I Ruined My Marriage

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    My husband and I have been together

    for almost five years. While he was deployed this past year I had a sort of an emotional affair I suppose you would call it. Anyway he found out about it and we have been distant ever since. I never cheated on him physically but I do understand why he feels the way he does. He...
    lholland0104 lholland0104
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2013

    I ruined my marriage

    because something is wrong with me, I don't know what but I knew my wife was talking to someone and I went through her phone and saw she was telling someone else she loved him at the same time we are going to counseling and working on our relationship. We started getting better...
    mconti mconti
    36-40, M
    Oct 11, 2014

    I have been married 41 years.

    I have had an affair and continue to seek younger women for sex. I am not attracted to my wife physically and don't have the balls to do anything about it!! So frustrated and guilt ridden.
    SCJohnny SCJohnny
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Jun 13, 2014

    Me = Failure...

    My partner and I never saw eye-to-eye on anything, but we got married anyway.  We figured it would all work itself out, but it didn't.  I ended up crossing an unforgivable line.  Now she doesn't trust me, doesn't respect me, and doesn't want to be with me...
    ObfuscatedOddity ObfuscatedOddity
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Mar 28, 2010

    Well I don't know that I ruined something

    already broken but I definitely made it worse. I came clean about the affair and I ended it. However, two months later, we still argue daily. He overthinks everything I do, everything I don't do, anything I say, anything I don't say. Our marriage is worse than it ever was. The...
    2little2late 2little2late
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    Married And Left My Best Friend.

    I'm still actually technically married to my husband. He's a military man and I moved to Virginia to be his wife years ago. We dated for a few years before that, off and on. The off and on part was my fault. I was seeing other men occasionally even then. I don't know why. I was...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich
    26-30, F
    Apr 25, 2013

    Ruin My Marriage And Now He Doesnt Trust Me

    In a month's time my husband and i would be married for a year. But the past 3 weeks have been a rollercoaster ride because I lied to him about something i did in my past. My husband, who was my friend at the time, and i were sleeping together but we always knew how we felt...
    brokemyself brokemyself
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 7, 2013

    My Wife And I Were Great Friends, We Lost Ourselves, And Then I Messed Everything Up.

    I am 29 years old. My wife and I have known each other for 12 years, and have been married for 4 years. I cheated on her about a year after we got married, and couldn't bring myself to tell her. I changed my ways immediately, and things were good until Feb of this year when she...
    Daddy0515 Daddy0515
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Jul 14, 2011

    I ruined my marriage.

    I lied to my husband about our financial troubles. He feels so deceived and doesn't trust me. I'm scared.
    rhold rhold
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Dec 19, 2013
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