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I Said No to An Abortion and Proved All My Doubters Wrong

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    My Thoughts On Abortion.

    I never wanted children before. I always just kinda assumed that if I did have an unplanned pregnancy I would simply have an abortion and that would be the end of it. I think it was because at school the girls were given quite a biased education on pregnancy and abortion...
    thesockqueen thesockqueen 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2009

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    Any fool who agrees with this question deserves all the hatred they get!
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    Hmm... The only way I see it as not murder is if the mother has a heightened risk of dying. I'm still 50/50 on Rape. I know it's not their fault, but the child did nothing wrong...
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    Some people want to travel, some want to marry, some want to be rich and live a successful life. From as early I can remember I have wanted a baby. Something that is mine to care...
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    I've been avoiding to write about this subject, but here goes. I regret having an abortion, because I feel like I hurt the father of my child to the core. With plenty of therapy...
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    I as a man and as a human being of sound and justified mind say that birth is the beginning of life. I have looked into this greatly as I used to be of the opinion that it was. I...
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    I never known anybody who has ever regretted their abortion for the rest of their lives. Forever is such a long time, which was not an exception for me. I had my abortion January...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    So... I just got my first period after the abortion. I made a story a few days ago explaining how hard it was to come to the decision I had made. A lot of kind people with good...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Oct 7

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    We shouldn't have to give a 4 page essay on why we chose our abortions. Why? Because it is nobody's business. And we shouldn't have to explain ourselves to anybody. We are going to...
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    We shouldn't have to give a 4 page essay on why we chose our abortions. Why? Because it is nobody's business. And we shouldn't have to explain ourselves to anybody. We are going to...
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    I'm so tired of hearing the rape excuse to murder an unborn child but yet these same so-called pro-choice hypocrites are against the death penalty for men who rape women. As a...
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    lovebug200 lovebug200 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Emmy321 Emmy321 13-15, F Sep 22

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