I Resent My Husband For Not Setting Boundaries With Ex Wife

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    My Partner Spends Weekends Away With Ex- And Kids

    My partner and I have been together for almost a year. When we got together, he had just moved (for work reasons) to a new location about 6-8 hours drive from where his ex-wife and children live. He spends about one weekend a month, and sometimes a week at a time, with them and...
    WishingIknew WishingIknew
    41-45
    1 Response Oct 2, 2011

    No Boundaries Before, None Now

    my situation is frustrating, we have primary custody, he has visitation. he's always late, never sorry, acts like it's just they way it is (there's always some crazy reason or it's just ignored--kind of an entitlement attitude to come and go whenever) and we have to live with it...
    reallyjustnice reallyjustnice
    36-40, F
    Nov 7, 2009

    Does Not Approve Of Husband And Exes Relationship

    My husband and I have been together for 3 years.  From the very beginning his ex has tried everything she can to separate us.  I've received harrassing emailsand calls.  She has slandered my name as well as my  husband's.  Now, in the third year...
    Texas32 Texas32
    31-35
    5 Responses Dec 2, 2010

    Husband Ex Driving Me Crazy!

    I have tried many times to get along with her due to the sake of the kids. My ex and her have 3 kids together. We bought our home and she insisted on calling me and wanting to help decorate our home! On top of that she calls my husband 6x a night. and when we are alone having...
    anlynn anlynn
    36-40
    4 Responses Aug 18, 2009

    His Ex Is Trying to Split Us Up

    My husband and I have been married 18 years. His ex-wife has always tried to cause problems between us by using children. It has taken a long time for him to stop allowing her to call and come by anytime she felt like fighting with us over something stupid. She has tried to...
    reneahatcher reneahatcher
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2009

    My Boyfriend And His EX

    AFter having my baby who is just 3 onths old, we finally made love, my boyfriend and me. But immediately we were over and looking rather contented,he delved into stories about his ex-wife. I was taken aack, how could he not see that i wanted to be held in his arms and just lie...
    mindi97 mindi97
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 9, 2013

    Weekend Ruined By Her Again! Warning: Anger & Profanity!

    We havn't had a break in months. No alone time. No nothing. On the rare occasion that my husband needs her to "babysit" her own children when it's not "her weekend", she makes him pay for it & make up his time. Seriously, she keeps track of it. Those are her children! She treats...
    goodbyeyellowbrickroad goodbyeyellowbrickroad
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2012

    Never Been Introduced To Children Or Family Members

    I have been dating for 9 months now. My boyfriend has never introduced me to his children whom are 15, 17 and 22. His family does not know I exist. he has only introduced me to two of his co-workers. He has been divorced for 13 years. He says he doesnt introduced me yet...
    carla1234 carla1234
    46-50
    1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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