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I Say Big Girls Can Have Fun Too

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 554 People

    From My Perspective

    Any girl can be a fun girl.  It isn't all about the tighest body.  Fun is a great sense of humor, a wicked wit, a sense of adventure, the abilty to flirt, an openness and confidence.  Big, small and in between, I'd argue all girls should have fun.
    colt1969 colt1969 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    I Want A Big Girl.

    I'm 5'9" and about 145 pounds and I love big girls. I don't know what it is but they are just sexy as hell. All of my friends make fun of me for it. They'll point out any fat chick they see and say "Hey Ian there's your future wife!". It gets really old but it...
    ifdreamswerenickels ifdreamswerenickels 16-17, M 11 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Just Not An Issue

    The best person I've ever loved is a BBW.  A relationship isn't about what a person looks like, but about who they are, how they make you feel, and whether they are deep down, a good person. If being overweight presents a health problem, or if it's caused by low self-esteem...
    EBunbury EBunbury 46-50, M 19 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Absolutely

    I am a big girl. Not that big, but not skinny.  And I have a lot of fun! And I have been told several times that having sex with me is much better than a thinner girl. I don't know if that is true. I think no matter what your size, you can be good as long you know what you...
    25tashat25 25tashat25 26-30, F 29 Responses Nov 13, 2010

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    Big Girls You Are Beautiful

    I am big girl and damn proud. It took me a few years to get to this point and all because drumroll please....my family made me self conscious. I have actually never had strangers or even people I knew at school bully me for it. If someone did say something it was "through the...
    smartandbeautiful3 smartandbeautiful3 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    Oh, Yes They Can

    Lemmee tell you, I got some stories about hanging out with some big girls that would scare the rice crispies right outta you!  My Big girls can get down with some serious partying... I have pictures lol but most are self incriminating... What??? Big GUYS can have fun too !
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Why The Heck Not!!!

    Jus because youre big dosent mean you cant, shouldnt or wont have fun! I choose to be the way I am! Im a fabulous 5'6 227 now(pregnant, was 180 and still fabulously plump!) If i didnt like myself then you know what? ID LOSE WEIGHT! Duh... Skinny dosent always mean fun, all they...
    cacmille cacmille 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    My observation over my life time is they are

    fun to be around and fun to be with.Most of them just enjoy being down to earth girls.A beauty of confidence mixed with some curves is a big girl that sure can have a whole lotta fun.I love big girls!
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    I Used To Be Skinny

    I put on weight in the last year and am trying to accept me this way . Meds made me put on weight and since I will be on them for life I feel I will never be thin again . I just want to be accepted for me .
    McChubby McChubby 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Work It, Girl!

    I love women with meat on their bones, so sexy and so much woman to go around.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2011

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    Sure They Can...

    At my place. ;) I love, love, love, love...big girls. WE could have a lot of fun.
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 22, 2011

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    ......Okay.

    Not to get on a huge rant, but why WOULDN'T they?   Why do a lot of people have this preconceived notion that being plump is a disease and we must all be miserable?   Big girls are still girls, and as so are beautiful and feminine....and fun.  It depends...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Thick Chicks

    I am a firm believer that real men don't all want the skinny girls.  And if they think they do, they are sadly mistaken and will be changing their mind when the see what us BBWs have to offer them.  This reminds me of a fun and true statement regarding us Big Beautiful...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 25 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Fat Or Small...

    It doesn't matter if your black or white, or fat or skinny...You can all have a good time.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2009

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    5 Foot and a 138 Ppounds

    Who said us big girls can't have fun or who said us big girls can't get a hunk? I know 2 girls from my old job and they were big girls! I saw pictures AND did in fact met their husband's with my jam hitting the floor! I even have met some big girls on a track ...
    123ct 123ct 36-40, F 9 Responses May 3, 2008

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    Hell Yeah We Can...

    Of course us big girls can have fun too!!! Why shouldn't we be able to? I think people need to get over themselves and realize that we are all people. If guys would give us half a chance, they would realize how funny, sweet, caring and wild us bigger girls are.;)
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    Smokesgirl2013 Smokesgirl2013 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Big Girls Sure Can Have Fun

    When I crossdress I am a big girl. I just love it.  And I do have fun.You get the eyes looking at your bust when you are in a conversation.  I've been big all my life.  It can be difficult finding plus size clothes but shopping for them is fun.  And trying them on and...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M Feb 18, 2013

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    Love Love Love

    I LOVE big girls and I know they can have fun too. Just want them to have fun with me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 1, 2012

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    Miss, How Much Do You Weigh?

    I'm a student training to be a PE teacher, but in the summer holidays, I've started helping out at an activity centre in the Peak District, for urban kids (all from London) who can't have the chance to get into the countryside normally. Last week I had a group of 10 boys, all but...
    bigggirls bigggirls 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    Big Andf Beautiful

    I am one of the BBW and like the attention I get when I am out. The only thing I detest is when men talk to my breasts. In the bedroom I take care of my man and he wants more
    Micayla Micayla 61-65, F 5 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    I Want A Baby Now Right Now

    HI IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A GREAT GUT WHO LOVE KID I AM YOU MANI HAVE MY HOUSES AND CARS PAID OFF. I AM SINGLE WITH NO KID. I WOULD TO START A RELATIONSHIP. WE CAN RAISE YOU KID AS A FAMILY  WE CAN HAVE MORE IF YOU LIKE DOW THE ROAD
    Ravens522006 Ravens522006 41-45, M Nov 9, 2012

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    Well. I'm Muslim and it's forbidden in my religion to drink alcohol or use deugs. First time I smell Alcohol and the weed when I have come to the US in 2011. I'm very energetic...
    Innocence28 Innocence28 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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    Big girls is the sexiest there is
    dirtyperv35 dirtyperv35 31-35, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Alcohol. Drinks. Cigarettes. Scruff. The modern society is almost defined by these terms. No matter where you go, you'll stumble upon it. And I hate it. I don't hate you for...
    CasualConversation CasualConversation 18-21, M 11 Responses Jul 1

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    I don't do drugs.. I don't smoke.. I don't drink.. I took ecstasy once when I were a teenager.. a very bad idea, I loose my ability to focus in class for a week.. I smoked once...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I prefer to have fun where I can remember what we did. Or at least remember what REALLY happened. I'll take a shot of whiskey, maybe a hit of some weed but nothing to get me high...
    FallenPride FallenPride 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I dont do drugs or drink. I can't really have fun while being impaired. Just not for me.
    IamMell IamMell 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I love to have fun. Michael a man I work with were out at the weekend. He was good craic and he knows I'm Gay, and was asking me questions about been a gay man. He was asking about...
    LoveSniffingMensUnderwear LoveSniffingMensUnderwear 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Mind you I like to drink and all but you don't need drugs or alcohol to have fun. Get some friends and go on a hike through wood you don't know. Do something adventurous and...
    shadowlike shadowlike 26-30, M Jun 28

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    I have done some substances and have had drinks, but it does not enhance my ability to have fun. I don't even know if I like drugs or not, but I don't feel a need to do them...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I have never needed illegal and legal drugs nor alcohol to have fun in my life. I love the way I am without all the drama with drugs and alcohol.
    janisandcindy janisandcindy 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I want someone I can't have but the wrose thin is that that pain that I have cos I can't have he is the biggest pain I have ever had it more painful than being breaking up with
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Instead i would prefer to workout @ the gym to have fun and i would hang around with friends on the beach side got many options actually :)
    SexyGuy09 SexyGuy09 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    I'm not a chubby chaser but I love women of any size and shape. Big or small. Tall or short. I'm only interested in women who can make me smile with her eyes and heart and not her...
    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    To drink alcohol and take drugs to enjoy yourself is beyond me .. As a 20 year old ppl think its such a big deal i dont drink nor take drugs.. Its ok id rather not harm my body and...
    Coocoo37 Coocoo37 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    Any girls willing to show me themselves naked on skype 18+
    BillyTiger10 BillyTiger10 13-15, M Jun 29

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    Wow there are naughty girls & women on here . It does get horny reading some of your naughty fantasy's didn't think this site was like that but sort of glad it is 😊😊
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I've never had any luck with girls. I'm not good looking, smart, charming, social, I'm not desirable in any way... I always fall for girls that are smart, beautiful, athletic...
    NPkid97 NPkid97 16-17, M Jul 5

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    I think all those weddnings, parties, suppers and the other kinds of an official meetings are too often "supported" by an alcohol. I think we must be conscious that the most...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I wouldn't say love just yet but it's still gettin to ne it's such a big time difference we don't get to talk much but I still feel something strong between us I just want you to...
    abdjsj abdjsj 18-21, M Jul 11

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    I have never tried a drug. I drink occasionally when I go to dinner with my girlfriends. Even when I was in my early 20s I never got drunk. Sure I would go to clubs with friends...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    The strangest thing is I only met her a couples of hours ago. It's impossible and people will say I'm being stupid and that I don't know what love is. But I know I'd take a bullet...
    Jennnaaa Jennnaaa 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    omg y'all are my people in this group... Let's get turnt (but not really let's just say we're getting turnt) lmfao
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    But that doesn't mean you can't have a little extra fun with it (;
    SarcasmIsAnArt SarcasmIsAnArt 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I am having some new fun with this item!! I'm sticking it in my mouth, putting it up to my neck and it's fun!! I'm in a new stage of a deep dark depression!!!😇😎😀
    rexar21165 rexar21165 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I prefer to not have my judgement completely clouded, wake up with a migraine, and go to jail for doing crap I don't remember doing! Fun is more fun when you remember it (: I've...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been injured since April 2, 2014. I smash my left index finger. Got let go the same day. I became jobless and things started to go down hill. Several doctors check only my...
    rukifuiai rukifuiai 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Recently I have been on my school excursion in Greece. So, of course, we went out every night and everyone was drinking and doing other stuff. But I haven't! And I had so much fun...
    theanja1 theanja1 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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