, and we both got dressed right after. It wasnt special, I didnt have any feelings for him, and I didnt regret it right after. It hit me the...
    Ellinna Ellinna 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    When I was 13 I got drunk

    for the first time and had sex with two different guys in one night.
    ravergirl97 ravergirl97 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    You Stole My Virginity Now Give It Back.

    I do not see myself as a ****, even though I have girls call me one very often. I do not know whether it is because they are jealous of the guy I lost my virginity too or because they do not understand the meaning of the word. I just wanted to experience different things. The...
    tutu8932 tutu8932 16-17 2 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Regret Everything About Everything

    I lost my virginity when I was 16 years old to my boyfriend of only 2 months. Only reason was because my best friend had lost hers and for some reason I felt like I had to do the same. I regret it big time. he was always very touchy with me which I didn't like. I feel he somehow...
    Troubleeeed Troubleeeed 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    At First I thought that

    if he did not know I was a virgin I would never regret it. But now after 4 years I feel like it was the worst thing I could ever decide. I feel totally disapointment and depressed beacuse it didn't happend with someone I loved and it wasn't special at all.
    nevernotgoodenough nevernotgoodenough 18-21, F Feb 8

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    Related Experiences

    i lost my v card when i was 15 to my ex boyfreind. i wish i waited until i met my current boyfriend though because hes so much more special to me
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I liked this boy and we started dating 9 months ago and he's really sweet and caring and I know it sounds bad but now every time I see him I just want to rip his clothes off but I...
    Loveydovey321 Loveydovey321 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    This cute kid gave me a valentine rose on v day, and since then we've been hanging out. But the farthest we've gone is hold hands. But over the weekend we made out for 2 hours...
    vksoccergoalie vksoccergoalie 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I lost my virginity at 13, I'm 16 now which is legal for me as I live in the uk. I think there is too much pressure on young girls these days to get sexual too quickly. I wish I...
    EllieRe EllieRe 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago. My boyfriend, well ex-boyfriend didn't use a condom, so I was afraid that I could be pregnant. I told him about it and he "freaked out...
    sweetestasian sweetestasian 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    so just randomly but... wouldnt u say losing your virginity as a girl makes a bigger impact then losing your virginity as a boy?? i know it aint nice either way but wat does a guy...
    midnight001 midnight001 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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