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    My girlfriend and I have a very mature

    relationship and we have a very happy relationship for the most part however my girlfriend at times has been scolding me and raising her voice when she feels that I'm not feeling what she thinks I should be feeling and I'm not saying what she thinks I should be saying she has...
    esoterc777 esoterc777
    36-40, M
    Jan 26

    Seriously! Drop The Fake Scenario Crap!! Why Obsess Over Things That Haven't Happened!?

    I believe my bf lives in a world of what if's. He's continually persistent on knowing how things are going to go. I believe this stems from his insecurities & his desire to control situations. Anything I say to him he takes offense to. Then he'll start with the what if scenarios...
    nymphfairy nymphfairy
    36-40
    6 Responses Jul 27, 2013

    The Letter In The Male Box

    i met someone at a club one night, was hopelesley already in love, you could even say it was love at first sight. i did the dirty deed and went home with him, expecting to never see him again i thought why the hell not. he didnt ask for my number so there was no way in hell i was...
    ladybug89 ladybug89
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 11, 2013

    Your real first love will make you realize your

    first love wasn't really your first love.
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 2, 2015

    I seek now greater understanding.

    What does it mean when someone close repeatedly hurts you in the same exact ways. Like it's clear to me now that she she actually gets off and enjoys my pain. She enjoys being cruel to me. In the past, she has drawn me in, and once she has me, she proceeds to hurt and betray me...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    Why

    why do I feel the need to leave - why does he not realize he is the only one who can make me want to stay - yet he pushes and pushes until I feel suffocated like I am drowning. I need to go I just want to be. But, no, I can't just leave - I have responsibilities and loyalties...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Mar 24, 2013

    Love

    I'll start living when I meet you ... Where are you? 😭
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Nov 9, 2013

    Spend time with someone

    who is interested in you. I don't mean someone who thinks you're cute or funny. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. Someone who wants to read every word that you write. Someone who wants to hear every note of your favorite song, and watch every...
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 7, 2015

    I have a friend. He keeps saying

    that he likes me. But I can not tell whether it is true or not. Can anyone tell me what to do. A guy's opinion would be more preferred. Thank you in advance.
    serenaclairegreat serenaclairegreat
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    Those questions - "How to deal with a break-up?

    " Answer- "Find a rebound" - Wrong ! Sure, it might be a 'fix-it' but I would NOT advise this as a solution. What? Have the rebound become someone to 'latch-on-to' only to feel used if he / she doesn't respond after a one nighter perhaps? Or we use this person because we are...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart
    31-35, F
    Feb 26

    There is a strange phenomenon associated with

    love that has no name... We human beings seem to pursue and go hard for the ones we "want," yet who don't feel the same way about us. These are the people who hurt, betray, use, cast aside, neglect, or leave us. At the same exact time, we in turn neglect those who truly love...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2015

    I don't want a relationship with someone

    where I am their whole world. It sounds romantic, but it's really not. What kind of relationship would that be? Why would anyone allow themselves to let someone be their everything. Everybody at one point will let you down. And if your "everything" leaves what does that leave...
    BeautifullyBrokenAngel BeautifullyBrokenAngel
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2015
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Nov 19, 2014

    Men who rub your back

    and play with your hair until you fall asleep....
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    How do I know if I'm being played by a guy?

    Somehow I seem to fall for all the usual BS at the start.. I do not want to end up an untrusting person but it seems I trust to easily and end up getting hurt.. Can anyone give me advice on how to change this because finding a normal guy to date seems to be non existent lol.
    emu emu
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    There is nothing more admirable

    than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends. ― Homer, The Odyssey
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2015
    BeautifullyBrokenAngel BeautifullyBrokenAngel
    22-25, F
    Feb 28

    Let's do something spontaneous

    and awesome, or let's just lay in bed all day and forget the world exists.
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Aug 1, 2015
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2014

    I am 15 but I prefer girls

    that are older than me atleast like 17-18 but no one likes me haha awkward
    foonty foonty
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 1

    "Sorry" vs " I'm sorry" "Night" vs "Goodnight

    " "Bye" vs "Goodbye " "Love you" vs "I've you" All have different meanings.
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015
    WESTREX WESTREX
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    I often get amused and also disappointed by

    people here on EP who come onto you as a friend, seem very nice and true as a person then as things get kind of hot and flirtatious, they become very nasty, and vicious, say some very bad things, call a person bad names, then very quickly block you so you can't offer a response...
    Dirtsoil Dirtsoil
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    A Good Relationship

    I personally think it extremely important to get to know a person really well first before becoming intimate with them. The build up in a relationship is an intricate part that should get all the sensual cogs turning. Sex is important but if you're not turning each others...
    MarcAntny MarcAntny
    41-45, M
    13 Responses Nov 7, 2012

    I hate this "let's take a break" culture.

    If someone initiates taking a "break" do yourself a favor and walk away. If anyone wants to keep you on the ropes to figure out if you're worth their time or a spot in their life take the initiative to be the first one to end it. Leave with your head held high 😘✌🏼
    BeautifullyBrokenAngel BeautifullyBrokenAngel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2015

    The Girl In Need Of Love.

    Okay I'm not desperate or something. But I usually feel lonely. And I feel that whoever used to be my friend, or something, or the guys who had proposed me earlier, but I rejected them, started having a different attitude towards me. I concentrate on studies and all, but we all...
    ThatGirl290399 ThatGirl290399
    16-17, F
    34 Responses Nov 1, 2012

    **** gets old. You get tired of trying to work

    things out. You get tired of giving chances. Sometimes you just have to let people go....
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2015

    Passion

    A close embrace with a lingering kiss.Passion is what lights the fire.
    mysteryjourney mysteryjourney
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2013

    our relationships are like managing a great

    garden. each of the valuable people in our lives deserve water, sunlight and our attention in some way or another recognizing their individuality. but like all gardens weeds come out occasionally. instead of entertaining weeds or even just cutting and trimming them so we don't...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 22

    My Problem

    The fact that I will even consider giving him another chance, proves how dumb I can be. He has had way too many chances already. Just when I think things are going to be different, he has to prove me wrong. Most of me knows we don't really have any business even trying to make it...
    wonderstruck77 wonderstruck77
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2013

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 11, 2015
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    Jan 29
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2014

    Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed.

    Maybe they need to run free until they find someone just as wild to run with.
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Dec 13, 2014

    I have been wandering through my life with one

    mission. To let one woman know what it feels like to be loved unconditionally! Unfortunately, every woman that applies for the position brings two, or three old boyfriends into our "COMMITTED" relationship. (obviously only one of us was committed)
    ezduzit74 ezduzit74
    41-45, M
    Nov 30, 2015

    Let's cuddle on rainy days,

    watch old movies, and make out.
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Dec 24, 2014

    I've been texting a guy (B) on

    and off for the past two years. I start texting when I break up with my boyfriend and then stop when I get back together with him. We've made plans that we never ended up doing and he teases me about being an "Indian giver" with tickets to plans that we made and never did. This...
    hannajane777 hannajane777
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 12

    I broke down called him .

    He didn't pick up I left a short msg. I am actually happy that I did call Planing to have a great Christmas Day! :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 25, 2013

    Dont you just hate it

    when your no good husband comes home and ruins all your fun
    LilMsLonley LilMsLonley
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 28, 2015

    "A true relationship is

    when you both can tell each other anything and everything. There should be no secrets and no lies. The ability to talk to one another without the intent to reply, but with every intent to understand. Without communication, there is no relationship. Without respect, there is no...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart
    31-35, F
    Aug 26, 2015
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2014

    Most girls are impressed by boys with a trap

    playlist on their phone. I'm impressed by a man with a Muddy Waters station on his Pandora πŸ’•
    BeautifullyBrokenAngel BeautifullyBrokenAngel
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    Should I break up with my boyfriend to focus on

    school? I'm one to prioritize my boyfriend over school Is this a good reason?
    Nani226 Nani226
    22-25
    Nov 2, 2015
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    OMG my Dad sent me this!

    He is a chemical engineer, so...lol 😷 It's called the Hot Crazy Matrix-A Man's Guide to Women https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hKWmFWRVLlU I dare say.....I found myself a unicornπŸ’–, and so funny I mentioned a unicorn in my last post....Thank You Angels!!!!πŸ˜‡ Thank You...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916
    26-30, M
    Dec 18, 2015

    I would like to be one of them people

    that meet my life long partner online, long term, eventually meeting one another, and living happily ever after. I believe it really happens and that anyone can fall In love with someone looking at them through their computer screen. Just looking for love ❀️❀️❀️
    OmAaKsLoEnY OmAaKsLoEnY
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    No one can tell me casual sex,

    with multiple partners, doesn't begin to destroy a person. Holding onto that many peoples spiritual, and sexual energy can do nothing but create inner chaos and turmoil. How can we trust when we give so much of our inner and core essence to anyone who asks? I understand why my...
    BeautifullyBrokenAngel BeautifullyBrokenAngel
    22-25, F
    Sep 18, 2015

    If she only wants you,

    don't worry about who wants her.
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2015

    One day, whether you are 14,

    28, or 65 you will stumble upon someone who will start a fire in you that cannot die. However the saddest, most awful truth you will ever come to find is they are not always with whom we spend our lives.
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    It's truly been a time of reflection.

    I've been praying and longing to settle down and raise a family. Then I realized I haven't even been putting any effort into improving the relationships with the immediate family I already have in my life.
    BeautifullyBrokenAngel BeautifullyBrokenAngel
    22-25, F
    Oct 10, 2015

    At the end of the day,

    what matters most are the people in our lives. Put them first every single day. Before work. Before the computer. Before your hobbies. Treat them like they are everything to you. Because they are.
    lindwe lindwe
    26-30, F
    Mar 23

    confidence is attractive.

    cockiness is not. just stop.
    kayla679 kayla679
    18-21, F
    Feb 1, 2015

    I am in a relationship with a devout Catholic.

    I'm not Catholic but am protestant. We have been seeing each other for 3 years but do not live together. I'm divorced, she's a widow. Catholicism is preventing this relationship from progressing. She insists on marriage only in a Catholic church. That would require my...
    haroldsvenson haroldsvenson
    56-60, M
    Mar 5

    Isn't it funny that when we talk about our ex's

    we talk about them as if they're dead or no longer exist? We use terms like "they were" or "she/he was" I don't know I just realized that we all do it and don't even notice. But if we talk about anyone else that way like friends, parents, kids people go "what do you mean 'was...
    BjKhann BjKhann
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 21, 2015

    So my husband whom is fighting with me took off

    and hasn't said a word or anything he's been gone a hour. I'm really getting fed up. He's always picking fights. It's like he just wants me to do as he wants and not have a voice or opinion of my own. He's extremely controlling
    Simbageeswife Simbageeswife
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 5

    So today my department head manager suckled my

    breast in the stair well and I went down on him in a restroom at work. No one ever knew. It was magical.
    workingmom70 workingmom70
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Apr 26, 2014

    To continue the ultimately frustrating story of

    Paula. The first thing I did was elevate her out of her motherly two inch heeled shoes into a pair of hooker heels, which she took to like a duck takes to water, though not walking like that. She was not prepared to swing her hips the way I suggested, but the heels made her...
    brianjules brianjules
    56-60, M
    Feb 26
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