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I Ruined My Marriage and Now I'm So Confused

The group for people who ruined their marriage somehow, and now are really confused as to what to do now... 21 People

    Anger And Pain

    My wife and I have been married for 3 years. I have a stepson I love like he is my own, and a 10 month old son who is one of the greatest joys of my life. That being said, I have been an angry, negative, difficult, and unfriendly person for years. It has been getting worse, and I...
    themeidontwanttobe themeidontwanttobe 22-25 13 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    Firstly I'm not married.

    Second, I'm not sure if there is something wrong with me, or my relationship. I ask kindly for your input. I have been looking at myself after any kind of tiff, argument, or anytime I felt my blood pressure go up. The first this I realize looking back is, I get mad too easily...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 1 Response Jan 21

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    Morning of Passions Flared Out

      The week after Thanksgiving I recieved a very surprising e-mail from an ex/friend who I haven't heard from in several years. Happily I started e-mailing him back thus we started discussing the events of our life while he invited me to stay with him when...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    One Night Stand

    My husband and I weren't getting along.  He was ignoring me and I was lonely.  I started talking to an old friend online.  We met for a drink and ended up having sex.  I never did it again.  My husband found out eventually.  That was three years ago.  He didn't leave me...
    psychregnurse psychregnurse 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Ruined My Marriage......years Ago.

    It was actually years ago when I ruined our marriage. We had only been married for 9 years when I had a brief affair. If I knew then what I knew now I wouldn't have made this terrible mistake. I felt so guilty and ashamed, because it wasn't something I wouldn't normally do, but...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    Will I Ever Recover?

    I ruined my marriage because I have serious self-esteem issues. I had an emotional affair with an ex right after I got married, and my husband found out. After having some space from what happened, I know now that I was unhappy with myself and was looking for outside validation...
    milka33345 milka33345 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Verbally Abusive Wife Need Help

    I am married ten years now, my husband is not a bad person but he lacks any ambition to get ahead in life . we live by my parents and its not the best condition , I have become verbally abusive and i think i have done it this time. He destroys everything i try to do to build us...
    gigiii gigiii 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    After years of depression

    and irritability, my wife has left me. She says she's scared of me, and every time she sees me she feels traumatised. We were married 8 years ago. The year after we were married I lost a job and I've been playing emotional catch-up since, as when my depression presented itself...
    uku383 uku383 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I Lost My Way

    I have ruined my marriage and destroyed the family I so dearly loved. I have been married for 17 years and have two amazing young children. We always were committed to each other and were partners in a business as well as our marriage. About 7 years ago my wife became too worn...
    Jnorthern Jnorthern 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    My wife had kids already when we got married. She doesn't like for me to discipline them and I try and respect that. The problem is they run over her daily. She'll tell them to...
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    I'm 21 years old. I've always dated men. I cut my hair short (like Keira Knightley in Domino) when I was 13. I was called "dyke spikes" all through high school, even after my hair...
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    I really don't know what to say about this except I want to and nobody on here knows every thing that's happened to me so I know people are going to get mad or upset and express...
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    **** my life. I'm in college now--I thought I'd get over this childish crush I had on him. NOOOOPE. Saw him at church today--I'm home for the weekend--and god, what his smile...
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    After all these years of working, I'm broke and I feel like crap right now. My most prized material possessions are: a used car, a laptop computer, and 2 guitars. If I were to put...
    CayucosBeach CayucosBeach 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    Hell no I'm not okay. I'm dying inside and just this time I'm saying I'm not okay but who is there to care? My so called friends? Let me say this to whoever that reads this and is...
    SAVEtheHER0 SAVEtheHER0 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    So.. I've had this teacher for two years, and I usually don't even like men that much, but right now I'm in love. He's 25 years older than me, I'll be 17 in January and he's 41. He...
    snailrain snailrain 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Actually I know that I'm not, but the important thing is that I don't really care anymore. Caring won't change anything. Besides, I've come to terms with myself and now I'm happy.
    WillMeer WillMeer 46-50, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My story is probably similar to a lot of people's but I just wanted to get it out there in the world to tell somebody how I feel. I've grown up in what many would call the...
    goodloot3 goodloot3 22-25, M 5 Responses Oct 10

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    I'm not sure if I'm bi or not. But about a year ago, I started feeling really strongly for my (female) best friend. One of my other friends introduced me to her, and we got really...
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    Here's the rub. My husband wanted me to.... It took me several years before I finally allowed it to happen. I met the fellow several years ago and we attend an out of town seminar...
    justmejl justmejl 36-40, F Oct 5

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    Somewhat of asking for advice/telling my story. I am a 21y old male who has somewhat just rediscovered my shaken gender identity. It's all rather confusing to me right now which...
    SqEdward SqEdward 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I had an unusual experience. I'm not sure how I get myself into these situations. I had a work function last week. I had to help organise it, it was for customers and suppliers...
    brokenpetal brokenpetal 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I'm told by my psychologists that I'm using the distraction method of coping. I take on everybody's issues as my own and help them through, to avoid my own pain. I was unaware I am...
    Minnowshi Minnowshi 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I won't give too much away. He's amazing, and what we have is beyond real. But I'm just so torn and confused. What do I do? : /
    chocolana98 chocolana98 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm on this site as a last resort and reaching out to others for help. Thank you for taking the time to read. I myself have PTSD and major depression disorder. I married a man that...
    Neverfirstforeverlast Neverfirstforeverlast 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    I've been abuse growing up & two of my marriage! I'm glad I got out of it before it got any worst! So many ways I was abuse! I am a survivor!
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm just bored right now :P
    beastlbros beastlbros 13-15, M 4 Responses Sep 25

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    These are my thoughts uncensored: Eat it up. Spit it out. The gorilla drinks banana juice. Stored up for Shakespeare. Scurvey knave. Michael York. Pot for sinners. Gaelic...
    SorrowofHeart SorrowofHeart 51-55, F Oct 7

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    I am such an idiot for actually believing that they would really understand now.. Damn, I'm stupid I can bang my head on a wall and die for no freaking reason! I'm an idiot for...
    PureLies PureLies 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Hell I lived, still do, its enduring now. Everyday is the same, always alone, always unsure, always cold. I never knew what was wrong with me. I always got badly punished at home...
    Lexi3is0dreaming Lexi3is0dreaming 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Today people are actually believing me. Im flat out not having a good day and people go how are you and I'm like I'm good and they believe it. I must be that good at hiding it now...
    suchi715 suchi715 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    You ever get the feeling like you are on borrowed time? I do, I have been depressed all my life with the exception of the last two years. These last two years have been amazing...
    Shellback1992 Shellback1992 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    constantly searching for what I can't see feeling lost inside and at odds with the world around me haven't found a balance between hope and pain Gradually making myself insane...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F Sep 28

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    constantly searching for what I can't see feeling lost inside and at odds with the world around me haven't found a balance between hope and pain Gradually making myself insane...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F Sep 28

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    constantly searching for what I can't see feeling lost inside and at odds with the world around me haven't found a balance between hope and pain Gradually making myself insane...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    Brother in law died. He was one day younger than me. He had a son and I guess he liked life, well, he gave up on his medicine. But at least he liked life more than me. All the ones...
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    Here's a bit of background on me first. I'm 21 years old. Graduated with a bachelors of business degree. Have a good paying full-time salary job. Have 1 dog and have been with my...
    shugolfer shugolfer 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I always say I'm fine. Even when I am not. What concern is it of the asker anyway? I groomed myself from a young age to be completely self-reliant for all my mental, emotional and...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F Sep 21

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    Orchid29 Orchid29 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 24

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