I Say, Stop Complaining If You Aren't Changing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 184 People

    gottabebettertoo gottabebettertoo
    36-40, F
    May 15, 2014

    ~~dr. Suess Says...~~

    “You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who'll decide where to go.” 
    ichooselife ichooselife
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2010

    I hate it when people gripe

    and complain and I ask them what they are doing to change it and they just give me the dumbest look. You should always try to improve your current situation even small things
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 13, 2015

    "Oh no!" "I'm in a relationship with a married

    man and he spends more time with his wife than with me and everybody hates me " Give me a break. What did you expect? STFU
    Briinx Briinx
    31-35, F
    Apr 16, 2014

    Complaining is nothing

    but a way of avoiding the truth of who you are. Gratitude, teaching you to speak and act true to who you are. Your life is a reflection of how you perceive the world. So, please stand for your essential nature, focus on gratitude instead of complaints. That means, when...
    harrywei harrywei
    41-45, M
    1 Response Oct 29, 2015

    For Real

    If all you do is sit back and ***** about things and do not attempt to do one single thing that shows even a minute effort, then you are just part of the problem. Please don't be offended when i sweep you aside.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 15, 2010

    Why Are/they/am I Poor?

    Lots of countries are with poor people. Living in the streets,under the bridge (some people fr my country) and squatting on private lands. There is nothing wrong with being poor, but staying poor,complaining and blaiming it on circumstances is totally wrong and irresponsible...
    beebuzz beebuzz
    26-30
    Oct 1, 2012

    "I am so fat and ugly!

    !" Then lose weight put on some makeup and shut the **** up. Im tired of you tellin me this 10 times a day.
    rehn65 rehn65
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    The Group Title Says It All

    I one person is going to change you and that is you. You can sit there sulking all day, but don't expect anything to happen. Life is what you make it, not what anyone else does....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2010

    I know I complain way too much.

    Just to think a few months ago, I was complaining about not having a job. I mean I was literally freaking out about not being able to pay my bills. And now I have a job and I am still complaining. I complain about how hard I work and how little I make. Just a few months ago, I...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed
    22-25, F
    Oct 12, 2015

    Never complain! We are used to judging things,

    to express our own opinions, and we will show dissatisfaction with others. He is bad, he is fool, she is lazy, she is not gentle. All the problems is because of the other people. But is it real? Even real, then what? So try to slow down, try to smile to life, never complain...
    harrywei harrywei
    41-45, M
    Dec 14, 2015

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