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I Say, Stop Complaining If You Aren't Changing

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    ~~dr. Suess Says...~~

    “You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who'll decide where to go.” 
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2010

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    Why Are/they/am I Poor?

    Lots of countries are with poor people. Living in the streets,under the bridge (some people fr my country) and squatting on private lands. There is nothing wrong with being poor, but staying poor,complaining and blaiming it on circumstances is totally wrong and irresponsible...
    beebuzz beebuzz 26-30 Oct 1, 2012

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    For Real

    If all you do is sit back and ***** about things and do not attempt to do one single thing that shows even a minute effort, then you are just part of the problem. Please don't be offended when i sweep you aside.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 15, 2010

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    "Oh no!" "I'm in a relationship with a married

    man and he spends more time with his wife than with me and everybody hates me " Give me a break. What did you expect? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    gottabebettertoo gottabebettertoo 31-35, F May 15

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    The Group Title Says It All

    I one person is going to change you and that is you. You can sit there sulking all day, but don't expect anything to happen. Life is what you make it, not what anyone else does....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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