I Regret Losing My Virginity

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    I lost my virginity about a week

    and a half ago. On the day after Valentine's Day. It was with the cousin of my bestfriends boyfriend, and I had barely met him. We were just talking, not much, then he threw a pillow at me and we ended up having a pillow fight. It started with that and a pillow was on the floor...
    chekeez chekeez
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    This happened about 2 weeks ago.

    He didnt know I was a virgin. Well i was in his house & no one was home. We were just cuddling on the couch and talking about everything. Then we started making out. And whispered in my ear "wanna come to my room?" I thought to myself that i knew it was gonna happen as soon as i...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 18, 2015

    Take It Back.

    I was around 15 i do believe. I didnt plan for it to happen, i was drinking and the kid was completely sober. It was only my second time ever drinking also. I remember telling him no, no no! and he didnt listen to me. I cant blame him though, i was drinking. After that...i just...
    hailey6547 hailey6547
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Aug 27, 2010

    Damaged Goods

    I googled “ I regret losing my virginity” in an attempt to find some sort of comfort or asylum. I found this forum and it seems as though this could be a way to help heal the wounds I tore open by being so stupid. Many of the stories have helped me, so I think I'll...
    g5yv5bo5dw g5yv5bo5dw
    16-17
    8 Responses Jun 2, 2010

    I regret it sooooooo badly.

    Sometimes when i think about it, it makes my skin itch and my blood boil. I was always the one who was against sex and intimacy and such. Yet somehow the guy i was dating made me rethink about my decisions and such. I thought sex was someway of using people to only get self...
    Staryskies94 Staryskies94
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 9

    It was an awful experience i had

    and I'll regret it all my life. I was 17 wen i fall in love with this guy who was 4yrs elder. He made ne felt really good and made me had sex with him. And then after a month he became a new guy just met me because wanted to get physical and tried to molest me in public and...
    sexyshivani sexyshivani
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 6, 2015

    I lost my virginity 2 days ago actually.

    Kissing lead to one thing. He stopped and said. I don't want to rush things just play. And I said okay. I didn't realize what was happening, cause I didn't know how it felt. I soon felt a push. It was in. I regret it so much. Wasn't the right person at all. I was saving it for...
    kashaleea kashaleea
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

    I'm 17 and never knew the actual feeling of

    regret until I lost my virginity a month ago. I waited for so long to make sure I lost it to someone that actually meant something to me but ended up just giving it away to someone who's not ****. I've messed around with this guy for months but he never made anything official...
    tg3434 tg3434
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    I lost my virginity about 3 days ago to a friend

    that I've known for 9 years. He's my best friends biggest enemy and I haven't even told her I'm speaking to him since she threatened to discontinue our friendship if I got involved with him. He isn't speaking to me properly, as he was freaking out about coming over anyway incase...
    longdarkhair longdarkhair
    18-21, F
    Jan 25

    I 100% regret losing my virginity

    when i did. The guy told me he loved me ... Called me beautiful everyday ... Then convinced me to have sex with him ... And he dumped me a week after we had sex
    dyinginside4 dyinginside4
    18-21, F
    Feb 28, 2015

    lost my virginity about a few days ago

    and I regret it so much. My boyfriend is very attached to me he sees a future with me he's two years older so he's 20 . He made me promise I wouldn't ever leave and said if I did I would break his heart. But now I regret it all because I feel gross. Also I am scared I may be...
    sweetheart300 sweetheart300
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    I lost it in a Macy's bathroom

    and I have felt really depressed since then and the guy doesn't talk to me anymore.
    thewalkinghamartia thewalkinghamartia
    18-21, M
    Jan 26, 2015

    not sure if its regret over the person,

    or that it was ****. probably both. it was a few days ago with a guy thats 9 years older than me, also my friends brother. i just wish i knew how bad it wad going to hurt during, and after.
    jesusfuck jesusfuck
    16-17, F
    Jan 31

    Manipulated- My Virginity Gone Forever

    I went on holiday to italy with my friend, not with the intention of having sex- i was totally against it and really wanted to wait until i got married... and then i met him. He seemed so lovely, so smart and he was so attractive. He told me how pretty i was, how special and how...
    evie96 evie96
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Sep 1, 2012

    I was 15 and had been dating the guy

    for like 4 months and he was a bit pushy. so being the people-pleaser that i am, i said yes and he didn't seem to show much love and care when it came down to it. then he cheated. he had been cheating for a month by then. with two other girls. now I'm with someone else, it's...
    lilahwillowoak lilahwillowoak
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 1

    I was 17 and foolish.

    I was chasing after one guy but hooking up with another. I always wanted my first time to be something special. I wanted there to be emotion. I didn't want it to be in the back of a car with someone who didn't love me. I didn't want to be just another hookup. But it was. I lost...
    nicolecat98 nicolecat98
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    I was 19 when I lost my virginity to my

    coworker. I didn't tell anyone except one person where I was going that night. I honestly expected to just hang out with him, like normal people. I told the guy that I was a virgin but he seemed to only have one goal in mind, and that was to take my virginity. And eventually, it...
    bgriffi817 bgriffi817
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2015

    I Need Advice! ;(.. Im So Ashamed And Hurt

    I know this is long, but please bare with me.. thank you.. During high school I was addicted to playstation 3, i used to play online all the time, and after awhile i found out i could chat with other people, so i would chat with girls, and eventually i began talkin to many girls...
    emotional1990 emotional1990
    18-21, M
    16 Responses Jun 29, 2010

    I lost my virginity when I was 19

    and totally regreted it , the worst experience of my life was together for six months and i thought i loved him , my first boyfriend my first kiss my first everything. I got dumped a week when dumping I was told Its because he wasn't ready for a relationship but really it was...
    JazzyHun24 JazzyHun24
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    I lost my virginty when I was 15 to a guy I had

    been seeing for about 3 days. By the third date he asked if we could have sex. I was shocked that he wanted sex so early in the realtionship. I was really insecure back then and I wanted someone to love me so I said yes. The night before it was supposed to happen we were texting...
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

    I'm 15, I'm planning to lose my virginity to a

    junior at my school. He's a fuckboi so I know nothing will come out of it. I just wanna bang but I'm really scared he will think I'm bad in bed. Ik not fat but I'm not skinny. I have stretch marks, any advice?
    Keyanna15 Keyanna15
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 9

    i only had sex to see what it was like ,

    it was with my "friend" who was a boy but after we had sex he changed and didn't want to my friend anymore which hurt my feelings because i felt used :/
    hiimmy hiimmy
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2015

    I lost my virginity last friday night.

    i was out in town with my friends and hadn't been so drunk since my 18th birthday. i started chatting to a guy next thing i know I'm walking away from the club with him. i don't regret losing my virginity but i regret where i lost it. we were walking and we both didn't ant to go...
    travellover96 travellover96
    18-21, F
    Jul 20, 2015

    Worst, New-age Cliche Loss Of Virginity, Ever.

    I lost my virginity ten days before my sixteenth birthday, to a college guy that I had added to my facebook the night before. He had graduated from my highschool the year before, and i added him without really knowing who he was. He ended up talking to me on facebook chat and we...
    silvra silvra
    18-21
    20 Responses Aug 5, 2010

    I regret losing my virginity.

    Let's just say it was too young too dumb. I knew the guy for three years before we started dating. We ended up rushing things and I immediately regretted it the day after. I cried and told my mom. Things with him got awkward for the last couple of weeks that our relationship...
    ashs998 ashs998
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2015

    I was so young, around 11

    or 13.I had no idea what I was doing, except that it felt good and I wanted him to like me.I was still a kid practically, didn't know about ***** or menstruation cycle. But then, 4 year after letting him treat me like his ***** and pushing me aside when he was done, he told me...
    Tutuita Tutuita
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16.

    I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us texting. We'd hung out a few times before it happened and he mentioned sex often, knowing I was a virgin and he was not. My friends are very close...
    abzry abzry
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    My story is simple, really.

    Girl meets boy. Girl falls head over heels for boy. Boy uses girl. Girl doesn't realize. Boy takes it too far. Boy takes it really too far. Girl feels worthless. It's a story everyone has probably heard over and over again but I don't know how to cope with it anymore. I lost my...
    betsylou428 betsylou428
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2014

    I feel really really bad.

    ... I lost my virginity, after years and years of turning every boyfriend, every guy down... To a guy who wasn't my boyfriend and who doesn't have feelings for me at all. I feel terrible. I feel rejected that he doesn't like me... And I feel like I should've been in a long term...
    Justventingg Justventingg
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    This happened about three years ago.

    For some reason, it is only this past year that I have began to regret it. I was young, I really didn't have a healthy or stable family life, nor did I have much luck in relationships. I tended to be incredibly naive, and allow people to use me for how they liked, then throw me...
    Choosingmyconfession Choosingmyconfession
    18-21, F
    Apr 8, 2015

    I met my boyfriend four months ago on my

    sixteenth birthday. I was hesitant to tell him I liked him because I have a way of screwing things up with guys. After 3 months of getting to know each other, he asked me out. Literally two hours after he asked me out, he tried to get me to French kiss. I told him that I was not...
    Mefitzp Mefitzp
    16-17, F
    Dec 6, 2015

    Wrong Place, Wrong Time, Wrong Boy.

    It was the worst idea I've ever had, probably. Somehow my best friend's boyfriend managed to convince me that it was me he had loved all along. And who was I to deny it? It hurt so badly, watching them together, when I loved him so much. So I believed him. On the afternoon of...
    possibly possibly
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 2, 2008

    Dalton. If I had have known he would tell the

    story on tv of how we lost it I would have never gone near him. The show is watched by like every teenager in Ontario since its MTV and my friend who was also on the show posted the video on youtube for dalton telling the awkward story. The whole town has seen it any everone...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12
    16-17, F
    11 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    I lost my virginity a year ago

    and ever since then things have been down hill from there.. Just giving my body away in lust of boys luring me with their sweet words thinking it'll lead into a relationship but it doesn't.. I'm far too guilable and I hate going through these situations I'm far too good of a...
    kashaleea kashaleea
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2015

    so i lost my virginity last night

    and it was awful. I've been on and off with this boy for almost three years now, we've never had sex and he's the love of my life. We broke up just over a month ago and I went out last night and was with this boy I know. We were kissing and stuff and then on the way into the...
    shxn shxn
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 1

    I was to young to loose it to a guy I shouldn't

    have. I really didn't know the guys I slept with D:
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Apr 30, 2015

    I wish i was a virgin again :/ i lost my

    virginity when i was 17 , i gave my virginity to my ex bf . Who pushed me to have sex i didnt want too . But i did anyways because he convienced me and i didnt know .i was hurt and i started crying . And soon i began thinking how i ended losing it . With "why" questions ! . I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 2

    My parents have always told me

    and my brothers that virginity is like a treasure. Boys will do whatever they can to get to the treasure. She always said to take very good care of it. Because once it's gone, it's gone. And there won't be a way to go back. She tells us to wait to marriage because that's how god...
    thelostgirl2013 thelostgirl2013
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

    I came to this forum specifically to share this

    story. I am too embarrassed to share this with anyone and needed to get my thoughts out somewhere. I am 19 years old and lost my virginity four days ago. I was at a bar when I spotted a guy I had had a crush on all year. We both live in the same dorm and have mutual friends, but...
    brunettebomshell brunettebomshell
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 1, 2014

    Hope never met that spanish couple online day

    before yesterday..but still miss them..here they are..:(
    isaha24 isaha24
    18-21, M
    Dec 16, 2014

    I regret losing mine

    because I didn't realize what it was worth. It's only looking back that I realize how valuable virginity is, it's not that saving it for marriage was my plan, but to waste it on someone who spent the better part of our relationship verbally and emotionally abusing me is my...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 28, 2014

    I lost it when I was really young.

    I didn't even know the girl I just met her she was like 3 or 4 years older then me and the next thing you know is were *******. This was in Canada.. My friend said something clever to get us in the same bed. Honestly I should have waited for the right one. She was just some...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 24, 2015

    Rn I'm really regretting losing it.

    Sometimes I Wish I Was A Virgin Again. Things would have been much different if I were.
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13
    22-25, F
    Mar 13, 2015

    I was 16, at a party,

    we were at a friends house (which was a guy) and some other people there had been drinking so we just decided to have a big sleepover, considering it was already 1 or 2 AM, we had played spin the bottle, truth or dare, never have I ever etc, I asked if I could sleep in the guest...
    rainbowmuffins rainbowmuffins
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2014

    Girls, With V-cards Intact. Listen!

    My friends all did it. We were 16, and heavily in the party scene. In order to keep my ego intact and to keep up in conversation with these 'friends', I gave it to the first guy I saw at a party. It was drunkenly, messily, sloppily done. I ended up being the 'story' of the night...
    daaytripper daaytripper
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jun 5, 2012

    Mistake

    I was 18. It was with my ex boyfriend. we had broken up about two years before i lost my virginity to him. my parents were out of town, so i told him to come over and hang out for a bit. He ended up staying the night and after a few drinks, we decided to do it. we both still had...
    marcyed marcyed
    18-21, F
    17 Responses Sep 1, 2009

    It was a group of 4 of us driving around at

    4:30 in the morning. Doesn't this already sound like a good start to this story... Well, I had met (his fake name is going to be Jason) Jason once before, and immediately, I had a connection with him. Maybe it was because he was older, had tattoos, and lived on his own, but I...
    rainortears rainortears
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 27, 2013

    Not so much that I regret loosing it,

    just more regret who i lost it to and the circumstances at the time :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 7, 2015

    He came to my house and i was too scared of

    what he would do if I said no, so I let him, and we werent even dating
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 20, 2015

    Some Days I Regret It, Others I Don't.

    When I was a mere 15 years old, I thought I was in love with the man of my dreams. He was tall, dark, handsome, and significantly older than me. (At least for the age group I was in.) I thought losing my virginity to him would mean that he would always be there for me...and I...
    sociallyawkward3 sociallyawkward3
    18-21, F
    Jul 5, 2013

    After Sex, He Told Me "It Was Nice Doing Business With You"

    Me and my bf were dating for a year and we had never had sex. I knew in the future I wanted to have sex, I just wasn't ready at the time. I had recently been readmitted into my old college upstate and I guess once he knew that he wanted to get in my pants before I went away. He...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Jan 12, 2011

    So Much Pain.

    I'm a Christian, I've been raised a Christian in a crazy household, and in Christianity, your supposed to wait until your married to have sex. I didn't wait, and I regret it, at least, how it went. Not who it was with. All throughout my life, no boys liked me, it was like I was...
    Bloomingflower1616 Bloomingflower1616
    16-17, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2013

    I am not a virgin. Although I

    so wish I was. It's true, you should wait. I think I will always be attached to him. But I have to look forward.
    HeatherHB HeatherHB
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2014

    Cherries

    I regret losing my virginity in the schools boys bathroom at thirteen So innocent I didn’t’ know it was suppose to hurt I didn’t know I would bleed an ocean I regret not remembering his name or even picturing his face   I only saw him a few times in class Hmmmmmmmmm I...
    OneMovieStar OneMovieStar
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jun 20, 2011
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