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I Ruined My Marriage and Now I'm So Confused

The group for people who ruined their marriage somehow, and now are really confused as to what to do now... 21 People

    I Lost My Way

    I have ruined my marriage and destroyed the family I so dearly loved. I have been married for 17 years and have two amazing young children. We always were committed to each other and were partners in a business as well as our marriage. About 7 years ago my wife became too worn...
    Jnorthern Jnorthern 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    Verbally Abusive Wife Need Help

    I am married ten years now, my husband is not a bad person but he lacks any ambition to get ahead in life . we live by my parents and its not the best condition , I have become verbally abusive and i think i have done it this time. He destroys everything i try to do to build us...
    gigiii gigiii 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    After years of depression

    and irritability, my wife has left me. She says she's scared of me, and every time she sees me she feels traumatised. We were married 8 years ago. The year after we were married I lost a job and I've been playing emotional catch-up since, as when my depression presented itself...
    uku383 uku383 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    Ruined My Marriage......years Ago.

    It was actually years ago when I ruined our marriage. We had only been married for 9 years when I had a brief affair. If I knew then what I knew now I wouldn't have made this terrible mistake. I felt so guilty and ashamed, because it wasn't something I wouldn't normally do, but...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    Will I Ever Recover?

    I ruined my marriage because I have serious self-esteem issues. I had an emotional affair with an ex right after I got married, and my husband found out. After having some space from what happened, I know now that I was unhappy with myself and was looking for outside validation...
    milka33345 milka33345 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    One Night Stand

    My husband and I weren't getting along.  He was ignoring me and I was lonely.  I started talking to an old friend online.  We met for a drink and ended up having sex.  I never did it again.  My husband found out eventually.  That was three years ago.  He didn't leave me...
    psychregnurse psychregnurse 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Anger And Pain

    My wife and I have been married for 3 years. I have a stepson I love like he is my own, and a 10 month old son who is one of the greatest joys of my life. That being said, I have been an angry, negative, difficult, and unfriendly person for years. It has been getting worse, and I...
    themeidontwanttobe themeidontwanttobe 22-25 13 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    Morning of Passions Flared Out

      The week after Thanksgiving I recieved a very surprising e-mail from an ex/friend who I haven't heard from in several years. Happily I started e-mailing him back thus we started discussing the events of our life while he invited me to stay with him when...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    Firstly I'm not married.

    Second, I'm not sure if there is something wrong with me, or my relationship. I ask kindly for your input. I have been looking at myself after any kind of tiff, argument, or anytime I felt my blood pressure go up. The first this I realize looking back is, I get mad too easily...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 2 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    I didn't leave it, leave it. I took a break of no activity but i'm down to be active on here again. Any and all hmu with questions, chats, anything. i don't judge (at least try my...
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    My girlfriend broke up with me last week and I can't get over her. She broke up with me because she said she doesn't feel the same way anymore. We were together for 13 months. She...
    KyleHoward96 KyleHoward96 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    It was hard back in the beginning. I was poor, I didn't smell good, and I lost everything but my pet rock. but since coming to ep I am am now rich!
    badazzbasicbich badazzbasicbich 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I am in the closet because my mother doesn't believe in Bisexuals and it's slowly driving me over the edge. She says I just want a close female friend that I'm confused and I'll...
    Robinwing Robinwing 13-15 4 mins ago

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    I get so jealous when girls try to flirt with my boyfriend with me around. Since girls don't want to listen I'm just going to flip as loud as I can into the owner of the store kick...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    The sad feelings. The old dealings. The new problems. I miss the partying too much. Riding with my homies. Kickin back with the homies chiefin back in my hood. Slangin and gettin...
    PartyGuy21 PartyGuy21 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Just found out right now I'm pregnant...and I don't want to have it...I've never considered abortion in my life but now that I'm pregnant is all I have in my head. What do I do...
    Sadkitty1291 Sadkitty1291 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I recently relapsed with my self-harm. My legs and arms are all cut up now... I'm in pain. If my family and friends were to find out they will hate me so much and now that the...
    ryderbug16 ryderbug16 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    And it may seem I'm avoiding everyone. I feel horrible really. I had surgery and so I missed so much school and so now I'm really behind in school. I have 1 more term paper on a...
    Lexigirl12 Lexigirl12 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I saw the UFO, it was as clear as day right over me. I wouldn't lie about something like that, but everyone I told thinks I'm crazy. I never said I thought it was aliens or...
    theindigoboy theindigoboy 18-21, M 18 Responses Apr 5

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    I have dreams, nothing big, only good life, but now I'm poor, sometimes is difficult but I want belive in me, in the future.
    VenusVoice VenusVoice 31-35, F Apr 9

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    Awh Shinedown look what you did you kicked the mood a step lower ;^; Now I'm all depressed. "Those songs" from my childhood, why do they mean so much and sound so radiant, its...
    RawrrrrItsAIexa RawrrrrItsAIexa 18-21, F Apr 11

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    I keep giving and listening, giving and listening, but now I'm tired. I'm emptied out. I KNOW I should go the extra mile, love my neighbor, turn the other cheek. I KNOW I shouldn't...
    curledup curledup 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Am I becoming a werewolf??? This is why I'm wondering. About a year ago I was attacked by a large wolf in the Yellowstone national park. It took a small bite out of my arm, but I...
    LycanthropeK LycanthropeK 13-15, F Apr 18

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    Been married for 15 years with a little boy 5. Was together for 7 years prior to that. He's not a bad guy. He can be thoughtful, kind and generous at Birthdays etc. I am so lonely...
    cazrio cazrio 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    why is it that people get so confused that I'm married? is it that hard to believe that I found someone to spend my life with?
    ambernoel ambernoel 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I'm just really confused . sometimes i fantasize about guys and it turns me on more then when i fantasize about girls . though fantasizing about girls turn me on too . i think i'm...
    george6547 george6547 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 18

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    I'm a depressed older man living in a sexless marriage. I've had enough and wants to move
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 28

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    i hate pretending i give a **** about living each and everyday. I'm so heartbroken, stressed, confused, anxious about life that i feel myself falling apart. I know where i want to...
    Tristechica22 Tristechica22 22-25, F Mar 29

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    I put trust into my last marriage and i don't think I could ever trust again .I really do think I am just meant to be alone I started talking to Tim and I started to trust again...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    Ive always felt strongly connected to wolves and there's a strange...magical feeling I get when I'm in the woods. I've tried shifting to a wolf form in the past but it hasn't...
    EllieLoveless EllieLoveless 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I have a guy best friend, and he's married, (bad marriage) but he sometimes asks to see my eyes, asks how old I am (only since I turned 18) and occasionally gives me pats on the...
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 1 Response Apr 12

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    Had a cold for the last 3 days now. I wanna get out away from the house but i'm so sick and tired that its not enjoyable.
    DarkBlue71 DarkBlue71 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    I'm haunted by the past, dissapointed with the present, and afraid of the future. Day in, and day out, I have vivid flashbacks of my youth, of the fun I had, memories I relish...
    Eclipse993 Eclipse993 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 27

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    My wife and I married in our early 20s, and have been married for a while. A couple of years ago, she was spending a lot of time online; especially on Vegas World, and amassed a...
    Cadus Cadus 46-50, M Mar 27

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F Mar 27

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    How is there any room for change when I'm surrounded by your constant, negative, condescending opinions of me? People don't own you. From now own be your own person.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29

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    I'm so ****** right now, and the stupid **** is going down ;)
    VirtualCygnus VirtualCygnus 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I'm literally sure most genuine nice people in this world are straight not saying all gay people are jerks hell no a lot of gay people are awesome. But seriously why do I think...
    SpiritOfIzanagi SpiritOfIzanagi 13-15, M 8 Responses Apr 5

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    Overall, I more or less like my life, but I'm a little worried that I'm wasting time by not knowing what I want. Time seems to be speeding up, so I'm afraid that if I make the...
    MsJuliaM MsJuliaM 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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