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I Regret My Marriage

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    Hurt And Betrayed Over And Over

    Hello, I have been married for about 5 years now with 2 beautiful children.   They seem to be the only great thing coming out of my marriage.  I have been with my husband for 12 years all together.  When we first began dating for the first few years things...
    wifescorned wifescorned 26-30, F 6 Responses May 2, 2010

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    My marriage is a complete joke!

    ! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid!! I knew I shouldn't have married him, but as per usual I was trying to make everyone happy so went ahead with it? I do love him...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    How Stupid...

    I should have never have gotten married. It was stupid and unromantic. He cheated on me and I only stayed with him because I had planned to get even. Stupid. I know! I mean, we already had a baby and I then got pregnant with the next soon after. My plan to get even fell...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Time to Move On?

    I made a wrong decision that day.  To top it off, when I filed for the divorce I wrote the wrong date on the proof of service, so it was delayed...DUH!  My husband begged, I gave in(a total no no) and I said I would "consider counseling" ugh!  This is one...
    star13 star13 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Regret My Marriage

    I dated him for 8 months and got engaged and then married at age of 23. His business was doing fine (according to him) then and I was also earning fine. After 10 years today he blames me for bringing bad luck in his life. He gets irritate with me too often...abuses...and hits in...
    PChug PChug 31-35 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Where Did The Love Go ........... ??

    Oh that I had the widom, now gained 20 yrs ago.......!I shall state quite clearly, my wife is a great person, no mistake......... but I have watched over the years, we both have very, very little in common. I feel that we are both dis-connected from the other & if it was just the...
    4meiski 4meiski 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    I Regret My Marriage.

    My husband is very sensitive. He has had a very different upbringing and the instability still shows.  I knew that there were issues before marriage but I didn't expect him to take things out on me. * There is no violence* And most of the times things are fine. It's just...
    omshanti omshanti 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    I Thought about starting a Blog ,

    I have considered writing a book... Mostly I realize I just I needed a outlet ... So My story is this .. I met my husband as young girl in the church I was the least bit interested in him but always thought he was quite handsome:), still is , I dated another guy for years had a...
    TheUnLovedWife TheUnLovedWife 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    My Husben Is Still Living With He's Parents

    i meet my husben on line, we dating for 1 year, and then we decide to get merried, we live 4 hr distance, when we get merried he start saying things like in the future he would like he's mother come to live with me in the while he is with father and working becouse, i told him...
    menimoo menimoo 46-50 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Marriage....

    We were childhood friends who reconnected in adulthood. We rushed into a marriage that I regret. I long for my single life again, not necesarily to be single again, but to have my freedom back. He is angry, difficult, and an all around hateful man. I know I am far from perfect...
    abbstan1 abbstan1 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Its not that I dont love my husband,

    just that every step of us being together has been a struggle. I have sacrificed and invested so much in this relationship and I'm left wondering is it worth it. I don't feel my husband loves me as much as I love him and I feel as though he is only with me because he has more...
    mily24 mily24 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I was 16. My mom would let me have "kegger" parties! (Crazy, I know). I really liked this guy "A" and we made out hardcore! I got really drunk and he wanted to have sex. I said "no...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 38 mins ago

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    “Why should I, as a gay man, be denied the same right to file a joint tax return with my potential husband that a straight couple has?” Very helpful answer by Ryan T. Anderson...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I lost mine at the tender age of 13 haha. I regret who I lost it to because he is an ahole. I regret it because I didn't really even want to sleep with him but he kind of made it...
    AnonBiTeen AnonBiTeen 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I have been married for 15 years. The crossdressing came out about 8 years ago. I was really supportive and loving about it. Felt sorry for Husband that he had had to hide it all...
    LadyLana39 LadyLana39 51-55, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    My Story Part 2 About a year I could not face the reality... I thought it all was happening to somebody else and I was just watching... at the same time my country collapsed in...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F 3 hrs ago

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    My Story Part 1 I joined the group shortly after I decided what I do about my sexless marriage. I did not need to vent but just wanted some communication and the only one...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F 3 hrs ago

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    My Story Part 3 I was not in love,but liked my future husband... It seemed that we perfectly suitable- two mature people, both have been hurt in the past... yes,some reddish...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F 3 hrs ago

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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Thank you so much for those who will read this entire experience. I lost my virginity about a year ago. It was fun, as i expected. I didn't regret it then, and I haven't regretted...
    imallhers imallhers 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 24

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    Very helpful article http://www.nationalreview.com/article/378538/marriage-where-do-we-go-here-ryan-t-anderson
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 18 hrs ago

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    I have a question for those in this group. A friend of mine said I needed to "go have fun". I am not sure I know how to do that anymore. So I pose it to you that are in similar...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 24 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I'm 29 russian Lesbian looking for a gay man from Sicily. Currently i live in Germany. I am straight looking and behaving, educated, financially independant. I consider...
    SunnyTimeL SunnyTimeL 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Ok, so ive been in an on and off relationship with someone for almost 10 years. the biggest issue was that he is a pathological liar. he lied to me for years on end and i kept...
    Myah29 Myah29 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hello I'm new to this site. I posted once prior, but I had no clue where I was in the situation. I'm a terrible writer and this is going to be long enough, so I'll jump right into...
    gator613 gator613 26-30, M Jul 9

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    She was the suite-mate of my girlfriend in college. She was always my friend, and very nice to me. When my girlfriend broke up with me, she expressed an interest in being more...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I did live in a sexless marriage. It was and still is the lowest point of my life. And I am glad I finally kicked that ***** out of my life. It took a long time, and nearly all my...
    TheEppy TheEppy 31-35, M 6 Responses Jul 5

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    My wife and I have not had sex in almost two and a half years. The years leading up to that saw dwindling physical contact. It suddenly dropped to a couple of times in a year...
    StratfordMan StratfordMan 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I "lost my virginity" at 15. I was not in a relationship at the time and I had several sexual experiences before i had a committed partner. I was raised Catholic and my parents...
    AlvieBrink AlvieBrink 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm 16 and I have a daughter. I've been dating the same guy since 2010 when I was 12 and he was 13. We started having sex when I was 15 and he was 16 because we felt ready, once...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I am so glad I found this site! I can't talk to my friends or family about this. Don't get me wrong, if you like living in a small town, that's your choice. I grew up in Billings...
    eadams eadams 22-25, F Jul 15

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    Didn't wait til marriage but it was all love and I have no regrets. Wouldn't change it for the world.
    ISnavygf ISnavygf 16-17, F Jul 23

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    I didn't wait until marriage. I was 17 an he was 23. I didn't regret it, and still dont, but the way he treats me now, i love him unconditionally, yet he fails to even try an talk...
    happyconfused212 happyconfused212 18-21, T 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I did not wait. I had sex with a boy I've known for 8 months . I'm 14 . Although, we had sex a couple days after our 4 month anniversary . I feel really bad about it , considering...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    I'm actually a guy but I really need help learning to deal with my wonderful wife each month. It's bad. Very. Very. Baaaad. I don't know how to say it strongly enough. We have a...
    gman1616 gman1616 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I'm actually a guy but I really need help learning to deal with my wonderful wife each month. It's bad. Very. Very. Baaaad. I don't know how to say it strongly enough. We have a...
    gman1616 gman1616 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm actually a guy but I really need help learning to deal with my wonderful wife each month. It's bad. Very. Very. Baaaad. I don't know how to say it strongly enough. We have a...
    gman1616 gman1616 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I regret not tell a girl how I feel, I regret not singing her, her favorite song she asked me to do, I regret not forgiving my ex, I regret not being able to stand up for the...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M Jul 16

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    I'm starting to dread bed time. Sleeping pills work. I also started noticing pains in my chest. The thing is I've only been married a year and some change..... There is not a day...
    LuckyOctober LuckyOctober 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 6

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    I'm very religious and I intended to wait. But in the heat of my anger and pain I lashed out...at myself and let someone violate the one thing that actually meant something towards...
    smarcelin2014 smarcelin2014 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I didn't intend to wait and I don't regret it. It was on my 16th birthday. I mean, it wasn't the best sex ever... It was clumsy, quick and a bit awkward. But I was glad I got that...
    jojijo jojijo 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Or until I was in a relationship. And now I regret it, because it meant so much to me yet probably nothing to him. Lesson learned.
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    My husband is 17 years older than me. I feel guilty for leaving him, since I am 50 now and I know he needs someone to care for him. He is not ill, but has some health issues like...
    nnaymar nnaymar 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I never understood why losing your virginity had to be a big thing. I did it with a friend and then I kicked him out like why do people always wanna talk? I only consider sex a big...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    There were signs right before that I should run! I ignored them because I thought it was too close to the wedding date and we already have a child together so he was going to be in...
    kawaibel kawaibel 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just wondering, I would love to hear from any married woman that have had an affair(s) and regretted it afterward. Even if didn't go "all the way". To me and I'm sure others...
    JimD911 JimD911 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    I was a freshman in high school and I was dating a junior and of course I thought he was my entire world. I let him control me and I never had a boyfriend before so I though this...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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