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I Say Big Girls Can Have Fun Too

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    5 Foot and a 138 Ppounds

    Who said us big girls can't have fun or who said us big girls can't get a hunk? I know 2 girls from my old job and they were big girls! I saw pictures AND did in fact met their husband's with my jam hitting the floor! I even have met some big girls on a track ...
    123ct 123ct 36-40, F 10 Responses May 3, 2008

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    Absolutely

    I am a big girl. Not that big, but not skinny.  And I have a lot of fun! And I have been told several times that having sex with me is much better than a thinner girl. I don't know if that is true. I think no matter what your size, you can be good as long you know what you...
    25tashat25 25tashat25 26-30, F 23 Responses Nov 13, 2010

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    I've mostly dated and am currently happily

    married to a "big girl". I'm quite positive that they've all had as much fun in life as the next girl and in some cases more.
    JeremyB77 JeremyB77 36-40, M Feb 26, 2015

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    Sure They Can...

    At my place. ;) I love, love, love, love...big girls. WE could have a lot of fun.
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 22, 2011

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    ......Okay.

    Not to get on a huge rant, but why WOULDN'T they?   Why do a lot of people have this preconceived notion that being plump is a disease and we must all be miserable?   Big girls are still girls, and as so are beautiful and feminine....and fun.  It depends...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 2 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Learnintoloveme Learnintoloveme 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Love Love Love

    I LOVE big girls and I know they can have fun too. Just want them to have fun with me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 1, 2012

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    I Want A Big Girl.

    I'm 5'9" and about 145 pounds and I love big girls. I don't know what it is but they are just sexy as hell. All of my friends make fun of me for it. They'll point out any fat chick they see and say "Hey Ian there's your future wife!". It gets really old but it...
    ifdreamswerenickels ifdreamswerenickels 16-17, M 13 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    I Used To Be Skinny

    I put on weight in the last year and am trying to accept me this way . Meds made me put on weight and since I will be on them for life I feel I will never be thin again . I just want to be accepted for me .
    McChubby McChubby 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Big Girls Sure Can Have Fun

    When I crossdress I am a big girl. I just love it.  And I do have fun.You get the eyes looking at your bust when you are in a conversation.  I've been big all my life.  It can be difficult finding plus size clothes but shopping for them is fun.  And trying them on and...
    jml2000 jml2000 61-65, M Feb 18, 2013

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    Miss, How Much Do You Weigh?

    I'm a student training to be a PE teacher, but in the summer holidays, I've started helping out at an activity centre in the Peak District, for urban kids (all from London) who can't have the chance to get into the countryside normally. Last week I had a group of 10 boys, all but...
    bigggirls bigggirls 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    From My Perspective

    Any girl can be a fun girl.  It isn't all about the tighest body.  Fun is a great sense of humor, a wicked wit, a sense of adventure, the abilty to flirt, an openness and confidence.  Big, small and in between, I'd argue all girls should have fun.
    colt1969 colt1969 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    Big Girls You Are Beautiful

    I am big girl and damn proud. It took me a few years to get to this point and all because drumroll please....my family made me self conscious. I have actually never had strangers or even people I knew at school bully me for it. If someone did say something it was "through the...
    smartandbeautiful3 smartandbeautiful3 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    Just Not An Issue

    The best person I've ever loved is a BBW.  A relationship isn't about what a person looks like, but about who they are, how they make you feel, and whether they are deep down, a good person. If being overweight presents a health problem, or if it's caused by low self-esteem...
    EBunbury EBunbury 46-50, M 19 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Fat Or Small...

    It doesn't matter if your black or white, or fat or skinny...You can all have a good time.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2009

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    Thick Chicks

    I am a firm believer that real men don't all want the skinny girls.  And if they think they do, they are sadly mistaken and will be changing their mind when the see what us BBWs have to offer them.  This reminds me of a fun and true statement regarding us Big Beautiful...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 25 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Yes we can. Well at least I can

    and I do. There's no shortage of men out there that love them some big curvy girls.
    dezireme dezireme 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 8

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    Oh, Yes They Can

    Lemmee tell you, I got some stories about hanging out with some big girls that would scare the rice crispies right outta you!  My Big girls can get down with some serious partying... I have pictures lol but most are self incriminating... What??? Big GUYS can have fun too !
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Hell Yeah We Can...

    Of course us big girls can have fun too!!! Why shouldn't we be able to? I think people need to get over themselves and realize that we are all people. If guys would give us half a chance, they would realize how funny, sweet, caring and wild us bigger girls are.;)
    RubyLane RubyLane 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    I Want A Baby Now Right Now

    HI IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A GREAT GUT WHO LOVE KID I AM YOU MANI HAVE MY HOUSES AND CARS PAID OFF. I AM SINGLE WITH NO KID. I WOULD TO START A RELATIONSHIP. WE CAN RAISE YOU KID AS A FAMILY  WE CAN HAVE MORE IF YOU LIKE DOW THE ROAD
    Ravens522006 Ravens522006 41-45, M Nov 9, 2012

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    Why The Heck Not!!!

    Jus because youre big dosent mean you cant, shouldnt or wont have fun! I choose to be the way I am! Im a fabulous 5'6 227 now(pregnant, was 180 and still fabulously plump!) If i didnt like myself then you know what? ID LOSE WEIGHT! Duh... Skinny dosent always mean fun, all they...
    cacmille cacmille 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Big Andf Beautiful

    I am one of the BBW and like the attention I get when I am out. The only thing I detest is when men talk to my breasts. In the bedroom I take care of my man and he wants more
    Micayla Micayla 61-65, F 5 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    I have had male friends who were just my friend... they did not at first plan on the relationship going platonic, but they accepted it (eventually). I am genuine and that is rare...
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    I used to give everyone benefit of the doubt but after everything that happened by being betrayed and hurt by others. now, sometimes (if not most times) i'll watch my back with...
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    but its much easier... ah a tall glass of black rum. black and murky as the depths of the human soul. liquid fire with complex and subtle flavors. a bite to sink into those...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My 'best friend' stole my boyfriend and turned the entire school bar 5 people against me and I just can't deal with it, I really loved him and this is the 2nd boyfriend she's taken...
    AmeliaLilithXx AmeliaLilithXx 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    doing drugs and alcohol is not the answer to having fun..... having fun depends on you. drugs is not the way to go.... if you want to have fun do something that would be enjoyable...
    jenna66spinder jenna66spinder 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Life is amazing if you are having fun and in my opinion that is THE purpose of life. I love seeing people happy and having fun and I want to join them. It is very important to...
    hitgod hitgod 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My dad in particular... That sick, sick man ruined my life, I became so desperate to have a father I would pay him my own money that I made working to keep him happy. I bought him...
    xXverlorenXx xXverlorenXx 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    But it seems like alls my friends want to do is drag me down idk why oh well there's always other people to have fun with
    grem21 grem21 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I thought I needed drugs and alcohol to have a good time until one day in October of 2000 I ingested enough Wild Turkey 101 proof, with a side order of Dilaudid to almost kill me...
    kimmieroberts kimmieroberts 41-45, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    But it can most certainly help hahahahahahahahahahaha sorry I couldn't help myself
    CallMePonyTail CallMePonyTail 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    This group needs more members life is easier without something to drown sorrows
    magic7 magic7 61-65, M a week ago

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    I don't have to, but it is fun when i do get drunk and have fun
    Newconvo1 Newconvo1 41-45, M a week ago

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    I don't need drugs alcohol or sex to have fun or be happy. Except Advil as needed. I keep meeting douche bags online. Hey poke fun at me being a virgin even though I...
    theOnlyinolvidable theOnlyinolvidable 22-25, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    Soo deeply and badly. I am dying to have the life I ORIGINALLY WANTED before I came to Earth . And i want my love life this time to be predestined by ME. As i know what i want...
    Angelinawhitepromdresseveryday Angelinawhitepromdresseveryday 16-17, F Feb 2

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    I can't belive 3 day s it well be 15 yrs man I can t belive it .I lost my daughter in 2005 and I lost my DaD in 2012 and my first wife died last yr . man I so bless with god...
    lurch669 lurch669 46-50, M 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I don't need drugs or alcohol to have fun because drugs and alcohol can mess up your brain cells and you kiddenies
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 1

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    He is all I think about sometimes. It's all consuming, that given I want to call him out on his crap, but then I am afraid to because I don't want to lose him. Doesn't say much...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 1

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    I cherish little moments of escaping reality
    baangaraang baangaraang 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    So I'm blind. Not totally blind, but enough that I can see basic shapes of buildings and people, can see that I'm at a crosswalk, but not always that there's a car coming. And in...
    ProcessOfBecoming ProcessOfBecoming 18-21, T 1 Response Jan 31

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    There are days like this I sit back and become lonely. When I talk to a beautiful girl and we're having a good convo she doesn't answer me back anymore. No matter what she has her...
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22 22-25, M Jan 31

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