I Say Big Girls Can Have Fun Too

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    Yes we can. Well at least I can

    and I do. There's no shortage of men out there that love them some big curvy girls.
    dezireme dezireme
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 8, 2016

    Love Love Love

    I LOVE big girls and I know they can have fun too. Just want them to have fun with me...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 1, 2012

    From My Perspective

    Any girl can be a fun girl.  It isn't all about the tighest body.  Fun is a great sense of humor, a wicked wit, a sense of adventure, the abilty to flirt, an openness and confidence.  Big, small and in between, I'd argue all girls should have fun.
    colt1969 colt1969
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 9, 2011

    Oh, Yes They Can

    Lemmee tell you, I got some stories about hanging out with some big girls that would scare the rice crispies right outta you!  My Big girls can get down with some serious partying... I have pictures lol but most are self incriminating... What??? Big GUYS can have fun too !
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel
    31-35, M
    2 Responses May 1, 2009

    I Used To Be Skinny

    I put on weight in the last year and am trying to accept me this way . Meds made me put on weight and since I will be on them for life I feel I will never be thin again . I just want to be accepted for me .
    McChubby McChubby
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

    5 Foot and a 138 Ppounds

    Who said us big girls can't have fun or who said us big girls can't get a hunk? I know 2 girls from my old job and they were big girls! I saw pictures AND did in fact met their husband's with my jam hitting the floor! I even have met some big girls on a track ...
    123ct 123ct
    36-40, F
    10 Responses May 3, 2008


    Not to get on a huge rant, but why WOULDN'T they?   Why do a lot of people have this preconceived notion that being plump is a disease and we must all be miserable?   Big girls are still girls, and as so are beautiful and feminine....and fun.  It depends...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2009

    I Want A Big Girl.

    I'm 5'9" and about 145 pounds and I love big girls. I don't know what it is but they are just sexy as hell. All of my friends make fun of me for it. They'll point out any fat chick they see and say "Hey Ian there's your future wife!". It gets really old but it...
    ifdreamswerenickels ifdreamswerenickels
    18-21, M
    13 Responses Oct 11, 2009

    Why The Heck Not!!!

    Jus because youre big dosent mean you cant, shouldnt or wont have fun! I choose to be the way I am! Im a fabulous 5'6 227 now(pregnant, was 180 and still fabulously plump!) If i didnt like myself then you know what? ID LOSE WEIGHT! Duh... Skinny dosent always mean fun, all they...
    cacmille cacmille
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 27, 2011

    Fat Or Small...

    It doesn't matter if your black or white, or fat or skinny...You can all have a good time.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    Feb 10, 2009

    I Want A Baby Now Right Now

    Ravens522006 Ravens522006
    41-45, M
    Nov 9, 2012

    Just Not An Issue

    The best person I've ever loved is a BBW.  A relationship isn't about what a person looks like, but about who they are, how they make you feel, and whether they are deep down, a good person. If being overweight presents a health problem, or if it's caused by low self-esteem...
    EBunbury EBunbury
    46-50, M
    19 Responses Jul 6, 2008

    Hell Yeah We Can...

    Of course us big girls can have fun too!!! Why shouldn't we be able to? I think people need to get over themselves and realize that we are all people. If guys would give us half a chance, they would realize how funny, sweet, caring and wild us bigger girls are.;)
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Mar 28, 2012

    Big Girls You Are Beautiful

    I am big girl and damn proud. It took me a few years to get to this point and all because drumroll please....my family made me self conscious. I have actually never had strangers or even people I knew at school bully me for it. If someone did say something it was "through the...
    smartandbeautiful3 smartandbeautiful3
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

    Thick Chicks

    I am a firm believer that real men don't all want the skinny girls.  And if they think they do, they are sadly mistaken and will be changing their mind when the see what us BBWs have to offer them.  This reminds me of a fun and true statement regarding us Big Beautiful...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    23 Responses Aug 2, 2008

    Miss, How Much Do You Weigh?

    I'm a student training to be a PE teacher, but in the summer holidays, I've started helping out at an activity centre in the Peak District, for urban kids (all from London) who can't have the chance to get into the countryside normally. Last week I had a group of 10 boys, all but...
    bigggirls bigggirls
    18-21, F
    Jul 27, 2011
    Learnintoloveme Learnintoloveme
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

    Big Andf Beautiful

    I am one of the BBW and like the attention I get when I am out. The only thing I detest is when men talk to my breasts. In the bedroom I take care of my man and he wants more
    Micayla Micayla
    61-65, F
    5 Responses Aug 16, 2008

    Big Girls Sure Can Have Fun

    When I crossdress I am a big girl. I just love it.  And I do have fun.You get the eyes looking at your bust when you are in a conversation.  I've been big all my life.  It can be difficult finding plus size clothes but shopping for them is fun.  And trying them on and...
    jml2000 jml2000
    61-65, M
    Feb 18, 2013

    I've mostly dated and am currently happily

    married to a "big girl". I'm quite positive that they've all had as much fun in life as the next girl and in some cases more.
    JeremyB77 JeremyB77
    36-40, M
    Feb 26, 2015


    I am a big girl. Not that big, but not skinny.  And I have a lot of fun! And I have been told several times that having sex with me is much better than a thinner girl. I don't know if that is true. I think no matter what your size, you can be good as long you know what you...
    25tashat25 25tashat25
    26-30, F
    20 Responses Nov 13, 2010
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