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I Ruined My Marriage and Now I'm So Confused

The group for people who ruined their marriage somehow, and now are really confused as to what to do now... 21 People

    Will I Ever Recover?

    I ruined my marriage because I have serious self-esteem issues. I had an emotional affair with an ex right after I got married, and my husband found out. After having some space from what happened, I know now that I was unhappy with myself and was looking for outside validation...
    milka33345 milka33345 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Verbally Abusive Wife Need Help

    I am married ten years now, my husband is not a bad person but he lacks any ambition to get ahead in life . we live by my parents and its not the best condition , I have become verbally abusive and i think i have done it this time. He destroys everything i try to do to build us...
    gigiii gigiii 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    Firstly I'm not married.

    Second, I'm not sure if there is something wrong with me, or my relationship. I ask kindly for your input. I have been looking at myself after any kind of tiff, argument, or anytime I felt my blood pressure go up. The first this I realize looking back is, I get mad too easily...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 2 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    I Lost My Way

    I have ruined my marriage and destroyed the family I so dearly loved. I have been married for 17 years and have two amazing young children. We always were committed to each other and were partners in a business as well as our marriage. About 7 years ago my wife became too worn...
    Jnorthern Jnorthern 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    Morning of Passions Flared Out

      The week after Thanksgiving I recieved a very surprising e-mail from an ex/friend who I haven't heard from in several years. Happily I started e-mailing him back thus we started discussing the events of our life while he invited me to stay with him when...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    One Night Stand

    My husband and I weren't getting along.  He was ignoring me and I was lonely.  I started talking to an old friend online.  We met for a drink and ended up having sex.  I never did it again.  My husband found out eventually.  That was three years ago.  He didn't leave me...
    psychregnurse psychregnurse 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Ruined My Marriage......years Ago.

    It was actually years ago when I ruined our marriage. We had only been married for 9 years when I had a brief affair. If I knew then what I knew now I wouldn't have made this terrible mistake. I felt so guilty and ashamed, because it wasn't something I wouldn't normally do, but...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    Anger And Pain

    My wife and I have been married for 3 years. I have a stepson I love like he is my own, and a 10 month old son who is one of the greatest joys of my life. That being said, I have been an angry, negative, difficult, and unfriendly person for years. It has been getting worse, and I...
    themeidontwanttobe themeidontwanttobe 22-25 13 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    After years of depression

    and irritability, my wife has left me. She says she's scared of me, and every time she sees me she feels traumatised. We were married 8 years ago. The year after we were married I lost a job and I've been playing emotional catch-up since, as when my depression presented itself...
    uku383 uku383 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    Very recently, I'd say in the last 5 weeks my wife Krista and I seem to be growing distant, our love life still sizzles in bed when it happens but at times I feel like she's going...
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    I have such an incredible life at first glance; I'm educated, recently lost 30 kilos, stay healthy, I have a roof over my head, travel the world and have some extraordinary...
    hnmad hnmad 31-35, M 17 hrs ago

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    I'm a person of many thoughts and actions. I try to keep my actions seperated from my thoughts most of the time because I have social anxiety and one embarassing scentence goes a...
    Mewl Mewl 18-21, F Feb 8

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    Packing up and leaving this family this marriage of 19 years. Oh the mixed feelings! Yet I know this is right. I really realised this for sure when I wrote out a final letter to my...
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    I married my wife at the age of 19 and I'm now 27. what I have come to realize is that when you get married at that age in this country, you're NOT nearly ready. I continue to...
    oldsoul420 oldsoul420 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    batwoman22 batwoman22 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    All my life, I've always forced myself to put on a smile so that everyone knew I was this "sweet" person. No one (not even my parents) knew what I was dealing with inside. They...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    That really drives me insane because it makes me feel like he/she doesn't trust what I'm saying.
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    I want someone to message and talk about things. I want someone to give me compliments and tell me I'm pretty and make me feel special :] I want someone to talk about erotic things...
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    I want someone to message and talk about things. I want someone to give me compliments and tell me I'm pretty and make me feel special :] I want someone to talk about erotic things...
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    Posted by LetItGo000 on February 10th, 2015 at 10:06 AM Hi everyone! How are you? Before anything, I'd like to say that this confession may be a little long, but I really need...
    LetItGo000 LetItGo000 18-21, F Feb 12

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    I'm in a wheelchair ? from a long time, but was able to keep my weight in it by use of strength of arms... It's was able to walk for no more than 5 minutes that too with aids and a...
    Insanefizz08 Insanefizz08 36-40, F Feb 1

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    Yeah… It was after soccer training. Saw some under sixteens changing their shirts. Wolf whistled. I'm so ashamed right now lol
    SugarAndStrawberries SugarAndStrawberries 13-15 3 Responses Feb 4

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    I used not to be boring, but something did happen and i've been anti-socializing for like 2 years , and now i can't make a conversation without it becoming completely dull and...
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    I was married to a pretty woman for 20 years and she left me for another man....I think she still loves me however....in fact I'm sure of it....but time is not on my side anymore...
    slickboots slickboots 66-70, M Feb 9

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    I was married to a pretty woman for 20 years and she left me for another man....I think she still loves me however....in fact I'm sure of it....but time is not on my side anymore...
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    Ok I'm freaking out right now cause I've never done this before. I'm not gonna put any labels on my self cause I'm not really sure. Here we go. .. When I was around 8 I realized I...
    lovagirl19 lovagirl19 18-21, F Feb 10

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    I usually am a very cheerful person, always trying to make people happy and never letting problems tear me apart; but lately, school is being so stressing and nervous that I don't...
    Adriano90 Adriano90 22-25, M Feb 11

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    You know you're addicted to EP when you're using the app on your phone and the site on your computer at the same time. That's exactly what I'm doing right now.
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 14

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    was using it for past 6-7 years .. there was a time when i used to check my cell 24/7 for how many likes I got & chats & photos, comments n all that staff on FB! now it's been 5-6...
    Kheya092 Kheya092 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Aijmeerah Aijmeerah 16-17, F Feb 4

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    I'm working on a project and I have wi-fi yaaas
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