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I Regret My Marriage

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    Time to Move On?

    I made a wrong decision that day.  To top it off, when I filed for the divorce I wrote the wrong date on the proof of service, so it was delayed...DUH!  My husband begged, I gave in(a total no no) and I said I would "consider counseling" ugh!  This is one...
    star13 star13 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Marriage....

    We were childhood friends who reconnected in adulthood. We rushed into a marriage that I regret. I long for my single life again, not necesarily to be single again, but to have my freedom back. He is angry, difficult, and an all around hateful man. I know I am far from perfect...
    abbstan1 abbstan1 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Its not that I dont love my husband,

    just that every step of us being together has been a struggle. I have sacrificed and invested so much in this relationship and I'm left wondering is it worth it. I don't feel my husband loves me as much as I love him and I feel as though he is only with me because he has more...
    mily24 mily24 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    Hurt And Betrayed Over And Over

    Hello, I have been married for about 5 years now with 2 beautiful children.   They seem to be the only great thing coming out of my marriage.  I have been with my husband for 12 years all together.  When we first began dating for the first few years things...
    wifescorned wifescorned 26-30, F 6 Responses May 2, 2010

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    I Regret My Marriage.

    My husband is very sensitive. He has had a very different upbringing and the instability still shows.  I knew that there were issues before marriage but I didn't expect him to take things out on me. * There is no violence* And most of the times things are fine. It's just...
    omshanti omshanti 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    My marriage is a complete joke!

    ! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid!! I knew I shouldn't have married him, but as per usual I was trying to make everyone happy so went ahead with it? I do love him...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    My Husben Is Still Living With He's Parents

    i meet my husben on line, we dating for 1 year, and then we decide to get merried, we live 4 hr distance, when we get merried he start saying things like in the future he would like he's mother come to live with me in the while he is with father and working becouse, i told him...
    menimoo menimoo 46-50 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Regret My Marriage

    I dated him for 8 months and got engaged and then married at age of 23. His business was doing fine (according to him) then and I was also earning fine. After 10 years today he blames me for bringing bad luck in his life. He gets irritate with me too often...abuses...and hits in...
    PChug PChug 31-35 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I Thought about starting a Blog ,

    I have considered writing a book... Mostly I realize I just I needed a outlet ... So My story is this .. I met my husband as young girl in the church I was the least bit interested in him but always thought he was quite handsome:), still is , I dated another guy for years had a...
    TheUnLovedWife TheUnLovedWife 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    Where Did The Love Go ........... ??

    Oh that I had the widom, now gained 20 yrs ago.......!I shall state quite clearly, my wife is a great person, no mistake......... but I have watched over the years, we both have very, very little in common. I feel that we are both dis-connected from the other & if it was just the...
    4meiski 4meiski 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    How Stupid...

    I should have never have gotten married. It was stupid and unromantic. He cheated on me and I only stayed with him because I had planned to get even. Stupid. I know! I mean, we already had a baby and I then got pregnant with the next soon after. My plan to get even fell...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    TownsendsGirl TownsendsGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    & I have no regrets. That said, I sincerely believe "to each his/her own" and would hate to imply my choices were the best choices. I respect people who choose to wait til marriage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I am engaged to what i believe is a good man. We moved in 6 months after we started dating and a month later he proposed, I said yes. We started fighting a lot in month 10. The...
    bleuoiseau bleuoiseau 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I'm a widow. My husband died when I was 31. I dated afterwards and met a man that I didn't date long. His anger issues shown through too early. A weeks after I broke it off I found...
    Tabetha7 Tabetha7 31-35, F Jan 9

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    I decided not to wait :$ My ex and I have started to date again and things started to change cause we both are 17 now and in last year of high school. I clearly remember my first...
    victoriakim97 victoriakim97 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I don't regret not waiting. it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 13 Responses Jan 2

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    I don't regret having done it, but given half a chance I'd go back and change the circumstances/person.
    wearebecominggod wearebecominggod 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I don't regret it at all. I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 4

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    the only thing I regret it was with a girl. As trans I wish I had waited until later or had been with a guy. It never felt right being with a girl I always felt like I was in the...
    Therealjason Therealjason 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    At 13, I decided it was time. Haha! I don't regret a thing.
    Leofflaed Leofflaed 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 12

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    I slept with my best friends oldest brother, who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was...
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Both us did not wait. We do not regret our experience. We both had two previous partners. Husband (Asian) had sex with two Asian girlfriends, and wife (White) had sex with a...
    AMWF1 AMWF1 36-40 2 Responses a week ago

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    My ex boyfriend was the first boy to ever show me true affection. we only dated 2 months and I got drunk and high. He took advantage of the situation and we had sex. I regret it...
    Alina627 Alina627 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    i dont consider my experiences before 16 as sex, they were mistakes that i wish i could take back but the past is the past, but im grateful for the true intmacy i felt with my love...
    mstasia316 mstasia316 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    For a few years, I spent time going around the world to find myself. I also met a lovely woman at a nude beach. We sang songs and had sex in front of a bonfire. We haven't kept...
    LetMeBeBlunt LetMeBeBlunt 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This motorcycle trip might now be described as a coming-of-age, last-fling-of-youth story or some such thing, but I just saw it as another adventure with a good buddy. I was, and...
    SammySamps SammySamps 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am not in a troubled marriage. I am now in my second marriage. My first marriage lasted 21 years. My wife was confined to a wheelchair due to disability. We had three children...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Regret is a funny thing. It sticks to us like glue, even after we have washed our hands of it. It stays on us like a scent. It always comes back like the pesky little fly that won...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F Jan 5

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    Well I'm not going I say never but as of right now I don't feel like i need to get married in the future. Look I'm not in a serious relationship, do I want to be yes. I want to be...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 18

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    India as you all might know is a country rich in culture and tradition. Arranged marriages happens to be a very integral part of this culture. I am 27 years old and got married in...
    femaleskeleton femaleskeleton 26-30 1 Response Jan 19

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    I certainly have some regrets in my life, things I wish I did or didn't do, and stuff I wish I did differently. but I no longer beat myself up too much about them. These days...
    SonOfSartre SonOfSartre 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 3

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    I've never regretted breaking up with my ex's except one. "the one that got away" :( It was my fault, I had just turned 21 and he was a year younger and I was starting to live...
    August28 August28 26-30, F Jan 6

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    I would like to get some responses.. Is there any of you or somebody you know who is in a long distance marriage, -I stressed, marriage, not 'long distance relationship', -and...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Why do they call it gay marriage? Im so sick of the labels they give everything. Its not a gay marriage. Its marriage. Marriage is about two people who love each other. It doesnt...
    WarriorPoet97 WarriorPoet97 16-17, F 8 Responses Jan 2

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    Facing marriage, people have different ideas about the contrast between love and money. However, I prefer love to money, if I have the choice. Firstly, as a matter of fact, love...
    rosafiermonte rosafiermonte 26-30, F Jan 14

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    It does not belong to me it belongs to everyone. Marriage is between consenting parties who vow to be in a committed romantic relationship. Far be it form me to stop someone from...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 19

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    maybe against would be a strong word, but i dont agree with force arranged marriage. what i feel more painful however is the fact that... for children who love their parents, they...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I have been divorced for over 3 years now. I often read stories here from people in sexless marriages, hoping that maybe I can help someone either save their marriage or help in...
    sundancesoul sundancesoul 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The words marriage and engagement still depress me; make me feel disgusted somehow… Yes, disgusted! For different reasons which I may freely share here some time in the future...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    To help people to be more informed about Pakistan instead of listening to poverty and falling for any stories. Having been to Pakistan many times, I can safely say the below;- 1...
    Eridanus Eridanus 31-35 2 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help SOLVER KING render to me in my marital life. i have been married...
    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    It is better to learn faithfulness before marriage. Those who were not willing to wait before marriage, will more likely not restist within marriage. I believe that true love waits...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I have been married for 19 years. my husband prefers I keep any issue that may start argument's to myself. he respects outsiders over me and our marriage. he doesn't listen to...
    mrsunderstood72 mrsunderstood72 41-45 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Well , yesterday we had our first joint counselling session. Beforehand I was very anxious. I had a knot in my stomach and a pain in my head. I wasn't sure if H would appear, but...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 26 Responses Jan 20

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    I have been in my prison sentence of a marriage way to long I have given everything I can think of for my marriage and nothing works I had a glimmer of hope yesterday evening...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    My biggest regret is that I trusted someone I shouldn't have