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    Summergurl889 Summergurl889 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Helping To Solve Problems

    I wanted to share some things I have learned along the way that I think about when trying to work through issues. - Communicating your problems/feelings with your spouse, significant other, family member, friend or whomever is the most important step toward solving your problem...
    Unclefester1 Unclefester1 46-50, M 2 Responses May 15, 2013

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    How Fast People Can Change

    My ex and i dated for 2 years. in those two years we broke up for 3 months and were just friends. it went fantastic. those months of being apart made us closer and made us get over our petty jealousy. we broke up 4 months ago because we went to different colleges 7 hours away...
    Britmtill10 Britmtill10 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2012

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    Him, Again.

    Yes, it's him again. He's my best friend. A guy who has courtesy and respect for girls. Yesterday, we had a girl-guy sleepover. It was my first girl-guy sleepover. We sat and wanted to watch horror. Whenever scary scenes used to come and I used to get really freaked out he would...
    ThatGirl290399 ThatGirl290399 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2012

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    A daughter in law who is a gold digger.

    I wrote to her telling her not to let her finance make her feel bad cause he's putting her down. Cause he didn't get his package for Christmas. So he took it out on her. I tried to be comforting telling her I lost my sister Christmas Eve 2 yrs ago. That that we were having...
    sufferin4life sufferin4life 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    So valentines day is coming.

    .. It's Thursday now.... My friend who is 7 years older than me mentioned he was going to drop by school to pick up his transcript. And I immediately asked him if he wanted to have lunch with me in campus. Well awkward feeling after that. I'm so awkward now I wished I hadn't...
    liznerd liznerd 18-21, F Feb 12

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    Why Do I Do This To Myself?

    Hi! I'm ten minutes new :) So I'm here because I have, what seems like a hopeless problem.. For the most part, when stress isn't high, I'm high functioning and on track.. However I do have a lot of relationships problems.. I was scared to realize the pattern but I can't ignore...
    theborderline theborderline 18-21, F Mar 11, 2013

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    BitchFit BitchFit 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 25

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    Cheated Gf,now Dejected, Ready To Do Anything To Get Her Back

    Hello all, I hope you all would have read stories of guys cheating on gals and vice versa. This is also a same story.But i hope you guys read my problem which I will present it in detail and kindly advise me with the best plausible solution.I am sorry for the language, grammer...
    stupid1006 stupid1006 26-30, M Sep 7, 2012

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    Men

    Hi, I'm Payge and I am very new. I know what I want to say first of all but I'm not used to this site so I'm just going to start with an easy one :) So in March me and my old boyfriend broke up, in another post I will tell you about that relationship, it was a year and 3 months...
    PaygeWaitt99 PaygeWaitt99 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    You Are Kidding Right?

    what happens to people where does it all go relationship wise that is what happens to people as they go on and on someone has to explain it to me all relationships real, internet world, even imagined hmmmmmm such is life
    californiablue californiablue 61-65, M Nov 2, 2013

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    I'm currently in a relationship

    for 4 1/2 years we have two children together...I have been cheated on two years ago and I forgave him...we had our second child after that bump in the road... He's been acting different I did go thru this things and he's been texting a girl from his job he admitted they went to...
    phillygirl215 phillygirl215 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    Wow.....just Wow

    Here i thought that he wasnt watching for a while....but as soon as i went out he was at it again....while watching our daughter. I give up and i have had it. Its one thing when ur alone but while ur spending time with ur daughter. And to boot snooping on ur wifes laptop....whats...
    tigerbabe13 tigerbabe13 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2012

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    Just wondering when a guy supposely crushes on

    a girl, was he thinking about sex first or?
    50shadesofobrien 50shadesofobrien 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Sad Ending

    My bf's parents blocked me from his phone. I'm losing hope. Will he contact me? How? He's the perfect guy for me. Without him, I'm numb. Not sure how long I can wait to hear from him. I hope he contacts me soon. I miss him.
    Snakelover63 Snakelover63 18-21, F Nov 27, 2013

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    The End - Again

    I seriously don't know why i keep trying to make my marriages work. You would think that after two i would have better sense but no i went and did it a third time and after 5 years it is just about over. My soon to be ex spends more time with his mother than he does me. He spends...
    Anniead1 Anniead1 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    It'S My Life, It'S Now Or Never

    There are many judgemental people in our society and mostly in a pessimistic way. Noone truly knows someones circumstances of life but are so quick to jump the gun with nasty comments. When reading that I am 17 and pregnant marrying my boyfriend they just want to bring about the...
    Luvsox Luvsox 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    The movie was 'As good

    as it gets' the scene was daughter saying to Mother ' Why can't I have a normal boyfriend? Just a regular boyfriend, one that doesn't go nuts on me!' To which Mother replies ' Everybody wants that, dear. It doesn't exist.' I love that scene because it rings true for me. This...
    keywhisperer keywhisperer 51-55, F Dec 12, 2013

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    I am currently in a relationship.

    I met this guy online. I have never exchanged numbers with someone online, but with him I decided to take a risk. We ended up hitting it off really well. In the beginning he was flat out amazing. He would flirt so much with me. Like any other person would at the beginning when...
    justdandy12 justdandy12 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    does anyone have an interesting love story they

    wouldn't mind sharing with me? I feel like despite age, culture, religion or gender - love unites people.. and I want to share the love stories of people across the globe who went the extra mile for each other... if you have a love story & want to inspire others through my...
    Globalloving Globalloving 22-25, F Mar 8

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    Redefined as simply as my tongue will allow:

    everyone has a relationship with everyone we meet. Regardless of how we meet or how well we know each other. Usually familial relationships are strong and intimate, quick to respond to each others needs. There are friends, usually the longer we are friends with one another, more...
    donnjb donnjb 26-30, M Feb 4

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    I'm so physically and mentally exhausted from

    putting my all into my most recent relationship. I constantly do favors for him and it never seems to be acknowledged. I yearn for someone who is willing to give me everything I give to them and who is willing to listen to my problems. I just want to be wanted and have some...
    DelanieStevenson DelanieStevenson 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    So valentines day is coming.

    .. It's Thursday now.... My friend who is 7 years older than me mentioned he was going to drop by school to pick up his transcript. And I immediately asked him if he wanted to have lunch with me in campus. Well awkward feeling after that. I'm so awkward now I wished I hadn't...
    liznerd liznerd 18-21, F Feb 12

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    What Do I Do?!

    Okay, so me and this guy have been dating for 2.5 years and I was so in love with him. I would say he felt the same bc he treated me like a princess! Recently, I had a lot happen in my life. Knowing that I couldn't give him the attention and love I felt he needed, I asked for a...
    ReneaNada ReneaNada 16-17 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    Dear Savanna, I know you don't want me

    messaging you..and I'm sorry I'm being annoying as ****. I've always heard that you don't give up on someone you love..and boy is that true. I understand why you left...I haven't always treated you like I should have and I'm sorry! I don't know how many times I can say that. I...
    Dylanakacody Dylanakacody 18-21, M Feb 4

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    Why Some People Stay In Unhealthy (Or Toxic, Or Abusive) Relationships?

    Why do people stay in toxic or violent relationships? While a healthier person might find it very difficult to understand why someone would remain the target of another’s abuse, here are a few things that I have heard from people (both women & men) in regard to being in toxic...
    midnightstar1960 midnightstar1960 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    The Letter In The Male Box

    i met someone at a club one night, was hopelesley already in love, you could even say it was love at first sight. i did the dirty deed and went home with him, expecting to never see him again i thought why the hell not. he didnt ask for my number so there was no way in hell i was...
    ladybug89 ladybug89 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    Don’t marry a man unless you would be proud

    to have a son exactly like him.
    Giia Giia 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I Cant Carry-On

    As you will see from my other stories I live in a sexless marrage and have done for over a year. My husband has been the primary carer of our children and myself ever since I became ill, about 4 years ago. He has always said he would not fight for the kids and we would sort...
    suzannemae suzannemae 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2013

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    I hate how you made me feel special.

    I hate that you made me smile. I hate how we used to laughed together. I hate that I trusted you. I hate that you led me on. I hate how you crushed my hopes. I hate how I can't listen to songs because they remind me of you. I hate that you ignore me. I hate that you don't care...
    Summergurl889 Summergurl889 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    My Problem

    The fact that I will even consider giving him another chance, proves how dumb I can be. He has had way too many chances already. Just when I think things are going to be different, he has to prove me wrong. Most of me knows we don't really have any business even trying to make it...
    wonderstruck77 wonderstruck77 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    If anybody feels the same way please get back

    to me. A relationship should be your best friend. That one person who you can be you with and tell anything to. That one person that likes everything you do and gets your humor. That someone who knows when your really mad happy or sad. A relationship should be with someone who...
    cheezyfish cheezyfish 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    I Am A Monster With No Purpose

    So throughout my life I've never been able to hold a steady relationship with my friends, girlfriends, and family. When it comes to friends, I usually hit it off with most people because of my dynamic personality. I can adapt to many different people no matter the scale of...
    Dyemare Dyemare 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Friendless But Don'T Care?

    So I completely cut off my best friends from child hood and High School within 10minutes. Yet I don't really care, feel sadness, or anything. All throughout my life the people I meet I end up cutting them off shortly after meeting them and never really established many long...
    Dyemare Dyemare 18-21, M 6 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    I'M Trying!

    I am usually a very up-beat person. I am the glass is always half full kind of guy and when I get feeling low, it is usually very short lived. But today is different for me. I don't even feel the glass is half empty, but that there is a hole in the glass and it is draining...
    imme4sx imme4sx 56-60, M 1 Response May 9, 2013

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    Passion

    A close embrace with a lingering kiss.Passion is what lights the fire.
    mysteryjourney mysteryjourney 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    I remember in high school I was in a

    relationship with one guy from the same school and he liked me only when I had heavy makeup on. When I didn't wear makeup, he would act weird. He was never a good boyfriend because he always talked about other girls in front of me and his friends about who and what types of...
    babysunnyy babysunnyy 18-21, F Jan 7

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    Del69 Del69 41-45, M Jan 19

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    I've been talking with this guy

    for a month and a half now and we get along great and from the way he talks I know he is looking for that special one just as much as I am, and we got a lot in common he asked me to move in with him trying to take some pressure off of me considering certain circumstances at the...
    fragilehart fragilehart 22-25, F Feb 20

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    Need Advice Please

    Looking for advice. My not quite ex-wife and i split in early 2010. We have a child together (9yr old boy). Soon after my ex-wife and I separated I started dating a girl which i fell head over heals with and our relationship lasted 2 years. She broke my heart very badly in April...
    smswartz20 smswartz20 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    So valentines day is coming.

    .. It's Thursday now.... My friend who is 7 years older than me mentioned he was going to drop by school to pick up his transcript. And I immediately asked him if he wanted to have lunch with me in campus. Well awkward feeling after that. I'm so awkward now I wished I hadn't...
    liznerd liznerd 18-21, F Feb 12

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    Being in a relationship

    when in school (college , primarily) is very hard. College is such a tedious and busy time of life, especially when you have to have a job on top of it all. It's obviously hard to fit time in to see one another, but it's also just odd. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two...
    AmandaBee AmandaBee 18-21, F Dec 4, 2013

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    Love

    I'll start living when I meet you ... Where are you? 😭
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    i like this kid but ive always been shy

    and i always feel like thier supposes to like me first
    okmarii okmarii 13-15, F Jan 26

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    Ok so my crush says im cute

    and i think hes cute, but evrytime i see him he avoids me and he never texts me so, like it makes me mad and sad and confused ughh help!!!!!!!
    okmarii okmarii 13-15, F Jan 31

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    A Good Relationship

    I personally think it extremely important to get to know a person really well first before becoming intimate with them. The build up in a relationship is an intricate part that should get all the sensual cogs turning. Sex is important but if you're not turning each others...
    MarcAntny MarcAntny 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    jeennalouise jeennalouise 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I broke down called him .

    He didn't pick up I left a short msg. I am actually happy that I did call Planing to have a great Christmas Day! :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 25, 2013

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    My New Friend And I

    One week-end my new lady friend flew from oversea's so that we could spend some time together. I decided to rent a cabin up in the Sierra Nevada Mountains over looking a very beautiful snowy valley. We arrived at the cabin in the middle of the day in some very heavy snow. We went...
    wantabgirl wantabgirl 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Lol! I remember one morning we were running

    and there was this tree trunk it had been cut like that thing on Apollo that the contestants rub before they start their "act" Will I rub it and I remember thinking oh **** how childish was that! He is already older than me he is gonna think I'm immature! But he didn't (at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 24, 2013

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    To Be Held

    You know, it is hard to be by yourself. I just wanna be with one guy, but they all seem to only want one thing, I guess I will have to change my approach instead of wanting one thing....
    ginabeana30 ginabeana30 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2012

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    Unrealistic wish but I wish he would stalk me

    and show the hell up !! I wish he would be strategic at seeing me just like he was strategic at avoiding me! He has his own family but damn can I have a small unrealistic wish for a moment?? I just want to see him. Just a glimpse . He is tall brown thick( in a sexy way...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I have a boyfriend i met online.

    He's 39 and i'm 18. He's picking me up from school tomorrow and we're going to hangout and probably go eat. I honestly have strong feelings for him. We met and talked for about 5 minutes at a store then had coffee and then walked around the mall for about 2 hours a few weekends...
    BiKenzie BiKenzie 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    BitchFit BitchFit 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    The Girl In Need Of Love.

    Okay I'm not desperate or something. But I usually feel lonely. And I feel that whoever used to be my friend, or something, or the guys who had proposed me earlier, but I rejected them, started having a different attitude towards me. I concentrate on studies and all, but we all...
    ThatGirl290399 ThatGirl290399 13-15, F 35 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Internet relationships are much more successful than FTF relationships in my opinion because online relationships actually require you to build some type of trust and COMMUNICATION...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Mar 21

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    I just can't deal with a relationships anymore. I just don't want to be in a relationship any time soon if every...I rather deal with the pain of being lonely than the of pain...
    just2lovelee just2lovelee 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 22