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I Said No to An Abortion and Proved All My Doubters Wrong

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    My Thoughts On Abortion.

    I never wanted children before. I always just kinda assumed that if I did have an unplanned pregnancy I would simply have an abortion and that would be the end of it. I think it was because at school the girls were given quite a biased education on pregnancy and abortion...
    thesockqueen thesockqueen 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2009

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    Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for a year now and I had my abortion about 3 weeks ago. It was honestly the biggest mistake of my life. Basically when I first found out I...
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    It's been nearly 8 years since my first abortion and 8 years since what I was told and made to believe would end my 'problem', actually opened a flood gate of never ending new ones...
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    Hi I'm from the Philippines , and I'm pregnant for about a month or 3 , haven't got ultrasound coz I'm afraid of those media staffs and newscasters might found out and spread it to...
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    For as long as I recall, abortions have been legal. But it has also been equally legal for those who hold Religious convictions to speak against abortion. I personally think that...
    OnewithJC OnewithJC 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I was 16 years old of 2013 I had an abortion here's my story.... I was dating this guy and I though I was inlove with him so we had sex. During the 4 weeks since we had sex I...
    Ginger387 Ginger387 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    I want to talk about recovery. Being in recovery doesn't mean, you are always doing well. And that you don't think about your abortion. We can all have good days. Or we can have...
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    noliesjustlovee noliesjustlovee 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I just spent the last two hours crying my eyes out. Fellas I know your out their I've spoke with a few on here in this section. If a female tellers you she's pregnant man up and do...
    Hotpinkgirl1982 Hotpinkgirl1982 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    The last few days have been really good for me it's been about 1 month and 1/2 since my abortion and I'm becoming ok with it! I never thought that I would be able to move past the...
    Hotpinkgirl1982 Hotpinkgirl1982 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    It is time for me to speak up, I have thought more than once. I am now a mother with 4 beautiful children, but I still carry a secret. I had an abortion just 4 days after my 16th...
    secretstoryforlife secretstoryforlife 46-50 Mar 30

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    I had an abortion and is in recovery. Been in recovery for 2 years. But I still feel that emptiness. You know that emptiness? Like something is missing. I still feel a little...
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    I had an abortion and is in recovery. Been in recovery for 2 years. But I still feel that emptiness. You know that emptiness? Like something is missing. I still feel a little...
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    After reading up on the abortion pill and coming across the numerous amounts of scary/negative stories, I wanted to share my POSITIVE one with people who may be feeling uneasy or...
    Jazzy301 Jazzy301 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    After reading up on the abortion pill and coming across the numerous amounts of scary/negative stories, I wanted to share my POSITIVE one with people who may be feeling uneasy or...
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    I am 26 years old, happily married, and have no children. As far back as I can remember, I've never been in any hurry to have children. It's just never been a desire in me, as...
    AbbeyRoad2 AbbeyRoad2 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    It's been almost 2 months since my abortion And I'm feeling a little down about it. I can't believe that I wasn't more careful and became pregnant by someone I thought cared...
    Hotpinkgirl1982 Hotpinkgirl1982 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Hello, I just want to say I have had 2 abortions. I was abused by my stepfather, which led me to being someone that I was not, I became permiscuous, etc.. as a teenager. When I...
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    Why should I have regrets? Especially when I know that I made the right decision. At the time, I was in no place to be a mother. I also didn't want to be a mom. I didn't love the...
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    Abortion does not mean murder. Women that have abortions are not murderers. An abortion is a choice. It is a medical procedure. A difficult choice to make. You honestly think that...
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    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I am getting a tattoo in memory of my abortion. I wish they had an abortion recovery symbol. I would get the tattoo on my left arm, next to my eating disorder recovery symbol. I...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    :( ;( friday 21st march........sun shone brightly and day started,had a list of chores to do......my lazziness and ignorance to work proved a real blame n taunt fr me.... why s it...
    Mughee Mughee 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    In the 1980's I had 2 abortions and 1 miscarriage and shortly after that found out I had cervical cancer. But this story is about the 3 lost children. I blame some of the reason...
    alcooper alcooper 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    It's hard for me to even put this into words. I've had an abortion before, on more than one occasion. I wasn't molested, or raped to do such things either. I was young...
    cajunbook cajunbook 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Abortion is wrong in any case. Being a Christian I know that God already has your life planned out so he knows what is going to happen. Killing a baby shouldn't be apart of that...
    blondechick0130 blondechick0130 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 25

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    I know why I did it. I was only 16, even with my boyfriends help I would still need help. My family said they would "support me" meaning, they would pay for my baby and me as long...
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    Tzilla95 Tzilla95 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    If u r against abortion don't give me ur negative I'm a murderer bullshit Hope to find positive feedback 😊😕😭 N I feel like damaged goods- I had my abortion Dec 13th of...
    Lovemy7yrson Lovemy7yrson 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    palimia palimia 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    To others who have been through it and feel conflicted (and only those people, because others feel very solid in their choices, and I acknowledge those women. However, those who...
    palimia palimia 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    The closest I ever came to being involved with abortion is when my wife (now ex-wife) miscarried 3 times. Personally, I am against abortion. if anyone asks my advice, I'd advise...
    gingershuman gingershuman 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I want to give you a brief into my story - I tried to explain yesterday but just got all muddled as I am still struggling with this. I have a boyfriend & I completely adore him and...
    SYWlittlebutterfly SYWlittlebutterfly 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I had an abortion in January of 2014. At the time I got pregnant, I had been seeing two men for almost two years. Though it was apparent to me who I'd rather be with, I cared so...
    mitted mitted 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm worried that I might be pregnant, again. I have a strong feeling, I am. I don't want to think about abortion but I am. I hope that thinking this way doesn't make me a bad...
    Sasha7 Sasha7 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 29

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    I had an abortion on 3/28/14. As far as logical decisions come, this was one of them. I have Graves Disease which was barely getting under control when i became pregnant. The...
    MADREofDos MADREofDos 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I just went to a midwife to have an abortion. There are women lined up. We were about 5. When it was my turn to ebter the room, i was asked to put my pants down, she used the...
    Misty133 Misty133 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It wasnt complete yet. I went to the abortionist yesterday and she inserted a long orange rubber inside of my vagina. I was to return today but my inlaws are with me so i cant...
    Misty133 Misty133 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a girl who had an abortion, I haven't really been able to talk about it, I didn't want to let down my now ex boyfriend, I wanted him to think I was ok, but inside it everything...
    nikkibc nikkibc 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    16 days ago I found out I was pregnant. A week later I finally told my parents. They shocked me and told me to get an abortion. I have never been one to not obey there advice...
    cowgirl4christ cowgirl4christ 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    For the first time since my abortion I feel like I have some closure and am at peace with my decision. After seeing and talking with the baby's dad I knw it was the right choice...
    Hotpinkgirl1982 Hotpinkgirl1982 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    jackkeee jackkeee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    at the age of sixteen, i tried the "friends with benefits" idea with my ex boyfriend. the reason for our break up was the distance, nearly three hundred kms. we were still in love...
    eviemay6 eviemay6 16-17, F