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I Remember My First Painful Breakup

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    Many months I've been screaming

    but no one seems to see me. You said you love me but was this really true? You saw my pain, said you'd save me from my depression. How could I have been to blinded to think I can rely on you... I remained with you despite the bad moments, I showed you I care. The long...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 16-17, F Mar 14

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    rubylilyrose rubylilyrose 13-15, F 10 Responses Apr 4

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    jolop jolop 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    angiemae107 angiemae107 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    you no longer want to be with me,

    but still want me in your life.... wtf
    lostandforgotten75 lostandforgotten75 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    The most painful one I dated a guy

    for 3 months and the whole time he was cheating I found out by reading text on his phone that he didn't delete and I was mad and i cried for like 2 hours
    relapsing14 relapsing14 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    I was naive then. I cried my eyes out

    for days. The guy I was dating had another girlfriend who cashed him out all the time. He fell asleep in a movie we were watching and his phone wouldn't stop going off. I took down the number calling and called her later. What a douche he told me he went to work everyday but...
    MeChee MeChee 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    Every break up is painful

    when you're a compassionate,loving person.Love isn't an easy thing to just give to anyone.When you let yourself love and that love is taken away,it's painful.
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Mar 16

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    My ex....whom I'm still madly in love with.

    .has a new boyfriend. And I found out essentially on the very day they planned on sleeping together. Added to the fact they been dating for 5 months and didn't know he even existed till recently
    darkheart25 darkheart25 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    literally he broke up with me in the cafeteria

    where everyone was...liek wtf
    mariabish mariabish 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    chloeexx11 chloeexx11 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    So I met this boy last year

    and he was really sweet. I liked him after a few weeks of knowing him. He liked me the first day he saw me. He went up to my close friend and told her to ask me if I like him and of course I did. A week later, he asked me out. It was my best friend who got us together. We had a...
    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Wow was I wrong, loving

    and trusting you. Blame my Struggles, how easily I fell for you. I had been lost but fine until you came about. I lost my identity. I became nothing but shame, a mirror and nothing without you. No friends, no identity, no family, nothing but anxiety. Manipulated to...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 16-17, F Mar 15

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    My bestfriend dated my recent Ex

    and i forgave her, but i will never forget
    wargoddess1 wargoddess1 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I Couldn'T Breathe.

    The summer before my sophomore year of high school, I started dating this guy named Jason. He was a grade above me, and we had known each other for quite awhile. Before Jason I had never really had a boyfriend. I was always to shy to talk to guys and having a boyfriend was never...
    tnp2013 tnp2013 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    I won't get much sympathy

    for this, and that's okay, it happened a long time ago. I was 15. I started having sex at 14. And really, that's all I wanted to do. I started dating a guy I really liked. He was a virgin at that time and was nervous about it and wanted to wait a while. So, I tried being...
    DesiredEmily DesiredEmily 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Wow this brings me way back.

    ..I was young, 14 or so. I had this beautiful blonde hair, blue eyed boyfriend, who was completely head over heals for me. Being the Bratty teen i was, I took it all for granted. I would "break up" with him constantly, and I know this shouldn't be a huge deal when you are so you...
    SecretAngel6 SecretAngel6 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    All night it was difficult to sleep I feel empty

    as though I want to cry and let it all out but nothing comes out. This is the second time I am dealing with a break and although this one year break up is nothing compared to my seven year one I cant help but ask myself why? didnt I learn my lesson the first time? I know I was...
    miae13 miae13 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    to my ex...๐Ÿ˜’ **** u

    and have a nice day.
    lostandforgotten75 lostandforgotten75 18-21, F Apr 5

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    After we broke up she told me she only liked me

    because of my hoodies and money.
    5s0s 5s0s 16-17, M 6 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    My first ketchup bottle.

    . She was so beautiful, red and with a mysterious flavor.. I miss her so much.. My mom threw her out of the window because she didn't liked me "talking to a bottle of ketchup", but she wasn't just a bottle of ketchup.. She was Ketchilia, my first love.
    ketchuplover24 ketchuplover24 22-25, M Aug 19, 2014

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    I loved a girl, but i gave her up.

    I really dont know why. Something just didnt feel okay. I felt i had to do it. She was my first love. I missed her so much. I cant get over how much i regretted it. Im okay now but ever since i find it hard to get attached to somebody because im afraid of the loss that comes...
    ForeverJashinist ForeverJashinist 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I remember it, I was bitter

    for a year or so.. got over it, moved on, she found another guy, dumped him with in a year and hes a bud now, NOW shes dating another guy.. me and a friend realized now that shes an AttenWhr... while the one person who I could call my brother , is becoming narrow minded, and...
    FabledCity FabledCity 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 5

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    yuchingco06 yuchingco06 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    it was total bullshit,

    hope she gets hit by a bus. jk she isn't even worth the cost of fixing the dent XD
    Mcduck8982 Mcduck8982 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 20

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    I remember when my 1st boyfriend broke up with

    me coz I don't want to have sex with him. I don't have to do it just to prove that I am worthy of his love. And while we were us, he tried to flirt and date one of my close friends. He's a ******* *******. But that was 9 years ago. I've learned from one of our mutual friends...
    etten etten 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    8th grade, when I first took love at a serious

    level with that someone.. I thought she would take it faithful with me too until she came up with a lie to break up with me... and ended up dating another guy right after we broke up. Honestly, I went out of control and started getting depressed almost everyday in school after...
    AnanSterb27 AnanSterb27 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    freshh freshh 31-35, F Oct 3, 2014

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    It was painful alright.

    .. A month before our would-have-been marriage and I was on the streets running for my life with a shattered right hand... And knowing even with the best reconstructive surgery my career as neurosurgeon which had just begun... Was over. I'll never forget the pain I endure every...
    LisaLuxuria LisaLuxuria 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    gill987 gill987 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 4

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    I still remember his hard I cried

    and all the pain I feel to this day.. When do you forget.
    deeviveros deeviveros 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    He didn't break up with me.

    I did. It was painful. There was tears, crying, anger but in the end it was the right thing for the both of us to do. We were together for two years and we were happy but eventually we just slowly drifted apart plus "reasons". Although we were still a couple, the same spark and...
    Horse10202 Horse10202 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    He left me because he was embarrased to be seen

    with me he said he loved me I guess he didn't love me that much then
    silverxrose silverxrose 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    โ€œOne day you'll miss me like i missed you One

    day you'll cry for me like I cried for you and One day you'll love me and I won't love youโ€
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Last night I finally ended an emotionally

    abusive relationship for good. I have tried to break up with him three other times but every time he would manage to coax me back by promising to change and making grand gestures of love. But this time I have blocked him out of my life. I can't help but think if this is all a...
    jessaciao jessaciao 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2014

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    Tt was the time during 2013 april

    when i met the love of my life online but it went till the phone conversations but not more than that. You know how bad i felt when i imagined her voice and image before i saw her and after that when i saw her real pic and heard her voice i was not able to digest as it is the...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    caraccaa caraccaa 26-30, F Apr 7

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    "Doubt thou the stars are fire; Doubt thou

    the sun doth move; Doubt truth be a liar; But never doubt I love."
    Mischief8 Mischief8 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    He was a thousand miles away.

    We never met in person. Never had the chance to do anything couples would do together other than talk sweetly. I ended it. I regretted it immediately, but it was too late. It's been over two years and I think I'm almost over it.
    SylverCoyote SylverCoyote 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 29, 2014

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    Pathetic...

    He was my first kiss, my first love, and my first heartbreak! I was 16! Such a wonderful age to be in love. He was the first bf I ever wanted to be around. I would be fine if I could just hug him. For the first time I was truly in love! And I was blissfully happy! Sure we had...
    ShortDork ShortDork 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    my boyfriend of 5 years,

    recently and randomly told me he no longer wants to be with me and he fell out of love with me...
    lostandforgotten75 lostandforgotten75 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I just want somebody

    who will never stop loving me๐Ÿ˜ž
    yuchingco06 yuchingco06 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 25

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    I remember it like it was yesterday.

    I cried everyday until I got tired of crying. I didn't eat and all I wanted to do was sleep. I didn't leave home unless I absolutely had to. It was by far the worst experience ever. I thought I'd never be happy again. I thought my life was over. Then one morning I woke up and...
    msnettajay msnettajay 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    My Ex GF keep connecting me

    after dumping me.
    SikaiZhang SikaiZhang 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 5

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    The promises we made seemed easier then

    as if we knew our love would never end but seasons change and so does our promises fade...
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F Apr 3

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