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I Regret My Marriage

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    I kind of regret getting married.

    *The crazy thing is one of the most disturbing nightmares I ever had was while I was in my teens, and it was about me marrying a decent man who absolutely loved me, but I didn't really love-love him back.. but I ended up marrying him because I was afraid of loving someone who...
    Bethstar Bethstar 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Its not that I dont love my husband,

    just that every step of us being together has been a struggle. I have sacrificed and invested so much in this relationship and I'm left wondering is it worth it. I don't feel my husband loves me as much as I love him and I feel as though he is only with me because he has more...
    mily24 mily24 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    Regret My Marriage

    I dated him for 8 months and got engaged and then married at age of 23. His business was doing fine (according to him) then and I was also earning fine. After 10 years today he blames me for bringing bad luck in his life. He gets irritate with me too often...abuses...and hits in...
    PChug PChug 31-35 3 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I Regret My Marriage.

    My husband is very sensitive. He has had a very different upbringing and the instability still shows.  I knew that there were issues before marriage but I didn't expect him to take things out on me. * There is no violence* And most of the times things are fine. It's just...
    omshanti omshanti 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    My Husben Is Still Living With He's Parents

    i meet my husben on line, we dating for 1 year, and then we decide to get merried, we live 4 hr distance, when we get merried he start saying things like in the future he would like he's mother come to live with me in the while he is with father and working becouse, i told him...
    menimoo menimoo 46-50 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    How Stupid...

    I should have never have gotten married. It was stupid and unromantic. He cheated on me and I only stayed with him because I had planned to get even. Stupid. I know! I mean, we already had a baby and I then got pregnant with the next soon after. My plan to get even fell...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Hurt And Betrayed Over And Over

    Hello, I have been married for about 5 years now with 2 beautiful children.   They seem to be the only great thing coming out of my marriage.  I have been with my husband for 12 years all together.  When we first began dating for the first few years things...
    wifescorned wifescorned 26-30, F 6 Responses May 2, 2010

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    Time to Move On?

    I made a wrong decision that day.  To top it off, when I filed for the divorce I wrote the wrong date on the proof of service, so it was delayed...DUH!  My husband begged, I gave in(a total no no) and I said I would "consider counseling" ugh!  This is one...
    star13 star13 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Marriage....

    We were childhood friends who reconnected in adulthood. We rushed into a marriage that I regret. I long for my single life again, not necesarily to be single again, but to have my freedom back. He is angry, difficult, and an all around hateful man. I know I am far from perfect...
    abbstan1 abbstan1 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Where Did The Love Go ........... ??

    Oh that I had the widom, now gained 20 yrs ago.......!I shall state quite clearly, my wife is a great person, no mistake......... but I have watched over the years, we both have very, very little in common. I feel that we are both dis-connected from the other & if it was just the...
    4meiski 4meiski 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    I Thought about starting a Blog ,

    I have considered writing a book... Mostly I realize I just I needed a outlet ... So My story is this .. I met my husband as young girl in the church I was the least bit interested in him but always thought he was quite handsome:), still is , I dated another guy for years had a...
    TheUnLovedWife TheUnLovedWife 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    My marriage is a complete joke!

    ! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid!! I knew I shouldn't have married him, but as per usual I was trying to make everyone happy so went ahead with it? I do love him...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    It's so complicated...... I hate this because I feel as if marriage shouldn't be taken lightly. I also feel that I used to be the one to run far away from commitment. Far away from...
    SweetT2 SweetT2 46-50, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    When Im high your low. When I see that your low I go low too. When im low your high and i stay low. It seems were never high at the same time. Guess were just two more dumbasses...
    KMBJuneBaby14 KMBJuneBaby14 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I never intended to get married, but I was lonely and met someone that I felt an electrical connection with who would not stay without a ring. So I got married. As the years have...
    jp20156 jp20156 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was in a relationship on and off for about two years. We had talked about sex and well everything. I always said no, because he was more experienced than me. (So I thought). We...
    renbeamm renbeamm 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    My first kiss was unexpected. to some people maybe its romantic, but i felt nothing at all. we were at a carnival and it was pouring and we were all wet and it was humid and he was...
    jkkievit jkkievit 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I feel..that if you really love someone? you don't need to get married to prove that. I find that kinda stupid? lol I will never get married. marriage doesint last? nor does...
    Muffin19 Muffin19 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It suddenly hit me. That head, though. I hurt. I tear up. I will miss it. I will miss your big, lovely, lovely head. That was always my favorite part of you. The memory of...
    one2talk one2talk 31-35 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I regret those cigarettes tonight. That's why I like working, less time to ruminate
    XxBloodyLullabyxX XxBloodyLullabyxX 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    When I left home. I didn't care. I truest didn't. My parents could go **** them selves. But Ayer almost a year of traveling from shelters, to houses, to paying rent, even went...
    londonbr1dge londonbr1dge 18-21, F a week ago

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    I apologize in advance if this is all over the place. I married a serial cheater who also happens to be the most amazing father to our children. I found out he was cheating when I...
    question253 question253 41-45, F a week ago

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    I'm happy to be on the other side of my SM. I have long moments of feeling at peace. The Ex is still being a creep. But, it's Friday night, I'm alone. I can listen to The Carpenter...
    PinkJeanie1970 PinkJeanie1970 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I'm 17 and never knew the actual feeling of regret until I lost my virginity a month ago. I waited for so long to make sure I lost it to someone that actually meant something to me...
    tg3434 tg3434 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    A revelation? My husband and I started marriage counseling this past Monday. It was hard. Having to sit there and explain to a stranger why you are there...with your husband...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Jul 24

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    My husband text me that he would rather be a monk than to have sex with me, and that if that is my need, I should go elsewhere to satisfy it. My heart sank. Finally....I have more...
    GreyStreet98 GreyStreet98 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    you know i really do not know how to look at this Gay Marriage and Transgender stuff, I was talking to my room mate about this myself & my room mate are not gay but i told him my...
    Jerseygal72 Jerseygal72 41-45, F Jul 21

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    Today I am slightly pained. I have had a few of these days recently. I finally came to the conclusion that I may still be holding on to some regret from my past. Regret as in the...
    njflyer njflyer 31-35, M Jul 21

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    Uh my previous post is filled with typos. Damn iphone autocorrect. So i am in two minds, we haven't spoken since we got sober. He didn't respond to my huge break up text where i...
    Ambiguoustruth Ambiguoustruth 22-25 Jul 20

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    So i broke up with my bf drunk and i regret it. We were having a troubled week and things were a little bumpy.. Though we were communicating and missed each other. Saturday night...
    Ambiguoustruth Ambiguoustruth 22-25 Jul 20

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    I lost my virginity last friday night. i was out in town with my friends and hadn't been so drunk since my 18th birthday. i started chatting to a guy next thing i know I'm walking...
    travellover96 travellover96 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I'm married and I've only been married for almost a year. But way before our relationship prior to marriage (5 years ago) I met this guy and there was no doubt in my mind that I...
    slofox slofox 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Someone once told me, "You have to get up and find the beauty of the world." And they were right. The world is a horrible place. Life in itself is pretty crappy. Chance brings you...
    SupermanReturns SupermanReturns 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    This happened about 2 weeks ago. He didnt know I was a virgin. Well i was in his house & no one was home. We were just cuddling on the couch and talking about everything. Then we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 18

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    In madness there is a regret of all knowledge craved and acquired before, it metamorphoses into your enemy even once it was your source of life. Refuge is found only in sheer...
    sirolosirolo sirolosirolo 22-25, F Jul 18

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    Well I'm still with my boyfriend although he has had an arranged marriage last March. It kills me. He just went out there for Ramadan to finally pick her up and take her in the US...
    4evergrey 4evergrey 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Procrastination is my middle name. That's why I'm here after 20 years. But this year, my goal is to leave this group and join the one (does it exist?) that says "I left my sexless...
    silverdarling silverdarling 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 17

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    This is so exciting that gay marriage is now legal. I think it's great couples are given the right to marry whoever they wish. And not a damn thing anybody can do about it. Yes I...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    1. Having met some of the guys I dated 2. Didnt wait longer to explore other job opportunities before taking this job offer 3. Buying a bag recently that doesn't look so good 4...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F Jul 17

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    No i didnt. I was a curious little cat, i was naive, eager, in need some kind of affection, lonely and sad. I've done it with a couple of people and the first guy, well lets...
    lonelywandererx lonelywandererx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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