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I Regret My Marriage

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    Where Did The Love Go ........... ??

    Oh that I had the widom, now gained 20 yrs ago.......!I shall state quite clearly, my wife is a great person, no mistake......... but I have watched over the years, we both have very, very little in common. I feel that we are both dis-connected from the other & if it was just the...
    4meiski 4meiski 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    Its not that I dont love my husband,

    just that every step of us being together has been a struggle. I have sacrificed and invested so much in this relationship and I'm left wondering is it worth it. I don't feel my husband loves me as much as I love him and I feel as though he is only with me because he has more...
    mily24 mily24 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    My marriage is a complete joke!

    ! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid!! I knew I shouldn't have married him, but as per usual I was trying to make everyone happy so went ahead with it? I do love him...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    I kind of regret getting married.

    *The crazy thing is one of the most disturbing nightmares I ever had was while I was in my teens, and it was about me marrying a decent man who absolutely loved me, but I didn't really love-love him back.. but I ended up marrying him because I was afraid of loving someone who...
    Bethstar Bethstar 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    My Husben Is Still Living With He's Parents

    i meet my husben on line, we dating for 1 year, and then we decide to get merried, we live 4 hr distance, when we get merried he start saying things like in the future he would like he's mother come to live with me in the while he is with father and working becouse, i told him...
    menimoo menimoo 46-50 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Time to Move On?

    I made a wrong decision that day.  To top it off, when I filed for the divorce I wrote the wrong date on the proof of service, so it was delayed...DUH!  My husband begged, I gave in(a total no no) and I said I would "consider counseling" ugh!  This is one...
    star13 star13 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Marriage....

    We were childhood friends who reconnected in adulthood. We rushed into a marriage that I regret. I long for my single life again, not necesarily to be single again, but to have my freedom back. He is angry, difficult, and an all around hateful man. I know I am far from perfect...
    abbstan1 abbstan1 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    I Thought about starting a Blog ,

    I have considered writing a book... Mostly I realize I just I needed a outlet ... So My story is this .. I met my husband as young girl in the church I was the least bit interested in him but always thought he was quite handsome:), still is , I dated another guy for years had a...
    TheUnLovedWife TheUnLovedWife 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    Hurt And Betrayed Over And Over

    Hello, I have been married for about 5 years now with 2 beautiful children.   They seem to be the only great thing coming out of my marriage.  I have been with my husband for 12 years all together.  When we first began dating for the first few years things...
    wifescorned wifescorned 26-30, F 6 Responses May 2, 2010

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    I Regret My Marriage.

    My husband is very sensitive. He has had a very different upbringing and the instability still shows.  I knew that there were issues before marriage but I didn't expect him to take things out on me. * There is no violence* And most of the times things are fine. It's just...
    omshanti omshanti 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    How Stupid...

    I should have never have gotten married. It was stupid and unromantic. He cheated on me and I only stayed with him because I had planned to get even. Stupid. I know! I mean, we already had a baby and I then got pregnant with the next soon after. My plan to get even fell...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Regret My Marriage

    I dated him for 8 months and got engaged and then married at age of 23. His business was doing fine (according to him) then and I was also earning fine. After 10 years today he blames me for bringing bad luck in his life. He gets irritate with me too often...abuses...and hits in...
    PChug PChug 31-35 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Married 25 years with three kids (25, 23, 21). I have been living in a sexless marriage (meaning zero sex) for the past 6 years, touchless (meaning zero touch) for the past 3 years...
    acceptingmediocrity acceptingmediocrity 56-60, M 8 Responses Mar 9

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    So my lover says she can't be the "shadow woman" anymore, but WOW did we ever create some seriously amazing memories in 4 1/2 months of finally seeing each other after nearly 2...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    So i met this guy Lumi on internet And i thought he was the one i mean we talked tk each other 24/7 , i really thought i knew him , we liked the same things and shared the same...
    Lellaa Lellaa 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    well I am not sure if this is an experience ... I am 26. n married to my boyfriend for year n half.. we don't even have a proper conversation even for 10 min.. and we still have...
    no12talk no12talk 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I lost my virginity to a boy I had only met 4 days before. Ans I can happily say I do not regret it. I was on a cruise over Christmas break, I met him on Christmas in Barbados; it...
    doc15 doc15 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 7

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    I just found out the STBX responded to the divorce Summons at the last hour. Scheduled for Harassment Restraining Order in early April. I am perplexed as to why he even cares to...
    PinkJeanie1970 PinkJeanie1970 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    My single and most dreadful regret is getting off that train and going to meet the man I will marry 6 years later. And all the things that have happened since have been eroding my...
    rainydays88 rainydays88 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I always planned on waiting until marriage. Then I met Erick. He was not attractive physically, but he was sarcastic and I liked that. We dated for two years, off and on...
    molliee151 molliee151 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I regret not reading the moment and holding her hand. I regret not reading her face and kissing her lips. I regret that when she left her heart open and bare before me I was too...
    mar3sword mar3sword 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    I lost my virginity when I was 14. I felt that I was ready. I thought I was "in love". We broke up 8 months later. I don't regret it, but I wish things were different. I also wish...
    tayyylorrrrr tayyylorrrrr 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 14

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    But I don't regret it. I helped me realize a lot about myself and empowered me as a woman.
    notnowjesse notnowjesse 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Made this account because if I don't express this somewhere, even to an endlessly full yet often empty void like the internet, I may not be able to live with myself much longer. I...
    regrettingu regrettingu 26-30, F Mar 17

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    I posted one of these a while back.... I'm still virgin... D: I want to lose it before I'm 17 years old and I WILL! (I have 3.5 years) But I wonder who I will chose or who will...
    SadlySafe SadlySafe 13-15 12 Responses Mar 22

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    i lost my virginity at 18. i dont regret the act, only the person it was with...oh well.
    WorkInProgress2012 WorkInProgress2012 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    There is simply no reason to regret a right decision. If I don't see myself, going back in time and changing what I've done, then why have regrets? Because those who never walked a...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Roy Moore calls for 'Biblical marriage' at Texas rally AUSTIN, Texas — About 250 people gathered Monday afternoon at the Texas Capitol to rally in support of what they call...
    FindMeIAmYours FindMeIAmYours 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I regret that I never told this girl that I went to elementary school with a long time ago, Victoria "Vivi" Jamison that I had a huge crush on her.The best part was that I had a...
    Baileymill Baileymill 18-21 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Everybody has regrets. I was raised in a small rural village. When I was in my early 20's I moved to a big city. I was tired of rural life and hard working. I know I let my dad...
    pacodad pacodad 70+, M Mar 7

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    Good evening --- I however AM HAPPY IN MY MARRIAGE. This post is in response to the countless women that are unhappy in their marriages. Many wives lament and languish that they...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    You'll regret the things you don't do more than the things you do do. I'm a relatively young person, but I've already had regrets. And all of them come from the things I didn't do...
    chilldude82 chilldude82 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When I was 13 I bet a boy who soon became my best friend. I thought we had something special and then we eventually started dating when I was 14. We became close and he told me how...
    katie3401 katie3401 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sexless Marriage Help | The best online way to rejuvenate a marriage : Power of Two Marriage The first step in getting sexless marriage help is to understand the problem. Here’s...
    lass1 lass1 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    At what point do you give up? When do you finally say I've had enough of feeling alone. You build a life, kids, house, good jobs. You seem to have everthing and from the outside...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 9 Responses Mar 6

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    I CANNOT BELIEVE WHAT I AM READING... I have read so many stories of sexless marriages on here.. No intimacy! I am so sorry for many of you. I was treating my spouse very similar...
    KeraJo75 KeraJo75 36-40 5 Responses Mar 25

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    I have never been married, but I do know if relationship does finally end it will most likely happen at the worst time. When you are already married, that's why I don't want to get...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 13

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    There's a member that posted a story on marriage, loss of intimacy and love and divorce. In the end the husband realizes how he neglected his wife, how much he still loves her and...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I have always had a picture of my honeymoon night all planned in my head. i have always wanted to surprise my husband with a gift that god had given me. i am not a girl that is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 3

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    I have a sexless marriage and the marriage is working. It is because my wife and I have experienced lack of sex, knowledge or practicing it but in different ways and places. So we...
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 8

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    So everyone asks me once they find out I'm in a sexless marriage why I married this person to begin with. Well, honestly, we were two people who had both been single for a long...
    PenelopeAnne PenelopeAnne 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    People change, if you do not have the spark in your relationship you had when you first get married you should move on..... At least this is how I see it now.. Marriage is a 24/7...
    navyguy1976 navyguy1976 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    It's a shame marriage is looked down on and viewed in this way, any relationship is a risk and many end in divorce but for me, being married is something I have always wanted. It...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 19