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    Y won't any of these females want to be with me?

    I want a relationship or a fwb :/ I can get guys but y not females?
    LoveBillion123 LoveBillion123 18-21, F May 3

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    430am and I can't sleep My head busy with the

    questions my mind keeps. Does he love me? Does he even care? Will it last? Will he always be there? I feel like my minds on repeat trying to answer questions that only time can tell.
    Mell30 Mell30 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    WOMEN¨S GUIDE: 1. Find a man

    who makes you laugh. 2. Find a man who has a good job and can cook. 3. Find a man who is honest. 4. Find a man who will pamper you with gifts. 5. Find a man who is awesome in bed. 6. Most of all it is VERY IMPORTANT that these 5 men NEVER meet...!!!!
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Why Some People Stay In Unhealthy (Or Toxic, Or Abusive) Relationships?

    Why do people stay in toxic or violent relationships? While a healthier person might find it very difficult to understand why someone would remain the target of another’s abuse, here are a few things that I have heard from people (both women & men) in regard to being in toxic...
    midnightstar1960 midnightstar1960 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    My New Friend And I

    One week-end my new lady friend flew from oversea's so that we could spend some time together. I decided to rent a cabin up in the Sierra Nevada Mountains over looking a very beautiful snowy valley. We arrived at the cabin in the middle of the day in some very heavy snow. We went...
    wantabgirl wantabgirl 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Mell30 Mell30 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Wow.....just Wow

    Here i thought that he wasnt watching for a while....but as soon as i went out he was at it again....while watching our daughter. I give up and i have had it. Its one thing when ur alone but while ur spending time with ur daughter. And to boot snooping on ur wifes laptop....whats...
    tigerbabe13 tigerbabe13 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2012

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    Part 1. “I don’t want to be here any more.

    ” The words I will never forget. What do you mean? “I mean I no longer want to live here…with you...with the kids. I’ve found someone else. Someone better.” Don’t do this. Please. For the kids and for me. “You don’t get it, do you? You lost me years ago...
    Spaneele Spaneele 51-55 Jul 16

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    Relationships are funny things,

    or maybe it's just me. Maybe it's me that doesn't understand how they work. I'm sure that jealousy is not meant to be a third party. I'm sure trust should be a bonding tie. Why do things have to be pushed to breaking point for people to tell the truth? I hate the word...
    marleyjess marleyjess 18-21, F 1 Response May 21

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    Don’t marry a man unless you would be proud

    to have a son exactly like him.
    Giia Giia 13-15, F Apr 5

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    The Letter In The Male Box

    i met someone at a club one night, was hopelesley already in love, you could even say it was love at first sight. i did the dirty deed and went home with him, expecting to never see him again i thought why the hell not. he didnt ask for my number so there was no way in hell i was...
    ladybug89 ladybug89 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    Really????

    last night while in the kitchen ,my husband was looking at me ..'what' I asked.. he said...'you look good...to good' 'thanks' I said and he rolled his eyes..so again I ask...'what'.....'I wish you looked like hell'  he said. I don't know weather to take it as a compliment or to...
    badgirl72 badgirl72 41-45, F 12 Responses May 8, 2013

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    The Girl In Need Of Love.

    Okay I'm not desperate or something. But I usually feel lonely. And I feel that whoever used to be my friend, or something, or the guys who had proposed me earlier, but I rejected them, started having a different attitude towards me. I concentrate on studies and all, but we all...
    ThatGirl290399 ThatGirl290399 13-15, F 35 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Why

    why do I feel the need to leave - why does he not realize he is the only one who can make me want to stay - yet he pushes and pushes until I feel suffocated like I am drowning. I need to go I just want to be. But, no, I can't just leave - I have responsibilities and loyalties...
    badgirl72 badgirl72 41-45, F 15 Responses Mar 24, 2013

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    Idk if my boyfriend is intentionally being

    boring or if it's because he secretly just doesn't want to talk to me..& he's taking hours to text back.
    izabelleclarity izabelleclarity 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Unrealistic wish but I wish he would stalk me

    and show the hell up !! I wish he would be strategic at seeing me just like he was strategic at avoiding me! He has his own family but damn can I have a small unrealistic wish for a moment?? I just want to see him. Just a glimpse . He is tall brown thick( in a sexy way...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I often get amused and also disappointed by

    people here on EP who come onto you as a friend, seem very nice and true as a person then as things get kind of hot and flirtatious, they become very nasty, and vicious, say some very bad things, call a person bad names, then very quickly block you so you can't offer a response...
    Dirtsoil Dirtsoil 41-45, M Jun 13

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    My boyfriend is a freshman in college & I'm a

    junior in high school. Last night he wouldn't text me back after 8, & I still haven't heard from him. I told him he couldn't go to parties, but he may have went to one last night I really don't know. My girl & guy friends keep telling me he's going to parties. He's going to one...
    izabelleclarity izabelleclarity 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    lmyrical lmyrical 18-21, F Jun 29

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    Which one would you rather be treated

    as in a relationship ? Being kept like you are part of a car collection? Or being driven?
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Men, why do some men tell a woman he's

    interested in her but don't show it in his actions and still expect the woman to be there? I tried asking this question under "ask a question" and I'm getting whole bunch of butt hurt, bitter people answering my question and all I am looking for is opinions~ thank you :)
    Eilly Eilly 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    I hate how you made me feel special.

    I hate that you made me smile. I hate how we used to laughed together. I hate that I trusted you. I hate that you led me on. I hate how you crushed my hopes. I hate how I can't listen to songs because they remind me of you. I hate that you ignore me. I hate that you don't care...
    Summergurl889 Summergurl889 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I love my man more than anything.

    He just sometimes get mad over the simplistic thing. For instance he got mad at me cuz he asked what for dinner when he get out of work and I said we order in. When he got home I decided to just make dinner not order out. He got mad at me and said fine we starve then !! Then he...
    jcain739 jcain739 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    So the big question Are men from mars & women

    from Venus ? Are men & women that different Should men & women be together This should be an interesting debate
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M Apr 29

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    I am currently in a relationship.

    I met this guy online. I have never exchanged numbers with someone online, but with him I decided to take a risk. We ended up hitting it off really well. In the beginning he was flat out amazing. He would flirt so much with me. Like any other person would at the beginning when...
    justdandy12 justdandy12 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I broke down called him .

    He didn't pick up I left a short msg. I am actually happy that I did call Planing to have a great Christmas Day! :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 25, 2013

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    I Am A Monster With No Purpose

    So throughout my life I've never been able to hold a steady relationship with my friends, girlfriends, and family. When it comes to friends, I usually hit it off with most people because of my dynamic personality. I can adapt to many different people no matter the scale of...
    Dyemare Dyemare 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Need Advice Please

    Looking for advice. My not quite ex-wife and i split in early 2010. We have a child together (9yr old boy). Soon after my ex-wife and I separated I started dating a girl which i fell head over heals with and our relationship lasted 2 years. She broke my heart very badly in April...
    smswartz20 smswartz20 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    Is there something wrong with me

    that it bothers me that my boyfriend watches **** and live **** but yet doesn't like when I perform for him over skype? But yet our sex life is great! I know I am an overly jealous woman but it just bothers me idk
    fragilehart fragilehart 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    When you know a relationship isn't working out

    but you don't have the mind to end it because you love them too much :/
    ZoeLouise3399 ZoeLouise3399 13-15, F 1 Response May 11

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    Friendless But Don'T Care?

    So I completely cut off my best friends from child hood and High School within 10minutes. Yet I don't really care, feel sadness, or anything. All throughout my life the people I meet I end up cutting them off shortly after meeting them and never really established many long...
    Dyemare Dyemare 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Part 2. As the months passed,

    I found myself often in ‘trouble’ with my new love. She would be angry with me and I would wonder what I had done to make her mad. I would turn our last conversation over and over in my head trying to find the problem. Usually it was unclear. Then she would confront me and...
    Spaneele Spaneele 51-55 Aug 18

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    So today my department head manager suckled my

    breast in the stair well and I went down on him in a restroom at work. No one ever knew. It was magical.
    workingmom70 workingmom70 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 26

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    To Be Held

    You know, it is hard to be by yourself. I just wanna be with one guy, but they all seem to only want one thing, I guess I will have to change my approach instead of wanting one thing....
    ginabeana30 ginabeana30 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2012

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    RavenZach RavenZach 16-17, M Aug 28

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    Seriously! Drop The Fake Scenario Crap!! Why Obsess Over Things That Haven't Happened!?

    I believe my bf lives in a world of what if's. He's continually persistent on knowing how things are going to go. I believe this stems from his insecurities & his desire to control situations. Anything I say to him he takes offense to. Then he'll start with the what if scenarios...
    nymphfairy nymphfairy 36-40 6 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    No relationship is ever a waste of time.

    ..if it didn´t bring you what you wanted ...it taught you what you don´t want...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    My Problem

    The fact that I will even consider giving him another chance, proves how dumb I can be. He has had way too many chances already. Just when I think things are going to be different, he has to prove me wrong. Most of me knows we don't really have any business even trying to make it...
    wonderstruck77 wonderstruck77 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    Okay, it's a question

    but I couldn't fit the circumstances into the question box. Right, my best friend just broke up with her boyfriend because he was too over protective and felt he was stifling her. She seems much happier but makes a sharp exit whenever he comes in the room. Either that or she...
    AliceRigby AliceRigby 13-15, F Jun 12

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    I'm in a glowing long distance relationship,

    im worried because I start school soon and get home really late and where he lives there's a 5 hour time difference,
    whatmakesyoufeelgood whatmakesyoufeelgood 16-17, F Aug 17

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    I have a boyfriend i met online.

    He's 39 and i'm 18. He's picking me up from school tomorrow and we're going to hangout and probably go eat. I honestly have strong feelings for him. We met and talked for about 5 minutes at a store then had coffee and then walked around the mall for about 2 hours a few weekends...
    BiKenzie BiKenzie 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    A Good Relationship

    I personally think it extremely important to get to know a person really well first before becoming intimate with them. The build up in a relationship is an intricate part that should get all the sensual cogs turning. Sex is important but if you're not turning each others...
    MarcAntny MarcAntny 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    Passion

    A close embrace with a lingering kiss.Passion is what lights the fire.
    mysteryjourney mysteryjourney 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    Love

    I'll start living when I meet you ... Where are you? 😭
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I don't know how people have time

    for them less alone marriage because your always busy and I feel like you don't ever get to spend enough time together. :( Like 2 or 3 days to me is not enough more like e everyday and of course you both hangout with your friends on your own but I feel like that's different from...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Thinking you want a girlfriend at the age of 18

    is weird to say the least. My mates all have partners some of which are getting married. There has never been that one special woman in my life that I could hug, love and tell her how special she is. I have had girlfriends but they have treated me badly. I want to get back out...
    NCFCfoote NCFCfoote 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 8

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    If anybody feels the same way please get back

    to me. A relationship should be your best friend. That one person who you can be you with and tell anything to. That one person that likes everything you do and gets your humor. That someone who knows when your really mad happy or sad. A relationship should be with someone who...
    cheezyfish cheezyfish 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    The Look

    The divorce was so long ago. It almost seems like it happened to someone else. Nearly 10 years ago her cheating became someone else's problem. I don't miss her. I don't even like her. This is important because, dear reader, you can't think I yearn for that time. I don't. It was...
    Spaneele Spaneele 51-55 Jul 28, 2013

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    When you are in a place

    that brings tears of happiness to your face , and someone comes home and stamps his big ugly old foot straight on it.
    heavenlyflower123 heavenlyflower123 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    Msg to all young guys out

    when you meet a nice & I do mean nice not just looks nice like sexy cheese burger all dressed up you need to treat them right treat them good & remember there worth putting the effort . Now I no you me & 99% of the male population like a bad girl but let's face it your never...
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    Helping To Solve Problems

    I wanted to share some things I have learned along the way that I think about when trying to work through issues. - Communicating your problems/feelings with your spouse, significant other, family member, friend or whomever is the most important step toward solving your problem...
    Unclefester1 Unclefester1 46-50, M 2 Responses May 15, 2013

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    It'S My Life, It'S Now Or Never

    There are many judgemental people in our society and mostly in a pessimistic way. Noone truly knows someones circumstances of life but are so quick to jump the gun with nasty comments. When reading that I am 17 and pregnant marrying my boyfriend they just want to bring about the...
    Luvsox Luvsox 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    BitchFit BitchFit 18-21, F Feb 20

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