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I Remember My First Painful Breakup

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    This is me and this is my journey. - June 2012. Two weeks ago I remembered my first breakup and my most painful heartache. I was barely thirteen when I met him that was April 1996...
    Lostsoul05 Lostsoul05 26-30, F Jun 17, 2012

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    It Didn't Make Any Sense - I was 16 years old (she was 15). The past four weeks had been complete bliss. I had never been so completely and absolutely happy in my whole life. Life...
    kuryos2 kuryos2 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    Cried Like In The Movies - I'm a fan of movies but I never really thought crying for a couple of days straight would happen in real life; it did with me. I met this guy when I was...
    gb0485 gb0485 18-21, F May 28, 2012

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    I'm still awake because I believe good women don't exist anymore. Some men really look for a relationship but it rarely happens. Perhaps my long relationship throws me off. I still...
    Dane42 Dane42 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    Recent Breakup - After being on and off for 2 years I finally thought it was time to settle down and finally make it work. On a Thursday night I asked him to try again, and he said...
    jaxxsss jaxxsss 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    My first painful breakup was in 8th grade. I was dating this boy I really liked (dare I say LOVED?) but I knew something was wrong because he didn't want to tell anyone we were...
    KellyJoo KellyJoo 13-15, F Feb 20

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    It was today... I miss him so much...
    NorthernWindFeather NorthernWindFeather 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    It was very painful not only because that person hurt me a lot, also because that friendship was made while I was being bullied and later I found out that person didn't like me at...
    imanonwriter imanonwriter 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I thought I was going to die. How could a body cry that hard and not die. I stopped eating. I stopped sleeping. I stopped living. I ended it. Where was my strength. Because I was...
    samisez101 samisez101 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    A Good End To A Great Story - I think we knew what path we were walking down before a word had escaped my lips. He walked into my apartment and within the first few minutes of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    It was painful alright... A month before our would-have-been marriage and I was on the streets running for my life with a shattered right hand... And knowing even with the best...
    LisaLuxuria LisaLuxuria 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Guess every break-up is painful in its own way. Right or wrong, easy or hard. There is always a deep sadness that comes from leaving someone you have loved.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Doormat - is it love? is that the thing that keeps people like me to continue loving people even if they hurt us emotionally or physically? or is the thought of being alone? the...
    totallying totallying 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    Pathetic... - He was my first kiss, my first love, and my first heartbreak! I was 16! Such a wonderful age to be in love. He was the first bf I ever wanted to be around. I would be...
    ShortDork ShortDork 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    My first painful breakup was on valentines day 2013. I was dating this one girl and she cheated on me and dumped me on that day.
    NaonWolf NaonWolf 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Conclusion - My First Love Breakup Journal - So after reading through the rest of the entries - I realized they basically said the same thing. The journal did help me get through...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 6, 2010

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    No Feeling - Today I feel numb its the strangest feeling I don't really understand my emotions today I'm not sure how I feel. I spoke to him a few times yesterday over text message...
    NatashaEx NatashaEx 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    The Epoch Of Kaytlyn. - This took place in high school, but you have you know my background first. When i met kaytlyn i was 6' 1", 250 lbs, and looked pretty okay. But All through...
    Zaldiro Zaldiro 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    It Took A While To Recover - Yes, I still remember the feelings although it's been many, many years ago when I was in college. But I look at it as if it just happened yesterday...
    arianne19 arianne19 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 29, 2010

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    My first painful break up was with my first boyfriend in high school name Evan. At the time I didn't know my friend told him that i thought he was cute. We ended up being together...
    queenshe queenshe 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    I Am Going Through My First Painful Breakup Now - and it's killing me. We weren't together long enough for me to develop these feelings (and we never got close), but I was crazy...
    LovesLaborsLost LovesLaborsLost 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    Breakup=experience - As the title says......we breakup bcause we experience the person and realize they don,t work for us. Although it causes pain we LEARN..... I think what is...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    His Lost - I REMEMBER VIVIDLY MY FIRST PAINFUL BREAK UP. IT WAS NOT TOO LONG AGO. I GAVE MY HEART TO SOMEONE WHO DID NOT DESERVE IT. THE WRITING WAS ON THE WALL, HOW HE REALLY...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    I cried for days! P and I were dating for a month and I just think it was the fact that I thought that every relationship was like a 'Fairytale'. We ended up dating a billion times...
    PreciousMystery PreciousMystery 18-21, F Dec 15, 2013

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    Endless Pain - I guy I was seeing for a while had me SO attached from the moment I laid eyes on him. He was different to me. We had silly fights here and there and wouldnt talk for...
    xxDreamerXx88 xxDreamerXx88 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2012

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    Beginning To Accept, That One Day I Will Accept That. - J, I do not even know where to begin. I am sorry, so sorry. I want you to know that this is not easy for me. I am...
    Marizzi Marizzi 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I never want to remember how it happened, I never want to remember his beautiful eyes. Because he destroyed me. Made me give up hope on everything in life. Well it's been 3years...
    aliciapearl5 aliciapearl5 16-17, F Jan 29

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    Worst Break Up So Far In My Life. - I was young and unexpericence of love when I first went out with him. Are love was the tipical teen love,I would asume. He was on a...
    anonymsteengirl anonymsteengirl 16-17, F Dec 30, 2010

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    A Letter Never Sent - “I wrote this letter to my Ex-boyfriend the night we broke up. It’s been almost a year to the day. And I still think about him. I never sent it.” Dear...
    shutupbehappy shutupbehappy 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Only Painful Thing Is The Confusion - Yes he was and still is my first love...but honestly. 2 days after he broke up with me was when I realized I was crying for nothing. He done...
    mayabutterfly mayabutterfly 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    The Afterglow - I've always hated romantic comedies, not because they are cheesy, or boring. I hate them because everything always works out for the couple. They struggle through...
    CasperLeGhost CasperLeGhost 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Metaphors Say It Best - It finally dawned on me exactly what this is, fishing on a rainy day. Ever decided "I'm going fishing tomorrow"? Impulsively. With absolutely no knowledge...
    bclvr bclvr 22-25, M Oct 18, 2011

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    Yes, it was a long time ago, she was my first love and when she agreed to go out with me I could hardly believe it. I was about 16, she was beautiful, well dressed, ambitious...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M Mar 22

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    Didn't see it coming. My high school sweet heart broke up with me two weeks after prom and two weeks before my birthday. In a public place that happened to be our favourite...
    Sapphire89 Sapphire89 22-25 1 Response Feb 5

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    17 Weeks - My ex and I were together for a little over 3 years when we broke just this past January. Its been 17 weeks and she's already been with someone for almost 2 months. I...
    Maire85 Maire85 26-30, F 6 Responses May 16, 2013

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    He's the type of person god gives you so young so you know loss your whole life .
    ithzelhernandez ithzelhernandez 16-17, F Apr 9

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    Like Yesterday - My first love was my best friend. We were on the basketball team together and she was the manager of our volleyball team. We were inseparable. I loved her with a...
    rainbow1691 rainbow1691 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2011

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    4 Years Ago... - I actually met my first boyfriend online, at the age of 16. When we first met, we had our friends with us but I just fell for him completely. We were actually...
    sizeisnothing sizeisnothing 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    It's wasn't a brake up more . Me and my boyfriend where together fora couple years. When he got into some really bad stuff . Started selling drugs and got into trouble with some...
    missjans missjans 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    It was just yesterday I lost the love of my life my world crashed but I didn't lose hope and prayed for her forgiveness thankfully she came to realize how deep my feelings are and...
    Nevergonnagiveuup Nevergonnagiveuup 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 26

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    They say the first is the worst. I guess this is a different kind of pain. My relationship had to end. Not because we stopped loving each other, nothing bad happened that should...
    sunshine1221 sunshine1221 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    My First, Who Wanted To Be My Last... Does He Get His Wish? - Soul mates? Do you believe in them? Sometimes I do, other times I wonder. I had thought I married mine, or at least I...
    Gene86 Gene86 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    How To Live - As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down... probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    Intro - My First Love Breakup Journal - Do you remember your first true love? Do you remember how you felt when you broke up? Well - I do. You see I kept a journal of how I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 24, 2010

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    It was probably the worst break up I have ever gone through just because I was the last to know. I was head over heels for the boy, convinced myself that I loved him the first day...
    FarrahRelates FarrahRelates 18-21, F Feb 5

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    Wheeeeeew it was a horror I literally wanted to take him to his maker for 💔.....then I thought about things and said what the hell I'm young, single, sexy and gotta lot of...
    Missmecshnice Missmecshnice 22-25, F Jan 14

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    Living Some One Is Not Always The Right Thing To Do - When you come out of a breakup even a painful one I know I felt like I wanted to die and no one cared and I know is that I...
    audra11343 audra11343 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I Couldn'T Breathe. - The summer before my sophomore year of high school, I started dating this guy named Jason. He was a grade above me, and we had known each other for quite...
    tnp2013 tnp2013 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    It sucks. Only I think I went through it completely different then most would. I know that i Loved him with every ounce of my soul. I still love him even today. It's been a year...
    Shadoevines Shadoevines 13-15, F Feb 19

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    Day 2 - My First Love Breakup Journal - Side note on this story. I spent the summers in northern WI at a cabin by a lake - may dad was a teacher. Read my First Kiss Story for more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 25, 2010

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    Feeling Worried - Today I've woke up in a complete different frame of mind, I feel extremely isolated and on edge, I'm worried because today all I can think about is him how much I...
    NatashaEx NatashaEx 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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