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I Resent My Husband

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    I Have Been married for one year

    and I feel like I don't love my husband anymore it's constant arguments not one decent conversation can be held between us. He is always making digs always finding something to make a point about I'm sick and tired of listening to same crap can't cope Anything I do or say never...
    Nelly1212 Nelly1212 26-30 7 Responses Jan 14

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    That is the title of this group.

    Although, I don't resent my husband. He just ****** me off. He has a date tomorrow night. I am NOT jealous. So, instead of just telling me about the date or acting normal. He tells me over and over how he has hot plans for tomorrow and asks me if I will I be able to fend for...
    jessesgirl24 jessesgirl24 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    My Wife Resents Me...

    So I see a lot of stories about men and women who resent their spouse for one reason or another. I am in the opposite side, and am the one who is resented. I want to figure out what I can possibly do to salvage my marriage, and am looking from advise from those of you that have...
    charlierose5012 charlierose5012 36-40, M 18 Responses May 2, 2011

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    Resent Isn't the Word

    My husband has lied to me about smoking pot. He let my little brother who is 14 smoke pot and lied to me about it. Our marriage is ending and I'm heartbroken, but at the same time I wish the divorce was already over, I hate him. But I can't help but love the man who I've been...
    dreamofme dreamofme 21-25, F 4 Responses Jan 10, 2007

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    My Marriage Broke Down When My Stepson Came To Live With Us....

    I married 4 years ago, I have 4 children from previous relationship, none with my husband, he moved into my home 18 months before we married, he has son from previous marriage.. When we met and got married, his son who is now 8, lived with his mother and stayed with us every...
    Charlielou Charlielou 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    Taken For Granted- Yeah I Know Join The Club!!!

    I have been married for 21 years. When I met him I thought wow just perfect tall, dark & handsome. It seemed he had his s*** together, his own business, knew alot about alot of things. Cherry on top was our families had been connected for generations so if it would have been an...
    minimoto71365 minimoto71365 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2010

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    I take ambient to help me sleep

    and I was woke up by my husband in the middle of night trying to have sex with me he claims to have been trying to give me a massage because I send my back was bothering me to days ago. I never said that! I want to run away from him but we have to kids together
    kreativebelle kreativebelle 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I Care About Him And Don't Want Him To Hurt

    I regret saying in an earlier story, joking about how he's "up for grabs - any takers?" I know that sounds awful and I don't really wish to hurt him. I don't wish to make him out to be so awful that no one would want him. Truth be told, if he didn't have a lot of wonderful...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    My Husband Will Throw Anyone "Under The Bus"

    I have been married for almost 30 years. My husband has always been a narcissist, but recently my daughter secretly married an "unsuitable" person and our whole family fell apart. I don't like the marriage either, but she is our daughter. When I finally realized that he will...
    shellyls shellyls 51-55 1 Response Oct 10, 2013

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    7 years 4 children (5

    if you include him) and I feel anger, frustration and resentment he has put me through so much torment. And yet I still stand here before him as his wife encouraging him, nurturing him, guiding him, supporting him. He demands all my time and attention. He's insecure, immature...
    sars19 sars19 26-30, F Aug 25

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    He Loves Me He Loves Me Not. Not!!!

    Life is tough in a relationship when you no longer are a wife but just a roommate and caregiver.  The first couple years of our marriage I felt some happiness not sure you would really call it love though.  It was the fact that I was his personal sexual object to use as he...
    teri58 teri58 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2011

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    I'm Always In Tears And Anxious

    I have been with my husband for 2 years and seven months, but we have only been married for the past seven months. We are both young: he's 24 and I'm 21, but I don't believe our age is the main problem, though it may contribute. Anyway, the problem I am having right now as I type...
    munchkinfairy92 munchkinfairy92 18-21, F Nov 9, 2013

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    I resent the way my husband expects me to act

    like other women . Like having another woman join us I think I was just raised not to do things like that and value marriage as a commitment between two people why would I want I invite another woman into our bed why should I have to degrade myself I really don't care what...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    Why do I have to be alone in this?

    ? We've been together four years, married almost two, and I've gone from thinking his child like ways were cute to resenting him for not being able to care for himself. I hate his parents for sending him out into the world this way. I sometimes wish I'd never had his kids because...
    MrsElleBelle MrsElleBelle 26-30, F 3 Responses May 7

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    Its been really hard on me,

    the whole issue of having to stay with a guy for the rest of my life and knowing the fact that we are complete strangers. And above all we both are not in love. Love is the medium that drives a marriage and when it is not there or is there in a vague sense then life surely...
    sj1986 sj1986 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    So after 9 years I've finally realized my

    problem. It's my husband. He is a narcissist and I just figured it out. It all makes sense now; why I am always wrong (even when I'm not), why I am always blamed, why I can't do anything right, why he calls me terrible names and tells me I'm a bad mom, constantly beating me down...
    unhappy26 unhappy26 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I Hate Being In Love With Him

    Every 10mn of a conversation he gets frustrated at me. He takes forver to clean anything, I hate to nag him. He made abig breakfast today, he made me oatmeal. My stomach has been in pain for weeks now because I keep thinking about The flirt txts I found on his phone And how our...
    sheisahopelessromantic sheisahopelessromantic 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2013

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    I Know He Knows.......

    i feel i am at a crossroads in my life. I want to be alone and i no longer want to be married (or atleast be seperated). I have been with my husband since 19 and i am 27. We are growing apart and i rezent him because i have explained to him that i think we should live apart and...
    imsohappynow imsohappynow 26-30, F 4 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    You see we have been married for 20 years. He lost his job last year and so did I. I actually lost 2 jobs in 2yrs time. He was down for a long time and I have stood by him. We have 3 kids, 7, 19 & 26. He tells me I got pregnant with our 7yr old on purpose and he feels stuck here...
    ymc2014 ymc2014 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Here I Am. Catchy Huh?

    It is 2:38am on a frosty Tuesday morning, and I am sitting in the living room surrounded by my pups. I only spent 38 minutes hiding in the bathroom tonight which is a major improvement. I knew he would still be awake, and more than likely he still is. So here I sit and wait until...
    Andtheyallfalldown Andtheyallfalldown 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    My husband and I have been married

    for 10years and recently had our fourth baby. Lately I feel soo unappriciated, overwhelmed and alone. I feel like he cares more about his company then he does the kids and I since he spends all of his time working. He is a mechanic and it's not just paying customers who keep...
    jen915 jen915 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I Resented My Husband Too

     yrs ive been married for  17yrs .i sometimes i really love him sometimes i hate him.i can say that after all of these years,every one has issues and i really cant get into them right now ,but i will when the time is right.my husband would be very upset if he know i...
    sassyass2 sassyass2 41-45, F Aug 28, 2010

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    I am unsure whether I want to separate,

    divorce, or continue living with my husband. We have a baby, a 9 month old son. I work full-time. I've always worked very hard and am a lawyer now, but this past year I've been doing poorly at work for the first time in my life. I fear I may lose my job. The problem is, my...
    lc14503 lc14503 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Hopeless And Overwhelmed. Husband Is Not Working.

    I am just overwhelmed and do not know what to do. My husband quit his job for another job 6 months ago. I tried to advise him over and over again to give a 2 weeks notice of resignation. Instead, he calls and quits very rudely and began working at the other job. Well after 2...
    soemptyandbroken86 soemptyandbroken86 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    When Envy Turns To Resentment . . .

    I am having a difficult time in my marriage. I feel very alone. Too much is asked of me. I don't know what to do. Whenever my husband and I argue, we end at an impass. The situation is resolved because I cave in. I just want the arguing and pain to stop. He wanted to have more...
    bioma bioma 31-35 4 Responses May 1, 2011

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    He Talks To Other Women And Makes Me Feel Guilty.

    He has texted, called, emailed, and exchanged pictures with other women. He turns it into either I haven't been giving him what he needs or how dare I think so bad of him or its only an issue because I think it is. He doesn't care about me!!!
    Li1miz Li1miz 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2011

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    CastingMarriedCouples CastingMarriedCouples 26-30, F Oct 22, 2013

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    Can't Take Much More

    I really am getting close to my breaking point with my husband. He doesn't help me with anything around the house. He expects me to do all the housework, laundry, feed the animals, take the dog for a walk, keep the house spot less, cook, the list just goes on and on. while he...
    sadeyes7294 sadeyes7294 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    Mistakes Made, Time Has Changed...Im So Confused

    To start off i married my husband with only a couple months spent getting to know him. I was 17, a mother in result of rape. i was homeless due to my abuse my mother provided and it was my ticket. He was unbeleivably good looking, in the military and thought i was a goddess.. He...
    forgottentroop forgottentroop 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    Where's the Beef?

    My husband and I have been married for about a year, and he's always "too tired" to have sex.  This was not a problem before we got married, nor was it a problem the first few months after we married.  I don't get it, and I'm starting to really feel resentful...
    HSB HSB 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2006

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    Financial Infidelity

    no one will ever know what he has done to me no one will ever know the lies he has told no one will ever know the secrets he held no one will ever know the money he stole no one will ever know the tears I have cried no one will ever know the nights I lie awake no one will ever...
    lvjuniebug lvjuniebug 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    My husband just told me

    that I don't get beat enough.
    Moongoddess79 Moongoddess79 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 16

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    Currently in a domestic partnership with a man

    and his bazillion kids. Not only cannot I not stand the look of him, but I really don't like his kids anymore either. He lies to me constantly and is a financial leech. I plan on being out of this relationship before summer. Life is too short.
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Is Resent a Strong Enough Word!?!?!

    I have known my husband since 98. I was a divorced mom with 3 kids who had just started working as a nurse 2 months prior. He was like my knight in shining armour. We talked on the phone for hours in the beginning. He said he loved me first. He accepted not only me but my kids as...
    strawberry1969 strawberry1969 36-40, F 16 Responses Oct 2, 2007

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    So I am completely lost!

    I need help! I just ended a 10year marriage...my husband admitted to me that he had been cheating on me since day one of our relationship! We have been separated for almost 5 months now and he has been begging me to come back to him and I even considered it but didn't realize...
    ohkeedokee ohkeedokee 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 21

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    Tired Of Lazy Husband

    I've been married almost ten years. The longer I'm with my husband, the less I respect him and the more I resent him. Part of me feels like I should be thrilled to be with him...he loves me, treats me well, has a good job, doesn't drink or cheat on me. However, I feel nothing...
    apachesmom apachesmom 36-40 9 Responses Feb 19, 2012

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    Hello My husband is jobless

    for last 5 months , he is trying his best but I believe timing and luck also plays a very important role , looking for a job is a full time job and a daunting experience so there will be very little time left for house hold chores . It is annoying at times and very stressfull...
    dontblamehim dontblamehim 46-50, F 1 Response May 3

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    I lived far too long hoping

    for changing. Hoping he would stop lying. Hoping he would be respectful. Hoping he would acknowledge that I was a person and not just a thing that bore the titles "wife" and "mother". He would show me glimmers if hope. Just enough to keep me around. Hoping for that change that...
    carpediem2 carpediem2 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    He Decieved Me

    I found out a year ago that my husband looks at gay **** on the internet.  To make things worse, he had a personal ad on one of the web sites.  He says he's not gay, just looking.  I can no longer trust him and I hate that he has embarassed me like this. 
    Calybaby Calybaby 21-25, F 15 Responses Jul 8, 2006

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    Sometimes I Wonder If Love Is Enough

    I've been married for 5 years... second time around for both of us.  I feel like I've been taken advantage of by my husband financially and emotionally.  I love him, but more times than not it doens't seem like enough. He has never held a stable job...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    He Is Just So Lame.

    To hear all of my husband's complaints, you'd think he's about 90 years old.  He is only 37 but everyday he seems to have some new ailment.  He has had problems with addiction which we have dealt with/are still dealing with.  I have been very supportive. ...
    jackieblue jackieblue 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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    My Hubby and I have been married

    for 12 years been together almost 15 years. He is a prison officer in a female prison. Last year he went from being really open and honest to bring really secretive. I then found out that he had befriended an ex inmate who had been released from prison. He tried to hide it from...
    Mrscummins20 Mrscummins20 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    So Much Hate And Anger.....

    My husband has put me through some really bad situations over the past few months. All the horrible things he has said about me, being hispanic, my children , their lives, the violence, the drinking, the girls, the lying, betrayal, selfishness, i have so much hate and anger built...
    Rawky Rawky 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    All These Years Meant Nothing To Him

    I hate him, I resent him, I'm mad at him and I'm so crushed how this is happening. We walk by like no one was there. We've lost respect, actually that was lost a long time ago. He is in his own little world so as much so as I am. As a woman, I'm more sensitive and still yearn for...
    Calif39 Calif39 36-40, F 6 Responses May 6, 2012

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    Couch Potato

    My husband and I have been married 8 years. He served in the military the first 7, so I figured he was so tired from work and stress he watched TV to relax. Never made a big deal of it. Now, I'm working a demanding job with 10-12 hour days and he is working a full time job at the...
    Kimberlyyyy Kimberlyyyy 26-30 3 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    Constant Fighting-he Say's I'm to Blame

    Oh my..things have not been good lately.  I know the first year of marriage is supposed to be hard, but this is taking it to a whole new level.  My husband and I met and dated for a year before tying the knot.  When we were dating he was nice, and respectful and we...
    mostsexysmile mostsexysmile 26-30 8 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    Cheating????

    My husband and I had this really rough patch this past few months. We lost our company so we were both unemployed and on top of it we have a 1 year old baby. He found this really great job right away but it is extremely demanding he works all day long. I went into a really hard...
    Thinkpink87 Thinkpink87 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    I Resent Everything He Has Put Me Through

    Where to begin.  I have been with my husband now for 4 1/2 years.  We have only been married for a little over a year now.  About 3 1/2 months after we were married, I became very ill.  I was hospitalized several times as doctor's tried to figure out what was wrong wth me...
    barbie1975 barbie1975 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    How Do I Stop Being So Angry?

    I feel like I have to fill you all in...  I have been married for 17 years and have two WONDERFUL children!  I also have a husband who is ....., he is now unemployed for the 5th time in our marriage. To make matters worse, way back when we were engaged he took a job interview...
    Eddysgirl Eddysgirl 36-40 6 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    I'm so confused and desperate mother of 4.

    My husband thinks he controls everything in my life like he is my god or something I hate him so much he won't buy a car for me and the kids but he has 3 trucks supposedly he needs them for work. I'll ask for money he doesn't have any he doesn't pay our bills so we get shut off...
    Lindalilly Lindalilly 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My husband just told me

    that I could never find someone that would put up with all my ****! ... I get up, bring my child to school go to straight to work. Work 8-10 hours, come home visit with the family. Go to sleep and it starts all over. Okay I may say good and bad things through out the day but it...
    rjh3 rjh3 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Unemployed Spouse

    My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and what a roller coaster it has been! Since our marriage he has been employed a total of 11 months while I have been busting my *** to make ends meet. I blame him for everything that is wrong in my life and often feel sorry...
    sweetpea28 sweetpea28 26-30, F 100 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    I feel like everything goes his way,

    he has a career, friends, activities, and his family nearby. Plus a wife who does his laundry, grocery shops, does all the banking, takes care of him in bed, and puts on a happy face 90% of the times when she's miserable. He has gotten everything for the last 10 years. All I...
    Dreamfish Dreamfish 26-30 2 Responses May 20

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