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I Ruined My Marriage and Now I'm So Confused

The group for people who ruined their marriage somehow, and now are really confused as to what to do now... 21 People

    I Lost My Way

    I have ruined my marriage and destroyed the family I so dearly loved. I have been married for 17 years and have two amazing young children. We always were committed to each other and were partners in a business as well as our marriage. About 7 years ago my wife became too worn...
    Jnorthern Jnorthern 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    After years of depression

    and irritability, my wife has left me. She says she's scared of me, and every time she sees me she feels traumatised. We were married 8 years ago. The year after we were married I lost a job and I've been playing emotional catch-up since, as when my depression presented itself...
    uku383 uku383 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Will I Ever Recover?

    I ruined my marriage because I have serious self-esteem issues. I had an emotional affair with an ex right after I got married, and my husband found out. After having some space from what happened, I know now that I was unhappy with myself and was looking for outside validation...
    milka33345 milka33345 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Morning of Passions Flared Out

      The week after Thanksgiving I recieved a very surprising e-mail from an ex/friend who I haven't heard from in several years. Happily I started e-mailing him back thus we started discussing the events of our life while he invited me to stay with him when...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    Firstly I'm not married.

    Second, I'm not sure if there is something wrong with me, or my relationship. I ask kindly for your input. I have been looking at myself after any kind of tiff, argument, or anytime I felt my blood pressure go up. The first this I realize looking back is, I get mad too easily...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 1 Response Jan 21

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    Anger And Pain

    My wife and I have been married for 3 years. I have a stepson I love like he is my own, and a 10 month old son who is one of the greatest joys of my life. That being said, I have been an angry, negative, difficult, and unfriendly person for years. It has been getting worse, and I...
    themeidontwanttobe themeidontwanttobe 22-25 13 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    One Night Stand

    My husband and I weren't getting along.  He was ignoring me and I was lonely.  I started talking to an old friend online.  We met for a drink and ended up having sex.  I never did it again.  My husband found out eventually.  That was three years ago.  He didn't leave me...
    psychregnurse psychregnurse 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Ruined My Marriage......years Ago.

    It was actually years ago when I ruined our marriage. We had only been married for 9 years when I had a brief affair. If I knew then what I knew now I wouldn't have made this terrible mistake. I felt so guilty and ashamed, because it wasn't something I wouldn't normally do, but...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    Verbally Abusive Wife Need Help

    I am married ten years now, my husband is not a bad person but he lacks any ambition to get ahead in life . we live by my parents and its not the best condition , I have become verbally abusive and i think i have done it this time. He destroys everything i try to do to build us...
    gigiii gigiii 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It is one of the true story is my own experience. Which may not be inevitable for anyone who was going. Because we will never know how, when and with whom we will be reunited with...
    saipulallah saipulallah 18-21, M Nov 13

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    I think I’m in love with my best friend and we are both female and straight. I have never felt this way about another girl, she makes me feel safe, and beautiful and loved. It...
    ast2014 ast2014 22-25 a week ago

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    Yeah. That's the right way to put it. Damaged goods. Or else I'm loosing my edge? Or else I try to understand what I'm ultimately clearly missing out in some people.... Whilst...
    Ic3Queen Ic3Queen 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    What is the big idea behind friendship exactly? Because I just don't understand it anymore. I'm mentally tracking my brain for any definitions, any files I might have on it, any...
    spotofhope spotofhope 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I'm in my late 30's and married for 8 years with 2 kids and the youngest at only 1 year old. I have not had sex with my wife (Emily) for around 2 years and I got to know Michelle...
    gordonjasmine gordonjasmine 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 16

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    Now I'm so stress with many many many home work.. Can any one suggest me that what's song can help me now?
    KwanG333 KwanG333 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I'm drunk right now text me and I'll answer you 100% honestly. Need someone to talk to right now, I'm bored
    98leise 98leise 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    Never before I was attracted by that, but now i'm more n more attracted by arse n even dirty stains in the back or front of a dirty panty,ummm the smell of a woman panty excites me...
    ricko164 ricko164 46-50, M Nov 13

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    I want to tell someone how I feel but there's no one I can talk to. I was in a relationship until a few days ago but it ended because something bad happened to my girlfriend who is...
    Marylin13 Marylin13 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    Ever since I was a little child, I've always had an overactive imagination. I loved to play pretend all the time and I always imagined myself as a celebrity who could sing and...
    selflessandsacrifice selflessandsacrifice 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    Okay, so I have dated and meet a handful of guys offline before. Hell I met my ex offline and we dated for 6 years. But now I'm having a weird feeling about this guy I have been...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I had to take a small break from this place. Some things happened and I needed to be way from here. Things aren't exactly like they were before, and at this point I don't trust...
    Saram1985 Saram1985 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I left my hometown to go to college 10 hours away. At first, I was lonely at college too, but through the years, I made wonderful friends. And then I graduated and left them all...
    lizzztom08 lizzztom08 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm sitting here a couple nights before my exam and am I studying? No. Procrastinating. Eating, shopping, thinking of things I want to find and try... because I think I probably...
    mymiseo mymiseo 18-21 4 days ago

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    I don't know if I'm bi or if I'm just lesbian honestly. I've never really had thoughts about guys like that but I've always kind of pictured myself marrying one since I was younger...
    SarahTWD SarahTWD 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I know, that's not supposed to be possible. People say it's not possible, that I'm deluding myself. I'm looking for a way out, I secretly hate her, we must have a sexless...
    roykirk roykirk 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm really confused. I don't know what to do. I think I'm starting to like girls too (as well as boys) , but even if I was Bi or Lesbian, I could never tell me family :( Any advice...
    JustThatNobody JustThatNobody 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Hi everyone. I'm new here. I was looking for a site that would give me the opportunity to vent. In late January of 2013, I was at work. This handsome looking Hispanic guy...
    MissVa MissVa 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    For quite some time now actually. At this point I think I can deal with it much better than years ago and find myself not concerning with what I'm doing or where I'm going so long...
    lFrostBitel lFrostBitel 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    Well, not yet I'm not, but hopefully all the issues can be worked out, so that I will be. When I posed the question to him about an open marriage, at first he was mad as hell. I...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    I almost started cutting last night. I'm so broken and confused…. The sun seems so far away.
    MasqueradeMe MasqueradeMe 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    I have been with my husband now for 12 yrs, he never takes me anywhere, when he goes out it's with his family(or so he says) and he stays on his cell phone day and night. Looks at...
    Heretoexpress Heretoexpress 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    I have been in a relationship for a little over 4 years now. I love this man more than I ever could have imagined, but it is unhealthy. About 1.5 years into the relationship, he...
    Stuck2 Stuck2 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    When I'm tried I say stupid things. When I'm on the phone and I'm tried I would bring up stuff that happened 3 days ago into our new conversation or I bring up stuff that never...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    My bestfriend has been showing me lots of love But lately he's been being different since I have a boyfriend But idk I get moment where I feel like hugging him and my heart beats...
    mariishere mariishere 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    I'm still young but I feel like I've never found guys attractive when other girls my age have. It may just be a phase but I'm still confused.
    MW413 MW413 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I am a 23 year old female and for as long as I can remember I have always liked men. I even was deeply in love with one 5 years ago who broke my heart and the pain was so...
    grateful420 grateful420 22-25, F Nov 2

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    Well, I write 200 stories about my life, but had to erase them all because of negative comments made by people. I wrote about Indian Hindu genocides and how they murdered my...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    really i'm the other women ,,, her husband go to a bar or other place ,, the husband have tears in his eyes and tell us that his wife was cheating on him with a married man,,, We...
    pullupgirl102 pullupgirl102 26-30, F Nov 5

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    But the truth is that I'm really not okay because there is so much stuff going on right now.
    therealsydster therealsydster 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Karmin - "I'm Just Sayin' " Oh if I want it, Im gonna get it And Im just sayin, Im just sayin Oh if I want it, Im gonna get it And Im just sayin, Im just sayin Future in my hands...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 2

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    I'm so F()$@ing Alone I know plenty of people in my life. I used to think I was alone when I was surrounded by people. Now I realize, I'm so alone because, I am alone. It's a...
    Atlas0Scar Atlas0Scar 18-21, M Nov 8

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    Hi I'm 21 and I've been seeing this guy for about half a year now. I know he'd never leave her for me but I just keep on expecting and waiting.. God I like him so much. I've never...
    loveholic66 loveholic66 18-21, F Nov 13

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    In my junior high school I have a few friend but as the time goes by, I have a lot of best friends, me elementary school bestie was still keep in touch with me ( she called my...
    killbillhell007 killbillhell007 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    a couple months ago in the early weeks of our relationship, my boyfriend told me that i'm not like the usual girls he dated. he told me that he always preferred white girls, that...
    moonfamily moonfamily 18-21 3 Responses Oct 28

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    I'm just so tired of it, now I don't even have to bother in lying, I just say the truth and everyone ignores it
    RobbieID RobbieID 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 1

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    I have for a long time now, and recently I opened up here at EP, and now my life is falling apart... I'm tired of trying and faking, but I'm exhausted of remembering... Please just...
    Darkthoughtsallover Darkthoughtsallover 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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