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    Regret My Marriage

    I dated him for 8 months and got engaged and then married at age of 23. His business was doing fine (according to him) then and I was also earning fine. After 10 years today he blames me for bringing bad luck in his life. He gets irritate with me too often...abuses...and hits in...
    PChug PChug 31-35 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I Thought about starting a Blog ,

    I have considered writing a book... Mostly I realize I just I needed a outlet ... So My story is this .. I met my husband as young girl in the church I was the least bit interested in him but always thought he was quite handsome:), still is , I dated another guy for years had a...
    TheUnLovedWife TheUnLovedWife 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    Hurt And Betrayed Over And Over

    Hello, I have been married for about 5 years now with 2 beautiful children.   They seem to be the only great thing coming out of my marriage.  I have been with my husband for 12 years all together.  When we first began dating for the first few years things...
    wifescorned wifescorned 26-30, F 6 Responses May 2, 2010

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    Where Did The Love Go ........... ??

    Oh that I had the widom, now gained 20 yrs ago.......!I shall state quite clearly, my wife is a great person, no mistake......... but I have watched over the years, we both have very, very little in common. I feel that we are both dis-connected from the other & if it was just the...
    4meiski 4meiski 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    I Regret My Marriage.

    My husband is very sensitive. He has had a very different upbringing and the instability still shows.  I knew that there were issues before marriage but I didn't expect him to take things out on me. * There is no violence* And most of the times things are fine. It's just...
    omshanti omshanti 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    Its not that I dont love my husband,

    just that every step of us being together has been a struggle. I have sacrificed and invested so much in this relationship and I'm left wondering is it worth it. I don't feel my husband loves me as much as I love him and I feel as though he is only with me because he has more...
    mily24 mily24 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    My Husben Is Still Living With He's Parents

    i meet my husben on line, we dating for 1 year, and then we decide to get merried, we live 4 hr distance, when we get merried he start saying things like in the future he would like he's mother come to live with me in the while he is with father and working becouse, i told him...
    menimoo menimoo 46-50 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Marriage....

    We were childhood friends who reconnected in adulthood. We rushed into a marriage that I regret. I long for my single life again, not necesarily to be single again, but to have my freedom back. He is angry, difficult, and an all around hateful man. I know I am far from perfect...
    abbstan1 abbstan1 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    My marriage is a complete joke!

    ! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid!! I knew I shouldn't have married him, but as per usual I was trying to make everyone happy so went ahead with it? I do love him...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    How Stupid...

    I should have never have gotten married. It was stupid and unromantic. He cheated on me and I only stayed with him because I had planned to get even. Stupid. I know! I mean, we already had a baby and I then got pregnant with the next soon after. My plan to get even fell...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Time to Move On?

    I made a wrong decision that day.  To top it off, when I filed for the divorce I wrote the wrong date on the proof of service, so it was delayed...DUH!  My husband begged, I gave in(a total no no) and I said I would "consider counseling" ugh!  This is one...
    star13 star13 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Daily it seems I see the same post...someone stating they live in a sexless marriage. Sometimes I respond and offer advice though it feels like I'm just adding my voice to the many...
    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Well I'm not sure where this will end up. But I'm here as a former refuser. One to make some amends and two to tell the truth to all the women who are currently living with a...
    Transgressed Transgressed 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I was 15. But naah, I don't regret it. Sure there was a time when I thought I gave it up for someone who I just got infatuated with, but now I know I never was just infatuated with...
    ThinaElise ThinaElise 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    Without going into all of the lurid details, I am happy to say that I filed for divorce just over a month ago and I have NO REGRETS. Ok, maybe just one regret- that I didn't file...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 18 Responses Nov 22

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    I hate the word marriage because I regret been in one , I can't wait to be free
    World4me World4me 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Well I obviously didn't wait till marriage. Unfortunately I gave it away to the devil not saying any names . He took everything from me. I always did everything an anything he...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Sometimes I only do things because if I don't I might regret it and people say that I will have regrets based of off their experiences and its a part of life that I should be...
    bexk bexk 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    I did it when i was 14 years old with a person who i barely knew. But it was "fun" because it was spontaneously, but sometimes i regret it, but sometimes i don't, but most of the...
    Triksy27 Triksy27 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    Sometimes I regret it but in a lot of times, I dont because I found out what I dont like fairly easily and it makes doing what I like and communicating what I do or dont like...
    djjak djjak 36-40, M Nov 25

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    She won't kiss me good night, she won't say good morning or hello when I get home form work. All she dose is tell me how much she regrets not leaving me.
    lastinlove86 lastinlove86 26-30, M 8 Responses Dec 3

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    I lost mine when I was 19. I also had my first kiss earlier that year. Yup. I waited 19 years for a kiss. I don't regret it. It made me who I am today. I'm not with the guy...
    Passionfruit101 Passionfruit101 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I just found this site and can't believe how the stories mirror my experience. My wife has had an emotional affair for 5 years - and I found out about it just after it started...
    Mike405 Mike405 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    Yes I did marry her but I now realized I was not in love with her , it was only out of pity due to her disability and I was close to her as a friend but I regret everything and I...
    World4me World4me 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I lost my virginity to a boy I fell in love with, 11 months ago. He used me and then tossed my away when he found another. I've never regretted anything more...
    painseeker16 painseeker16 18-21, F 25 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Never believed in regret until recently. You make decisions based on how you feel at the time, and that should be enough to see you through it. Right or wrong, it builds your...
    Shiningstar26 Shiningstar26 18-21, F Dec 8

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    I'm going to tell a story, so prepare for a lengthy read. Read it if you like, or not, I just need to write it down. I'm going to start at a very important part of my experience...
    soulrebel78 soulrebel78 36-40, F Nov 30

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    I regret having an abortion.. I was 17 just starting my senior year in high school a couple months ago when I found out I was pregnant, I was scared I told my friends and it ended...
    simplyme1996 simplyme1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Honestly, I don't regret all of the things I have done, because I know in order to learn, I have to make mistakes. But if I have anything to regret, it's what I didn't do, what I...
    justicehero justicehero 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    you broke my heart and used me for money and lied about it...you took my baby while it was still developing because you caused me so much emotional stress even though I told you I...
    butterflyofchange butterflyofchange 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I regret a lot of things but thing I regret the most is calling him the mistake when it was just me .... :(
    Javier09 Javier09 13-15, M Dec 3

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    Last Friday, December 5th, was my 57th birthday. I was pretty darned happy because of the direction my life has taken. It wasn’t going to be any different than any other Friday...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    can't stop regretting letting him go. at first I didn't care as much, I don't know what it is that keeps triggering the memories of him. I don't know how to get over this..I know...
    xxMidx xxMidx 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    It's been a year since I last posted. I had an online affair with a woman I met on EP. I fell in love with her. My wife found out and I broke it off. I haven't spoken to her in a...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 28

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    On ne trouve plus trace d’elle à l'UP après la 5 ème conférence nationale, en juin 1956.33 Elle rejoignit alors Pierre Mendès-France. Pour le soutenir dans sa tentative de r...
    mckewjynx mckewjynx 26-30, M Nov 18

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    I have the regret of commit in suicide when I really wanted to.
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M Nov 18

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    Don't regret something thay once made you smile.
    Moonembracingthesun Moonembracingthesun 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    "A life without regret, is no life at all"
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 18

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    I regret opening up to some people, it just bugs me knowing there's a few out there who didn't even deserve to know me like that
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 20

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    Ok I know it says I regret breaking up as the topic but that's the thing I don't know if I do, and this is more of a question. So I started dating this guy cause he seemed really...
    Nicolegirl14 Nicolegirl14 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 22

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    I thought found the girl id looked for all my life , you know you see couples sitting in a bar , gazing into each others eyes you can just tell they are totally in love, well I...
    kx06zaw kx06zaw 36-40, M Nov 22

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    Watching Ellen Show clips online, thinking I could have been there. But it would have been irresponsible. I'm just too busy. It's a decision I had to make, and I don't regret it.
    kennedy10505 kennedy10505 13-15, F Dec 1

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    Thoughts of what ifs and maybes weigh in me like chains, doubt and regret block My mind from happier thoughts. I have to accept she was not the one,and that I should avoid...
    YohKomori YohKomori 22-25, M Dec 2

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    One of my biggest regrets right now is a recent (ish) ex boyfriend. I have come to realize how much I really hurt him and I'm starting to get really upset about this. It gets to a...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    I broke up with him for like the 5th time because I am very insecure. We live states apart, he is 3 hours ahead so its hard to connect. I work crazy hours and we both are in school...
    lostwithoutluke lostwithoutluke 18-21, M Dec 7

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    I regret not believing to the only person who never lied to me...
    mystic00 mystic00 22-25, F