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I Say, Stop Complaining If You Aren't Changing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 160 People

    "I am so fat and ugly!

    !" Then lose weight put on some makeup and shut the **** up. Im tired of you tellin me this 10 times a day.
    rehn65 rehn65 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2014

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    ~~dr. Suess Says...~~

    “You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who'll decide where to go.” 
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2010

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    gottabebettertoo gottabebettertoo 36-40, F May 15, 2014

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    For Real

    If all you do is sit back and ***** about things and do not attempt to do one single thing that shows even a minute effort, then you are just part of the problem. Please don't be offended when i sweep you aside.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 15, 2010

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    The Group Title Says It All

    I one person is going to change you and that is you. You can sit there sulking all day, but don't expect anything to happen. Life is what you make it, not what anyone else does....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    "Oh no!" "I'm in a relationship with a married

    man and he spends more time with his wife than with me and everybody hates me " Give me a break. What did you expect? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2014

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    Why Are/they/am I Poor?

    Lots of countries are with poor people. Living in the streets,under the bridge (some people fr my country) and squatting on private lands. There is nothing wrong with being poor, but staying poor,complaining and blaiming it on circumstances is totally wrong and irresponsible...
    beebuzz beebuzz 26-30 Oct 1, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I don't Besides i experienced the same thing as you. I'd also appriciate if people doesn't say ''i understand'' Besides they experienced the same thing.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 26

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    I Will not lie I will say it if you wanna here it or not deal with it it is what it is??
    cayleealderman cayleealderman 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    1. I don't think anyone can have too many clothes in their favorite color. 2. It never occurs to me even in my mind that others are liars or lying, even if they have actions and/or...
    neverendingfairytale2 neverendingfairytale2 36-40, F May 7

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    This drives me ******* nuts. It's like every single person uses "hey" or "hi". Be original or something, why not message me with why you are messaging me? And if its just to have a...
    banders95 banders95 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Maybe you don't see people looking at you because you aren't looking at them. Maybe you don't hear all the good things people say about you because you're too focused on the bad...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    changing back into who I was before. no wonder I hated myself I had reason to after what I have become so judgmental and harsh. I'll still have my opinions but everyone does, I...
    BookOfShadows BookOfShadows 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    I feel like I will never be good enough for them. I used to get bad grades and now im in university, but they are still not satisfied. They say im lazy and they are complaining Im...
    Tiffjoy Tiffjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I don't care about being rich, I care about being able to eat and pay my bills. Fast food is not above me, or anyone else in the world. Because I do not care about money, does not...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 1 Response May 6

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    Reality hit me why are you giving and being nice to people who aren't reciprocating, Now I just say Hello if they speak and keep on walking. I know I'm supposed to give from the...
    Brandnewhim2015 Brandnewhim2015 26-30, M May 15

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    You’re not her Though I try to see you differently I tow the line You see, I’m searching for what used to be mine I saw your eyes And then I saw her staring back at me And I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 30

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    I would never get out on the streets and riot. I'm just not the kind of person to do that; I'd probably make a bunch of pretty posters with catchphrases and go marching around. But...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 5 Responses May 10

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    Lately I've been making an observation about people and their behaviors. It's a Social norm I've become sort of annoyed by but it demonstrates what I'm referring to. So some of...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response May 12

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    I've just gotta say I love the weather we've been having! See I'm from Vegas and usually about this time the temps are already in the hundreds. Not this year, and trust me I'm not...
    goatonicon goatonicon 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    Once you graduate college, you are expected to find a job as soon as possible. Competition during this time is very fierce. IAM Group Limited has encountered so many eager new...
    ruthlewis ruthlewis 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    I will not say this again. I have been through hell. You have taken my mother, and replaced her with something terrifying. You have taken my father, and replaced him with something...
    KuiperSupper KuiperSupper 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    "I have expensive taste but Im also tight with my money" The reason for this post is an argument I had last night, with an ex. I'm a dental nurse and well he was interested to...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 3 Responses May 17

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    You would be shocked how many people think i'm a total ******* and then later turn around and say how much of a grate person i am after speaking with me. It's because inside of...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21, F Apr 25

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    In a domestic violence social experiment performed by two guys and a girl, there were three instances in which one guy pretended to abuse the girl in public, and three more...
    MeadowLark4 MeadowLark4 16-17 1 Response Apr 28

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    I find it very amusing that some of the people that say don't bash other people, and their behaviors, typically bash the religious right, aren't you practicing the same thing ?
    Hockeyplayer56 Hockeyplayer56 46-50, M 6 Responses Apr 29

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    Give you what you like by Avril Lavigne Please wrap your drunken arms around me And I'll let you call me yours tonight 'Cause slightly broken's just what I need And if you give...
    Alexz72 Alexz72 22-25, F May 7

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    I want to say this to you. Maybe by some miracle I will get the chance. I truly think I will.. Don't let fear control you anymore. Stop letting the negative people poison your mind...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I've been with my partner for almost 5 years, but we've gone through some very rough patches and I feel that I don't love him in the same sense anymore. Every relationship to start...
    L0v3M3 L0v3M3 22-25, F 11 Responses May 1

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    I can't stop overthinking whenever I get depressed, nervous, and scared. Every negative things comes into my mind, but I can stop by listening to music, playing games, talking to...
    iiAmethystii iiAmethystii 13-15, F 2 Responses May 4

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    This made me wonder... Am I looking for something? When you whittle away all the frilly wishes and dreams, am I looking for something?? Well...happiness I suppose. Aren't we all...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 5 Responses May 8

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    Using positive self-talk isn't easy, especially when things aren't going your way. But watch what you say anyway. Don't give in to toxic thoughts. Remember, the route to your...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F May 9

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    When I was in grades 7-8 I was bullied. When it started I was going for football tryouts. I was kind of chunky at the time. I wasn't working out at the moment. It started with this...
    Rockyroad23 Rockyroad23 18-21, M 3 Responses May 9

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    Us and Them Most of us going here and there through our days and lives don't spend too much of our time conscious of our differences. Oh we know that they're there - at least we...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 36-40, M May 11

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    Don’t be so hard on yourself. Think of it this way: ever wonder why it’s so easy to offer advice but when you’re in a difficult situation, the answers aren’t as clear...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I can already hear the angry comments long edited I post this. But I can't say I care... Now on with my rant. I often see a lot of people my age and younger using the "I'm too...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Why do creepy people often have no idea how creepy they are? Aren't they really not aware? I think they should try to creep themselves and so they might know how creepy they are.
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 29

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    I look forward to his answers but they aren't that often cause he disappears
    Farmmaid Farmmaid 36-40, F 8 Responses May 7

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    Hi Everyone, I didn't think I had to tell ppl this, but the stories I've been writing aren't true. It's all just fantasy. I hope none of you are mad. I've been single a while, and...
    Sweetgirl4u2 Sweetgirl4u2 31-35, F 5 Responses May 8

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    i hate it when people asume things about me that aren't true, when someome ses that i am straight because i am with all my freinds that are girls or when someone ses i am old when...
    Angel861 Angel861 13-15 May 10

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    a few days ago my mom went too far. ( warning. lengthy experience ahead!) to start off, she has always been the skinny one in the family. Always eating small portions of health...
    Lunawoofy Lunawoofy 18-21 May 11

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    I just don't think it'll ever happen, most men are cheating players anyways, and the ones that say they aren't are liars. Maybe somethings wrong with me.
    imjustthatgirl66 imjustthatgirl66 18-21, F 5 Responses May 12

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