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I Remember My First Painful Breakup

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My son is retarded and I no longer wish to take

    care of him. If I release him in a field will he be able to take care of himself? Monkeys and fend for themselves so he could too right? He's 8 and about as smart as a chimp.
    2gnillort 2gnillort 70+, M 6 Responses Nov 23

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    It sickens me. If only we didnt have any kid,

    i could have leave him long time ago. I could have been a doctor now!!!!!!
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F Aug 24

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    I sent you a goodbye letter.

    It made me feel good, a closure, in a way.
    freshh freshh 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I remember my first painful breakup.

    .. I was dating a guy for 2 years.. I'm my mind it was all going so well.. One day he asked me to meet him somewhere.. Little did I no it was to leave me :(.. After he broke up with me and I was a crying babbling mess he said I made a mistake I still want to be with you...I was...
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I still remember his hard I cried

    and all the pain I feel to this day.. When do you forget.
    deeviveros deeviveros 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    My first painful breakup,

    was when I was 21. Not having experienced love from my parents, I substituted a romance with my first girlfriend as love. This relationship went for 12 months, I put all my energy into it and when she decided to start dating someone else, I was more than heart broken, I was...
    Create63 Create63 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 22

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    I am currently going through a very hard

    breakup. Me and my ex were together for 3 years and he was my rock. We were fighting to much, and one day he just dropped me like a heavy weight :( I miss him so much and I would do anything for him back
    nicolesierraxo nicolesierraxo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    It happened 2 years ago.

    We had been together for almost three years; then things took a nasty turn and one day i simply felt like she was gone, the girl i had loved so much was gone forever. Although I was the one to end it, there has not been a single night since that i don't turn off the light and...
    yonosoynadie yonosoynadie 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    I don't know if it's common with guys

    but distance can be a b***h. I had almost a week and a half of depression because she broke up with me. And honestly I was loyal. I had many FRIENDS who were girls but I never let even one of them get too close. I still feel bad when I think about it.
    gautamgk gautamgk 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 30

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    His Lost

    I REMEMBER VIVIDLY MY FIRST PAINFUL BREAK UP. IT WAS NOT TOO LONG AGO. I GAVE MY HEART TO SOMEONE WHO DID NOT DESERVE IT. THE WRITING WAS ON THE WALL, HOW HE REALLY FELT ABOUT ME. BUT I REFUSED TO SEE IT. HE SHOWERED ME DAILY WITH WORDS OF LOVE, BUT ALL THEY WERE, WERE EMPTY...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Saw my exes ex today

    and it took an incredible amount of restraint to keep all the savage rage building up inside me not to beat his face in. People like him...really don't deserve a shot at living
    Mischief8 Mischief8 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 24

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    chloeexx11 chloeexx11 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    Over the summer me and this girl spent

    so much time together. We'd come out in the middle of the night and just talk she was like my everything. I liked her and she liked me and then we started to get into it. We argued all the time then had make up sex. Then one day everything started to get bad I got wasted at a...
    PvBearspride PvBearspride 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 9

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    How do you stop thinking of them

    once it's over? I'm not promiscuous, I'm not trying to go that route. I stay busy but they're constantly on my mind.
    Anomalyx Anomalyx 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 9

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    Sadly, my first breakup was

    when my first marriage ended. My first husband. We didn't date until we were older but I was friends with him since we were 10. Never ever thought he would cheat and leave me but he did. I was in denial. The pain and hurt and disbelief is beyond words. It didn't help that he...
    UnfortunateCookie UnfortunateCookie 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    she was from a camp I go to.

    ..she was my world...
    zhenry zhenry 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 7

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    I cried all the time like everyday .

    She said my **** stunk so she couldn't do it anymore .
    lastchance232isapussy lastchance232isapussy 22-25, T Nov 20

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    It was painful alright.

    .. A month before our would-have-been marriage and I was on the streets running for my life with a shattered right hand... And knowing even with the best reconstructive surgery my career as neurosurgeon which had just begun... Was over. I'll never forget the pain I endure every...
    LisaLuxuria LisaLuxuria 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I dated my high school sweet heart

    for 3 years. We didn't have sex. I respected her so much. I was so in love. We went to a dance and while I was dancing with her, I told her I was in love with her. She walked away from me. I asked what was wrong and she said she didn't love me. I tried to move on in high...
    jerry1982 jerry1982 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I literally died inside.

    .. Even tho in the beginning I told myself I won't feel that way.
    Pyropanda Pyropanda 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 23

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    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    as if people actually think its ok to dump

    someone via text. hey yo. no.
    Minnowshi Minnowshi 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Last night I finally ended an emotionally

    abusive relationship for good. I have tried to break up with him three other times but every time he would manage to coax me back by promising to change and making grand gestures of love. But this time I have blocked him out of my life. I can't help but think if this is all a...
    jessaciao jessaciao 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    And I can't forget about it ,

    the same guy that broke up with me is now my boyfriend I love him but I can't forget the time he broke up with me , the message he sent was so surprising I didn't expect it and I'm scared it'll happen again ! I've talked about it with him more than 5 times and he keeps saying he...
    Snowwhite5424 Snowwhite5424 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 5

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    I have been separated/divorced from my ex

    for going on six years now. But yet I am always missing her. Looking on her Facebook at her new life,family and kids. Wishing that I was still with her. I can't get past my old life. Even though so many good things of happened in my life so many changes. I am so antisocial all I...
    muddkat muddkat 36-40, M 7 Responses Oct 27

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    I Couldn'T Breathe.

    The summer before my sophomore year of high school, I started dating this guy named Jason. He was a grade above me, and we had known each other for quite awhile. Before Jason I had never really had a boyfriend. I was always to shy to talk to guys and having a boyfriend was never...
    tnp2013 tnp2013 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    freshh freshh 31-35, F Oct 3

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    He was a thousand miles away.

    We never met in person. Never had the chance to do anything couples would do together other than talk sweetly. I ended it. I regretted it immediately, but it was too late. It's been over two years and I think I'm almost over it.
    SylverCoyote SylverCoyote 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 29

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    This is kinda personal

    but what's the worst that could happen, I met this women on a website the beginning of this year. And we spoke and started to Skype everyday and I felt like my life was finally taking its turn for the right direction. So we decided to take a long distant relationship. The funny...
    KushiLungs KushiLungs 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 2

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    My bestfriend dated my recent Ex

    and i forgave her, but i will never forget
    wargoddess1 wargoddess1 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    My first breakup happened a month ago:( i feel

    so broken hearted ive never felt so down in my life, he never gave a chance to sort things out either we have a child together aswell, hes just getting on with his life without a care in the world while im left picking up the pieces.. i was with him for a few years, and really...
    emmalouise81 emmalouise81 31-35, F 16 hrs ago

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    Just so we're clear, it is okay to miss someone

    you no longer want in your life. Remember that :)
    miae13 miae13 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Pathetic...

    He was my first kiss, my first love, and my first heartbreak! I was 16! Such a wonderful age to be in love. He was the first bf I ever wanted to be around. I would be fine if I could just hug him. For the first time I was truly in love! And I was blissfully happy! Sure we had...
    ShortDork ShortDork 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    After we broke up she told me she only liked me

    because of my hoodies and money.
    zvkk zvkk 16-17, M 6 Responses Oct 28

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    I’ve been trying to figure out how to write

    this for a month now. Every time I start, I always get off track or start to sound a little depressing. Although I suppose that’s what happens when you try to fit three years of thoughts into one small account. The essence of the story is that what I want more than anything is...
    jphegan jphegan 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    Don't think I had ever felt

    so down in my life, but have since learnt that everything happens for a reason!
    mattys1 mattys1 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 3

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    All night it was difficult to sleep I feel empty

    as though I want to cry and let it all out but nothing comes out. This is the second time I am dealing with a break and although this one year break up is nothing compared to my seven year one I cant help but ask myself why? didnt I learn my lesson the first time? I know I was...
    miae13 miae13 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    jolop jolop 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I went on a date after my breakup.

    It was fun and it was crazy amazing.
    freshh freshh 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    So I met this boy last year

    and he was really sweet. I liked him after a few weeks of knowing him. He liked me the first day he saw me. He went up to my close friend and told her to ask me if I like him and of course I did. A week later, he asked me out. It was my best friend who got us together. We had a...
    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 12

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    I was naive then. I cried my eyes out

    for days. The guy I was dating had another girlfriend who cashed him out all the time. He fell asleep in a movie we were watching and his phone wouldn't stop going off. I took down the number calling and called her later. What a douche he told me he went to work everyday but...
    MeChee MeChee 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    If remembered about you Tears in my eyes I

    miss the moments with you Affection to me Now you're not mine And the ending had my love Just let me talk I still love you Why does your heart simply ambiguous Relieve me chest though I hurt Hopefully happy with her because you have chosen her The pain of what I sense...
    VanAlexa VanAlexa 16-17, F Oct 29

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    I remember my first break up.

    My only one actually. Haha. He was my first boyfriend, the first person I have ever dated and had feelings for. I guess you can say I'm to nice, because I had a hard time telling him "no". I would do his homework for him, he would come over to my house and trash it while eating...
    HarmsCaleb HarmsCaleb 18-21, M Nov 19

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    I actually was the one

    who ended this relationship. I was 14 when we started dating, and I broke it off when I was 16. He was the bad boy- the opposite of what I was then. Now, I can be a bit of a badass;) We had a lot in common, and we had a great deal of fun while we were together. The problem was...
    Leopard3487 Leopard3487 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    I remember wondering how id gone to being

    everything he wanted to someone he 'hoped he could still be friends with' I remember the emptiness and the questions I kept on asking myself 'what did I do?' 'why did this happen?' and I remember my friends saying 'he's not worth it' 'you can do better anyway' talking to them...
    dreamer0800 dreamer0800 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 11

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    all of mine seem to be painful.

    .. I'm going through one right now. he was the first to treat me right and axtually take me out on dates. it just hit me that its not gonna work. I dont know why but i have a feeling. seeing him tomorrow at work is gonna be miserable.
    crunchatizamecaptin crunchatizamecaptin 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    My first ketchup bottle.

    . She was so beautiful, red and with a mysterious flavor.. I miss her so much.. My mom threw her out of the window because she didn't liked me "talking to a bottle of ketchup", but she wasn't just a bottle of ketchup.. She was Ketchilia, my first love.
    ketchuplover24 ketchuplover24 22-25, M Aug 19

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    Sometimes I feel like getting married is

    something I don't want to do. It's unnatural for men to be monogamous.
    freshh freshh 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 10

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    We were twelve. I have dressed

    and been at peace with