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I Regret Losing My Virginity

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    Well last night I went over my boyfriends to

    study for our midterms but things didnt go as planned we started making out and next thing I knew he was unzipping his jeans I asked him what he was doing and he said what do you think I am doing?? so he told me to take off my skirt in so I ended up taking it off :/ so he took...
    foreveryoung97 foreveryoung97 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    My parents have always told me

    and my brothers that virginity is like a treasure. Boys will do whatever they can to get to the treasure. She always said to take very good care of it. Because once it's gone, it's gone. And there won't be a way to go back. She tells us to wait to marriage because that's how god...
    thelostgirl2013 thelostgirl2013 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I 100% regret losing my virginity

    when i did. The guy told me he loved me ... Called me beautiful everyday ... Then convinced me to have sex with him ... And he dumped me a week after we had sex
    dyinginside4 dyinginside4 16-17, F Feb 28

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    Cherries

    I regret losing my virginity in the schools boys bathroom at thirteen So innocent I didn’t’ know it was suppose to hurt I didn’t know I would bleed an ocean I regret not remembering his name or even picturing his face   I only saw him a few times in class Hmmmmmmmmm I...
    OneMovieStar OneMovieStar 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    I am not a virgin. Although I

    so wish I was. It's true, you should wait. I think I will always be attached to him. But I have to look forward.
    HeatherHB HeatherHB 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2014

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    Mistake

    I was 18. It was with my ex boyfriend. we had broken up about two years before i lost my virginity to him. my parents were out of town, so i told him to come over and hang out for a bit. He ended up staying the night and after a few drinks, we decided to do it. we both still had...
    marcyed marcyed 18-21, F 18 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    Take It Back.

    I was around 15 i do believe. I didnt plan for it to happen, i was drinking and the kid was completely sober. It was only my second time ever drinking also. I remember telling him no, no no! and he didnt listen to me. I cant blame him though, i was drinking. After that...i just...
    hailey6547 hailey6547 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    So what can i say i was a fool preyed on during

    the first few weeks of uni. I felt good being in love in a relationship that turned out to be fake. I gave my heart too easily at the fear of never finding anyone who would want me and so i gave into his sexual desires. He forced himself on top of me said he wud only put the tip...
    Sbd29 Sbd29 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 14

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    Wrong Place, Wrong Time, Wrong Boy.

    It was the worst idea I've ever had, probably. Somehow my best friend's boyfriend managed to convince me that it was me he had loved all along. And who was I to deny it? It hurt so badly, watching them together, when I loved him so much. So I believed him. On the afternoon of...
    possibly possibly 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    I was to young to loose it to a guy I shouldn't

    have. I really didn't know the guys I slept with D:
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Apr 30

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    Dalton. If I had have known he would tell the

    story on tv of how we lost it I would have never gone near him. The show is watched by like every teenager in Ontario since its MTV and my friend who was also on the show posted the video on youtube for dalton telling the awkward story. The whole town has seen it any everone...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12 13-15, F 12 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    Manipulated- My Virginity Gone Forever

    I went on holiday to italy with my friend, not with the intention of having sex- i was totally against it and really wanted to wait until i got married... and then i met him. He seemed so lovely, so smart and he was so attractive. He told me how pretty i was, how special and how...
    evie96 evie96 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    This happened about 2 weeks ago.

    He didnt know I was a virgin. Well i was in his house & no one was home. We were just cuddling on the couch and talking about everything. Then we started making out. And whispered in my ear "wanna come to my room?" I thought to myself that i knew it was gonna happen as soon as i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 18

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    I lost my virginity about a week

    and a half ago. On the day after Valentine's Day. It was with the cousin of my bestfriends boyfriend, and I had barely met him. We were just talking, not much, then he threw a pillow at me and we ended up having a pillow fight. It started with that and a pillow was on the floor...
    chekeez chekeez 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Wanted To Be Wanted

    So I just turned 19 and I have never had a boyfriend or anything close, never even been kissed...until I met A.J. He met me and my best friend the end of last year and we all hung out as friends and he was so funny and nice and actually noticed me. He was really into my best...
    BeccaBooBaby BeccaBooBaby 18-21 6 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I Became "that Girl"

    For years my Mom told me to hold onto my virginity, don't just throw it away. I decided early on that while I did not think I would wait until marriage, I wanted my first time to be with someone I cared about. Well I met this guy and realized right away that I had feelings for...
    brokenbutterflyxo brokenbutterflyxo 22-25 4 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    Worst, New-age Cliche Loss Of Virginity, Ever.

    I lost my virginity ten days before my sixteenth birthday, to a college guy that I had added to my facebook the night before. He had graduated from my highschool the year before, and i added him without really knowing who he was. He ended up talking to me on facebook chat and we...
    silvra silvra 18-21 21 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    I took 10 pills of Valium,

    ended up in a+e and got told I had depression (val side effect). met this boy I met from a party the next night and he took my virginity when I was so so so drunk. he doesn't even talk to me anymore
    minmins07 minmins07 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    This happened about three years ago.

    For some reason, it is only this past year that I have began to regret it. I was young, I really didn't have a healthy or stable family life, nor did I have much luck in relationships. I tended to be incredibly naive, and allow people to use me for how they liked, then throw me...
    Choosingmyconfession Choosingmyconfession 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    lost my virginity about a few days ago

    and I regret it so much. My boyfriend is very attached to me he sees a future with me he's two years older so he's 20 . He made me promise I wouldn't ever leave and said if I did I would break his heart. But now I regret it all because I feel gross. Also I am scared I may be...
    sweetheart300 sweetheart300 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I was 16. My mom would let me have "kegger"

    parties! (Crazy, I know). I really liked this guy "A" and we made out hardcore! I got really drunk and he wanted to have sex. I said "no" and we were standing in the kitchen along with his guy friends- and I said "I made a vow to not lose it till I am married!" Well that was...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F Aug 1, 2014

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    I lost my virginity when I was 19

    and totally regreted it , the worst experience of my life was together for six months and i thought i loved him , my first boyfriend my first kiss my first everything. I got dumped a week when dumping I was told Its because he wasn't ready for a relationship but really it was...
    JazzyHun24 JazzyHun24 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Damaged Goods

    I googled “ I regret losing my virginity” in an attempt to find some sort of comfort or asylum. I found this forum and it seems as though this could be a way to help heal the wounds I tore open by being so stupid. Many of the stories have helped me, so I think I'll...
    g5yv5bo5dw g5yv5bo5dw 16-17 8 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    I'm 17 and never knew the actual feeling of

    regret until I lost my virginity a month ago. I waited for so long to make sure I lost it to someone that actually meant something to me but ended up just giving it away to someone who's not ****. I've messed around with this guy for months but he never made anything official...
    tg3434 tg3434 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It was right after summer had ended

    and we had broken up I missed him so much I was at a small party he had happen to be at too. I was talking to this other guy not because I liked him but because he listened. This guy was hitting on me but I knew he had a girl so I didn't respond I went and layed down on the...
    breakingfree17 breakingfree17 16-17, F Nov 21, 2014

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    I lost my virginity a year ago

    and ever since then things have been down hill from there.. Just giving my body away in lust of boys luring me with their sweet words thinking it'll lead into a relationship but it doesn't.. I'm far too guilable and I hate going through these situations I'm far too good of a...
    kashaleea kashaleea 16-17, F 3 Responses May 18

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    I was 19 when I lost my virginity to my

    coworker. I didn't tell anyone except one person where I was going that night. I honestly expected to just hang out with him, like normal people. I told the guy that I was a virgin but he seemed to only have one goal in mind, and that was to take my virginity. And eventually, it...
    bgriffi817 bgriffi817 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I loved this guy we were off

    and on for 1 year and a half I loved him with every breathe I had, but he left me right after taking everything I had and never came back..
    breakingfree17 breakingfree17 16-17, F Nov 21, 2014

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    im 17 and i lost my virginity like 2 days ago

    to the guy who is 17 as well. we have known each other for like a week or something. i found him handsome the second i saw him and wanted to have sex with him like right away. now when i look back i think it was definitely not the best decision. i know he doesn't have any...
    naomizz naomizz 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    Honestly, I'm still contemplating

    if I regret it or not. About 6 months ago I met a guy who I was interested in, and I'm still dating him now. The third time I met him it was my senior prom night...let's just say I didn't go to prom bc he was a year older and I got in trouble at school. That night was the first...
    Ronih03 Ronih03 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2014

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    I regret losing my virginity.

    Let's just say it was too young too dumb. I knew the guy for three years before we started dating. We ended up rushing things and I immediately regretted it the day after. I cried and told my mom. Things with him got awkward for the last couple of weeks that our relationship...
    ashs998 ashs998 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    i only had sex to see what it was like ,

    it was with my "friend" who was a boy but after we had sex he changed and didn't want to my friend anymore which hurt my feelings because i felt used :/
    hiimmy hiimmy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I Need Advice! ;(.. Im So Ashamed And Hurt

    I know this is long, but please bare with me.. thank you.. During high school I was addicted to playstation 3, i used to play online all the time, and after awhile i found out i could chat with other people, so i would chat with girls, and eventually i began talkin to many girls...
    emotional1990 emotional1990 18-21, M 17 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    I was so young, around 11

    or 13.I had no idea what I was doing, except that it felt good and I wanted him to like me.I was still a kid practically, didn't know about ***** or menstruation cycle. But then, 4 year after letting him treat me like his ***** and pushing me aside when he was done, he told me...
    Tutuita Tutuita 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Yes I like sex, but I've been really thinking

    about it and you know...why am I having sex? I want it to be for the one I will call my husband...but I've already ruined that...I am really ashamed of the fact that I have had sex now...
    WhiskyLulubyBlonde123 WhiskyLulubyBlonde123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    I was 16, at a party,

    we were at a friends house (which was a guy) and some other people there had been drinking so we just decided to have a big sleepover, considering it was already 1 or 2 AM, we had played spin the bottle, truth or dare, never have I ever etc, I asked if I could sleep in the guest...
    rainbowmuffins rainbowmuffins 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    It was an awful experience i had

    and I'll regret it all my life. I was 17 wen i fall in love with this guy who was 4yrs elder. He made ne felt really good and made me had sex with him. And then after a month he became a new guy just met me because wanted to get physical and tried to molest me in public and...
    sexyshivani sexyshivani 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 6

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    Hope never met that spanish couple online day

    before yesterday..but still miss them..here they are..:(
    isaha24 isaha24 18-21, M Dec 16, 2014

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    After Sex, He Told Me "It Was Nice Doing Business With You"

    Me and my bf were dating for a year and we had never had sex. I knew in the future I wanted to have sex, I just wasn't ready at the time. I had recently been readmitted into my old college upstate and I guess once he knew that he wanted to get in my pants before I went away. He...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 22-25, F 14 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I regret losing mine

    because I didn't realize what it was worth. It's only looking back that I realize how valuable virginity is, it's not that saving it for marriage was my plan, but to waste it on someone who spent the better part of our relationship verbally and emotionally abusing me is my...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 28, 2014

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    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16.

    I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us texting. We'd hung out a few times before it happened and he mentioned sex often, knowing I was a virgin and he was not. My friends are very close...
    abzry abzry 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    I lost it in a Macy's bathroom

    and I have felt really depressed since then and the guy doesn't talk to me anymore.
    thewalkinghamartia thewalkinghamartia 16-17, M Jan 26

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    I lost my virginty when I was 15 to a guy I had

    been seeing for about 3 days. By the third date he asked if we could have sex. I was shocked that he wanted sex so early in the realtionship. I was really insecure back then and I wanted someone to love me so I said yes. The night before it was supposed to happen we were texting...
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    Girls, With V-cards Intact. Listen!

    My friends all did it. We were 16, and heavily in the party scene. In order to keep my ego intact and to keep up in conversation with these 'friends', I gave it to the first guy I saw at a party. It was drunkenly, messily, sloppily done. I ended up being the 'story' of the night...
    daaytripper daaytripper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    He Made My New Year Hell.

    It was my first New Year's at a party, my junior year of high school. This guy was checking me out, and I got so excited. I had my first New Year's kiss, and everything seemed perfect. Less than a week later, we all had another party, and that's when it happened. No one else...
    smileforme95 smileforme95 16-17 Jan 5, 2013

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    I lost my virginity last friday night.

    i was out in town with my friends and hadn't been so drunk since my 18th birthday. i started chatting to a guy next thing i know I'm walking away from the club with him. i don't regret losing my virginity but i regret where i lost it. we were walking and we both didn't ant to go...
    travellover96 travellover96 18-21, F Jul 20

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