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I Resent My Husband

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    So after 9 years I've finally realized my problem. It's my husband. He is a narcissist and I just figured it out. It all makes sense now; why I am always wrong (even when I'm not...
    unhappy26 unhappy26 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I Know He Knows....... - i feel i am at a crossroads in my life. I want to be alone and i no longer want to be married (or atleast be seperated). I have been with my husband since...
    imsohappynow imsohappynow 26-30, F 4 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Financial Infidelity - no one will ever know what he has done to me no one will ever know the lies he has told no one will ever know the secrets he held no one will ever know the...
    lvjuniebug lvjuniebug 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    When Envy Turns To Resentment . . . - I am having a difficult time in my marriage. I feel very alone. Too much is asked of me. I don't know what to do. Whenever my husband and I...
    bioma bioma 31-35 4 Responses May 1, 2011

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    I am unsure whether I want to separate, divorce, or continue living with my husband. We have a baby, a 9 month old son. I work full-time. I've always worked very hard and am a...
    lc14503 lc14503 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    So Much Hate And Anger..... - My husband has put me through some really bad situations over the past few months. All the horrible things he has said about me, being hispanic, my...
    Rawky Rawky 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    I can't get over his cheating and it seems like any extra money we have he always spends on himself and has a excuse why he really needed what ever he has bought whether its new...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Resent Isn't the Word - My husband has lied to me about smoking pot. He let my little brother who is 14 smoke pot and lied to me about it. Our marriage is ending and I'm...
    dreamofme dreamofme 21-25, F 4 Responses Jan 10, 2007

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    Seeking Married Couples For Paid Docu-series!! - * Have you Grown Apart from your Spouse, but still Live Together? * Have you hit a rough patch in your marriage, and trying to...
    CastingMarriedCouples CastingMarriedCouples 26-30, F Oct 22, 2013

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    Sometimes I Wonder If Love Is Enough - I've been married for 5 years... second time around for both of us.  I feel like I've been taken advantage of by my husband...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Unemployed Spouse - My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and what a roller coaster it has been! Since our marriage he has been employed a total of 11 months while...
    sweetpea28 sweetpea28 26-30, F 95 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Taken For Granted- Yeah I Know Join The Club!!! - I have been married for 21 years. When I met him I thought wow just perfect tall, dark & handsome. It seemed he had his s...
    minimoto71365 minimoto71365 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2010

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    I Have Been married for one year and I feel like I don't love my husband anymore it's constant arguments not one decent conversation can be held between us. He is always making...
    Nelly1212 Nelly1212 26-30 7 Responses Jan 14

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    Hopeless And Overwhelmed. Husband Is Not Working. - I am just overwhelmed and do not know what to do. My husband quit his job for another job 6 months ago. I tried to advise him...
    soemptyandbroken86 soemptyandbroken86 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    I Resented My Husband Too -  yrs ive been married for  17yrs .i sometimes i really love him sometimes i hate him.i can say that after all of these years,every one has...
    sassyass2 sassyass2 41-45, F Aug 28, 2010

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    He Loves Me He Loves Me Not. Not!!! - Life is tough in a relationship when you no longer are a wife but just a roommate and caregiver.  The first couple years of our marriage I...
    teri58 teri58 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2011

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    He Decieved Me - I found out a year ago that my husband looks at gay **** on the internet.  To make things worse, he had a personal ad on one of the web sites.  He says...
    Calybaby Calybaby 21-25, F 15 Responses Jul 8, 2006

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    My Husband Will Throw Anyone "Under The Bus" - I have been married for almost 30 years. My husband has always been a narcissist, but recently my daughter secretly married an...
    shellyls shellyls 51-55 1 Response Oct 10, 2013

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    Can't Take Much More - I really am getting close to my breaking point with my husband. He doesn't help me with anything around the house. He expects me to do all the housework...
    sadeyes7294 sadeyes7294 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    I Dont Resent Him As Much Dont Respect This Aspect Of Him - My hubby and I have been together ten years now. He is older then me. He is a hardworker and really creative. We have a...
    Savannah80 Savannah80 31-35, F May 16, 2013

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    I'm Always In Tears And Anxious - I have been with my husband for 2 years and seven months, but we have only been married for the past seven months. We are both young: he's 24 and...
    munchkinfairy92 munchkinfairy92 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    Tired Of Lazy Husband - I've been married almost ten years. The longer I'm with my husband, the less I respect him and the more I resent him. Part of me feels like I should be...
    apachesmom apachesmom 36-40 7 Responses Feb 19, 2012

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    Just Jumping In Without Even Looking. - I had been in the field of dating for a while. Dealing with the bullshit and mind games. Here came someone (a little older) but treated me...
    nikilee90 nikilee90 22-25 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    Husband refuses to find a job, just obstinately spends all his time making mobile phone games which no one wants to pay for. He made $30 this year. He refuses to even explore other...
    disillusionedmaddog disillusionedmaddog 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    The Addict - When you find out is an addict and has been hiding it from you. The resentment is so overwhelming i feel like the ocean is taking me out to sea sometimes. Like I am...
    Jltorgerson Jltorgerson 26-30, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Cheating???? - My husband and I had this really rough patch this past few months. We lost our company so we were both unemployed and on top of it we have a 1 year old baby. He...
    Thinkpink87 Thinkpink87 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go? - You see we have been married for 20 years. He lost his job last year and so did I. I actually lost 2 jobs in 2yrs time. He was down for a long time...
    ymc2014 ymc2014 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    So I am completely lost! I need help! I just ended a 10year marriage...my husband admitted to me that he had been cheating on me since day one of our relationship! We have been...
    ohkeedokee ohkeedokee 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 21

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    Scared - I have been married for 24 years and with my husband for 25. We have 2 great kids, who I adore. My problem is that I really and I mean really resent my husband. I work a...
    wantingoout wantingoout 41-45 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    How Do I Stop Being So Angry? - I feel like I have to fill you all in...  I have been married for 17 years and have two WONDERFUL children!  I also have a husband who is...
    Eddysgirl Eddysgirl 36-40 5 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    My husband just told me that I don't get beat enough.
    Moongoddess79 Moongoddess79 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 16

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    I Care About Him And Don't Want Him To Hurt - I regret saying in an earlier story, joking about how he's "up for grabs - any takers?" I know that sounds awful and I don't really...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Where's the Beef? - My husband and I have been married for about a year, and he's always "too tired" to have sex.  This was not a problem before we got married, nor...
    HSB HSB 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2006

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    Here I Am. Catchy Huh? - It is 2:38am on a frosty Tuesday morning, and I am sitting in the living room surrounded by my pups. I only spent 38 minutes hiding in the bathroom tonight...
    Andtheyallfalldown Andtheyallfalldown 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    At A Loss... - ive been married 12 years. we've had ups and downs. lately he just seems unable to talk to me with any respect. he just gets angry and doesnt tell me exactly what i...
    xxasdfghjklkjhgfdsaxx xxasdfghjklkjhgfdsaxx 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2013

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    For The Love of Sage- All troubles in my 17 year marriage begin with a little girl called Sage. She is the mixed race child my husband fathered during his 1st year in America...
    FromBehindTheIronCurtain FromBehindTheIronCurtain 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    He Is Just So Lame. - To hear all of my husband's complaints, you'd think he's about 90 years old.  He is only 37 but everyday he seems to have some new ailment.  He has...
    jackieblue jackieblue 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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    I Really Resent My Husband - If I knew then what I know now I wouldn't be married to him. In the beginning of our relationship I found out he was dating someone else (Little did I...
    2 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    That is the title of this group. Although, I don't resent my husband. He just ****** me off. He has a date tomorrow night. I am NOT jealous. So, instead of just telling me about...
    princessvictoria01 princessvictoria01 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    My Wife Resents Me... - So I see a lot of stories about men and women who resent their spouse for one reason or another. I am in the opposite side, and am the one who is resented...
    charlierose5012 charlierose5012 36-40, M 17 Responses May 2, 2011

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    Mistakes Made, Time Has Changed...Im So Confused - To start off i married my husband with only a couple months spent getting to know him. I was 17, a mother in result of rape. i...
    forgottentroop forgottentroop 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    I Resent Everything He Has Put Me Through - Where to begin.  I have been with my husband now for 4 1/2 years.  We have only been married for a little over a year now.  About 3...
    barbie1975 barbie1975 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    Is Resent a Strong Enough Word!?!?! - I have known my husband since 98. I was a divorced mom with 3 kids who had just started working as a nurse 2 months prior. He was like my...
    strawberry1969 strawberry1969 36-40, F 16 Responses Oct 2, 2007

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    All These Years Meant Nothing To Him - I hate him, I resent him, I'm mad at him and I'm so crushed how this is happening. We walk by like no one was there. We've lost respect...
    Calif39 Calif39 36-40, F 6 Responses May 6, 2012

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    My husband and I have been married for 10years and recently had our fourth baby. Lately I feel soo unappriciated, overwhelmed and alone. I feel like he cares more about his...
    jen915 jen915 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    He Talks To Other Women And Makes Me Feel Guilty. - He has texted, called, emailed, and exchanged pictures with other women. He turns it into either I haven't been giving him what...
    Li1miz Li1miz 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2011

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    I Hate Being In Love With Him - Every 10mn of a conversation he gets frustrated at me. He takes forver to clean anything, I hate to nag him. He made abig breakfast today, he made...
    sheisahopelessromantic sheisahopelessromantic 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2013

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    Anger - The first time I found myself full of rage was when I got married. I had never felt so irate. The feeling of a burning fire inside my chest gave me a new thing to look at...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    Couch Potato - My husband and I have been married 8 years. He served in the military the first 7, so I figured he was so tired from work and stress he watched TV to relax. Never...
    Kimberlyyyy Kimberlyyyy 26-30 3 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    My Hubby and I have been married for 12 years been together almost 15 years. He is a prison officer in a female prison. Last year he went from being really open and honest to bring...
    Mrscummins20 Mrscummins20 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    Currently in a domestic partnership with a man and his bazillion kids. Not only cannot I not stand the look of him, but I really don't like his kids anymore either. He lies to me...
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Constant Fighting-he Say's I'm to Blame - Oh my..things have not been good lately.  I know the first year of marriage is supposed to be hard, but this is taking it to a whole...
    mostsexysmile mostsexysmile 26-30 8 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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