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I Said No to An Abortion and Proved All My Doubters Wrong

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    My Thoughts On Abortion.

    I never wanted children before. I always just kinda assumed that if I did have an unplanned pregnancy I would simply have an abortion and that would be the end of it. I think it was because at school the girls were given quite a biased education on pregnancy and abortion...
    thesockqueen thesockqueen 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2009

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    For the sake of the both of us, don't insist please
    ChildofagnomeReborn ChildofagnomeReborn 70+ 3 days ago

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    I recently had an abortion. I did it for all the wrong reasons. My boyfriend wasn't ready for a baby and I felt pressured to do it. In reality, I am obviously at fault because I...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Back in February, a few weeks after my birthday, I found out that I was pregnant. It was an unplanned pregnancy and I had no idea what to do with myself! Fortunately, I had some...
    Wattouat Wattouat 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I had an abortion the day after Valentines day 2014. I had just had a baby-who I love more than anything. I was in a stupid, bad relationship. He's horribly addicted to drugs and...
    ah2013 ah2013 22-25, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I thought "there's no way I can be pregnant." I bought a pregnancy test so I could prove it to myself because my boyfriend was worried about it. People have late periods all the...
    sweetsydchris sweetsydchris 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Two and a half weeks ago, I made a decision I never thought I would make and my life has dramatically changed since then. Two month after a break up with a long term boyfriend, I...
    biolover212 biolover212 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I had an abortion this year in February. Here is my story.. I was at work (dance studio) my phone was plugged in the AUX cord and I was stretching the girls just jamming out to...
    UnknownNYC728 UnknownNYC728 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    There is so much controversy over abortion laws in different countries and those in the mindsets of the people around. A woman is looked down upon if she has had sex in India...
    TheNextSin TheNextSin 22-25, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel like my abortion changed my perspective on children. I don't regret my abortion. But it's definitely changed me... I'm married, and my husband and I occasionally talk about...
    LeglessPotato LeglessPotato 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I had an abortion 20 years ago and have always regretted it. My story is this. I got married at 19 and was very happy had my first son at 23 and he is beautiful now 21. Six months...
    keelina01 keelina01 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'm 19 and I've scheduled an abortion for next week. Just yesterday I took two pregnancy tests...both we're positive. I was so certain that I couldn't be. The pulling out method is...
    Jpn811 Jpn811 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    If a woman feels she made the right choice and is at peace, then why do people still judge her and start with the should've, would've, could've? If she feels that she made the...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I am 25 and when I found out I was pregnant, I cried, full of despair and fear. I instantly new what I had to do and instantly realised that I would never get to know my baby, that...
    parislondonrome parislondonrome 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've never had an abortion, nor will I ever. There is no circumstance I will abort. I truly believe it is murder. People can say what they want, but that's what I believe. After...
    brittanys13 brittanys13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I had an abortion I am not proud of and I am having a hard time getting past it . I don't support abortions unless they have a meaningful reason for the procedure . I was pressured...
    strugglemade strugglemade 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    When I was 17 I had an abortion. But I don't feel remorse for it? I feel like a bad person because I know I killed someone. But I wasn't ready to have a baby. I know I could have...
    brilag678 brilag678 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    It happened 4 years ago on January 13th 2010. I was in an abusive relationship (though I refused to admit it to anyone including myself.) I was 18 and terrified. I didn't even tell...
    omgxjean omgxjean 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    So you know how I tell you ladies, that talking about it makes you feel so much better? I have been doing some talking. I guess I am at a place in my life, to where I can talk, and...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F Jul 3

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    I have been lucky enough to never have to have one. My boyfriend was not so lucky His ex girlfriend lied, and said she had a coil. She got pregnant and then kept saying she had...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F Jul 8

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    I have been lucky enough to never have to have one. My boyfriend was not so lucky His ex girlfriend lied, and said she had a coil. She got pregnant and then kept saying she had...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    When I was 15 I had an abortion on October 6, 2009. I thought I was at the most 8 week but I was a lot farther , the nurse at the clinic said at most I was around 4 months...
    xxbroken xxbroken 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    When I was young my mom made me wait in the car while she got an abortion. I'm pretty sure this happened. I didn't put it together as a child but looking back it makes sense. As...
    poopoofacecharlie poopoofacecharlie 26-30, M Jul 5

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    I had a friend in high school who got pregnant when she was sixteen and she chose to have an abortion. I personally am against abortions but that's for myself, I would never get an...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    It's a shame that abortion is not more accessible to women. It is also a shame that women who want to exercise their right to an abortion have to be shamed or called names...
    jaxson2014 jaxson2014 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Seriously, there's nothing wrong with it. Would you rather have people have babies that they abuse and beat up? And oh bye the way to all you people who say "abortions are the...
    Alcyoneus Alcyoneus 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    It's a hot potato this one. I believe everyone has a right to do this. However, I DO think that it's become so readily available and none-taboo that people are now viewing it as...
    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Mine was only fairly recently and I feel guilty and sad today. I know it was the right decision deep down and I guess I will feel better when the hormones settle. It is hard not...
    meowmiaow meowmiaow 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I had an abortion the first week of October, 2013. I stopped using this as a support group because although I knew I wasn't alone, it was a constant reminder of my loss, but I want...
    af996 af996 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    We condemn rapist, child abusers, murderers and other criminals but we don't put women who abort ( murder) their babies and the doctors who perform these acts into prison? What...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I had an abortion 5 years ago. I was 16 and in an abusive relationship. I was still in school and had no job. My parents wouldn't have been able to support me and my child. My...
    Cereal3 Cereal3 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My girlfriend is pregnant, potentially with another man's baby. She regrets the mistake, but we had an agreement for her to explore what was out there. She needed final validation...
    MediPhil MediPhil 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Somebody posted a so called abortion video on Facebook. I happened to look at the video. And because I don't want to trigger anybody, I won't go into details. But I will say, that...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What do i? Im all alone. Hes left me and had moved on and im just stuck in this hell hole wishing the days away. How could he cheat and lie to me after i aborted my own baby for...
    MrsPr MrsPr 18-21 3 Responses Jun 25

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    So I'm still crying all the time, and emotionally hurt, from my Abortion back in January, I'm always having a moan at my ex as I he made me have an abortion when I never wanted too...
    PrincessBailey20 PrincessBailey20 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    In October I had an abortion. I've gone through the stages of grief, though it was painful I understood it and so did others. But then there were the emotions and thoughts that I...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F Jul 5

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    In October I had an abortion. I've gone through the stages of grief, though it was painful I understood it and so did others. But then there were the emotions and thoughts that I...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F Jul 5

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    Have you talked to your family about your abortion? It's like they don't want to hear it. I don't understand why they give me that horrible look, when I try to talk to them about...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Abortion is birth control. When a woman had an abortion, she is keeping a birth from happening. When a woman has an abortion, she is terminating a pregnancy. So for someone to say...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I had an abortion almost a year ago. I feel kicks. I also have a god baby that would be close in age with my baby. I regret my abortion so bad!!! My selfishness took me to a place...
    bambi81 bambi81 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I met this amazing man, and right away I knew he was it. We have this connection that can't be explained, we understand each other, accept each other, and are more comfortable...
    riphertoshreds riphertoshreds 18-21, F Jun 25

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    I met this amazing man, and right away I knew he was it. We have this connection that can't be explained, we understand each other, accept each other, and are more comfortable...
    riphertoshreds riphertoshreds 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    About two years ago, at the age of 17 I had an abortion. The father was someone who I thought I was in love with. Coming from an abusive household it was very nice to have a guy...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 25

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    It really hurts being parted from my daughter. But I wouldn’t trade those feelings for the world. Yes, no one likes divorce. The problems between my ex are our own, and not my...
    Sparrowhawk1161 Sparrowhawk1161 51-55, M Jun 29

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    Whether you're with abortion, against abortion or undecided about abortion it is still murder. I mean there's nothing to change that, it is still flat out murder. Idk how to put...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I am 100% against abortion. If you decide to have intercourse, without proper protection...why be responsible enough to get in her pants, but not deal with your own mistake you...
    MickaelaLovesZachLin MickaelaLovesZachLin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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