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I Regret Losing My Virginity

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    I lost my virginity when I was 19

    and totally regreted it , the worst experience of my life was together for six months and i thought i loved him , my first boyfriend my first kiss my first everything. I got dumped a week when dumping I was told Its because he wasn't ready for a relationship but really it was...
    JazzyHun24 JazzyHun24 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I lost my virginity a year ago

    and ever since then things have been down hill from there.. Just giving my body away in lust of boys luring me with their sweet words thinking it'll lead into a relationship but it doesn't.. I'm far too guilable and I hate going through these situations I'm far too good of a...
    kashaleea kashaleea 16-17, F 3 Responses May 18

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    Worst, New-age Cliche Loss Of Virginity, Ever.

    I lost my virginity ten days before my sixteenth birthday, to a college guy that I had added to my facebook the night before. He had graduated from my highschool the year before, and i added him without really knowing who he was. He ended up talking to me on facebook chat and we...
    silvra silvra 18-21 21 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    Honestly, I'm still contemplating

    if I regret it or not. About 6 months ago I met a guy who I was interested in, and I'm still dating him now. The third time I met him it was my senior prom night...let's just say I didn't go to prom bc he was a year older and I got in trouble at school. That night was the first...
    Ronih03 Ronih03 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2014

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    I lost it in a Macy's bathroom

    and I have felt really depressed since then and the guy doesn't talk to me anymore.
    thewalkinghamartia thewalkinghamartia 16-17, M Jan 26

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    Well last night I went over my boyfriends to

    study for our midterms but things didnt go as planned we started making out and next thing I knew he was unzipping his jeans I asked him what he was doing and he said what do you think I am doing?? so he told me to take off my skirt in so I ended up taking it off :/ so he took...
    foreveryoung97 foreveryoung97 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I was 19 when I lost my virginity to my

    coworker. I didn't tell anyone except one person where I was going that night. I honestly expected to just hang out with him, like normal people. I told the guy that I was a virgin but he seemed to only have one goal in mind, and that was to take my virginity. And eventually, it...
    bgriffi817 bgriffi817 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    It was right after summer had ended

    and we had broken up I missed him so much I was at a small party he had happen to be at too. I was talking to this other guy not because I liked him but because he listened. This guy was hitting on me but I knew he had a girl so I didn't respond I went and layed down on the...
    breakingfree17 breakingfree17 16-17, F Nov 21, 2014

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    I was to young to loose it to a guy I shouldn't

    have. I really didn't know the guys I slept with D:
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Apr 30

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    After Sex, He Told Me "It Was Nice Doing Business With You"

    Me and my bf were dating for a year and we had never had sex. I knew in the future I wanted to have sex, I just wasn't ready at the time. I had recently been readmitted into my old college upstate and I guess once he knew that he wanted to get in my pants before I went away. He...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 22-25, F 14 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I was 16. My mom would let me have "kegger"

    parties! (Crazy, I know). I really liked this guy "A" and we made out hardcore! I got really drunk and he wanted to have sex. I said "no" and we were standing in the kitchen along with his guy friends- and I said "I made a vow to not lose it till I am married!" Well that was...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F Aug 1, 2014

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    It was a group of 4 of us driving around at

    4:30 in the morning. Doesn't this already sound like a good start to this story... Well, I had met (his fake name is going to be Jason) Jason once before, and immediately, I had a connection with him. Maybe it was because he was older, had tattoos, and lived on his own, but I...
    rainortears rainortears 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    Take It Back.

    I was around 15 i do believe. I didnt plan for it to happen, i was drinking and the kid was completely sober. It was only my second time ever drinking also. I remember telling him no, no no! and he didnt listen to me. I cant blame him though, i was drinking. After that...i just...
    hailey6547 hailey6547 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    I was so young, around 11

    or 13.I had no idea what I was doing, except that it felt good and I wanted him to like me.I was still a kid practically, didn't know about ***** or menstruation cycle. But then, 4 year after letting him treat me like his ***** and pushing me aside when he was done, he told me...
    Tutuita Tutuita 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    lost my virginity about a few days ago

    and I regret it so much. My boyfriend is very attached to me he sees a future with me he's two years older so he's 20 . He made me promise I wouldn't ever leave and said if I did I would break his heart. But now I regret it all because I feel gross. Also I am scared I may be...
    sweetheart300 sweetheart300 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    This happened about three years ago.

    For some reason, it is only this past year that I have began to regret it. I was young, I really didn't have a healthy or stable family life, nor did I have much luck in relationships. I tended to be incredibly naive, and allow people to use me for how they liked, then throw me...
    Choosingmyconfession Choosingmyconfession 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I lost my virginity last friday night.

    i was out in town with my friends and hadn't been so drunk since my 18th birthday. i started chatting to a guy next thing i know I'm walking away from the club with him. i don't regret losing my virginity but i regret where i lost it. we were walking and we both didn't ant to go...
    travellover96 travellover96 18-21, F Jul 20

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    Yes I like sex, but I've been really thinking

    about it and you know...why am I having sex? I want it to be for the one I will call my husband...but I've already ruined that...I am really ashamed of the fact that I have had sex now...
    WhiskyLulubyBlonde123 WhiskyLulubyBlonde123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    I regret losing mine

    because I didn't realize what it was worth. It's only looking back that I realize how valuable virginity is, it's not that saving it for marriage was my plan, but to waste it on someone who spent the better part of our relationship verbally and emotionally abusing me is my...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 28, 2014

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    Damaged Goods

    I googled “ I regret losing my virginity” in an attempt to find some sort of comfort or asylum. I found this forum and it seems as though this could be a way to help heal the wounds I tore open by being so stupid. Many of the stories have helped me, so I think I'll...
    g5yv5bo5dw g5yv5bo5dw 16-17 8 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    Wrong Place, Wrong Time, Wrong Boy.

    It was the worst idea I've ever had, probably. Somehow my best friend's boyfriend managed to convince me that it was me he had loved all along. And who was I to deny it? It hurt so badly, watching them together, when I loved him so much. So I believed him. On the afternoon of...
    possibly possibly 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    Mistake

    I was 18. It was with my ex boyfriend. we had broken up about two years before i lost my virginity to him. my parents were out of town, so i told him to come over and hang out for a bit. He ended up staying the night and after a few drinks, we decided to do it. we both still had...
    marcyed marcyed 18-21, F 18 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    So what can i say i was a fool preyed on during

    the first few weeks of uni. I felt good being in love in a relationship that turned out to be fake. I gave my heart too easily at the fear of never finding anyone who would want me and so i gave into his sexual desires. He forced himself on top of me said he wud only put the tip...
    Sbd29 Sbd29 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 14

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    I lost my virginity 2 days ago actually.

    Kissing lead to one thing. He stopped and said. I don't want to rush things just play. And I said okay. I didn't realize what was happening, cause I didn't know how it felt. I soon felt a push. It was in. I regret it so much. Wasn't the right person at all. I was saving it for...
    kashaleea kashaleea 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I lost my virginty when I was 15 to a guy I had

    been seeing for about 3 days. By the third date he asked if we could have sex. I was shocked that he wanted sex so early in the realtionship. I was really insecure back then and I wanted someone to love me so I said yes. The night before it was supposed to happen we were texting...
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    I 100% regret losing my virginity

    when i did. The guy told me he loved me ... Called me beautiful everyday ... Then convinced me to have sex with him ... And he dumped me a week after we had sex
    dyinginside4 dyinginside4 16-17, F Feb 28

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    Crying Before I Ever Touched Him

    I don't even remeber how this happened exactly. I was crying on his bed, over my ex, who I had cheated on with him. Maybe It wasn't ment to be, but I only felt like it was a mistake. I was only in 9th grade, while the boy who sat next to me was in 12th. I was crying because of...
    NovakStar NovakStar 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2011

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    I regret losing my virginity.

    Let's just say it was too young too dumb. I knew the guy for three years before we started dating. We ended up rushing things and I immediately regretted it the day after. I cried and told my mom. Things with him got awkward for the last couple of weeks that our relationship...
    ashs998 ashs998 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    im 17 and i lost my virginity like 2 days ago

    to the guy who is 17 as well. we have known each other for like a week or something. i found him handsome the second i saw him and wanted to have sex with him like right away. now when i look back i think it was definitely not the best decision. i know he doesn't have any...
    naomizz naomizz 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    So Much Pain.

    I'm a Christian, I've been raised a Christian in a crazy household, and in Christianity, your supposed to wait until your married to have sex. I didn't wait, and I regret it, at least, how it went. Not who it was with. All throughout my life, no boys liked me, it was like I was...
    Bloomingflower1616 Bloomingflower1616 16-17, F 2 Responses May 17, 2013

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    I came to this forum specifically to share this

    story. I am too embarrassed to share this with anyone and needed to get my thoughts out somewhere. I am 19 years old and lost my virginity four days ago. I was at a bar when I spotted a guy I had had a crush on all year. We both live in the same dorm and have mutual friends, but...
    brunettebomshell brunettebomshell 18-21, F 1 Response May 1, 2014

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    Wanted To Be Wanted

    So I just turned 19 and I have never had a boyfriend or anything close, never even been kissed...until I met A.J. He met me and my best friend the end of last year and we all hung out as friends and he was so funny and nice and actually noticed me. He was really into my best...
    BeccaBooBaby BeccaBooBaby 18-21 6 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    There is no medical or biological definition of

    virginity, the concept of virginity was created to control female sexuality.
    baylicole baylicole 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    i only had sex to see what it was like ,

    it was with my "friend" who was a boy but after we had sex he changed and didn't want to my friend anymore which hurt my feelings because i felt used :/
    hiimmy hiimmy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I took 10 pills of Valium,

    ended up in a+e and got told I had depression (val side effect). met this boy I met from a party the next night and he took my virginity when I was so so so drunk. he doesn't even talk to me anymore
    minmins07 minmins07 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Girls, With V-cards Intact. Listen!

    My friends all did it. We were 16, and heavily in the party scene. In order to keep my ego intact and to keep up in conversation with these 'friends', I gave it to the first guy I saw at a party. It was drunkenly, messily, sloppily done. I ended up being the 'story' of the night...
    daaytripper daaytripper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    Hope never met that spanish couple online day

    before yesterday..but still miss them..here they are..:(
    isaha24 isaha24 18-21, M Dec 16, 2014

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    Some Days I Regret It, Others I Don't.

    When I was a mere 15 years old, I thought I was in love with the man of my dreams. He was tall, dark, handsome, and significantly older than me. (At least for the age group I was in.) I thought losing my virginity to him would mean that he would always be there for me...and I...
    sociallyawkward3 sociallyawkward3 18-21, F Jul 5, 2013

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    I'm 17 and never knew the actual feeling of

    regret until I lost my virginity a month ago. I waited for so long to make sure I lost it to someone that actually meant something to me but ended up just giving it away to someone who's not ****. I've messed around with this guy for months but he never made anything official...
    tg3434 tg3434 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    You Stole My Virginity Now Give It Back.

    I do not see myself as a ****, even though I have girls call me one very often. I do not know whether it is because they are jealous of the guy I lost my virginity too or because they do not understand the meaning of the word. I just wanted to experience different things. The...
    tutu8932 tutu8932 16-17 2 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Rn I'm really regretting losing it.

    Sometimes I Wish I Was A Virgin Again. Things would have been much different if I were.
    sunshineh13 sunshineh13 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    He came to my house and i was too scared of

    what he would do if I said no, so I let him, and we werent even dating
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 20

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    My parents have always told me

    and my brothers that virginity is like a treasure. Boys will do whatever they can to get to the treasure. She always said to take very good care of it. Because once it's gone, it's gone. And there won't be a way to go back. She tells us to wait to marriage because that's how god...
    thelostgirl2013 thelostgirl2013 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Cherries

    I regret losing my virginity in the schools boys bathroom at thirteen So innocent I didn’t’ know it was suppose to hurt I didn’t know I would bleed an ocean I regret not remembering his name or even picturing his face   I only saw him a few times in class Hmmmmmmmmm I...
    OneMovieStar OneMovieStar 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    I feel like there is always going to be

    that regret. Even though I still love the guy and we were together for four years, I just hate that I am not a virgin anymore. I wish I would have waited till marriage so at least I would have known that me and whoever I marry were gonna stay together, and not feel used and just...
    TiredOfBeingHurt TiredOfBeingHurt 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I loved this guy we were off

    and on for 1 year and a half I loved him with every breathe I had, but he left me right after taking everything I had and never came back..
    breakingfree17 breakingfree17 16-17, F