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I Regret My Marriage

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    I Regret My Marriage.

    My husband is very sensitive. He has had a very different upbringing and the instability still shows.  I knew that there were issues before marriage but I didn't expect him to take things out on me. * There is no violence* And most of the times things are fine. It's just...
    omshanti omshanti 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    Time to Move On?

    I made a wrong decision that day.  To top it off, when I filed for the divorce I wrote the wrong date on the proof of service, so it was delayed...DUH!  My husband begged, I gave in(a total no no) and I said I would "consider counseling" ugh!  This is one...
    star13 star13 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Its not that I dont love my husband,

    just that every step of us being together has been a struggle. I have sacrificed and invested so much in this relationship and I'm left wondering is it worth it. I don't feel my husband loves me as much as I love him and I feel as though he is only with me because he has more...
    mily24 mily24 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    My marriage is a complete joke!

    ! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid!! I knew I shouldn't have married him, but as per usual I was trying to make everyone happy so went ahead with it? I do love him...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Regret My Marriage

    I dated him for 8 months and got engaged and then married at age of 23. His business was doing fine (according to him) then and I was also earning fine. After 10 years today he blames me for bringing bad luck in his life. He gets irritate with me too often...abuses...and hits in...
    PChug PChug 31-35 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Where Did The Love Go ........... ??

    Oh that I had the widom, now gained 20 yrs ago.......!I shall state quite clearly, my wife is a great person, no mistake......... but I have watched over the years, we both have very, very little in common. I feel that we are both dis-connected from the other & if it was just the...
    4meiski 4meiski 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    Marriage....

    We were childhood friends who reconnected in adulthood. We rushed into a marriage that I regret. I long for my single life again, not necesarily to be single again, but to have my freedom back. He is angry, difficult, and an all around hateful man. I know I am far from perfect...
    abbstan1 abbstan1 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    Hurt And Betrayed Over And Over

    Hello, I have been married for about 5 years now with 2 beautiful children.   They seem to be the only great thing coming out of my marriage.  I have been with my husband for 12 years all together.  When we first began dating for the first few years things...
    wifescorned wifescorned 26-30, F 6 Responses May 2, 2010

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    My Husben Is Still Living With He's Parents

    i meet my husben on line, we dating for 1 year, and then we decide to get merried, we live 4 hr distance, when we get merried he start saying things like in the future he would like he's mother come to live with me in the while he is with father and working becouse, i told him...
    menimoo menimoo 46-50 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    How Stupid...

    I should have never have gotten married. It was stupid and unromantic. He cheated on me and I only stayed with him because I had planned to get even. Stupid. I know! I mean, we already had a baby and I then got pregnant with the next soon after. My plan to get even fell...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    I Thought about starting a Blog ,

    I have considered writing a book... Mostly I realize I just I needed a outlet ... So My story is this .. I met my husband as young girl in the church I was the least bit interested in him but always thought he was quite handsome:), still is , I dated another guy for years had a...
    TheUnLovedWife TheUnLovedWife 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Thank you so much for those who will read this entire experience. I lost my virginity about a year ago. It was fun, as i expected. I didn't regret it then, and I haven't regretted...
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    gator613 gator613 26-30, M Jul 9

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    I do have a regret...proposing to my boyfriend...and I thought at first it was the right thing to do...felt right in my heart. He would constantly say to me your my wife...
    ADRASTEIA ADRASTEIA 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    She was the suite-mate of my girlfriend in college. She was always my friend, and very nice to me. When my girlfriend broke up with me, she expressed an interest in being more...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I did live in a sexless marriage. It was and still is the lowest point of my life. And I am glad I finally kicked that ***** out of my life. It took a long time, and nearly all my...
    TheEppy TheEppy 31-35, M 7 Responses Jul 5

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    My wife and I have not had sex in almost two and a half years. The years leading up to that saw dwindling physical contact. It suddenly dropped to a couple of times in a year...
    StratfordMan StratfordMan 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I "lost my virginity" at 15. I was not in a relationship at the time and I had several sexual experiences before i had a committed partner. I was raised Catholic and my parents...
    AlvieBrink AlvieBrink 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm 16 and I have a daughter. I've been dating the same guy since 2010 when I was 12 and he was 13. We started having sex when I was 15 and he was 16 because we felt ready, once...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I am so glad I found this site! I can't talk to my friends or family about this. Don't get me wrong, if you like living in a small town, that's your choice. I grew up in Billings...
    eadams eadams 22-25, F Jul 15

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    Didn't wait til marriage but it was all love and I have no regrets. Wouldn't change it for the world.
    ISnavygf ISnavygf 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage. I was 17 an he was 23. I didn't regret it, and still dont, but the way he treats me now, i love him unconditionally, yet he fails to even try an talk...
    happyconfused212 happyconfused212 18-21, T 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I did not wait. I had sex with a boy I've known for 8 months . I'm 14 . Although, we had sex a couple days after our 4 month anniversary . I feel really bad about it , considering...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I regret not tell a girl how I feel, I regret not singing her, her favorite song she asked me to do, I regret not forgiving my ex, I regret not being able to stand up for the...
    420blaze69 420blaze69 16-17, M Jul 16

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    I regret who it was now but whatever. I just wanted it over with tbh. All my friends were loosing theirs and I was like whatever. His name was Dan and now I know how much of an a...
    QuinnStew QuinnStew 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I am 4 months pregnant and regret that I was dumb enough to marry my husband after 2 months and get pregnant. He tells me what to where, abuses my poor dog, I can't go anywhere by...
    fakinghappy2 fakinghappy2 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I feel scared today. There was a catalyst. Obviously, this situation isn't about another person. Those of you who have read my stories know that, probably better than I. But I'm...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 18 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm starting to dread bed time. Sleeping pills work. I also started noticing pains in my chest. The thing is I've only been married a year and some change..... There is not a day...
    LuckyOctober LuckyOctober 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 6

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    I'm very religious and I intended to wait. But in the heat of my anger and pain I lashed out...at myself and let someone violate the one thing that actually meant something towards...
    smarcelin2014 smarcelin2014 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I didn't intend to wait and I don't regret it. It was on my 16th birthday. I mean, it wasn't the best sex ever... It was clumsy, quick and a bit awkward. But I was glad I got that...
    jojijo jojijo 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Or until I was in a relationship. And now I regret it, because it meant so much to me yet probably nothing to him. Lesson learned.
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    My husband is 17 years older than me. I feel guilty for leaving him, since I am 50 now and I know he needs someone to care for him. He is not ill, but has some health issues like...
    nnaymar nnaymar 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I never understood why losing your virginity had to be a big thing. I did it with a friend and then I kicked him out like why do people always wanna talk? I only consider sex a big...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know a lot of people say that they don't have any regrets because all of their past experiences, choices, etc. has made them who they are today. I don't feel that way though; I...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I think it's crazy how some say they live life without regrets . I said it one day and couldn't seem to believe myself I regret everything about my life. It's the little things I...
    dezy2be dezy2be 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I just need to get this out there, because I know it's not healthy to hold this in. I severely regret not doing more when I was growing up. I didn't go to prom, I didn't go to...
    Hummingbyrd13 Hummingbyrd13 18-21, M Jun 25

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    I went camping with a girlfriend before. That's not the part I regret :), lol But I didn't know she was going to come, and so I only brought my regular mummy sleeping bag. We were...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M Jun 28

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    I don't regret you. I regret not sleeping with your best friend though.
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I am a female-to-male transsexual. I transitioned almost ten years ago. I've been on hormones for about six years, and I've had surgery. I often regret ever transitioning. My...
    jacobaf20 jacobaf20 26-30, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I regret for not having the courage to sign up for the competition, now theres no more vacancies left, argh i hate myself. I really want to join the competition. I wish somebody...
    wildthoughts33 wildthoughts33 13-15 6 days ago

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    (Repost...EP BLOCKED my first story) I stumbled upon EP the latter part of last year, and I've been a fairly frequent lurker ever since. It has taken me quite some time to...
    Insearchofmenow Insearchofmenow 31-35 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    As of right now, I finally have no more regrets :) why maintain them when you can be free of them! Like grudges, fear, and doubt... regrets hold you back!
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I think I've got the guts to post this now. My wife and I have talked about this many times. I think it would help me to talk to others about it, even if it is anonymously. Since...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 14 Responses Jun 27

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    I'm 29, married for 5 years, 2 beautiful kids. Unfortunately like most here I live in a sexless marriage. I have for several years. Now some will say, your young and just not happy...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 15 Responses Jul 1

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    I had a arrange marriage…the very next day mil takes away my gold jewellery worth more than 12 lakhs (without my permission) and keeps it in her locker. I stay mum..n when I ask...
    srinivasleela84 srinivasleela84 26-30, F Jul 7

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