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I Ruined My Marriage and Now I'm So Confused

The group for people who ruined their marriage somehow, and now are really confused as to what to do now... 21 People

    Anger And Pain

    My wife and I have been married for 3 years. I have a stepson I love like he is my own, and a 10 month old son who is one of the greatest joys of my life. That being said, I have been an angry, negative, difficult, and unfriendly person for years. It has been getting worse, and I...
    themeidontwanttobe themeidontwanttobe 22-25 13 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    Will I Ever Recover?

    I ruined my marriage because I have serious self-esteem issues. I had an emotional affair with an ex right after I got married, and my husband found out. After having some space from what happened, I know now that I was unhappy with myself and was looking for outside validation...
    milka33345 milka33345 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    I Lost My Way

    I have ruined my marriage and destroyed the family I so dearly loved. I have been married for 17 years and have two amazing young children. We always were committed to each other and were partners in a business as well as our marriage. About 7 years ago my wife became too worn...
    Jnorthern Jnorthern 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    Verbally Abusive Wife Need Help

    I am married ten years now, my husband is not a bad person but he lacks any ambition to get ahead in life . we live by my parents and its not the best condition , I have become verbally abusive and i think i have done it this time. He destroys everything i try to do to build us...
    gigiii gigiii 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    Morning of Passions Flared Out

      The week after Thanksgiving I recieved a very surprising e-mail from an ex/friend who I haven't heard from in several years. Happily I started e-mailing him back thus we started discussing the events of our life while he invited me to stay with him when...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    One Night Stand

    My husband and I weren't getting along.  He was ignoring me and I was lonely.  I started talking to an old friend online.  We met for a drink and ended up having sex.  I never did it again.  My husband found out eventually.  That was three years ago.  He didn't leave me...
    psychregnurse psychregnurse 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Firstly I'm not married.

    Second, I'm not sure if there is something wrong with me, or my relationship. I ask kindly for your input. I have been looking at myself after any kind of tiff, argument, or anytime I felt my blood pressure go up. The first this I realize looking back is, I get mad too easily...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 1 Response Jan 21

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    After years of depression

    and irritability, my wife has left me. She says she's scared of me, and every time she sees me she feels traumatised. We were married 8 years ago. The year after we were married I lost a job and I've been playing emotional catch-up since, as when my depression presented itself...
    uku383 uku383 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Ruined My Marriage......years Ago.

    It was actually years ago when I ruined our marriage. We had only been married for 9 years when I had a brief affair. If I knew then what I knew now I wouldn't have made this terrible mistake. I felt so guilty and ashamed, because it wasn't something I wouldn't normally do, but...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Hello :) I haven't been on this site for ages and a lot has changed so im going to be using this site regularly once again
    sociallyxawk sociallyxawk 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Yeah. That's the right way to put it. Damaged goods. Or else I'm loosing my edge? Or else I try to understand what I'm ultimately clearly missing out in some people.... Whilst...
    Ic3Queen Ic3Queen 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I don't know if I'm bi or if I'm just lesbian honestly. I've never really had thoughts about guys like that but I've always kind of pictured myself marrying one since I was younger...
    SarahTWD SarahTWD 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I've been trying so hard to keep it together but I'm breaking... I'm falling off the edge and I don't know what to do anymore.. Nothing's working and right now I'm at the point...
    painseeker16 painseeker16 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I lost mine to distance. Now I'm looking for an online relationship or someone close to home.
    southernlips southernlips 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I got expelled from school. I had just gotten a scholarship and it was out-of-country. I was going to go for 2 years and experience the world. Then I was going to try and transfer...
    pancaekes pancaekes 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    The guys I used to work with want me to apply. It's been almost eight years. We all have fun getting together for a good time. But I just looked at the knowledge requirements and...
    experimed experimed 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 16

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    I have been trying my hardest to hold on to everything and keep it, I tried to give up... but couldn't. I can't say bye, I can't lose everything. I don't want to. Everything that...
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I constantly pretend that I am a movie star or celebrity, acting out their movie lines. You would think that I am acting as myself but I am not. I act out their scenes as if I am...
    Heaven360 Heaven360 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    A Kiss Of Life As I lay here next to him I am enclosed in a world of my own. Images of fire flash in the walls of my mind as your lips intrude my cold shaking ones. Your kiss...
    taurusboi23 taurusboi23 22-25, M Dec 11

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    How do i know if he's still married? I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I betrayed my best friend.I have an issue I have been trying to cope with for about 6 months. I have been friends with my best friend for about 18 years, since second grade. She...
    Vettech1 Vettech1 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 2

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    I didn't feel attractive even though a lot of people told me I was. Almost 19 years and I finally started to feel attractive and confident then my ex ruined it all by giving me an...
    CaliArs CaliArs 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    I Am Right Now Forgetting :By David Gray I'm Crying To This Because I'm So Confused About Everything
    dessmart1 dessmart1 13-15, F Nov 28

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    All I know is I am very lonely right now. It's 3:30 am in my part of the world and I just joined this forum. I have my aspiration abortion scheduled in the next 24 hrs. I am 33 and...
    Patty2719 Patty2719 31-35, F Dec 15

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    I think we've all done this before when someone has asked us what's wrong. I tend to hide it better than some other people can, but some people still see straight through me and...
    lovedownunder lovedownunder 16-17, F Dec 9

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    Recently divorced -- a year ago I started a facebook account to begin socializing again. Well... One of the first to friend me was a man I dated once back in high school. Not...
    ttfin ttfin 36-40, F 5 hrs ago

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    Merry Christmas. I feel that I say too much when I'm drunk. Keep me occupied.
    MariaSmiles17 MariaSmiles17 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Ever since me and my ex friend split up I've been depressed and lonely. I have people to talk to at school but we aren't really close anymore since they're friends of my ex friend...
    PsychologyNerd PsychologyNerd 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Im giving up I can't think anymore all I want to do at this point is just grab a knife and stab myself in my heart my own mother just slapped me and it was that hard it made me...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    It's really funny isn't it. How someone you thought you loved and vice versa can just walk out of your life one day. Just poof. And dissapear. And never look back. and then it...
    Mariyah22 Mariyah22 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    okay, so I have an ex bf, Elijah. we talk here & there sometimes. but the funny thing is, I still get angry or sad when he talks about other girls.... I know I'm over him, but I...
    young3wreckless young3wreckless 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    It's crazy. I'm crazy. God, I don't even ******* know. I'm with this amazing guy. His feelings for me are impossible to question. He loves me. I know it. He let's me feel it...
    ohmyfvck ohmyfvck 18-21, F Dec 4

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    I hate that I'm not straight, that most people are happy and I'm not . **** this life...
    mishelle32 mishelle32 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    So this message is really long... And If you actually finish it... I hope that you feel the same way I do... And that is that the next generation should be kinder to our people...
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    In my junior high school I have a few friend but as the time goes by, I have a lot of best friends, me elementary school bestie was still keep in touch with me ( she called my...
    killbillhell007 killbillhell007 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    This song has been a favorite of mine for a long time. It always comes to mind when I'm feeling especially alone and/or hurt. It was written for Big Kenny's sister who was a...
    CoffeeFlavoredKisses CoffeeFlavoredKisses 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Being judged right away is all I'm used to. Whether it's because I don't look like the next girl, wear the same clothes, go out with a new boy every five seconds, and even just...
    xxhappilyeverafterxx xxhappilyeverafterxx 13-15, F Dec 5

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    I have. A five year old and change seems like a bad idea. Weird. I'm okay. But I've always been told to be ambitious. Right now ambition just doesn't seem right.???
    Sleepydwarf Sleepydwarf 46-50, F Dec 13

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    I'm just not good enough for anyone :'( Never am and never was :'( I'm going to go overdose now :"'(
    SgtRecker97 SgtRecker97 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 14

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    me & my boyfriend we hardly talk anymore because last week his phone was off & now ever since he got it back on we hardly talk we only talked for 2 days (Friday & Saturday) its...
    dessmart1 dessmart1 13-15, F Dec 15

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    Well, this is not a boohoo story as I'm sure many have gone through it or will go through it in a similar way. This is my first Christmas alone in about 12 years. I had planned on...
    InternallyLost InternallyLost 36-40, M 17 hrs ago

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    I've liked like three guys in my life. And they've both didn't like me because they just wanted to see if they liked guys. Turn out they don't. They just left me. I'm 13, mexican...
    District12Tribute District12Tribute 13-15, M 4 hrs ago

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    pleeeeeeeease i'm so ****** bored pls no **** pics like seriously i said bored not horny
    Superwholockian Superwholockian 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    Now about my sister. I always chat with her about my problem, she's mature, understand and can read other's personality. But she reject me now if I ask to guess my friend's...
    killbillhell007 killbillhell007 18-21, F Nov 25

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    We made it work, our heads drowned in hope Pretending, smiling everyday, just trying to cope Armed + ready to fight a war, all so you could choose But I saw how it'd all end, I...
    blissrw blissrw 18-21, F Dec 2