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I Say, Stop Complaining If You Aren't Changing

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    "Oh no!" "I'm in a relationship with a married

    man and he spends more time with his wife than with me and everybody hates me " Give me a break. What did you expect? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F Apr 16, 2014

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    I know I complain way too much.

    Just to think a few months ago, I was complaining about not having a job. I mean I was literally freaking out about not being able to pay my bills. And now I have a job and I am still complaining. I complain about how hard I work and how little I make. Just a few months ago, I...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2015

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    Never complain! We are used to judging things,

    to express our own opinions, and we will show dissatisfaction with others. He is bad, he is fool, she is lazy, she is not gentle. All the problems is because of the other people. But is it real? Even real, then what? So try to slow down, try to smile to life, never complain...
    harrywei harrywei 41-45, M Dec 14, 2015

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    The Group Title Says It All

    I one person is going to change you and that is you. You can sit there sulking all day, but don't expect anything to happen. Life is what you make it, not what anyone else does....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    ~~dr. Suess Says...~~

    “You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who'll decide where to go.” 
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2010

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    "I am so fat and ugly!

    !" Then lose weight put on some makeup and shut the **** up. Im tired of you tellin me this 10 times a day.
    rehn65 rehn65 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2014

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    gottabebettertoo gottabebettertoo 36-40, F May 15, 2014

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    Complaining is nothing

    but a way of avoiding the truth of who you are. Gratitude, teaching you to speak and act true to who you are. Your life is a reflection of how you perceive the world. So, please stand for your essential nature, focus on gratitude instead of complaints. That means, when...
    harrywei harrywei 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2015

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    For Real

    If all you do is sit back and ***** about things and do not attempt to do one single thing that shows even a minute effort, then you are just part of the problem. Please don't be offended when i sweep you aside.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 15, 2010

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    Why Are/they/am I Poor?

    Lots of countries are with poor people. Living in the streets,under the bridge (some people fr my country) and squatting on private lands. There is nothing wrong with being poor, but staying poor,complaining and blaiming it on circumstances is totally wrong and irresponsible...
    beebuzz beebuzz 26-30 Oct 1, 2012

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    I hate it when people gripe

    and complain and I ask them what they are doing to change it and they just give me the dumbest look. You should always try to improve your current situation even small things
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 13, 2015

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    I rarely struggle with putting things into words....but with you my brain is scrambled..my thoughts are emotions and they aren't as easy to explain...just one thought over and over...
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    RELENTLESSLY HAUNTED by every instance of poor judgement or just common errors. Can't turn my mind off, I just relive every single moment! Even ones looong forgotten by people who...
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    Well, shouldn't everyone? Its basic manners. :-) xoxo
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    I've had many add me to their circle and never once say hello.....that's lame.......my circle is little and made up of people I really want to talk too....I thought that's what...
    PrettyAsaFlower1972 PrettyAsaFlower1972 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    He feeds off of my suffering. He doesn't just feed off of it, he finds it DELICIOUS. I know this because I have FELT what he feels before. It is HORRIFIC to feel the sheer amount...
    Hush92 Hush92 18-21, F Jan 30

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    I won't say I always say it, cause I don't like to lie. but I always try to remember to say please and thank you.
    jtlittlebit jtlittlebit 13-15, F Jan 29

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    stargirl58 stargirl58 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 29

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