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I Ruined My Marriage and Now I'm So Confused

The group for people who ruined their marriage somehow, and now are really confused as to what to do now... 20 People

    Will I Ever Recover?

    I ruined my marriage because I have serious self-esteem issues. I had an emotional affair with an ex right after I got married, and my husband found out. After having some space from what happened, I know now that I was unhappy with myself and was looking for outside validation...
    milka33345 milka33345 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Ruined My Marriage......years Ago.

    It was actually years ago when I ruined our marriage. We had only been married for 9 years when I had a brief affair. If I knew then what I knew now I wouldn't have made this terrible mistake. I felt so guilty and ashamed, because it wasn't something I wouldn't normally do, but...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    I Lost My Way

    I have ruined my marriage and destroyed the family I so dearly loved. I have been married for 17 years and have two amazing young children. We always were committed to each other and were partners in a business as well as our marriage. About 7 years ago my wife became too worn...
    Jnorthern Jnorthern 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    Morning of Passions Flared Out

      The week after Thanksgiving I recieved a very surprising e-mail from an ex/friend who I haven't heard from in several years. Happily I started e-mailing him back thus we started discussing the events of our life while he invited me to stay with him when...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    Anger And Pain

    My wife and I have been married for 3 years. I have a stepson I love like he is my own, and a 10 month old son who is one of the greatest joys of my life. That being said, I have been an angry, negative, difficult, and unfriendly person for years. It has been getting worse, and I...
    themeidontwanttobe themeidontwanttobe 22-25 13 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    Firstly I'm not married.

    Second, I'm not sure if there is something wrong with me, or my relationship. I ask kindly for your input. I have been looking at myself after any kind of tiff, argument, or anytime I felt my blood pressure go up. The first this I realize looking back is, I get mad too easily...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 Jan 21

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    After years of depression

    and irritability, my wife has left me. She says she's scared of me, and every time she sees me she feels traumatised. We were married 8 years ago. The year after we were married I lost a job and I've been playing emotional catch-up since, as when my depression presented itself...
    uku383 uku383 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    One Night Stand

    My husband and I weren't getting along.  He was ignoring me and I was lonely.  I started talking to an old friend online.  We met for a drink and ended up having sex.  I never did it again.  My husband found out eventually.  That was three years ago.  He didn't leave me...
    psychregnurse psychregnurse 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Verbally Abusive Wife Need Help

    I am married ten years now, my husband is not a bad person but he lacks any ambition to get ahead in life . we live by my parents and its not the best condition , I have become verbally abusive and i think i have done it this time. He destroys everything i try to do to build us...
    gigiii gigiii 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I have a big smile on my face right now, I don't know who you new people are yet but I have a feeling I'll get to know you all, Lance you made me smile, thank you, I hear my sons...
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    it's been two years almost and i can still vision him just like it was yesterday, my god they are so strong now that makes me happy and typing this right now i'm wear a smile, and...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 21

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    So I'm a 17 year old guy who was pretending to be a girl that I know in real life. I really don't know why I did it, I guess I wanted attention, because she's really cute looking...
    GuyHOLLER GuyHOLLER 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    These past few days weren't so bad. I haven't made any friends yet but I am hopeful that someone will come along and notice me. My teachers are alright. My math class is the only...
    thelookinglass thelookinglass 18-21, F Aug 26

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    Since i found this group, i suppose i'll tell my story now. -- "Ever since i was a little child, i loved to go to the forest with me and mom, i was fascinated by everything that...
    MilotheCat MilotheCat 13-15, M Sep 2

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    I just want to cry, even when things go well for me, even when everything's great. What the hell is up with me? I am literally on the verge of being in a proper relationship/fwb...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Living in SD for over 2 years now I'm not sure what I'm doing, I have blocked myself so much out of the world that I don't know how to make friends, I don't like to be social, and...
    blackskys blackskys 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Today I had the need to write and get a lot of pain and hurt off my chest, The way my son died was so dam tragic , I just can't STILL believe there is that kind of a people out...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Sep 5

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    I constantly pretend that I am a movie star or celebrity, acting out their movie lines. You would think that I am acting as myself but I am not. I act out their scenes as if I am...
    Heaven360 Heaven360 18-21, F a week ago

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    The best and the worst feelings in the world is when you're staring at your best friend's eyes and getting lost in it. Because all you see in there is the person that you can't...
    alifia alifia 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm 15 and I'm so confused right now. I like girls but i also like boys(bit more). Am i a bi?, gay?. Any advice would b helpful..😔
    Orangeandbananas Orangeandbananas 13-15 1 Response Aug 26

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    I'm destroying myself because I'm ruined and disgusting and dirty
    kgorton1 kgorton1 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I did not write the following but it is a great take on what an open marriage is like and what it should be like. I found this article at Salon.com. What I learned from dating...
    sosexyincolo sosexyincolo 36-40 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Just sitting here typing these words I can feel my son around me it's like he is the one typing these words that i'm putting down, my mothers is rebuilding her life, with the most...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    What kind of mental disorder is this? I pretend that I am a celebrity re-acting their movie lines as them. I've been doing this since I was eight years old. It first started...
    Heaven360 Heaven360 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    We grew up with each other but he's 5 years older than me. Over the past few years we've grown closer. A few weeks ago we were playing truth or dare. He dared me to kiss him, he...
    Aquamarine221 Aquamarine221 18-21, F Sep 3

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    It's hard to explain. Obviously I'm not going to diagnose myself, I shall maybe see someone if it gets worse. However, I can have certain episodes where I completely shut off, I...
    Stillnotbroken Stillnotbroken 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Okay, first off I'm gay. I have a bit of a problem. I dated a friend and we broke up, we recently became friends again and he just screenshoted a photo of me on snapchat. I guess I...
    AndrewFlewTheTardis AndrewFlewTheTardis 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Reeling in the fishing rode,well I'm very tired today from yesterday I guess I tried to do to much like before, I woke up this morning confused thinking my son was here in the...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 21

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    I was dating this guy for a little over a year; due to recent circumstances we decided to just be friends. Lately we've been try a work on things to get back to where we used to be...
    gigi1993 gigi1993 18-21, F Aug 25

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    I am a 32 year old woman. I have been single for 7 years. I have only had one "serious" boyfriend and since then all I have experienced is heartbreak. Disastrous dates, flings, no...
    firecracker1 firecracker1 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    Posting drunk is fun. :-D Wonder why they call it being lit... Actually it makes sense. Coz baby I'm a firework right now!
    BlackEyedBean BlackEyedBean 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Where do I begin? The depression? My waning eye-sight? No, none of that matters in the long run, I guess. I grew up (am growing up) in a decently rough home. The kind where not...
    JoeOfTheMeek JoeOfTheMeek 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Now you see what I mean, ,Ma I'm still here
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 19

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    It took me long enough to admit it. I mean i realised i was bingeing and purging and all that jazz But something didn't click in my head that i was actually suffering from a...
    kerryfofo kerryfofo 18-21, F Aug 22

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    18 years ago, I left everything; work, family, friends, home, and moved accross the world to be with the man I thought was the one. From the very begining things were not right...
    AlmaV AlmaV 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Came across this website hoping to find a place to vent, and BINGO! Here it go's; One of my best friends and favorite person in the world had his first swim meet of the season...
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    Please forgive me if this post is extraordinarily long. I'm well aware that anyone out there shouldn't be asked to sit through this, but I would really appreciate it if someone did...
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    I daydream about doing nothing while I work. About being nothing. I presume to know what people around me want of me and pretend to respond to them. Because having a job is...
    paul0wonder paul0wonder 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hi! So, this is my first post so I'm kinda excited! :D Today I was standing in the bathroom looking in the mirror when I noticed that my brand new t-shirt has got too tight and I...
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