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I Regret My Marriage

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    I kind of regret getting married.

    *The crazy thing is one of the most disturbing nightmares I ever had was while I was in my teens, and it was about me marrying a decent man who absolutely loved me, but I didn't really love-love him back.. but I ended up marrying him because I was afraid of loving someone who...
    Bethstar Bethstar 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2015

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    Its not that I dont love my husband,

    just that every step of us being together has been a struggle. I have sacrificed and invested so much in this relationship and I'm left wondering is it worth it. I don't feel my husband loves me as much as I love him and I feel as though he is only with me because he has more...
    mily24 mily24 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    Marriage....

    We were childhood friends who reconnected in adulthood. We rushed into a marriage that I regret. I long for my single life again, not necesarily to be single again, but to have my freedom back. He is angry, difficult, and an all around hateful man. I know I am far from perfect...
    abbstan1 abbstan1 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    My marriage is a complete joke!

    ! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid!! I knew I shouldn't have married him, but as per usual I was trying to make everyone happy so went ahead with it? I do love him...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    Where Did The Love Go ........... ??

    Oh that I had the widom, now gained 20 yrs ago.......!I shall state quite clearly, my wife is a great person, no mistake......... but I have watched over the years, we both have very, very little in common. I feel that we are both dis-connected from the other & if it was just the...
    4meiski 4meiski 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    Hurt And Betrayed Over And Over

    Hello, I have been married for about 5 years now with 2 beautiful children.   They seem to be the only great thing coming out of my marriage.  I have been with my husband for 12 years all together.  When we first began dating for the first few years things...
    wifescorned wifescorned 26-30, F 6 Responses May 2, 2010

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    I Thought about starting a Blog ,

    I have considered writing a book... Mostly I realize I just I needed a outlet ... So My story is this .. I met my husband as young girl in the church I was the least bit interested in him but always thought he was quite handsome:), still is , I dated another guy for years had a...
    TheUnLovedWife TheUnLovedWife 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    Time to Move On?

    I made a wrong decision that day.  To top it off, when I filed for the divorce I wrote the wrong date on the proof of service, so it was delayed...DUH!  My husband begged, I gave in(a total no no) and I said I would "consider counseling" ugh!  This is one...
    star13 star13 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    My Husben Is Still Living With He's Parents

    i meet my husben on line, we dating for 1 year, and then we decide to get merried, we live 4 hr distance, when we get merried he start saying things like in the future he would like he's mother come to live with me in the while he is with father and working becouse, i told him...
    menimoo menimoo 46-50 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Regret My Marriage

    I dated him for 8 months and got engaged and then married at age of 23. His business was doing fine (according to him) then and I was also earning fine. After 10 years today he blames me for bringing bad luck in his life. He gets irritate with me too often...abuses...and hits in...
    PChug PChug 31-35 3 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    After everything we've been through I am not

    sad to say I highly regret marrying the person I did.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 16, 2015

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    How Stupid...

    I should have never have gotten married. It was stupid and unromantic. He cheated on me and I only stayed with him because I had planned to get even. Stupid. I know! I mean, we already had a baby and I then got pregnant with the next soon after. My plan to get even fell...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    I Regret My Marriage.

    My husband is very sensitive. He has had a very different upbringing and the instability still shows.  I knew that there were issues before marriage but I didn't expect him to take things out on me. * There is no violence* And most of the times things are fine. It's just...
    omshanti omshanti 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    my husband seem so different. i love him very much but get so depressed regarding the lack of sex in our marriage. i have always wanted sex more than him. we have been through...
    Asheera123 Asheera123 41-45, F 1 Response 55 mins ago

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    Marriage is a religious institution. The government shouldn't be in the business of giving out marriage licenses. The government should only be giving out Civil Unions. If you want...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Just wanted to say goodbye to everyone here. I will remain in the group just to check back on stories and the many people I have chatted with. I am no longer in a sexless marriage...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 12 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    The nuns would be saddened perhaps. There are regrets now, I guess, with the truth of it, because my desire to know what sex was like, overwhelmed my moral sense inspired by the...
    Wishart95 Wishart95 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    You can learn a lot about a man by his perception of marriage. Somen think of marriage is a government conspiracy, another man can think marriage is only good for having sex with a...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I've never been very fond of marriage. No, my parents never got married. No, I didn't really want them to get married nor did I not want them to. I think I just realized after...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123 16-17, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Dear me, Don't rip and toss your memories away due to temporary determination. You'll regret it immediately.
    TulipBaby TulipBaby 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    We had 'the chat' last night. It was difficult to express how I felt. I didn't want to hurt him. Divorce was not discussed but laid everything out on the table. Seems that he...
    CupidBowLips CupidBowLips 36-40, F 20 Responses 1 day ago

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    In the end, its those simple happy moments that really matter. Shucks! I should've taken more pictures or videos of my friends in college. But I was too concerned and focused on my...
    mozartdoesnotreek mozartdoesnotreek 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    What I have to come realize in my sexless marriage is it is not the sexual acts per se that I miss most, but it is the intimacy and connection that comes before/during/after sex...
    rustyblueday rustyblueday 46-50, F 14 Responses 3 days ago

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    I dated someone for around 1.5 years and have very recently split with them. We were fighting a lot, just petty arguments about life ambitions, similar activities, everyday things...
    NormalCrap NormalCrap 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    One man, one woman. No sex until marriage. Traditional Christian vows including "to love, honor and Obey" for brides. Husband as undisputed head of the family and sole provider...
    MrsAshleyR MrsAshleyR 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was 15 and had been dating the guy for like 4 months and he was a bit pushy. so being the people-pleaser that i am, i said yes and he didn't seem to show much love and care when...
    lilahwillowoak lilahwillowoak 16-17, F Feb 1

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    I have been married 18 years. 2 Kids. Can count on both hands how many times we have had sex in the past decade. We've been to therapy twice. We have had hard conversations. I have...
    rustyblueday rustyblueday 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    not sure if its regret over the person, or that it was ****. probably both. it was a few days ago with a guy thats 9 years older than me, also my friends brother. i just wish i...
    jesusfuck jesusfuck 16-17, F Jan 31

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    There is no point in regretting what you can't change, move on learn and don't repeat your mistakes.
    polylove0210 polylove0210 18-21, F Jan 31

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    Many times I have made friends on here that I got really close to. But sometimes, the friendships went really wrong. Sometimes I messed up. Sometimes they messed up. Sometimes it...
    AngelAmongClouds AngelAmongClouds 13-15, F Jan 30

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    What do you hate the most about yourself? - I hate the fact that when I get overwhelmed and/or stressed I tend to shut people out, I even shut the people that I care about the...
    PartyKitty90 PartyKitty90 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    I have regrets, although not many especially when it comes to romance. I think my biggest regret is not taking a chance with a guy I met a couple months after a pretty serious...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F Jan 30

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    I grew up with a father who could not fathom how men cheated on their wives. I heard him say multiple times, "It's not that hard to be faithful." He set up boundaries for himself...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 29

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    I just want to share. I joined this place after two years of struggles in my marriage. I have gone by various names in here : Thedarkenedshadow Dsop Some people have followed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 27

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    My husband and I have been married for almost four years, together for 10. We spent the first three years together without disagreeing or arguing even once. It was sheer bliss, I...
    TjbDetroit TjbDetroit 26-30, F Jan 26

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    I lost my virginity about 3 days ago to a friend that I've known for 9 years. He's my best friends biggest enemy and I haven't even told her I'm speaking to him since she...
    longdarkhair longdarkhair 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Pulling the trigger Our marriage is over. Not only could you poke me with a fork, the thing that is being poked is now charcoal. A pneumatic drill couldn't poke it. My husband...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 46-50, F 13 Responses Jan 25

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    Chumps I recently found a web site that gives advice to chumps. "Chumps" people who wake up one day finding their partner has been unfaithful. The Chump wisdom she gives to the...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    hey there , I am Frank. i,m from new berry . 3 months backs i was so tired from the daily issues i was having at my marriage front . Everyday we tried to give our relation a new...
    franklampard14 franklampard14 31-35, M Jan 25

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    Back in my young and single days, before I married and had kids, I used to frequent the nightclubs with my friends and dance the night away. I love dancing, plus I am a social...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    Dumbest regret ever: a cute guy came into my work and asked for my number in the cheesiest way. I was flustered, as this had never happened to me before, and told him "sorry, no" 1...
    inkypen inkypen 16-17, F Jan 24

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